On Demonstrating Value Part 2: It's Not a video game!

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"You Already Know What I'm About"- On Managing Expectations

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Re-visiting Pick-Up Dogma Part 2: On Demonstrating value

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Maxxing Out Your Look

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Maximizing Yourself Out

Lately I've been really inerested in the idea of a guy maxxing himself out or maximizing his lifestyle, skillset, and inner psych.

Most people are not going to max out with a supermodel, a Ferrari and a life of lounging on the beach, but it's a much better goal to aim for than the ones usually pushed on guys by the SUISC.

So how does one max out?

First you have to take an honest (and you'd be SHOCKED by how many guys lie to me while asking for help) look at where you are.

You start with the physical, are you worse looking than you could be? Then you look at your living situation, your job, friends, social life etc...

The point is it's a long process but it's the only way to see real long term change and to actually reach your potential.

Plus most guys (myself included) are nowhere near where they could be with a little effort.

JS

About Captain Jack

Hey there,

I know I've been getting some ?s about CJ and you're all quite persistent so here goes:

CJ is cool, he's working really hard right now doing the marketing for a multimillion dollar company, that's going through a huge growth phase right now.

His website is down because of some mix up with the hosting company. So even though he still owns Betheseducer.com they won't restore his content. Sucks right?

Other than that he seems to be in good spirits and has been focusing on meditation and spirituality as well as cleaning up his health and stuff.

He didn't seem to be going out much the last time we talked which was probably a month or so ago.

So there ya go,

JS

This Blog Is For Guys Who Are Bad With Women

I've been getting a rash of comments over the last few weeks giving super simplified advice as a juxtaposition to what I'm writing.

What these assclowns don't understand is that the advice "Just fuck her" is not particularly useful for the guys who read this blog.

Guys who read this blog generally are more hard cases (as I was and as EVERYONE who googles pickup advice etc is).

Sooo when you MR armchair pickup guru give advice that I'm sure works for you and your jabronie friends (as you must be so completely overwhelmed with pussy that you have time to comment on blogs designed to help you get laid more) it is annoying and frustrating for guys who are the actual target audience I'm writing to.

The guys I write this blog for need help and date ideas, and conversational topics and overviews of how to talk to women. Otherwise they wouldn't be coming here to read my 1100 and something post over the last 6 years. And those guys are the reason I still write this blog even when it seems as though I've exhausted every way to talk about pickup in writing...

If you want to brag about how awesome you are be a condescending prick, you can do it somewhere else as I will now be blocking those comments. All comments telling me I suck and should die of a horrible disease will still be allowed as those make me LOL.

Good talk,

JS

Good Date Spot-Theme Parks

I went to Magic Mountain yesterday and it is a surprisingly good place to take a date(other than the glaring need for alcohol).

Most theme parks are btw $ 30-40 a person and can be fun for 4-6 hours easy. So it's not WAY more expensive than going out for a few drinks in a city like LA, NY or Vegas.

Plus it's a lot of fun, gets the heart going, and gives PLENTY of opportunity for built in conversation. I definitely am going to start taking more dates there.

Word.

JS

End Of The Year Already...

Man every year goes by faster and faster...

Now is as good a time as ever to look back over your goals for dating over the last year and how close you came to achieving them.

And if you didn't it's a good time to start planning for next year, as nightlife will take a down turn after this Wed until New Year's Eve with the holiday/boyfriend season in full swing.

JS

The 1% fantasy and how it's ruining your life

How many people do you think are actually millionaires in the US? Not millionaire on paper.

How many people are famous?

How many guys sleep with more than 1 new girl a week?

Hint it's a really low percentage of people...

Like 1% of 1% of the population.

The point is that any of these goals (which 90% of people reading this have in one form or another) are going to be REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY hard to accomplish.

Is it possible?

Sure but 99% of you are not going to be willing to put in the time effort or energy needed to have a chance of success.

And 99% of the ones of you who do put in the time effort and energy are still NOT going to make it due to luck, health, bad breaks, or changes in priorities.

Now that I've suitably depressed you, let's talk about the good part of this news.

The good part is that NONE of you actually want these fantasies. What you want is the feeling that the fantasy would allow you to have.

You want to make 10 Million dollars? Why? What would change in your life if you had 10 mil right now? Besides the superficial, you'll probably find something like "I would be less stressed about security and able to focus on what I like doing."

You want to sleep with 100 girls? Why? What would that do for you? Would it make you feel cooler? Would it make you feel like a success with women. What would it do for you?

And more importantly when you ask yourself these questions, is there something you could be doing right now, that would give you the same or similar feelings?

Chances are there is, people don't do things for the surface reasons. People who want to be famous have their reasons for it usually having to do with needing to prove their value to people, people who want to sleep around a lot are looking for something as well. Even guys who want to get girlfriends are looking for some emotional fix....

So the solution is 2 fold:

1. Let go of the 1% of 1% fantasy. Just give it up, we are all the rule not the exception.

2. Figure out what you were actually trying to get emotionally from that 1% fantasy and see if there is a more realistic healthy and sustainable way to achieve it.

That is all.

JS

I'm Not Saving The World

Hey there,

I was gone the last two weeks first to a positivity nazi conference where I was officially the most hated on man in the world, and then recovering for a week where I mostly over-ate and smoked a lot of pot.

But now I'm back, and I wanted to talk about something I've been thinking about since I heard another "guru" talking about how he was changing the world one guy at a time or some other such super lame oversimplification of what we do in the SUISC.

It's also at this point in the listening that I feel like yelling at the speaker like Mark Wahlberg in "The Departed"

" Do you know what we do here?"

" No you don't, if you knew what we do here we would not be good at our job. We would be pricks. You calling us pricks?"

But I digress.

I am not saving the world by teaching guys how to get better at sleeping with chicks.

You can use slippery slope logic or tell me all about the 1 guy who really needs this stuff or he's going to kill himself all you want.

The truth is still the truth. And the truth is it's kinda weird to teach guys how to pick up chicks. You can spin it all you want and engage in self deception to make yourself(the "guru") feel better about it the same way other guys who are good with gilrs justify cheating on their GFs. The human mind is amazingly good at convincing us that what we want to do is OK.

This is the truth:

This is NOT a Men's movement.

This is NOT making the world a better place.

This is NOT one day going to be taught in colleges.

This is not some secret knowledge that will change the world once made public.

You are NOT necessarily a better more whole person just because you can get laid consistently.

And NOT all men are interested in learning this stuff.

These are the facts, not some grand delusion I come up with to make myself feel better so I can go to sleep at night.

I know my stuff works and it does what I say it will do.

No more, no less.

If you want to learn how to get better at sleeping with girls I'm your guy.

If you want some sort of guru type who is going to take you by the hand and tell you about how great pickup is and how it's changing the world,and how you're special because you know about it, you should probably find someone else.

Just keeping it 100.

JS-The King Of Content

HappY Halloween!

It's officially Halloween today!

I've had an awesome Halloween weekend but I just realized that we've been having a massive Halloween sale for our email list subscribers that I haven't shared with you blog readers... YET

It's a great deal with almost all of our products at a huge discount to help you get out there and meet the girl of your dreams TONIGHT.

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Today In Fuck You: People who tell you how in love they are two weeks after they start dating.

This is a particularly relevant topic here, as guys who teach pick up are the # 1 offenders of this particular brand of douchbaggery.

I HATE it when someone (guy, girl, whatever) goes on and on about how they're so in love with this new person they're dating, when they've only been dating a few weeks, and or are not yet in a serious BF/GF relationship.

Seriously you need to stop, before I lose my shit and start mocking you for being the naive and emotionally needy loser you are.

First of all, no one else cares! I don't give a shit. I mean of all the things in the world whether or not you're insanely happy with your new BF/GF whatever really doesn't matter. And I don't think I'm speaking for just me, when I say there are roughly 9,876,142 things I care about more than the status of your 2 week old relationship.

Secondly for whatever reasons ( Probably because I'm friends with community guys and players) the same guys who spend 74 hours yakkking my ear off about how in love they are, cheat on these same girls like a month later.

If you cheat on a girl you spent over an hour telling me you were in in love with, I should be allowed a free hour of wasting your time talking about the subject of my choice which will be "Chardee Mcdennis: The Game Of Games."

Lastly lest someone think this is some sort of rant against being in love or being happy in your relationship, it's not. I think it's fine to be in love and in a relationship. But that doesn't happen in 2 weeks. The same way they advise couples not to tell people they're pregnant for the first few months in case something happens. My problem is specifically with the people who spend an inordinate amount of time talking to others (namely me) about how they're sooo in love and happy in their relationship, when the relationship just started last Tuesday, or they are clearly not in a serious relationship and just want attention or something to talk about.

To those people I say : FUUUUCCCCKKKKKKK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!

To everyone else have a great Halloween weekend.

JS

Re-Visiting Pick-up Dogma Part 1: Being non-reactive

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Goal Hijacking

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The Counter Productives

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Oh Really Bitch? An Open Letter To Diane Passage

Diane Passage was married to Kenneth Star the super rich "financial advisor" now serving 7 years in jail for his role in a huge ponzi scheme.

It seems that for some reason the New York Post (Noted employer of former of prostitutes) thought it would be a good idea to give this (Unsuccessful) gold digging former stripper a chance to write about what it takes to get what you want from men.

Here's a link to the article:

Why Dumb ass Skanks should be quiet

It's quite a read, if you can stop yourself from throwing up while reading it.

So she got to make her points and now it's my turn to retort.

This dumb whore wrote(My remarks in Bold):

"Women are powerful. That’s what I’ve learned from a lifetime of socializing with just about every type of female — from exotic dancers to socialites to successful businesswomen.

But I wasn’t aware of just how powerful women can be until I worked at several gentlemen’s clubs, including Scores. My guy friends said a gentlemen’s club must be the best place to work ever, because men just give money to the dancers. Far from it! The dancers — including me — worked hard every night. Imagine how difficult it is to sell a dance to a customer or a $500-plus-per-hour private room when he already knows that nothing sexual can happen! How do you get that customer to keep coming back? It was a sales job — one that involved torturous sky-high stilettos and wrestling matches with drunk, horny customers.

Still, the skills I learned at the clubs empowered me to accomplish bigger and better things outside of it. Such as raising money for charities, running my own company, and now — and most importantly — rebuilding a solid life for me and my 13-year-old son, Jordan, after a family crisis."

The Skills she learned at the strip club taught her to raise her son. He should change his name from Jordan to no chance.


Dumb whore again:

"2. I can create my own outcome and accomplish any goal. I like to set goals for anything — serious or ridiculous. I started doing this when I worked at the club; I’d set weekly income goals to help me stay focused and not get onto a downward spiral (which is typical for exotic dancers). Along the way I set fun goals — attending certain concerts, parties, etc. My most ridiculous goal? Hooking up with a certain male porn star. A friend of mine offered to buy the star for me for one night, but I declined. It’ll be far more satisfying to accomplish my goal on my own. Whether your goals are serious, fun or both — never think you can’t have it all!"

Yes as a mother clearly having a goal to hook up with a male pornstar is a great and challenging goal. Also I find it funny she says most dancrs end up in a downward spiral but doesn't mention her marrying a conman.


Dumb ass:

3. Slow and steady wins the race. While goals are important, you shouldn’t set unrealistic time limits to achieve them. People do crazy things under deadlines. An acquaintance of mine stalked a man because she was obsessed with getting married before the age of 35. Last year, she fell head over heels on one of her first dates. On Facebook, she saw he was looking forward to a sushi dinner at his favorite restaurant. My friend knew where to find him, because he’d mentioned the same restaurant on their date! So early in the evening, she planted herself at a table with a good view of the place. He showed up . . . with another date. This woman is seemingly sane otherwise. If she dropped the marriage deadline and just had fun dating, I bet she’d end up meeting her goal — without stalking!

Now this dumb bitch is contradicting herself from her last point always a sign of intelligent writing.

We're now at my 2nd favorite thing she wrote:

"4. Every girl should know the basics of fishing and dog training. Several years ago, my son took an interest in fishing. I had to learn, too, so I could help him with it. Little did I know that my basic fishing knowledge would end up serving me well in the world of romance! When dating, I like to try a fun and sporty approach. As the person who’s fishing, I’m able to lead my “fish,” so I have the advantage of getting what I want. My bait: smile, hair, makeup, clothing, stilettos and either legs or cleavage (never both at the same time). My hook: a flirty, mysterious demeanor. When I “reel” a man in, that means I’m getting to know him. He always has the option to free himself from my “hook.” And I always have the option to throw him back into the dating sea. If I decide to keep my “fish,” then I switch to boundary-setting mode. I’ve trained a dog, raised a son and have been married twice to men who wanted nothing more than to make me happy. I know how not to let a male dominate me. The one consistent thing for all types of men: consistent enforcement of boundaries and giving rewards when they deserve them."

As we all know treating human beings like dogs or fish is a healthy and normal way to start any relationship and does not in any way lead to game playing or other immature power games. Also I find it hilarious that she mentions she's been married twice to men who wanted to make her happy. Before the divorce.

Now time for my absolute favorite:

"5. My wallet does not exist. It might sound like an outdated cliché, but if you’re a woman, you should never reach into your wallet while you’re in the presence of a man. Even if you’ve been married for years. Not only must a man pay for the main components of a date (dinner, etc.), but they must also take care of taxi fare, coat check and bathroom attendant tips. The woman who believes in this mantra is not a gold-digger or obligated to “return the favor.” The few times I’ve gone “dutch” on dates, it usually results in the man feeling emasculated because of it — or it means the guy has some sort of money hang-up. Can an emasculated guy or someone with issues give you what you want? Not for me!"

Really? I mean you know this is gonna be read by people. You're basically saying a guy should give you cash when you go to the bathroom to tip the attendents??? Are you out of your fucking mind? And I believe that the term for a woman who only goes out with a guy because he pays for everything is gold digger.

Oh wait actually, I lied. This is my favorite part.

"8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave. The ones who are up for a challenge stick around and show their charm and wit, and may land a date. Refer to mantra No. 4 (dog training) — along with boundaries, give rewards when due — leading to mantra No. 6 (value). A woman’s time, smile and interest are valuable and can be rewarded to the man who deserves her attention. Being icy or lukewarm at first also maintains an element of mystery. In addition, refer to mantra No. 5 (woman never pays). A man does not deserve a woman’s phone number without buying her and her friend(s) a drink, not to mention paying their entire bar tab."

No it's actually not anyone's right to be bitchy. When she says the weak men leave when she is dismissive, she's missing a key point. It's not weak men who leave, it's men who have options. If a woman is being a bitch upfront, no matter how hot she is, chances are she's going to be a bitch down the line as well. I don't know about you but I don't put up with that shit. Lastly I think she really shows us who she is when he says a man doesn't deserve a woman's phone number unless he buys drinks not only for her and their friends but pays their bar tab as well. That my friends is called prostitution. Fuck this bitch is retarded.

JS

Eben Pagen (David Deangelo) Wedding Vid WTF ?????????

Holy fucking shit this is weird!!!!!

Check out this video of David D getting married, in the WEIRDEST wedding vows ever!!!

David D gets married

I was going to break it down vow by vow like the Zapruder film, but instead I'm going to just cover some of my highlights.

First off it seems like Eben wrote these vows himself as if they were the marketing materials for some sort of hippy-fag program on relationships.

Secondly, this is the weirdest thing I've ever seen. I also showed it to a few girls I know and they confirm that they would have been creeped out enough to leave the ceremony.


Some highlights:

I vow to protect your solitude... Really isn't that kinda the opposite of a wedding vow??

What is that all white outfit Eben is wearing? Is this some sort of Bollywood movie that's just waiting for a dance ending?

That chick is beat. May we have a moment of silence for the idea that David D got hot chicks.

Why did they bring up their sex lives in their vows? It's almost like they were trying to convince me they actually have boney, nerdy, extremely pale sex with each other.

We will facilitate, momentous, opportunities to actualize... I don't even know what that means,

Their love is a crucible for evolution as well as conscious art. And here I just thought this was some rich asshole getting married.

Why am I not surprised that they mention Burning Man here, thus furthering my theory that Burning Man is for assholes.

Anyway what did you think of David D's wedding?

JS

Don't be Jealous-Be Happy for others.

File this under advice it took me awhile to be able to use.

One of the biggest problems I see with guys mindsets is the idea of jealousy. Most guys when they see someone else who is more successful than they are, get jealous or they look for reasons to justify why someone else has something they don't.

Instead of doing this, it's much easier and healthier to just be happy for that person. By "blessing" that which you want you send a mental signal that says it's ok to have that thing, and also it allows you to let go of any negative emotions you mat be hanging on to that are getting in the way of your own happiness.

So the next time you see some guy you know is no better than you with a girl you're attracted to, instead of torturing yourself trying to come up with the reasons she likes him, be happy for that guy and take it as inspiration that anything is possible.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

Meet Girls- Volunteer

Just a quick thought I wanted to post today.

A great and overlooked place to meet girls is through doing volunteer work usually with animals or children.

Since I hate children, I volunteer at a dog rescue place in a very expensive part of LA by the ocean and have met several attractive and legitimately sweet girl to hook up with from there.

I also get to play with dogs and not have to take them home with me, which is a side benefit as I'm way too irresponsible to have a pet.

So there you go, check out some charities you could volunteer for in your city nad you'll end up meeting a lot more women.

JS-The King Of Content

My new favorite website

So as obsessed as I am with The Dirty.com I have found a new website that makes me just as happy as I laugh and feel superior to others :)

It's called Is Anyone Up, and basically is a place where you can submit nudes of people or yourself and people will comment on them.

So basically like Thedirty without the pink hearts.

I find it hysterical but it could very well be because I'm a sick person :)

Check it out at Is Anyone up?

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Final Boarding Call For Destination Girlfriend

Just a quick reminder that today is the LAST DAY
to register for my life-changing Destination:
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Registration closes at at Midnight Pacific Time
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To put in simply, after you go through the program
you will know the EXACT steps you need to take to
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You’ll also know how to apply these steps in ANY
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Replay of Last Night's Girlfriend Training Call

If you missed out on the special Destination:
Girlfriend tele-class that I did last night
you REALLY missed out.

On the call, I gave many never-before-revealed
strategies on how to land an awesome girlfriend...
fast!

The GOOD NEWS is that I recorded the call
and you can listen to the replay of the call
here:

Replay

But the replay will only be available until
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to find, meet, attract and KEEP an awesome
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Best,

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P.S. You don't want to miss this awesome training
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But you better her though. Because the replay is
coming down this Saturday at midnight.

Stop Sucking At Life; Stop Sucking With Girls

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Inner States and Game

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Scripted Qualification

I gave a talk to some of the members of the 12m2m at home program on Monday about the 5 most common intermediate/advanced sticking points.

One of the most important of these sticking points is making sure to use scripted qualification.

What I mean by scripted qualification is that you qualify for the same qualities every time you're interacting with a woman you're attracted to. Not only will this help you to qualify enough, it will also help you screen for women you actually like.

It's also not that hard, all you need to do is turn some qualities you like into qualification statements or questions.

Currently the qualities I qualify for are:

Mean sense of humor
Works out consistently
Is not too involved in the club scene
Is Bi-sexual

and a large qualifying question like " What's your best quality."

By sticking to scripted qualification you have a much greater chance of the girl showing up for a date or leaving with you that night.

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JS-The King Of Content

Evaluating Your Game Quarterly

Hey there,

Quick thought today.

A lot of guys who are intermediate or advanced wonder what they should do now that they actually (GASP) get laid on a regular basis from cold approach.

The answer took me awhile to find as well.

You don't want to continue to read forums, and study game all the time, as that will give you all sorts of contradicting advice and keep you stuck in the "Pick-up" guy stage of your development.

You also don't want to stop looking at your game objectively either. Some guys become delusional after being able to get laid consistently. You still have sticking points even if you get laid.

SO the solution is to re-evaluate your sticking points at set intervals. I like to do it quarterly. So every 3 months when it's time to get my car checked up and go to the Dr, I also take a look at what I think my sticking points are and what I can do to fix them. Then I focus on that for a little while until I fix the problem. Repeat 4x a year and you'll always improve without being a weirdo.

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JS-The King Of Content

Maximizing Your Time With Pick-Up

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Have the good sense to dislike people who don't like you back.

Short blog post today.

As I get older, one of the things I've realized is that not everybody is going to like you, no matter what you do.

When applying this to pickup it means that not all girls you approach will like you and not all girls will respond to texts, calls etc...

So what do you do about this?

You respond in kind.

If a girl doesn't seem interested in talking to me, I'm no longer interested in talking to her. Same thing with the phone if I am always taking the initiative than it's no good and I just stop.

Seriously just stop putting effort into women who aren't putting effort into you and you will be much happier and more successful.

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JS-The King Of Content

Flaking Video

Hey Guys,

I've been getting some questions on flaking so I decided to make a quick video to explain what's REALLY going on.

Check it out here:



And if you find yourself in need of more information on Eliminating Flaking Forever check out the Flak Elimination toolkit Here

Best,

JS

7 Day Positivity Challenge Day 4: Falling off a bit

Yesterday was the hardest day of the challenge so far.

I had a very important meeting pushed back til today and then ended up having to get a lot of busy work done to fill up the day.

My roommate also has some of his friends in town and they are grating on my nerves a little bit...

But on the brightside it is now Friday and after kickboxing and my very important meeting I will be free!!!!!

And it's a long weekend so that means drinking, pool parties and general awesomness.

I'll try to keep updating over the next 2 days but no promises.

JS

7 Day Positivity Challenge Day 3: Easing into it

Day 3 was a cake walk...

I had some problems sleeping the last few nights because I wasn't smoking weed, but a swift adjustment of my no weed rule to a weed to sleep so I don't make my day harder yielded great results and I woke up after 7 and a half hrs sleep ( a marathon for me compared to my usual 4-5 hrs) feeling like a champion gentleman. Or Gentleman champion I can't decide which sounds more baller.

Productivity is way up because instead of complaining about how annoyng actually having to do work is, I now just do it and reflect upon the fact that it's pretty awesome I can do my work from home in my gym shorts.

Traffic again was the only time I even had any sorts of problems and that's mostly due to people not seeming to understand where one lane ends and another one begins. Perhaps I should start teaching seminars on that :)

It's also way easier to meet girls because there's no time or room for negative thoughts and that makes approaching all the time pretty easy.

Still waiting for things to get harder which may happen tomor as I need to deal with some lingering issues in the business and that may stress me a bit. But it will be what it is whether or not I stress it, so I'm gonna try to relax and enjoy the process.

Best,

JS

7 Day Positivity Challenge Day 2:Still pretty easy.

I'm pretty surprised by how easy the positivity challenge is going.

Even today while I was out doing some day game it was remarkably easy to stay positive thanks to just consciously thinking about it. And the fact that I'm the best at day game by a wider margin than ever.

The rubber band also makes it really easy to pop those negative thoughts when they come up. I should have mentioned yesterday that the other part of the rubber band is to replace your negative thought with a default positive one. Mine is "Everything always works out for the best for me."

I will say that positivity makes it a bit more challenging to be funny in a conversation with a girl as making jokes about how awesome things are is more difficult than cracking on something for sucking.

Other than that I find myself being much less in my head when I'm focusing on being positive. Introspection for me usually ends up being focused on things I don't like or wish were different. But since those thoughts are negative they get popped and I end up feeling much lighter and more carefree.

The only time today where I really had to snap the rubber band a lot was when I was driving through horrible traffic with a bunch of drivers seemingly incapable of staying in their own lanes. But after a few painful rubber band snaps I was able to relax and enjoy the Watch The Throne Album and amazing 77 degree day.

Until tomor.

JS

7 Day Positivity Challenge Day 1

I've gotten into a pretty bad funk lately...

Not that anything bad is actually happening, but I have noticed that my thinking has become a lot more pessimistic than I'd like it to be.

So, because of that I'm going to be doing another Tony Robbins 7 Day Positivity challenge, like I did a few years ago.

To re-cap the 7 day positivity challenge goes something like this. For 7 days you have to focus on being completely positive, this means if you have a negative thought( like the fact that I got 3 hrs of sleep last night and am exhausted) you have 2 minutes to reframe it using empowering questions like " what's good about this?", "what can I learn from this?" or "what's the best use of my time here?".

This goes on for 7 days.

I've added another piece this year which I got from a program called Mine your brain by Doug Bench. The piece I've added is pretty simple, in addition to having to reframe things, I've also started wearing a rubber band on my wrist which I snap every time I have a negative thought. Doug Bench calls this "stomping your ANTS(Automatic Negative thoughts".

Thus far day 1 has been a challenge as I didn't sleep well at all over the weekend or last night and I now need to be positive while being a little grouchy.

I'm going to try to update this daily during the next 7 days in order to document how my challenge is going, if you want to do the same and comment along that would be swell.

Talk soon,

JS-the king of content

An Open Letter To The Millionaire Matchmaker

We all know I love me some reality TV, so I won't go too much into my thoughts on The Millionaire Matchmaker show other than to say that while it's entertaining, there's a lot of bad ideas about dating being tossed around.

The most dangerous of these ideas in my mind is the idea of monogamy before sex.

The reason that no sex without monogamy is a bad idea is actually pretty simple. A girl is ALWAYS going to be more attractive, interesting, sexy, smart etc BEFORE you have sex with her.

The fact that you haven't had her yet, adds to the perceived attraction. This is a fact. So when you force someone into a monogamous relationship before they can have sex, the motivation for getting into that relationship is 50% interest in the girl and 50% interest in getting laid.

Can we see how this might be a bad idea for someone looking to find love?

Furthermore until you've had sex with someone you don't really know the real them. Pre-sex both guys and girls put their best foot forward in an attempt to really get the other person interested. After sex is when a variety of new issues pop up and need to be dealt with. Sure these COULD be dealt with in the context of a monogamous relationship but you may often find that the two people just don't have that much in common but were united by the idea of no sex before monogamy and thus forced to spend more time with each other and less time looking for someone they might actually work out with.

As you all know if you've followed my work for any length of time, barriers INCREASE attraction. The more you tell someone they can't have something, the more they are going to want it. But this idea does not extend to AFTER they've gotten what they want. And my guess is oftentimes these instant relationships fall apart after sex.

Like the case of Access Hollywood Reporter Laura Saltman who after being set up by Patti with a millionaire became preganant only to have the guy abandon her and refuse to pay child support.

You can read all about that Here Just make sure to scroll down past the Russell Armstrong stuff.

Clearly the idea of no sex before monogamy is a way to artificially create more of an attraction and connection between two people where none exists.

What are your thoughts on the MM and no sex before monogamy?

JS

What Not To Do On an Approach- Video Breakdown

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You don't have anything yet- On Escalation

One of the most common problems students have when they are first starting out is a tendency to get stuck in nice comfortable conversations that are not actually moving forward.

I think the reason for this is because for most guys starting out it feels really good to be able to start a conversation with a stranger or group of strangers and have them accept you and want to talk to you. Some might call this social validation. Furthermore guys think that if they were to attempt to move the conversation forward it might not work and then they will have lost the conversation and their chance.

This is bullshit thinking.

You can't fuck a conversation, or a phone number.

In order to actually get to a sexualized interaction, you are going to need to be willing to move things forward.

When you do this not only will you start to separate the women who are only interested in talking and being entertained from the women who are actually interested in you, but you will also begin to stop looking for validation in your interactions with women. When you stop caring about whether or not things are going nicely and start looking at what you need to be doing in order to move things forward with the woman you're interested in, you actually have a chance to get laid.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

Good Places To Meet Women Over The Weekend...

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A primer on asking questions

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Rating Yourself

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Blog Break

Hey there,

I know everyone was tuning in for more war on the game stuff, but I'm going to be going on a 2 week break from writing the blog/making videos to re-charge creatively so that I can get back to cranking out quality posts as opposed to what I've been writing the past few weeks/months.

So I'll be back in 2 weeks, hopefully with my content writing fastball back.

Best,

JS

This week in Fuck You: Peacocking

In a complete theft from the people over at Kissing Suzy Kolber.com I'll be posting random rants about things that are fucked up in the SUISC this week in Fuck You: Peacocking

If you still think it's cool to "peacock" with boas and scarves and various feathery things that look like they were transplanted out of a Motley Crue 80s video, I should be allowed to legally light you on fire. No trial, no right to a defense straight to lighting your shitty dollar store boa on fire.

Seriously, if for some reason you think people are laughing with you rather than at you when you dress up in platform shoes, and top hats go fuck yourself with a rusty screwdriver.

Not only do you look SUPER socially retarded (Which you are cause no normal person would dress like that) but you're also hurting your pick-ups, because unless you have a reason to be dressed like that (I.E. you lie to women about being the world's best illusionist like Mystery) then you just look like an asshat who is starving for attention.

Fuck you peacocking, fuck you in your shiny faux leather, shirt too far unbuttoned, 8 rings on your hands ass.

JS

The Rejection Barrier

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The Right Mindset

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Who Let The Marketers in, Neil Strauss did...

Hey y'all(Shut up I lived in Texas for 2 years I get a Y'all)


Today's video is outstanding if I do say so myself.




Best,

JS-The King Of Content

Conversation Before Attraction

Quick post before I head out to the beach...

I'm always amazed by how many guys seek to get attraction before they have gotten a girl committed to a conversation.

Most people are nice.

Contrary to popular opinion in the community, most girls are not trying to blow you out or be rude to you.

Instead the vast majority of guys start doing weird things to "generate attraction" before the girl even realizes she is in a conversation.

Stop doing this!

Instead focus on first getting a woman interested and paying attention to what you are saying BEFORE you try to get her attracted.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

The Used Carsalesman Frame

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War On The Game: In Neil's Own Words...

Yo,

Today video is Neil talking about his own scumbaggetry.



Enjoy,

JS

Limited Time Offer For 5 Minute Chemistry

Earlier this week, I closed the doors on registration
for my brand new, groundbreaking Secrets of 5
Minute Chemistry program.

But because I made the mistake of closing it down on
a holiday where a lot of guys were away from their
computers, I've decided to open up spots again for
the next 48 hours ONLY.

Get your copy here:

Last Chance

The 5 Minute Chemistry Formula that you learn
in the program truly is groundbreaking and might
be the best thing I've created.

Here's what one guy who went through the program
had to say about it:

"Since I started using the formula, I have been
getting crazy chemistry with girls in a matter
of minutes.

For example I recently started a conversation with
a sexy lawyer on my lunch break. We effortlessly
connected and found out we both go to the same dive
bar that everyone in town hates.

The conversation seemed to have a 'spark,' since
she has been texting me non-stop. I particularly
like how easy it was to incorporate the formula
into my everyday normal conversations that
flowed naturally.

I haven't had to memorize a routine or think
about what to say ever again!"

NICK N.
CINCINATTI, OHIO

If you want to create amazing chemistry and have
the effortless conversations that Nick is having, then
I suggest you grab your copy of the program before
it's gone for good:

Last Chance

Best,

JS

P.S. The Secrets of 5 Minute Chemistry program
is only going to be availalble for the next 48
hours. Sign up right now while it's fresh
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Shut the Fuck Up!!! or How to use silence effectively

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War On The Game: What 100K buys ya...

Hey hey,

Today I have an informational video on what you can buy if you have an extra 100k laying around.

Check it:



JS-The King Of Content

The Bare Minimum

Short post today, really more of a reminder.

There is NO prize for getting extra social comfort, attraction, qualification, comfort or arousal.

Instead we should all (Myself included) be aiming for the bare minimum amount of communication between us and the women before we can have sex.

Think about that for a few minutes, what is the bare minimum way that you could:

-Start a conversation
-Tease a woman
-Make a woman emotional
-Build attraction
-Convey value
-Qualify
-Build Comfort
-Seduce

Food for thought eh?

Post some ideas in the comments section and if there's any good ones, I'll share them in a follow up post...

JS-The King of Content

War On The Game: The Hypocrisy of Neil knows no bounds...

What's going on?

Happy Monday! That most glorious of days where we shine a spotlight of truth onto the algae soaked Rat's underbelly that Neil Strauss calls a life.

Let's get it popping.



Leave a comment cause I love haters :)

JS- The King Of Content

On Approach Anxiety- Risk is volatility NOT loss.

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War On The Game: "Think Tank"

Yo,

Hope everyone had a good weekend!

We found the think tank post...



Generalissimo Jon Sinn

War On The Game: Rob Judge Does The Damn Thing

I usually restrict the War on the Game stuff to Monday but today Rob Judge(Who I think is easily the best writer in the SUISC) posted an epic article on why he hates Neil Strauss.

It brought almost brought a tear to my eye...

Check it out:

Why I Hate Neil Strauss

JS

War On The Game: Fuck Stylelife

The War is back on:




Be sure to comment

JS

Kristens and Karas

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Happy Memorial Day Weekend!

Hey guys,

I'm already in party mode and thus will not be posting on Friday or Monday.

This does mean Neil gets a short one week cease fire as I will be trying to break records for most hours spent drunk consecutively.

Hope everyone has a safe, fun and happy Memorial Day Weekend!

Best,

JS

Guest Post By My Friend Sara: The Problem With Guys with Too Many Girl Friends

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The War On The Game: Our First Victory

Cue the Bush voice and Mission accomplished speech.

Last week we drove Neil underground.

Check out the behind the scenes story.




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Never Trust Girls With All Guy Friends

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The Secret Society Part 2

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The War On The Game: You CAN"T fix Asshole!

Happy Fuck Neil Strauss Day to all of you!

Today's video might be my personal favorite, so grab some popcorn and a soda and sit back to enjoy why you can't fix asshole, featuring our first contribution to the videos from a member of the Fuck Neil Strauss Army.

Enjoy and leave a comment if you're feeling it or not.

JS-The King Of Content

80-20 rule with approaching

The second part of The Secret Society post is taking a longer than I expected but it will be more than worth it.

So today I want to write a quick post explaining something I think is very important to understand in order to get realistic results with women it's my version of the 80-20 rule or Pareto principle.

It goes like this; When approaching strangers about 10% of all women you approach will not like you no matter what you do. Oftentimes this has to do with factors outside of your control such as blood type, or the fact that you remind her of a guy who date raped her in college. Happens to everyone. On the other side of this 10% of women you approach will like you no matter what you do. This doesn't mean you're necessarily going to get laid, but the girls will be into you right away and it's up to you not to screw up.

Which leaves a whopping 80% of women you approach who will be neutral or slightly less than interested. This is where tactics and techniques come in to play, and why we learn pickup. If you get good enough you should be able to get all of those women attracted to you and then filter through to the situations that are actually worthwhile.

This should help you reframe the entire approaching process in terms of success as you at least have a chance at with 9/10 women you approach.

JS-The King Of Content

Updating The Secret Society Part 1

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The War On The Game: The Book Ain't EVEN good...

Hey there,

If it's Monday, it means we're smashing Neil Strauss' fake ass persona.

This video deals with how even his book sucks.



JS

The Becca Mistake

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The War On The Game: Neil Strauss Sucks With Women!

Happy Monday!

I swear I wake-up early and amped up just because I get to smash on Neil every Monday.

This week we're looking at some of the prized conquests of Mr Neil Strauss, specifically a certain washed up over the hill 40 year old band member no one's ever heard of.

Enjoy,and leave a comment.

JS-The Leader of the war on the Game and Neil Strauss

The Most Unrealistic Student Ever

Now I've surely heard it all dear readers.....

Yesterday I had a phone appointment with a guy who was interested in getting some phone coaching.

He told me his biggest sticking point was approach anxiety unless he got eye contact or was with a group of friends and then I asked him what his goals were for the next 3-6 months and he said and I quote:

" I want to sleep with 3 or 4 NEW girls a week."

To which I replied

" So you want to sleep with 12 new girls a month? That's like a 144 new girls a year? Do you think I sleep with 144 new girls a year? Cause I don't. No one does besides maybe some rock-stars. And a lot of them bang whores."

Followed by me attempting to explain that when you have approach anxiety(Like this guy did) it's impossible to go from that to sleeping with 3 to 4 new women a week in the 3-6 month time frames our coaching programs run for, before telling him he was not a good fit for the program and hanging up on him.

Then I called Rob Judge to vent, since no one outside the community could even comprehend the type of weirdness I deal with every day before noon.

Yeesh.

I always say this, but you HAVE to be realistic if you want any chance at success. You also have to understand that you can't bridge the gap between being a guy who doesn't approach and being a guy who gets laid a lot without doing a lot of work in between.

Hope that helps some people out there or at least makes the weirdo student re-assess his goals. Weirdo!

JS

Prompting BF Objections in Day Game

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The War On The Game and a 2 sentence LR

Yo,

Sorry I'm late with the video!

Shit has been CRAZY today...

Before I get to the vid, for those asking I did sleep with the girl with good game, and then she told me she was still gonna bang other dudes.

Which ironically is totally ok with me, as she's a cool chick and I'm not looking for a girlfriend. She is not however super hot or possessed of a magical pussy as some insinuated. But the quickest way to get Jon interested in something is telling him a stupid reason (Like age) why he can't have it.

Here's the Neil vid:



Oh yeah and FUCK NEIL STRAUSS!

JS-The General of Content

Happy Easter!

Hey Guys,

I may fuck with a few bad apples here and there on the blog, but I do appreciate MOST of you out there who read this blog daily and help make it the most successful Pick Up Blog on the net.

So thanks and have a great holiday!

JS-The King Of Content

Yes!

So none of my real life friends appreciate this and I no longer really talk to most pick up guys, so I have to post this here.

I've been "talking to" this girl for a few weeks now and she has REALLY good girl game.

She keeps baiting me and pulling away and going sexual and pulling away...

Back and forth like a chess game for 3 weeks. Which is obviously why i can't explain this stuff to my normal friends because they would be HORRIFIED at the level of game playing each of us is doing despite texting each other 20-30 times a day.

And I'm not the only pulling game.

Already she's already put me in the friend zone, told me she doesn't date guys under 30 and sent me naked pictures all within like 2-3 days. Not to mention both us mentioning being out with "friends" or being at some girl/guy's house...

And so it's gone every day for 3 weeks until today when I totally checkmated her into coming over later tonight for drinks.

Advantage: Jon.

JS

Empathy and Pickup

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Stop Taking it Personally.

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Neil Strauss is a Liar! War On the Game III

Yo, yo...

Here's another video where I break down a time Neil Strauss lied to my face, for no reason whatsoever other than being a sociopath.

Neil Strauss = Sociopath and pathological liar.

That's math.



Leave me lots of comments psychoanalyzing me, I always get a chuckle out of those :)

JS-The General

Gold Diggers and Distant Fathers.

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Don't get your panties in a twist...

Regular blog updates will still happen every Wed and Fri.

The War On Neil Strauss stuff is happening every Monday.

JS

The War On The Game Part 2: When I knew Neil Strauss was Scum

What up bitches!

Still at war, don't worry you're pretty little hater heads about that.

Check the video.

The War On The Game

This not a FUCKING joke!

Jon's gonnna give it to ya Neil, fuck waiting for you to get comeuppance on your own.

Nah, Jon's gonna deliver it to ya.

Enjoy the video:




Fuck Neil Strauss as a guy, company, staff, and a crew. And if you wanna be down with Neil Strauss, then fuck you too!

JS- The Leader of the War on Neil Strauss and The Game.

The War Starts Monday...

For those of you wondering why I haven't been talking shit about anyone lately...

It's because I've decided to devote it all towards the one person most responsible.

Be sure to be here Monday for the declaration of war.


JS-The King Of Content ( and shit talking)

Recommended Reading: The Shallow Man

The Shallow Man was recommended to me by Rick H, in Australia a few years ago.

He said it was his favorite book of all time and explained why he moved to Eastern Europe...

With that much of a build up, I thought how could you go wrong.

The Shallow Man is very interesting, if ultimately a bit of a juvenille fantasy. The long and the short of it is this; Nick Laws is a modelizer/club promoter/hand model. He spends his days and nights in pursuit of what he calls "Thing" AKA models. In the book, we meet Nick right before his life gets turned upside down, which actually has him considering dating GASP a civilian...

There's a lot of interesting ideas in the book about Beautiful women, and if you've ever partied in NYC, you'll be amazed by how accurately the author (who I'll address in a moment) describes the social scene.

The Shallow Man is a short read, and is for the most part pretty entertaining. It doesn't present anything even resembling real life pick ups, but the character of Nick Laws is an interesting one if for nothing else than his mindset about beautiful women and his way with words.

Now about the author... Last year on the realhousewives of NYC, Countes Luann went on one of the most awkward dates of all time, with a creepy, bulging eyed, guy with no game named Coerte.



During one of the most awkward scenes ever he tried to kiss her multiple times unsuccessfully with his lizard like tongue. To say I was unimpressed with his game would be an understatement. But one of my older "game mentors" in NYC told me that around 10-15 years ago the guy was a famous womanizer in the city and actually did throw one of the best parties around. So who knows...

If you're looking for a fun read that is slightly informative and will make you think about beautiful women from a different perspective, check out the Shallow Man.

What Emotions Do You Live In?

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#s and Pick-Up

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Test 1 thing at a time!

Short post today.

This piece of advice actually comes from my biggest game mentor Captain Jack.

It's the idea that when you are changing things about your game, you need to focus on one thing at a time.

He gave me this advice years ago when I had decided to shave my head, change my dressing style and start going direct all at once which had caused a big drop off in my results.

I was looking at the small details of what I was doing as opposed to looking at the overall effects a dressing and hairstyle change had along with a completely new way of talking to girls.

I went back to my old way of approaching until I got used to the new way girls reacted to my clothes and hair and then started practicing direct again with great success.

So if you're changing a gazillon things about your game when you get started, you need to stop and look at which 1 change you want to work on first and then systematically integrate everything else later.

Word.

JS-The King Of Content

My 2 Lists I always tell people to make

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Fashion Don'ts For Pick-Up

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Taking A Break

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Choose Your Own Beliefs

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Review: The 4 Elements Of Game

I don't read very many pick up products anymore.

Not because I think I have everything figured out, but I think I have it figured out better than 99% of the guys teaching and I tend to just get annoyed when forced to listen to 3 hours of a hick who moved to Hollywood drone on about navy seals and playing checkers as opposed to chess.

I do however really enjoy Rob Judge's writing over at TSBmag and I think he's one of the better "new guys" so to speak who have been getting attention lately, so when I found out he had a book, I was anxious to read it.

When reading it, I felt like I was hearing someone else say the same things I'm always telling guys when it comes to becoming a more attractive person. Even though me and Rob have NEVER met and probably haven't spoken more than 10 times on the phone.

I really like Rob and Zach's idea of seeking the truth from an interaction with a woman. All you're trying to do when you approach is figure out what the truth is about what will happen. This is a great mindset for guys to adopt and it's gels nicely with my idea of approaching being either fun or boring.

Anyone whose read my stuff over a long period of time knows I consider myself shameless when it comes to hitting on girls so the section on Shamelessly overcoming obstacles to your drive or masculinity was right up my alley. I think overall guys like Rob and Zach are able to capture the idea behind being a sexually motivated guy who wants to learn How To Get Laid without coming off creepy like the creepy students who tell girls they're trying to get in their pants after the opener.

My favorite part of the book was related to escalation. In the book the guys write that the girl is the "pacer" of the interaction. Which is something I've been trying to articulate for years. You can escalate as hard and as fast as you want, but the interaction will only go as fast as the girl allows it.

Often times I'll even tell girls this during last minute resistance by saying something like

" Look I'm really super attracted to you, but I don't want to do anything to creep you out, so clearly I want to have sex with you, but I only want to go as far as you're comfortable."

That last paragraph incidentally along with pre-framing is what ended my terrible LMR problems 2 years ago.

The Bad: I did not like the layout of the book. I felt the way the Field reports were inserted around the text led me to lose my place a few times throughout the process. Also some field reports were directly related to the point the book was making around it while others were less directly connected and thus less relevant in my mind.

Who this book is for ? : Any guy who wants to brush up their attraction game would be well advised to pick up a copy of The 4 elements to game. Especially if you have ALREADY seen The Natural Attraction DVD, this book will really help you cement those ideas in place by giving you a whole different set of words to describe the same things thus giving a second and different perspective. Also if you want to brush up on your attraction game or start to move towards a more natural style The 4 Elements of Game is for you.

I really can't recommend the book highly enough based on the price and ease with which you can start to use the stuff in it.

Get it today at: Date Hotter Girls

Word,

JS-The King Of Content

Sold Out!!!

Real quick...

I have some bad news and good new for for you.

The bad news is that that the first 100
"retirement" packages where you can get
my REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction
DVD Program + my Lay Reports Book and
lots of other bonus goodies for a
jaw-droppingly low price flew off
the shelves within 24 hours.

As a result the special "ask me anything"
teleseminar that I have scheduled for
next Thursday at 9:00 p.m. EST is
completely sold out.

If you were one of the first 100 guys
to get your package, congrats! I look
forward to speaking with you Thursday.

The GOOD news is that we still have
about 100 packages left so you can
still get yours here:

Sinn's Free Gift

Get your now while we still have them
in stock:

Gift

Best,

Jon

Your Free Gift Is Here!!!

Hey Guys,

For all the details on how you can get my 90-minute
Natural Attraction DVD, my Lay Reports Book and LOTS
of other cool stuff for (almost) FREE, check out this
link:

Your Free Gift

Please note that this package will only be available
for the first 349 people that take advantage of it
(That's how many Natural Attraction DVDs I have left).
So you need to act now.

Just added! As a special fast-action bonus If you’re
one of the first 100 people to sign up, you’ll get
access to a one-time only "ask me anything" teleseminar
that I'm hosting.

You’ll be able to submit your questions to me ahead
of time and I’ll answer them. I’ve scheduled this
teleseminar for next Thursday at 9:00 p.m. EST. You need
to move quickly to get in on this.

One more time, the link is:

Gift

JS-The King Of Content

I'm Retiring????

Hey There,

Although I'm sure there are quite a few people
that wish I'd retire from being a dating and
seduction coach, the rumors you might have
heard about my pending retirement have
been greatly exaggerated.

In fact, Sinns of Attraction is stronger than
ever right now and we have BIG THINGS planned
for 2011 and beyond all related to helping
YOUR reach your dating goals (whatever they
are).

But I'm sure you know that any time you grow
and move ahead into the future there are
certain parts of your past that you must
let go of and leave behind you.

Because of this, I'm going to be "retiring"
two of my all-time top selling products
this week. The two products that I'm
going to be retiring are:

My REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction DVD
Program (NaturalAttractionDVD)

And...

My Lay Reports Book (Lay Reports Book)

(If you have the urge, DON'T order from the links

above for reasons that I'll explain later in
this letter)

Now both of these products are REALLY GOOD
and they're among the best reviewed products
I have.

Because of this, it wouldn't be right for me
to just quietly "retire" these products.
No, both these products deserve to go out with
a "bang" (pun intended).

This is why tomorrow, you're going to get
the chance to get BOTH of these amazing
products and a price that is really going
to astound you.

Think of it as my special GIFT to you for
being my loyal subscriber.

After we sell out (as I write this I
have exactly 349 Natural Attraction
DVD sets sitting in my fulfillment
warehouse), they'll be gone forever like
Keyser Soze.

I promise that you will be absolutely AMAZED
when you see what I have in store for you
tomorrow.

Talk to you then,

JS- The King Of Content

Unfreezing Your Self Image

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Why Do You Deserve a 10?

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The Beauty BS

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Winning The Game Part 3: The How?

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Winning The Game Part 2: The Where

On Monday I talked about the concept of winning the game and how it really boils down to answering 3 questions for yourself.

We discussed the first question of " Why are you here?" Monday.

Today I want to move on to the second question you have to answer. Where exactly are you right now?

As I discussed in the first post, most of us do not live in reality. Which is why in NLP they say " The map is not the territory" instead we live in a clouded mess of distortions, deletions, generalization and most of all rationalization.

I've always thought you had to hit rock bottom in order to get the psychological leverage needed to get good. The problem of course with that kind of thinking is that 9/10 students could be at rock bottom and somehow rationalize that they're not really that bad.

You MUST be able to take an honest look at yourself and admit that there are parts of your personality, lifestyle and way you come across socially that are NOT helpful and need to change if you want to actually make progress moving forward.

You cannot improve, until you admit to yourself that you're fucked up.

And oh the ways students run from the truth. My favorite is when they bring up situations that obviously made them uncomfortable and then say they don't care about it. like on my last bootcamp a student mentioned that as he was leaving a group of girls he had talked to pointed at him and laughed. I told him he creeped them out and he should care and he immediately responded " I don't care." Which obviously he did or he wouldn't have brought it up 12 hours after it happened in the seminar room. Or when students tell me their happy with their sex lives. Yeah cause a lot of guys who are happy with their sex lives sign up for 5K programs on getting better with women. If your life has gotten to the place where you felt the need to go online to solicit help from other guys on how to get laid; you are FUCKED UP.

No judgment I was fucked up too, so was every other guru out there, it's just like Alcoholics Anonoymus though admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery.

JS- The King Of Content

Winning The Game Part 1: The Why?

For a long time now I've been interested in the idea of Long Term Success in pick up. I mean after all I don't want to be 40 years old and still going to the club to do cold approaches like a certain short bald guy who wrote a book.

It probably started for me when I saw that most of the guys I came into pick up with were starting to have kids, settle down, get married etc... And while I'm certainly not here to knock those options(in fact I'll argue soon that for 99% of guys that's the best option) that's not an option for me. It's not where I want my life to go and it wasn't ever going to make me feel like I "won".

So it got me to sit down and re-think about how success is defined in terms of pick up.

In a lot of the stuff you read and hear out there, success is defined by who can sleep wit the most girls, the hottest girls, the hardest situations, but does that actually lead to long term happiness?

I know from personal experience that defining your life by your ability to charm strangers out of their pants leads to all sorts of horrible side effects. So clearly the existing standards are designed for something else( The validation of other guys on the internet and that ephemeral feeling of knowing/being cooler than others if you wanted to know).

So a few years ago I started to reach out to other guys I felt were successful (Brad P and AFC Adam most famously) and I created a PDF for the 12M2M guys called Long Term Success or something like that and it basically said you had to define success on your own terms and most specifically for your life that already exists.

While I think looking back on that 2 years later that's an important part of winning the game, it's not the only part. In fact over the last few years(but especially the last 4 months I lived in phoenix and the last 8 months since I moved) I've made huge strides in understanding how to align everything in your learning process for the most success possible and as a result my game has exploded as well as my inner psychology and lifestyle. But most importantly I finally feel at peace with my goals, game and life, which I never had until the last 6 months or so and I can finally explain how it all happened in this 3 part post.

Winning the game requires answers to a lot of difficult questions, it's definitely not easy but it is fairly simple. In order to win the game, you need to answer 3 definitive questions about yourself.

But obviously you can't just answer these questions, you also need to come up with or learn systems in order to put the information you learn into action.

But when it comes to winning, all you need to know is

WHY are you here? What brought you to a place where you needed to go online and find more information about meeting, attracting and seducing women. Now a lot of guys stop at the surface level. I did for years. "I just want to get laid" I'd say, but I never stopped to wonder why. Why did I want to sleep with at least 4 new girls a month for 2 years in Dallas? Why was I obsessed with new pussy? Etc. We're gonna talk more about the Why in this post.

Where am I now? Where is your life in reality. Most people don't live in reality. They live in their version of reality, which includes all sorts of messed up beliefs, bad habits, lack of goals, an overall plan, living in reaction, chaos, unhealthy lifestyles etc. You have to start where you are. A lot of guys start where they are then once they learn a little bit or get a little success, they warp their view of reality again. You must constantly work to understand where you are in the now.

How do I get there? This is where tactics and techniques come in to play. You need both a map of how you're going to get there(Your goals) as well as systems to implement so you can practice and track improvement.

Today's Lesson: The Why?

The why is possibly the most important of the questions, because inevitably your first why will lead to a second one and a third etc.

I've been saying on bootcamps for years that no one ends up here by accident. Most guys took that to mean just that they had problems with women. But ironically issues with women are usually just symptoms of greater life problems.

You MUST take the shroud of bullshit that we all come up with in our heads down in order to look at yourself honestly, admit something has to change and admit what you want.

A lot of guys really just want a girlfriend but feel pressured by the marketing or other guy's results to attempt to become some sort of player or something. A lot of guys might want to be players but also want to make partner at work or be something like that.

So by asking yourself why you're here, you look at all parts of your life.

Maybe you're here because you spent the last 10 years working on your career and neglecting your social life.

Maybe you're here because you desperately want to lose your viriginity

Maybe it's because you just got out of a relationship

or NEVER get the girl you want

Maybe you just want to get your ex-GF back.

Whatever led you here, ask yourself why you were in that situation.

Chances are that will lead to another situation and another until a pattern starts to emerge which will tell you a lot about why you get the results you do.

Eventually you will find a root cause to most of your problems, as long as you fight the urge to rationalize.

Once you do that, you can begin thinking about solutions, eventually leading to the formulation of goals with the Why in mind.

It is only through goals with the Why in mind that we can begin to make any progress on the where and the how.

JS-The King Of Content

Why Getting Laid Can Sometimes Be The WORST thing for your game...

Ok, now that I have your attention, I want to talk to you about when and how getting laid can actually HURT your overall progress.

If you're familiar with my teaching, you know I harp a lot on the idea of Inner and Outer Game symmetry. Which is a fancy way of saying that you need to improve your inner and outer game evenly, or face consequences.

The most common mistake guys make when it comes to inner/outer game symmetry happens when guys believe they are BETTER than they actually are. Usually this happens because they get some success early on. In fact over the course of 3 years of 12M2M the success rate of guys who got laid on their 1st bootcamp is MARKEDLY lower than that of guys who didn't. With one of those guys being Karl from Chicago who got laid with a cute 20 something in Las Vegas and still to this day swears all cute girls he approaches have boyfriends or only want guys with looks...

The reason is pretty simple, girls want to get laid too. If you go out and approach enough women, you will get laid. It probably won't be with your ideal girl, but you will find a girl who is down if you are willing to go out and approach enough. So sometimes you literally do "Get lucky". Not to say that there is no skill in just not fucking up when you have a girl who is really interested.

The reason this is bad, is that when guys get success too early on with pick up, it goes to their heads. They start to think that it's ALWAYS this easy. Or even worse they start to believe they are REALLY good at pick up before it's true. They instantly forget that they hadn't gotten laid in 2 years before that or that this is like the 3rd time they've ever approached a woman. This leads to a sense of entitlement and a complete bewilderment when they go back to their hometowns and no girls want to sleep with them or even return their calls. This leads to a lot of guys getting mad or saying " This stuff doesn't work" and then eventually giving up because they didn't realize the amount of work necessary to get good at cold approach. They thought it was ALWAYS going to be this easy. Like there is some sort of magic bullet that they just had to learn in a seminar room and then say to a girl.

The thing about pickup is that it is a process. Meaning that there are going to be ups and downs. Sometimes you get those highs early on, and while I think it's important to enjoy those successes and look at the tactical things you did right, you need to keep a balanced perspective about where you actually are. If you just got your first cold approach lay you;re NOT good at cold approach yet. Sorry.

Ironically I think one of the reasons I was able to become as successful as I am was because I went out and did 7 approaches EVERY day for 6 months without any results when I started in 2003. So I got used to the grind of cold approach and therefore wasn't surprised later on when things were tough and results were harder to come by.

So if you have an early success, stay humble, think about what you learned or what you did that worked, but don't get ahead of yourself. Start from the beginning by building a solid base of social skills before you start worrying about more advanced stuff. Even if you got laid on your bootcamp.

JS- The King Of Content

Social Circle Game is A SCAM...

Today I'm kinda pissed off.

Every year there is a new and more pathetic "Magic Bullet"
in the pick up community,that promises to land
supermodels in your bed in 10 seconds
flat with 0 chance of ever being rejected.

One year some jackass in a
top hat says you have to "peacock",
the next year some a**hole tells
you he can teach you how to
NEVER get rejected again..

The latest trend to sweep our
little community is something
called social circle "game",
and it's a complete scam.

First of all how many guys
actually have time to participate
in 4-5 different social circles
or manage a group of 50-60 friends?

Unless you're a 20 something without
a day job or a club promoter, chances
are not many of you...

Secondly, most of us have friends
from years and years ago. These people
already have set images of who you are.
Some of us(like myself) have had some
friends since High school...

You're not going to suddenly transform
yourself and your friends into
a group of pick up navy seals or
some other such ridiculous notion.

And lastly like all the great pick up
scams it promises a quick fix.

Never again will you have to go to a bar
or club,

Never again will you have to approach a
stranger,

Never again will you have to learn to deal with
rejection,

and on and on.

Look let's be real here,

Chances are if you're reading this,
you DON'T have a huge social circle
teeming with attractive women, or the
time to build an elaborate network of
friends like some insecure loser trying
to re-create his glory days from high school.

In fact, chances are you're reading this
because you're not that social of a guy.

And that's ok.

You don't need to have a million
friends or reinvent yourself to be
successful with women. Whether that means
finding that one special girl or dating
around.

What you need to do is stop looking for
"Magic Bullets" like Social Circle game
and focus on becoming a more naturally
attractive person, who understands women
and the process of how sexual relationships
begin.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

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My Best Technique For Creating Sexual Attraction!

Yo,

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JS-The King Of Content

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Seduction Starts At Hello????

Hey,

I just put up a very controversial video and pdf
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JS-The King Of Content

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High Maintenance Girls

High maintenance girls are pretty annoying and hard to deal with.

While not every high maintenance girl is a "10" almost every "10" is high maintenance.

High maintenance girls need a lot of attention. They tend to be the "attention whore" type of girl who need the conversation to be about them and their lives at all times.

High maintenance girls also tend to push for commitment faster. They want to talk more frequently throughout the day, they want to hang out more, they want to know "where this is going?" much faster than your medium or low maintenance girl.

High maintenance girls are generally harder to pick up because of their attention seeking behavior. Even if you're a really cool, high value guy with good game, the girl's insecurities will make it harder to keep her attention initially and succeed with her overall.

If you've ever met a girl who was really into you and then ended up making out with another guy chances are she's high maintenance.

High maintenance girls take forever to get ready, as we covered in my medium maintenance post, and they also tend to be late.

In general high maintenance girls really do believe they are the center of the universe and that they can do whatever they want. Furthermore since a majority of them are attractive A lot of people are willing to put up with their bad behavior.

So how do we recognize high maintenance girls?

1. They are dressed to show sexual confidence. The sexier a girl is dressed, the longer it took and the more time effort and energy she took to attract attention. High Maintenance.

2. They expect things. If a girl tries to make it seem like you're weird for not doing something (whether it's buy her a drink, watch her stuff, go dance) she's high maintenance.

3. If a girl brags about being a snob. If a girl says she only drinks Grey Goose Vodka, or talks about how she doesn't wait in line etc, your high maintenance alarm should start blaring.


Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

Medium Maintenance Girls

Girls who are medium maintenance are really cool. They are in fact the girls you want to date consistently and eventually settle down with( If you're into that kinda thing, I'm emotionally dead so I just like less drama from the girls I fuck.)

These girls generally tend to be really pretty but not the bombshell knockout "10" (whom we'll be discussing Fri). They also tend to have real jobs, families, friends, hobbies, etc to spend their time with.

In my experience medium maintenance girls tend to come from two parent homes or at least have a VERY strong relationship with one(mother or father doesn't matter), if not both parents. This is a key point as a lot of high maintenance girls have daddy/intimacy issues that drive their behavior and need for validation. Which is ultimately what high maintenance behavior is about getting the validation of everyone to make yourself feel better about being you.


Medium maintenance girls have goals even if that goal is simply to bartend and have fun until she meets a guy to settle down with(Hi Liz! miss you and Martini Ranch Scottsdale). Their lives are not filled with an infinite sea of chaos as a lot of high maintenance girls have.

Medium Maintenance girls also tend to have more friends. This is a really big issue because in my personal experience, if a girl can't keep the same "best friend" for more than a few weeks, it's because she's the problem.

Medium maintenance girls tend to take awhile to get ready. They need time to do hair, makeup, try on 3-5 different outfits. But they don't take longer than an hour(on a regular basis! EVERY girl can take an hour depending on what she's going to). That's really the test right there. If a girl consistently takes more than an hr to get ready she is HIGH maintenance.

Medium maintenance girls tend to run what I call "girl" late. Meaning consistently 5-15 minutes but rarely if ever more. Find me a really attractive girl (or person really) who is ALWAYS on time and I'll be glad to meet them. Here's another good test, if a girl consistently keeps you waiting for more than 30 minutes ( even if it's at your house) she's high maintenance.

Medium maintenance girls also seem like they are more sexually open. Meaning that they are willing to discuss sex, their fantasies, turn ons etc. It's much harder to get a high maintenance girl to open up about sex even after you're having sex with her.

So how can you use this stuff in the real world?

1. Ask girls how long it takes them to get ready. This is a great question and was my default opener for years and years.

2. Ignore the con job. Let's face it, when you meet a girl in a club she has her weapons of mass seduction ready. She may have her fake boobs (+2s) out and presented, she's got her horse hair extensions in, she's got her MAC forcefield of makeup on, and you're drinking in a dark club... The more "done up" it seems like a girl is the higher maintenance she tends to be. Note there is an exception if you meet a girl while she's out on a special event like a birthday, bachelorette party, or sorority reunion.

3. Qualify girls for real on what they want to do! The coolest girl I'm seeing now( who I'm already freaking out about, and looking for a way out of the relationship BTW) works in Real Estate and goes to LMU Law School at the same time. We talked about this the night we met. If girl has problems expressing her goals and dreams she's either not into you ( Totally a possibility with the motley crew of readers I have) or she doesn't have these ambitions which makes her a hot girl who likes to go out and get really dressed up so guys give her attention AKA high maintenance.

Ok, Friday I'm going to take my best most feministic stab at talking about high maintenance girls without sounding more than 51% angry and bitter.

Til next time.

JS- The King Of Content.

Girls and Maintenance Pt 1 of 3

The issue of girls and maintenance is a pretty straight forward one.

In fact it is much easier for me to explain my thoughts on this subject than it will be for me to correctly spell maintenance every time in this post.

What is maintenance when it comes to girls?

I'm glad you asked, curly haired kid in the back of the room.

When it is applied to women, maintenance means the amount of time, effort, energy, necessary to keep your relationship with any particular girl from stalling.

Maybe maintenance isn't the most PC term, but that's what I've been calling it for years so it's sticking. Maintenance refers to all the "work" you have to do in order to keep a girl interested and fulfilled on all three levels
( Sexual,Emotional,Intellectual).

In general the amount of maintenance required raises with the level of commitment involved in the relationship.

For example, my biz partner has had a girlfriend for 18 months or so. This past weekend he had to give up his Saturday night to go to her sister's engagement party.

On the other hand, I've been seeing a girl for around 5 weeks(non exclusively) and when she invited me to meet her friends at a bar yesterday I declined without any hassle.

Now in addition to maintenance rising with investment and commitment, some girls also tend to be more maintenance than others.

I have a lot of theories about the different levels of female maintenance and what they say about a woman that I'll be sharing with you this week.

First up:

Low maintenance girls.

Girls who are low maintenance tend to be less attractive in my experience.

Low maintenance girls tend to get ready fairly quickly, avoid dressing up, don't care about where they eat or go out to, and are pretty understanding of any situation.

Basically these girls require less effort to pick up, and maintain relationships with if you have anything going for yourself. If you're a loser, these girls can still be hard to pick up.

Sometimes you'll get an attractive girl who is really low maintenance because she grew up mostly around guys. These girls can be fun for awhile, but tend to be really unstable and age badly as their metabolism catches up with them.

In my next post I'll talk about medium maintenance which is really where the cool girls live.

Talk soon,

JS