Friday, July 15, 2011

Conversation Before Attraction

Quick post before I head out to the beach...

I'm always amazed by how many guys seek to get attraction before they have gotten a girl committed to a conversation.

Most people are nice.

Contrary to popular opinion in the community, most girls are not trying to blow you out or be rude to you.

Instead the vast majority of guys start doing weird things to "generate attraction" before the girl even realizes she is in a conversation.

Stop doing this!

Instead focus on first getting a woman interested and paying attention to what you are saying BEFORE you try to get her attracted.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content


  1. Anonymous8:12 PM

    Sinn no disrespect to you or any other guys in the seduction community but...the best game is NO game.

    If a girl likes you she won't make things too difficult and you can escalate through what is perceived as all sorts of gaming errors. Guys have been getting pussy for 10s of thousands of years without instruction.

    If a girl is being really difficult and you game through it, it won't be long before that CRAZY bitch turns your life into a living hell.

    You still own Ms. STRAUSS though, that greasy fucker!

  2. Anonymous8:15 PM

    Just to add to my above comment, I KNOW for a fact that giving a girl mindblowing sex is far more effective for generating attraction than anuly of the bullshit tricks and gambits found in the community.

  3. Anonymous11:09 PM

    Great advise by just having a normal conversation before attraction. Makes a lot more sense to do this. Thanx.

  4. Anonymous2:08 PM

    Attraction is not the first phase. It is social comfort :) got it from the speech from the 21 convention.

  5. Anonymous3:34 PM

    Attention and interest come first.If you try to attract her before hooked,you are weirdo.I think community guys act weird first then they have bad reaction.You act rude,she acts rude.

    oh,On MTV ture life.Cougar game?

    Mystery's company threatens former student

    This is worse than Neil.Because extortion.
    This story should be spread,if it is real.It is not like expensive or not story.
    Sending former military guy for money collection????It sounds like a gang star story.

    Here's link

  6. Anonymous8:36 AM

    This doesn't make sense to me. Why would she be genuinely interested in a conversation without some attraction? To above commenter, attraction is not about being rude, it's about emotionally engaging the girl.

    The idea that you should start things with 5 minutes of "social comfort" sounds a little unrealistic, and to me would come off as weird guy who really likes talking to strangers.

  7. Anonymous8:11 AM

    I think coming under the radar is key to building attraction. Attraction is definitely first before comfort building. The girl would not want to share her comfort zone with you unless you are attractive.

    Juan Marco