Friday, September 30, 2011

Replay of Last Night's Girlfriend Training Call

If you missed out on the special Destination:
Girlfriend tele-class that I did last night
you REALLY missed out.

On the call, I gave many never-before-revealed
strategies on how to land an awesome girlfriend...
fast!

The GOOD NEWS is that I recorded the call
and you can listen to the replay of the call
here:

Replay

But the replay will only be available until
this Sunday at midnight.

On the call, we discussed in great detail how
to find, meet, attract and KEEP an awesome
girlfriend.

Get the juicy details here:

Replay

Best,

Jon

P.S. You don't want to miss this awesome training
call.


But you better her though. Because the replay is
coming down this Saturday at midnight.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Stop Sucking At Life; Stop Sucking With Girls

One of the things I'm sure I've joked about on here many times is the idea that some people suck at life.

These people are generally unhealthy(Overweight, out of shape, acne, unibrows and bad grooming) Anti-social (Either through shyness or weird antisocial behavior like Nerd arrogance) and unsuccessful(In their career, their goals, financially etc...)

These also happen to be the majority of guys who complain that girls are mean, pickup is hard etc..

The reason it's hard is because you suck.

The reason no girls like you, is because you suck.

The reason why you get blown out when(if) you approach is because you suck.

You cannot become more successful with women when the rest of your life is a complete and utter mess.

And I know there are some losers reading this who are going to write a comment about how their friend who is broke and fat and whatever gets all kinds of chicks.

Well guess what they are the exception not the rule.

The reason you are so excited to see the one guy who is a loser an gets chicks while ignoring the thousands of guys who have their shit together and get women, is because you are the rule not the exception.

So if you want to get better with women, take a real hard look at where you are BELOW average in your life and work on fixing that first.

Then maybe the tactics and techniques will work for you and you'll stop complaining like a whiny little bitch.

JS-The King of Content

Monday, September 26, 2011

Inner States and Game

Hey there,

Today I wanted to briefly talk about the idea of inner states and how they can help your game.

An inner state, is pretty much precisely what it sounds like; an inner statement you make to yourself about yourself. Ideally you want to use present tense language about a goal or process you want to take on. Then you want to repeat this statement until it becomes almost automatic for you to think that way.

For example, if you have trouble with approach anxiety, you could use an inner state of

" I always instantly, easily and confidently approach the women I am attracted to."

Or if you have trouble with attraction you could use:

" I effortlessly attract the woman I'm attracted."

At first I would suggest just picking one inner state that you think addresses your biggest problem with women, then expanding to 3-5 inner states that reflect changes you want to make in your entire life.

After you've got your inner states, you want to repeat them in the mirror 5 times each 3 different times a day. You'll find if you stick to this for 30 days the entire way you think will be different.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Scripted Qualification

I gave a talk to some of the members of the 12m2m at home program on Monday about the 5 most common intermediate/advanced sticking points.

One of the most important of these sticking points is making sure to use scripted qualification.

What I mean by scripted qualification is that you qualify for the same qualities every time you're interacting with a woman you're attracted to. Not only will this help you to qualify enough, it will also help you screen for women you actually like.

It's also not that hard, all you need to do is turn some qualities you like into qualification statements or questions.

Currently the qualities I qualify for are:

Mean sense of humor
Works out consistently
Is not too involved in the club scene
Is Bi-sexual

and a large qualifying question like " What's your best quality."

By sticking to scripted qualification you have a much greater chance of the girl showing up for a date or leaving with you that night.

Word.

JS-The King Of Content

Monday, September 19, 2011

Evaluating Your Game Quarterly

Hey there,

Quick thought today.

A lot of guys who are intermediate or advanced wonder what they should do now that they actually (GASP) get laid on a regular basis from cold approach.

The answer took me awhile to find as well.

You don't want to continue to read forums, and study game all the time, as that will give you all sorts of contradicting advice and keep you stuck in the "Pick-up" guy stage of your development.

You also don't want to stop looking at your game objectively either. Some guys become delusional after being able to get laid consistently. You still have sticking points even if you get laid.

SO the solution is to re-evaluate your sticking points at set intervals. I like to do it quarterly. So every 3 months when it's time to get my car checked up and go to the Dr, I also take a look at what I think my sticking points are and what I can do to fix them. Then I focus on that for a little while until I fix the problem. Repeat 4x a year and you'll always improve without being a weirdo.

Word,

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Maximizing Your Time With Pick-Up

One of the biggest misconceptions out there in regards to picking up girls, is the idea that rejection is your biggest enemy.

Everyone gets rejected sometimes. Plus most rejections you will face are much less painful than the ones you imagine. At their most intense girls will walk away from you. No more, no less.

That's why rejection is not the enemy. In fact rejection can be a very helpful tool for letting you know when it's time to move on.

Instead I would offer the idea that time is your biggest enemy when it comes to cold approaching.

Because most bars and clubs are only open for a few short hours, there is a real limitation on time that does not extend to approaching. You could approach every girl in the bar, but chances are you won't be able to do that in the 3-4 hrs you have.

I don't want to limit this to night game either as I myself have been guilty of spending 30-40 mins chatting with a chick during the day time only to find out she has a bf or husband.

So instead we want to focus on maximizing our time when we are out, which we can do by following some basic rules.

The 5 rules for maximizing your pick up time are:

1. Set goals for your time. A lot of guys go out with the goal of "doing some approaches" or " Working on their game" then they end up standing around by the bar "getting comfortable". Instead you want to set a # of approaches you want to attempt in the set amount of time. Once you do that you know how much time you should have between approaches as well.

2. Approach Right away. I personally have to do a few warm up approaches in order to make the transition from anti-social to social. Most of you guys reading this are the same way. So you need to approach as soon as you get into the venue. It doesn't have to be the girl of your dreams but you need to get used to immediately switching into "social mode."

3. Don't spend more than 25 minutes in a row with any one girl, unless you KNOW it's on. This is my biggest personal sticking point as I like talking to girls and will enjoy chatting even if it's not going anywhere. It's a mistake. Instead you want to keep the interactions to 25 minutes or less until you have a really good sense it's on.

4. Don't be afraid to walk away. When it's obviously not going anywhere, don't be afraid to leave the interaction. Now if you're a newer guy it may be worth it to "plow" for 10 minutes to get practice with that sort of thing but if you're already fairly successful and it's not working, just leave.

5. Re-approach girls you talked to briefly later on. Sometimes walking away is the only way to get the girls to change their minds about you. But at the same time it's worth going back and talking to the girls you approached earlier later in the night as things change quickly. Same thing for short sets during the day. A lot of the time girls will like you better the second time around.

So that's my list of ways you can maximize your time while doing pickup.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

Friday, September 09, 2011

Have the good sense to dislike people who don't like you back.

Short blog post today.

As I get older, one of the things I've realized is that not everybody is going to like you, no matter what you do.

When applying this to pickup it means that not all girls you approach will like you and not all girls will respond to texts, calls etc...

So what do you do about this?

You respond in kind.

If a girl doesn't seem interested in talking to me, I'm no longer interested in talking to her. Same thing with the phone if I am always taking the initiative than it's no good and I just stop.

Seriously just stop putting effort into women who aren't putting effort into you and you will be much happier and more successful.

Word.

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, September 07, 2011

Flaking Video

Hey Guys,

I've been getting some questions on flaking so I decided to make a quick video to explain what's REALLY going on.

Check it out here:



And if you find yourself in need of more information on Eliminating Flaking Forever check out the Flak Elimination toolkit Here

Best,

JS

Friday, September 02, 2011

7 Day Positivity Challenge Day 4: Falling off a bit


Yesterday was the hardest day of the challenge so far.

I had a very important meeting pushed back til today and then ended up having to get a lot of busy work done to fill up the day.

My roommate also has some of his friends in town and they are grating on my nerves a little bit...

But on the brightside it is now Friday and after kickboxing and my very important meeting I will be free!!!!!

And it's a long weekend so that means drinking, pool parties and general awesomness.

I'll try to keep updating over the next 2 days but no promises.

JS