Friday, September 09, 2011

Have the good sense to dislike people who don't like you back.

Short blog post today.

As I get older, one of the things I've realized is that not everybody is going to like you, no matter what you do.

When applying this to pickup it means that not all girls you approach will like you and not all girls will respond to texts, calls etc...

So what do you do about this?

You respond in kind.

If a girl doesn't seem interested in talking to me, I'm no longer interested in talking to her. Same thing with the phone if I am always taking the initiative than it's no good and I just stop.

Seriously just stop putting effort into women who aren't putting effort into you and you will be much happier and more successful.


JS-The King Of Content


  1. Anonymous3:34 PM

    Only keep good response is good policy not just to the women but also the guy friends too.

    Not everyone loves you.The numbers game.But what if when she response it a lot and you also invest your emotion a lot and then she lost interest to you?This case hard to recover from it.For early stage I think best policy for human relationship.

  2. Anonymous7:19 PM

    Great post!

  3. Anonymous1:26 AM

    Reminds me of the 48 Laws of Power! Law 36 Disdain things you cannot have: Ignoring them is the best revenge.

  4. Anonymous5:01 AM

    I'm often in two minds about this cos in one sense it can feel like every fucking step is a struggle to get them to give me something back- ie fucking work, at the same time I wonder if that is due to improper game.

    I'd be interested if you did a video on this actually- where is the balance between cutting off these 'pulling blood from a stone' type sets vs. taking responsibility for running proper game (as I know this is another tenet you promote).

    I'm still trying to decide where the line is.

  5. Anonymous5:19 AM

    another thought- how do you know when to cut your loses vs. continue trying- I'm talking more over text when you have lost momentum.

  6. I think this is definitely a developmental thing. Like, when you`re starting out, it`s good to push every set until you KNOW if it`s a hit or miss. But after a while your calibration gives you a general sense of when to cut your losses and when to keep trying.

  7. Anonymous1:03 PM

    great post

    very cool!! :D

  8. Word homie. Hey do you know what happened with CJ's blog? Everything is gone on his page, it has been for over a week now. Update us on that if you could.

    Totally agree with the post. You should always realize that you are the prize to be worked for. Never work too much for the girl. Maintain your trophy status. I'm to the point where I drop girls all the time, If they start drama or fighting, or if they dont seek me out equally as I do them, drop that bitch like a sack of bricks.

  9. Anonymous5:03 PM

    Whatever if it's about girls or guys, I think a better thing than trying to dislike is just trying to ignore, think about something else.

    Because if you dislike, you allow you to still feel emotions towards the person, consequently you are just giving too much energy for something that doesn't help you.

    Does it make sense ?

  10. Anonymous6:55 AM

    It´s funny. Women either hate me or love me when I interact with them. "You are creepy go away"....five minutes later, same venue, same opener, same bodylanguage the whole shebang: "You are so sexy!" It makes no sense because seduction is an emotional "thing".

  11. Anonymous12:31 PM

    Some of your teaching can apply to not just dating and seduction.

    I think people can't exceed self-image.Paul Janka says plastic surgery is also option.what do you think?If it help self image improvement.Good review from other people really help your self image improve.

    I really think you are really organized person.

    Your team is not big like some big company but you have ability to have monthly services and coaching program.

    I do not know the reason Captain Jack erased everything from blog tells me it is hard to run service business alone.

    Even three or four full time guy together,Venusian arts does not have ability to offer monthly service like Jon Sinn,Brad P,Neil Strauss,etc do.Venusian arts have products but those are old and presentation etc are no good.I don't know about content wise but comparing to their rival like RSD,Love Systems,those products are bad.I do't think they make money from products,their income source is heavily on live boot camp.

    For presentation wise,Mehow product was better than Venusian arts.Mehow products cover the Venusian arts concept a lot.I think he did a good job.

    It used to be choice was limited but now there are so many seduction products and boot camp out there.I believe your product is one of the top quality in the market.

  12. Anonymous9:36 AM

    your war on the game is over?

  13. Anonymous2:37 PM

    I disagree. While that makes sense on the surface, in the real world it's practically impossible to actually know when a person has stopped showing interest because they in fact don't like you or they are just busy (work, school, other sexual partners you didn't know about, tragic events like a death in the family etc.)

    Furthermore, even if you could somehow know where the line was for each individual, in this society men are expected to initiate the contact and do basically all of the work in organizing romance. You have to pretty much always call first, ask first, pick the place, approach first, plan etc. Maybe it's not fair, maybe it's natural, but regardless that's just the way it is.

    If I took your advice in this blog post I'd never get laid, because women never really reciprocate interest equally until your already in a relationship. I would be rejecting and letting go of virtually every woman, because in my experience they NEVER call back, text back, or ask to meet up at quite the same level even when they're into me.

    This also applies to guy friends as well - Americans are generally socially lazy and tend not to initiate anything.