Now I've surely heard it all dear readers.....
Yesterday I had a phone appointment with a guy who was interested in getting some phone coaching.
He told me his biggest sticking point was approach anxiety unless he got eye contact or was with a group of friends and then I asked him what his goals were for the next 3-6 months and he said and I quote:
" I want to sleep with 3 or 4 NEW girls a week."
To which I replied
" So you want to sleep with 12 new girls a month? That's like a 144 new girls a year? Do you think I sleep with 144 new girls a year? Cause I don't. No one does besides maybe some rock-stars. And a lot of them bang whores."
Followed by me attempting to explain that when you have approach anxiety(Like this guy did) it's impossible to go from that to sleeping with 3 to 4 new women a week in the 3-6 month time frames our coaching programs run for, before telling him he was not a good fit for the program and hanging up on him.
Then I called Rob Judge to vent, since no one outside the community could even comprehend the type of weirdness I deal with every day before noon.
I always say this, but you HAVE to be realistic if you want any chance at success. You also have to understand that you can't bridge the gap between being a guy who doesn't approach and being a guy who gets laid a lot without doing a lot of work in between.
Hope that helps some people out there or at least makes the weirdo student re-assess his goals. Weirdo!