Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Gold Diggers and Distant Fathers.

This article is now available on my new site.

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  1. Anonymous12:50 PM

    I heard so many gold digger story since I moved to Orange county.

    They marry not just one time,three times maybe more.

    I feel really sad to hear about my friends' mom.They are more attached to dad.Because they see what mom done to their father.

    It's really sad but there some women who use marriage as their business or something.It's so sad to know born the result of gold digging.

    Their lack of love from dad also creates lack of love from mom latter?Dad relates not money activities and mom only give money can buy.This is vicious circle.

    I heard they look normal until they start to fleece money from dad.It's still cute to show trait early stage,people can avoid her for serious relationship.But still some men controlled by emotion and fall into her tactics though.

    Use condom and learn to have option of women is your advice?

    This advice tells how to detect not sophisticated gold diggers,do you have some advice for detecting sophisticate one?

    I have been hearing so many sad stories.

    Do you think if you can control frame well,you can control those gold diggers?I believe they don't have kids just for money and I really want to believe so.

    Do you think you can tame them like circus guy tame the Tigers or Lions??Divorce is the only solution?

    It is not reality show.It is very Real in orange county.I really feel sorry for my friends.

  2. Anonymous1:17 PM

    "I'm not a huge fan of Freud (Mostly because he did more coke than a Columbian cartel)"

    I think you are lying to yourself here Sinn. That's not a valid excuse to not like someone especially since you reference and talk about so many other people on your blog that have done far worse things

  3. Anonymous2:15 PM

    i'm looking forward to the never trust a girl article

  4. Anonymous8:59 PM

    Nurture is why the purple Nike cult drank strichnine laced kool-aid and some even served it to their children.
    Good point. Evolution would seem to say that there is no way humans could develop some crazy belief that would override our desire to replicate our genes through raising healthy children. But we do. Nurture (including culture) can defeat both the drive to survive and to replicate.

  5. Perhaps Kelly over-identified with her father. Jung would say that she had not successfully resolved her Electra complex. She was still competing with her mother for her father, rather than befriending her mom.

    Later in life, this might lead to the problems you were seeing. The relationship with Dad would lead to her competing for a ton of male attention. Good for you in the short run, but one man's attention might not be enough. It would also lead her to competing with other women, rather than being friends with them.

    Essentially, it helps to pay attention to relationships with "both" well as the dynamics of their marriage. Each piece has an impact. Good eye overall though. It is amazing the impact this stuff has later in life!

  6. Anonymous5:23 AM

    Culture cannot defeat anything long term in broader sense of suvival of the spiecies. Nature keeps culture on a leash and vice versa to some extent. If one species was all about culture without prexisting drives they would loose with species preconditioned to learn faster things that are more adaptable. But species without any elasticity would also loose in that race hence modern evoltion theory has embraced cultural aspect of transmision of information. Adaptation by learning is nature, nurture is possible because of nature and that dualism is kinda wrong.

  7. Dr. Dupree6:09 AM

    "never trust a girl who doesn't get along with other girls."

    Too many dude friends? I agree.

    I was seeing a chick like this in NYC for a few months until last October.

    I look forward to your words about this....

    Cousin Dupree

  8. Anonymous8:04 AM

    Wow, interesting, thanks for sharing.

    I am looking forward to the never trust a girl article, too. :-)

  9. Anonymous3:39 PM

    >never trust a girl who doesn't get along with >other girls

    I just dated a girl like this.

    What's with that anyhow? This girl said she didn't like other girls + instead has lots of male friends. Hmmm.

    What's happening there?

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  13. Anonymous5:41 PM

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  14. Anonymous2:35 PM

    where is the new post :( shit i'm addicted!!

  15. Anonymous10:34 AM

    Yea man, I think all strippers have daddy issues!

  16. That's a great insight about the psychology of gold-diggers, it makes a lot of sense, and makes you think that maybe it's not their fault. Just one thing... it's "colombian" instead of "columbian", and that cartel thing isn't a good stereotipe of us anyway. If you care, of course