Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Prompting BF Objections in Day Game

I really do think That my Day Game A to Z Mastery Program is the best thing ever on day game.

But there is one tactic I have recently discovered that I wish I had put in it.

It's this;

Prompting the Boyfriend Objection.

Because during the day time you have less time with the girl per approach, you MUST get the girl to either give you the Boyfriend objection as EARLY as possible, or confirm that she's single so that you can that later you use a statement of intent.

The worst situation in the world is when you spend 10-15 minutes talking to a girl only to get the bf objection as you start demonstrating interest.

It's a time waster, and unlike in Bars and Clubs where there is almost a secret society type agreement that everyone will pretend to be single that night there is little chance you're going to get a girl's # and then get around her boyfriend as a stranger. I've done it, but it's almost a mission impossible style undertaking.

So instead you want to prompt the bf objection AS SOON AS THE SET HOOKS! Not before the girl wants to talk to you, not as she's walking by trying to get away from you, not during your opener. AFTER you've established some social comfort and she WANTS to talk to you, it's time to prompt the boyfriend objection.

I like to do it in a teasing way by saying something like

" Your boyfriend must be a saint, to put up with you."
" I feel sorry for your boyfriend."
" Whoever your boyfriend is does not spank you enough."

At which point a girl will either say something like " I don't have a boyfriend." or she'll agree and mention a boyfriend and you can politely excuse yourself or be GANGSTA like Paul Janka and just walk away as soon as she mentions a boyfriend. I personally still stay for a minute or two so as not to look like I got shaken by it. But I respect Mr Janka's gangster. For sure.

This one piece of advice will save you more time and frustration with Day Game than anything else.


JS- The Winner and STILL Undisputed King Of Content


  1. Anonymous11:22 AM

    " Whoever your boyfriend is does not spank you enough." you stole that line from lance mason.

    you are running out of time.

  2. Awesome Advice and that definitely makes Paul Janka straight gangster hahahaha

  3. Anonymous3:03 PM

    Good stuff.I like your blog,Captain Jack and Brad P.Because there are many good stuff.Yeah,King of content is right word for you.

    I don't see a lot stuff like this from Venusian arts and love system.Their old post was really good stuff but now I just see some garbage post.RSD has much more content comparing to those two.TD makes video stuff and writing.Still active.

    You are crazy.I mean in good way.So does TD.You two update a lot of stuff.Big company like Love System and Venusian arts looks like inactive.

    Your free contents are even better than some of other companies charging money.Jon,CJ and Brad P are active.

    old big name looks like a retired.

  4. Anonymous2:30 AM

    LOL Paul Janka GANGSTA style! This really cracked me up :-)

    Where da hood, where da hood, where da hood at?

  5. Anonymous12:35 PM

    your daygame system = 90% lance mason stuff.
    stop this shit.

  6. Anonymous4:07 PM

    Funny shit.
    When I was 15, before the abbreviation PUA was an abbreviation, my natural opener at the mall was always, "Hi, what's your name. Do you have a bf? Can I get your number?"
    After becoming familiar with so many complex models ov game theory, it's funny to see our natural instincts and strategies come full circle.

    Main Point: Trust your evolution, men. It's as easy as in-and-out breathing.
    How to fuck up breathing? Think about it too much.
    How to let go and trust the system? Observe life as it moves organically through, to, and around you.

    Thanks Sinn. Think we're gonna have to dabble soon.

  7. Anonymous8:32 PM

    Why be bothered by it, why not see boyfriends as a sticking point to bust. I guess, there are single girls and the risk of drama isn't worth it. Eh.

  8. Hey Jon,

    I have to say that you are the best at daygame for sure. Ron and I have always said this.

    Give me a call and let's do lunch. I haven't talk to you in a while.


  9. If she says she has a boyfriend, she dosen't like you.

    Most girls if they like your approach and are attracted to you wont tell you if they do have a boyfriend.

    Paul Janka? Well hes just a little too arrogant and he has no respect for women. His style of pick up sucks thats why he runs through so many numbers, but im sure if you approach 100 random women in a week in new york one will sleep with you.