Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Guest Post By My Friend Sara: The Problem With Guys with Too Many Girl Friends

This article is now available on my new site.

Click here to read the article.


  1. Anonymous4:25 PM

    I would like to know about the straight girls who has a lot of gay guy friends.I would like to hear about your opinion and your friends opinion.

    The girl I like always hung out with gay guys.I mean not just one person,this is third time.

  2. Tyler (not the ginger faggot from RSD)4:26 PM

    Sinn being all proud of having all these female friends makes him sound kinda feminine. I'm not a hater; I think Sinn really knows a lot about picking up women. However, I wouldn't be so proud of being "one of the girls." There really is a lot of benefits to having more male friends, dude. Maybe you didn't have strong male role models or something growing up? each his own.

  3. Anonymous5:13 PM

    how sweet :)

    Do you loose your manliness if you hang out with nearly only women?

  4. Anonymous6:05 PM

    Sinn, you wrote this, nobody else did.

  5. Anonymous6:33 PM

    I'll take johns word for it. most guys barely have any female friends, much less a giant blontourage :D. I know I'm one and working on having a blontourage myself ^^

    As for the girls response, I saw this in my face last week through a friend who's girl is a bartender. He chatted up the new girl because she talked to him first and bam his girl had her emotions go off on him and she started ignoring him. All this from simply her point of view on things. The guy didn't even talk sexual, it was just regular small talk! I now truly understand that women will be women and if you roll with women alot they will always have their emotions array and fear it.

  6. Tattoo7:12 PM

    I have a bit oposite problem,since being in the whole PUA thing i almost dont have any female friends,i know a lot of women but theire all
    targets or past lays or FBs and i have a few friends who are in the pick up for a while with the same problem.
    The intresting thing is before the pick up
    i had looooots of female friends
    and of course almost no sex.

  7. Anonymous10:03 PM

    Sinn mentioned before he has gay brother so he probably naturally gravitates towards feminine people ;)

  8. Seiya3:09 AM

    lol ur a sports guy.. watch ball, do ufc.. how the hell dont u hang out with guys.. comes-off weird..

  9. Anonymous3:10 AM

    Sinn, please elaborate: I too have mainly girls as friends and I think it starts to become a problem. A lot of these girls treat me like I am sexually interested in them, but I am not. I just cannot stop the flirting! What the hell!?

  10. Anonymous5:39 AM

    Nice one, also too much of a wuss to allow any comments that are negative too. Not capable of engaging with your audience eh Sinn?

    You wrote this. You know you wrote this.

    I wonder just how many other negative comments you don't let through every day because you're too much of a pussy to engage with your audience and defend against criticism.

  11. Anonymous8:30 AM

    jon i'm a cool dude you can be my mate and then everything is sorted!

  12. I agree with the article. But to add on, the guy should be able to hang with bros too, from a balance perspective. Having a network of both girl and guy friends is much more helpful then having alot of friends of one gender.

  13. Anonymous2:25 AM

    This is a cool article you got. You basically intentionally post this article to DHV to the community guys that you got plenty of girls on your social circle to give yourself more credibility.

    Yea yeah, you prob reply with the comment: "most community guys already know i have plenty of credibility", but the thing is, unless you're mystery, more credibility doesnt hurt to get more clients.

    Good job :)

  14. Anonymous9:17 AM

    Is that why your voice inflection is like most girls (going higher at the end of sentences like its a question), you're extremely catty/sarcastic/argumentative/attack based on emotions not facts, and you have a poor sense of humor?

  15. Dude this is by far one of the best blog posts in a while. You cover a lot of different aspects of life (and game etc.)

  16. Anonymous10:14 AM

    I like Sara. It's always a help to have a woman's perspective on this shit, even if they can't teach it ;) and one chick's perspective is just one chick's perspective.

    Also, ease up on the homophobia, gents. Not a good look for a bunch of "players." Not at all.