Monday, December 12, 2011

Re-visiting Pick-Up Dogma Part 2: On Demonstrating value

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  1. dude isnt value survival and replication value? Like as a man valuable traits are social dominance (Frame-control), being in control, masculinity etc? Those are universal and has nothing to do with money or shit like that. And when u have integrated those into your personality you dont need to actively "dhv" no more, cause its autmatic and the majority of girls responds really well to you - altho you cant bed all just cause of that, but they WILL find you "cool" or whatever cause you have these traits.

  2. Untrue for #3! You can bring a kitten into the nightclub and hire an assassin to stab that kitten. When you save the kitten, the girl will regard you as a hero!

    Being a protector isn't the key, but offering security through strength is something that can be demonstrated the night you meet a girl. Is it an "attraction routine" in the sense that it comes out in five minutes? No. But picking a girl up or dipping her or guarding her from being jostled in a busy place or leading her confidently through a chaotic environment is definitely something that sends a signal through her body: this is a man.

    "Leader of Men" was Mystery's silly way of saying "confidence" without giving ground to any time that traditional advice was actually useful. Confidence, height, and preselection are damned near the only universal switches. It's just tough to talk about the intersection of strength, leadership, dominance, and power in a three word bullet point.

  3. Anonymous2:38 PM

    Future is so much smarter than Sinn it's not even funny. Go back to furry hats and fat 6s. The game has changed.

  4. number 3 is false. Pretty much every girl has her whole family tagged in pics on her facebook and have 300 people tagged as cousin, brother ( who are just their BFF+Family)... i ear shit like " my friends are my family" very often too. But yeah, it kinda has a confort vibe on it...

  5. Anonymous9:10 AM

    Awww the big shot "I don't read comments" has started blocking mine, lololololol. Fail.

  6. Ablaze9:08 PM

    Agreed, for the most part... This approach works well when the end result is to get the girl no matter what. I take a more balanced approach in the sense that I realize that I can't live in my own selfish bubble, refusing to bend to anyone in the world and, on the other side of the coin, I can't always be catering and calibrating to people around me.

    That being said, there was a time in my life when the goal was get laid no matter what.

    I find that my most satisfying pickups are when the girl meets me halfway. I'm not going to totally calibrate to what I think she wants and I'm not going to force her to completely calibrate to me.

    That's me, though. What you've posted is no doubt more effective for racking up numbers. Whether those numbers are as satisfying in the long run is another story.

  7. Anonymous4:08 PM

    I think the idea of trying to figure out what every girl values is too try-hard. Goes back to the idea of you can't get every girl, and it's not worth wasting too much time on girls who just don't like you.

  8. Anonymous10:20 PM

    unreal article man. Really helped! thanks a lot.

  9. Anonymous4:47 PM

    Hello Sinn I mean no disrespect but I only see you on video with fat 5s and 6s and you prance around them like gayboy is there a PUA you recommend who can teach how to get pretty girls? Sorry! I do not mean offensive!