Friday, January 28, 2011

High Maintenance Girls

High maintenance girls are pretty annoying and hard to deal with.

While not every high maintenance girl is a "10" almost every "10" is high maintenance.

High maintenance girls need a lot of attention. They tend to be the "attention whore" type of girl who need the conversation to be about them and their lives at all times.

High maintenance girls also tend to push for commitment faster. They want to talk more frequently throughout the day, they want to hang out more, they want to know "where this is going?" much faster than your medium or low maintenance girl.

High maintenance girls are generally harder to pick up because of their attention seeking behavior. Even if you're a really cool, high value guy with good game, the girl's insecurities will make it harder to keep her attention initially and succeed with her overall.

If you've ever met a girl who was really into you and then ended up making out with another guy chances are she's high maintenance.

High maintenance girls take forever to get ready, as we covered in my medium maintenance post, and they also tend to be late.

In general high maintenance girls really do believe they are the center of the universe and that they can do whatever they want. Furthermore since a majority of them are attractive A lot of people are willing to put up with their bad behavior.

So how do we recognize high maintenance girls?

1. They are dressed to show sexual confidence. The sexier a girl is dressed, the longer it took and the more time effort and energy she took to attract attention. High Maintenance.

2. They expect things. If a girl tries to make it seem like you're weird for not doing something (whether it's buy her a drink, watch her stuff, go dance) she's high maintenance.

3. If a girl brags about being a snob. If a girl says she only drinks Grey Goose Vodka, or talks about how she doesn't wait in line etc, your high maintenance alarm should start blaring.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content


  1. This is a brilliant post Sinn.

    Though I think you should do a guy version of this... Only because while reading this I started thinking, "what type of guy am i?"


    IM blog

  2. ugh i only seem to date high maintainance girls :(

  3. Man Keep up with the great work!

    Since studying your material i have consistently have had a rotation of 3 F-Buddies for the last year.

    Quick Question:
    Can you pull-off BTC with a girl if you get an SNL? Does having sex too soon kill BTC?

  4. Anonymous12:18 PM

    Where, would you say, is the best place to meet the rare 10s who are medium-low maintenance?

    1. Anonymous7:03 AM

      Try the discount stores or the $2 stores. They like to hang around these places 'cause they're cheap. There, you will find girls who don't really look after themselves 'cause they don't care. And they won't look after you either. They are low-maintenance girls. They have low self-image and not to mention low self-esteem. Speaking from experiences, I personally wouldn't date those type of girls.

  5. Thanks Sinn !

    Great topic, great approach on that topic.


    ps. Sinn and the Cities has like the best music selection !

  6. Anonymous1:49 AM

    not even high maint. that's a basic girl with standards.

  7. Anonymous6:41 PM

    If a girl likes to dress up nice, what's wrong with that? In fact, beautiful girls who dress to show sexual confidence tend to get looked at more by good-looking guys than the average-looking girls who dress up like dags. I think good-looking guys are just jealous and frustrated because they can't get beautiful girls. And the reason they can't get any is because they are lazy, they don't want to do the extra work to reach for the best ones. They're afraid they'll get rejected.