Lack of updates explained...

SO I have been SUPER busy...

I slept with the coolest girl of all time the other night. She likes comics and V for Vendetta is her favorite movie. Unfortunately she also has a BF in another country.... Gotta love the drama.

Last night in continuing my spirit of dramtic destruction, I had a date with a married girl.Who wait for it also has a boyfriend on the side and hasn't had sex with her husband in 2 years. That just got weird and she's still texting me after I told her she shouldn't. Yay! So I'm not making the best decisions with the women that I am dating, but that's ok, because now I head to Vegas where the women are SUPER high quality mentally and emotionally :)

I also have invented the most fun game of all time: Virtual drinking with Savoy. SO far in the series I am up 3-2 after Savoy made a rousing comeback in game 5 from down 5 drinks to win with the help of home court advantage. Not sure who won last night. I probably did. But tonight if game 7 happens I will not have to drive and Vegas never closes. Though to be fair Savoy has said that he is willing to go to bed with a bottle of vodka set the alarm for every 15 minutes and take a shot to win the series.

By the end of today I will have finished the Way of The Superior Man review, and then I'll start on the Brad P ones.

It looks like most of you guys want to hear about how I got into the game so I will also write an article about that at some point.

Right now I am watching The Real World Las Vegas reunion show, RW Vegas was the BEST reality show ever and I think it's high time that MTV brought them back.

Cj just walked in so it's time to go eat

S

Suggestion box # 1

SO here it is write in and tell me what you want to hear about.

Keep it positive please.

S

This week in Sinns Of Attraction:

So I missed a few things last week as I ended up hitting SF to help Future..

Good times had by all.

Anyhoo, this week I will finally finish my reviews of both BradP's CDs(I got like 4 more to get through)and The Way of the Superior Man.

I'll post another invite for you guys to tell me what you want to hear about.

A new article on self discipline and inner game.

And maybe some live blogging from my Vegas progra(there's still seats left)

S

live Blogging from the SF bootcamp part deux:

Future is explaining what he looked like before getting into the game.

This is an important point. None of us were naturals, or good at any of this stuff before we learned. And it must be weird for guys to think about that, because we now seem like we were always good at this. I think I even tend to forget sometimes, and I lose sight of what I used to be like and how far I've come. And most importantly how much guys can imporve if they are dedicated and honest with themselves.

I think this whole weekend is a test of a guy's resolve and how badly he wants success in this area of his life. If you don't WANT this bad enough, you are going to fail. And that's ok. If nothing else, you learn on bootcamp whether or not you want to get good at this.

It is all worth it though. When I think back to the women I have been with and the way I feel about myself now versus 4 years ago. All the work has been more than worth it.

Now we are talking about loud venues. They suck, but they have the hottest girls, that's a fact the noise is a built in protection shield which allows them to dance away. You have to be loud, you have to project your voice, and you may lose it as you are practicing. Your voice is a muscle like any other in your body, if you work it to failure, it comes back stronger. If you aren't losing your voice, you aren't talking loud enough.

Fucking comes before flowers and girls paying on dates.... Social intuition is an attraction switch. And the provider frame is a myth. One of my MAJOR problems with DYD stuff is that he talks about making girls pay for things. Bad idea when I started I tried thsi for months and while I got free lunches, Jamba juices and pretzels I wasn't getting laid. Spend the 6 bucks...

break time.

S

Live Blogging from the SF bootcamp

One of the students got laid last night and Future and I both had mind blowing nights...

Now we are on the debrief. Future is teaching about being non reactive and sticking to your conversational threads. He just said that the two things people all like are orgasms and humor. That's a great line.

Now we are talking about conversation trees. And ranging routines. Every routine needs to be good enough that it can be used as an opener so if you go down a conversational thread that isn't helpful you can start a new conversation.

Now we are teaching transitioning. There are 5 ways to transition

1. Content- That means if she gives you a topic to talk about off the opener, you do.
2. Observational. This is where you make an observation like best friends test
3. Cold reads- self explanatory
4. Phrasal- Like " That reminds me"
5. No transition-

The student who got laid did a bunch of venue changes, it seems like he naturally does things the right way. He's gonna be good.

Working with Future is really fun.

Now we are talking about locking in. Locking in is one of the most important parts of the game as it instantly changes the interaction. Locking in, just means that you get into the position of most comfortable comfort.

Ok I'll post more soon.

S

Fidelio's funny

Fidelio who is funnier than Future has a great post on his blog....

He's alpha

You can read it Here

S

Captain Jack's rings on fingers routine

CJ is super money and this routine is awesome! I've just started to use it with great results.



Here's CJ


Hey guys,

I've field tested this 5 or 6 times now and I think about 4 of the Dallas PUA's that went to AsianPlayboy and Prophet's Dallas Workshop (which was AWESOME btw) tested it in field with good results too. I know this because I ran it on an HB and she told me I was the 2nd guy to tell her that! Ha ha!

I have a short DHV type version and I've created a longer comfort version that I haven't tested yet in its entirety (it is longer and is nlp-pattern based).

Here is the shorter version:

In every interaction I try to communicate (at least) the following 3 things to make sex easier...

1. We're both good at keeping secrets
2. When she sees someone that she's attracted to she becomes sexually aggressive
3. I'm not judgemental

Here's an excerpt from a recent lay report where I think it helped immensely to allow her to become the aggressor...

Quote:
Originally Posted by CaptainJack
"Did you know that what fingers you have rings on says stuff about your personality?"

I point to the right pinky ring and say, "that means you are good at keeping secrets."

HB: "i tell my brother everything."
CJ: "just your brother?" that's ok. that's like a diary, plus he's family."
CJ: "and your right ring finger, that means when you find the right person and you're attracted (pointing to myself), you become sexually aggressive"
HB: "yessssssss!"

Then, I look at my left middle ring and say, "This means I'm not judgmental."

HB: "mmmmmmm...."
Here's how I've been doing it lately in A2,C1 or mini-isolation.

I'll look at the HB's hand and say, "hmmm..."
HB: "what? what?"
CJ: "You can tell stuff about people by which fingers they wear their rings on"
CJ: *look away and go silent - this is to bait her to invest in the convo*
HB: "tell me!" or "what do mine say???"

Most girls will have at least two to 3 rings on their fingers. This is all BS but I like to keep the pinky finger the "keeps secrets" finger and the right ring finger as "sexually aggressive when you find someone you like" finger then I'll say that the left ring finger (i.e. marraige finger) means you are sexually submissive (which makes sense because you DID get married - ha ha).

CJ: "Wearing a ring on your pinky means you are good at keeping secrets. That's why you pinky swear and why mafia guys wear pinky rings."

If she doesn't have a pinky ring on I say, "Damn, we'll have to pinky swear before we share deep secrets..." *smile*

HB: "blah, blah"

CJ: * i'll look at her other ring and it is usually either an index finger or the right ring finger for some reason * "And, this one means that when you find someone you are really attracted to (sneakily pointing to self with my thumb) you feel comfortable getting sexually aggressive with this person (again pointing to myself)"

Right here, its important to NOT LET HER TALK. Because she might try to start qualifying herself as NOT being a slut or being marriage material or whatever because she thinks you want a prim and proper girl like that. If SHE does get that out then you are going to have to go REALLY DEEP in comfort and rapport later (so don't make it hard on yourself, don't let her make a peep).

So roll right into the last one. Point to one of your rings (remember it can't be a finger that you've already used on her so you may need to adjust your ring before this) and say:

"When someone wears a ring on this finger (pointing to your ring) it means they are NOT judgemental. They don't have all of the HANG-UPS about life and relationships that most people do."

Then, later throughout the convo when sexual comments start coming out I (subtly) play with that ring once or twice.

There you go. Please field test and let me know how it goes!

-- CaptainJack

The Most important questions you can ask yourself

From David D's On being a man program:

• What are you not admitting?
• What are you running away from?
• What ideals are you clinging too tightly to about yourself, women, or relationships?
• What do you need to realize and accept?
• Where are you accepting second rate thinking and behavior from yourself?
• Where are you not being authentic in life?
• Where are you not demonstrating integrity to yourself?
• What are you hiding?
• WHY are you hiding?

Bootcamp Announcrement

Yo !!!

I will be joining my good friend Future in San Francisco Tomor.

If you were considering taking a program in SF I reccomend you take this one..

You get not 1 but 2 TMM instructors with great reputations.

If I were you, I'd sign up...

S

Keeping the sword sharp

I am not better looking than most guys like Da Hunter, I am not 6'5 like Savoy, I don't have a natural love of the spotlight like Future. The only reason why I get results, is that I work my ass off.

I read, I practice, I do sets. I have probably done somewhere around 10,000 sets. Think that through for a second. That means 10,000 times of walking up to a stranger or group of strangers and opening then trying to move forward. 10,000 times. That's more than most people will ever do. And I'm in my early 20s.

I believe in the power of practice and in the power of keeping on top of things. I have been out with guys from PU101, Juggler, RSD, you name it. I am constantly looking for things that will make my game better. And then I teach them.

I truly believe that I am the most progressive teacher in the industry. I don't think ANYONE else can match my knowledge of compeititors products, method, or flaws. You want to know about NLP, I have a master's prac. You want to know about inner game, I've spent almost a year delving into it.

I am constantly learning new pieces of the game. I am constantly trying to expand and work on new areas. Right now I'm working on social circle game and bathroom lays.

The point of this post is not as Jlaix has so elequently pointed out to tell you I'm awesome, the point is to show you that if someone like me, is still working on my game consciously. Are you?

Over the last week, how many approaches have you done? How many phone numbers have you gotten? How much have you pushed the boundaries and improved your game. Because I won't stop. I can't. I am dedicated to getting as close to perfection as I can. I realize that I won't ever fuck every girl I open, but I want to maximize my results. I wil not EVER become complacent, because to become complacent means to accept imperfection and I won't ever do that. I know perfection is impossible, but that doesn't stop me from chasing it.

What about you? Are you becoming comfortable or pushing the envelope? What have you done this week to improve your results with women?


S

Humorous High value openers

Humorous High Value Openers


Are you bored of using opinion openers?

Me too…

A few months ago Savoy came up with his secretary opener. You can read about that
Here

And then The Don and I came up with the Child Support opener Which goes like this:

“Hey guys, quick question. I have three child support payments to make and I can only afford to pay one because I like the track… And those kids don’t appreciate shit anyway... One is to this woman I knocked up. The other is her daughter. And there’s my ex-wife. I don’t want to pay the mother or daughter because the other one will find out and bitch about it. And I don’t want to pay my ex-wife because she’s a cunt. What should I do?”


I like it cause you get to drop a C bomb right off the bat… Which is always awesome.

Basically, a humorous high value opener like the above mentioned ones, or Brad P’s Shockers, show A LOT of good qualities about yourself directly off the opener.

They show that you :

Are funny
Don’t care too much about what they think
Are willing to take risks
Are probably pretty cool, as a nerd would be too scared to approach like this.
Aren’t trying to pick them up

Versus an opinion opener which just starts a conversation.

Now I would NOT recommend these openers for beginners as if you don’t have the right body language, and confidence in canned material, these will just come across as socially awkward, or like you are retarded.

But if you are advanced enough that you are already getting results and are bored of opinion openers, give some of these a shot.

S

This Week in Sinns of Attraction:

I want to start posting a guide for the week every Monday to let you guys know what’s going to be on my blog this week.

It won’t be day by day, more like a general guideline of what I’m going to be writing about as the week moves forward.

So this week at some point I will post:

My review of Brad P’s Underground Dating CDs. Brad was nice enough to send me the entire set and I’ve been going through them. I can’t decide if I want to review them collectively or individually. I’ll have to make that decision and then proceed accordingly.

My review of Way Of The Superior Man… Awesome book I’m re-reading and getting soo much more out of.

A list of Inner game questions every MAN needs to answer to himself

An announcement about a change to the bootcamp model. Stay tuned for this one if you are considering taking a program.

An article about the WORST seduction forum on the internet and why I will no longer post there.


An article on humorous high value openers. We have added these for the second addition of Magic Bullets.

A repost of one of Captain Jack’s really money routines I just started using…

And more.

Same Sinn time, Same Sinn station.

S

Girls don't not like Doctors, girls don't like YOU!

So a lot of the time in programs, we will have guys tell me that telling girls they are a Dr, a lawyer, or a firefighter doesn't work.

To this I respond bullshit!

There are certain stereotypes that cause attraction(That's the basis of our 3rd day of seminar on identity) and any stereotype that girls GROW UP being told to marry... are good.

The problem is that if you don't know how to get attraction, because you have no SKILLS, then nothing will work for you. There is 1 thing and 1 thing alone that gets you the girl...

THE WAY YOU MAKE HER FEEL.

That said, if you are playing cold approach i.e going out to public gatherings to interact with groups of women. And you are NOT using your strong identity because in the past it hasn't worked for you... You are shooting yourself in the foot. With a bazooka.

You would not believe how often this happens.

There is no such thing as " Pure" game. Every single advantage that you can use to help you get the girl, you should.


Guys, don't be afraid to talk about all the awesome things you have done, don't be too humble. Seriously if you have ANYTHING in your life that a woman will like you more after learning about, talk about it. Future was a marine and when he took his program, he NEVER talked about his time in the service. Now he talks about it all the time and his results have followed.

Ok rant over...

S

Can a bootcamp help me?

The answer, actually has very little to do with how much experience you have with women. All the TMM guys are great at analyzing where a guy needs help and what situations he is going to succeed in. So whether you are a virgin or have been with 6,7 or 8 hundred women in your life we can help you get to your goals.

So even though the a majority of the guys who got good really fast(Myself, Future, CJ) had done a lot of sets prior to taking a program(I had done 750 or so, Future almost 1000) That’s not really a requirement for success and getting the most out of a program. No instead the best indicator of whether you are going to retain the information and get the success you want, is you.

If you are an apathetic piece of shit, who sits in the seminar portion, not taking notes, and staring off into space with a glazed look in your eyes, or you want to argue about a specific situation, or you want to tell me the material doesn’t work without trying it. Stay the fuck off my programs. Seriously don’t sign up, keep your money and leave me alone. I ONLY want to work with guys who are motivated, dedicated and want to learn.

I don’t care if you want to get hotter girls, have threesomes, have a ONS every night of the week, or get married. Your particular goals for your relationship life, are all great. As far as we can prove, this is the ONLY life you get. So you would be stupid not to pursue happiness with as much zeal and passion as you can. Push the boundaries of what you can have and go after your goals 100%.

Bootcamps SHOULD be a life altering experience, where your ideas about what is possible are shattered forever, and you leave with a roadmap and the tools to get the success you want. They are NOT magic bullets. If you are not a superstud coming into the program, you probably won’t be one coming out. But you will have a map and the tools to succeed, as well as a detailed list of YOUR specific sticking points and ways to get around them. You’ll also have a better idea of how to dress and how to set up YOUR life in a way that the trajectory of your passions and your path in life, leads you to be surrounded by beautiful women, while developing the skillset to bring them into your life.

If after a bootcamp, you do our prescribed workout course of 50 sets a week for the next 6 weeks, you will become internalized, and you will now ALWAYS understand where you are in the model, as well as having polished a HUGE amount of the material that we taught you.

Bootcamps, are like information overload, and if it weren’t for the fact that most people have regular jobs that require them to be at work on Thurs, and Mon, I would like to stretch the teaching out over 5 days so that students get more time to digest the material. I probably have 30 hours of seminar info JUST on regular game disregarding Stripper and hired gun tactics, Day Game stuff, and Same night lay stuff.
Ultimately, I would love to teach a week long event Tony Robbins style where I go over EVERYTHING from Inner game to sexual techniques and relationship management. Just not too sure what the market for something like that would be like.

Finally if I could address every potential student out there reading this, I would give this list of ways to get the most for your money, maximize your results and shave time off your learning curve while at a TMM program.

1. Be completely honest with yourself and the instructors. We will know when you are lying and more importantly you are only hurting yourself. Be real about what you don’t understand, and what you have trouble with.
2. Ask questions. If you don’t understand something, ask. I may ask you to hold the question until a break or until I finish making a point, but I will ALWAYS get to questions. Questions let me know you are paying attention and trying to figure things out for yourself.
3. Take a copious amount of notes. I still looked over my notes from my program for a year and a half after I took it. I was assisting Mystery on bootcamps, and STILL found new nuggets of gold in my original notes. Make it a habit to review your notes once a week every week after your program for a year.
4. Assume everything you know about women is wrong. I love discussing why things work, but I HATE arguing and trying to convince students that their beliefs that “ it’s hard to take girls home the same night” or “ Girls aren’t like that” are wrong. I don’t have time to argue as I have to squeeze everything I think can help an individual group into 15 hours including exercises. If you want an explanation for something, I’ll provide it, I wot however have a 15 minute argument in class.
5. Be willing to try ANYTHING. The students who get the most out of the course, are the ones who push themselves out of their comfort zones. The ones who take the big mixed set, rather than wait for the easy 2 set.
6. Don’t make excuses. They aren’t hot enough is not a reason to not open the set. You only have 2 nights with us in field. That means every set you don’t take is a set I could be analyzing what you are doing wrong, and you could be polishing material for a time in the future when a women you do want comes along.
7. Don’t take instructor feedback personally. We are NOT here to make you feel bad. Every single piece of advice I give is to help YOUR game. I don’t get any pleasure in telling a guy to wax his eyebrows or tell you to be louder. Take it as it’s meant to help you achieve the goals that led you to take a program in the first place.
8. Have a good attitude. Be enthusiastic and excited that you get the chance to have professionals give you feedback. Tell us you want to open sets, rather than waiting for us to push you. Come up with more ideas during the story-telling exercises, Write down what happened at night and have questions ready for debrief the next day.
9. Make friends with the other guys in the class. First because they may live in your area and you can make wings, and second because the better the atmosphere in the classroom, the better the bootcamp goes.
10. Have fun. Find some sort of joy in the entire process. It’s meeting women, not getting a root canal.

S

Blogging from the Miami Bootcamp.

Here's a few quick hit thoughts from the first day of the Miami program yesterday before we start today.

1. Miami has AMAZINGLY beautiful women wearing almost nothing. Future and I were wondering why we don't live here. Then we drove around and realized that it's kinda gross.

2. Trying to bathroom pull doesn't always work. I tried last night and it didn't work... sadness.

3. Working with future is awesome, I forgot how much fun it is to have my best friend helping out.

4. Drivers in Miami are very aggressive and drive in a style unlike anywhere else.

5. I hate having really ON nights on bootcamps, as I can't take advantage of the multitude of girls trying to get into my pants. Carnal, Future and myself were unreal on last night and ended up leaving alone as our first priority is always helping students. Which leads to all the ON sets leaving...

6. I got asked if I was trying to seduce a girl from last field report by text. She also said it was working. Married girl also texted to ask me to marry her.

7. It is extremely rewarding when guys start to undertsand that you can talk to girls and it's not as scary as they have built it up to be.

8. I hate when people approach me and ask me if I'm Sinn...

9. Miami is a very diverse ethnic city.

10. I am soo Angry about the way the Suns-Spurs series went I may give up watching the rest of the playoffs....


S

The New Pick Up Center of the World

Is Dallas.

That’s where I moved, and over the last 5 days myself, El Topo, and Captain Jack either together or separately have pulled every night. CJ and I are almost at the point where we will pull EVERY night. It’s unreal!

I have NEVER winged with anyone who I’ve clicked with like this. It’s scary that we have 2 of the top guys in the World and a big time up and comer in El topo rolling every night…

We have the sickest crew EVER…

Me, CJ, El Topo, plus sometime appearances from Twitchy, Fidelio, PlayerT, APB etc…

We rule this fucking city and chodes may never reproduce ever again.

S

LR From Chode-Out to Lay

This is my 3rd new lay in 9 days. I usually don’t post LRs but I want to document my choding out pre-lay so I can remember not to do it EVER again.

So I hit the venue with CJ. Actually CJ falls asleep and I get a text as I’m walking into the venue. Ok. I can watch the Suns-Spurs game and do some approaches.

I see a 2 set of 9s, short, blonde, big boobs. I want them but they are walking the opposite direction and I try not to do moving sets in a venue as they usually will just keep moving.

So I watch the game for a bit until I get mad about the stupid ass suspension of Amare Stoudemire,

I roll to the other bar. There are the 2 9s. And here comes the flood of Approach Anxiety. I step behind them to hover near a group so I can bounce off them. I start texting myself a set list. Then a dude opens me on my phone. I chat him as it’s always better to have social proof. Then a 5’10 girl appears to open me.

She’s ok. Nothing special then I look down and see massive Sinn stunners. It’s super on. She’s giggling and biting her lip. I start thinking logistics to move her. There’s a bathroom attendent so scratch that… fuck. I’ve been listening to Brad P’s CDs on bathroom pulls so I have a mission. I need to bang this girl quickly.

Later CJ and I talk about a new concept I’m thinking about calling it the sexual hook point. Basically it’s the point where buying temperature is soo fucking high that you can start escalating like… well something that escalates quickly. I still don’t have a good analogy…

Anyway I chode out for the first time,by merging her into the set with the two 9s. The set goes nowhere as the 2 9s are both married and have kids. Whatever post pregnancy work out plan they are on should be mandatory. I run some huge cock game and move the girl(who’s married btw) around the bar.

I chode out again by not getting her out to my car or out of the venue into an alley way. Fuck!!! I get her on a patio and she walks away from me.

Here’s CJ as he finally rolls up and we walk around. The married girl re-opens me by telling me she missed me. The 2 9s are there so I go into my default J-plotline mode. Married girl is floored and would have been all over me, but her phone rings and it’s the husband. She disappears for 35 minutes and I work the peer group. They play in some sports league together. I run some Identity stuff and shoot the shit. I really need a better answer to why I moved to Dallas than “ I like it here”. Married girl doesn’t return and the dudes roll to the other side.

I’m back with CJ and we hit a few sets. I use Horsegirl for like the 3rd time ever and it goes well. I aam purposely trying to open badly as a social pressure experiment. I want to stand in the full force of the social pressure as a way of building value. So I am purposely overnegging and fucking sets up to create social pressure. It’s amusing. My favorite new experiment is what I call Future style mixed sets. Future is super gangster and hits on the girl in front of the guys. It’s seriously my favorite thing to watch as the girls get SUPER attracted and the guys get super pissed. I use this as a social pressure experiment. Future is a much better fighter than me though, so I may end up getting killed…

I open another tall 5’9 Blond with huge-uns. It goes well except when I make a comment about her ring and she says it’s for her brother who died in Iraq… Whoops. I recover and dismiss her to come back to her later.

I get opened by an 80 year old women. Seriously she was a million years old. She was wearing an orange dress, a green bag and ruby red shoes. As I’m getting bored to death, I see a short hottie who’s hair matches mine. She’s laughing at me. I excuse myself from the old bag and open her with “ I hate you” Then I bitch about how she left me there with the old bag. Her friends are there and I introduce myself as “ The guy who is hitting on their friend”. They roll to the bathroom. It’s still on though. It’s always on.

I want to throw up due to the end of the Suns-Spurs game.

I rejoin the married chick and her 2 orbiters. She wants to dance. I figure I have a second chance at pulling her somewhere. I don’t dance… I have a series of seizures to music. It’s ugly but amuses CJ to no end. At least he didn’t tape it. This time. I try to pull her and she goes back to the table. Game Over…

I go back CJ is in set with some hair stylist. I make mock fucking motions behind her to amuse myself. I finally introduce myself and she makes fun of my handshake. Doesn’t she realize I’m from LA? We do the limp fish. The short hottie is proximiting next to us. I re-open by grabbing her.

I run Da Hunter’s do we look good together routine, which is money BTW… her friend tells us to take a walk with her. We go out to the patio, the friend tells me to lean against the wall then tells the shortie to get next to me and says that’s her make-out spot. I tell her I’m not ready to make out yet, because I need comfort and trust first. I run Strawberry fields. 27 strawberries… I start break through comfort… I tell her she’s amazing and sucks for not just being hot, and I mean this even though I’m trying to fuck her. Her other friend comes out and says they are leaving. I throw up a hail mary, “you should stay” comment. Her friends bounce to pull up the car. I set up a date for Weds. I tell her we should freak her friends out by pretending to make-out, she responds we could just make-out. Ok. I push her away and say that’s all she gets.

I go back in Married girl is gone. I have a short temper tantrum,

Then CJ is opened by a HOT black girl he and Player T had # closed a few months back. Then her friend rolls up. Her friend is literally the hottest black girl I have ever seen in my life. I am being obnoxious and super sexual. The girl who had been # closed is loving it and calling me an idiot. We join them and their 3rd friend who is getting gamed horribly by a guy with a painted on moustache who is telling her she is “Wifey Material” and that “ He’s never looked in anyone’s eyes like this”… I throw up a little in my mouth, and feel better about myself.

No routines just alpha and constantly telling her I’m trying to fuck her. Oh and a lot of huge cock game. Including the Bear story that I tell terribly. She’s thinks it’s hilarious. Fuck you Temag and Future I can’t tell it that badly. I seed the bounce with “ I’m not ready for the night to be over.” She agrees. The girls try to lose the chode and then we lose CJ. I find him and ask if he wants to pull as it seems on with him and the Uber hottie too.

We walk outside and I tell them we should go after party at my place and do some shots. They agree. I hop in the M3 with CJ and tell them to follow us. I drive slow, which is a major pain in the ass with this car…

We get in to my place I pour some of the Raspberry Vodka I had bought earlier that very day. Then I tell my girl I want to show her the tour… I start on the balcony and quickly get to the bedroom. She won’t come in. I put he drink down and try to kiss her. She says” I thought we weren’t kissing anymore.” I reply “ I lied”. I push her on the bed. I start escalating. When I start taking out her tits, she asks what I’m doing. I reply “ getting you naked so I can take advantage of you.” I escalate and try to finger her. No go. She’s “ Not ready” she says. Cool… I dry hump her, then bust a The Don by taking my pants off. She’s wearing a skirt. I rub myself against her clit and tell her to say she wants to fuck me… She tells me to get a condom and the deal is done.

Total time in this lay 2hrs… The keys were sexual framing and talk. Not flinching at any flinch points and diffusing congruence tests with humor. She was from Zimbabwe and super hot.. She also tried to tell me it was only a ONS then asked me when I was going to call her….

CJ and I then roll to Steak and Shake.

I’m still mad I didn’t bang that married girl at the bar, but she texted me this morning. The shortie texted me last night to tell me I’m a sexy bitch…

Good times.

S

Are you a closer?

Are you a closer?


One of the biggest mental hurdles, I have ever had to deal with, was being willing to push and make things awkward. Looking back now, I don’t worry about it, but when I was starting out I had all sorts of bullshit in my head about how long it takes to sleep with a girl, how much work you have to put into it, how some girls weren’t “like that” etc…

Looking back now I see that it was all complete bullshit!!! The only difference in my results now vs my results then, was how far I was willing to push.

We’ve all had those “ Oh shit” moments where you realize the girl likes you, but you have no idea what to do next. You figure that if you sit there and build comfort for the next 4 hours, maybe you’ll be able to get a phone # and see her again or bounce with her and her friends, or steal her away to your PUA lair.

Bad, bad, bad. In order to get the results you want, you need to be a fucking closer. Like Mariano Rivera. That means leading and knowing where you are going. TMM is an amazing roadmap, as you know the steps to get a girl into a sexual relationship. But there is more to it than just the Emotional progression model. Which brings me to;

Mistake # 1. Not knowing what outcome you want from the interaction. Do you want a ONS, you better start seeding that bounce. Do you want to get a bunch of phone # s and follow up that week? You better start some merging some sets. What a TON of guys do wrong is they try to dogmatically adhere to the structure of TMM and they forget about what they want to do with the girl they are talking to.

Solution: Figure out what you are trying to do with this girl, before you approach her… Is your goal to get into deep comfort and do a date? Or is it to try to pull her into the bathroom. Both goals require different implementation and more importantly different levels of aggressiveness.

Mistake # 2 Not closing EVERY set you are in for some purpose. If the girl doesn’t respond sexually, or I seems like she might flake, # close her ANYWAY. Worst case scenario you can practice your phone game. Best case scenario it turns out you can’t read minds and you and she get together.

Solution: # close every set you are in, that doesn’t blow you out.

Mistake # 3 Trying to finesse sets. This was my MAJOR sticking point for most of my PUA career. I probably didn’t ask a girl for her # directly for like 2 years. Instead I would bait and if the girl didn’t take the bait, I would bait again. Most of the time this works, and it IS more solid if she offers her # rather than you asking. But some girls need to be asked, because they aren’t socially brave enough to be the agrressor. Or they don’t want you to think they are a slut.

Solution: Try to finesses things, but don’t be afraid to use force, or social pressure. Don’t underestimate the power of telling a girl what to do.

Mistake # 3 Not setting up dates before hand. If you seed the date or bounce, things will go A ot smoother. In my head there is a ticking clock to 25 minutes so I know when to get her # if it has happened organically already. It doesn’t mean I leave the set, but it means I get her contact info incase the bounce doesn’t work or we get separated. Don’t lose sets you don’t have to.

Solution: Make sure you get a phone # at the 25 minute mark.

Mistake # 4 Not escalating physically. All our routines are just bullshit baffles brains to disguise our escalating of touch. Make sure you touch early, touch often and keep escalating. Try to make out with every set you are in for more than 15 minutes. Women will actually respect you more, the more you aren’t afraid to touch them. It is much better to be the touchy guy than the cool guy who waits to touch her. Show her you are a leader and a closer.

Solution: Learn a touch progression and follow it every time. Don’t be afraid to pull the trigger.


Mistake # 5 Listening to objections. Myth busters time, there is no such thing as the perfect pick up. In every interaction, you will get some clunkiness where a irl will give you reasons she can’t come home with you or meet up etc… Don’t ever logically acknowledge these. Instead tease her, touch her, make out with her and lead.

Solution: Next time you get an objection ignore it and lead her to the conclusion you want. Change her mood, not her mind.

Avoiding these mistakes will get you well on your way to becoming a hardcore closer not just a PUA.

S

Book Review I am That

You are not a PUA, or a man, or even your body, instead you are the essence of the world and since you have never been born you can never die.


That’s the overall premise of the brilliant book I am that conversations with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj.

Maharaj supports no religion or ideology, instead choosing to express his ideas to all who come to him.

He was told by his guru to focus only on the feeling “I am” and says it led him to inner peace. Throughout the book there are constant references to I am as well as an overall strategy for achieving that which you already have. The book is more about peeling back the layers of falseness that we have identified with and revealing the truth, than about finding something external.

Often times I found my head feeling fuzzy while reading this book explaining in such simplicity things that seem so complex. I had to remind myself a few times to listen to what I was reading rather than letting myself cast jusgement on it.

This book is not for everyone, if you can’t stifle the urge to argue logically with the points Maharaj makes, you will not gain the insight this amazing book has to offer. If you are going to read this book make sure that you do so with an entirely open mind.

Here’s some ideas I really enjoyed:

Nothing lasts, the only way to immortality, is to accept death and see the end in the beginning and the beginning in the end.

We walk around unaware until something goes wrong and we become aware of pain or pleasure.When self control becomes second nature, we shift our focus to deeper levels of existence.

The state of craving keeps you from having what you want. Nothing of value can happen to a mind that knows what it wants.For nothing the mind can visualize is of much value.

Thought, feeling and action must be as one, and simultaneous with the situation that calls for them.

Self identifcation is the cause of bondage, as all identifications you make of yourself are fleeting and false. Just be.

Freedom from desire, means the compulsion to satisfy is absent.

Strive without seeking, struggle without greed.

Give up all questions except one “who am I” as the only fact we an be certain of is that you are.

The I am is certain, the I am this is not.

I don’t get flustered, I just do the needful. I do not worry about the future. A right reaction and response are my nature. I do not stop to think about what to do. I act and move on. Results do not affect me. I do not even care if they are good or bad. Whatever they are I deal with them. If they come back, I deal with them afresh.

Trust me when I say you are divine.

Your expectation of something dramatic and unique is merely hindering your self-realization.


You believe the world to be objective, when it is entirely a projection of your psyche. Do not confuse the inner for the outer or the outer for the inner.

It is your very search for happiness that makes you miserable.

Act and think in harmony with the whole.

Above all you love yourself and want yourself secure. Don’t be ashamed of that. Instead understand fully what you love. As it is not the body or the mind, it is life.

Whatever happens because I am, all reminds you that you are.

Love is will, the will to share your happiness with all.

Only contentment can make you happy. Desire fulfilled breeds more desire.

There is trouble only when you cling to something. When you hold onto nothing, no trouble arises. Give up all and you gain all.

Freedom from desire is eternity. All attachment implies fear, for all things are transient. And fear makes one a slave.

Self-knowledge is detachment. All craving is due to a sense of insufficiency. When you know that you lack nothing, desire ceases.

Before you were born, you expected to live according to a plan which you yourself had laid down. Your own will is the backbone of your destiny.

Suffering is due entirely to clinging or reisisting; it is a sign of our unwillingness to move on, to flow with life.

We seek pleasure while avoiding pain. Since pain is the the denial of the self, and the self stands in the way of true happiness, the wholehearted acceptance of pain releases the springs of happiness.

Your concerns with the future, is due to fear of pain and desire for pleasure.

It is only when you fully accept responsibility for the world you live in which has been projected onto you, by you your fear comes to an end. Only when you accept responsibility for the world you live in and watch it’s creation, preservation and destruction that you can escape from your imaginary bondage.

Faith is not blind, it is the willingness to try.

As long as you are pleases with the lesser, you cannot have the highest.

Abandon all desires, backgrounds, cultures, thinking patterns, even the idea of being a man, woman or human. Don’t think of yourself as anything. You are complete here and now. You need absolutely nothing.

Your outer life is unimportantl, it is what you are inwardly that matters. Your inner joy and peace, you have to earn.

What is limited in time and space and applicable to one person only is not real. The real is for all and forever.

You can have all the emotions you want, but beware of reactions of induced emotions. Be entirely self-determined and rule from within, and not from without.

Action delayed is action abandoned. All preparation is for the future, you cannot prepare for the present.

Do what you believe in and believe in what you do.



Overall, this may be the most amazing book I have ever read.

This book has helped me to develop a calm inside of myself and to detach myself from the outcome of interactions. I still enjoy them, but the constant trying to get, is gone. I don’t beat myself up anymore, because I know that I am complete and nothing can change that.

Highly recommended.

S

The hook-up...

No not that kind of hook up.

I mean the kind where a friend or a friend of a friend, knows a guy or girl and you may be able to get some free shit.

We live ina hook-up society where everyone is always talking or bragging about how "hooked up" they are.

I for one am anti the entire process. I for one would rather pay than have to deal with the annoyance of asking for the hook up or the complications that said hook up will entail. I like to keep things simple. I don't want shit for free and I enjoy my friends without them having to do shit for me.

Even more frustrating about the entire culture of getting hooked up, is the fact that the hook up never seems to go smoothly, either the person who is supposed to hook it up isn't there, or their boss is there or whatever the fuck... And it doesn't go don thus creating false expectations. Instead , I propose that we all just stop. Pay for the things you want, save for the things you want but can't afford and don't take advantage of your friends...

S

Funniest Instructor moments part 2: Captain Jack

CJ has a rule about pick-up which states that you should disregard anything that doesn't help you in a pick up.

So when we were in Miami late last year, and sitting in seminar I expected that to be his reaction when I asked him about the number # 1 rule of pick up.

I forgot however that we had been talking all weekend about keeping the pimp hand strong(we listen to a lot of rap).

So in class as I asked him he looked at me confused and motioned his hand in a smacking motion....


It was awesome...

It was also really funny when as I smoked a cigarette in Australia and complained of being addicted, he while drinking a big ass 2 liter of diet coke responded " Yeah it must suck to be addicted to something."

S

Funniest instructor moments Pt 1

I've been thinking about all the funny things that have happened on bootcamps over the years and with other instructors, so I decided to start posting my favorite memories of each instructor.

Starting with Savoy.

He'll remember this one pretty easily. After we had wrapped up a Vegas Bootcamp sometime in 2005, he and I had a 7 am flight back to San Diego. Instead of going to bed, we decided to drink and party...

This led to Savoy opening a set outside the clube Light, and when the disgusting girls had the nerve to ask if he was hitting on them, he replied with my favorite quote ever

" Yes. You are short fat and ugly. Please come to bed with me."

It was awesome. And later after I almost died of exhaustion, he ended up bouncing a really hot model/actress for after hours food...

Great times...

S

Explaining indifference

A lot of people seem to not get the type of indifference that I am talking about, so I will now attempt to explain it in as much brevity as possible, so I can get back to work.

You want to be indifferent to the outcome of every situation. Desireless to quote the Tao Of Steve. Because when you have an outcome in mind that you are trying to get, you become stilted and desperate seeming. Instead you want to go in and see what happens, while following a great game plan like those taught by TMM, Brad P, etc...

You need to be indifferent, like John Wooden said "you don't want anyone to be able to tell from the demeanor in the locker room if we won or lost."

So be process oriented rather than results oriented, while making real connections with people and not being indifferent as a tactic in an interaction.

Because indifference as a tactic, will not work, people will just think you are an asshole or shy or weird.

Instead let go of your outcome. Stop caring soo much. I had back to back new lays the last two nights and you can't tell from talking to me. I am always in the same positive, productive frame of mind. Whether I just got laid or blown out, my frame is impenetrable. Because I don't allow interacting with women to affect the rest of my life. That is when you become a creepy social robot and eventually becomes like filling a bucket with a hole in it.

Bottom line Don't get your validation in life from women. Get your validation from within(Inner Game if you will) and then pursue your relationship goals as a fun addition to your life.

S

Re-post "The difference that makes the difference"

Here's a great article by Brent of DYD fame.

I really like his take on inner game and indifference.

Enjoy,

S

29 Apr 2006 - The difference that makes the difference

Indifference (the difference that makes the difference)


1: unbiased impartial unconcern
2: apathy demonstrated by an absence of emotional reactions [syn: emotionlessness,
impassivity, impassiveness, phlegm, stolidity, unemotionality]

3: the trait of lacking enthusiasm for or interest in things generally [syn: apathy,
spiritlessness]

4: the trait of remaining calm and seeming not to care; a casual lack of concern [syn:
nonchalance, unconcern]



Indifference is the strongest force in the universe. It makes everything it touches
meaningless. Love and hate don't stand a chance against it. - Joan Vinge



This is my favorite subject!!

I've always said that if men would master this one thing, they would no longer have
ANY problems with women. It would change the entire world of dating overnight.

This is one of the most important techniques in creating attraction. When used properly,
it drives women crazy.

It's the,

"I don't really care"

or

"I'm not attached to the outcome"

frame of mind that they're be attracted to. You seem like you don't have a care in the
world.

Being a little indifferent is actually healthy for you. You avoid most of the peaks of life
and the unproductive emotions that usually sidetrack you. In fact, you'll be able to turn
your emotions on and off like a light switch; living a pretty smooth, drama free life.

Indifference causes a woman to feel comfortable with you. It's the push-pull thing.
You're not pushing and this is pulling her in, and she's becoming emotional.

Use the word 'Maybe' and the phrase "we'll talk about" when speaking to them.

Example:

Maybe we'll get together

Maybe we'll have drinks

Maybe you can meet us later

There's enough yes in maybe for you to seem indifferent, yet interested; and enough No
to appear as a challenge- just out of her reach.



Using "we'll talk about" is also effective. Again, this is non-committal yet alluring.

Example:

"Give me a call and we'll talk about getting
together sometime"

Never agree to anything. You're telling her that the two of you will discuss the next
step, if there is one. You haven't made a final decision or been convinced yet. It's just
another way of conveying your power.

Be careful with indifference though. You can become so good at it that women won't
think they have a chance with you. Basically, you'll be back in the same place you
started.

lMR and age

A wing and I pulled last night, and we both got LMR. Then as we were trying to figure out why, I started to look at the things all the girls have in common(besides vaginas).

The answer that both of us came to, was that every girl we had gotten LMR from( That we couldn't get through) was in the 18-22 range. And it makes a ton of sense as they may be having their first attempt at a ONS so in an end game situation when they haven't been in it before, they freeze up and don't do anything because it's easier to stay in their comfort zone. there are of course exceptions to this, but they generally tend to be the girls who are more in touch with their sexuality and more comfortable in those situations. At 18 most girls simply haven't had sex with THAT many guys and may have never been picked up before...

Interesting food for thought and I like to hear others experiences as well.

S

Being genuine or the emotional honesty switch

Recently as I have been dealing with a lot of car dealers and internet marketers, I have noticed something pretty interesting. For the last few months as Future and I have been tweaking Breakthrough comfort, I have talked a lot about emotional honesty. I believe that it is one of the most important factors in both attraction and comfort.

A woman has to be able to trust that you are not lying to her or trying to manipulate her. She has to be able to trust that everything you do, is being done because that is the way you feel. Furthermore you're emotions have been the driving factor to make you pre-selected by women, a leader of men and a protector of loved ones.

What I noticed when I was shopping for a car is the way I feel when it's obvious that some is not being geniune. For awhile I was looking into doing a reality show with a couple of other guys and a friend of mine and I referred to this third guy as " an agenda guy" meaning that he was always trying to get something and never was "just himself". If you want to feel this try shopping on Melrose sometime. The sales people will tell you whatever you try on looks good. There's another street like that in Miami where a sales girl tried to convince Tenmag that a shirt he was wearing looked good when his tuft of chest hair was sticking out and she added a gold star of David necklace.

Now the same way that we feel this when someone is tryig to manipulate us, women feel the same thing and when it is applied to the area of dating, it goes against everything they want to believe. Women want to believe in the idea of chemistry, that some guys they like and others nothing is there. This is not 100% the truth. There are definetly some women who you will get along with better than others, but the factors that cause attraction and sexual chemistry can be manufactored. That's not a pretty sentiment, but unfortunately it's the truth.

Women cannot feel that they are being made to be attracted to someone. They have to be able to live under the assumption that "It just happened".

There are a few ways to convey this to women:

1. Do EVERYTHING you say you are going to do. If you tell a women that you are going to do a stand uo show, show her the proof of it. The biggest key to convincing a woman you are honest is folow through. This is the reason that guys who live in their Mom's basements and play in garage bands can get girls for ONS but their relationships fall apart, you can only sell potential for so long.

2. Don't explain WHY you are doing anything. The right explanation is always "it felt like the right thing to do at the time." You never got a guidebook on how to be human, you just follow your emotions.

3. Prep her as to your intentions for the interaction. I now tell EVERY set that i am trying to get in their pants. By letting her know at some point that this will be a sexual interaction, you give her the freedom and choice to leave if she is not interested. But if she stays she has now consented to being sexual.

S

Super busy trying to find a car.

Had to go car shopping all day, so this will be a quick update before I head out for the night.

Car shopping sucks. I tested a shelby mustang, a Cadillac CTS and a BMW 650 and am leaning heavily toward the BMW I may not be able to afford. Car salesmen were pretty chill no real pressure, but they did call after I walked out and told me to call back asap. I obviously didn't as I left for a reason....

Anyway I'll be game related tomor.

S

Waiting for my stuff to get here...

I have to sit here and wait for my boxes of crap to arrive.

So I'm stuck here sitting in my living room which doesn't have a couch until tomor, and waiting for the cable guy to get here in their lovely 3 hour window. On the bright side I worked out already and have been remarkably energetic despite not sleeping last night after a date with the new city girl and a friend.

I'm working on buiding an epic social circle here, so I have been actively focusing on inviting girls I have met out EVERY night. That means that every girl i talk to fits a role somewhere in my life. It may just be as a friend or as social proff, but they will fit in somehwere and at the very least help me get more girls. I highly suggest that everyone does this, as the easiest way to get girls is to show up at a venue with them already and then meet new women and introduce them to the ones you are already with. In Marketing they call this starting a feeding frenzy. It's already working awesome, and I forgot how much easier it is to game when I don't have a massive cock farm of 57 guys with me on bootcamp. Obviously that's an exaggeration as our bootcamps capacity is set at 12, but it looke funnier. i do however see the need to address it so that no one on the wide space we call the internet actually thinks we do 57 guy bootcamps... Ok back to our regularly scheduled blog post.

Any way I am really bored of waiting and still have to test drive a new car, get to the bank and fax the NDAs and stuff from London to the LA office.

I am loving the new city by the way, and am wondering why I ever spent so long in LA. Currently my plan is to stay here a year or two and then move to another city. I'd like to ultimately live in At least 10 cities in my life including an international one like Greece or Brazil. So far I have lived in 3, so 7 more to go.

London went really well and it's great to hang out with Sheriff again and get to meet AFC Adam(Who rocks) and see Rokker from the Sweden program awhile back. He's gonna be really good and you guys should watch the various baords for posts from him.

I have successfully beaten jetlag 100% as I felt it neither in London nor back here. I have noticed an interesting thing though as I can sleep really well on the way to international cities and not on the way back. I think maybe I get too much sleep the night before coming back or something...

I want to recommit to daily updates here as well as getting some original content from guys like In10se, Toecutter, and others on this blog. I will also be posting a lot more on the TMM forum as I have been slacking on there and the level of discussion seemed to be dropping rapidly.

I lost all contact with HB perfect which sucks, but atleast I learned that I was drinking too much, and since then I have been much much more in control. So in all losing a girl you really are into ALWAYS sucks and it will take awhile for me to get 100 % over it, but I learned something important about myself.

I've been on another reading kick and just finished "Unhooked how young women pursue sex, delay love and lose at both" which was the most agenda pushing book I have read in a long time, but a good reference into hook up culture in the girls own words in parts... I'm now reading " I Am That" and " Women On Top" both of which are great. Especially I am that which is really life changing stuff. I don't know if this is a universal experience, but I always feel light headed when reading really heady philisophical stuff, almost as if I can feel the wiring in my head shifting... I might just be weirdly in touch with my mind body connection.

I need to make more money I've decided, so if anyone has suggestions on ways to do that, holla at your boy Sinn@themysterymethod.com. And no it's not because Savoy doesn't pay me well, it's because I really like the idea of financial independence. And want to actively work toward creating that....

My skateboard did arrive today which is awesome and I will be using it as soon as the Time Warner(Who I hate as a corportation and their service as well, but they are the only cable provider in my building) gets here and installs my cable for the TV which isn't here yet...

Awesomness all around. Overall I am in a great mood and despite nothing going right in my move, life is great right now.

I hope the same can be said for all my readers.

Best,

S

Passive acceptance of the frame.

Frame control is something that a lot of people talk about, but I noticed that a lot of people have missed out on some basic points of frame control outside of basic reframing.

So I wanted to write about an often untalked about aspect of frame control, and that is; acceptance of the frame. Frames are simply the underlying meaning of a given interaction. If a girl asks me if this is a pickup line, she has set the underlying meaning to be that I am trying to pick her up. If I respond to that in any way I am accepting the idea that I may be trying to pick her up.

It works the other way too. In fact I would say that one of the major un-spoken reasons that negs, cocky and funny, teasing girls, works is because they set the implied frame that YOU are cooler than the girl. So long as she does not argue, the frame has now been set and any interaction that occurs between you guys happens inside of that frame.

The same thing can happen if she laughs and giggles when you accuse her of hitting on you. Or if you start getting sexual and she does not resist.

You don't need her to be agreeing with any of the frames, you are setting, you just need her to not disagree.

S

Girls, girls, girls....

A lot of people have talked about the change in my demeanor over the last few months of this year, and a lot of people who haven't seen me in awhile had a lot of misconceptions about me from the way I had acted when I was still an approach coach.

ANd the reason is I realized that this area of life, doesn't need to be rushed. I've been with A LOT of women, and I realized that there are very few girls that stick out and are remembered as more than a fling. The interactions mere techniqualities. A chance to test a new routine or LMR strategy. A chance to see if being patient was better than getting LMR and dealing through it. Even longer things like my fling with my neigbor in SD Amanda were so blatently " Just hooking up" That she saw me bring home almost a dozen other girls and dropped by one night while the other girl I was hooking up with in my building was on the couch with me. And these stories color my memories of her rather than the way she bit her lip when she was turned on or the way she laughed at my dumb jokes...

And the girls I have met and "fucked, shagged, had sex with, romanced, ltr'd, MLTR'd and 3-somed dated,seen and been talking to". Have been amazing and different and in the case of 2 maybe the WORST people I've met. I had a girl named Laura made me think and was intelligent and really hot with pierced nipples, and she had blown me and then the next time we hung out told me she thought she was going crazy and then later shave her head and dye it blue... But She sticks out and so few girls do, it almost bugs me.

Actually as I'm writing this, the new girl from the new city from now on ngnc, has been texting and I have been twisting every SINGLE thing she says into a qualifier to the point that her last text was

" When are you going to trust me that I'm superior to most"

The new girl has personality, in the same way as Annie my last LTR. There's a definite formula to picking me up, and it relies heavily on smart ass comments..

Anyway Not sure what I was trying to say here, so I hope it was useful or entertaining to someone.

It makes me happy when I read it and that's all I can ask for.

S

I'm still alive...

Sorry for the lack of updates, I have been SUPER busy with the move.

Right now I'm waiting for the movers and the salvation army to come pick up all my shit.

I accidentally turned my tv off too soon and now I'm catching up on Curb your enthusiasm DVDs that CJ introduced me to.

The set up in the new city is going well and I'm starting to learn more about myself and the ways I seperate girls in my head.

No matter how many girls I am seeing etc... I never feel completely comfortable until I have a girl who feels like GF material or that I am able to develop an actual crush on. It takes a specific combination of personality and looks to spark that kind of interest.

I have that now in my new city, she's awesome, smart, hot, witty. She even told me to pay more attention to her friend when I was picking her up, because she said she liked me and wanted her friend to as well.

Unfortuately as is the trend in my life as soon as a girl like this pops up, I head to another country for 6 days. This time it's London for workapalooza 07.

It's weird that I no longer live in LA. I'll no longer fly into Burbank, and I won't have a car or a bed in here anymore. Weird.

I helped at The Don's bootcamp this weekend and it went really well. This is the last bootcamp where I live in LA, now it will go back to hotels or Savoy's house....

My move is not going as planned, as my stuff was supposed to be picked up on Thursday and wasn't leading me to now being rushed and waiting for my TV to be picked up and I need to donate my car... So much left to do before my 5 PM flight to London tomor.

I have some new game breakthroughs to post about later this week.

S

Tyler on Big Egos

By everyone's favorite Guru, Tyler from RSD...

Everything that he talks about here is really applicable to inner game and getting yourself into the right frame of mind to suceed without needing to consciously focus on tactics and techniques. It's real fascinating stuff, but will require a lot of introspection. But ultimately Inner psychology is one of the three tenets of what I call maximized game.

My thoughts being that you need skillset, you have to get social experience in and you have to do cold approach to do it, unless you have a social circle with 500-1000 groups of people to interact with to make sure you tweak a variety of situations. And you have to anticapate some luke warm to bad reactions, and if you never have to see those people ever again, it can be better.

Then you need inner psychology, because as you get better, depending on your level of inner game(confidence) prior to this, you will start to find your inner issues coming up in field. They may be something like being too scared to physically escalate, leaving the set whne everything is going really well, not asking a girl for a phone # etc... But they will come up. And you need to deal with them to continue making progress, and to continue on the road to becoming a happier more self actualized person, who will attract more women.

Then you need to develop a lifestyle that brings you into the company of the women you are trying to meet. That means not just focusing on cold PU, but developing a social circle, throwing parties, taking courses and learning new things etc... That way you are around the girls you want and have the skillset and inner psycholofgy necessary to make the most of it.

That's maximum results.

You can read Tyler's article it's the second one down as of writing
Here

Packing is not fun...

I'm sick of packing and I am leaving like half my shit.

So far I have boxed up all mys shoes(1 full LARGE box I'm embarassed.) All my movies, books etc... except for I AM THAT which I am attempting to get through right now. I swear I need some easy reading soon. And my Surround sound system. I still need to figure out how to ship a plasma TV without it getting smashed, sending me spiraling into a tornado of suicidal rage. The moving company guy reccomended a freight company, if you have any ideas email Sinn@TheMysterymethod.com.

I also ordered some new shit:

A new King sized bed and mattress. I have been on a box spring and a mattress forever. I have literally never owned a bed with a frame in my life. Even as a kid I only got one because I broke it jumping on it and shit. So then I never had another bed... Until now. I am super excited it's a leather modern frame bed that rocks. I had to switch the color scheme to match the color of the walls and the carpet. That is the least masculine sentence I have or will ever type in my life.

A new TV for the bedroom, I've been in a studio for 11 months since I moved out from living with roomates. My first one bedroom, also exciting. But I need to get a TV for in bed watching, a staple of my dating life.

A new sofa. My last sofa came from target and was not conducive to fun....

A bar and Bar stools, they are really modern and look like they belong in the standard. I now realize that the large quantities of alcohol are not something I can rely on the internet to produce.

And some more shit, I fly out to sign the lease and lease a car as my 95 Mustang which is missing a rear view mirror and the ability to drive without shaking will not be making the trip. Also neither will a ton of my shit which I am donating to the Salvation Army. I try to donate as much usable stuff as I can as I used to SHOP at the Salvation Army, so giving back makes me feel like I'm giving back in a weird shallow way. Anyway I fly out Tues night and then fly back Fri afternnon to help at The Don's seminar. It's good I'll still have a place to crash here, rather than having to crash on a couch or in a hotel bed.

Then I fly to London for a crazy six days of 2 routine consults( Where we give each student a UNIQUE routine stack from Openers to Comfort material and date ideas) a regular bootcamp and a day game program in 6 days. I laugh at Jet lag. Then I'm back in the new city and am all set up.

So the process is almost over, and I am soo glad to get out of LA. Can't wait.

S

Song lyric of the week.

This my fav song recently about maturing and getting better over time. i apply it to the game....





30 Something Lyrics:

[Intro]
You aint got enough stamps in ya passport to fuck with Young H-O
(heh-heh-heh)
International . . . uhh
Show young boys how to do this thing
The maturation of Jay-Z-Z . . heh
Check me out . . .


[Verse 1]
30's the new 20 nigga I'm so HOT STILL (Uhh)
Better broad, better automobile (Uhh)
Bet a yard (Naw!) Bet a hundred mil
Then by the songs end I'll probably start another trend
I know ev'ry thing you wann' do
I did all that by the age of twenty-one
By twenty-two, I had that brand new Ac' coupe
I guess you could say that my LEGEND just begun, I'm--
Young enough to know the right car to buy
Yet grown enough not to put rims on it
I got that six-duece with curtains, so you can't see me
And I didn't even have to put tints on it
I don't got the bright watch, I got the right watch
I don't buy out the bar, I bought the nightspot
I got the right stock, I-- got--
Stockbrokers that's movin' it like white tops
I know you like FUCK! this is child abuse
Call DYFS, I must just be getting nicer
YOU young boys ain't ready fa' real
30's the new 20 nigga, I'm so HOT STILL


[Chorus 1]
I used to let my pants sag, not givin' a fuck
Baby boy, now I'm all grown up
I used to cruise the used car lot, put crome on the truck
Baby boy, now I'm all grown up
I used to play the block like dat (like dat)
I used to carry knots like dat (like dat)
Now I got Black cards, good credit and such
Baby boy 'cause I'm all grown up


[Verse 2]
30's the new 20 nigga, I'm on fire still
These young boys is like a fire drills (Uhh)
False alarms (Uhh), the next don (Naw)
He ain't got it (Uhh), on to the next one (Young)
Still here (Yeah), still here like Mike--
Gotta stop playin' with these children (Chea)
[ Lyrics found on http://www.metrolyrics.com ]

I'm a bully with the bucks (boots)
Don't let the patent leather shoes fool you young'n
I got the fully in the tux
That was my past, now I'm so grown up
I don't got one gun ON ME
Gotta a sum army to hire a gun army, get ya spun like laundry
And I'll be somewhere under palm trees, calmly listenin' to R&B
When we get the call he's, no longer wit' us, fire ya babysitters
You little fucks fall back fa' real
30's the new 20 nigga, I'm so ho-stile


[Chorus 2]
I used to let my pants sag, not givin' a fuck
Baby boy, now I'm all grown up
I used to cruise the used car lot, put crome on the truck
Baby boy, now I'm all grown up
I used to wear my hoodie like that (like that)
Pile deep in a hooptie like that (like that)
Now I got Black cards, good credit and such
Baby boy 'cause I'm all grown up


[Verse 3]
(heh-heh-heh)
Ya'll roll blunts, I smoke Cubans all day
Ya'll youngin's chase, I'm Patronin' it straight
I like South Beach, but I'm in St. Tropez
Ya'll drink Dom, but not Rosé (hey)
Ya chick shop at the mall--
My chick burn it down Bergdorf's
Comin' back with Birkin bags
Ya chick is like, "What type of purse is that?"
I'm from the era where niggas don't snitch
You from the era where snitchin' is the shit
I'm afraid of the future (why?)
Ya'll respect the one who got shot, I respect the shooter
Ya'll go to parties to ice grill
I go to parties to party with nice girls
Young boys gotta chill
30's the new 20 nigga, Im so HOT STILL


[Chorus 3]
I used to let my pants sag, not givin' a fuck
Baby boy, now I'm all grown up
I used to cruise the used car lot, put crome on the truck
Baby boy, now I'm all grown up
Ya, we used to ball like that (like that)
Now we own the ball team, holla back (holla back)
Now I got Black cards, good credit and such
Baby boy 'cause I'm all grown up

Book Review: The Hero with a 1000 faces

So in my course of study on becoming a man and maturity, every single source seems to lead back to this fucking book.

The Hero with a thousand faces by joseph campbell is about mythology, and specifically how all myths have a basic theme and structure that they follow. This relates to maturity and manhood as the major function of myths is to act as a way of relating the human experience using a complex series of metaphors and characters to represent the journey of a lifetime.

The general structure of the adventure of a hero is:

Departure
Initiation
Return

Furthermore the specifics applicable to growing up are
Departure: The call to adventure, Refusal of the call
Initiation: The road of trials, The meeting with a goddess, Atonement with the father,
Return: Refusal of return,

Here's some quotes I liked from the book,

The passage of the mthological hero may be overground, incidentally;fundamentally it is inward-into depths where obscure resistances are overcome, and long lost, forgotten powers are revivified, to be made availible for the transfiguration of the world.

The godly powers sought and dangerously won are revealed to have been within the heart of the hero all the time.

From this point of view the hero is symbolical of the divine creative and redemtive image which is hidden within us all, only waiting to be known and rendered into life.

The two the hero and his ultimate god, the seeker and the found-are thus understood as the outside and the inside of a single self-mirrored mystery, which is identical with the mystery of the manifest world.

Blunders are not the merest chance. They are the result of suppressed desires and conflicts. They are ripples on the surface of life, produced by unsuspected springs.

One is harrassed day and night by the divine being that is the image of the living self locked within the locked labyrinth of one's disoriented psyche.

It is only by advancing beyond those bounds, provoking the destructive other aspect of the same power that the individual passes either alive or in death into a new zone of experience.

The agony of breaking throughpersonal limitations is the agony of spiritual growth. Art, literature, myth and cult, philosophy and ascetic disciplines are the instruments to help the individual past his limiting horizons into the spheres of ever-expanding realization.

For the bliss of the deep abode is not lightly abandoned in favor of the self scattering of the wakened state.

The hero adventures out of the land we know into darkness; there he accomplishes his adventure, or again is simply lost to us or imprisioned, or in danger; and his return is described as a coming back out of the yonder zone. Nevertheless-and here is a great key to the understanding of myth and symbol-the two kingdoms are actually one. The realm of the gods is a forgotten dimension of the world we know. And the exploration of that dimension of the world we know. And the exploration of that dimension either willingly or unwillingly is the whole sense of the deed of the hero.

The indiviual through prolonged psychological disciplines, gives up completely all attachment to his personal limitations, idiosyncrasies, hopes and fears, no longer resists the self-annhilation that is prerequisite to rebirth in the realization of the truth, and so becomes ripe, at last for the great at-one-ment. His personal ambitions being totally dissolved, he no longer tries to live but willingly relaxes to whatever may come to pass in him; he becomes that is to say an anonymity.

The goal of the myth is to dispel the need for such a life ignorance by effecting a reconcilation of the individual conscioussness with the universal will. And this is effected through a realization of the true relationship of the passing phenomena of time to the imperishable life that lives and dies in all.

Man in the world of action loses his centering in the principle of eternity if he is anxious for the outcome of his deeds, but resting them and their fruits on the knees of a living god he is released by them as by a sacrifice from the bondages of the sea of death.

The mighty hero of the extraordinary powers-able to lift Mount Govardhan on a finger, and to fill himself with the terrible glory of the universe-is to each of us: not the physical self visible in the mirror, but the king within.

Over all I really enjoyed this book, though it took me way too long to read it. The writing style jumps around a ton, but the overall idea that mythoogy is a subconscious manifestation of the drives, and struggles of people in ancient times and a parable to the future and the way to self actualization were great concepts. If this is something that interest you I highly reccomend picking this up. If not then i would suggest sticking to the stuff based on the works contained within.

S

Do you know what you want?

I think one of the major hurdles that guys encounter on this magical journey of self improvement, is they have no idea WHAT they want.

This comes down to the fact that most guys would rather think on a small scale, such as where they are going to sarge that night or why that girl isn't calling them back... Instead of focusing on building something and taking the small steps every day, hour, minute and second to bring them closer to being the type of man they want to be while living a life that fufills them.

This means not putting a bandage on a bullet wound by ignoriong your particular patterns, insecurities, safety zones, and ideas of who you are. In the movie Hitch Will Smith's self titled character says that "you is a fluid concept." And that's the truth. Just because your life sucks now doesn't mean it has to continue to suck forever. There is a step that you can take now to make things better, you just have to realize what you ultimately want out of life first. The world is there for the taking, you just need to know what you want to take.

So I challenge EVERYONE out there to sit down and design the life you want for yourself. Think big! If you want 7 girlfriends who all love you and have threesomes with you, what steps can you take RIGHT NOW to get that ball rolling. If you want to be rich, what can you do to facilitate that TODAY.

There's always tomorrow, bu the thing about tomor is that when it comes and you don't act youa re jyst prolonging the process and not starting. As cheesy as it is to say, a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

S

Leaving LA...

I am moving out of LA in the next few weeks, i will not be sharing where I am moving until I have things set up completely.

I'm sitting in a airport right now on the way to my future home city. There are a myriad of reasons that I am leaving LA, but mostly I want to live somewhere outside of Southern California. I've lived in either LA, Northridge, Woodland Hills, or San Diego. So I want to LIVE somewhere else. It's very different than visiting it.

Now I moved back to LA expecting to build a really great lifestyle only to realize that to really live the way I want to in LA I would need to make A LOT more money. I have very specific ideas as to where I want my apartment to be( Walking distance to the clubs that have the hottest girls). Well in LA I have a place that's like that and the unfortunate other side of that is living in Hollywood with the mass population of scumbags who also inhabit the hollywood area.

It also seems like my moving to LA has directly correlated with the decline of nightlife in the city. There really aren't many clubs that have the type of girls I like in them. The strip clubs also are below par with the rest of the nation. So I am moving.

The only real concern I have is coordinating moving my stuff with my upcoming London Bootcamp. my lease runs up in LA when I will be in London, so I have to make sure that I have fully shipped all my shit before I leave the 24th.

I'm really excited to decorate my new place, as I have an entire theme that will be amazing! it's going to ook like somewhere out of the movies and everything wil be either black or red. I intend to have parties at my new place as it will be close enough to clubs to pre-party before and then after party post clubbing. It's going to rapidly become craziness.

I'm super excited!

More info to follow.

S

Kanye West - Throw Some D's Remix (Brand New Explicit Video)

LOL this is HILARIOUS!!

I also have a boob fetish so I actually can relate....

Sometimes a song is written just for me:P

S

An analogy I liked

I was driving my car on empty a couple of days ago and I thought that confidence is like gas in a car.

You can drive and get around when it's on empty, but eventually you are going to run out, and you won't be able to get around.

Also when you are low on gas, I tend to drive more conservatively and not gun it as I don't want to get stranded. The same thing applies to state and confidence, as when you have not had success your confidence is low and you play the game very conservatively. Then once you feel better about yourself and your abilities, you play looser and can get the same results.

I don't know if this is applicable to others or if it just makes sense to me,

S

My new Sports Blog

I started a sports blog www.sinnonsports.blogspot.com.

S

Thick Face Black Heart

Thick Face Black heart is a book on the warrior’s philosophy. It pertains to business in a few specific chapters, but for the most apart is about developing the outlook on life to succeed.

This book kicks ass. It was sent to me by RAHN one of our former instructors and it is one of the best things I have read in the self development field. I’d say this is a must read if you are interested in improving your life.


There are 2 elements that the book addresses:

Thick Face- The shield
Black Face- The spear


Thick Face is a shield a shield to protect yourself from the negative opinions of others. This is all about being non-reactive and having the faith in yourself, your purpose, and your abilities to carry on in the face of opposition to your goals.

Black Heart is the ability to take action without regard to how the consequences will affect others. A black heart is ruthless not necessarily evil.

These are 2 elements that every good PUA needs to have. You need to be unaffected by others and be wiling to go to extremes to get what you want.

Here’s a quote that really resonated with me.

The natural way of Thick Face Black Heart is beyond human manipulation, beyond the petty standards of human judgement. When one acts in harmony with the universal will, one’s actions are aligned with the good and benefit of all. You are neither self-righteous nor too eager to please; nor are you seeking approval. In action you are swift, competent and dispassionate. In yielding you are unabashed and have no concern for others judgements. In conquoring you are effective and can be ruthless, In action and non action you are changeless. You are a true Thick Face Black Heart practitioner.

Highly recommended.

S

Breaking the Cycle

Virginia Satir once said that the most basic human instinct is not toward survival, but towards the familiar. IOW the thing that we are most likely to do, has nothing to do with survival or replication, but with what we are most comfortable doing.

People are constantly repeating the same patterns in their lives. Everyone knows the girl who consistently compains about how she always dates assholes, only to complain about how the new guy she likes is an asshole... We all see people who are self sabotagers and always get really close to what they want only to find some way to trip themselve up. The reason is that it's more comfortable for them to stay doing what they have always done.

To whole heartedly dedicate yourself to something and fail measn that we have to examine and deal with ourselves as failures. Most people are not strong enough to do this. Fear of failure is only one side of the coin when it comes to self sabotage, the other side is fear of success. The fear of actually getting what you want and having to de-identify yourself as a guy who is unsuccessful. It takes away from what Joseph Campbell describes as your hero's journey. Most people are too attached to their current situation, they have become integrated with their relaity and the idea that they could become what they actually want means that they have to kill their attachments to their ideas of WHO they are. They are more comfortable with the idea of struggling then they are with actually becoming successful and having to stop complaining about their lack of success. Becaue if you were to become successful, that would upset the delicate balance of your life. If you were to become as successful with woman as YOU want to be not some random guy on the internet, you, your life would change. If you wanted a bunch of ONS then you are going to sleep a lot less... If you want a GF your time on the weekends will stop being your own and you will half to integrate a new person into your life. Etc... So it can be easier for guys to just struggle and subconsciously sabotage themselves.

Some ways I see guys sabotage themselves in field. Ejecting, not # closing every set they have been in for over 25 mins, not trying to move the girl around the venue, not trying to make out with every set, not calling your #s and trying to do dates, not pushing to get girls back to your place, not trying to qualify, not hitting on the girl, not going back into sets that were no-gos.... Etc...

One of the most important things that you can do when it comes to self development is to determine what YOUR specific negative patterns are, and start breaking them. If you don't go out every night, and you don't have the sex life you want then you need to start going out. Make an agreement with yourself that you will go out EVERY night until you have the sex life you want. Now going out doesn't necessarily mean that you are sarging every night, it could mean that you make the choice to go on a day2 instead of staying home and sleeping or you set up a date off the internet. But the MAJOR idea is that you need to try something different.

One of my favorite comedies of the last couple of years was " The 40 Year Old Virgin" and one the best game related quotes I have ever heard in a movie comes when Andy is talking about how talking to girls in the bar doesn't feel right. And jay says something like " What feels right hasn't been working. It's time to try some wrong."

Sometimes what is right for us and brings us closer to what we actuallty want will feel wrong and uncomfortable, but we have to push through that in faith that what we are doing is bringing us closer to where we ultimately want to be.

Once you make the decision that SOMETHING has to change in your life, break the cycle you are currently in by taking massive action.

S

Michael Jordan Top 10 buzzer beaters

I posted an article about Jordan and growing up... Check it out below the office quote.

Funny Office Quote

Dwight is talking about how he never smiles because " Showing one's teeth is a submission sign, and when he sees people smiling, all he sees is a chimpanzee begging for his life".

S

P.S Michael is now having a cage match

Michael Jordan and becoming a man.

I always wonder why certain people seem to transcend their medium so much. I always think about Michael Jordan will forever be remembered as the face of Basketball. There are just certain associations people have and Jordan and basketball are two that are for MOST people forever linked. And that's not just linked in the US. That's in the world Jordan is a brand that means something all around the world... That's crazy. Through merchandising and branding Jordan has become as successful of a conquorer as Alexander the Great was.

I just compared Michael Jordan to ALexander the great in a semin coherent(At least to me) way.... I now remember that I am posting after taking a sleeping pill... I hope this is coherent in the morning.

So there is a correalation as to why people (Like myself) get misty watching od Jordan clips or thinking about what he meant to a generation of sports fans.. I think the appeal is in his hero's journey. He was NOT an instant success. Like most people. He didn't win a championship for 6 years. And he kept progressively getting closer while being beaten down by a bully that he would have to overcome(The Detroit Pistons sent him home in the playoffs 2 years in a row and beat him up physically read "The Jordan Rules" ) but he was dedicated and worked on himself. he tirelessly found ways to get around by taking what was given to him(Surrender) and eventually it was struggle, struggle, sweep. He firmly swept the Pistons in 90 and they walked off the florr without shaking hands in a dramtic bully-like way once they realized they were whipped. And then he consistently was the hero. Game in and game out if the game came down to a do or die situation he came through more times than he didn't.

The amazing thing about Jrodan's killer instinct and late-game theatrics was that a LOT of those games were win or lose. Most people don't realzie the difference between a game winner and a game tier. A game winner means score and the Bulls win or miss and they lose. That's a game winner. the final decision rested sorely on Jordan's abiity to score on a team expecting him to try to score. And time and again in win or lose situations (no matter the pressure) Jordan's team won. Single handidly because his supporting cast kept him in the game long enough to be down by 1 with up to .4 of a second left. because if Michael shot it, you win.

That's pressure. In 88 he knocked the cavs out of the first round of the playoffs and catapulted Chicago into the second round. Fice long games with a team that was a perenniel 50 game winner. mark Price's Cavs were not today's Knicks or Bobcats. They were the favorites in that series. Craig Ehlo will forever be remembered as "That guy Jordan hit "The shot" over. Game, series, season Chicago. They lost to the much better Pistons in the next round where "The Bad Boys" D was too much for Michael and a young Scottie Pippen to overcome. The next year Pippen( who many use as a an argument against jordan's greatest ineffectively) was psyched out all series by Dennis Rodman and then had a "migraine" in the 7th game and could barely see... Jordan scored 50 with migraines or 38 and the game sealer in the 5 game against Utah in the 98 finals, the much overlooked game before he hit what should have been the final shot of his career against Byron not Bryon Russel. And yes he did shove him, who cares great players will always try to get away with as muc as they possibly can. they only become "dirty" when they are INTENTIONALLY trying to hurt other players(like "The Bad Boys" D.

Over that summer Jordan sick and tired of being pummeled by the Bad Boys in the playoff, hit the gym and gained 30 pounds of muscle, now instead of getting punished when he would drive to the basket, he dished out punishment. He got much better with his post up game as well developing the move that would be his signature over the rest of his career, the fade away jumper. Micahel adapted his gameto deal with the real life situations. That's where a lot of guys go wrong with women. They keep doing the same things when they aren't working. They aren't willing to learn new things and expand their social reportoire. They think that if 99 times a woman rejects them with the wrong body language or tonality or opening line or wardrobe or facial expresssion, the 110th time it might work. Learning about how to become a more attractive man, makes you a better person more adapted to the challenges of modern life. "The Bad Boys" teams were tough teams that won back to back championships. Dating can be hard too. It's ok to get some help and develop your own fadeaway jumper of a personality to get the woman of your dreams.

Well he came back and the Bulls swept the Pistons, because he had adapted and they had no answer for his scoring and his leadership. They then beat the Lakers in 5. But Michael's challenges were not over. The same way your life problems will not be over when you can get laid a lot. Now he had to defend the crown and win another title. The first defense was all about dominance as the Bulls announced that a new dynasty had risen in the east. That sounded like one of the voice overs on the tapes I used to watch that recapped Jordan's career. You know like the ones they offer for free on the Sports Illustrated ads on TV. If you ever wonder who orders Sports illustrated to get the cheesy ass freee video. it's me. But the next year Michael had to learn a new lesson as to he lost the MVP to Charles Barkely and the Suns led the league in wins. But in the Finals the Bulls only won as Jordan passed out of a double team and John Paxson hit the three to win the game. It was pick your posion with Jordan once he learned to trust his supporting cast. The same way that a crucial step of learning to become a man or a PUA lies in learning to trust yourself and not bend to what other's want you to do. Namely other teams trying to get michael to try to beat a double team when an open teammate could score too. Not as well but in addition.

Any way point non-sports fans care about is that as a man it is crucial that you over come a great struggle in your life. this can be failing with women, but always make sure that you remeber that the people who are remembered as the BEST of their peers and generations like Jordan suffered a lot of set backs before he really got what he wanted. It's the same way with becoming successful with women or maturing as a man. It takes practice and effort and the ability to make the adjustments you have to make. That's what this is about fixing what YOU are doing wrong. And it takes a shit load of guts and responsibility to do that. That's why I give 100% of myself on bootcamp all the time. Other guys game on the second night of program, but I realize that the real value is in having a guy who knows what he's talking about either watching you or in set with you giving real time coaching in the field. It also helps to have great models, Micahel Jordan is one of mine, and there are some other guys out there such as myself or Future or Savoy, who are great models in field and can help steer you on the right path. Because sometimes you need a set of eyes that aren't your own. That's why I believe in boot camps and getting help with your social lives and getting on the track you want to be.

I will now ban myself from sports talk on here for a week. I will probably be starting a sports blog as I think I would like to one say become a sportswriter. So if anyone reading this does that or has advice on getting into that email me at Sinn@TheMysteryMethod.com

S