We pick right back up at the part of the show where the guys are sitting around waiting to find out who got eliminated or the “ we’re scared someone is going home” section as I like to call it.
We're lucky this week as we go straight into the tears from Rian, who is trying to set a world record for most times crying on a reality show. I wish we had a counter like they do blind date when the guys try to kiss the girl unsuccessfully. I swear we're at 8 times this season and it's only episode 4.
Yes! As VH1 sets the bar even higher we get fart humor. Brian runs into the bathroom to fart into the tub, does anyone think this is funny? Bueller? Bueller?
Matador arrives with rolled up sleeves… WTF? How am I supposed to know which way the beach is?
Mystery looks like the cat in the hat, as he shows up in shiny PVC pants, a red and black striped sweater and of course the fuzzy top hat. He starts to ask the guys how far they've gotten physically with girls and the depressing stories from their lives begin.
Brian grabbed a boob and ran away, that’s called sexual assault. One of the guys talks about how he hasn't really touched a girl since giving piggybacks in third grade... There’s a bunch of virgins on this show, and in my opinion the bar needs to be set a little bit lower for these guys, to build a real skillset you have to learn to walk before you try to run.
Since they're all really inexperienced Mystery brings in a sexologist Erin and Whitney her assistant. These girls are probably hot, but since they don't have big boobs, for some reason they just look like blurry spots on my monitor. Weird :)
I think this lesson is out of sequence, you need to be able to get girls into bed before you try to learn sexual techniques. Teaching guys where errogenous zones are is great but these guys are still having trouble holding conversations with girls for more than 5 minutes without creeping them out( In the literary world we call this foreshadowing)
Erin wants to see what the guys have and asks them to grope a mannequin in the living room. This should be embarrassing. I personally wouldn't want to be the guy making out with a mannequin on cable, but I do have some self respect...
First up to grope a mannequin is simion- Wow this is awkward watching them grope this mannequin. It's really weird watching inexperienced guys do what they think kissing is. The angles are all wrong and were the girl living they would poking her in all the wrong places...
Brian- Looked up how to makeout, on google. He's my favorite for sure. Though I think he gets off on being weird a bit too much to actually be successful with women. El Topo was like that as well and when he stopped doing things to get reactions his game skyrocketed. there's a time and a place for quirkiness, just not all the time.
As Erin is going over the erogenous zones on Whitney the guys look like they’re gonna cream their pants. This is just ratings fetching T and A. Just like last week with the stripper.. I mean nurse.
YAY time for Erin to demean herself on reality tv! She's going to go in a pitch black room and let the guys kiss her errogenous zones. Nothing says I respect myself like letting a bunch of weirdos grope you on cable for a check and a shot to make it.
The challenge is to hit all erin’s erogenous zones while in total darkness, the reward is an earpiece with mystery on the other side.
Simion- comes in shirtless, I guess the dead hookers like that better. He looks really tense as he’s leaning over her like a dog in heat. NLater the guys bust on him for not wearing his shirt while in there and he actually defends himself... How can you not get how weird that is?
Todd- Looks super nervous and doesn’t know where to put his hands. He’s awkward like the blowjob scene in Superbad.
Matt- does ok though his facial expressions look like a monkey, I think he isn't a virgin. So that helps.
Greg- does ok, a little bit stiff and inexperienced seeming.
Brian- Walks in like a blind guy groping faces, then mauls her like a hungry bear.
Rian- cuddles her as he’s kissing her, that’s better than leaning over her, plus he hits more of the erogenous zones. He does however laugh when talking about it. Can we say SEXUAL ANXIETY?
Matt wins and gets the earpiece!
This lesson is poorly timed information, it’s an example of what I always want to avoid when teaching as it’s not directly applicable to where they are. This is only one step below teaching a bunch of virgins how to get bathroom pulls or threesomes, they need to be focusing on developing conversational skills and learning qualification. The qualification thing will show up later...
Now Mystery teaches kino escalation. I hate the term kino. Why do we have to have all these nerd terms in the community. I get that it's easier to write online, but it's seriously weird and one of the reasons most people outside of the community think it's a cult.
Tara gives the guys generic advice, be confident, and playful... Yada, yada, yada. Not all girls are bad at teaching pickup, just Tara.
Mystery’s stuff on touching is brillant, one of the major things that helped my game early on, especially the idea of releasing first. Which they don't mention on the show.
Brian reveals he practiced making out on a stack of ham… Nuff said!
In my professional opinion these guys are NOT ready to try to get makeouts, they need to build a solid base of being able to get girls interested without the allure of bottle service and a table first. I also don't think the bottle service is doing any of them any favors as it's a crutch that they won't have in their normal lives after the show.
It's time for the field test.
Yes! Matador loses the sleeves at the club! And brings back the vest. Does somebody have a band aid? Cause he's cut!
Simion is doing much better this time as he locks in nicely and actually moves a set. He clumsily places a hand on the girls leg . Tim would call this the purposeless hand of doom. He still comes off WAY too intense, this is a guy who needs to experiment with being super low energy and chill. I'd have him do The Clint Eastwood drill, for 3-5 approaches a night.
Todd- Blown out as he doesn’t ground his opener, you need to explain why you’re asking so that you don’t get the “ why does it matter?” He hooks his next approache, and moves them then does something bizarre. He busts out a toy Meercat... Why does he bust out a toy meerkat? No one knows... Then he begs for a phone number, and he’s done nothing to get it, so the girls say we don’t even know you… This is where learning qualification would have helped. The girls have offered nothing about themselves to earn him asking for their number, so they assume he just wants to bang them and their not that interested, so blown out.
Matt- Yuck! I hate the caper opener… Nice movement as he holds her hand, though it is better to have the girl move you. Now the girls are sexually baiting him with the panty talk. This is not an IOI. Mystery and Matador misinterpret this. This is classic sexual shit testing. A girl says something like that to me and she's getting banged, cause I'll prompt and pass a series of those until she's aroused, then I'll move her somewhere private and escalate. He ends by saying "May I trouble you for your phone number?” horrible. Matt would be my least favorite kind of student as he BLATENTLY ignores the advice Mystery gives him in the earpiece.
Greg- Leans in. Uses this terrible weather opener, which prompts the coaches to argue over who taught it to him. This gets my goat. Gusy stop going on workshops and using your own openers. Use the stock ones till you understand why they work. I used Jealous Girlfriend for like 2 straight years. He gets the girls to move. However the girls look super bored as he’s telling way too long of a story. Finally a girl takes a phone call and the other girls scatter like dust in the wind.
Rian- Dances as he walks in… He's Using a social opener and now he’s hooked. These guys were not taught dominance. You don’t ask to move, you tell them. He starts giving the girl a massage, I have no idea where he got that. Though it does remind me of Austin Powers offering a " sensual massage" It’s way too much given up front without her earning it. At least he isolates and kisses her on the cheek as she shrinks away… Seriously her hold body curls up as he's forcing the kiss on her. She's in a half fetal position by the end of it. All that's missing is her screaming that the dirt won't come off...
Brian- No move for Brian as he was too high energy and weird... He's gotta watch the shit he's saying as it's freakshow bizzarre sometimes and he knows it. So it's not congruent. If he acted like what he was saying was normal he'd do a lot better. Though not as well as if he actually started to censor himself.
Tara- Generic piece of bad advice.
Rian wins the field test for kissing a girl on the cheek as her body recoiled, what would he have gotten if he had raped the chick?
Medallion time- Time to get enlightened… Bitches!
Mystery’s disappointed that these guys didn’t get a kiss, and he may not have a PUA on his hands. Or it could just be that these guys need to work their way up slower. It’s not the students fault if they’re getting the wrong information at the wrong time. You have to teach to where the students are not where they are supposed to be.
Greg gets the last medallion leaving a final 5 of Simion the rapist, Matt, Rian, Greg, Brian
It's bye bye time for Todd...
This week I'm going to introduce a power poll for the remaining guys:
1. Greg- he did badly today, but he's overall doing the best. He needs to gain some sort of edge to his personality and become a bit more hard to get, but if he gets that, he can be good.
2. Rian- He's actually got some balls. Though his touching was very poorly calibrated, he goes for it. Balls will take you SUPER far.
3. Brian- He's weird and way too much of a dancing monkey, but the girls are entertained by him. That's the first step to getting them attracted.
4. Matt- He's not really showing anything in the field tests. He's also kind of a pussy. He does have the most raw material to work with though so that keeps him from being last.
5. Psycho Simion- This guy really needs to normalize his game. He has to stop with the baby in a corner opener and he needs to chill the fuck out. Maybe he needs to be medicated or something...
Till next week,
S
Tuesday, November 04, 2008
I'm on Barry's show today!
Hey guys,
I'm on The Barry Kirkey Show the first Monday of every month, so make sure to tune in.
This week I challenge shit talking old man David Wygant to a boxing match for charity.
As Pac once said
" Why the fuck these cowards be running too scared to fight a G?"
Bring it.
Hear the gory details at revolution31.com/blog
Or go here for the direct link Here
S
I'm on The Barry Kirkey Show the first Monday of every month, so make sure to tune in.
This week I challenge shit talking old man David Wygant to a boxing match for charity.
As Pac once said
" Why the fuck these cowards be running too scared to fight a G?"
Bring it.
Hear the gory details at revolution31.com/blog
Or go here for the direct link Here
S
Sunday, November 02, 2008
Pick Up Artist Episode 3 Recap-Violence in the workplace or Against Women?
So I pulled myself away from running the coaching program while watching old Chicago Bulls Championship videos. Do I really re-watch baksetball games from 10-17 years ago, when I know how they end? Of course I do. But I decided to take a 39 and a half minute break to watch episode 3 in hopes of A. Getting something to blog about that doesn't relate to 12 Months to Mastery and B. Making fun of Matador :)
The show starts with the usual formulaic we NEVER saw it coming with (guy who just got eliminated) in this case Kevin the curser. It's amazing how formulaic reality TV has become, you can almost script the shows better than sitcoms. Plus you don't have to pay the actors as much. Hollywood has learned to work the system, I tell you what. No idea why I threw in the Hank Hill there, but I'm feeling loose.
So the guys are sent to a medical center, They go for a medical treatment on biofeedback, learning to become comfortable in high stress situations. Mystery shows up in some outfit that's either a Hawaiian shirt or a ski jacket, can't really tell. It's green though, like apple drink.
The guys get really good advice on dealing with nervousness around women. Regulate your breathing, and warm your hands. I teach both of those ideas. If you're nervous you do tend to freeze up physically while taking shallower breaths.
The test part of this comes as they hook them up to a biofeedback machine and see how they respond. The winner gets to sit out of the field work, and watch the other guys in field. That's really useful, video is a great way to learn what not to do. That's one of the reasons I'll be doing more infield videos this next year.
So what do they do to put the guys under stress? Gunfight in the room? Try to take Matador's wig off? Call Mike Tyson a bitch? Say something derogatory about Tupac around me? Of course not, they get a hot girl in a nurse costume to talk to them while they’re hooked up to the biofeedback. Then she strips. Awesome T and A. This girl is amazingly hot. It's actually a really good exercise. I usually recommend guys go to the strip club( sweatpants optional) and sit at the front bar while trying to focus on feeling relaxed and making eye contact with the girls.
So how did the guys fair? God Damn it Now I'm saying it!
Matt goes first and is nervous and unhappy looking but doesn't do terrible.
Asian Brain is next he’s rocking spicoli vans those are my favorite shoes ever! They're like 30 bucks and you don't need to wear socks! Amazing. Brian looks uncomfortable and later talks about how he didn;t want to get a woody. I once learned from Geoff formerly of RSD to trust the cock. If you're getting wood in set she's prolly getting wet. I live by that rule as if Chuck Norris passed it down to me.
Rian looks like he’s going to pass out, he's even trying to close his eyes to avoid the awkwardness. At least he doesn't laugh. A lot of guys with sexual anxiety laugh around hot girls or sexual situations. You'll see it in strip clubs all the time. or if you introduce a hottie to a shy friend.
Mystery reads a Corny canned joke about not being able to pick up women while you sleep off the cue cards.
Karl-can barely speak he can’t finish a sentence and says ahhh, when the girl asks if he likes her outfit.
Greg- can’t make eye contact easily, but he wins because he actually looks like (Gasp) he's enjoying seeing a half naked super hottie.
Todd- Actually looks happy to see a beautiful woman and now she’s baiting him, this girl has def stripped before by the way she's calling the guys handsome and asking what they think of her. Pure baiting Cali Pimp style.
Simion- looks like he wants to kill her and dump the body in the marsh. Can we say serial killer? Seriously Fidelio once introduced to me the brillant concept of how creepy community guys fall into one of two categories. Violence in the workplace. That's a guy who seems likely to just open fire on anyone at random out frustration and THE HATE! Most community guys who are weird don't fit into this category instead they fit into violence against women. The kind of guy who lives next door to you for years until one day the police come and you find out he's got 50 dead hookers in his freezer. Simion is the posterboy for violence against women.
Thankfully Matador is back to no sleeves. I missed the lack of sleeves. I missed the way they looked, I missed the way they smelled and I think when all this is over me and Matador's arms need to get an apartment together!
I'm not gonna lie. Matador needs an action figure complete with different wigs, and three basic qualification statements.
" Are you adventurous?"
" Are you spontaneous?"
" Are you confident?"
"Bullshit everyone says their confident."
Only like 4 people ( and anyone who's really listened to him in set) understand that joke and I'm all right with it
Now they learn body language with Kosmo Kramer, "It’s about building a life" has become this show’s catchphrase. I’m waiting for a Public Service Announcement from Smokey the Bear or Mcgruff the crimedog. Where is Mcgruff? I want to bring Mcgruff back!
" It's not just about picking up girls, it's about building a life."
Then I raise my hand and say I wanted to get laid and that's why I game...
In the body language lessons over the shoulder gets way too much attention, it's really not that important as long as you develop a strong sense of spacial awareness. Don't creep girls out by invading their space and you're fine.
Matador bashes Simion for his Hand movements. hand Movements aren’t bad if they aren’t in a woman’s face. Keep your hands below your waist or 18-36 inches away from a girl and you're cool.
The guys are getting taught to keep their hands in the back pockets ala TD circa 2002. It's weird when you see people walking around the club with their hands in their back pockets.
Simion is cracking under the pressure, this is typical of students who haven’t really committed to getting better. He doesn't want to listen to the sad truth that he's super creepy. It's ok I was super creepy for about 6 months when I started. I even got told that by a girl in the Northridge mall. You HAVE to be honest with yourself. He thinks because he's using the material he's doing it right. You must be able to admit the places where you suck and need to improve to have any hope.
It’s heart to heart time with Kosmo and Simion. Awwww. Simion admits that he lived out of his car for awhile. He fails to tell Kosmo that he was on the run for the murder of 17 hookers in Boston…
Now it's club time. I actually hate the club scenes because I hate watching students fail when they're actually trying. All these guys are WAY too tense going to the club they need to be joking around relaxed and not focusing on the pressure. they're psyching themselves out of state instead of getting into it.
Mystery and Matador are all about the vests this year, I’m guessing it’s a VH1 thing, or a Justin Timberlake thing.It's enough with the vests. Except Matador cause then he can point out which way the beach is.
Onto the approaches:
Brian doesn’t quite get the role play thing as he tells a girl he would dip her in chocolate and throw bananas at her ass… Ok, at least he's thinking outside of the box. Though it won't get him inside the box :) Pun intended. Puns are the lowest form of humor.
Rian- Nodding too much and not smiling. Why is he using the Elvis opener? He almost moves one fatty but he’s not quite strong enough. Remember my rule, if you can’t physically lift the girl you need to either date thinner or get stronger.
Todd- Nice move of the group, Bottle service is like cheating.The only thing that's more like cheating is " Hey wanna go back to my place and do some coke?" He still does really well for a beginner. Good for him. He's starting to get a solid understanding of how to run attraction.
Matt is still rocking the boa but he explains himself too much. In fact two girls walk off in the middle. He’s very apologetic. You gotta pretend to be Jacque le coq grande. Acting as if you're cooler than the girl is rule # 2. Rule # 76 is no excuses play like a champion. Rule # 0 Never disrespect Chuck Norris. Ever. His calendar goes from March 31st-April 2nd, cause NO ONE fools Chuck. There's a Chuckisms app for the Iphone. It's AMAZING!!!
Simion- Consistently gets ignored on the opener, creepy, he reminds me of the joker.But without the charisma. He's kinda like a used car salesman. He seems like he has an agenda. Either that or these girls realize they may actually be in physical danger. He can’t even pull to a table, probably because they don't want to get roofied. The faces of the girls look like they’re seeing Dracula or Godzilla, or a guy with a gun. it doesn't help that he's using Mystery's " no one puts Baby in a corner" opener. That line is just weird and creepy. Mystery makes it work, cause well... cause he's Mystery, but if you're not really good at talking and dealing with awkward reactions you're gonna flame out on that one.
Karl- Looks really effeminate, he’s waifish. Doc Holliday can pull that off, he can’t. A lot of these guys are using Mystery’s material but they lack the enthusiasm and natural conversational abilities. So it just comes off weird when he’s talking about capers and Ocean’s 11. He’s ignoring all the obstacles as well.
Finally Greg heads in from the truck- He approaches two hotties,leans in a bit, but he’s doing really well, he needs to lock in. He moves the girls to the table and then number closes. He even successfully avoids the girl trying to take his number without giving him hers. Really well done.
Mystery gives a pep talk about how he watched a pickup artist walk in talk to one group of girls and get a phone number. That's what a PUA does he says.
Well allow me to retort:
A pick up artist takes a phone number. A cool guy takes the girl home and bangs her like it's no big deal. Which one do you wanna be?
Wow Mystery isn’t wearing a vest it’s like a skirt vest dealie… He’s partying like it’s 1492. Let’s get medeivil on these bitches! It's seriously like a girl's peasant skirt. I'm amused that I'm so Valley I use like in text.
Here come the tears! Right on schedule as Rian crys about not getting his shine on. That’s why I’m glad I listen to rap. I know how to shine. Diddy taught me :)
Yeah medallions. Time to cleanse bitches!
Mystery gets gangster on Greg and tells him he was gonna send him off. That was cool. Needed to be said. I prolly would have made him cry though :) Mystery's good at being harsh without being insulting. Always has been.
The formulaic cut before elimination. Nice!
And effeminate Karl gets sent home. Proving that if Mystery thinks you’re gay it’s
Gayme Over.
I should be reviewing episode 4 tomor though I am buried, so as Eazy-E once said " Don't quote me boy cause I ain't said shit!"
S
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The show starts with the usual formulaic we NEVER saw it coming with (guy who just got eliminated) in this case Kevin the curser. It's amazing how formulaic reality TV has become, you can almost script the shows better than sitcoms. Plus you don't have to pay the actors as much. Hollywood has learned to work the system, I tell you what. No idea why I threw in the Hank Hill there, but I'm feeling loose.
So the guys are sent to a medical center, They go for a medical treatment on biofeedback, learning to become comfortable in high stress situations. Mystery shows up in some outfit that's either a Hawaiian shirt or a ski jacket, can't really tell. It's green though, like apple drink.
The guys get really good advice on dealing with nervousness around women. Regulate your breathing, and warm your hands. I teach both of those ideas. If you're nervous you do tend to freeze up physically while taking shallower breaths.
The test part of this comes as they hook them up to a biofeedback machine and see how they respond. The winner gets to sit out of the field work, and watch the other guys in field. That's really useful, video is a great way to learn what not to do. That's one of the reasons I'll be doing more infield videos this next year.
So what do they do to put the guys under stress? Gunfight in the room? Try to take Matador's wig off? Call Mike Tyson a bitch? Say something derogatory about Tupac around me? Of course not, they get a hot girl in a nurse costume to talk to them while they’re hooked up to the biofeedback. Then she strips. Awesome T and A. This girl is amazingly hot. It's actually a really good exercise. I usually recommend guys go to the strip club( sweatpants optional) and sit at the front bar while trying to focus on feeling relaxed and making eye contact with the girls.
So how did the guys fair? God Damn it Now I'm saying it!
Matt goes first and is nervous and unhappy looking but doesn't do terrible.
Asian Brain is next he’s rocking spicoli vans those are my favorite shoes ever! They're like 30 bucks and you don't need to wear socks! Amazing. Brian looks uncomfortable and later talks about how he didn;t want to get a woody. I once learned from Geoff formerly of RSD to trust the cock. If you're getting wood in set she's prolly getting wet. I live by that rule as if Chuck Norris passed it down to me.
Rian looks like he’s going to pass out, he's even trying to close his eyes to avoid the awkwardness. At least he doesn't laugh. A lot of guys with sexual anxiety laugh around hot girls or sexual situations. You'll see it in strip clubs all the time. or if you introduce a hottie to a shy friend.
Mystery reads a Corny canned joke about not being able to pick up women while you sleep off the cue cards.
Karl-can barely speak he can’t finish a sentence and says ahhh, when the girl asks if he likes her outfit.
Greg- can’t make eye contact easily, but he wins because he actually looks like (Gasp) he's enjoying seeing a half naked super hottie.
Todd- Actually looks happy to see a beautiful woman and now she’s baiting him, this girl has def stripped before by the way she's calling the guys handsome and asking what they think of her. Pure baiting Cali Pimp style.
Simion- looks like he wants to kill her and dump the body in the marsh. Can we say serial killer? Seriously Fidelio once introduced to me the brillant concept of how creepy community guys fall into one of two categories. Violence in the workplace. That's a guy who seems likely to just open fire on anyone at random out frustration and THE HATE! Most community guys who are weird don't fit into this category instead they fit into violence against women. The kind of guy who lives next door to you for years until one day the police come and you find out he's got 50 dead hookers in his freezer. Simion is the posterboy for violence against women.
Thankfully Matador is back to no sleeves. I missed the lack of sleeves. I missed the way they looked, I missed the way they smelled and I think when all this is over me and Matador's arms need to get an apartment together!
I'm not gonna lie. Matador needs an action figure complete with different wigs, and three basic qualification statements.
" Are you adventurous?"
" Are you spontaneous?"
" Are you confident?"
"Bullshit everyone says their confident."
Only like 4 people ( and anyone who's really listened to him in set) understand that joke and I'm all right with it
Now they learn body language with Kosmo Kramer, "It’s about building a life" has become this show’s catchphrase. I’m waiting for a Public Service Announcement from Smokey the Bear or Mcgruff the crimedog. Where is Mcgruff? I want to bring Mcgruff back!
" It's not just about picking up girls, it's about building a life."
Then I raise my hand and say I wanted to get laid and that's why I game...
In the body language lessons over the shoulder gets way too much attention, it's really not that important as long as you develop a strong sense of spacial awareness. Don't creep girls out by invading their space and you're fine.
Matador bashes Simion for his Hand movements. hand Movements aren’t bad if they aren’t in a woman’s face. Keep your hands below your waist or 18-36 inches away from a girl and you're cool.
The guys are getting taught to keep their hands in the back pockets ala TD circa 2002. It's weird when you see people walking around the club with their hands in their back pockets.
Simion is cracking under the pressure, this is typical of students who haven’t really committed to getting better. He doesn't want to listen to the sad truth that he's super creepy. It's ok I was super creepy for about 6 months when I started. I even got told that by a girl in the Northridge mall. You HAVE to be honest with yourself. He thinks because he's using the material he's doing it right. You must be able to admit the places where you suck and need to improve to have any hope.
It’s heart to heart time with Kosmo and Simion. Awwww. Simion admits that he lived out of his car for awhile. He fails to tell Kosmo that he was on the run for the murder of 17 hookers in Boston…
Now it's club time. I actually hate the club scenes because I hate watching students fail when they're actually trying. All these guys are WAY too tense going to the club they need to be joking around relaxed and not focusing on the pressure. they're psyching themselves out of state instead of getting into it.
Mystery and Matador are all about the vests this year, I’m guessing it’s a VH1 thing, or a Justin Timberlake thing.It's enough with the vests. Except Matador cause then he can point out which way the beach is.
Onto the approaches:
Brian doesn’t quite get the role play thing as he tells a girl he would dip her in chocolate and throw bananas at her ass… Ok, at least he's thinking outside of the box. Though it won't get him inside the box :) Pun intended. Puns are the lowest form of humor.
Rian- Nodding too much and not smiling. Why is he using the Elvis opener? He almost moves one fatty but he’s not quite strong enough. Remember my rule, if you can’t physically lift the girl you need to either date thinner or get stronger.
Todd- Nice move of the group, Bottle service is like cheating.The only thing that's more like cheating is " Hey wanna go back to my place and do some coke?" He still does really well for a beginner. Good for him. He's starting to get a solid understanding of how to run attraction.
Matt is still rocking the boa but he explains himself too much. In fact two girls walk off in the middle. He’s very apologetic. You gotta pretend to be Jacque le coq grande. Acting as if you're cooler than the girl is rule # 2. Rule # 76 is no excuses play like a champion. Rule # 0 Never disrespect Chuck Norris. Ever. His calendar goes from March 31st-April 2nd, cause NO ONE fools Chuck. There's a Chuckisms app for the Iphone. It's AMAZING!!!
Simion- Consistently gets ignored on the opener, creepy, he reminds me of the joker.But without the charisma. He's kinda like a used car salesman. He seems like he has an agenda. Either that or these girls realize they may actually be in physical danger. He can’t even pull to a table, probably because they don't want to get roofied. The faces of the girls look like they’re seeing Dracula or Godzilla, or a guy with a gun. it doesn't help that he's using Mystery's " no one puts Baby in a corner" opener. That line is just weird and creepy. Mystery makes it work, cause well... cause he's Mystery, but if you're not really good at talking and dealing with awkward reactions you're gonna flame out on that one.
Karl- Looks really effeminate, he’s waifish. Doc Holliday can pull that off, he can’t. A lot of these guys are using Mystery’s material but they lack the enthusiasm and natural conversational abilities. So it just comes off weird when he’s talking about capers and Ocean’s 11. He’s ignoring all the obstacles as well.
Finally Greg heads in from the truck- He approaches two hotties,leans in a bit, but he’s doing really well, he needs to lock in. He moves the girls to the table and then number closes. He even successfully avoids the girl trying to take his number without giving him hers. Really well done.
Mystery gives a pep talk about how he watched a pickup artist walk in talk to one group of girls and get a phone number. That's what a PUA does he says.
Well allow me to retort:
A pick up artist takes a phone number. A cool guy takes the girl home and bangs her like it's no big deal. Which one do you wanna be?
Wow Mystery isn’t wearing a vest it’s like a skirt vest dealie… He’s partying like it’s 1492. Let’s get medeivil on these bitches! It's seriously like a girl's peasant skirt. I'm amused that I'm so Valley I use like in text.
Here come the tears! Right on schedule as Rian crys about not getting his shine on. That’s why I’m glad I listen to rap. I know how to shine. Diddy taught me :)
Yeah medallions. Time to cleanse bitches!
Mystery gets gangster on Greg and tells him he was gonna send him off. That was cool. Needed to be said. I prolly would have made him cry though :) Mystery's good at being harsh without being insulting. Always has been.
The formulaic cut before elimination. Nice!
And effeminate Karl gets sent home. Proving that if Mystery thinks you’re gay it’s
Gayme Over.
I should be reviewing episode 4 tomor though I am buried, so as Eazy-E once said " Don't quote me boy cause I ain't said shit!"
S
P.S: If you're new to the Game or community and want to learn more check out The Game Acceleration Doctrine for free. It'll teach you that you don't need eyeliner and peasant skirts to get better with women.
Download it Here
Wednesday, October 29, 2008
Pick Up Artist Episode 2 Late Recap...
I know, I know, I know.
I'm over a week late and should be reviewing the third episode here, but I had to sift through a million applications to 12 steps to pick up mastery and we've still got 50 applications and 25 spots... It's really hard turning down deserving guys for this program...
Any way onto the episode. I'm downloading episode 3 off Itunes as we speak, so I will get back to regular updates soon.
So episode 2 starts off with the reaction to Alex the fat guy of ambiguous sexuality getting kicked off the show. This leads to the awesome quote of " You've got to bring it or go home!" It's just like the NBA's Win or go home except it's already been broughten!!!
So after that the guys head off to the Old Age Pensioners home. Here they have to initiate conversations with geriatric old ladies as they play bingo. I'm sad this wasn't shot in Las Vegas where the Septagenerians would have come equipped with credit cards around their necks and cigarettes dripping off their lips. Wait I smoke cigarettes... scratch that last part. Here Matt really begins to shine. He says it's because he works the room at his Bubbie's nursing home. Brian makes the faux pas of saying it's awesome how the old ladies stink! Kevin reminds them of how they're old and have the best stories, and no one else embarasses themselves too badly. Matador even wears sleeves as Mystery announces that Matt is the winner of the challenge.
The winner of the challenge gets a special mystery peacocking gift from Mystery. Oh how I wished it was goggles. But alas it was a feather boa. This is an old school tactic of locking in a girl by putting an item of your clothing on her. Doesn't work especially great in real life as sometimes the girls just don't want to have your stuff on them and it can get weird if you have to keep putting a scarf, sunglasses, etc back on her. Mystery gives Matt a lesson on using it later on. It seems Erik is still teaching all the stuff he taught on my bootcamp. I wonder how he makes it all fresh and exciting for himself...
Then the guys get to learn to open, here we're treated to a dose of good old fashioned opinion openers, false time constraints and negs!!! This part was the most trippy to me of the entire show, because it's obvious that these guys need to slow down and learn how to start and maintain basic conversations before they try to pull off openers and negs. Their social anxiety is through the roof and there's no way they'll be able to SMOOTHLY execute these ideas. You can tell by the way Brian the fro of destiny( and my personal favorite part of the show) voice cracks when he's practicing his negs. LaDYYY I'm NOT going To MAKKEEE OUTTT WITHHH YOUUUUU.... All over the place. He'd be way better off learning to initiate conversations see it's not scary and then build a solid foundation of social skills. You can't neg girls when you don't believe you're cooler than them, it just doesn't work.
Now it's time for the big kill. The guys head out to Axis/Radius which used to be one of my favorite clubs in Scottsdale but now will no doubt be littered with PUA wannabes... The blowouts come fast and furious. Simieon the hyperactive guy gets the worst of them as he's told to fuck off and told he's boring another group of girls. This guy's problem is that he's scary intense. He thinks he's being high energy and playfull but it's WAY too intimidating to girls as he's basically asking them to match his intensity. He's both high energy and needy at the same time. Not a good combination. One of the guys tries a DHV story about how he beat up Andy Dick, and the girl asks him what the point of that story was. That's a oucher. I've had that happen to me especially when I first started. You have to always remember with DHV stories that they have to be cool enough to tell even if they didn't make you look good. Generally it's a better idea to lower your idea about how interesting the conversation needs to be rather than coming up with contrived fake sounding DHV stories. You always have to remember fun is the most important thing. Matt has a rough night with the boa as he pairs it with a hawaiin shirt. This is one of the most basic fashion mistakes dudes make. They pair different genres together and think that because a piece of clothing is cool in a certain style ( The boa with a goth style per se) that it will be cool matched with another style. This is simply not true. When you're getting dressed, you should always be thinking about your character and overall theme. I'ma bit of a high fashion hipster with a punk flare, Brad P's a modern rock star, Matador looks like an action hero. We all have our looks, figure out what yours is and build from there, rather than mixing and matching as Matt did. He finally gets opened overdoes the cocky and funny and ends up insulting the girl til her friends save her. We do get to hear that the boa is magic in Mystery's hands tho... Good to know that.
Kevin has decided to take a page from the drunk Sinn book and thus every third word should be fucking. I swear a lot, and this guy is making me cringe. He ends up getting eliminated.
Overall the guys did worse than a usual first night group of students on bootcamp, but I think it's the fact that they were all being forced into a classical MM mold as opposed to being allowed to experiment with different styles of openers, and different conversation techniques. They did include turning questions into statements but I'd have liked to see more on leading the conversation using questions or statements, more on keeping attention in the group etc... On the brightside for all you KJs out there, they are reusing old material so hopefully we won't get the sky is falling message board topic this year.
The show is growing on me, this episode was way better... I still don't have a good joke about Matador's pink fishnet shirt so if you come up with one email it to me.
BEst,
S
I'm over a week late and should be reviewing the third episode here, but I had to sift through a million applications to 12 steps to pick up mastery and we've still got 50 applications and 25 spots... It's really hard turning down deserving guys for this program...
Any way onto the episode. I'm downloading episode 3 off Itunes as we speak, so I will get back to regular updates soon.
So episode 2 starts off with the reaction to Alex the fat guy of ambiguous sexuality getting kicked off the show. This leads to the awesome quote of " You've got to bring it or go home!" It's just like the NBA's Win or go home except it's already been broughten!!!
So after that the guys head off to the Old Age Pensioners home. Here they have to initiate conversations with geriatric old ladies as they play bingo. I'm sad this wasn't shot in Las Vegas where the Septagenerians would have come equipped with credit cards around their necks and cigarettes dripping off their lips. Wait I smoke cigarettes... scratch that last part. Here Matt really begins to shine. He says it's because he works the room at his Bubbie's nursing home. Brian makes the faux pas of saying it's awesome how the old ladies stink! Kevin reminds them of how they're old and have the best stories, and no one else embarasses themselves too badly. Matador even wears sleeves as Mystery announces that Matt is the winner of the challenge.
The winner of the challenge gets a special mystery peacocking gift from Mystery. Oh how I wished it was goggles. But alas it was a feather boa. This is an old school tactic of locking in a girl by putting an item of your clothing on her. Doesn't work especially great in real life as sometimes the girls just don't want to have your stuff on them and it can get weird if you have to keep putting a scarf, sunglasses, etc back on her. Mystery gives Matt a lesson on using it later on. It seems Erik is still teaching all the stuff he taught on my bootcamp. I wonder how he makes it all fresh and exciting for himself...
Then the guys get to learn to open, here we're treated to a dose of good old fashioned opinion openers, false time constraints and negs!!! This part was the most trippy to me of the entire show, because it's obvious that these guys need to slow down and learn how to start and maintain basic conversations before they try to pull off openers and negs. Their social anxiety is through the roof and there's no way they'll be able to SMOOTHLY execute these ideas. You can tell by the way Brian the fro of destiny( and my personal favorite part of the show) voice cracks when he's practicing his negs. LaDYYY I'm NOT going To MAKKEEE OUTTT WITHHH YOUUUUU.... All over the place. He'd be way better off learning to initiate conversations see it's not scary and then build a solid foundation of social skills. You can't neg girls when you don't believe you're cooler than them, it just doesn't work.
Now it's time for the big kill. The guys head out to Axis/Radius which used to be one of my favorite clubs in Scottsdale but now will no doubt be littered with PUA wannabes... The blowouts come fast and furious. Simieon the hyperactive guy gets the worst of them as he's told to fuck off and told he's boring another group of girls. This guy's problem is that he's scary intense. He thinks he's being high energy and playfull but it's WAY too intimidating to girls as he's basically asking them to match his intensity. He's both high energy and needy at the same time. Not a good combination. One of the guys tries a DHV story about how he beat up Andy Dick, and the girl asks him what the point of that story was. That's a oucher. I've had that happen to me especially when I first started. You have to always remember with DHV stories that they have to be cool enough to tell even if they didn't make you look good. Generally it's a better idea to lower your idea about how interesting the conversation needs to be rather than coming up with contrived fake sounding DHV stories. You always have to remember fun is the most important thing. Matt has a rough night with the boa as he pairs it with a hawaiin shirt. This is one of the most basic fashion mistakes dudes make. They pair different genres together and think that because a piece of clothing is cool in a certain style ( The boa with a goth style per se) that it will be cool matched with another style. This is simply not true. When you're getting dressed, you should always be thinking about your character and overall theme. I'ma bit of a high fashion hipster with a punk flare, Brad P's a modern rock star, Matador looks like an action hero. We all have our looks, figure out what yours is and build from there, rather than mixing and matching as Matt did. He finally gets opened overdoes the cocky and funny and ends up insulting the girl til her friends save her. We do get to hear that the boa is magic in Mystery's hands tho... Good to know that.
Kevin has decided to take a page from the drunk Sinn book and thus every third word should be fucking. I swear a lot, and this guy is making me cringe. He ends up getting eliminated.
Overall the guys did worse than a usual first night group of students on bootcamp, but I think it's the fact that they were all being forced into a classical MM mold as opposed to being allowed to experiment with different styles of openers, and different conversation techniques. They did include turning questions into statements but I'd have liked to see more on leading the conversation using questions or statements, more on keeping attention in the group etc... On the brightside for all you KJs out there, they are reusing old material so hopefully we won't get the sky is falling message board topic this year.
The show is growing on me, this episode was way better... I still don't have a good joke about Matador's pink fishnet shirt so if you come up with one email it to me.
BEst,
S
Friday, October 24, 2008
Review of Group Attraction!
Hey guys,
As part of The 7 steps to Pickup Mastery Course, I'm going to be doing thorough monthly product reviews exclusively for my coaching students. I thought I'd let all of you guys in on the first one.
This is NOT an advertisment and there are NO affiliate links in the reviews, it's just an overview of what I think is a VERY useful product for guys just getting started.
So without further ado, here's my review...
When I was in San Diego a few weeks ago, Mehow was gracious enough to give me a copy of his brand new Group Attraction Manifesto, and I have to say it’s one of the most unique products I’ve ever seen.
The basis of TGAM resides in a shift of focus from target based game to a more group centric approach. The idea is a shift away from what’s commonly accepted as game within the community. Instead of going in and trying to attract one girl while befriending everyone else, you attract all the girls in the group. Group attraction focuses on a few different things that I’ll breakdown one at a time.
The first focus of Group Attraction is on Pure Kino. Pure Kino focuses on plowing the group with touching while spiking emotions at the same time. This is a way of running your entire “attraction phase” without the need for long drawn out stories or routines. It also helps you build a ton of compliance and allows you to quickly pump buying temperature through the roof. The most interesting thing about Pure Kino is the way Mehow has all of the touching and escalations timed out. I’ll talk more about that when we get to the section on DNA code next.
The DNA code is where Mehow breaks down every channel of subcommunication. From verbal inflection, to eye contact to touching. The DNA code tells you exactly what to subcommunicate and when. This is a revolutionary new way of teaching. I think this will be especially useful for guys who work in overly technical fields. With DNA code, you’ll know exactly what to do with all aspects of your communication channels, and more importantly what order to do it in. This allows you to have better delivery faster! In addition to improving delivery, the DNA code also helps with touching. By timing the release of touching to coincide witht the high points of emotional stimulation, you give yourself the best possible chance that the women will chase you! I do have one warning about the DNA code stuff, it can be a little challenging to understand in the beginning. It took me a couple of read throughs of the passages on it before I finally started to figure it out. Overall this is Mehow’s biggest contribution to the dating science community thus far. This level of notation really opens up what you can do as far as teaching is concerned.
Another great part of The Group Attraction Manifesto was the section on Mehow’s model of opening. Things have changed a bit since The Get The Girl Manual and the model now includes Group Love/Hate Teasing. Group love hate teasing takes the idea of teasing just the target and redirects it to the entire group without losing any of the effectiveness. The key to GLHT is in combining IOIs and IODs. This is key to any good tease as you always want to keep the girl and the group swinging between validation and devalidation as my buddy In10se always says. Mehow’s idea of “social “openers is a refreshing break from the monotony of opinion openers or the problems many beginners run into with direct. The great thing about social openers is that you can literally open every group in a venue with the same opener and everyone will just think you’re fun and social.
Mehow also includes a longer explanation of his “microloop” theory. This was one of the more interesting parts of the book to me as it expands on why and how compliance momentum builds. The best example of microloops can be seen in Mystery’s Bait-Hook-Reel-Release model for qualification. Mehow takes this a step further as he explains how microloops can be integrated into every human interaction. This part of the book alone is worth the price of the course for most guys just getting into the game.
As always the production quality of Mehow’s product is off the charts. The book looks AMAZING! Plus the models Mehow got for the cover and subsequent illustrations are super hot! One of the things I really like about Mehow is how thorough he is in quoting his sources. There are footnotes galore in TGAM, and he makes sure that everyone gets credit. Everyone who knows me has heard my thoughts on how many guys rip people off in the scene , and it’s refreshing to see someone go so far out of his way not to. There are a ton of diagrams and pictures illustrating the processes being described which really helps the reader understand what’s going on clearly and fluidly.
Overall I would recommend TGAM very highly to anyone whose just getting started in the game or really wants to work on getting their attraction phase handled. In a way this product is the opposite of Tim from RSD’s Flawless Natural in that this is really designed for the guys who have NO natural ability, and really need someone to step by step describe what to do, when to do it, and how to sound when you’re doing it! I can’t wait to read the second half and see the DVDS! Check it out yourself at Here
S
As part of The 7 steps to Pickup Mastery Course, I'm going to be doing thorough monthly product reviews exclusively for my coaching students. I thought I'd let all of you guys in on the first one.
This is NOT an advertisment and there are NO affiliate links in the reviews, it's just an overview of what I think is a VERY useful product for guys just getting started.
So without further ado, here's my review...
When I was in San Diego a few weeks ago, Mehow was gracious enough to give me a copy of his brand new Group Attraction Manifesto, and I have to say it’s one of the most unique products I’ve ever seen.
The basis of TGAM resides in a shift of focus from target based game to a more group centric approach. The idea is a shift away from what’s commonly accepted as game within the community. Instead of going in and trying to attract one girl while befriending everyone else, you attract all the girls in the group. Group attraction focuses on a few different things that I’ll breakdown one at a time.
The first focus of Group Attraction is on Pure Kino. Pure Kino focuses on plowing the group with touching while spiking emotions at the same time. This is a way of running your entire “attraction phase” without the need for long drawn out stories or routines. It also helps you build a ton of compliance and allows you to quickly pump buying temperature through the roof. The most interesting thing about Pure Kino is the way Mehow has all of the touching and escalations timed out. I’ll talk more about that when we get to the section on DNA code next.
The DNA code is where Mehow breaks down every channel of subcommunication. From verbal inflection, to eye contact to touching. The DNA code tells you exactly what to subcommunicate and when. This is a revolutionary new way of teaching. I think this will be especially useful for guys who work in overly technical fields. With DNA code, you’ll know exactly what to do with all aspects of your communication channels, and more importantly what order to do it in. This allows you to have better delivery faster! In addition to improving delivery, the DNA code also helps with touching. By timing the release of touching to coincide witht the high points of emotional stimulation, you give yourself the best possible chance that the women will chase you! I do have one warning about the DNA code stuff, it can be a little challenging to understand in the beginning. It took me a couple of read throughs of the passages on it before I finally started to figure it out. Overall this is Mehow’s biggest contribution to the dating science community thus far. This level of notation really opens up what you can do as far as teaching is concerned.
Another great part of The Group Attraction Manifesto was the section on Mehow’s model of opening. Things have changed a bit since The Get The Girl Manual and the model now includes Group Love/Hate Teasing. Group love hate teasing takes the idea of teasing just the target and redirects it to the entire group without losing any of the effectiveness. The key to GLHT is in combining IOIs and IODs. This is key to any good tease as you always want to keep the girl and the group swinging between validation and devalidation as my buddy In10se always says. Mehow’s idea of “social “openers is a refreshing break from the monotony of opinion openers or the problems many beginners run into with direct. The great thing about social openers is that you can literally open every group in a venue with the same opener and everyone will just think you’re fun and social.
Mehow also includes a longer explanation of his “microloop” theory. This was one of the more interesting parts of the book to me as it expands on why and how compliance momentum builds. The best example of microloops can be seen in Mystery’s Bait-Hook-Reel-Release model for qualification. Mehow takes this a step further as he explains how microloops can be integrated into every human interaction. This part of the book alone is worth the price of the course for most guys just getting into the game.
As always the production quality of Mehow’s product is off the charts. The book looks AMAZING! Plus the models Mehow got for the cover and subsequent illustrations are super hot! One of the things I really like about Mehow is how thorough he is in quoting his sources. There are footnotes galore in TGAM, and he makes sure that everyone gets credit. Everyone who knows me has heard my thoughts on how many guys rip people off in the scene , and it’s refreshing to see someone go so far out of his way not to. There are a ton of diagrams and pictures illustrating the processes being described which really helps the reader understand what’s going on clearly and fluidly.
Overall I would recommend TGAM very highly to anyone whose just getting started in the game or really wants to work on getting their attraction phase handled. In a way this product is the opposite of Tim from RSD’s Flawless Natural in that this is really designed for the guys who have NO natural ability, and really need someone to step by step describe what to do, when to do it, and how to sound when you’re doing it! I can’t wait to read the second half and see the DVDS! Check it out yourself at Here
S
7 Steps To Pickup Mastery Update!
Yo!
The Game Acceleration Tele-Seminar Last night was amazing! If you made the call you got to hear in great detail the 7-steps to becoming a master-level pick-up artist in 12 months or less.
You got to hear about the EXACT system that it took me five long years to develop. The system that I used to help guys like El Topo, Future, and many of my long-term coaching clients get to a master level in less than a year.
At the end of the call, I announced the Sinns of Attraction 12 Months to Mastery Coaching Program, a 12 month program that combines tons of personal one-on-one coaching with me with extensive LIVE trainings.
Because of the unprecedented amounts of personal access I'm giving in the program, I have to strictly limit its capacity to 25 committed guys.
A lot of guys have asked me whether the conference call is going to be replayed. The answer is no. I said this was a one-time only call and I'm going to stick to my word on that.
However...
I did get a ton of emails from guys anxious to get into the coaching program who weren't able to get on the call for a variety reasons.
Because I'm looking to create a great group of committed guys and don't want to penalize you too much if you had a valid reason for missing the call, I'm going to open the application process for the next 48 hours to EVERYONE.
Here is what you will get if you are accepted into the Program:
- Access to the 12 Month Sinns of Attraction Curriculum: This Curriculum is divided into 12 modules and teaches you EVERYTHING you need to master this area of your life, including all my latest systems and techniques on attraction, qualification, same night lays, gaming 9 and 10s, relationship management, day game and too many other things to list.
- 52 Weekly lessons delivered via email and snail mail
- Two 30-60 minute video broadcasts per month
- One 60-minute GROUP coaching call a month
- TWO full-scale 3-day Bootcamps (limited to 12 people) lead personally by me ( The first will take place in January).
- One end of the year Mastermind Training Summit (this is going to be a three-day intensive training event where I'm only going to be teaching ultra ultra advanced stuff like harem management, threesomes, 15-minute pulls, etc)
- One 45-minute one on one PRIVATE call with me EVERY month
- UNLIMITED email access to me for a year
- Access to the members only Sinns of Attraction Mastermind Forum
- The Chance to travel the world with me as a Sinns of Attraction Instructor
The 25 guys who get into this program are going to get unprecedented personal access to me for an entire year both live and through a multi-media curriculum.
This program has an actual, documented value of well over $22,500. But until Midnight, this Sunday October 26, 2008 you can get everything above for only $397 per month. Or you can pay in full and get a special book keeping discount for the low price of $4,250.
This is a 12-month commitment.The reason why I'm pricing this so low is because I'm looking to create an elite group of committed guys and I want to make this program accessible so anyone who really wants in has the chance to apply.
If you want to apply, go to
Here
Put in your deposit and download your application. This is very important!!! Because our merchant account is brand new and we got 16 guys signed up yesterday, our account got frozen. So there are only 9 spaces left, BUT YOU HAVE TO RESERVE THEM USING THE PAYPAL OPTION!!! If you sign up by credit card, your application will NOT be processed.
If you are not accepted into the program, you will be notified and your deposit will be refunded to you within 24 hours.
Best,
Sinn
P.S. This program truly is a once-in-a lifetime opportunity to learn one on one with a master for an entire year. You don't want to miss out. Go to www.sinnsofattraction.com/12months now to apply!
The Game Acceleration Tele-Seminar Last night was amazing! If you made the call you got to hear in great detail the 7-steps to becoming a master-level pick-up artist in 12 months or less.
You got to hear about the EXACT system that it took me five long years to develop. The system that I used to help guys like El Topo, Future, and many of my long-term coaching clients get to a master level in less than a year.
At the end of the call, I announced the Sinns of Attraction 12 Months to Mastery Coaching Program, a 12 month program that combines tons of personal one-on-one coaching with me with extensive LIVE trainings.
Because of the unprecedented amounts of personal access I'm giving in the program, I have to strictly limit its capacity to 25 committed guys.
A lot of guys have asked me whether the conference call is going to be replayed. The answer is no. I said this was a one-time only call and I'm going to stick to my word on that.
However...
I did get a ton of emails from guys anxious to get into the coaching program who weren't able to get on the call for a variety reasons.
Because I'm looking to create a great group of committed guys and don't want to penalize you too much if you had a valid reason for missing the call, I'm going to open the application process for the next 48 hours to EVERYONE.
Here is what you will get if you are accepted into the Program:
- Access to the 12 Month Sinns of Attraction Curriculum: This Curriculum is divided into 12 modules and teaches you EVERYTHING you need to master this area of your life, including all my latest systems and techniques on attraction, qualification, same night lays, gaming 9 and 10s, relationship management, day game and too many other things to list.
- 52 Weekly lessons delivered via email and snail mail
- Two 30-60 minute video broadcasts per month
- One 60-minute GROUP coaching call a month
- TWO full-scale 3-day Bootcamps (limited to 12 people) lead personally by me ( The first will take place in January).
- One end of the year Mastermind Training Summit (this is going to be a three-day intensive training event where I'm only going to be teaching ultra ultra advanced stuff like harem management, threesomes, 15-minute pulls, etc)
- One 45-minute one on one PRIVATE call with me EVERY month
- UNLIMITED email access to me for a year
- Access to the members only Sinns of Attraction Mastermind Forum
- The Chance to travel the world with me as a Sinns of Attraction Instructor
The 25 guys who get into this program are going to get unprecedented personal access to me for an entire year both live and through a multi-media curriculum.
This program has an actual, documented value of well over $22,500. But until Midnight, this Sunday October 26, 2008 you can get everything above for only $397 per month. Or you can pay in full and get a special book keeping discount for the low price of $4,250.
This is a 12-month commitment.The reason why I'm pricing this so low is because I'm looking to create an elite group of committed guys and I want to make this program accessible so anyone who really wants in has the chance to apply.
If you want to apply, go to
Here
Put in your deposit and download your application. This is very important!!! Because our merchant account is brand new and we got 16 guys signed up yesterday, our account got frozen. So there are only 9 spaces left, BUT YOU HAVE TO RESERVE THEM USING THE PAYPAL OPTION!!! If you sign up by credit card, your application will NOT be processed.
If you are not accepted into the program, you will be notified and your deposit will be refunded to you within 24 hours.
Best,
Sinn
P.S. This program truly is a once-in-a lifetime opportunity to learn one on one with a master for an entire year. You don't want to miss out. Go to www.sinnsofattraction.com/12months now to apply!
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Reminder: The Game Acceleration Tele-Seminar is TONIGHT!
Hey guys,
As you probably know, tonight I’m hosting a groundbreaking FREE Game Acceleration tele-seminar where you'll discover my never-before-revealed 7 steps to becoming an expert-level pick up artist in 12 months or less.
This call ties together everything I’ve been sharing with you these past couple of weeks starting with the release of the Game Acceleration Doctrine and gives you the critical pieces that guarantee your game explodes in the next 12 months.
Here's a sample of what you'll discover on this call:
How to guarantee you're ALWAYS moving towards your dating goals
The two missing elements that separates the guys who get really good quickly from the guys who struggle
How to become a master of day game, same night lays, and stripper game in a matter of months, not years!
A "secret weapon" used by world class athletes and Fortune 500 CEOs that will practically guarantee you become an unstoppable ladies man in no time!
The three facets of game that you must master if you want to truly have incredible power and choice with women!
Participants on this call will also get the chance to apply to my long-term coaching program.
But even if you don't apply to the program, in this call you'll discover the juicy details that will take your game to epic levels immediately!
For complete details and to register for this monumental event go to to
Here
Best,
Sinn
As you probably know, tonight I’m hosting a groundbreaking FREE Game Acceleration tele-seminar where you'll discover my never-before-revealed 7 steps to becoming an expert-level pick up artist in 12 months or less.
This call ties together everything I’ve been sharing with you these past couple of weeks starting with the release of the Game Acceleration Doctrine and gives you the critical pieces that guarantee your game explodes in the next 12 months.
Here's a sample of what you'll discover on this call:
How to guarantee you're ALWAYS moving towards your dating goals
The two missing elements that separates the guys who get really good quickly from the guys who struggle
How to become a master of day game, same night lays, and stripper game in a matter of months, not years!
A "secret weapon" used by world class athletes and Fortune 500 CEOs that will practically guarantee you become an unstoppable ladies man in no time!
The three facets of game that you must master if you want to truly have incredible power and choice with women!
Participants on this call will also get the chance to apply to my long-term coaching program.
But even if you don't apply to the program, in this call you'll discover the juicy details that will take your game to epic levels immediately!
For complete details and to register for this monumental event go to to
Here
Best,
Sinn
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
Sticking point clusters
Hey guys,
As I sit here in beautiful Hawaii preparing for my Teleseminar tomor, I wanted to share a newish thought about sticking points.
A sticking point for those who don't know is a problem area in your game that consistently stops you from having success with women. Sticking points can be inner game related-like approach anxiety,they can be outer game focused-like body language and running out of things to say, or they can be a combination-like escalation anxiety.
So what is the running theme of sticking points? They all happen in clusters. It's very rare that you will have 2 to 3 completely unrelated sticking points. Instead you will generally have a few SPs that bunch together and cause your interactions to stop working.
I just did a call with one of my long term coaching students Dr Love where we discussed his two interrelated day game sticking points. The first one was not being able to remember his material. Because of this he rushed into qualification and often ended up sounding like he was giving a job interview. This led to his other sticking point of not being able to make qualification stick. Most problems in your game generally occur in the stage before you see the bad result. For example if you open badly, it will be much harder to get attraction, if you rush through attraction, it will be much harder to build compliance based qualification, and so on and so forth. That's why it's critical to be able to CORRECTLY diagnose your sticking points. DR Love felt his sticking points were body language, clothing and appearence. When he fixed these three he still had trouble hooking sets. The reason those were just the beginning sticking points he had to deal with.
On this last call I did with Dr Love we really blasted through both of those sticking points! So much so that i wanted to share the call with you guys, to give you a feel for how to do Sticking Point Analysis(TM Captain Jack). You can download the call:
Here
To learn more about how to diagnose your own sticking points and put them into an action plan for success, be sure not to miss my free Teleseminar tomorrow on " The 7 Steps to Becoming a Master Pick Up Artist in 12 Months or Less"
You can register for that Here
Be sure to hit me up with feedback about the call and the teleseminar tomor!
Speak to ya soon
S
P.S: I have 4 Lay reports upcoming from the superconference weekend, as well as my running diary of the Pick Up Artist Episode 2. So stay tuned!!!
As I sit here in beautiful Hawaii preparing for my Teleseminar tomor, I wanted to share a newish thought about sticking points.
A sticking point for those who don't know is a problem area in your game that consistently stops you from having success with women. Sticking points can be inner game related-like approach anxiety,they can be outer game focused-like body language and running out of things to say, or they can be a combination-like escalation anxiety.
So what is the running theme of sticking points? They all happen in clusters. It's very rare that you will have 2 to 3 completely unrelated sticking points. Instead you will generally have a few SPs that bunch together and cause your interactions to stop working.
I just did a call with one of my long term coaching students Dr Love where we discussed his two interrelated day game sticking points. The first one was not being able to remember his material. Because of this he rushed into qualification and often ended up sounding like he was giving a job interview. This led to his other sticking point of not being able to make qualification stick. Most problems in your game generally occur in the stage before you see the bad result. For example if you open badly, it will be much harder to get attraction, if you rush through attraction, it will be much harder to build compliance based qualification, and so on and so forth. That's why it's critical to be able to CORRECTLY diagnose your sticking points. DR Love felt his sticking points were body language, clothing and appearence. When he fixed these three he still had trouble hooking sets. The reason those were just the beginning sticking points he had to deal with.
On this last call I did with Dr Love we really blasted through both of those sticking points! So much so that i wanted to share the call with you guys, to give you a feel for how to do Sticking Point Analysis(TM Captain Jack). You can download the call:
Here
To learn more about how to diagnose your own sticking points and put them into an action plan for success, be sure not to miss my free Teleseminar tomorrow on " The 7 Steps to Becoming a Master Pick Up Artist in 12 Months or Less"
You can register for that Here
Be sure to hit me up with feedback about the call and the teleseminar tomor!
Speak to ya soon
S
P.S: I have 4 Lay reports upcoming from the superconference weekend, as well as my running diary of the Pick Up Artist Episode 2. So stay tuned!!!
Monday, October 20, 2008
At the Superconference, and more details on the next call...
Hey guys,
It's been a crazy couple of days at the Superconference in LA. It started off with me and 5.0 completing an acrobatic monkey( A made up term for when you pick up a 2 set and both have sex with each of the two girls, a switch if you will) then I pulled again the next night and had a weird experience of waking up next to a girl and not remembering her name, or how I got there, or even how I got into the set. Gotta love alcohol.So that made 3 new girls in the first two days in LA. It would get weirder from here..
I gave my talk on personalizing your game and revealed a few tips on what to personalize and when. Specifically talking about fashion, routines, escalation strategies, humor, and schticks. The talk went over really well and I got to spend a lot of time talking to students one on one during the breaks between sessions and stuff.
I also got to see a lot of my former students who have now become lead instructors in their own right. Especially guys like Mr M, Braddock and Soul. They've all really come into their own as instructors and it makes me proud of the help I was able to give them.
Here were some highlights of the conference for me:
Moxie's talk on state. This was one of the presentations I missed at the last superconference and I made sure I was there in the front row for it this time. Moxie went over a ton of ways to get and keep yourself in state as well as a bunch of ways to make going out be more fun.
Brad P on fashion and 10 minute seductions. I always look forward to seeing Brad speak. He's just got a way different vibe from almost anyone else who's teaching. I personally think it's cause he's an actually cool guy, not a guy who learned to be cool off the internet(like me).
Savoy on female psychology is always a good talk, and it seems like he adds something new everytime I see it.
I even got Sheriff to sit down and give his take on The Game Acceleration Doctrine:
I'm also super-excited to announce that we're doing a special one-time only Game Acceleration Tele-Conference this THURSDAY at 7:00 p.m. eastern time. If you've enjoyed the Game Acceleration Doctrine and the information that I've released in the last couple of weeks, you DO NOT want to miss this one-time only call.
The topic is "The 7 Steps to Becoming An Expert Pick-Up Artist In 12 Months Or Less" In this call, I'm going to tie together EVERYTHING I've been talking about for the last two weeks. For many of you, this call will make a turning point in your life and that is NOT a joke.
Register here:
HERE
It's been a crazy couple of days at the Superconference in LA. It started off with me and 5.0 completing an acrobatic monkey( A made up term for when you pick up a 2 set and both have sex with each of the two girls, a switch if you will) then I pulled again the next night and had a weird experience of waking up next to a girl and not remembering her name, or how I got there, or even how I got into the set. Gotta love alcohol.So that made 3 new girls in the first two days in LA. It would get weirder from here..
I gave my talk on personalizing your game and revealed a few tips on what to personalize and when. Specifically talking about fashion, routines, escalation strategies, humor, and schticks. The talk went over really well and I got to spend a lot of time talking to students one on one during the breaks between sessions and stuff.
I also got to see a lot of my former students who have now become lead instructors in their own right. Especially guys like Mr M, Braddock and Soul. They've all really come into their own as instructors and it makes me proud of the help I was able to give them.
Here were some highlights of the conference for me:
Moxie's talk on state. This was one of the presentations I missed at the last superconference and I made sure I was there in the front row for it this time. Moxie went over a ton of ways to get and keep yourself in state as well as a bunch of ways to make going out be more fun.
Brad P on fashion and 10 minute seductions. I always look forward to seeing Brad speak. He's just got a way different vibe from almost anyone else who's teaching. I personally think it's cause he's an actually cool guy, not a guy who learned to be cool off the internet(like me).
Savoy on female psychology is always a good talk, and it seems like he adds something new everytime I see it.
I even got Sheriff to sit down and give his take on The Game Acceleration Doctrine:
I'm also super-excited to announce that we're doing a special one-time only Game Acceleration Tele-Conference this THURSDAY at 7:00 p.m. eastern time. If you've enjoyed the Game Acceleration Doctrine and the information that I've released in the last couple of weeks, you DO NOT want to miss this one-time only call.
The topic is "The 7 Steps to Becoming An Expert Pick-Up Artist In 12 Months Or Less" In this call, I'm going to tie together EVERYTHING I've been talking about for the last two weeks. For many of you, this call will make a turning point in your life and that is NOT a joke.
Register here:
HERE
Thursday, October 16, 2008
Apologies About The Call...
Hey guys,
The call yesterday was a huge success! I appreciate all of you guys who called in.
Unfortunately I've gotten hundreds of emails today from guys who missed out on the call. So I wanted to apologize to all of you, and remind you guys that we will be having another call next week. We'll also be revealing all the details of the upcoming " Become Your Own Pick Up Guru" coaching program sometime over the next week or so.
In the meantime, I want to make sure that I answer all of your questions, so if you have any questions about the Game Acceleration Material or the coaching program send them to Sinn@Sinnsofattraction.com.
Tomorrow I'll be sending out a free sample lesson from the coaching program on one of the most important foundations of Inner Game. So stay tuned for that.
Talk to ya soon,
S
The call yesterday was a huge success! I appreciate all of you guys who called in.
Unfortunately I've gotten hundreds of emails today from guys who missed out on the call. So I wanted to apologize to all of you, and remind you guys that we will be having another call next week. We'll also be revealing all the details of the upcoming " Become Your Own Pick Up Guru" coaching program sometime over the next week or so.
In the meantime, I want to make sure that I answer all of your questions, so if you have any questions about the Game Acceleration Material or the coaching program send them to Sinn@Sinnsofattraction.com.
Tomorrow I'll be sending out a free sample lesson from the coaching program on one of the most important foundations of Inner Game. So stay tuned for that.
Talk to ya soon,
S
Wednesday, October 15, 2008
Final Reminder: Free Tele-Seminar Tonight 7PM EST
Hey guys,
If you haven't registered yet for the free teleseminar today at
5:00 p.m. PST, please do so immediately. We only have a few lines
left available.
Here is the original email explaining what will be on the call:
On Wednesday, October 15, at 7 p.m. EST, you're
invited to a FREE Game Acceleration tele-seminar where you'll discover the some of the
little known secrets you must know in order take your game to the next level.
If you've read my Game Acceleration Doctrine and the accompanying information I’ve released in the past week, you’re in for a real treat.
This call expands on that information AND you’ll get the chance to ask me questions about anything that you need clarification on.
Here's a sample of what you'll discover:
* How to apply my system for eliminating approach anxiety in the real world for maximum results
* Three easy ways to eliminate sexual anxiety
* Step by step strategies for physical escalation (you’ll never have to worry about what moves to make in the real world ever again)
* Proven strategies for getting 9 and 10s from someone who has actually done it
* How to quickly eliminate ANY nagging sticking points you may have
* The ONE THING that is holding you back more than anything and what to do about it
And that’s just the first part of the call. For the second part of the call you’ll have the opportunity to ASK ME QUESTIONS about ANYTHING you think you need to take your game to the next level.
This call will be pure, 100% valuable information. Nothing will be sold on the call at all.
So those who are chomping at the bit to get into my coaching program will have to be patient. Sorry about that.
For complete details and to register for this
tele-seminar where I will give away all this valuable information, go
HERE
Best,
Sinn
P.S. I only have 200 lines held for the call so If you want to be part of this, you
must register right away.
Register Here
If you haven't registered yet for the free teleseminar today at
5:00 p.m. PST, please do so immediately. We only have a few lines
left available.
Here is the original email explaining what will be on the call:
On Wednesday, October 15, at 7 p.m. EST, you're
invited to a FREE Game Acceleration tele-seminar where you'll discover the some of the
little known secrets you must know in order take your game to the next level.
If you've read my Game Acceleration Doctrine and the accompanying information I’ve released in the past week, you’re in for a real treat.
This call expands on that information AND you’ll get the chance to ask me questions about anything that you need clarification on.
Here's a sample of what you'll discover:
* How to apply my system for eliminating approach anxiety in the real world for maximum results
* Three easy ways to eliminate sexual anxiety
* Step by step strategies for physical escalation (you’ll never have to worry about what moves to make in the real world ever again)
* Proven strategies for getting 9 and 10s from someone who has actually done it
* How to quickly eliminate ANY nagging sticking points you may have
* The ONE THING that is holding you back more than anything and what to do about it
And that’s just the first part of the call. For the second part of the call you’ll have the opportunity to ASK ME QUESTIONS about ANYTHING you think you need to take your game to the next level.
This call will be pure, 100% valuable information. Nothing will be sold on the call at all.
So those who are chomping at the bit to get into my coaching program will have to be patient. Sorry about that.
For complete details and to register for this
tele-seminar where I will give away all this valuable information, go
HERE
Best,
Sinn
P.S. I only have 200 lines held for the call so If you want to be part of this, you
must register right away.
Register Here
Monday, October 13, 2008
Special Tele-Seminar Wednesday!!!
Hey guys
On Wednesday, October 15, at 7 p.m. EST, you're invited to a FREE Game Acceleration tele-seminar where you'll discover some of the little known secrets you must know in order take your game to the next level.
If you've read my Game Acceleration Doctrine and the accompanying information I've released in the past week, you're in for a real treat.
This call expands on that information AND you'll get the chance to ask me questions about anything that you need clarification on.
Here's a sample of what you'll discover:
* How to apply my system for eliminating approach anxiety in the real world for maximum results
* Three easy ways to eliminate sexual anxiety
* Step by step strategies for physical escalation (you'll never have to worry about what moves to make in the real world ever again)
* Proven strategies for getting 9 and 10s from someone who has actually done it
* How to quickly eliminate ANY nagging sticking points you may have
* The ONE THING that is holding you back more than anything and what to do about it
And that's just the first part of the call. For the second part of the call you'll have the opportunity to ASK ME QUESTIONS about ANYTHING you think you need to take your game to the next level.
This call will be pure, 100% valuable information. Nothing will be sold on the call at all.
So those who are chomping at the bit to get into my coaching program will have to be patient. Sorry about that.
For complete details and to register for this
tele-seminar where I will give away all this valuable information, go
HERE
Best,
Sinn
P.S. I only have 200 lines held for the call so If you want to be part of this, you
must register right away.
www.sinnsofattraction.com/teleseminar
On Wednesday, October 15, at 7 p.m. EST, you're invited to a FREE Game Acceleration tele-seminar where you'll discover some of the little known secrets you must know in order take your game to the next level.
If you've read my Game Acceleration Doctrine and the accompanying information I've released in the past week, you're in for a real treat.
This call expands on that information AND you'll get the chance to ask me questions about anything that you need clarification on.
Here's a sample of what you'll discover:
* How to apply my system for eliminating approach anxiety in the real world for maximum results
* Three easy ways to eliminate sexual anxiety
* Step by step strategies for physical escalation (you'll never have to worry about what moves to make in the real world ever again)
* Proven strategies for getting 9 and 10s from someone who has actually done it
* How to quickly eliminate ANY nagging sticking points you may have
* The ONE THING that is holding you back more than anything and what to do about it
And that's just the first part of the call. For the second part of the call you'll have the opportunity to ASK ME QUESTIONS about ANYTHING you think you need to take your game to the next level.
This call will be pure, 100% valuable information. Nothing will be sold on the call at all.
So those who are chomping at the bit to get into my coaching program will have to be patient. Sorry about that.
For complete details and to register for this
tele-seminar where I will give away all this valuable information, go
HERE
Best,
Sinn
P.S. I only have 200 lines held for the call so If you want to be part of this, you
must register right away.
www.sinnsofattraction.com/teleseminar
I'm Bringing Fast Seduction Back!!!
I've always had a soft spot in my heart for the Fast Seduction message board.
It was there that a 15 year old boy was first introduced to the ideas of not supplicating and talking to girls you don't know in random places. I also wasted a lot of time reading and printing out the Player Guide etc... I first heard of Mystery, Tyler Durden, and Zan there. So it's a place that's near and dear to my heart.
Unfortunately a lot of really good posters have stopped going on there. Despite the fact that FS is actually now better than ever. There's a new mastermind board as well as an updated ranking system to make sure the trolls get recognized and the good guys do as well. So I'll be getting in the ear of all my friends who are great with women like AFC Adam, Moxie, Captain Jack, Doc Holliday and Entropy, El Topo and more to get their asses over there, so we can return ASF to GLORY!!!!!!
In fact I was talking to Formhandle (who as I've gotten to know him better has turned out to be one of the most down to Earth genuine guys I've met in the scene) about how I want to spear head the resurgence of FS. So I'm writing to encourage everyone to take a quick trip over there.
I'll even give you guys a link cause I respect laziness!
Rediscover ASF Here
S
P.S Form and Tokyo PUA also have a great new blog and an upcoming product release. You can learn more about that Here and I'll have a full review of their product when I get a copy.
It was there that a 15 year old boy was first introduced to the ideas of not supplicating and talking to girls you don't know in random places. I also wasted a lot of time reading and printing out the Player Guide etc... I first heard of Mystery, Tyler Durden, and Zan there. So it's a place that's near and dear to my heart.
Unfortunately a lot of really good posters have stopped going on there. Despite the fact that FS is actually now better than ever. There's a new mastermind board as well as an updated ranking system to make sure the trolls get recognized and the good guys do as well. So I'll be getting in the ear of all my friends who are great with women like AFC Adam, Moxie, Captain Jack, Doc Holliday and Entropy, El Topo and more to get their asses over there, so we can return ASF to GLORY!!!!!!
In fact I was talking to Formhandle (who as I've gotten to know him better has turned out to be one of the most down to Earth genuine guys I've met in the scene) about how I want to spear head the resurgence of FS. So I'm writing to encourage everyone to take a quick trip over there.
I'll even give you guys a link cause I respect laziness!
Rediscover ASF Here
S
P.S Form and Tokyo PUA also have a great new blog and an upcoming product release. You can learn more about that Here and I'll have a full review of their product when I get a copy.
The Pick Up Artist Season 2 Episode 1 Running Diary
Hey guys,
I wrote this last night while I watched the first episode of VH1's second season of " The Pick Up Artist." This season I'll be posting my running diary every Monday. There will be special guest appearences from the various people I watch the show with.
The show starts with an Annoying montage of the "lovable losers" walking up inter spliced with scenes of hot girls partying in the mansion pool. I'm as conflicted about this scene as I am about the show in general.
Why am I conflicted you ask?
Well contrary to popular belief, I actually like Mystery and am happy for his success. I saw how badly he wanted to be famous and I'm glad that he's finally there, given his immense talents. That said Matador's a huge tool. As well as possibly the most insane, violent, insecure person I've ever met. So it actually hurts my world view and respect for people in general to see him succeed. Not me at my most enlightened but what-evs. So I'm watching half hoping for it to go well for them and half hoping for a disaster.
One of the guys just pulled out a black book, obviously the writers for this show have not escaped the 70s.
So who are the guys?
Rian-28 year old virgin, seems like the most emotionally frail of all these guys. He needs a kick in the ass.
Carl- This guy got cheated on. I think he's officially my favorite given my world famous dislike of cheating and cheaters.
Matt- This guy is just kind of a dork. He's not anywhere near hopeless and will probably do decentlty once he fixes his fashion and his eagerness.
Greg- This guy is on a 9 year dry spell. I had a 2 year dry spell between losing my virginity and actually getting into the game, so I can sympathize. The hair and glasses need to go though.
Bryan- I'm glad they have 2 Asian guys on here as that's fairly representative of the breakdown in bootcamps. This guy spells words out to help him not stutter. I think the spelling is weirder and worse than the stutter.
Kevin- The other Asian guy is actually fairly good looking. I'm pretty sure he works with The Asian Playboy.
Alex- This guy definitely has the least to work with. He's morbidly obese, super effeminate and wears a large gold chain. I'll be very surprised if Mystery doesn't think it's great peacocking.
It's hysterical how Mystery still uses the exact same phrases and inflections. Here he calls and ends the call with his signature "fair?" The more things change, the more they stay the same.
One guy talks about how he Mystery was on his list of people to meet. This is horrifying to me. Until I remember I was like that too. It still sounds lame though. It's actually representative of a scarcity mentality. If out of all the people on Earth you want to meet someone who can help you get laid more, your priorities are far out of whack and you probably come off desperate to most women.
The gang comes out to meet Mystery and his crew and wouldn't ya know it, Mystery almost looks normal.Except for the googles hat. I used to rock the goggles hat when I didn't know any better, but I always wondered why goggles? Besides the fact that they're shiny and shiny things distract Mystery :)
Onto Matador, in addition to looking like Barry Bonds circa 2003, he's rocking the fur vest. In Arizona. With no sleeves. I keep waiting for him to ask if anyone wants tickets to the gun show. He's also rocking a longer wig this year and a 5 o clock shadow. All of this does nothing to stop him from him from being the most disgusting human being I've ever met.
Tara's a hot chick I don't respect because she slept with Mystery. Or so the rumor I've heard goes. I have absolutely no respect for any girl who sleeps with Erik, and have actually canceled dates with girls because of this. Tara is also a REMARKABLY bad actress. She's so unconvincing they have to cut away from her as she's talking about how she believes in what Mystery teaches.
Mystery takes this way too seriously with the teaching your kid stuff. It doesn't sound profound, it just sounds creepy. Honestly how fucked up is your kid going to be if you start talking to him about DHVS and Negs. I wrote about what I would teach my son a few years ago and you can be damn sure it won't have a thing to do with MM.
Shockingly Mystery's using almost the exact same scripts he used last year. I would have NEVER guessed Mystery would repeat himself in the same exact way with the same exact inflection. It's funny because for the first 6 weeks you hang out with Erik, he's awesome. then about 6 weeks in he starts repeating himself. Over and over again. It's like his personality only covers 6 weeks. I think that's why he has trouble holding on to girls long term.
The slaughter is about to begin as the guys go into the club. Obviously the guys are supposed to look really bad so that Mystery and Matador can swoop in and show them how to do it. The best moments come when Kevin asks one of the girls to dig a little deeper, which can be misunderstood on MANY levels. Matt has the required Kosmo-esque freak out. Which means he's now the favorite.
Mystery's always trying to use new words that he thinks sound cool. After he saw one of those Pirates of The Caribbean movies he was using Savvy all the time. It was kinda like in Mean Girls where the one chick was trying to make "fetch" the cool new slang. Or like in High School when my friend Gabe tried to convince us to use slippery instead of tight. Mystery's now trying to bring back the word cat apparently. I think unless you're black you can't make that sound cool. Though Michal Jordan's urban nickname was " The Black Cat". Haha got my random Jordan reference in!
Matador is making fun of the gold chain. Apparently on planet "I'm a loser with father issues" a fur vest is WAY cooler than a big gold chain
Shockingly a group with a bunch of virgins and guys who have never kissed a girl get destroyed in field.
Now it's time for Mystery and Matador to go in. This year they don't peacock. They both do well despite being C list celebrities. Seriously VH1? I know they didn't peacock but they still get recognized as they walk in. You can see it on the show. they're greeted by a mixed group before they say anything as The Pick Up Artist guys... This proves nothing. O.J Simpson still gets laid by hot girls and he allegedly killed his last wife. Fame overrides all game. They should have had a few of VA's approach coaches go in, so that the guys could actually see real cold approaches. I feel like VH1 really dropped the ball here....
After the formalities of the guys being amazed by celebrities making out with girls, it's time for makeovers.
Mystery leads off with a lecture about avatar. Avatar is a dorky word. No one cool says it, why not just talk about your look. Hell even describing it as a character is better than avatar.
Watching the clothes these guys pick out, really hammers home the point that most guys really don't have much fashion sense in general. I mean it's not that hard to tell what looks good and what looks like you're Sonny Crockett.
We get the first almost breakdown of the show by Rian, and Tara does a half assed job of reassuring him. She halfheartedly tells him that EVERYONE has insecurities. Thank you for your insight Tara. I totally see why they got rid of the awesome Jdog for you.
Good idea to have the guy get his teeth fixed. Teeth are an oft overlooked part of your looks. It's a good idea to invest in some cheap whitening strips.
Wow one guy had never had a professional haircut. How does that even happen? I mean at what point do you decide it's not ok for your mom to cut your hair anymore. For me it was like 6.
We have the total rip off of the 40 year old virgin scene when Matt gets waxed. the only thin missing was him screaming at the waxer...
Alex is really effeminate, I actually think he might be gay, but not ready to come out of the closet. My brother went through a similar phase, before kicking the closet door down. I wonder what his home life is like? My guess is he has a really overbearing smothering mother.
Matador is like Mac on "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia", he never wears sleeves. All that's missing is the tribal tattoo. BTW if you don't watch " It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" you're missing out on the funniest show on TV by far. I recommend going on Hulu now and checking it out. I watched all 3 seasons in like 3 or 4 days. It's hysterical. My favorite episodes are " Mac bangs Dennis' Mom" and " Dennis and Dee go on welfare". You'll thank me for that recommendation later.
Most of the guys look WAY better after their makeovers, most notably Greg. However the styles they put all the guys in are pretty generic. None of them will be the best dressed guy in a bar or club. Especially the guys in the vests. I rocked vests like 2 years ago. It's over let them go... Alex has way too many layers on for his weight. The bigger you are the less you want to pad that with outer shells like the hoody, button down combo he's rocking. Bryan with the fro still looks unkempt and the doo rag makes you a doo-che bag.
Mystery drops the bomb that someone will be going home and it's Alex the morbidly obese effeminate guy. Probably the right call, since he did get opened and not talk to the girl. If you're not gonna take a freebie, you need to leave.
Til next time.
S
If you just stumbled onto this blog after watching the show, and you want to learn more about getting better with women, check out my Game Acceleration Doctrine Here
I wrote this last night while I watched the first episode of VH1's second season of " The Pick Up Artist." This season I'll be posting my running diary every Monday. There will be special guest appearences from the various people I watch the show with.
The show starts with an Annoying montage of the "lovable losers" walking up inter spliced with scenes of hot girls partying in the mansion pool. I'm as conflicted about this scene as I am about the show in general.
Why am I conflicted you ask?
Well contrary to popular belief, I actually like Mystery and am happy for his success. I saw how badly he wanted to be famous and I'm glad that he's finally there, given his immense talents. That said Matador's a huge tool. As well as possibly the most insane, violent, insecure person I've ever met. So it actually hurts my world view and respect for people in general to see him succeed. Not me at my most enlightened but what-evs. So I'm watching half hoping for it to go well for them and half hoping for a disaster.
One of the guys just pulled out a black book, obviously the writers for this show have not escaped the 70s.
So who are the guys?
Rian-28 year old virgin, seems like the most emotionally frail of all these guys. He needs a kick in the ass.
Carl- This guy got cheated on. I think he's officially my favorite given my world famous dislike of cheating and cheaters.
Matt- This guy is just kind of a dork. He's not anywhere near hopeless and will probably do decentlty once he fixes his fashion and his eagerness.
Greg- This guy is on a 9 year dry spell. I had a 2 year dry spell between losing my virginity and actually getting into the game, so I can sympathize. The hair and glasses need to go though.
Bryan- I'm glad they have 2 Asian guys on here as that's fairly representative of the breakdown in bootcamps. This guy spells words out to help him not stutter. I think the spelling is weirder and worse than the stutter.
Kevin- The other Asian guy is actually fairly good looking. I'm pretty sure he works with The Asian Playboy.
Alex- This guy definitely has the least to work with. He's morbidly obese, super effeminate and wears a large gold chain. I'll be very surprised if Mystery doesn't think it's great peacocking.
It's hysterical how Mystery still uses the exact same phrases and inflections. Here he calls and ends the call with his signature "fair?" The more things change, the more they stay the same.
One guy talks about how he Mystery was on his list of people to meet. This is horrifying to me. Until I remember I was like that too. It still sounds lame though. It's actually representative of a scarcity mentality. If out of all the people on Earth you want to meet someone who can help you get laid more, your priorities are far out of whack and you probably come off desperate to most women.
The gang comes out to meet Mystery and his crew and wouldn't ya know it, Mystery almost looks normal.Except for the googles hat. I used to rock the goggles hat when I didn't know any better, but I always wondered why goggles? Besides the fact that they're shiny and shiny things distract Mystery :)
Onto Matador, in addition to looking like Barry Bonds circa 2003, he's rocking the fur vest. In Arizona. With no sleeves. I keep waiting for him to ask if anyone wants tickets to the gun show. He's also rocking a longer wig this year and a 5 o clock shadow. All of this does nothing to stop him from him from being the most disgusting human being I've ever met.
Tara's a hot chick I don't respect because she slept with Mystery. Or so the rumor I've heard goes. I have absolutely no respect for any girl who sleeps with Erik, and have actually canceled dates with girls because of this. Tara is also a REMARKABLY bad actress. She's so unconvincing they have to cut away from her as she's talking about how she believes in what Mystery teaches.
Mystery takes this way too seriously with the teaching your kid stuff. It doesn't sound profound, it just sounds creepy. Honestly how fucked up is your kid going to be if you start talking to him about DHVS and Negs. I wrote about what I would teach my son a few years ago and you can be damn sure it won't have a thing to do with MM.
Shockingly Mystery's using almost the exact same scripts he used last year. I would have NEVER guessed Mystery would repeat himself in the same exact way with the same exact inflection. It's funny because for the first 6 weeks you hang out with Erik, he's awesome. then about 6 weeks in he starts repeating himself. Over and over again. It's like his personality only covers 6 weeks. I think that's why he has trouble holding on to girls long term.
The slaughter is about to begin as the guys go into the club. Obviously the guys are supposed to look really bad so that Mystery and Matador can swoop in and show them how to do it. The best moments come when Kevin asks one of the girls to dig a little deeper, which can be misunderstood on MANY levels. Matt has the required Kosmo-esque freak out. Which means he's now the favorite.
Mystery's always trying to use new words that he thinks sound cool. After he saw one of those Pirates of The Caribbean movies he was using Savvy all the time. It was kinda like in Mean Girls where the one chick was trying to make "fetch" the cool new slang. Or like in High School when my friend Gabe tried to convince us to use slippery instead of tight. Mystery's now trying to bring back the word cat apparently. I think unless you're black you can't make that sound cool. Though Michal Jordan's urban nickname was " The Black Cat". Haha got my random Jordan reference in!
Matador is making fun of the gold chain. Apparently on planet "I'm a loser with father issues" a fur vest is WAY cooler than a big gold chain
Shockingly a group with a bunch of virgins and guys who have never kissed a girl get destroyed in field.
Now it's time for Mystery and Matador to go in. This year they don't peacock. They both do well despite being C list celebrities. Seriously VH1? I know they didn't peacock but they still get recognized as they walk in. You can see it on the show. they're greeted by a mixed group before they say anything as The Pick Up Artist guys... This proves nothing. O.J Simpson still gets laid by hot girls and he allegedly killed his last wife. Fame overrides all game. They should have had a few of VA's approach coaches go in, so that the guys could actually see real cold approaches. I feel like VH1 really dropped the ball here....
After the formalities of the guys being amazed by celebrities making out with girls, it's time for makeovers.
Mystery leads off with a lecture about avatar. Avatar is a dorky word. No one cool says it, why not just talk about your look. Hell even describing it as a character is better than avatar.
Watching the clothes these guys pick out, really hammers home the point that most guys really don't have much fashion sense in general. I mean it's not that hard to tell what looks good and what looks like you're Sonny Crockett.
We get the first almost breakdown of the show by Rian, and Tara does a half assed job of reassuring him. She halfheartedly tells him that EVERYONE has insecurities. Thank you for your insight Tara. I totally see why they got rid of the awesome Jdog for you.
Good idea to have the guy get his teeth fixed. Teeth are an oft overlooked part of your looks. It's a good idea to invest in some cheap whitening strips.
Wow one guy had never had a professional haircut. How does that even happen? I mean at what point do you decide it's not ok for your mom to cut your hair anymore. For me it was like 6.
We have the total rip off of the 40 year old virgin scene when Matt gets waxed. the only thin missing was him screaming at the waxer...
Alex is really effeminate, I actually think he might be gay, but not ready to come out of the closet. My brother went through a similar phase, before kicking the closet door down. I wonder what his home life is like? My guess is he has a really overbearing smothering mother.
Matador is like Mac on "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia", he never wears sleeves. All that's missing is the tribal tattoo. BTW if you don't watch " It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia" you're missing out on the funniest show on TV by far. I recommend going on Hulu now and checking it out. I watched all 3 seasons in like 3 or 4 days. It's hysterical. My favorite episodes are " Mac bangs Dennis' Mom" and " Dennis and Dee go on welfare". You'll thank me for that recommendation later.
Most of the guys look WAY better after their makeovers, most notably Greg. However the styles they put all the guys in are pretty generic. None of them will be the best dressed guy in a bar or club. Especially the guys in the vests. I rocked vests like 2 years ago. It's over let them go... Alex has way too many layers on for his weight. The bigger you are the less you want to pad that with outer shells like the hoody, button down combo he's rocking. Bryan with the fro still looks unkempt and the doo rag makes you a doo-che bag.
Mystery drops the bomb that someone will be going home and it's Alex the morbidly obese effeminate guy. Probably the right call, since he did get opened and not talk to the girl. If you're not gonna take a freebie, you need to leave.
Til next time.
S
If you just stumbled onto this blog after watching the show, and you want to learn more about getting better with women, check out my Game Acceleration Doctrine Here
Saturday, October 11, 2008
Escalation Video
Hey guys,
Wanted to drop you a link to my latest free gift for you!
This one is a video on Escalating the interaction, because as we all know if you're not escalating you're not getting anywhere!
Be sure to hit me up with comments here!
The next free gift I have for ya is coming Monday and it's an interactive doozie.
Have a great weekend!
S
Wanted to drop you a link to my latest free gift for you!
This one is a video on Escalating the interaction, because as we all know if you're not escalating you're not getting anywhere!
Be sure to hit me up with comments here!
The next free gift I have for ya is coming Monday and it's an interactive doozie.
Have a great weekend!
S
Friday, October 10, 2008
How to Be Your Own Pick-Up Guru
Hey guys,
I’ve been getting a lot of emails with people asking me questions about my upcoming “How To Be Your Own Pick Up Guru” coaching program. Because I can’t answer all of the questions individually, I’m going to do my best to answer the most common ones right here on the blog.
Here are the most common ones I’ve gotten by far:
QUESTION: What do I get when I join the coaching program?
SHORT ANSWER: I’m not going to spoil the fun by giving you all the details of the coaching program just yet. But the short answer it that It’s going to be a fully customized year-long coaching program that combines one-on-one mentoring by me, infield coaching with me, a set curriculum, etc. It’s designed to take you from where you are now to close to master pick up artist level in one year.
QUESTION: How much is it going to cost?
SHORT ANSWER: I’d be lying to you if I said it it’s going to be dirt cheap. But trust me, it’s going to cost A LOT less than some of you are expecting, and a lot less than others have previously paid for this level of training.
QUESTION: How can I enroll in the coaching program?
Those who join me on the Game Acceleration conference call that I have scheduled for October 23, 2008 will have a chance to apply for the coaching program. This call builds on the information in the Game Acceleration Doctrine and gives some of the critical final pieces you need to take you game to the next level. Details on how to register for the call will be reveled soon.
I know these answers were pretty short, but in the next week I’ll be filling in ALL details about the “How To Be Your Own Pick-Up Guru” Coaching Program for those that are interested.
In the meantime, I’ve just completed another very cool gift for you on Escalating the Interaction. A lot of guys (maybe even you) seem to get stuck in polite conversations yet they go nowhere. I'm going to fix that tomor! To get it, be sure to sign up for my Game Acceleration mailing list
HERE
Talk to you soon,
Sinn
I’ve been getting a lot of emails with people asking me questions about my upcoming “How To Be Your Own Pick Up Guru” coaching program. Because I can’t answer all of the questions individually, I’m going to do my best to answer the most common ones right here on the blog.
Here are the most common ones I’ve gotten by far:
QUESTION: What do I get when I join the coaching program?
SHORT ANSWER: I’m not going to spoil the fun by giving you all the details of the coaching program just yet. But the short answer it that It’s going to be a fully customized year-long coaching program that combines one-on-one mentoring by me, infield coaching with me, a set curriculum, etc. It’s designed to take you from where you are now to close to master pick up artist level in one year.
QUESTION: How much is it going to cost?
SHORT ANSWER: I’d be lying to you if I said it it’s going to be dirt cheap. But trust me, it’s going to cost A LOT less than some of you are expecting, and a lot less than others have previously paid for this level of training.
QUESTION: How can I enroll in the coaching program?
Those who join me on the Game Acceleration conference call that I have scheduled for October 23, 2008 will have a chance to apply for the coaching program. This call builds on the information in the Game Acceleration Doctrine and gives some of the critical final pieces you need to take you game to the next level. Details on how to register for the call will be reveled soon.
I know these answers were pretty short, but in the next week I’ll be filling in ALL details about the “How To Be Your Own Pick-Up Guru” Coaching Program for those that are interested.
In the meantime, I’ve just completed another very cool gift for you on Escalating the Interaction. A lot of guys (maybe even you) seem to get stuck in polite conversations yet they go nowhere. I'm going to fix that tomor! To get it, be sure to sign up for my Game Acceleration mailing list
HERE
Talk to you soon,
Sinn
Wednesday, October 08, 2008
Game Acceleration Update!
Hey guys,
Things have been crazy since the release of The Game Acceleration Doctrine!
Thousands of people have downloaded it, it's been THE topic of discussion on all the message boards, and guys are emailing me every 10 minutes, clamoring for details on my upcoming coaching program...
Today, I've got some bad news and some good news.
The bad news is that you'll have to wait a little bit longer for the details of the coaching program. Sorry.
The good news is I've got an awesome gift for you, for being so patient!
Awhile ago I polled over 100 students about their sticking points. I wrote about some of them(like approach anxiety) in The Game Acceleration Doctrine, and I'm going to be giving you guys the solutions to the most common sticking points over the next few weeks.
One of the biggest sticking point guys had, was running out of things to say. Nothing will ruin your interactions with women faster than awkward silences! Luckily I have a bunch of great tactics and techniques for keeping the conversation going, and I share a ton of them with you in this new free audio.
But the only way to get this audio is to sign up for The Game Acceleration Doctrine list. You can sign up Here
If you guys have comments on the audio be sure to leave them here.
Best,
S
Things have been crazy since the release of The Game Acceleration Doctrine!
Thousands of people have downloaded it, it's been THE topic of discussion on all the message boards, and guys are emailing me every 10 minutes, clamoring for details on my upcoming coaching program...
Today, I've got some bad news and some good news.
The bad news is that you'll have to wait a little bit longer for the details of the coaching program. Sorry.
The good news is I've got an awesome gift for you, for being so patient!
Awhile ago I polled over 100 students about their sticking points. I wrote about some of them(like approach anxiety) in The Game Acceleration Doctrine, and I'm going to be giving you guys the solutions to the most common sticking points over the next few weeks.
One of the biggest sticking point guys had, was running out of things to say. Nothing will ruin your interactions with women faster than awkward silences! Luckily I have a bunch of great tactics and techniques for keeping the conversation going, and I share a ton of them with you in this new free audio.
But the only way to get this audio is to sign up for The Game Acceleration Doctrine list. You can sign up Here
If you guys have comments on the audio be sure to leave them here.
Best,
S
Tuesday, October 07, 2008
Quick Favor...
Hey guys,
I'm getting a ton of emails about from guys who are LOVING The Game Acceleration Doctrine.
However I want to ask you guys one small favor.
Instead of emailing me and giving my manager a heart attack due to stress, can you guys please post your comments on the blog or any of the following forums:
The Attraction Forum
The Pick Up Artist Forum
Stylelife
If you guys post about the Doctrine on any of those places, I will personally answer any questions you have in the threads.
Thanks,
S
P.S. If you don't know what all the fuss is about yet, download The Game Acceleration Doctrine Here You'll be happy you did.
I'm getting a ton of emails about from guys who are LOVING The Game Acceleration Doctrine.
However I want to ask you guys one small favor.
Instead of emailing me and giving my manager a heart attack due to stress, can you guys please post your comments on the blog or any of the following forums:
The Attraction Forum
The Pick Up Artist Forum
Stylelife
If you guys post about the Doctrine on any of those places, I will personally answer any questions you have in the threads.
Thanks,
S
P.S. If you don't know what all the fuss is about yet, download The Game Acceleration Doctrine Here You'll be happy you did.
Game Acceleration Madness!!!!
Hey guys,
So since I posted yesterday over 3500 people have downloaded The Game Acceleration Doctrine!
Plus I've gotten over 100 emails begging for details about this coaching program I have coming up. I even started getting angry emails from several other pick up instructors complaining about how I'm giving everything away for free...
The funny part is, I'm just getting started. I'll have another great FREE gift for you guys tomorrow, but you have to sign up for The Game Acceleration list NOW!
You can sign up by going Here
Make sure you sign up today, because tomorrow's gift is AWESOME!!!!
For everyone who's already downloaded it, thanks for making Game Acceleration a big success. Also feel free to distribute that document to your heart's content. The more people see it, the more it can help guys struggling.
Talk to ya soon,
Best,
S
So since I posted yesterday over 3500 people have downloaded The Game Acceleration Doctrine!
Plus I've gotten over 100 emails begging for details about this coaching program I have coming up. I even started getting angry emails from several other pick up instructors complaining about how I'm giving everything away for free...
The funny part is, I'm just getting started. I'll have another great FREE gift for you guys tomorrow, but you have to sign up for The Game Acceleration list NOW!
You can sign up by going Here
Make sure you sign up today, because tomorrow's gift is AWESOME!!!!
For everyone who's already downloaded it, thanks for making Game Acceleration a big success. Also feel free to distribute that document to your heart's content. The more people see it, the more it can help guys struggling.
Talk to ya soon,
Best,
S
Monday, October 06, 2008
The Game Acceleration Doctrine is Here!!!!
Hey guys,
It gives me great pleasure to present you guys with The Game Acceleration Doctrine.
This document is the first step in my plan to help make sure that everyone who gets into this will get the results they want!
You can download The Game Acceleration Doctrine
Here
It is strongly recommended that you print out a hard copy of it
right away and read through it with with a highlighter.
There's ALOT of information in there and I don't want you to miss
anything.
That's enough for now. Be sure to to leave your comments on the blog.
I really want to hear what's on your mind:
talk to you soon,
Sinn
P.S. In the next couple of weeks, I"m going to be releasing ALOT more
content by way of reports, videos, and audio. So watch your email box
for the latest updates.
P.P.S. If you have any friends that you think will benefit from the
information in the Game Acceleration Doctrine, you can spread the
word by going here:
Here
S
It gives me great pleasure to present you guys with The Game Acceleration Doctrine.
This document is the first step in my plan to help make sure that everyone who gets into this will get the results they want!
You can download The Game Acceleration Doctrine
Here
It is strongly recommended that you print out a hard copy of it
right away and read through it with with a highlighter.
There's ALOT of information in there and I don't want you to miss
anything.
That's enough for now. Be sure to to leave your comments on the blog.
I really want to hear what's on your mind:
talk to you soon,
Sinn
P.S. In the next couple of weeks, I"m going to be releasing ALOT more
content by way of reports, videos, and audio. So watch your email box
for the latest updates.
P.P.S. If you have any friends that you think will benefit from the
information in the Game Acceleration Doctrine, you can spread the
word by going here:
Here
S
Friday, October 03, 2008
The Game Acceleration Doctrine is coming!!!!
Yo,
My graphic design person just notified me that he is putting the finish touches on my new Game Acceleration Doctine. If all goes according to plan, it should be ready for you to download this MONDAY, October 6, 2008.
This is over 60 pages of my newest most ground breaking thoughts on how to learn game correctly. You'll learn why over 90% of guys who enter the community ultimately fail, and why. I'll also teach you the secret to making any seduction system work for you,give you a system for dealing with approach anxiety and much, much more.
The Game Acceleration Doctrine is 100% free, in it is all the information I perfected while teaching for the last 4 years at over 150 bootcamps. And for the first time, I'm publicly giving you guys access to the information and systems I used to train instructors like Future, Tenmagnet, and El Topo.
So this Monday be on the lookout for a blog post that says "Game Acceleration is Here!"
talk to you then,
Sinn
My graphic design person just notified me that he is putting the finish touches on my new Game Acceleration Doctine. If all goes according to plan, it should be ready for you to download this MONDAY, October 6, 2008.
This is over 60 pages of my newest most ground breaking thoughts on how to learn game correctly. You'll learn why over 90% of guys who enter the community ultimately fail, and why. I'll also teach you the secret to making any seduction system work for you,give you a system for dealing with approach anxiety and much, much more.
The Game Acceleration Doctrine is 100% free, in it is all the information I perfected while teaching for the last 4 years at over 150 bootcamps. And for the first time, I'm publicly giving you guys access to the information and systems I used to train instructors like Future, Tenmagnet, and El Topo.
So this Monday be on the lookout for a blog post that says "Game Acceleration is Here!"
talk to you then,
Sinn
The Pick Up Artist Forum.
Hey guys,
I've been made a featured poster over at the Pick Up Artist Forum along with guys like AFC Adam, Gambler and Sean Messenger. There's a lot of instructors and qualified guys posting, so check it out.
Here
S
I've been made a featured poster over at the Pick Up Artist Forum along with guys like AFC Adam, Gambler and Sean Messenger. There's a lot of instructors and qualified guys posting, so check it out.
Here
S
Thursday, October 02, 2008
I'll be going to Love Systems Superconference.
Hey guys,
As some of you may or may not know, Love Systems is having another Superconference coming up in LA Oct 17-19th. This will be a great opportunity to learn not just from me but from some of the best guys in the community! Guys like Moxie, Savoy and Brad P will all be doing great presentations.
I'll be doing a talk on utilizing your own natural advantages and disadvantages for getting the best possible results. This is part of my new big push for teaching reform within the community. One of the reasons why i did the lair talk tour earlier this year was to see what guys are like who have been in the scene for longer than a year. What I learned is that there's a ton of guys out there who are learning the wrong way. And it's not just a lack of effort or balls. It's that they don't have a set plan for learning. They pick up tips here and there from various newsletters and mailbags and they go out and have the exact same sticking points for years.
Pick up is all about figuring out what you're doing to cause the reactions you're getting and then changing small variables until you get a more positive response. That's one of the reason Savoy calls it dating science, because in reality what you're doing is conducting social experiments under different conditions. The thing is there are different OPTIMAL conditions for EVERY single person out there. A 45 year old teacher is not going to get the best results in a nightclub, but put him at a teaching convention or fundraiser and he cleans house. A 20 year old college student isn't going to do the best at an upper scale lounge, but at dollar beer night near his school his value is markedly higher. I know what you guys are thinking, but what if you're this or that. No matter what lifestyle and budget you have, you can find your niche. It's just a matter of knowing what you enjoy and what you have to work with. I wrote a whole lot more of these thoughts down into a document we're calling " The Game Acceleration Doctrine." And we're giving it away free. If you come to Superconference, you'll even get a pretty printed out copy :) Otherwise keep watching the blog for info on that.
Also if you come to Superconference I will give you a FREE 30 minute phone consultation with myself or one of my junior instructors($100 value). As well as a free copy of The Best of Sinn's Of Attraction($29 value). I'll even throw in a free copy of the LR book if you sign up Here You can also call the awesome Jeremy at The Love Systems Office and speak to him directly at (323) 836-0151.
I'll leave you guys with a video aof why Savoy's excited to see me speak at Superconference.
S
As some of you may or may not know, Love Systems is having another Superconference coming up in LA Oct 17-19th. This will be a great opportunity to learn not just from me but from some of the best guys in the community! Guys like Moxie, Savoy and Brad P will all be doing great presentations.
I'll be doing a talk on utilizing your own natural advantages and disadvantages for getting the best possible results. This is part of my new big push for teaching reform within the community. One of the reasons why i did the lair talk tour earlier this year was to see what guys are like who have been in the scene for longer than a year. What I learned is that there's a ton of guys out there who are learning the wrong way. And it's not just a lack of effort or balls. It's that they don't have a set plan for learning. They pick up tips here and there from various newsletters and mailbags and they go out and have the exact same sticking points for years.
Pick up is all about figuring out what you're doing to cause the reactions you're getting and then changing small variables until you get a more positive response. That's one of the reason Savoy calls it dating science, because in reality what you're doing is conducting social experiments under different conditions. The thing is there are different OPTIMAL conditions for EVERY single person out there. A 45 year old teacher is not going to get the best results in a nightclub, but put him at a teaching convention or fundraiser and he cleans house. A 20 year old college student isn't going to do the best at an upper scale lounge, but at dollar beer night near his school his value is markedly higher. I know what you guys are thinking, but what if you're this or that. No matter what lifestyle and budget you have, you can find your niche. It's just a matter of knowing what you enjoy and what you have to work with. I wrote a whole lot more of these thoughts down into a document we're calling " The Game Acceleration Doctrine." And we're giving it away free. If you come to Superconference, you'll even get a pretty printed out copy :) Otherwise keep watching the blog for info on that.
Also if you come to Superconference I will give you a FREE 30 minute phone consultation with myself or one of my junior instructors($100 value). As well as a free copy of The Best of Sinn's Of Attraction($29 value). I'll even throw in a free copy of the LR book if you sign up Here You can also call the awesome Jeremy at The Love Systems Office and speak to him directly at (323) 836-0151.
I'll leave you guys with a video aof why Savoy's excited to see me speak at Superconference.
S
Monday, September 29, 2008
Updates, LR: Sex Date, and my Infield Insider Info...
Hey guys,
It's been a crazy busy last few weeks. Since the last update I've had a couple of crazy adventures. A few of which are still ongoing so you'll have to wait to hear about those.Suffice it to say it involves a double lay with a Z list celebrity involved. Keep an eye out for that later this week.
I haven't talked much about what I've been up to the last few weeks. Basically since finishing the lay reports book, I've been stymied business wise by a terrible web development company,I found on Elance. It's been 3 months of them trying to get my site up and so far, nada. Savoy keeps telling me this is pretty normal in dealing with IT people, but I want to put my face through a TV screen. Or someone else's face as that would probably hurt :) So in the meantime I've been really annoyed by the general state of teaching and learning in the community. There are a bunch of things that EVERYONE can do to get better with women fast! But you have to be able to recognize your own unique advantages and disadvantages and work on developing a plan of success for yourself. Not someone else. Anyway I ended up writing about 40 pages last week and I will be releasing it for free soon. I think this is going to change the way a lot of people think about learning game and consistently improving.This stuff is a huge reason I always get better each year, while others gurus stay the same....
I've been all over the US lately, I was in NY for two weeks during which I filmed an episode of Infield Insider( Brillantly in NY on Labor day weekend when everyone was in the Hamptons. I'm retarded.) and worked with a few students out there. Then I came back to Dallas, before I went down to San Diego to record the breakdown of the in field stuff with Mehow. I have to say I was totally wrong about Mehow. I had a lot of fun shooting and talking game with him. He's extremely smart and knowledgable. In fact I recently finished the first volume of his Group Attraction Manifesto which takes breaking down subcommunication to a totally different level. One of the things that stands out about Mehow is his positivity. He's one of the most positive people I've ever met. I actually asked him about it and he told me he often gets told he's delusionally positive. Delusional or not, it's a really great way of being. We ended up having some drinks, almost getting beaten up in a dive bar and then grabbing some Denny's. Overall a really fun night that I never could have imagined having a few years ago.
You can check out the Infield Insider:
Here
I'm gonna film another one next year, at some point too.
Then I headed back to Dallas for the weekend where I went to Sunday Night Football with some friends. I'm 2 for 2 the last times I've gone out to watch football. Which just goes to show that the more you try to find avenues to meet girls you enjoy, the better you're results will get. The first time I wrote about in the BJR I posted awhile back and this time I ended up making out with both girls and taking one of them home. Then I went on a date with the other one last Tues. She's a weird Z list celeb so I'll write all about that when I get home. The date alone deserves it's own post for the wackiness of the situation. Then I headed down to Miami to work with one of my long term coaching students. He's been making huge progress. We worked on day game in South Beach, which as my buddy Trance noted " was like taking a rookie to the Super Bowl." He did great though and got a couple numbers despite being very inexperienced with day game.
I hate Miami a lot, but I have to admit it's probably the best place in the world for doing cold approach. The only places with girls of comparable hotness are Vegas and Stockholm. Vegas is an SNL town which is cool but you'd have a hard time retaining girls since almost everyone you meet will be a tourist. or stripper :) Stockholm can't even begin to compete in the weather department or the sheer size of the city. However Miami is still an unlivable cesspool of pretentious people, superficiality, and general douche-baggery. South Beach still looks like something out of the 70s. The pastel colors and bungalows come straight out of Grand Theft Auto. In fact it still feels like the guy from Vice City is gonna run up on you every time you're on the streets. I like a lot of the venues, but most of the weeknight hot spots are still home to the asshole door guy. It's funny because no matter how big the city there's still a core of club people. You'll always see the same people out on the same nights of the week, promoters and door guys will switch clubs, even bartenders swing between a couple of places a night. This is good news because if you're setting up a social circle, you don't need to befriend everyone, just the right people. That's a huge thing most people miss when they're trying to get their social circles together.
Once my one on one was over I headed up to NY to wrap up some filming on a project Julian Foxx and I are doing together. I met Julian the last time I was here and we really hit it off. We decided to film some stuff and we'll both be talking about that soon enough.
I got in Saturday afternoon and had set up a "sex date" with a girl I met the last time I was here a few weeks ago. I met her when I was out with Fader and a girl he was seeing in Hoboken. I actually had started off trying to hit on another of her friends(a redhead) before I found out she wasn't actually with the guy she was all over. She told me they were brother and sister, which later turned out not to be true. She's a pretty interesting girl. Very into the fetish scene but also a very successful health food store owner... We really hit it off that night, but she had to drive her "brother" home. I blew her off a few time to go out with Fader but kept in touch with her through text. She's ultra sexual and I'm pretty sure she was a stripper at some point judging by the way she danced. So we decided to set up a sex date for Sat night. She even told me she'd have to get rid of her date so she couldn't do anything til after 11. Turns out she had a ton of drama with her ex and ended up going drinking with her "brother". So I roll up to meet them at about 12:30 PM. The "brother" is a really cool guy in a fucked up situation, he's married to a woman he doesn't really love and they have a kid. He's also hooking up with my girl's friend. So he's got a ton of drama as well. I just sit and listen. He tells me he approved of me when we met because I was funny. I always like people better when they think I'm funny :) Anyway he has to go home so he dropped us off at her place. At which point she wanted to dance, so we head to a dance place. I informed her that I don't dance, but rather have seizures to music, and she tells me that's good because she'll have something to hold onto. We go, grind, and makeout with ice. Escalating with ice is a huge sexual suggestion, it assumes the sale and shows you know what women respond to sexually. Finally she looks at me and says " ready to go?". On the ride home she drives straight back to her place and then as we're pulling up, she says " OMG, I didn't even ask you if you wanted to come back here. That's rude of me." I told her it was ok and she just assumed the sell. We go upstairs she shows me her dog and then we both take showers before sex. One weird note is she had an IUD which was very strange and unexpected. Luckily she warned me about it, or I would have freaked out. I didn't get to bed until about 9 AM after she brought me back before going to work.
Yesterday I watched a lot of football,so if you don't like sports you can skip the rest of this post. But I feel like ranting a bit. First the Brett Favre 6 TD game should really be called the Kurt Warner 787 turnover game. Kurt Warner does this EVERY year, he looks great for 2-3 weeks people start writing the " Kurt Warner is better at 36,37,38,39 than he was at 26, 27,28, 29.... Not true. Kurt Warner has a bad hand. He's had it since St Louis when he gets hit and starts holding it, he's gonna fumble. Then he's gonna throw picks and then he's gonna make sad faces and talk about Jesus in a postgame conference.
The Eagles sure did a great job of snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. This further proves that Donovan Mcnabb is the least clutch quarterback ever. People marveled when the Eagles got to 3 straight NFC championships, but forgot to notice that Mcnabb kept stinking the joint up and losing to teams like the Panthers. Then the infamous Superbowl dry heave issue. And again last night he throws a Favrian pick late in the game.
Finally the Cowboys lost for the first time, making me very happy. A because I didn't want to hear Cowboys fans talking about a perfect season. Though the idea of Tony Romo quarterbacking a 14-0 team and fans hyperventilating every time he drops back does sound delicious. The NFC East is pretty ridiculous. The Redskins looked pretty decent last night even though Romo helped them quite a bit. I really want Jason Campbell to be good. Last night it looked like he was starting to grasp the west coast offense. Plus Clinton Portis is probably the most underrated guy in the league right now. He just consistently gains yards on the ground and through the air. Plus he wears awesome wigs.
Allright, I'm ranted out.
Talk to ya guys soon.
S
It's been a crazy busy last few weeks. Since the last update I've had a couple of crazy adventures. A few of which are still ongoing so you'll have to wait to hear about those.Suffice it to say it involves a double lay with a Z list celebrity involved. Keep an eye out for that later this week.
I haven't talked much about what I've been up to the last few weeks. Basically since finishing the lay reports book, I've been stymied business wise by a terrible web development company,I found on Elance. It's been 3 months of them trying to get my site up and so far, nada. Savoy keeps telling me this is pretty normal in dealing with IT people, but I want to put my face through a TV screen. Or someone else's face as that would probably hurt :) So in the meantime I've been really annoyed by the general state of teaching and learning in the community. There are a bunch of things that EVERYONE can do to get better with women fast! But you have to be able to recognize your own unique advantages and disadvantages and work on developing a plan of success for yourself. Not someone else. Anyway I ended up writing about 40 pages last week and I will be releasing it for free soon. I think this is going to change the way a lot of people think about learning game and consistently improving.This stuff is a huge reason I always get better each year, while others gurus stay the same....
I've been all over the US lately, I was in NY for two weeks during which I filmed an episode of Infield Insider( Brillantly in NY on Labor day weekend when everyone was in the Hamptons. I'm retarded.) and worked with a few students out there. Then I came back to Dallas, before I went down to San Diego to record the breakdown of the in field stuff with Mehow. I have to say I was totally wrong about Mehow. I had a lot of fun shooting and talking game with him. He's extremely smart and knowledgable. In fact I recently finished the first volume of his Group Attraction Manifesto which takes breaking down subcommunication to a totally different level. One of the things that stands out about Mehow is his positivity. He's one of the most positive people I've ever met. I actually asked him about it and he told me he often gets told he's delusionally positive. Delusional or not, it's a really great way of being. We ended up having some drinks, almost getting beaten up in a dive bar and then grabbing some Denny's. Overall a really fun night that I never could have imagined having a few years ago.
You can check out the Infield Insider:
Here
I'm gonna film another one next year, at some point too.
Then I headed back to Dallas for the weekend where I went to Sunday Night Football with some friends. I'm 2 for 2 the last times I've gone out to watch football. Which just goes to show that the more you try to find avenues to meet girls you enjoy, the better you're results will get. The first time I wrote about in the BJR I posted awhile back and this time I ended up making out with both girls and taking one of them home. Then I went on a date with the other one last Tues. She's a weird Z list celeb so I'll write all about that when I get home. The date alone deserves it's own post for the wackiness of the situation. Then I headed down to Miami to work with one of my long term coaching students. He's been making huge progress. We worked on day game in South Beach, which as my buddy Trance noted " was like taking a rookie to the Super Bowl." He did great though and got a couple numbers despite being very inexperienced with day game.
I hate Miami a lot, but I have to admit it's probably the best place in the world for doing cold approach. The only places with girls of comparable hotness are Vegas and Stockholm. Vegas is an SNL town which is cool but you'd have a hard time retaining girls since almost everyone you meet will be a tourist. or stripper :) Stockholm can't even begin to compete in the weather department or the sheer size of the city. However Miami is still an unlivable cesspool of pretentious people, superficiality, and general douche-baggery. South Beach still looks like something out of the 70s. The pastel colors and bungalows come straight out of Grand Theft Auto. In fact it still feels like the guy from Vice City is gonna run up on you every time you're on the streets. I like a lot of the venues, but most of the weeknight hot spots are still home to the asshole door guy. It's funny because no matter how big the city there's still a core of club people. You'll always see the same people out on the same nights of the week, promoters and door guys will switch clubs, even bartenders swing between a couple of places a night. This is good news because if you're setting up a social circle, you don't need to befriend everyone, just the right people. That's a huge thing most people miss when they're trying to get their social circles together.
Once my one on one was over I headed up to NY to wrap up some filming on a project Julian Foxx and I are doing together. I met Julian the last time I was here and we really hit it off. We decided to film some stuff and we'll both be talking about that soon enough.
I got in Saturday afternoon and had set up a "sex date" with a girl I met the last time I was here a few weeks ago. I met her when I was out with Fader and a girl he was seeing in Hoboken. I actually had started off trying to hit on another of her friends(a redhead) before I found out she wasn't actually with the guy she was all over. She told me they were brother and sister, which later turned out not to be true. She's a pretty interesting girl. Very into the fetish scene but also a very successful health food store owner... We really hit it off that night, but she had to drive her "brother" home. I blew her off a few time to go out with Fader but kept in touch with her through text. She's ultra sexual and I'm pretty sure she was a stripper at some point judging by the way she danced. So we decided to set up a sex date for Sat night. She even told me she'd have to get rid of her date so she couldn't do anything til after 11. Turns out she had a ton of drama with her ex and ended up going drinking with her "brother". So I roll up to meet them at about 12:30 PM. The "brother" is a really cool guy in a fucked up situation, he's married to a woman he doesn't really love and they have a kid. He's also hooking up with my girl's friend. So he's got a ton of drama as well. I just sit and listen. He tells me he approved of me when we met because I was funny. I always like people better when they think I'm funny :) Anyway he has to go home so he dropped us off at her place. At which point she wanted to dance, so we head to a dance place. I informed her that I don't dance, but rather have seizures to music, and she tells me that's good because she'll have something to hold onto. We go, grind, and makeout with ice. Escalating with ice is a huge sexual suggestion, it assumes the sale and shows you know what women respond to sexually. Finally she looks at me and says " ready to go?". On the ride home she drives straight back to her place and then as we're pulling up, she says " OMG, I didn't even ask you if you wanted to come back here. That's rude of me." I told her it was ok and she just assumed the sell. We go upstairs she shows me her dog and then we both take showers before sex. One weird note is she had an IUD which was very strange and unexpected. Luckily she warned me about it, or I would have freaked out. I didn't get to bed until about 9 AM after she brought me back before going to work.
Yesterday I watched a lot of football,so if you don't like sports you can skip the rest of this post. But I feel like ranting a bit. First the Brett Favre 6 TD game should really be called the Kurt Warner 787 turnover game. Kurt Warner does this EVERY year, he looks great for 2-3 weeks people start writing the " Kurt Warner is better at 36,37,38,39 than he was at 26, 27,28, 29.... Not true. Kurt Warner has a bad hand. He's had it since St Louis when he gets hit and starts holding it, he's gonna fumble. Then he's gonna throw picks and then he's gonna make sad faces and talk about Jesus in a postgame conference.
The Eagles sure did a great job of snatching defeat from the jaws of victory. This further proves that Donovan Mcnabb is the least clutch quarterback ever. People marveled when the Eagles got to 3 straight NFC championships, but forgot to notice that Mcnabb kept stinking the joint up and losing to teams like the Panthers. Then the infamous Superbowl dry heave issue. And again last night he throws a Favrian pick late in the game.
Finally the Cowboys lost for the first time, making me very happy. A because I didn't want to hear Cowboys fans talking about a perfect season. Though the idea of Tony Romo quarterbacking a 14-0 team and fans hyperventilating every time he drops back does sound delicious. The NFC East is pretty ridiculous. The Redskins looked pretty decent last night even though Romo helped them quite a bit. I really want Jason Campbell to be good. Last night it looked like he was starting to grasp the west coast offense. Plus Clinton Portis is probably the most underrated guy in the league right now. He just consistently gains yards on the ground and through the air. Plus he wears awesome wigs.
Allright, I'm ranted out.
Talk to ya guys soon.
S
Friday, September 19, 2008
I'm on Barry's show again bitches!
I was on Barry's show again on Wednesday night. We talked a lot of shit about Neil(fakest motherfucker on Earth) Strauss and I tried to get Janene to tell us about sex with her blind fiancee.
For those that don't know Barry's show has really hit another level comically lately and it's been laugh til it hurts funny. Especially with some of the latest guests. I'm hopefully going to be on at least once a week from now on as a guest so check that shit out.
Click soon before it's down
S
For those that don't know Barry's show has really hit another level comically lately and it's been laugh til it hurts funny. Especially with some of the latest guests. I'm hopefully going to be on at least once a week from now on as a guest so check that shit out.
Click soon before it's down
S
BJR: She left with another guy...
This actually happened on Monday night.
Last Monday myself, Speer and CJ headed down to a local sports bar to watch the Cowboys play the Eagles on MNF. There's a great bar in Dallas where hot girls actually go to watch football. I know it's weird. It's actually pretty annoying because you have to get there around 2 hours before kickoff to get a good table. So we get there, eat, wait for CJ and watch the game. While there I notice two girls who were Maxim level hot. Ridiculous. The only problem was they were across the patio with no path to walk over to them as they at a table behind a table. Finally one of them gets up to go to the bathroom and I open her direct. She says thank you and walks off. Swing and a miss. Oh well it was the only chance I had and I took it. So I feel pretty good about that.
Then after the game which the Eagles choked away, as Mcnabb had shades of Superbowls past. we head up to one of the social circle venues in Dallas. It's always got hot girls, the approach angles are terrible and there's a lot of dudes. I'm walking around talking to some girls when I see a very cute short girl with big tits in a texas tech shirt. She looks like she's in what i call "frisky" mode as she's walking around talking to a bunch of guys and flirting with them as they walk by. She touches CJ's face and he tells her it'll cost her a dollar. As she walks away I claw her in and tell her she's adorable. She's all over me. She starts telling me I'm sexy and pulling my shirt up in the middle of the club. My mind says extract. So I grab her by the hand and tell her we're taking a walk. She says she wants to grind me against a wall. I say outside.
I get her outside with minimal resistance as I just lead and go for it. The key to In venue lays is having the balls to keep going for it. Just move them out of the club and try to escalate the first private place you find. I find a a little corner behind a Chili's and push her against the wall. Makeout. Shirt off tits out. And pants down. as she's blowing me a car drives by and some black girls laugh at us. I move her further into the little alley. We finish up and I take her back inside. She buys me a drink and then tells me she's going to find her friends and to wait for her. I figure I'll try to pull another girl so I wander off and talk to some other girls. I also feel no approach anxiety as I actually did just get a blowjob.
I run into her on the dance floor an hour later and she's now obviously drunk. she's all over a couple of guys. I leave as I already got mine and this girl seems weird. Then I'm standing with CJ when I see her grinding and making out with a bald guy. I start cracking up until CJ tells me that I've probably made out with a girl who just blew some guy in the parking lot too. I choose to ignore this as it can't help me :)
Later in the night I saw the guy actually pull the girl, so kudos to him. And her for doing two guys in one night. Impressive.
Not really a lot of information in here except that girls will do incredibly slutty things. Which is good information to know.
S
Last Monday myself, Speer and CJ headed down to a local sports bar to watch the Cowboys play the Eagles on MNF. There's a great bar in Dallas where hot girls actually go to watch football. I know it's weird. It's actually pretty annoying because you have to get there around 2 hours before kickoff to get a good table. So we get there, eat, wait for CJ and watch the game. While there I notice two girls who were Maxim level hot. Ridiculous. The only problem was they were across the patio with no path to walk over to them as they at a table behind a table. Finally one of them gets up to go to the bathroom and I open her direct. She says thank you and walks off. Swing and a miss. Oh well it was the only chance I had and I took it. So I feel pretty good about that.
Then after the game which the Eagles choked away, as Mcnabb had shades of Superbowls past. we head up to one of the social circle venues in Dallas. It's always got hot girls, the approach angles are terrible and there's a lot of dudes. I'm walking around talking to some girls when I see a very cute short girl with big tits in a texas tech shirt. She looks like she's in what i call "frisky" mode as she's walking around talking to a bunch of guys and flirting with them as they walk by. She touches CJ's face and he tells her it'll cost her a dollar. As she walks away I claw her in and tell her she's adorable. She's all over me. She starts telling me I'm sexy and pulling my shirt up in the middle of the club. My mind says extract. So I grab her by the hand and tell her we're taking a walk. She says she wants to grind me against a wall. I say outside.
I get her outside with minimal resistance as I just lead and go for it. The key to In venue lays is having the balls to keep going for it. Just move them out of the club and try to escalate the first private place you find. I find a a little corner behind a Chili's and push her against the wall. Makeout. Shirt off tits out. And pants down. as she's blowing me a car drives by and some black girls laugh at us. I move her further into the little alley. We finish up and I take her back inside. She buys me a drink and then tells me she's going to find her friends and to wait for her. I figure I'll try to pull another girl so I wander off and talk to some other girls. I also feel no approach anxiety as I actually did just get a blowjob.
I run into her on the dance floor an hour later and she's now obviously drunk. she's all over a couple of guys. I leave as I already got mine and this girl seems weird. Then I'm standing with CJ when I see her grinding and making out with a bald guy. I start cracking up until CJ tells me that I've probably made out with a girl who just blew some guy in the parking lot too. I choose to ignore this as it can't help me :)
Later in the night I saw the guy actually pull the girl, so kudos to him. And her for doing two guys in one night. Impressive.
Not really a lot of information in here except that girls will do incredibly slutty things. Which is good information to know.
S
Saturday, September 13, 2008
12 cities in 12 months
So next year I'll be moving out of Dallas and spending one month in 12 different cities. I'm writing a book about the experience of setting up a life 12 different times in different cities. I've also put together a list of 30 things to do in each city and I'll record my hijinks as I'm sure each month will see me scrambling to do 10-15 activities in the last few days of the month. Vegas has me completing all the tasks in a timely fashion as a 30-1 prayer.
I'll be teaching one bootcamp a month in each city to0 and we'll have details about that as it gets closer.
The cities in order are:
April:Chicago
May: Toronto
June:Montreal
July:Las Vegas
August:SF
Sept:NY
Oct:Boston
Nov:Whistler BC
Dec:Hawaii
Jan:Denver
Feb:Scottsdale
Mar:Sydney
Here's a list of frequently asked questions from my friends and family.
Why would anyone do this?
Well as much as I love Dallas, I'm pretty bored of it scenes here. I'll always look back fondly on my time here, but quite frankly I'm over it. And as everyone who goes out with me knows, I run into a LOT of girls I've already had sex with.
So I decided I wanted to leave Dallas and I have no idea where I want to live. One of the major problems is that I'm a huge pussy about weather. I hate the cold. A lot. Unfortunately a lot of my favorite cities, like Boston, NY, and Toronto are freezing in the winter. So I don't really know where I want to live. Because of my job I'm afforded the opportunity to work from anywhere and I'd like to investigate a bunch of cities to see if there might just be one that fits me perfectly. I'm even willing to reach internationally as I'll be in 3 cities in Canada and 1 in Australia. I Think of it as the hunt for the perfect city.
Secondly because of my social skills, I can make friends and get girls anywhere I can speak the language, so within a week I'll have something set up on that front everywhere.But I'll get exposed to a broad range of people. If there's one thing my time in Texas taught me it's the huge cultural and personality differences that geography causes. Maybe the people I get along with the best are in Whistler B.C or Chicago, who knows?
Third because I've been a traveling vagabond pick up artist for the last 4 years, I'm used to living out of a suitcase. Life on the longer term road in each of these cities will be a pretty easy adjustment because I've been to all of them for some amount of time and I'm used to getting adjusted to a city over 3-4 days as opposed to 30. I've been saying for a few years that because of the way I travel I should save the money on an Apt and just stay with friends or at hotels. This is a better idea than that was.
What are you going to do with all your stuff?
I'll probably give away a decent amount of it and then put the rest in storage. I might get rid of all of it to make some spending money for the trip.
Why did you pick those cities?
I sat down and thought of the cities I could realistically see myself living in. That meant no LA, Miami, Austin etc... Then I thought about the cities that I always have a great time in, or that have awesome activities that I always complain about not doing enough. Hence Denver,Whistler and Honolulu. I didn't really take into account the economics of the city or whether or not I knew people there. Finally I scheduled them so I could avoid as much cold weather as possible without the benefit of snowboarding.
Won't it be hard to leave every city after each month if you make friends and stuff?
Not really since everyone who meets me will know I'm only there for 30 days. I'm not gonna lie about it or anything like that. The people I really click with I'll stay in touch with and ultimately I'll end up with a whole bunch of new friends across the globe.
Where are you going to live.
I spent a few months watching different sites and found a huge amount of affordable month long furnished sublets. Not a problem. I even figured out which areas I want to live in each city. Logistics handled.
Won't you need your car?
No. I'm selling my car before I leave and almost every city on the list with the possible exceptions of Denver and Scottsdale are pretty pedestrian friendly, as long as I get a place in the right area of town. If I need to I'll rent a car for a month at some point along the way.
How will you pay bills and get mail and stuff?
I'll still keep my mailbox for Sinn's Of Attraction and I'm setting all my bills up on auto pay. If I don't have cable or internet anywhere for a month I'll make due with one of those Verizon internet card dealies and Hulu.com
Why are you writing a book about it?
I think it's going to be a hugely memorable experience that I'll learn a lot from, and I want to document it. I will try to sell it to an actual publisher, but we all know how the chances of that working go. More than anything I want to do this for myself and have a written record of that crazy year I kept moving. I'm sure there will be some game related stuff in there cause that's how my brain works but it's mostly going to be my experiences, and I'd like to have those forever.
When are you starting?
My lease in Dallas runs out in late March around the 22nd so I'm looking to begin April 1st in Chicago. I'm very excited.
I'll keep you guys up to date about it through the blog and my email list which I'll only be sharing the game related insights with.
I posted this to give myself some public accountability for doing this and in case any of you guys might find it fun.
Best,
S
I'll be teaching one bootcamp a month in each city to0 and we'll have details about that as it gets closer.
The cities in order are:
April:Chicago
May: Toronto
June:Montreal
July:Las Vegas
August:SF
Sept:NY
Oct:Boston
Nov:Whistler BC
Dec:Hawaii
Jan:Denver
Feb:Scottsdale
Mar:Sydney
Here's a list of frequently asked questions from my friends and family.
Why would anyone do this?
Well as much as I love Dallas, I'm pretty bored of it scenes here. I'll always look back fondly on my time here, but quite frankly I'm over it. And as everyone who goes out with me knows, I run into a LOT of girls I've already had sex with.
So I decided I wanted to leave Dallas and I have no idea where I want to live. One of the major problems is that I'm a huge pussy about weather. I hate the cold. A lot. Unfortunately a lot of my favorite cities, like Boston, NY, and Toronto are freezing in the winter. So I don't really know where I want to live. Because of my job I'm afforded the opportunity to work from anywhere and I'd like to investigate a bunch of cities to see if there might just be one that fits me perfectly. I'm even willing to reach internationally as I'll be in 3 cities in Canada and 1 in Australia. I Think of it as the hunt for the perfect city.
Secondly because of my social skills, I can make friends and get girls anywhere I can speak the language, so within a week I'll have something set up on that front everywhere.But I'll get exposed to a broad range of people. If there's one thing my time in Texas taught me it's the huge cultural and personality differences that geography causes. Maybe the people I get along with the best are in Whistler B.C or Chicago, who knows?
Third because I've been a traveling vagabond pick up artist for the last 4 years, I'm used to living out of a suitcase. Life on the longer term road in each of these cities will be a pretty easy adjustment because I've been to all of them for some amount of time and I'm used to getting adjusted to a city over 3-4 days as opposed to 30. I've been saying for a few years that because of the way I travel I should save the money on an Apt and just stay with friends or at hotels. This is a better idea than that was.
What are you going to do with all your stuff?
I'll probably give away a decent amount of it and then put the rest in storage. I might get rid of all of it to make some spending money for the trip.
Why did you pick those cities?
I sat down and thought of the cities I could realistically see myself living in. That meant no LA, Miami, Austin etc... Then I thought about the cities that I always have a great time in, or that have awesome activities that I always complain about not doing enough. Hence Denver,Whistler and Honolulu. I didn't really take into account the economics of the city or whether or not I knew people there. Finally I scheduled them so I could avoid as much cold weather as possible without the benefit of snowboarding.
Won't it be hard to leave every city after each month if you make friends and stuff?
Not really since everyone who meets me will know I'm only there for 30 days. I'm not gonna lie about it or anything like that. The people I really click with I'll stay in touch with and ultimately I'll end up with a whole bunch of new friends across the globe.
Where are you going to live.
I spent a few months watching different sites and found a huge amount of affordable month long furnished sublets. Not a problem. I even figured out which areas I want to live in each city. Logistics handled.
Won't you need your car?
No. I'm selling my car before I leave and almost every city on the list with the possible exceptions of Denver and Scottsdale are pretty pedestrian friendly, as long as I get a place in the right area of town. If I need to I'll rent a car for a month at some point along the way.
How will you pay bills and get mail and stuff?
I'll still keep my mailbox for Sinn's Of Attraction and I'm setting all my bills up on auto pay. If I don't have cable or internet anywhere for a month I'll make due with one of those Verizon internet card dealies and Hulu.com
Why are you writing a book about it?
I think it's going to be a hugely memorable experience that I'll learn a lot from, and I want to document it. I will try to sell it to an actual publisher, but we all know how the chances of that working go. More than anything I want to do this for myself and have a written record of that crazy year I kept moving. I'm sure there will be some game related stuff in there cause that's how my brain works but it's mostly going to be my experiences, and I'd like to have those forever.
When are you starting?
My lease in Dallas runs out in late March around the 22nd so I'm looking to begin April 1st in Chicago. I'm very excited.
I'll keep you guys up to date about it through the blog and my email list which I'll only be sharing the game related insights with.
I posted this to give myself some public accountability for doing this and in case any of you guys might find it fun.
Best,
S
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
The 5 Immutable Laws Of Pick Up
Hooray hyperbolic titles!!!
Anyway here's a bit of what i teach on bootcamps. These are things that I think come as close as possible to being 100% true when picking girls up.
1. Ignore anything which cannot help you get the girl. This is the heart of being non-reactive, dealing with social pressure, whatever you wanna call it. You have to learn to ignore things, be they congruence tests or guys entering your sets. If it doesn't help you, it's useless and not worth giving attention to.
2. Always be cooler than the girl. Even if it's just .001% you always have to act as if you think she's not as cool as you. This can take the form of teasing, commanding, or simply not explaining yourself. Girls are just not evolutionarily programmed to be attracted to guys of equal or lesser status. It sucks but it's the way the world works.
3. ABC. Or always be closing as my buddy Entropy would say. As a man you must take all responsibility for escalation. From physically escalating to maintaining plausible deniability with her friends. Everything is up to you. Men are sexually aggressive, women are sexually receptive.
4. Saying something is better than saying nothing. When you see a girl you want to approach it is WAY easier to go in and mess it up than to sit around debating the different ways you could do it. Give yourself permission to fail. Because even trying puts you ahead of 99% of guys.
5. Thinking in field is the enemy. I always say " less thinking, more making moves." Which besides being a line I stole from a Dave Chapelle stand up special, applies to pick up perfectly. Thinking is the worst thing you can be doing when you're out. Actually maybe it's the second worst after talking about game. Instead let go of the outcome, recognize that you are on the plateau as George Leonard calls it in Mastery and put in the work. Do approaches, get blown out, learn. That's the only point of going out to game. Not to oggle and complain about how all the sets are too hard.
So those are my five rules of pick up. If you stick to those you should be off to a good start in your learning process.
S
Anyway here's a bit of what i teach on bootcamps. These are things that I think come as close as possible to being 100% true when picking girls up.
1. Ignore anything which cannot help you get the girl. This is the heart of being non-reactive, dealing with social pressure, whatever you wanna call it. You have to learn to ignore things, be they congruence tests or guys entering your sets. If it doesn't help you, it's useless and not worth giving attention to.
2. Always be cooler than the girl. Even if it's just .001% you always have to act as if you think she's not as cool as you. This can take the form of teasing, commanding, or simply not explaining yourself. Girls are just not evolutionarily programmed to be attracted to guys of equal or lesser status. It sucks but it's the way the world works.
3. ABC. Or always be closing as my buddy Entropy would say. As a man you must take all responsibility for escalation. From physically escalating to maintaining plausible deniability with her friends. Everything is up to you. Men are sexually aggressive, women are sexually receptive.
4. Saying something is better than saying nothing. When you see a girl you want to approach it is WAY easier to go in and mess it up than to sit around debating the different ways you could do it. Give yourself permission to fail. Because even trying puts you ahead of 99% of guys.
5. Thinking in field is the enemy. I always say " less thinking, more making moves." Which besides being a line I stole from a Dave Chapelle stand up special, applies to pick up perfectly. Thinking is the worst thing you can be doing when you're out. Actually maybe it's the second worst after talking about game. Instead let go of the outcome, recognize that you are on the plateau as George Leonard calls it in Mastery and put in the work. Do approaches, get blown out, learn. That's the only point of going out to game. Not to oggle and complain about how all the sets are too hard.
So those are my five rules of pick up. If you stick to those you should be off to a good start in your learning process.
S
Tuesday, September 09, 2008
Cameron Teone's Blog
Cam's a good friend of mine and he recently started a blog.
His first post was a great refresher on the fundamental skills that make up game.
Check it out Here
S
His first post was a great refresher on the fundamental skills that make up game.
Check it out Here
S
Thursday, September 04, 2008
My official take on rating girls
Ok, so I got a comment from a reader named a concerned woman or something like that about how rating women was judging them.
I'm pretty sure I've written about this publicly before, I just think it was on a forum somewhere.So I wanted to clarify my take on this retarded process.
First I don't rate girls in my personal or professional life. There are many reasons for this, the biggest being that supposedly rating girls allows you to quantify how they are going to respond to you, yet you NEVER know how a girl is going to react to being approached. I've met incredibly beautiful women who were sweet and open to being approached, and I've met hideous women who were not. There's just no way to tell, so there's no point in rating. The second problem I have with rating women is that it's horribly demeaning to the women who are being rated as they are being reduced strictly to a number. And this comes from a guy who details his sexual exploits in detail on the internet. The last problem with rating girls comes from the fact that EVERYONE has different taste. Do you think a 6ft tall thin, flat chested runway model is hot? I wouldn't even approach that girl. I'd be far more interested in the 5'3 stripper looking girl with tats and piercings. Now some girls are universally attractive, but they are much more the exception than the rule. So people like Mystery, and Hawaii waste their time arguing about whether a girl was a 9 or a 9.25. 4 years later I still have no fucking idea how you award a quarter of a point of hotness..
I really do hate the process of rating girls as anyone on my bootcamp can attest when I stare blankly at students when they ask me to rate a girl beyond a " she's hot" or "she's ok." I'd go so far as to say it's even borderline misogyny. So I highly recommend that everyone gets rid of this arcane and insulting process to help us foster healthy win/win relationships with women, whether it's just for a night or a lifetime.
S
I'm pretty sure I've written about this publicly before, I just think it was on a forum somewhere.So I wanted to clarify my take on this retarded process.
First I don't rate girls in my personal or professional life. There are many reasons for this, the biggest being that supposedly rating girls allows you to quantify how they are going to respond to you, yet you NEVER know how a girl is going to react to being approached. I've met incredibly beautiful women who were sweet and open to being approached, and I've met hideous women who were not. There's just no way to tell, so there's no point in rating. The second problem I have with rating women is that it's horribly demeaning to the women who are being rated as they are being reduced strictly to a number. And this comes from a guy who details his sexual exploits in detail on the internet. The last problem with rating girls comes from the fact that EVERYONE has different taste. Do you think a 6ft tall thin, flat chested runway model is hot? I wouldn't even approach that girl. I'd be far more interested in the 5'3 stripper looking girl with tats and piercings. Now some girls are universally attractive, but they are much more the exception than the rule. So people like Mystery, and Hawaii waste their time arguing about whether a girl was a 9 or a 9.25. 4 years later I still have no fucking idea how you award a quarter of a point of hotness..
I really do hate the process of rating girls as anyone on my bootcamp can attest when I stare blankly at students when they ask me to rate a girl beyond a " she's hot" or "she's ok." I'd go so far as to say it's even borderline misogyny. So I highly recommend that everyone gets rid of this arcane and insulting process to help us foster healthy win/win relationships with women, whether it's just for a night or a lifetime.
S
Tuesday, September 02, 2008
Social Pressure Lock up
Social pressure is that voice in the back of your head that tells you not to do things. The feeling inside your body, when you're acting in a way that's outside the permissions and behaviors you allow yourself to act through. Most people feel social pressure when doing things like talking too loudly or vulgarly in a restaurant or elevator, approaching strangers, dancing in public, getting rejected in front of people, getting embarrassed etc... Social pressure is the way that social anxiety works it's magic. The more social anxiety you have, the lower your tolerance will be to social pressure. All of this excludes actual medical problems, which should be treated with a visit to the Dr's office, not a seduction blog. Taking that into account, there are a lot of different social situations that can cause us to lock up socially and not have full grasp of our facilities and or seduction knowledge,such as...
Lock up when social pressure is applied involving competition with other guys. This is one of the most common ones and something I dealt with. This is the feeling of not wanting to outrightly game the girl in front of another guy for fear of a confrontation, or getting made fun of, or feeling bad because you lost the girl.It causes you to sit there like a chode instead of manning up and trying to get the girl back.The solution is to re-frame the situation in your head as not being social pressure, but being friendly and adding value. Then systematically applying techniques once you've established rapport with the guys. This is where a simple question like " How do you guys all know each other?" or " How did you all meet?" can go a pretty long way to establishing who's available and who's not. Then it's crucial that you learn to avoid competitive frames. It's not important who she likes more, it's only important to find out if she likes you. Try to ignore the fact that the other guy is even there, if they aren't dating. A lot of people think you have to try to attract mixed groups first, but as AFC Adam talks about the truth is you have to establish comfort first. Meaning that they want to have a conversation with you before anything else. You can retroactively cause attraction once the comfort is there.
Approach Anxiety is another sort of lock up. You see the girl, you clearly feel a want to approach her, and yet your legs stay rooted in place. You've memorized your openers and have a great idea on what to say to tease her, but you still don't approach. For whatever reason the social pressure of having to approach a stranger shuts down your control over your own body. There are a ton of ways to deal with approach anxiety from getting into state, to dealing with inner game issues, to alcohol. But the point is that AA is one of the most common types of lock up due to social pressure. I know it's related to social pressure because it is scarier to approach larger/mixed sets than it is to approach all girl two sets. I've never had a student who has asked if he can just stick to mixed 8 sets :) The more people, the more social pressure , the bigger chance of lock up... Like, I don't know stage fright.
Some people also lock up in situations of intense negative social repurcussions such as an exercise Moxie came up with where you say the most offensive thing possible and then try to recover from it. Now we can rationalize that instead of doing this social pressure experiment, you could just approach the women you are attracted to every time and play every set as hard as you could, which would lead to better results. But you still lack the social freedom to do whatever you want to amuse yourself.
Desensitization to social pressure is the most common route which allows you to build up to things that are more intense than approaching those sets so that your body starts to function normally in those situations. Because there is a physical as well as a mental component at play here. The physical component can feel like melting ice in your chest, butterflies in your stomach, a heaviness in your limbs, inability to speak or control your vocal cadence etc... But it stems from something called your anterior cruciate cortex. A part of your brain that reacts to social pressure with something very close to physical pain. It's not all in your head. That's the good news. The other good news is that by systematically exposing yourself to more and more social pressure, you feel it less and less. Like a Muy Thai kickboxer who whips his shins with bamboo to deaden the nerves, you can burn out your social pressure sensors preventing lockup and increasing your game exponentially.
S
Lock up when social pressure is applied involving competition with other guys. This is one of the most common ones and something I dealt with. This is the feeling of not wanting to outrightly game the girl in front of another guy for fear of a confrontation, or getting made fun of, or feeling bad because you lost the girl.It causes you to sit there like a chode instead of manning up and trying to get the girl back.The solution is to re-frame the situation in your head as not being social pressure, but being friendly and adding value. Then systematically applying techniques once you've established rapport with the guys. This is where a simple question like " How do you guys all know each other?" or " How did you all meet?" can go a pretty long way to establishing who's available and who's not. Then it's crucial that you learn to avoid competitive frames. It's not important who she likes more, it's only important to find out if she likes you. Try to ignore the fact that the other guy is even there, if they aren't dating. A lot of people think you have to try to attract mixed groups first, but as AFC Adam talks about the truth is you have to establish comfort first. Meaning that they want to have a conversation with you before anything else. You can retroactively cause attraction once the comfort is there.
Approach Anxiety is another sort of lock up. You see the girl, you clearly feel a want to approach her, and yet your legs stay rooted in place. You've memorized your openers and have a great idea on what to say to tease her, but you still don't approach. For whatever reason the social pressure of having to approach a stranger shuts down your control over your own body. There are a ton of ways to deal with approach anxiety from getting into state, to dealing with inner game issues, to alcohol. But the point is that AA is one of the most common types of lock up due to social pressure. I know it's related to social pressure because it is scarier to approach larger/mixed sets than it is to approach all girl two sets. I've never had a student who has asked if he can just stick to mixed 8 sets :) The more people, the more social pressure , the bigger chance of lock up... Like, I don't know stage fright.
Some people also lock up in situations of intense negative social repurcussions such as an exercise Moxie came up with where you say the most offensive thing possible and then try to recover from it. Now we can rationalize that instead of doing this social pressure experiment, you could just approach the women you are attracted to every time and play every set as hard as you could, which would lead to better results. But you still lack the social freedom to do whatever you want to amuse yourself.
Desensitization to social pressure is the most common route which allows you to build up to things that are more intense than approaching those sets so that your body starts to function normally in those situations. Because there is a physical as well as a mental component at play here. The physical component can feel like melting ice in your chest, butterflies in your stomach, a heaviness in your limbs, inability to speak or control your vocal cadence etc... But it stems from something called your anterior cruciate cortex. A part of your brain that reacts to social pressure with something very close to physical pain. It's not all in your head. That's the good news. The other good news is that by systematically exposing yourself to more and more social pressure, you feel it less and less. Like a Muy Thai kickboxer who whips his shins with bamboo to deaden the nerves, you can burn out your social pressure sensors preventing lockup and increasing your game exponentially.
S
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