Tuesday, January 30, 2007

Why girls don't make sense...;

I just talked to HB perfect and she told me that I intimidated her....

WTF!!!!!

Intimidating, try being under the pressure of dealing with the Mount Olympus of women, the only woman, I know could realistically get me into a relationship, the only woman I've met in 5 years who could possibly wreck me the way Dino girl only came close to.... And I'm intimidating.

Every time I get into a relationship even with "Fridays" and "OC" who were both AT LEAST 9s and probably higher, I always compared them to every other girl and sometimes I would think the other girls were hotter. I only saw these girls when I was with another girl. I don't know if the girls are hotter or if it's just the forbidden fruit aspect of it, but every time I go out with a girl, a parade of swedish super models are out too. When I first started dating OC she and her best friend that Savoy made out were working at Hooters. I go to a Hooters B-day party and my girl is the third hottest girl there, including what at that time was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. But with Perfect, I would not be able to find hotter girls and that would at least make me a little less commit a phobic. So she's actually a chance at a relationship that COULD last. So thus super scary...

And I'm the intimidating one... That's actually a pretty big compliment... but wholly irrational... Thus the effect of advanced comfort. Becoming intimidating to Beautiful women that you shouldn't be able to get.

S

13 comments:

  1. "Thus the effect of advanced comfort. Becoming intimidating to Beautiful women that you shouldn't be able to get."

    Fucking A, man. Couldn't have said it better myself. Just be careful, I'd assume the ultimate goal of advanced comfort should be ultimate comfort... and one could argue that the feeling of intimidation is an uncomfortable feeling.

    P.S. Blog software is still coming along nicely... a little slower than expected as I've picked up a few hours at work to meet deadlines, but I'm still making good progress. :]

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  2. Anonymous10:59 PM

    My sister said i intimidate lots of her hot friends and workmates, they don't think they are up to my standards and so don't flirt back with me when i flirt with them!

    What does one do here...?

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  3. You don't want to be intimidating it's too much A2 attraction. i just am amused that little old me not only attracted her, but then made her feel inferior when she is unreal hot, and a traveling stripper who makes between 3-5 K a night. There's no reason for her to be intimidated by me except how awesome I make myself come off and the way I see her.

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  4. Damn,

    I gotta get down on some of this advanced comfort shit!

    That's amazing bro! I'm really happy for you. I have this kingsized picture in my head of you telling your son how in order to meet mommy you had to go through 8,000 women first LOL!

    I have always found it funny how the most intimidating people on this planet are not 300lbs men fresh out of prison but 100lbs, sweethearted women with big doe eyes and great smelling perfume. How does that work?

    Not only that, but you are quite possibly the most advanced player of this game, and you still find her intimidating! So at least now I know, that feeling never goes away... even 8,000 sets later :D

    -Priest-

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  5. not sure i'm following this perfectly.
    you (one of the finest honed ladies man in the world) are to her, what she (SSHB 12) is to you.
    Very appealing - and thats probably also unusual for both of you.
    so she's intimidated. you probably are a bit as well.

    what part of this is illogical?

    Sting

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  6. not sure i'm following this perfectly.
    you (one of the finest honed ladies man in the world) are to her, what she (SSHB 12) is to you.
    Very appealing - and thats probably also unusual for both of you.
    so she's intimidated. you probably are a bit as well.

    what part of this is illogical?

    Sting

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  7. dmoney10:57 AM

    I agree with crypticfox and believe that a little more investigation of this is in order. Though hbperfect is an extreme example, i believe that i have actually scared women off by having too tight of game. I have been told at various times that they are scared by how attracted they feel, do not want to be in competition with other women, that they "gave it up to fast to me", etc. Many women (like hb7s are not used to this level of pua) and can feel intimidated though quite attractive. At some point do we have to throw in a little afc just to keep the interaction congruent FOR THEM?

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  8. Mr Bigshot11:24 AM

    The force is overwhelming...

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  10. So Sinn, how do you correct the SP of having too much game and confidence?


    By the way, we met 1.5 years ago at Saddle Ranch, I met a girl that night too and #+Kclosed her but we split ways. Just last week we finally hooked up after almost 2 years... haha

    Check my blog for that field report

    http://simurl.com/FR_gamethen_gamenow

    EDIT: blogger chopped up my link

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  11. Sinn,

    "There's no reason for her to be intimidated by me except how awesome I make myself come off and the way I see her."

    There's plenty for her to be intimidated by. She could be intimated by the way you make her feel. Intense feelings are very intimidating. The way you make her feel when she is with you (i.e., amazing, etc). The way she feels about you (i.e. "he's so awesome!", etc). Or the way you make her feel about herself (i.e. wow, he thinks I am awesome and it makes me feel amazing, etc).

    What was the context of her comment? Were you on the phone? What happened proceeding her comment? Were you doing any advanced comfort (AC) during the conversation/directly proceeding the comment?

    Did she say you intimidatED her? As in past tense? Maybe when you met her? Or previously? Or did she say you are STILL intimidating her?

    You see her as the "Mount Olympus of women" and are intimidated by her looks. She may see you as the Titanic of Seduction and maybe intimidated by your charm and attraction.

    Her comment may make sense in a emotional-girl way but without more details I am not going to try to decode it any further.

    Men don't make much sense either,
    Ana

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  12. She said it after telling me how glamourous I am...

    She really does think I'm cooler than her. It's crazy but she's off the deep end for me. She even inspired a new piece of advanced comfort that I'll be sharing in the seminar. This new piece is the key to AC. And turning around any phone blurring or flaking. It's unreal and I haven't even told Future about it yet.

    Anyway she's been calling every nigh and telling me how much she can't wait to see me, how she misses me ... She even said she would leave work to be with me if I was there. It's awesome! Can't wait to see her.

    S

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  13. Yay! When do you see her next?

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