Thursday, March 22, 2007


Here's an article that will be in the upcoming routines book...

This article's purpose is to explain how and when to use role-playing, and a couple of examples and reasons why it works.

First off, we need to explain what role-playing is. Role-playing is the act of playfully giving girls roles and/or giving yourself a role and acting them out in an interaction.

Role-playing is an example of leading a woman on an emotional journey, which is the first of MY attraction switches, to go with the main 3. RPing first and foremost brings girls out of the here and now. It is important to distinguish ourselves from other guys by getting out of the here and now. By telling agirl you are going to dress her up as an angel, etc.. you stop her from thinking about how she's getting hit on in a bar.

The next important part of rping is that it allows her to take on a role and do things she may not have done with out the role. An example of this is the stripper names routine which allows you to both walk away from her and her to chase you and ask you for your name.

Rping also pumps buying temperature. This means that the more emotional a girl gets, the more open to escalation she becomes. So if you can get a girl laughing really hard, she becomes less logical and thus easier to game. Logic is your enemy so the more that you can disengage her logical mind by getting her to think about a ridiculous situation the less inclined to be logical she will become. Because after all you're not really going to dress her up in a toga and take her to Greece.

Now that we know what we are trying to do with role-playing, where does it fit into a set?

Well like a butter knife, the role-playing concept has quite a few uses.

First you can use it as a transition from an opener into a normal conversation.

You can use it in attraction to add some more emotion to a staling set or to put BT before you try to move or escalate.

You can use it on the phone as call back humor.

You can use it in the bed room, but that's an entirely different post....

Finally in the spirit of generosity I will give you guys some role-plays that you can use tonight.

1: You know what I'm going to do with you guys? I'm going to dress you guys up like Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, and we are gonna go run around the bar making sure everyone is behaving. You're gonna be Donatello, cause you're the leader. You're gonna be Leonardo because you seem like the coolest. You're Micheangelo because you're totally the life of the party. And you're gonna be Raphael because you're totally the fiesty one.

2. I am going to take you on a romantic date... to the Sizzler. And you can order anything on the menu. Even the $6 dollar steak.

3. I'm going to get you guys a bunch of wigs and shiny clothes and we are gonna have our own American Idol contest right here. And the winner gets to hang out with me all night!



  1. Anonymous3:14 PM

    Dude! leonardo is the leader, donatello is the smart one

    haha, just busting. anyway, thanks for the update

  2. ware_ru3:21 PM

    best seduction company in the world. well done as always.

    what's the routine book?

  3. cool, thanks for examples, it gives u a frame to make up own silly fun rplays

  4. Anonymous1:07 AM

    do you guys sit around smoke pot and come up with routines?

  5. haha great post! but you got your turtles all mixed up ;)

    I like my own "on an expedition in the Serengeti" where you and the girl are on a safari and decide what animals different people are. Then I have a comfort routine I transition to. field tested.

    Take care!

  6. JustCallMeDan9:10 AM

    I like the attack kitten one (I think I found that in a TD post archived somewhere). I accidentally got into it the other day when I blurted a question to a particularly high-energy girl during a boring bit of a day 2: "Do you have kitten ears at home? I get the impression you're the kind of girl that has kitten ears." It was just screaming to go into the attack kitten roleplay. It was too purrfect an opportunity to pass up ^_^

    You may now deride me for an apalling pun. In fact, you should definitely do this.

  7. Xander11:58 AM

    I'd also like to see a list of observational transitions that you like to use.

  8. Anonymous11:59 AM

    The key point...get her out of the HERE & NOW

  9. Xander11:59 AM

    Whoops, sorry I meant to post that under the "what you guys want to see" post

  10. Dude! leonardo is the leader, donatello is the smart one

    Seriously, Sinn.
    Leonardo leads.
    Donatello does machines.
    Raphael is cool but rude.
    Michaelangelo is a party dude.

    I am ashamed to call you friend at this moment. Get a clue.

  11. Anonymous2:14 PM


  12. Are you gonna turn the turtle into a princess in the end?
    It seems like fun - great frame when the winner gets to hang out with you !