Approach Anxiety = Cardio

Quick post today as I'm jammed up with work for the Beyond Seduction Event which is now sold out!!

I just got back from a Kickboxing workout and I realized how much easier kickboxing is if you don't smoke cigarettes all weekend. This was after last week where I needed 5 minutes just to get up after sparring.

What I noticed last week was that as the training went on during the week (and I refrained from the cigarettes) the cardio was less tiring.

Which leads me to the following.

Most guys make the mistake of assuming that approach anxiety is like some sort of virus that can be completely eliminated with the right magic elixir of beliefs, experience, etc...

This is flat out wrong.

Instead you want to think about Approach Anxiety as if it's cardiovascular fitness.

The more of it you do (meaning approaching) the easier it is. The less of it you do, the harder it becomes.

Even for me, if I don't talk to anyone for a few days, I can feel the same difficulty in making the push to start again.

So stop looking for a magic pill, and instead take step everyday to improve your ability to deal with Approach Anxiety as opposed to looking to eliminate it entirely.

JS

Free Teleseminar: " 5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game"

Hey guys,

Sorry I didn't get this to you yesterday afternoon as pomised
(I was having some difficulties getting in touch with my
webmaster), but here's the announcement I was talking about...

On Thursday, October 14, I'm hosting a no-charge teleseminar
entitled,

"5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Day Or Less... And
Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It... No Matter Where
You Are Right Now!"

On this special teleseminar, you're going to learn ALL NEW
information that I have not revealed to anyone outside of my
private coaching groups. Here's some of what we'll cover:

* A little-known secret that explains why some guys get
good fast while other guys struggle for years. When you apply
this secret, you'll take literally YEARS off you're learning curve.
I promise!

* A special technique for eliminating Approach Anxiety in the
shortest time possible!

* How to start getting CRAZY results with women (threesomes,
10 minute lays, Same Day Lays, etc.) as quickly as possible! It may
seem hard to believe now, but these kinds of results are WELL within
your reach!

* The secret of Inner Game/Out Game Symmetry (Once you master
this, you'll find yourself automatically talking to more women and your
results will skyrocket!)

* My BRAND NEW method for crushing any "sticking point" you
have in record time! (Trust me, when you apply this method your
progress will never be halted ever again!)

* And MUCH more!

Here's the link to register:

Call

See you on the call!



JS

P.S. I only have 250 lines reserved for the call and they're expected
to fill up fast. So be sure to register right away:

Call

Why I Don't Speak At Most Summits

WOW!!!!

This is HYSTERICAL!

If you want to see Professional Speakers and actually learn something

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JS- The King Of Content

1000th Post!

Well, we're finally here.

I woke up this morning knowing that I had to write my 1000 post today. I had promised you all a juicy story rife with pick up drama and "dickcrack".

But you know what?

I'm not feeling it.

I just don't really care about stuff that happened like 2 years ago and involved a motley crew of sociopaths and aspiring sociopaths.

So instead, I'm going to reflect on some of the things I've learned from having this blog for almost 4 years!!!

1. I never planned on blogging. Or even really wrote field reports or documented my life with women or pick up until I started the blog October 29th 2006.
2. I HOPE my writing has evolved a bit. I didn't look back before I started writing this, for fear of getting lost in a storm of typos and strange sentences.
3. Never write for comments. In the same post you will have people that say the post was the best thing since sliced bread(which it wasn't) and the worst thing since the plague(Also not true). Writing for an audience forces you to stop listening to what they say in order to be true to yourself.
4. My blog has caused a decent amount of drama in my real life and is invariably how women I'm dating, find out what I do.
5. For the most part I enjoy writing the blog and try to come up with different "takes" on dating. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail. But I'd like to think, I'm always at least interesting.
6. Haters are a sign you're doing something right. The only people who never get hated on, are the ones who never say anything.
7. It amazes me the details some people know about me, simply from reading this blog over the years. As Slug of Atmosphere fame once wrote " I think my fans understand me better than my friends do, because my friends don't pay that much attention. The Fans memorize every single sentence, which should make them far too smart to ever start a friendship."
8. Sometimes it is ALMOST impossible for me to find something interesting to write about pickup that I haven't already said. Multiple times.
9. This whole community and all the intensity and feelings that can happen within it, including this blog, all go away if you turn off your computer :)
10. There are definitely posts I am proud of writing on this blog, and some ones I wish would go away.
11. I have zero credibility when it comes to talking about places I would NEVER live. So far I've trashed LA, Miami, and NY on the blog and afterwards have lived in all 3. Don't trust me when it comes to my opinions on cities. Everything else AWESOMELY credible :)
12. I think throughout this blog, I've stayed pretty much the same person. I may have changed little perspectives or ideas, and my philosophy about pickup has made a 180 degree shift, but I think I've stayed really true to who I am. As Sarcastic and whiny as that person may sometimes be :)
13. I think I'm over "The Community". I don't mean I'm done teaching or writing this blog or anything like that, I'm just over keeping up with what's happening with other teachers and methods etc... I get how the whole thing works now, and don't need outside influences on y thought processes.
14. I've gone through a lot of relationship changes during the time I've written this blog. Friendships started and ended. Relationships, worked, failed and then worked again. Some of it's recorded here, but most of it I moved off the blog. I need some privacy still.
15. It takes a certain kind of ridiculous individual to have 1000 blog posts on a pickup blog.

Ok, first 1000 posts down, next 1000 to go.

Thanks for reading and I'll continue to try to bring you the best content, mixed with my unique brand of ridiculousness.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

This is AMAZING!!!

Some guy, started a website called Mrs Lebron Wade, where he chronicles Lebron and Dwayne's "marriage" with photoshopped pics and hilarious articles.

My guess is he's a Cavs fan.

Check it out at

MrsLebronWade.com

Also it's 6 days til my Bday, so if you know me in real life and want to remain friends, go present shopping or at least wish me a happy Bday next Thursday. Otherwise you will be cut like a barber. Ask anyone who forgot last year, that I stopped talking to :)

Have a great weekend!

JS-The King Of Content

Don't Be Captain Save a Ho Part Deux

I was reading my Real Housewives book (Don't judge) and I came across a perfect quote from Simon that illustrates the allure certain kinds of damaged women, especially those with high sexual confidence can have on men.

" She was a challenge for me. I'm in the car business and I was basically a closer, and I know a lot about psychology. But even with all the ability I have as a closer, she's the only person in the world I cannot use it on. IT'S NOT THAT I DON'T WANT TO. IT'S LIKE SHE HAS KRYPTONITE."

First of all, how funny is it that he calls himself a Closer. Seriously, you know what I think of when I think of the term "closer"? Kyra Sedwick from that TV show they ALWAYS advertise during the NBA playoffs.

Secondly if you ever find yourself trying to get a girl to change who she is or feel like you need to use psychology or "game" to win some sort of power struggle in a relationship, you're a sociopath.

and lastly if you find yourself comparing a girl's resistance to you to that of Kryptonite I.E the only substance that can harm FRICKIN SUperman, you may want to re-evaluate things.

Just sayin,

JS- The King Of Content

Strategy Based Game

Last week, I wrote about volume based game and some of the pros and cons of that style of meeting women.

Today, I want to talk about the opposite of volume based game, which is strategy based game. Unfortunately, I don't have a really cool Basketball analogy for this type of game :(

Strategy based game applies both to cold approaches, how you set up your life, and getting specific types of girls. Strategy based game is also your best shot at getting a specific girl that's already in your life(friends, co-workers). Strategy based game goes beyond simply using tactics and techniques. Strategy based games generally follow a set of rules and a basic overall strategy.

For example:

Mystery Method proposes a strategy of approaching groups, befriending everyone except the girl you are attracted.

Promoter Game is composed of the strategy of offering women a VIP experience in clubs, then letting the social proof and authority of your positioning create attraction.

Breakthrough Comfort is another strategy based game that focuses on creating love.

One of the pros of a strategy based approach are that it allows you to focus specifically on one girl or type of girl.

Another positive is that it gives you a specific set of actions and strategies to follow and usually a way to track your progress.

The cons of strategy based game is that it takes a lot of focus and energy. Generally strategy based game takes A lot longer as you are trying to go though a full process. Some people can also become dogmatically tied to a specific strategy as I was with Mystery Method for awhile.

In general it's not a good idea to become too attached to any strategy and instead become able to adapt to whatever is necessary in a situation.

JS- The King Of Content

Don't Be Captain Save a Ho!!!

Yes, I admit I just wanted to somehow work the phrase Captain Save a Ho into a blog post.

Sue me :)

I'm writing this after watching the drama unfold recently with my not in real life but Television friends Simon and Tamra Barney of Real Housewives Of Orange County fame.

Apparently he threw a dog leash at her and now he's been arrested for domestic abuse.

First of all, no one should ever throw things at women. It's childish and shows just how insecure you actually are.

But...

Clearly when these two met, Tamra had a past and was a little bit of a party girl. She had a basically fully grown son she had at 20 and listed her hobbies as day drinking. I'm not saying she's a bad person, but you can't expect to turn that kind of girl into a doting, obey everything I tell you to do, housewife.

As Snoop Dogg and Dr Dre clearly rapped on the seminal Chronic 2001 album, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife."

You may be wondering how this affects you dear reader... I'm glad you asked.

Most of you who read this blog are aware of why it's a bad idea to obsess about one particular girl, especially when she doesn't seem to be interested. In the SUISC this is commonly referred to as one-itis. Generally the horrible advice that is given to you is to go fuck ten other women (GFTOW). While this can work for some guys, it doesn't actually do anything to get rid of the emotions.

Now on the same tangent, let's say you do manage to hook up with that one special girl that you think will make your life totally complete. Except, it turns out that she also has a fully grown son from another marriage, and shows no signs whatsoever of slowing down her partying.

What do you do?

Do you look at the situation realistically and assess the pros and cons of staying with such a woman?

Or

Do you do what most guys (Including Simon Barney) do and simply shrug your shoulders and say " Well she's hot!"

If you're 99% of the population (Basically anyone who isn't me) you go with the emotions of how good it feels to finally get with that girl and you end up in relationships with people who you are not compatible with.

The moral here is that you CANNOT save people from themselves. People don't change until they are ready to do it on their own, and no matter how much you love someone or believe that if they could just fix this or stop doing that things will be perfect changes that fact. It's human nature.

So I implore you to look at all women realistically regardless of how attractive they are,how much you have built them up in your mind to be perfect, or how much work you have put in to pursuing her.

Or you can end up in divorce court.

Your choice.

JS-The King Of Content

Volume Based Game- The Allen Iverson Approach

I've been trying to clarify some thoughts I'm having on different ways guys meet girls.

So far I've pared everything down to the idea that there are volume based ways of meeting girls and strategy based ways to meet a specific girl/type of girl.

To illustrate what I'm talking about, I get to use a basketball analogy! Hooray!

When it comes to basketball, most uneducated fans look simply at the scoring numbers a player puts up. So if you look strictly at statistics, you would come to the conclusion that over the last 4 years Zach Randolph of the Memphis Grizzlies has been the best power forward in the league. This is because he is the ONLY player in the league to average at least 20 pts and 10 rebounds a game over that time.

What you would be missing is that Zach has been stuck on TERRIBLE teams for the last four years and as a result has ended up taking more shots, getting more rebounds and playing more minutes than he would on a successful team. He is successful only because of the situation which allows him to take a lot of shots and get a lot of rebounds, but doesn't actually lead to team success or championships.

Zach is what's known around the league as a volume scorer. Meaning that when he takes a lot of shots, he scores a lot of points. When his opportunities are reduced, so is his success...

Now how in the world does that apply to meeting women?

Most guys who get good with girls use the volume based approach. This is ESPECIALLY true with other instructors. In fact I would go so far as to say that most other instructors only get laid when they have approached upwards of 20 women in a night. I've personally watched and counted during SEVERAL bootcamps with various instructors from at least 3 different companies over the years.

They are playing a kind of numbers game.

Approach enough women and no matter what you look like or how good your game is, someone will want to sleep with you eventually.

The positives of the volume based approach are that you (should) learn that rejection is not a big deal. This is one of the golden lessons of pick up that guys want to avoid. By doing a large number of approaches you desensitize yourself to the rejection that is a part of the game.

However, a purely volume based approach has some issues.

1. Volume based approaches help you get girls, they don't help you get a specific girl or a specific type of girl. If you're a complete loser with girls (as I was 7 years ago) then you should start with a volume based approach in order to start getting experience. Once you've got that experience you want to really refine what you are looking for and start tailoring your approaches to a specific type of girl you really like.

2. Volume based game takes time. It takes all night to approach 20 different girls or groups of girls unless you're terrible and the approaches all last less than 5 minutes.

3. Volume based game takes energy and a lot of "work". If you're reading this you probably know how lazy I am. While I have approached 20 girls in one night or day, the only way you're getting me to do this now is with a gun to my head (or money). You work really hard when your game is based on how many women you approach as opposed to a more strategy based type of game.

So that brings us to the end of this article and brings up our next topic; Strategy based game.

Tomor I'll have an article for you on that topic.

We're on a 23 and a half hour break,

JS-The King Of Content

# 994- The Beyond Seduction Event is Live!

Hey there,

Good Monday to ya.

I have a bunch of thoughts today, but I also have about 10 mins before I have to leave for Kickboxing, so I will have a lot of posts this week for ya including my thoughts on volume based game versus quality based game.

I may even make a video to explain it.

But in the meantime I wanted to remind ya that the Beyond Seduction Event is live now and you can STILL get a free 30 minute strategy session with me (a $250 value) as well as the Beyond Seduction Starter pack (a $147 value, not available anywhere else) if you sign up by Midnight tonight.

You also get a HUGE price break.

Sooo meander on over to Beyond Seduction and sign up.

Or you'll never get laid ever again!!!!!

Just Kidding.

Or am I?

JS- The King Of Content

What Is Game (Video)

Hey,

I just put a short video that talks about what "game"
really is.

In the video, I talk about the THREE things that
will make you ultra-succesful with women.

Check out the video here:

Video

Talk to you later,

JS

Transitioning In Day Game- Introduce Yourself

Yo,

I get a lot of questions about transitioning especially during the day time.

There is an easy way to transition in any situation to make it obvious that you want to continue the conversation and shift topics.

It's called introducing yourself.

I know, I know this goes against years of community dogma and flies directly in the face of rules guys who get laid 3 times a year have said.

But unlike 99% of the gurus in this industry, I STILL pickup new girls almost every day and I can tell you that introducing yourself (ESPECIALLY during the daytime) will move your conversation forward, because it bridges the gap between " Why is this guy talking to me?" and " Oh I'm in a conversation" in a woman's mind.

SO hopefully that answers what you should do to transition during the day.

JS

Girl Game

Yo,

Middle of the week greetings, and salutations to you all.

I've been having some crazy success lately which has led me to having to wash my sheets every day and the following little nugget of information I want to share with you today.

Girls have lines and "routines" they run too.

I started to notice this before I left AZ, but since I've moved it's become even more noticeable. In fact I can now tell I'm going to end up hooking up with a girl as soon as they start some of they're "girl game" as I like to call it.

I met a Yoga teacher in Barnes and Noble Sunday who while we were walking around told me she had to be in love to have sex with someone(Something I'd heard before) 6 hours later she was filming herself masturbating and various other things unfit for print.

My favorite example of this is when girls try to push the whole " I date like a guy" thing. Recently this very cute little cocktail waitress named Sam tried to tell me she doesn't date and plays guys. Literally a week later she was calling me every day trying to hangout and getting super clingy. Since I've moved I've heard variations of this from an Abercrombie and Fitch manager and a makeup artist. If a girl tells you she dates like a guy or is a player, run because she's clingy.

I've done the research for you.

The point is, much as we are trying to control our image in the girl's mind to make ourselves seem fun, confident, masculine and interesting. She is trying to do the same thing, and chances are both of us are misrepresenting ourselves.

Because as Chris Rock once said when you meet somebody of the opposite sex for the first time, you're not actually meeting them, you're meeting their representative.

How do you deal with this?

With the best advice I ever received about women (from my sister ironically enough, love you Gemma!) Never take anything a woman is saying seriously. Especially if you just met her.

Best,

JS

990- Emotional Fludity

Yo,

A lot of guys even some of
the top gurus out there,
think that the goal of an
interaction with a woman
is to get attraction from
her.

This is somewhat true but
misses the point.

See, attraction is an emotion.

So in reality what we want is to
get the woman to first emotionally
react to us and then to allow us a
degree of what I like to call
Emotional Fluidity.

Emotional Fluidity, besides being
a term I just made up, refers to
what happens when a woman allows you
control of her emotions. It's not
a conscious process and it's also
where a majority of techniques come
into play. Especially those based on
intrigue.

I'm sure you've had what I'm about to describe
happen to you at least once.

You start talking to a girl,
you're attracted to. You're throwing
your best game at her, you're doing
everything right, and she just doesn't
react.

Not an annoyed word, not a blowoff,
just apathy.

In reality apathy is worse than
hate and anger, because a person
has to at least care about you to
hate you.

When a person is apathetic you have
no emotional fluidity. They don't
regard you as important enough to
sway their emotions in the slightest
way.

Sometimes this has to do with value,
sometimes it has to do with looks, but
most often it has to do with communication
style.

You must communicate with women in a
way that early on sparks an EMOTIONAL
reaction. That reaction does not have
to be attraction, it can be curiosity,
annoyance, confusion, or a ton of other
things, but the goal when you start talking
to a woman is not to get attraction, but to
get EMOTION. Almost any emotion can become
attraction, but without emotional fluidity,
you CANNOT get attraction


Best,

JS- The King of Content

The Importance Of Relaxation In Pickup

One of the biggest things I've realized as
I've gotten better with women, is that one
of the core skills related to socializing
in general is the ability to relax befor
and during a conversation.

The ability to be relaxed, especially
during the beginning of a cold approach,
conveys a lot of things about you. It shows that
you are confident, used to being around
beautiful women, comfortable.

Plus it allows the woman to relax.

I remember when I started approaching
"hotter" girls, I realized something
startling. There were certain types
of girls I could approach and actually
feel "cooler" than. Some of them were
even extremely attractive. When I approached
these girls, I'd ALWAYS do well, because
I was relaxed "Knowing" I'd do well with
them.

But for whatever reason, they weren't
the kinds of girls I really wanted.

And those girls(The ones I really wanted),
would make me a nervous,mess.

I would stammer, speak softly and weakly,
avoid eye contact.

All because I REALLY wanted them and because
of that I made the interaction WAY too important.

This buildup made it nearly impossible for me to
relax when I approached them.

Even when I ALREADY knew what to do and could do it
successfully with other girls.

So what did I do?

Two things.

First I progressively desensitized myself by FORCING
myself to talk to every hot girl I saw even if it was
just to squeak out a "hi"and run away.

Secondly I learned some relaxation techniques like
15 second breaths, Achievement statements, and muscular
relaxation techniques. But more importantly I focused all
my attention(after I started a conversation) on relaxing.
Sometimes I'd even look for a little flaw on the girl to
help myself not be intimidated by her looks.

And now I can talk to any girl, anywhere, regardless of their
looks or the situation while staying totally relaxed at all times.

Especially with the girls I REALLY like.

I'd also recommend daily stretching and meditation to help
with creating a more laid back presence both physically and
mentally.

JS- The King Of Content

Positioning In Dating

Positioning is a term from marketing that refers to creating an image or identity in the mind of a perspective consumer for a product or service that is being marketed.

Positioning is extremely important when it comes to dating.

The way you position yourself upon first meeting a woman, can determine the entire course of your relationship with her.

When it comes to positioning the magic question, is what can I do for her?

You have to position yourself as someone who has something she wants.

Now what that something is can differ from person to person, but to have the greatest amount of success you must position yourself as someone who has something she wants.

Let's look at a couple of examples of good positioning.

1. Potential Boss/source of income: We did a video shoot a few months back and I saw the power of this positioning first hand. If you want to get all evolutionary psychologist here, you could say it relates to survival and security.

2. Club Promoter: This one only works with girls who go out in the area you promote in, but club promoters always start with higher positioning because they control (easy)entrance to the club. Anytime you have a "hookup" you can use that for positioning.

3. Expert in an area she's interested in learning more about. Being able to teach a girl something simple and basic or letting her see you be way above average at something creates higher positioning. I took a girl with me to a kickboxing class the other day and helped her learn to throw punches the right way. The key here is that it has to be something they're interested in. I don't talk to girls about pickup even though I'm an expert in it and can explain things in great detail.

A classic example of positioning is the way nightclubs in cities like Miami, LA, and Vegas work. Unless you have connections, you line up outside of an empty nightclub. This wait time positions the club as exclusive and popular. As opposed to letting everyone in at once, which would position them as half full.

Also look at the difference in positioning created by nightclubs in how you offer to buy a woman a drink. If you open with it you're positioning yourself as willing to pay for her time. Needy, and loserish. However if you buy overpriced bottles(again without a hookup then they're $60 in tip, I know) and open by inviting the girls to the table for a drink, you're positioned as cool and trendy. Even though in both situations you're offering the girls free alcohol to hang out with you...

So let's re-cap this post: Positioning is all about how you differentiate yourself from everyone else in relation to the woman you're dealing with. We want to create positioning based on what we can do for her. This is one of the things that can cause women to chase you.

Word.

JS- The King Of Content

Post # 987- Fun New Technique

Oh the countdown to DRAMA is ON!

13 more blog posts and I will probably get sued for revealing some scandalous shiz...

Actually may have to release the post as a work of fiction with names changed, kinda like The Game

Anyhoo, here's a quick technique I've been using at night when it's time to pull.

Originally it started out honest and then became a technique.

What I'll do is around 30 mins before last call or the end of the party, I will look at my cellphone and then ask the girl how I should blow off a booty call politely because I want to hang out more with her.

This is a great little last bit of pre-selection before you go for the pull.

As former Fast Seduction.com troll Feminator would write:

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

JS- The King Of Content

Learn Directly From My Biggest Influence; Captain Jack

Hey,

Most of you have probably already heard about Captain Jack. We were wings for a couple years and we probably had a higher output than any other Wing tandem in history. A couple of years ago I named him the world's best pick-up artist. (I've been OUT in the field with more professional 'name' PUAs than anyone else so I am the most qualified to make that kind of judgement.)

Anyways, here are 5 posts by CJ I think you should read. I believe they will change your game forever. Even if you've already read them before you should read them again. CJ's posts are often layered with little bits of golden information that you 'get' only with more and more experience.

Here they are:

Post 1:Romance = Sexual Tension

In this post, CJ discusses a lot of the dynamics behind Sexual Framing. It launched his very effect 'Framing Mastery' program where the number of SNLs quickly exceeded the number of PUAs on the call. Many were getting multiple SNLs in the same week.

Post 2: Game Dynamics

This post doubled CJ's blog traffic. It describes the framework and rules behind all human interactions and makes PU so simple and fun and returns the thrill of pick-up back to the PUA. It expands on these ideas:

All Games are Based on Agreement.

Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players in a Game You Both Want to Play.

Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER.

Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal.

Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time.

By passing each dynamic you get closer to sex. Her statements and questions are evaluated in the light of which Dynamic she is trying to Clarify. This is a must read post.

Post 3: Keeping It Sexual In Comfort . This is for those PUAs who find themselves getting stuck in boring, non-sexual conversations or Day2s that go nowhere.

Post 4: Gun To The Head Gaming Part 1. This is what CJ would do if goons broke into his house and told him he had to bet laid THAT NIGHT or they'd come back and shoot him in the face!

Post 5: Gun To The Head Gaming Part 2 . This is a checklist that every PUA should measure themselves against every night they go out. It is a way to truly measure your performance and shore up your weaknesses. PURE GOLD!

Why am I asking you to go read them? Very simple.

1. I know that reading them will boost your Game to the next level. No doubt. Each post in itself could do that, but all 5 together is a virtual guarantee.

2. CJ has just put every product he's created up for sale at a deep discount. I think everyone should invest in his material. I don't want you to miss out. Go here to read more about his "Insane Completion Offer" .

Club People VS Non Club People

Ok here's a quick post that can actually make you a lot happier and more successful with women.

In my experience(and for the sake of this article) there are two types of people in the World; Club people and non club people.

Club people LIVE for the club. It is the highlight of their week and they go regardless of whether they actually get laid, meet people they like, or even have a single social interaction with another person. Some of them go to dance,all of them like to drink, and most use drugs recreationally if they don't have a full blown drug problem.

On the other hand we have non club people or as I like to refer to them "my readers." I would say 99% of guys who get into this are not club people. Meaning that if you took away the alluring possibility of getting laid, these guys would NEVER go to bars and clubs. I should know, because I am one of these people.

Now for years and years I believed that in order to be good at this, you have to be going to bars and clubs, because that's where the hotties were. I tried for years to like bars and clubs. In fact when I was living in Dallas and Miami I was out by myself in bars and clubs 3-4 nights a week, and 6-7 nights a week total.

Yet even when I was having outrageous success, I NEVER looked forward to going to these places.

Eventually it hit me, the truth is you're either a club person or you're not. And I was not.

So about 6-7 months ago, I stopped going to bars and clubs outside of bootcamps and dates.

I was expecting my level of success with women to take a small hit, because I wasn't going to be around the drunk and slutty contingent which is so integral to bar and club success.

Instead the opposite happened, I started to go eat lunch at various malls in the Scottsdale area and was amazed to find hotter and much cooler girls there than I was meeting at clubs. Instead of sleeping with less girls a month, I was sleeping with more.

It was then during a conversation with Jay Formhandle that I got the second piece to the puzzle. He remarked that you NEVER meet club girls during the day. I thought about it for a second and outside of flights to and from Las Vegas, he was completely right. Club girls don't come out during the day and day time girls (Like grad students, nurses, lawyers, and most real models as opposed to "Models") are rarely found at night.

So take this post as a guiding light, if you HATE bars and clubs; STOP GOING TO THEM. You don't need to interact with scumbags in order to meet attractive women. They are literally all around you as you go through life.

And in the meantime you can make fun of ridiculous club people on websites like this one:

The Dirty

That is all.

JS- The King Of Content

The Seduction Roadmap is CLOSED

Thanks to everyone who took part in it.

We sold out all 500 copies before midnight last night.

Sorry if you missed it...

JS

This Guy Got Laid 3 Times Last Week... No Joke!

Hey

When I told you that the Seduction Roadmap was the
most powerful seduction system on the planet, I
was NOT joking.

For example, Here's an email that was sent to me
literally minutes before I did the special Seduction
Roadmap encore teleseminar last Saturday:

"Hey Jon. from last Thursday to Tuesday i went out
four times and three of the times I got laid. Breaking
my record.

The Seduction Roadmap is giving me the results I had
alway dream of. My pick up on tuesday night was
awesome. The first girl that I approached I ended up
taking home.

She was so attracted to me she ended up convincing
her friend to come home with me and her. I haven't
even got good at using the any cold reads yet.
the stuff is awesome."

Troy B.
Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Would you like to be the next Seduction Roadmap
success story?

If so, that I really think you need to check out
this site and register for the Seduction Roadmap
Training program RIGHT NOW:

Seduction Roadmap

Best,

JS

P.S. We have literally DOZENS of Seduction Roadmap
success stories just like this one. YOu can read
the juicy details here:

Seduction Roadmap

P.P.S. We're closing registration for the Seduction
Roadmap this TUESDAY at midnight, Pacific Time. I
suggest you sign up right now so you don't miss
out on this special opportunity:

Seduction Roadmap

Here's One Last Chance?

Hey there,

Last Thursday, I did an AMAZING no-charge call
titled, "The Seduction Roadmap Revealed: How
To Turn 'Conversations' Into Sizzling Hot
Sexual Encounters... Every Single Time!"

The call was PACKED with a ton of great content
that you can immediately go out and use to
get more s-e-x.

Here's just one email I got right after the call
ended:

"Hey man just wanted to tell you that call was sick
- I really liked how you focused on "get laid" game
rather than "attraction" game. Be prepared to receive
a lot more emails like this because that was one of
the best conference calls I think you've ever had.

- Marc

P.S. Thanks again man and I'm gonna go out and use
that shit tonight"

If for some reason you missed the call, you're
in luck because I just made a recording of the
call available. You can download the recording
by going here:

Replay

This is going to be your absolute last chance
to get this information.

Get it here:

Replay

Best,

J$-The King Of Content

Let's Try This Again

Did you make the call yesterday?

If not, don't feel bad. You weren't alone. We were
completely packed even though we reserved as many
lines as we could.

I also got quite a few emails from guys in countries
like England and Australia who weren't able to make
the call because either it was really earlier in
the morning for them or because they had to be at
work during the call.

If you're one of the people that missed the call, you're
in luck because we're doing a special encore call
this SATURDAY, at 3:30 p.m. EDT (12:30 p.m. PDT)
[Check out http://www.time.gov if you're having trouble
finding your local time]

Yes, you'll have a second chance to listen it to my
teleseminar "The Seduction Roadmap Revealed: How
To Turn 'Ordinary' Conversations Into Sizzling Hot
Sexual Encounters... Every Single Time!"

Trust me, you want to be on this call. Look at what
participants are saying:

"Hey man just wanted to tell you that call was sick
haha - I really liked how you focused on "get laid"
game rather than "attraction" game.

Be prepared to receive a lot more emails like this
because that was one of the best conference calls
I think you've ever had.

Thanks again man and I'm gonna go out and use that
shit tonight"

- Marc F.

Now's your chance to hear for yourself what all the buzz
is all about. You can register for this no charge call
here: Register

Talk to you tomorrow,

JS -- The King of Content

That Was Awesome!

I just hung up from a call I hosted with over 5,000
guys where I revealed my simple, 4-step process for
turning “ordinary" conversations into sizzling hot
sexual encounters.

During this call, I shared my proven, step-by-step
process for making sure your interactions with the girls
you're attracted to lead to nowhere but your bedroom.

I call this process the Seduction Roadmap. And During
the call, I also let you now about my Seduction Roadmap
Training Program.

In this program, I take you by the hand and walk
you through the entire Seduction Roadmap process
in step-by-step detail.

You get detailed explanations of each component of the
Seduction Roadmap as well as TONS of examples and strategies
of how to apply the Seduction Roadmap in the real world.

To put it simply, after you go through the program
you will know the EXACT steps you need to take to
begin a sexual relationship with any girl you’re
attracted to.

You’ll also know how to apply these steps in ANY
situation and in ANY environment.

Plus... and this is huge...

Every person who signs up for the program right now
gets a fre'e ticket to a special 3-day live event that
I'm putting on this October in Los Angeles.

Now, this program is limited to just 500 guys.
That's just maximum number that the special
online learning platform that I set up for
you can handle.

So if you want to have a life filled with an abundant
supply of beautiful women and sexual satisfaction...

Then you need to take a very close look at this
program:

Seduction Roadmap


J$-The King Of Content

P.S., If you are thinking about joining the program,
there are two great reasons to do so right now:

1. The program is limited to only 500 people and since it’s
finally available literally everyone else is emailing their
subscribers and letting them know about it.

I’m guessing that in the next 24 hours over
200,000 people are going to be invited to join this program.
This means that it could sell out at any minute and if you
wait too long, you might be not get in.

2. I have three amazing early mover bonuses that I'm giving
to the first 200 people who sign up for the program. These
include a 78-minute training video exclusively how to get
Same NightLays, and special module on the Secrets to Dating
YoungerWomen and a video featuring Mack Tacktics creator Dean
Cortez on how to get 9s and 10s.

These bonuses are going quickly so if you want to get
your hands on them, you need to act fast:

Get It Now

P.P.S If you were one of the people that tried to call in but
couldn't or weren't able to hear. I'm looking into doing
an encore call probably this Saturday. Stay tuned
for details... In the meantime, check out this site:

Seductionroadmap

What Every Man Must Know About Seduction

Hey there,

This Thursday, July 29, 2010 at 9:00 p.m. Eastern Time
(6:00 p.m. Pacific Time) I'm doing a free teleseminar
and you're invited. The topic is:

"The Seduction Roadmap Revealed: How To Turn 'Ordinary' Conversations
Into Sizzling Hot Sexual Encounters... Every Single Time!"

(In a hurry? Grab your seat by heading over to:
SeductionRoadmap.com )

On this call I'm going to reveal my scientifically proven
Seduction Roadmap that every guy who wants to have a
life filled with sexual abundance needs to know.

Here's some of what you'll discover:

* My never-before-revealed process that lets you know EXACTLY
what you need to do to move your conversations towards sex!
(No more guessing "what to do" or "what to say" next.)

* How to (finally) be the confident, sexual man that you know
you were meant to be!

* How to easily bring out the "naughty side" of any woman!
It's PROVEN that ALL women have a naughty side simply waiting
to come out to play... and if you're able to bring this side out
effectively, sex with you becomes inevitable!)

* My three best "sexual accelerators" that guarantee that
clothes come flying off... FAST!

* How to apply the Seduction Roadmap in the Real World to
get MASSIVE RESULTS as quickly as possible!

* And MUCH More!

Here's the link to register for this no-charge teleseminar:

Register

Best,

JS

P.S. When you register for this call you'll also receive
IMMEDIATE ACCESS to all three Seduction Roadmap training
videos.

These videos are great and will really help prepare you
for the upcoming call. I suggest you watch them now while
they're still up:

Videos

5 things to talk about that will get you laid every time (free video workshop)

Hey,

I hope you’re enjoying my Seduction Roadmap video
training series.

If you liked the last two videos, then you’re going
to LOVE the one that I put up earlier today…

If you’re in a rush, you can check out the video here:

Video3

In this new video, I give a complete training on
the second step of the Seduction Roadmap. The information
I reveal in this video is VERY powerful to say the least.

Here’s SOME of what you’ll discover in it:

* How you can make all of the barriers for a girl to
have sex with you literally melt away!

* Five topics that, when brought up correctly, will get
you laid almost every time! Imagine: knowing for CERTAIN
that you’re going to get laid. No more wondering, “Should
I make a move?” or “Should I kiss her?

* How to get girls to agree to have sex with you BEFORE
even trying to get them back to your place!

* And… much more!

This is all laid out very clear for you in this new
video workshop found here:

Video3

Talk to you soon,

JS- The King Of Content

My Best Video Ever

Hey,

I really hope you liked the video I sent you
yesterday.

In it, I told you about the Seduction Roadmap,
which is a scientifically proven 4-step process
that will get you laid as much as you want, whenever
you want.

I also, talked about the first step of the Seduction
Roadmap, which is all about creating sexual attraction.

If learning how to create sexual attraction at will
Sounds like something you want to do, then you're
in for a real treat...

I just put up a BRAND NEW video on the blog where
I demonstrate my #1 best technique for creating
sexual attraction with a smoking hot girl!

You can check out the video here:

Seduction Roadmap

If you've been reading my emails for any length of time
you know that I've put out quite a few really
good videos (I am the King of Content after all haha),
but this video you're about the see is probably
my BEST ONE ever. And that's no joke either.

See for yourself:

Seduction Roadmap

It doesn't hurt that the girl in the video is
super-hot :)

Best

JS -- The King of Content

P.S. It looks like a like of people we're able to
watch video the first video in the series.

It turns out that my server wasn't equipped
to handle so many people being on the site at
the same time.

Because of this, I've decided to keep the first video
in the training series for a little while longer
in case you missed it.

So watch both of these videos now:

S Roadmap

Neil Strauss Is A LIAR!!!

If you’re like a lot of guys, you were first
exposed to learning attraction and seduction
from Neil Strauss’s book, “The Game.”

And while “The Game” was a great read,
it turns out that a lot of the ideas that
Neil Strauss introduced in his book that are
now accepted as truths and are still taught by
a lot of seduction “experts” are flat out wrong.

You may have heard that I just put up a
rather controversial video about this exact
topic:

You can check out this eye-opening video here:

VIDEO

I think you're really going to like it.

Check it out now:

Video

Best,

J$ -- The King of Content

P.S. I have a few more training videos that
I'll be releasing in the next couple of days
that have a lot of information that is going
to help you get alot more naked women in your
bed.

You can access all of these videos by going
here:

click here

So In love With Two...

In lieu of a long rambling post where I whine about how difficult it is to be in love with two different amazing women; one of whom makes me want to be a better person for her and one of whom reminds me of everything I love about myself...

I figured I'd just post a catchy song and avoid having to actually deal with sticky feelings in writing. Plus I have No idea what to do in this situation.

So there!

Amazing Individual Chael Sonnen

I wrote a post over on Bleacher Report about Sonnen who is quickly becoming one of my favorite fighters and may have reached Frank Mir levels of trash talkery..

Check him out:

My Favorite Song Off Of Recovery

Not sure how I feel about Recovery yet as I'm only halfway through the 3rd listening...

But I have no doubt about my feelings for this song; I am in love with it.

Especially the following apology which as a pissed off fan who bought Rehab and Encore was super appreciated;

"It’s different them last two albums didn’t count
Encore I was on drugs, Relapse I was flushing em out
I’ve come up to make it up to you no more fucking around
I’ve got something to prove to fans I feel like I let em down
So please accept my apology I finally feel like I’m back to normal
Let me formally reintroduce myself to you for those of you who don’t know
The new mes back to the old me and homie I don’t show no
Signs of slowin up, pullin up, blowin up, all over no mo
My life is no longer a movie but the shows aint over homos"

I'm Happy...

I feel really good today.

Over the past few years, I've started to re-connect with what's more important to me. I'm "renewing myself" as Ramona of the Real Housewives Of New York would say.

It started with getting myself out of certain toxic situations personally and professionally.

Then I had to look at a lot of my behavior and whether what I was doing was being done because I wanted to do it or because I thought I had to do certain things, go certain places, and sleep with a certain amount of girls to be ok. Once I realized that I was doing things that weren't me ( Like drinking and partying all the time) I stopped and started to focus on the things, and people that were interesting to me.

The last 6 months have been incredible personally and professionally. I'm super lucky to have a flourishing business and a support system of amazing women and men around the World.

Moreover I've gotten back to the things that I really like doing and the people I really enjoy being around.

So thanks to people like; Ron, Kristen, both Lindsays, Jason, Seif, Raine, Cam, Geoff, Adam, Alex, Bunny Lauren,Kenneth and everyone else who helps make me excited to wake up every day.

Believe me I remember when this wasn't the case...

And thank you to everyone who shall remain nameless who helped me realize what it was I didn't want to become.

Have a great weekend, I know I will :)

JS- The King Of Content

Hysterical LeBron Parody

The Homie Nacho from High School; Holla at me!

Yo Nacho,

I'm back in the city we went to high school in. And this is the best way I have to get in touch with ya.

Hit me up same number, same hood. It's all good.

JS

33 posts to 1,000 Fuck me running with a chainsaw...

Wow.

Just checked my stats and this is the 968th post on this blog since late 2006.

Considering I never thought I would actually keep this thing, that's pretty good.

What should I do to celebrate my 1,000th post?

I was thinking about revealing a crazy scandal that happened back in the day... Trust me, it's crazy juicy and involves something like 10 instructors you all have heard of.

Thoughts?

What do you want to see for my 1,000th post.

JS-The King of Content

PS: My 1,000th post will probably happen around 10-11 weeks from now given the MWF updates I've been doing for the last year.

One More Time For Old Time's Sake: Remembering AI as he was

Before Iverson became whatever he is now, he was at one time the baddest one on one player in the league.

As much as videos like this usually kill me, it probably surprises no one that AI is my all time second favorite player after MJ.

It should also surprise no one that my quitting the NBA lasted all of 3 hrs. The League matters a little too much to me.

And that's ok.

JS

The G.O.A.T Weighs in On Kobe VS Lebron

Lebron Is What We Thought He Was; A Frontrunner

We should have seen this coming...

For the last 7 years, we've had plenty of glimpses into what kind of a person Lebron James is.

We should have known when he nicknamed himself "The Chosen One" and tattooed it on his back.

We should have known something was wrong when he was asked what he wanted for his career and he responded with two words; "Global Icon."

Not to mention the 5 times he referred to himself in the third person during " The Decision."

We should have known when Lebron ( a child of the 80s such as myself) revealed that his favorite teams were The Bulls, Cowboys and Yankees. or ya know the teams that won almost EVERY championships while he was a kid. Cleveland should have seen the signs when he didn't support a single team from Ohio.

How about the two consecutive early playoff exits, followed by Lebron walking off the court without shaking hands?

Or how about the complete lack of effort in Game 5 of The Boston Series this year. A classic " I'm waiting for the offseason." game.

The problem is partially our expectations. Because of his talent, WE wanted Lebron to be Magic, Jordan, and Bird all rolled up in one and we ignored the type of player we were watching...

We ignored when Lebron would consistently shrink in the final moments of a big game. We ignored the nail biting, the lack of leadership and the fact that having fun always seemed like more fun than actually winning.

Lebron burned his legacy on Thursday like fans burned his jersey in Cleveland.

And the thing is the choice was NOT about winning. The choice was about getting help. The choice was about giving up the burden of being a franchise player and the savior of a city.

The choice was about Lebron wanting to be paid and treated like a franchise player without actually having to be "The guy" every night.

The real winner in all of this D-Wade. Wade gets a longer max contract, gets to save his body during the first 42 minutes of every game, before taking over in the last 6. While remaining the face of the franchise.

Lebron will NEVER be the face of the Heat because Wade brought the championship there in 06 and as he reminded us a few years ago when he hit a game winner against chicago; Miami is his house.

Take a second to think back through the GREAT players the NBA has seen throughout the years from Mikan to Russell, to Kareem, To Magic, Bird, Jordan, Tim Duncan and even my arch nemisis Kobe Bean Bryant. None of them would have shirked their responsibility to a franchise the way Lebron did.

In fact Duncan even had the chance in 2003 to flee for a super team in the state tax free city of Orlando. If you recall the Magic had already signed Grant Hill and Tracy Mcgrady to contracts. At the time Duncan had already won a title for The Spurs and had nowhere near the local ties Lebron had to Cleveland being from The Virgin Islands.

But Duncan stuck it out, because that's what true Superstars do. Superstars are supposed to be wired differently.

Lebron thinks his decision was about "taking his talents to South Beach", but really his decision was to step down from the Superstar pedestal and become just another All-Star.

JS

What's Up With False Time Constraints?

Hey all,

Happy Monday.

I got two questions about this topic over the weekend so I figured I'd write up a short blog on it.

And I mean short...

False Time Constraints are a Mystery Method technique that are designed to show that you are not going to be hanging around trying to talk to them for long. In theory,it works on the principle of scarcity.

An example would be saying something like

" I have to get back to my friends in a second."

or

" I can't stay long."


For the most part it's a weird tactic and looks like you're excusing yourself for talking to them.

There is however one situation in which you should ALWAYS use a False Time Constraint and that is when you are joining a seated group. The reason behind this is that it's a big liberty to walk up to agroup of people start talking to them and then plop down next to them. It will make people uncomfortable, so by using a false time constraint you're letting them know that you're not assuming that you can sit there all night.

Hope that clears things up,

JS- The King Of Content

Lebron Makes Me Question Why I Watch Sports...

Yesterday I boycotted Lebron's "decision." I've been a pretty big Lebron apologist for years, justifying that as he keeps entertaining me, he must be ok.

I'm wrong.

We're all wrong.

Cleveland was the most wrong, believing that if they did everything Lebron wanted he would stay.

Ultimately the worst part about this is that it this reinforces everything people who don't like sports complain about. The athletes are spoiled, overpriviledged and ultimately don't respect or care about the fans who support them.

Until last night I was at least able to pretend they weren't.

Not anymore, thanks to Lebron.

JS

The Dual Goals Of Qualification

What's up bitches?

Man it hurts my head, how little people understand the concept of qualification...

List that with the other major grievances in my life, like weed dealer time, women who wear underwear with jeans, and of course Kobe Bryant.

So without any further ado let me give you a simple idea of what you're trying to do with qualification.

First understand that qualification is a process or mechanism not a phase of an interaction. Women qualify themselves a lot, you just have to be paying attention to it. Also there is no "end" to qualification you will always need to qualify women even in relationships. As you will see why in a few sentences...

So the two goals of qualification are as follows.

1. Get the woman to comply and invest energy, time, and effort in an attempt to impress us or positively affect our opinion of them. That second part is extremely important as women may comply and invest in order to get something from you, or just to be polite. It is only qualification if the compliance and investment is in direct relation to impressing you or positively affecting your opinion of her.

2. Give the woman non-physical/sexual reasons we like her. AKA compliments. Women always need to know why you like them, even ten years into a marriage. As Chris Rock once famously said in a standup special, " women need air, water and compliments."

Hope that clears things up so that I can avoid explaining this concept every g-damn day of my life :)

Best,

JS- The King Of Content

Breakthrough Comfort Training Program Closes Tonight at Midnight

Hey there,

Just a quick reminder that The Breakthrough Comfort Training Program is closing tonight.

When I last checked we had 2 spots left in this amazing program.

To see all the details and sign up today go to

Breakthrough Comfort

You definitely will not want to miss this program!

JS- The King Of Content

New Podcast is On The Way

Hey,

So I checked out all the comments from last week's post about the podcast.

It seems like most of you just want me to do a comedy current events show, which is something I was planning on doing just on my new comedy site but which I'll now post here.

Cool.

First episode should be up in a week or so.

JS

New Breakthrough Comfort Call Link!!!

Yo

Sorry we reached capacity WAY faster than we imagined with the last Breakthrough Comfort Link.

Here's the new link:

Breakthrough Call

We will reach capacity again fairly quickly I would imagine, so download the call quick;y.

Also we still have 5 of the 25 spots remaining available in the Breakthrough Comfort Training Program which you can find all the details about here:

Breakthrough Comfort Training Program

The training program will be closing tomor July 6th at Midnight, so make sure you sign up today if you want to learn how to make ANY woman fall in love with you.

Best,

JS- The King Of Content

There is No Finish Line...

Good Morning,

Hope everyone had a great 4th of July weekend!

One of the things I hear a lot when I'm talking to students for the first time or we're discussing goals is the idea that these guys want to "master the game". Or more frequently they think that once they reach a certain goal or level of success with women that all of a sudden they'll be finished, or able to relax or something.

Time for me to drop a truth bomb on you...

You will NEVER be done dealing with women. Well, unless you decide to jump teams. Which is understandable, because you could share clothes and would never have to worry about getting laid ever again :)

There is no finish line to "game" or dealing with women. If you get married, you still need to find new ways to keep your marriage exciting emotionally, sexually, and intellectually. If you get a great girlfriend, same thing.

Hell, even if you just want to get laid more you'll still need to deal with girls to make that happen. And continue to happen.

So the point of this post is not to discourage you and make you feel like you're going to be struggling in some sort of weird sociopathic game all your life. Instead the post is to remind you that while it's a good idea to have goals, so that you can track your progress. It's also important to understand that there is no finish line. And that interacting positively and proactively with women is a lifelong process/skill.

Or as I'm so apt to say to girls about my emotions; There is no there, there.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

In Case You Missed It...

Happy Fourth of July and thanks to everyone who made it
on to the AWESOME Breakthrough Comfort call I did
yesterday.

In case you missed it, no worries, you can download the
recording of the call here:

Breakthrough Call

Enjoy!

JS

P.S. On the recording, I start don't actually start talking
until the 16 minute mark. So be sure to fast-foward it
to there when you listen to it!

Using Pauses.

Normally pauses in the conversation are awkward, come early in the interaction and kill the conversation. These pauses are not planned, or helpful when it comes to meeting women.

These are not the pauses we'll be discussing today.

Deliberate pauses on the other hand, are very useful in a variety of different situations.

The most obvious is during attraction. If you think a girl is attracted to you, or she has given you some obvious signs, you can insert a small pause to see if the girl re-initiates the conversation. If she does she's attracted to you and you can start to qualify her.

Pauses are also helpful in comfort when a girl does something you don't like or declines an invitation or escalation. Again, once the girl re-initiates you go back to being normal and nice. Pouting isn't attractive.

Hope that helps,

JS- The King Of Content

So You Want More Podcasts? Here's What You Have To Do.

Hey there,

I've been getting a bunch of emails, and tweets and comments about bringing back the Podcast.

Here's the deal. I don't want to do a weekly podcast that is focused on pickup by myself. It's a pain to come up with topics, and fill all the talking time for a show.

If I can avoid the subject of pickup and just talk about random pop culture and things that interest me.

Maybe.

But if you want the old style Podcast "Sinn and The Cities" then I need you to help me to convince Cameron to co-host it. The shows Cam and I have done together consistently get the best reactions and I think the two of us play off each other well.

Right now Cam is on the fence about doing the Podcast so if you guys can convince him to come back ( Bang the monkey as they use to say about The Jim Rome show) then I will be in for weekly pods.

I'm sure you can find an email address to contact him at on his website:

Attract Women Anywhere

Much like if you want to stay out of jail and keep the money you have you better call. If you want Podcasts about pick up with Cam and Jon. Email Cam. And convince him. Sorry for the bad comparison but I wanted to throw a Breaking Bad reference in there.

Hope you can convince him.

JS-The King Of Content

You have to choose your choices...

The title of this post is not only an amalgamation of a Charlotte quote from Sex and The City (The series not the movies) but is also an important life skill.

I often find myself making pretty big decisions, and I can say that no matter what you're making a decision about, you have to commit to your decision. You have to choose your choice so to speak.

Here's the bad news, ALL people make decisions emotionally and then come up with logical reasons to support them.

We all do it.

Which makes it even more important that when you do make a decision, you throw yourself behind it one hundred percent. The more you half commit or hedge your bets, the less happy you're going to be with your choice, whether or not it's the right one.

Have a great weekend.

JS-The King Of Content

Every Woman is different

Man it's Wednesday already...

The weeks of summer are flying by. It seems like whether I'm a kid at camp or not, summer always seems to be the shortest 12 weeks of the year.

Today, I want to talk about something that came up over at the 12m2m bootcamp this past weekend. We were talking about how it will take different girls, different amounts of time to get comfortable getting sexual with you.

With that said, there are a lot of very attractive women out there that will get sexual with you very quickly. Like I said to the guys over the weekend.

" Not every girl is a slut, but there are definitely a decent amount of sluts out there. Especially in bars and clubs."

Some girls are also bitchy, again they are a distinct minority, but they exist. If a girl is really rude to you, you have no obligation to keep talking to her.

As I demonstrated this weekend, you(or your instructor) are fully within their rights to deliver a calm and rational lecture to said bitchy girl about how her behavior is unacceptable. This will not necessarily get you laid, but the world will thank you :)

But most girls are really cool, and normal. The vast majority of girls you are going to meet doing pick up (Especially if you met them during the day time) will be really cool normal chicks.

So don't let any instructor, article or product tell you that all women are anything. Unless that anything is different :)

JS- The King Of Content

Coming Off Try Hard...

Hey Buddy,

I'm glad to have some time off from bootcamps after the last month :) Unfortunately the days where I could party all night for 3 consecutive days and then turn around and keep going out during the week are waning. Alcohol and I are in a fight and even after yoga and 10 hrs of sleep, I am beat....

One of the things Alex and myself noticed the past two weekends in Chicago was that intermediate students( Those that can open and get attraction/not creep out girls) tend to go through a phase where they try too hard pretty consistently for a few months. This can be especially damaging to guys that are better looking/well dressed and are going after girls that when they're hot friends are asked to describe what they look like, they respond they're really "Nice."

Part of this is that these guys believe the myth, that there is something you can do to attract EVERY single woman out there, regardless of the woman's physical preference, relationship status, mood, and even blood type.

Another reason is that as guys fix their style, fashion, body language, tonality, conversational material etc... They start to get more attraction faster, simply from approaching.

Thus when you're using too many tactics, techniques, active interest/disinterest it appears as though you are a cool guy who simply doesn't understand/get girls.

Learning to recognize and test to see when a girl is or is not attracted to you, is one of the most important skills guys can acquire.

Learning how to test to see if a woman is interested is fairly easy.

Learning to walk away when a woman gives you three consecutive signs she isn't interested in you( especially when you want her badly) is tough and requires you to take your ego out of the process and recognize the inherent truth; not every girl will like you. Even when you have "Mastered" pick up.

Not only do you come off try hard when you keep trying to attract a woman who is obviously not into you, you waste valuable time that could be spent meeting a woman who might like you for you :)

Hope that helps,

JS- The King Of Content

Why Human Beings think Sex, Money or Having Children will make them happy...

I just finished a fairly mundane book called Stumblin On Happiness written by a professor from Harvard by the name of Daniel Gilbert. I say mundane simply because the book is a beginner's pamphlet on psychology designed for people who are not nearly as self obsessed and analytical as myself...

However the chapter on Super Replicators and belief transmission was very interesting. The basic idea is that Beliefs transmit much like viruses or genes. Any belief that promotes it's own means of transmission will be represented in larger and larger quantities of the population moving forward. Or in Laymen's terms beliefs (even those that are false) that helps itself transmit (usually by having a side benefit) will tend to spread faster than those without the benefit. Belief transmission can even work without the transmitters being aware that they are transmitting any belief at all.

So let's look at how this affects people's beliefs about what will make them happy

Money: Economists explain that money has a "declining marginal value" which is to say that money helps you the most the less of it you have. However if everyone just decided to give up working and focus on doing the things that made only themselves happy, well the entire global economy would collapse. that's because the entire economy is built on the idea of producing and consuming goods and services. Economies do the best when individuals are putting in lots of time and energy and effort. However because human beings will only put in effort, energy, and time in search of their own individual happiness, it is imperative that human beings mistakenly believe that producing and consuming are essential to being happy.

Children: A measure of actual satisfaction of people who have children, shows a striking contrast to the usual discussion of oohs, aahs, and baby talk. In fact FOUR separate studies show that marital satisfaction decreases dramatically after the birth of the first child and increases only when the last child leaves home. The belief " children bring happiness" is a super-replicator because it is found in every cutlure across the World. Without this belief people(like myself) might choose to never have kids, thus wiping out the entire World's population within about 50 years.

Sex: Sex is another one of those things with declining marginal utility, meaning the more you have it the less pleasure it brings you. if you're reading this and you haven't had sex in three years, you're going to see sex as much more valuable than someone who had it 10 minutes ago. The other interesting thing about sex is that most guys believe they need to experience a variety of women or experiences in order to be happy, but most studies show that variety only increases happiness when consumption is rapid. Or in other words, you're only going to enjoy sleeping with a lot of girls if it happens in a FAST time period. this explains why soooo many guys out there (Instructors at various companies I'm talking to you) have slept with a lot of women, yet aren't getting happier. In fact when consumption is slow(like the process of learning cold approach) variety actually DECREASES pleasure. So if it's going to take you 3 years to get good at pickup(on average without extensive coaching like 12m2m or MULTIPLE bootcamps),than it actually makes more sense to be more selective about the women you sleep with knowing that variety over the long term decreases pleasure as people tend to think about experiences as simultaneous rather than sequential.

The belief transmission game is rigged. We must believe that money, sex, and children bring happiness whether or not it's true. Oftentimes we don't even have a choice in the matter. The fact that we don't have a choice doesn't mean that we're the victim of some global conspiracy, but simply that as the belief transmission game teaches us the spreading of false beliefs doesn't need anyone trying to spread the belief. There are no secret societies making these decisions in secret in some form of mass control. Super replicating beliefs happen because the very act of holding the belief causes us to take the actions that perpetuate it. Similarly to how people who want the pleasure from having sex often end up pregnant as an unintended but beneficial to society side effect.


I'll leave you with a direct quote from the chapter:

" We are nodes in a social network that arises and falls by a logic all it's own, which is why we continue to toil, continue to mate and continue to be surprised when we do not experience all the joy we so gullibly anticipated."

JS- The King Of Content

" It's cool, Ole boy." and 9 Other musings from 12m2m's second bootcamp

Hey there,

Sorry for the break in posts of a little more than a week, I've been on bootcamps for the 12m2m guys and the Seduction roadmap guys so time has been hard to find.

This past weekend we had a super successful bootcamp and I'm staying here until Fri when the second group of guys arrives and we do it all over again.

Here's some observations on game, and students as well as some funny ass stuff that happened...

1. "Ole Boy" is the new slang. My buddy Alex says it all the time and it's a perfect multipurpose slang to refer to anyone at anytime. For example

Jon: " Where's ole boy at?"
Alex: " Ole boy is over there jumping on the grenade so Calvin can talk to Ole Girl."
Jon: " Calvin isolated Ole girl. Nice work."

Hysterical and fun to use. Girls an get pissed if you call them ole girl to their face though.

2. "It's cool" is another underrated phrase in pickup especially when dealing with cockblocks, and objections. Other variations include "It's all good", "Chill" and " relax."

3. One of the students tried to pull at 11:35, this was much funnier in person as Bars here don't close until 4... For those wondering, generally you're not going to pull before an hour before the bar closes. For the best results, you want to wait until the lights start to come on and they start herding people towards the door...

4. Students get cockblocked a TON because they ignore the group. If you're getting active vicious cockblocks, it's because you're ignoring the friends and pissing them off. I forgot how little I actually get cockblocked, as opposed to just having bad logistics. Cockblocking happens when the group (guys or girls) actively are trying to get the girl away from you or mess with your game. This should not happen often. If it does your group game sucks.

5. You don't need a group to like you or even be attracted to you in order to keep them from cockblocking. You just need to get the "Nice Guy" vote, which basically means that the group sees you as harmless. You can do this by being really nice to the group, and building rapport with them as you break it with your target.

6. Big cities are awesome. Having lived in pseudo cities for the last few years being in a city where everyone uses public transportation and metro cards is awesome. Though I do wonder how people get shit done with this many hot girls wandering around...

7. Some Nightclubs are still loud enough to vibrate your internal organs. I know if my liver is shaking, I'm on a bootcamp.

8. Typing women is only important if you know what kind of women you do well with. I had a super fast in venue dealie (Or alley) and it happened because I recognized that the girl was a hot nerd which fits right into my wheelhouse. It's not really that useful to be able to tell what type of girl she is unless you happen to be good with that type of girl.

9. Releasing the touching when you are escalating with women is THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF ESCALATION!!!! Girls will touch you too much sometimes and creep themselves out if you don't release. I watched at least 3 students WRECK interactions because they didn't push the girl away.

10. You must have a base of conversational material, to root your techniques and tactics in. You can't just throw out lines or force qualification if you don't have a proper base of small talk, grounding and social comfort.

So there :p


JS- The King Of Content

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