The Charlatan Podcast

Hey guys,

This will probably be my last post for the year!

I'll be back Friday with my New Year's Resolution post that I write every year.

In the meantime enjoy the Charlatan Cast, have a fantastic and safe New Year's Eve and thank you to everyone who supported Sinns Of Attraction this year. You guys make it possible for me to bring you guys stuff like this podcast and blog. So Thanks for helping me do something I love.

Also Cam wanted me to post the following to clarify the three different types of charlatans and why some people are on this list as opposed to others. On the cast we refer to them as category 1-3. Some people fit one or two and a few people sweep all three categories.

Here's Cam's 3 Categories:

"Hey, I thought it'd be cool to include these in the blog post, so people can compare. I think it'd encourage debates...."

Cameron

Be sure to check Cam out at AttractwomenAnywhere.com



The 3 categories:

Category 1: Crappy dating advice. It won't help you with chicks and may even have you worse off than before you started.

Category 2: Socially creepy person. A guy/girl who comes across as a creep in society but wants to give you social advice.

Category 3: Can't do it himself, a book reporter. Person who blatantly rips off other people's works, writes a book report to repackage and still can't start a conversation with a woman.


Here's the podcast affectionately titled " Many people think it, we just have the balls to say it."

Charlatan Podcast

Best,

JS- The King Of Content

Top 7 Charlatans, Freaks and Weirdos of 2009

Hey Guys,

So Cam is staying with me for a few days for fun, and when I told him about the top 5 Charlatans list, not only did he want to contribute, but he suggested we do a whole podcast on it.

We are going to be recording that right after I post this, but I wanted to tease you guys a little bit first by giving you a rundown of the top 7 Charlatans we will be discussing as well as a few honorable mentions…


Honorable Mentions: Hawaii of Venusian Arts, Herbal T, All Female PUA instructors(not dating coaches PU coaches), Badboy of Croatia, Vin Dicarlo and Jordan Harbinger. All douchey but not enough to make the final 7. Fuck you very much to those guys, I hope you all die fiery deaths. Happy fucking new year!


Now I’m only going to reveal 4 of the top 7 here, you’ll have to actually listen to the podcast later to hear the hilarious top-3 and tales of their ridiculousness… Plus I shout out each of these fools as I know they're gonna read it :)

# 7- David Wygant- The Whole Foods Loiterer heads up the final spot. You know it’s a douchey list when Wygant is the 7th worst offender of charlatanism. PS- You still aren’t the real Hitch. Douche.

# 6 – Sean Stephensen- You don’t get laid like a rockstar, Sean. Just keep it 100 with us and you wouldn’t be on the list. Sean’s physical handicaps had no part in this ranking, just his bullshit and bragging. We’re not making fun of him for being handicapped, we’re making fun of him for bragging in ways that would shame TD.

# 5 – Erika Awakening- I hate to admit it, but she definitely amuses me more than these others. She still gives bat shit crazy advice tho. Good job on your bitter Entropy post E.

# 4 – Dr Paul Dobransky – Don’t even get me started on this guy. Nerds pick on Dr Paul. Plus his doctorate has NOTHING to do with helping guys meet girls. That’s like a PHD in physics telling us to listen to his theories on attraction because he has a PHD… Retarded. Seriously dude have you been laid in the 2000s without paying?

And that’s all for now though the final 3 are WAY bigger wastes of sperm than these 4.

Stay Tuned, people will be shocked and awed.

As for the charlatans themselves, As Sheree of The Real Housewives Of Atlanta once famously said

" Who gonna check me boo?"

JS- The King Of Content/PerezHilton of the PUA world ☺

Top 10 PUAs of 2009!

Hey guys,

Welcome to the annual list that makes my close friends tell me I'm an asshole :)

As always this list will represent the "Pick Up Artists" I feel had the best impact on 2009, as well as the guys that I really think have game. There's a lot of charlatans out there ( as you'll see on my list tomor) but today is all about giving props to the guys who deserve them. As always I will exclude myself from this list as that would be a little too douchey :)


Let's get into it.

10. Richard"Gambler"La Ruina- I've known Rich for a long time, but never really got a sense of how he actually gamed until recently. Richard's stealth attraction ideas are really cutting edge as well as being extremely helpful for guys who are scared of rejection. Furthermore Richard shows a great understanding of how to blend other people's tactics and techniques into a new system.

9. Speer. He's out of the game now to focus strictly on teaching, but NOBODY, and I mean NOBODY has bigger balls than Speer. The unquestioned master of talking his way into places as well as the king of persistence, Speer gets a spot this year based on the fact that he actually got hot girls when he was still active and his unrivaled abilities to network in a really hard city to network in (Miami). Furthermore Speer's attitude should be adopted by every guy who is serious about getting better.

8. Fader - Fader gets on to the list for his great hired gun game, his incredible ability to infiltrate NYC social circles and for being the first guy to teach a live workshop in strip clubs. His reviews are second to none and I personally have never seen a teacher who cares more for his students.

7. Doc Holliday - Doc took a little break for a bit to get his life together, but remains the best guy I've seen at day game other than myself. Furthermore Doc's understanding of the learning process of pickup as well as the issues guys will encounter along the way makes him a great teacher. His ability to codify day game even helped me in the production of the Day Game from A to Z Mastery course.

6. Cameron Teone - One of the most down to Earth guys out there also has great real world game. While he's mostly focused on approaching woman during the day, Cameron has demonstrated numerous times that he not only has no approach anxiety, but that he has the skills to charm all people regardless of gender, age, or ethnicity. Cameron excels at getting really bitchy girls to open up and be normal.

5. Mystery - Though it seems like he's lost his fastball a little bit, Erik makes this list on reputation as well as history. No one can take his influence on the game away as well as his very well documented abilities with certain girls. Obviously Mystery Method is NOT for everyone and is a validation based pick up method as opposed to a sex based one, but that doesn't hurt Erik here. It's not his fault he's become dogmatic and the game has passed him by.

4. Savoy - Still the most underrated PUA in the game, despite having a "girlfriend" in the technical sense. Still very active, still gets laid more than almost every other guy out there by new hot girls.

3. AFC Adam Lyons - Despite being married Adam continues to innovate and push the envelope. Adam is an example of how you can get what you want out of the community. Adam also was instrumental in helping me develop my own method as he pointed out many things to me, including the idea that comfort comes before attraction. As well known as he is Adam is still not given the credit he deserves for his breakthroughs.

2. Brad P - Last year's # 1 falls a bit this year and it has nothing to do with his game. Brad P built on a strong 2008 by masterminding the idea of the pick up mansion, continuing his 30/30 club and more. Brad is awesome because not only does he himself have maxed out game, but he focuses on simple actions that anyone can do to help themselves get laid more. No muss no bullshit that's Brad P.

1. Captain Jack - The only reason he had to share this title last year with Mr P was that he wasn't going out. This year that changed. Not much, but it changed in the sense that EVERY night he went out he got laid. Almost literally, I can think of a handful of situations where the pirate king tore himself away from his meditation actually went out to talk to girls and ended up getting laid back to back to back. Multiple times. It makes me jealous and I still don't know exactly what he does but he's the best point blank period and probably will be until he decides to give it up. Long Live the Pirate King 2009's best Pick Up Artist.

JS- The King Of Content

Half an Hour left...

Hey there,

I'm watching the Steelers kill the Ravens and since the game is annoying me to distraction, I figured I give one last shout out for the Day Game A to Z mastery Course.

In about 30 mins at 12PM PST the amazing 44% discount is going the way of the Dodo bird. So if you want a chance to start this new year off right by meeting women as you go about your day to day life, head to Get Day Game now and get your very own Day Game From A to Z Mastery course for the lowest price we will EVER offer.

Have a great rest of your weekend and I'll be back with my Top 10 PUA and Charlatans list this week!

JS- The King Of Content

At Last... Day Game From A To Z is available!

Hey there,

My best-selling Day Game from A to Z Mastery Program is now back
on the market! Here’s the special link where you can get the complete
program and three ALL NEW bonuses at a whopping 44% discount:

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Get it now as it’s going back up to regular price in 72 hours. The
new bonuses will be pulled at that time as well:

Click Here

Best,

JS- The King Of Content

New Bonuses and some last minute details...

Hey guys,


First off, as I mentioned in an earlier blog post, as part

of the re-release of my Day Game program, for a limited time

I’m offering some ALL NEW bonuses that were NOT part of

the original course. Here they are:



ALL NEW Bonus #1: Phone Game 2.0 Audio Download

and Transcript. Once you master phone game you will be

so success with women that you won’t believe it. This audio

has everything you need to become a master of phone game.



ALL NEW bonus #2: A special module on Physical

Escalation in the day time. Trust me when I say

that the way you escalate physically in the day time

is MUCH different than how you do it at night. In this

special online video, I’ll show you exactly how to become

a master of day time escalation so you’ll be able to rack up

lay after lay!



ALL NEW bonus #3: Guide to Dates audio download and

transcript. Being able to get solid phone numbers and dates

means nothing if you can’t make sure that those dates end

up in your bedroom. With this audio download, I’ll show you

the exact formula I use to get girls in my bed at a 90% clip

whenever they go out on a date with me.



Second, the Day Game program will be available at substantial

discount at exactly 12:00 p.m. PST later today. Be sure to check

your email at exactly that time for the special link. The special

discount is only going to be available for 72 hours so you’re going

to want to act fast.



Stay tuned,



JS-The King Of Content

Day Game Q and A Video

Hey guys,

Here's the Q and A video I promised you guys in the email.

Be sure to check this blog and your inbox over the next couple of days to find out how you can get your very own Day Game A to Z Mastery Program at a SUBSTANTIAL discount that will not last very long...

check out the video and leave comments with what you think!

A Special Holiday Gift For You...

Hey there,

With 2009 coming to an end and 2010 fast approaching
I’m getting a lot of questions from guys asking for advice
on how they can make 2010 be their best year ever when
it comes to meeting women.

There are quite a few ways to answer this question, but if
I could think of ONE THING that will help the largest number
of guys it would be this:

If you want to have a kick-ass dating life in 2010 you’ll be FAR
better off spending your time doing day game instead of hanging
out in bars and clubs for hours on end.

There are quite a few advantages that day game has over
night game for most guys, among them:

*It’s much easier to get good at day game than it is to get
good at night game.

*You’ll meet much higher-quality women during than day
than you will at night (let’s face it, most girls that have anything
going on in their lives aren’t club-hopping on a Tuesday night).

*It’s much easier to practice day game and maintain a normal
work schedule, than it is to go out at night all the time if you have a job.

In a nutshell, day game is easier and less-stressful than night game,
AND you’ll meet better girls. Sounds like a good deal to me :)

So to help make 2010 your best year ever, I’ve set up a few
holiday gifts for you that will help you become an expert at
day game in the shortest time possible.

First of all, I’m going to be putting my best-selling Day Game
from A to Z Mastery Program back on the market this Thursday,
December 24, 2009.

This program has been off the market since last May and retails
at $697.00, but to keep with the Christmas spirit there will be a
short window where you can get it for a STEEP
discount.

Also, as part of this holiday day game event, I’m re-releasing some
awesome free materials that will really help your day game.
Here are some of my favorites…

My 24-page Day Game Report:

Day Game Report

A LIVE undercover day game pick-up:

Live Pickup Video

An audio Lay-report from Alex, who laid NINE girls in one month
using my Day Game materials:

Audio LR

That’s all I got for now.

Best,

JS – The King of Content

The Demons That Dance in Our Heads...

There are parts of my personality that are lazy, that are ignorant, that are outright evil, parts that are jealous, petty, weak, cowardly. And I’m not alone. Everyone has these parts of themselves, it’s just a matter of whether or not we ever open up and express it. Or if we bury our heads in the sand and pretend it doesn’t exits. There are parts of me, that would like nothing more than for me to remain in complete fear and paranoia of every day life. Parts that want to entrap me, break my will and make sure that I live a life of misery.

The difference between me, and most people is that I’m aware of this dichotomy and I make EVERY effort I can to fight these parts of myself. Every day and every night. I will fight them on the beaches, I will fith them on the streets.

I make every effort I can to tell myself to shut up when I think some task is too daunting, some girl too pretty, or some situation too good for someone else.

Like Michael Irvin in his reality tv show I tell my body to shut up when it locks up with approach anxiey or feelings of non deservingness or jealousy for someone else getting something (or more realistically someone) I want.

I refuse to give in to my worst instincts, even if my knees tremble, my voice shakes and my body wishes it were anywhere but here. Because I know I can accept failure. But I can’t accept not trying.

And slowly, painfully, frustratingly at times, I grow. And that fear that used to make my voice crack and my legs tremble in front of georgeous women, gets a little better. And that feeling I have when I see a guy with a girl I want gets a little less painful. Until ultimately you stop noticing. You’re able to shift your focus and look out for what the best use of your time is in any given situation. In the end, you learn to control your emotions. Because while most things in this world are out of control, you can actually learn to control your emotions and respond to things the way you want to rather than the way that feels best at the time.

You can learn to channel all that, into things that help you instead of holding on to toxic emotions that cloud your judgement, and cause you nothing but suffering.

It’s hard work, and you will lose sometimes, it’s normal. But the only way to improve your life quality is to fight. Fight the comfort zone and the easy way out, fight the emotions that don’t enrich your life, fight the thoughts that aren’t reality, and accept only that which you want into your life.


I never want to stop fighting my demons, because I know the day I do, I’ll stop growing as a person.

JS- The King Of Content

Haters...

And I made myself so easy to love ;)

" If You Spread Them, They Will Pay"- Cam and I trash the fat man Podcast

Hey guys,

Here's the latest podcast, it's over 2 hours of douching on Johnny Soporno.

Who if you don't know what he looks like you can see here:




Notice the classy devil horns and awesome Kmart sneakers.

Listen to the AWESOMENESS here:

Sinn and Cam Get Medieval on that ass


JS- The KING of Content

PS- We are still accepting discounted orders for The Flake Elimination Toolkit! To get yours today go to End Flaking

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Hi,

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The Flake Elimination Toolkit has previously only been available
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Best,

Sinn

P.S. Right now, you can get a special new release discount on
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What is Game?

This is something I think about a lot...

When you take away all of the marketing, the complex structures, the self help advice, the cognitive biases of instructors, and the natural advantages and disadvantages of every individual, what's left?

What are we actually doing and working with to compel strangers to have sex with us in the shortest time frame possible.

I've been thinking about this for years and years and I figured I'd post my latest ideas and then write some articles on each piece. Kinda like the Basics feature on my Newsletter where I break down specific ideas, except these will be larger topics.

SO without further ado, here's one man's ideas on what makes up Game:

1. An understanding of how the process of attraction works(most notably the relationship between dominance and attraction) and female psychology especially fears, emotions, communication styles and sexuality.
2. Fundamentals: Body language, eye contact, grooming, expressiveness, fashion and style, tonality, physique.
3. The ability to make others comfortable with you otherwise known as Social Comfort.
4. The ability and knowledge of when and how to manipulate rapport.
5. The mechanisms, skills and types of attraction
6. Attitude
7. Knowing how to build and use compliance
8. Knowing all types of qualification and how to use this to move forward
9. How to use movement
10. The 3 types of escalation: Verbal, Physical, Logistical
11. Frame control
12. Sexuality

Obviously that's a decent amount of stuff and one of the reasons that it's difficult to learn all this stuff if you try to take it all in at one time. So over the next few weeks I'll be writing an article about each of these topics with a take that you probably haven't heard before. I have to get started on a new packet for the 12M2M guys bootcamp so I'll workshop a lot of articles on here before finishing them for those guys.

Love to hear comments on this,

JS-The King Of Content

PS: If you want a more in depth look at the mechanisms, skills and types of attraction, you need The Natural Attraction DVD, get it today at NaturalAttractionDVD

New Opinion Opener from last night's Podcast

Here's a fun new opener for bars and clubs that Cameron came up with yesterday on the Podcast.

In rough form.

Hey guys,

My friends and I are debating over there, OMG it's embarrassing to even bring this up, but you guys can handle rough humor right? Ok here it is do you guys know what the difference between a cougar and a MILF is? We've been debating for like an hour and even though I'm right he won't admit it.

Get their answers

Ok here's what I think a Cougar is an older woman over 35 minimum who keeps herself in really good shape, likes to party and preys on young innocent boytoys such as myself. Meanwhile a MILF is just a hot mom. Milfs could be 21. You could be a Cougar without being a MILF and a MILF without being a cougar...

I can tell you guys are gonna be horrible once you get older...

and Transition.

This is awesome, and it's buried deep inside the 2 hour long podcast/douchefest I'll be posting soon.

Best,

JS- The King Of Content

Coming Soon... The Soporno Email Cast...

My buddy Cam, had a little spat with overweight condescending Johnny SO-COCK the results of which can be seen

Here

But Since Cam and I talked about this whole situation(again not the Jersey Shore guy) for close to an hour today, he wanted to get on a podcast to really give the piece of work( both So-cock and the email) the proper amount of time and "douching".


JS- The King Of Content

Oh yeah I forgot, my life is weird...

Hey hey...

I was out this weekend with a girl I'm seeing and a few of her friends including some very out of the closet Lesbians.

One of these girls, we'll call her "Jamie" reminded me of my BFF Raine in that she's a girl player. She teases, and dominates conversations and moves girls around and physically escalates a lot. She was grabbing my girls boobs a lot :)

But her GF was there and while Jamie was talking to other girls she was telling about her playerish ways, and that she's slept with a lot of girls "like almost 50."

I laughed out loud a little when she said almost 50 and I had to stifle it and explain that it was funny she was such a player.

But really, I was laughing cause I've slept with that many girls in a year quite a few times...

And it was then that I remembered that I'm in the top 1% of promiscuity, and that most people would be shocked and probably a little horrified if they knew the reality of the situation( Not the Jersey Shore character who is awesome). So just a weird moment where I remembered that I have a weird sex life. Wouldn't want it any other way tho :)

JS

Follow Friday!

Hey Guys,

Just a reminder to follow me on Twitter @TheRealSinn.

I'm at 762 followers and if I get to 1000 I'll do a free teleseminar if we can get to 1000 over the next 7 days.

So there's a little bribe for you to follow my thoughts on life @TheRealSinn on Twitter.

JS- The King Of Content

Ross Jeffires and FJM... A match made in Heaven

Welcome back,

After a two week hiatus where I was thank full and spent time with a variety of people I care about, it's time to get back into the shit talking.

Lately a lot of you guys have been sending in stupid articles for FJMing and I truly appreciate this. If you want to send something in yourself send it with the title FJM article to Sinn at sinnsofattraction.com.

So our subject this week will be responding in the comments section I'm sure, as he doesn't appear to have much of a life besides sitting behind the computer waiting for someone to write about him.

So to make Ross Jeffries' life that much brighter and make him less of the Chevy Chase of Pickup teachers ( relevant 20 years ago but hasn't done much since) I present you with FJM: RJ.

Thanks to RR for sending in this article for consideration, it's a gem.

As always my comments appear in brackets:

---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

[ I left in the R trademark for legal reasons, god forbid the day when anyone ever uttered the words speed and seduction together without RJ getting credit. For the record Speed Seduction was created by RJ, as well as the internet, the English language and Pez. This message was brought to you by Ross Jeffries who I'm not sure if you knew this or not created Speed Seduction (R))]


Today, I’ve been in a pretty playful, “don’t give a fuck” state, so naturally I’ve been sarging.

[ RJ created the word sarging for his cat who died. So the process of going to search for pussy made him think of his cat and voila a creepy lexicon is born. It should also be noted that one of the main methods of cult control involves creating a separate language and dialogue. I read a book called "Cult Control" right around the time I found the SUISC and the parallels between cults and the way RJ and RSD run their businesses are unbelievable. TD is definitely the evolutionary less angry RJ]

(I’ve found that the “I don’t give a fuck what happens” attitude is often a key component of my best discoveries, breakthroughs and lays!)

So I was in the local lunch spot, joking around with Jennifer, the counter-girl/waitress.

Her nerdy girl glasses were falling far down on her nose. So I said, “Can you please push those back up? The Mr. Monk/obsessive compulsive in me is going crazy wanting to push them back up”.

[ That's not creepy or weird to talk about the obsessive compulsive side of yourself right away to a waitress. That won't just invoke sympathy or her wanting to get a tip. That's a free ride to attraction city baby! In fact I'm gonna start conversations with girls by talking by my insane need for new pussy. I'll be like " Hey, I really like that skirt but the horny part of me wants to bend you over and pound it out Jersey shore style. Right RJ? Just say anything you want....]

Anyway, after some joking around, it occurred to ask a screening question about her.

I did this because:

A. Screening girls shows you have standards

B. Screening girls in LA is important. This is land overflowing with nutcases, burn-outs and “get a refund for all that therapy that didn’t work” chicks.

[ I'd like to nominate the previous statement for the bitter, and misogynistic award 2009. Maybe if RJ got laid more than 3 times a year he'd be less cranky. Maybe I'll send him a DVD.]

I especially want to screen for women with great communication skills, and for me, that means, in part, a woman who can be open to feedback and admit when she’s been wrong.

[ Yes, because you can learn a ton about a girl's overall personal tendencies in a few short minutes by asking her about them. She won't be swayed to answer with something generic or blow off the question at all because after all you're RJ and you created Speed Seduction God damnit!]

So I said to Jennifer, “I want to ask you a more serious, personal question. When you’ve done something wrong, and you get called on it, do you cover it up? Or excuse it? Or do you come clean with what you did, and really listen to the other person?”

[ That's completely situationally relevant and doesn't at all sound like something a therapist would ask a patient.]

She said, “I do my best to hear people and admit it if I fuck up”.

I said, “I consider it an intellectual strength to be open to feedback. Especially if you have a strong mind, you can easily get trapped in your own viewpoint. So I like people who can tell me their truth and hear mine.”

[ " Tell me their truth and hear mine" ? Really? That's one of the corniest things I've ever heard in my entire life. If I said some sound of music-britney spears shit like that I would hope she laughed in my face.]

Then I said something that wound up making us both blush as I realized the sexual innuendo.

I said, “I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back”.

There was a brief pause…we both turned red..and burst out laughing

[ I'm glad you didn't purposely try to use sexual innuendo or anything like that, it's cool to read that the best thing you did in this interaction was an ACCIDENT. RJ meet suck and life. Oh you already know each other... How awkward and embarrassing]

Now, this was a good exchange.

But Jennifer flunked my test, and do you want to know why?

Because one of my standards for women is that they show curiosity and ask questions about me.

[ So she flunked your test by failing to qualify herself after you didn't do anything to build attraction besides talking about your obsessive compulsive side and comparing yourself to noted sex symbol Tony Shalhoub. No I'm sorry you flunked her test of being attractive enough to be interested in. This is classic RJ backwards rationalization in full effect. RJ has ALWAYS ( I'm talking his 1992 book) talked about how if a woman isn;t interested when you try to use SS on her it's because something is wrong with her, when in reality it's because SS is creepy as fuck and only works on certain types of overly self helpy/spiritual chicks. NLP and patterning has a place in the seduction phase, but none of this kind of stuff works up front ESPECIALLY on hot girls. Lame, lame, lame. That's what girls think it is, that's what this waitress(and I) think RJ is.]

Jennifer, for all of her playfulness and openness to sexual innuendo(and there was more between us, including talking about hypnotic bondage and slavery!) didn’t show any curiousity about me and did nothing to initiate any of the conversation.

[ Because she wasn't interested in you in "that" way. She's a waitress it's her job to talk to you, and girls enjoy talking about sexual subjects. On the bright side she probably wants to be friends in the sense that she works at a restaurant you come in to and she wants you to tip her]

So Jennifer, big boobies, sexy glasses( I told her they looked great but I was imagining her do something to me that might make them fall right off her head) and innuendo receptivity aside, gets nothing further from me.

Screening. It’s whats for lunch at Jennifer’s restaurant.

Peace and piece,

[ So classy it's beyond words. Calling pussy "piece" and going out "sarging" show why RJ is really the true class act in the SUISC]

RJ


[ Not getting laid and rationalizing it's the girl's fault, it's what's been going on in RJ's head for 48 years.]

JS- The King Of Content

Podcast

Hey guys,

I vent about my own dating patterns, rave about the Jersey Shore and discuss 40 minute sets to nowhere.

Listen

We're working on the download speed issue.

JS- The King Of Content

How To Minimize the chances you get cheated on...

So yesterday, I wrote about infidelity and the general bleakness of that.

Today I want to go in a completely different direction and talk to you about how to minimize the chances you get cheated on.

And all it will cost you is $199.99...

Kidding.

Anyway, in my experience dealing with women and according to all of my female friends/sisters, there are a few factors that lead to cheating of the non bragging rights variety.

A quick sidenote, bragging rights cheating refers mainly to celebrities, or once in a lifetime chances that a girl could get free drinks from her friends for life talking about. The girl's own sense of right and wrong is the only thing that can stop that kind of cheating.

So to keep your girlfriend/wife from cheating on you, you must remember 3 important factors for female fulfillment( try saying that 3 times fast). I do want to point out that what causes most cheating is bad relationships and what causes bad relationships is complacency. Relationships are work and you can't let laziness or external factors get you into a rut.

1. Emotional fulfillment. This means that a woman's full range of emotional needs from empathy to jealousy and helplessness are met by you. Emotional fulfillment is the hardest of these three types of fulfillment because women are emotional creatures. Furthermore they don't feel like they can tell most men about what they really want emotionally at any given time. Oftentimes they may not even know or want to know themselves. Being unpredictable is a major key to being emotionally fulfilling, as is having a well balanced personality. Being emotionally honest and establishing a dialogue on that level helps tremendously as well. As well as showing the girl that you understand her as a person. Understanding and acceptance is key to all of this...

2. Intellectual fulfillment. I'm not saying you have to be a Mensa member or anything but you do need to fulfill whatever the woman's intellectual needs are. This could range from talking about the philosophy of Ayn Rand to discussing the latest happenings on the Real Housewives Of Orange County. Every woman has a need to be intellectually fulfilled. Even the not as smart ones... And that's a problem guys reading this can run into is they tend to be smarter and thus talk down or patronize women too much.

3. Sexual fulfillment. This one is the most self explanatory. You have to make sure she's having regular orgasms, and you have to keep your sex life interesting. The same way that you can't just hang out with a girl at your house and watch TV and expect her to remain fulfilled and happy. You also can;t just have missionary, cowgirl, doggy style sex for 8 minutes and expect the girl to stick around. Having a long term relationship means that you can easily open up dialogues about your fantasies and turn ons without worrying about freaking the girl out. That is unless you want to pee in girls mouths or cut them or any other such fetish, which you might have to build up to.


If I had to rank them, I'd say Emotional fulfillment trumps, Sexual fulfillment, which trumps intellectual...

Hope that helps you guys out there in committed relationships.

JS-The King Of Content

A Realistic look at Infidelity.

So with all this Tiger Woods drama all over the place, it got me thinking about infidelity in the real world. Not the MTV show, which in and of itself fosters an environment made for cheating on your BF or GF back home. I think it might even be in the contract :)

Evolutionary biologists, would love to tell you that we(both men and women) are designed to cheat in order to fulfill our primary goal in life of passing on our selfish genes with a partner most likely to produce healthy offspring.

Romantics will say that true love conquers all, and that when you find that special person, harps will play, Doves will sing and you will never again want to bang that hot chick at your office.

The truth as with most things in life, lies somewhere in the middle.

According to Sperm Wars by Robin Baker, people are as faithful as their options and their social and physical consequences.

First let's examine the idea of options. In the community there is a very misogynistic idea that all women cheat, and that all that matters is the level of your game versus the level of another guy's game. I'd say a lot of those misconceptions come from the fact that community guys deal with a lot of club girls who are social climbers. But I digress. It's my opinion that EVERYONE is looking to trade up sexually. This is where I firmly believe in evolutionary biology, as well as the added social and sexual benefits of having a more attractive partner. It's not just women or club girls or men or high status high powered men. It's everyone. Somewhere there is a redneck whose wife is 250lbs, who is cheating on her with a 200ILB woman and feels great about the upgrade.

So what does that mean about infidelity? It means that EVERYONE has considered it at some point and that most people have been unfaithful.

The most commonly quoted statistics on infidelity show that between 55-70% Of all people have cheated on a significant other. I've seen stats that skew towards men being more unfaithful and I've seen stats that skew towards women being more unfaithful. Either way, it all seems to fall into this range.

Another widely quoted statistic says that 20% of people in the United States were fathered by someone other than who they think they're Dad is. I believe the correct term is cuckolding.

So if we all have these drives and urges and stuff, what keeps us from cheating?

As Dr Dre once said on Eminem's song Guilty Conscience " You got to think about the consequences"

Now obviously in Tiger's case, like most people he NEVER thought he was going to get caught. Because if he had thought about the social as well as financial consequences this could lead to, well he probably would have done it anyway. But that speaks more to the arrogance of professional athletes than anything about consequences. Tiger may have wanted to talk to his buddy MJ about how his infidelity divorce went. You know the one where he lost $250 million...

In most people's lives the consequences are going to fall into one of two categories; social and physical.

The most obvious consequences, are the physical ones, the most common being pregnancy, STDs, and physical harm from your significant other or their significant other. Physical consequences don't really change. The risks are always going to be there when you cheat on someone or have sex.

The social consequences on the other hand are a little more tricky. First there is the obvious loss of relationship, not to mention the effect if children are in the mix (as is the case with Tiger). There is the effect cheating will have on your reputation socially. While it's cool to be a ladies man and a bachelor, it's not good to be the guy who cheated on his wife/girlfriend. This can even split your entire social circle right down the middle. You also have the possibility of revenge by the person you cheated on, which could take any form from girls setting your clothes on fire, to posting naked photos of you on the internet. So the social consequences are aplenty.

Lastly I want to talk about something most people probably don't think about when it comes to cheating and that's the self esteem consequences. I don't cheat. Obviously anyone who knows me will tell you that I am very anti-cheating and even try to avoid girls with boyfriends. My Mom cheated on my Dad, and they ended up getting a divorce if you want to know the root cause of my feelings on this subject. The self esteem consequences to me come with having to deal with yourself as a cheater. Having to lie to your significant other, the guilt, and ultimately the dread of getting caught lead you to think that this is part of dating.

It shouldn't be.

You don't need to cheat in order to sleep with lots of girls. Just don't get into a monogamous relationship until you're sure you don't want to sleep with anyone else. And if you started getting tempted to cheat, break up instead. The social consequences for breaking up with someone are WAY less than cheating and you don't have to be dishonest.

So that's my brain dump on infidelity inspired by Tiger Woods banging tons of chicks. Which was obviously going to happen as soon as he started hanging out with Jordan and Barkely in Vegas.

By the way does any celebrity or athlete not cheat on their wives?

The fact that they are on the road so much negates a big amount of the threat of getting caught and they have groupies throwing themselves at them all the time. I honestly have no idea why they even try to get married. Unless there's some kind of secret in advertising that you get more endorsements as a family man, or something of that ilk. Which could totally be true. But still, so not worth it.

Stay single celebrities, it will be easier and cheaper in the end.

JS- The King Of Content

Hilarious new Podcast!

Hey Guys,

Here's an brand new podcast with Cameron of Attractwomenanywhere.com

We talk about Female Dating Coaches, Straggler Game, and "Leaving her better than you found her."

You can listen here:

Listen

Or check it out on Itunes.

JS-The King Of Content

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!

Hey guys,

My buddy Brad P came and spoke at our superconference last month and he mentioned to the guys the song girls just want to have fun as a good reference for what women actually want.

So I decided to actually go through the lyrics of the hit 80s song and see if there is any actual insight to be gained here.

I'll also provide a youtube link so you guys can listen along as you read...



Ok now onto the lyrics:

I come home in the mornin' light
My mother says, "When you gonna live your life right"
"Oh Mommy dear, we're not the fortunate ones
And girls, they wanna have fun
Woah girls, just wanna have fun"

Coming home in the morning light obviously means coming home at the butt crack of dawn which could mean a walk of shame situation or simply an all night girl's night out. Either way staying out all night = Fun.


The phone rings in the middle of the night
My father yells, "Whatcha gonna do with your life?"
"Oh Daddy dear, you know your still number one
But girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls, just wanna have"

Her phone rings late at night as her party girl friends or fellow members of her girl group are getting ready for the clubs. Remember this was pre-cell phones so they had to call the house to get her attention.



Thats all they really want
Some fun
When the workin' day is done
Oh girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun

(Girls they wanna)
(Wanna have fun now)
(Wanna have)

All girls want is fun, translation all girls want is positive emotions!


Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest of the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have

Cyndi Lauper ( and most party girls) don't want to have a boyfriend who hides them from the sun ( their social life and the best parties)


Thats all they really want
Some fun
When the workin' day is done
Oh girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun

(Girls they wanna)
(Wanna have fun now)
(Wanna have)

They just wanna, they just wanna
(Girls, girls just wanna have fun)
They just wanna, they just wanna have fun
Girls just wanna have fun

(They just wanna, they just wanna)
They just wanna, they just wanna
They just wanna, they just wanna have fun
(Girls, girls just wanna have fun)
Girls just wanna have fun

When the workin'
When the workin' day is done
Oh when the workin' day is done
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun

They just wanna, they just wanna
They just wanna, they just wanna
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun

(They just wanna, they just wanna)
When the workin'
(They just wanna, they just wanna)
When the workin' day is done
(Girls, girls just wanna have fun)
When the working day is done
Oh girl, girls just wanna have fun

(They just wanna, they just wanna)

When the working day is done speaks to the contradiction between girls having jobs that they don't really enjoy and waiting for quitting time so that they can knock off and do what they reall want. Party with their girlfriends.

Girl power :)

Anyway not much illumination in here, but you have to admit this song really does show you what a generation of party girls wants.

JS-The King Of Content

Great Community Quotes # 4- I wasn't Talking To You And Your 4!

Hey guys,

Today's another great community quote.

This one, actually requires a little setup story. The year is 2005. I'm 20 years old and doing my first large group speaking event at the Montreal PUA Summit known as Cliff's List 05.

To set the scene, there are a few of us in a hotel room smoking weed at the end of the night on Friday. I was there(obviously), Neil Strauss was there, Craig from DYD was there, Big Black Will was there, Mystery was there with a PUA groupie whom he had stolen from Savoy, and Lance Mason showed up at some point...

Enter my good friend Fabio, AKA Sundowner, AKA Short Sell.

He was a little drunk(as is per usual for him) and he walked in the room looked around disgustedly and said the following, which I would say is 99% verbatim what he said.

He started out by saying " You know, I came here from Miami to cold ass Montreal to hang out with the BEST Pick Up Artists in the world. And here we are in a room with NO girls. And I think to myself these guys have got NO FUCKING game!!"

Everyone laughed, except for Mystery who started to retort

" I've got game, I've got game, I'm the only with a girl in this room"

Fabio looked at him, chuckled and said something that I still laugh about to this day.

" Jackass!! I am not talking about you and your 4!"

And then he stormed out of the room.

Craig and I nearly died laughing and nobody else found it remotely funny...

4 years later I'm laughing as I type this up.

There's more great Fabio quotes and I'm sure I'll get to all of them eventually but if being quotable were a sport, Fabio would easily be the MVP.

JS-The King of Content

Jon's Loopy Theories # 1: Hot Dog is NEVER a BAD choice

Hey guys,

I spent a very lazy Thanksgiving week ( Yes week not weekend) with a great girl and annoying dog! I hope everyone else had as great of a holiday as I did.

I capped it off by getting really drunk, buying a hot dog from the guy who sells them in the venue ( Yes,I go to venues that serve hot dogs, if there's hot girls I'll go almost anywhere) and then cabbing to said girl's house while eating one hot dog and saving the other for later. I then proceeded to hop the fence to her balcony, attempt to drunkenly shove the hot dog into her face, then refused to put out.

Which brings us to my theory; Having a hot dog is NEVER a bad choice. I'm writing about this, because rants like this one are EXACTLY what I talk to girls about. Talking about theories, interesting thoughts, ideas, and hypothetical situations is like Catnip to girls. You just have to make it relevant to the type of girl you're talking to.

For example I wouldn't talk about Chuck Klosterman's thoughts on Nirvana and David Koresh with a party girl at a dance club. But I would talk about my theory on Hugh Hefner and how the girls on "Girls Next Door" decide whose turn it is to fuck Hef.

A lot of guys are scared of expressing these kinds of thoughts for fear of being labelled "weird". But guess what, it's weird to start conversations with strange women and try to get them into bed. Cold approach is about being weird or quirky in a fun attractive way.

So use more theories when talking to women.

Also if you have a great theory on anything post it in the comments, Maybe I'll discuss one of your theories on an upcoming Podcast or something...

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

Happy Thanksgiving

Hey guys,

I'm headed out for Thanksgiving.

I'll be back on Friday.

Hope everyone has a great day!

JS-Tha King of Content

Is anyone really misunderstood or is it just something we all feel?

I was reading Chuck Klosterman's book " Eating The Dinosaur" yesterday and it got me thinking about theoretical arguments and hypothetical situations. I want to warn everyone there's a lot of philosophizing below and none of it is directly game related as much as it's interesting human psychology...

In one part, Klosterman makes a comparison between Kurt Cobain and David Koresh. He argues that while Cobain was looked at as a God Koresh literally thought he was delivering the direct word of God. Either way, the way they were misunderstood(by both themselves and by the world at large) affected their lives immensely.

This got me thinking interestingly enough about a Lil Wayne song off of his " Tha Carter III" album.

Here's a selection of lyrics:

"Baby, you understand me now
If sometimes you see that I'm mad
Don't you know no one alive can always be an angel
When everything goes wrong, you see some bad


But I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh lord, please don't let me be misunderstood


Uh, misunderstood ain't gotta be explained
But you don't understand me so let me explain (heh heh)
Stood in the heat, the flames, the snow
Please slow down hurricane
The wind blow, my dreads swing

He had hair like wool, like Wayne (huh)
Dropping ashes in the bible
I shake em out and they fall on the rifle
Scary, hail Mary no tale fairy
All real very, extraordinary
Perry Mason facing, the barrel if he tattle
My god is my judge, no gown no gavel
Uh, I'm a rebel, time to battle
Now or never, I would never, in the ever
Fucking fantastic, fuck if you agree
I'm bright but I don't give a fuck if you see me


I'm just a soul whose intentions are good
Oh lord, please don't let me be misunderstood



Uh, what's understood ain't gotta be explained"


So obviously, Lil Wayne feels misunderstood despite selling millions of records and remaining streetcredulous. I started thinking about other famous people and artists who have marketed themselves under the idea of being Misunderstood. My future wife P!nk's breakthrough album was titled Misunderstood and went platinum. There's a million other examples of popular media being marketed to people who feel like they are misunderstood by the general population. While offering some sort of unique insight of their own, thus demonstrating that they're understanding of themselves and the world is correct.

This brings up the following fascinating (to me at least) question, if everyone at some point can identify with the idea of being an outcast or being misunderstood, is anyone actually misunderstood?

I personally feel like being misunderstood offers people a chance to feel better about themselves. If you feel like no one gets you, it allows you to filter and hedge the feedback you're getting. To use Lil Wayne for an example, he probably feels like he is stereotyped as a thug/gangsta rapper in the DMX vein. When in fact he sees himself as an artistic genius in the John Lennon vein. This is evidenced by the numerous articles and interviews in which he rehash's Lennon's quote about getting art out of a tuba...

However his artistic merit is PROBABLY not, the reason people consider him a thug. It's probably because he has four facial tattoos and the fact that he is going to jail for a year for weapons possession in NYC. Lil Wayne doesn't consider his behavior in his self assessment and the masses in general don't give his artistic statements enough consideration. In both ways, Wayne is misunderstood and understood correctly. Both sides have valid points to support their understanding, and both sides are ignoring and deleting information to support their opinion.

Everyone feels misunderstood at some point, no matter their level of personal success, which makes being misunderstood something that actually bonds us all as human beings, as everyone thinks they understand others while being misunderstood themselves usually when it comes to thing they don't want to believe about themselves.

JS-The King Of Content

Male-Female Power Dynamic part 2: The mid 30s Power Flip

Here's something interesting, I'd been meaning to write about for awhile...

Men often like to say that women have all the power when it comes to social situations.

Obviously I don't believe this to be true, but I will say that attractive women in their twenties have a lot more options than attractive men in their 20s.

The reason is that as a society we award social status to women based almost entirely on their looks and desirability. I'm not saying it's right or wrong, it's just the way it is.

This is where, students of evolutionary biology would then argue that a woman in her 20s is more attractive to a man because her youth sends signals that she is fertile and more easily able to reproduce. If you subscribe to the philosophy that all of life can be boiled down to survival and replication, you can skip to the end of this article now :)

Beyond that I want to discuss a few more reasons why men tend to be attracted to younger women:

1. Social Status. If I had a dollar for every douchey mid to late twenties instructor has tried to brag to me about dating an 18 year old, I'd be making it rain like Pacman Jones. Guys(and a certain sector of girls) also tend to idolize Hugh Hefner and his lifespan of the average African American male in America (52 years) sized gap in age with his girlfriends. Simply put guys seem to think dating younger girls make you seem cool. Sidenote- I don't agree with this theory and think anyone under 25 is retarded guy or girl.

2. Naivety. Younger girls don't generally know enough about the world to understand the complex dimensions of relationships. They haven't yet been hardened by the world, and the fact that most guys suck. So when you say you're going to dinner with a friend in Malibu, they don't ask many questions. Simply stated you get away with more stuff. Though you make up for it in hours of uninteresting conversation and gossip. Kill me.

Ok, so there's a lot of reasons why an attractive woman in her twenties has a higher ceiling for meeting an awesome guy than a woman in her 30s. Ironically this exact process happens in rerverse regarding men and women in their mid thirties.

See, a man at 35 has a higher ceiling for getting an attractive woman than a man at 25. Not only does he benefit from the power flip with older women, but he has amassed a decade more of social status and resources. So he's more attractive to the younger woman as well.

Most importantly women who remain single after 30 become more desperate to find someone because of a combination of biological(Gotta have a baby!!!) and social ( her parents and friends asking her when she's going to get married) pressures. Add in guys tending to get better looking or look the same as they age and women having a much harder time keeping their looks and you have a recipe for dating ease.

The mid 30s power flip is one of the reasons I find it funny when 33 year old guys are worried about not being able to get dates.

JS-The King Of Content.

Interview with Mack Tight

Hey guys,

I for one am glad it's finally Friday. I've been super swamped all week and can actually relax tomor!

In the meantime, I did an interview with Mack Tight over at Eseduce.com it's a preety fun, casual interview but I answer A lot of questions.

Check it out:

Interview

Have a great weekend!

JS-The King Of Content

Wow... Ustream Literallty is the place for crazy people's mental breakdowns

First Stephon Marbury... Now Tila Tequila.

Ustream ROCKS my world....

Note to the kiddies, if you're hopped up on goofballs it's probably not the best time to get on ustream and start ranting...

AMAZING!!!

JS-The King Of Content

Podcast: 2: Episode 3

Hey Guys,

Podcast is up!

Listen here:

Podcast

In it I discuss Straggler game, Boxing and MMA, and Commonalities.

Be sure to comment back here.

JS-The King Of Content

PS- The audio quality will improve as my new blueball mic is shipping as we speak. Thanks for bearing with me during the bad sound period :)

Alex The Drunk Idiot Aussie From RSD may not have Nimbus but he does have FJM

Welcome back to the blog that started it all...

Today I have another FJM special ready for you guys. This time I didn't even really have to do that much to make this guy look bad.

Funny side story about Alex from RSD, last year when I was in OZ a friend of mine wanted to introduce the two of us. I was not interested. Then Alex said he would only meet up if I promised not to tool him. I still didn't want to meet the guy,so obviously it didn't happen. But it's a funny idea that he was so afraid of getting tooled.

Unfortunately for him, he didn't end up escaping the tooling.

Let's get into Alex's article on state!

As always my comments appear in brackets []


Get into state. Because getting into state is good. When you are in state, you aren’t not out of state. And while this doesn’t necessarily make you attractive to girls, it certainly doesn’t make you unattractive. But, that depends.

[ Huh? Right off the bat you're starting with something that vaguely resembles English. Then you contradict yourself with a that depends. Honestly I hope someone kills you :)]

Honestly, and if you ask my closest friends in the company, I’m not really motivated by girls. One time I drunk dialed a friend’s ex girlfriend and exposed her to some verbal obscenities. But, as I was always shining through, she must have been attracted to my nimbus. When I asked her what her address was she was shocked. She must have thought it was for outer game purposes. Nope. The corner vendor has ceased to serve alcohol.

[ Just because you write formally or use more complicated words, it doesn't actually make what you're saying sound smart. It just makes you sound pretentious. This is basically a story about you making a drunk ass of yourself. Awesome for guys who want to learn to get better with women!]


I wanted to visit her house for inner game purposes.

Point is, when I asked her what her address was she was shocked, paused for a moment considering the oral lashing I had given her, and asked “why do you want my address?!”

‘For invitational purposes.’

Obviously.

She then volunteers her address. You beauty.

[ So basically you were trying to bang a friend's ex and then yelled at her before asking her for her address... We up to speed here people? It's like trying to read Dickens it takes 4 pavges to go up a flight of stairs.]

But, in my quest to get more state, I got distracted by the hermit crabs in the water fountain and I forget all about the Santa Claus style drop in she was expecting. No presents for her. State reigned supreme in my priorities.

[ I'm Alex and I like to be vague to make it seem like I wasn't just too drunk to know where I was or what I was trying to do. As they say in the program Alex, admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery.]

When I rubbed my eyes and figured out where I was the next day, I came to the conclusion that she was attracted to me because I was more inspired by getting some state then I was inspired to give her a statement of outer game. This lead to the extrapolated conclusion that I should do more things like that, but be mindful to capitalise on my outer game inspiring state and share the love.

[ When he woke up the next morning he remembered that he invited himself to a friend's ex gf's house and was annoyed he was too drunk to capitalize on his friend's sloppy seconds. For shame Alex, for shame.]

Results have been positive and medicinally compromising since.
For you, the budding glory monger, you may actually have your priorities out of order. Do you go out to ‘sarge’ or do you go out to irritate the bouncers of the establishment?

[ Irritating Bouncers is not a good idea and can lead to getting choked. I'm friends with a bunch of bouncers so I know first hand from watching socially awkward idiots like Alex.]


I see a lot of guys who go out for reasons other than themselves. To put anyone or anything in front of your cause is to assume that you are lower value than them, and hence, be unattractive. No girl will tell you her address.

The club is my office. But, I have no boss, only the agent Smiths. I can’t drink because I am at ‘work,’ so I just get into state and then say ‘whoa’ a lot.

[ I'm not sure you're smart enough to be making Keanu Reeves jokes.]

Technically, state is default, and is what happens when you perceive that nothing stands in your way. When there is nothing in your head to prevent it from coming to you, you are in state. You can’t force it, though. Like so many other things, if you let go, it will come straight to you. But, not like money in the casino, that’s an exception.

[ Gibberish alert, Gibberish Alert. Alex can you write a coherent paragraph? Just four little sentences that make sense to the average reader. You know make that second 40 pages of your post just fly by.]

More technically, self esteem based state is proportionate to your ability to influence others. If you subscribe to natural game, state comes from within. The more people you have to influence, the more you call upon your resources from within, and like a siphon it just begins to flow. Slow at first, but it can build momentum.

Technically, if you do something positive, dominant or simply take action, you will move more towards state then you were previously. You want your cognitive traffic to cause the people around you to do matrix style limbo to avoid falling under your spell. But, they are only human. Bring more state and they will succumb to your presence.

[ You want your cognitive traffic to cause people to limbo... God this is such bullshit. Basically you have nothing to say and think that if you fruit up your post with strange metaphors and analogies it will seem deep. Just because you don't understand something, doesn't make it profound. ASSHAT.]

What are the well know state building techniques? If you’re a bit of a beginner and want to get a bit of a smile up in the club, try talking to a few sets, singing, shouting, high fiving, or clapping your hands.

Try it now. Sing this song... and follow the lyrics. Clap your hands, stand up, bob your knees and give someone a high five. Sing loud, break the shackles. You don’t have bad intentions, why would you limit yourself?

OK.. hit the song and sample some beginner state. Remember, whatever you feel she feels.

We rocked this song in France while intermittently screaming the mispronounced name of the scandalous French President: “SAR-COW-ZEE, FUCK YEAH!”

[ Singing is a good way to get in state. Wow we're only halfway through and we got one piece of useful information. This is AWESOME!]

But, that stuff is for the faint of heart. There is a whole new range of self entertainment, state inspiring, and sanity obliterating pastimes that will induce seizures of laughter. They follow the same principles of taking action, creativity and positive dominance, only amplified.

I warn you. Do these wrong and you will end up in jail, an altercation or maybe knighted. Use at your own risk.

[ Oh good we finally get to the part where Alex suggests socially awkward borderline illegal behaviors! No wonder so many RSD guys get kicked out of clubs and the mall..]


The ‘Lime in the eye’.

One of the best in the business: juice for tough guys. Anecdotally, only Australians can handle lime to the eyeball.

[ Really you just recommended guys squirt lime into there eye for state. Really? I feel like Amy and Seth from weekend update should spring up and do a whole impromptu bit about this one. Really you go into a bar and squirt Lime into your eye? Why not just pull out a belt hang yourself and engage in some full on auto-erotic asypxiation?]

The ‘corporate elbow’.
Take your left hand and scratch the back of your head. In doing so, out stretch your left elbow outwards and to head level. Now you have a limbo stick for others in the club to negotiate.

[ Stick your elbow out so people have to walk around you. This is called being an asshole. This would lead to what I call a "big shoulder" when you walk by an asshole such as this and channeling your best Ray Lewis circa 2001 slam your shoulder into said asshole. Not great for state but very satisfying :)]

The ‘umbilical cord’.
Join several bendy straws together by pinching one straw so it is smaller in diameter than the other straw and insert inside. It must be an air tight connection. Now, you can drink for free, ninja style.

[ I'd love to see you try to stick your straw into my drink at a bar. Or anyone's. Instead of talking to girls, you can find Alex playing with straws, limes and sticking out his elbow in bars. Awesome]

The ‘I lost my contact lens’.
When a hot girl or girls (known as a ‘mingerwarren’) waltz by wearing short skirts exclaim loudly “I lost my contact lens!” in a manner that will draw attention to yourself. Drop to your hands and knees and lower you head as low as possible to the ground. From this angle, you can pose an opinion opener to the girl such as “can I get a quick female opinion on something. [female interlude] Have you seen my contact lens. With your head on the ground and their short skirts it makes for good angle of conversation.

[ This could actually be funny provided your not actually trying to look up their skirts. If you are actually trying to catch a peek, they should send you back to Australia with the rest of your convict ancestors.]

The ‘legless drunk’.
If you can put a wobble on your bipedal progressions and roll your eyes into anti-co-ordinated magic eight balls, then you can pass as a convincing drunk. In this pseudo-condition, you can knock cock blocking chodes over, motor boat cleavage capture girls in your arms as you try to regain your balance. This one is fun.

[ Pretend to be Drunk! That's great advice, we all know that drunk idiots who can barely move get all the PUSSY! Damn bro you've really revealed some next level secrets. I can't wait for Alex's next post Rohypnol- how to pull!]

The ‘oceans one’.
Somewhere in the venue there will be a security door with a numeric code required for access. Keep an eye on it. Usually the code won’t be longer than five or six figures. Note it or film it with your camera, and BOOM you’re in the Bellagio vault. Go in, find a uniform, suit up, then tend the bar, yet prioritizing your companions. Use said companions to bring girls to the free drink and watch them paw at your neck line as you tell them of your whiles.

[ This never happened except in Alex's mind. To further expand on the movies into fantasy fictional pick up moves let's look at the " The Mr and Mrs Smith'" where in your mind you imagine an elaborate relationship with a girl then imagine she's trying to kill you. Before you say hi you hit her in the face with a garbage can and then take her back to your place for makeup sex.]

And for mayhem purposes (prepare to be immediately ejected)...

The ‘Grand Prix Podium’.
This is much like a wet t-shirt contest, but the contestants aren’t aware of their involvement. So it’s kinda like Halloween. Buy a sultry three count of Pabst Blue Ribbon or other such shittery in bottle form. Cover the top with your thumb. Start a ruckus as though there is a bit of a shoving fight in the vicinity. In the commotion violently shake the beer at waist level. And voila...we have Spring Break. This is both an effective means for state, opening the girl and extracting the girl as they will probably get booted from the bar when Agent Smiths come at you talking of sociological prophecies.

[ Yes I'm sure a girl who you just sprayed beer on is going to be ready to get it on. Shit why did I waste 6 years learning game and social skills when all you need to do is act like a drunk idiot and spray beer on girls. Damn it all]

Don’t let these maneuvers limit you. There are many more, far more creative, far less professional means by which to get into state. It’s the thrill of going against the norm, the thrill of immediate venue-removal and heightened sense of self from the attention that you will draw that makes these things and others so good for amping the state and fun. Make you and your fun the first priority of your night.


[ The thrill of immediate venue removal leads to not getting laid. You can have fun without getting kicked out. Most people do.]

More often than not, the girls will think of you as silly and immature. This is, of course, the goal. Blend-Tec their congruence tests and establish A = HV + E. You have fun – they have fun. Everybody wins.

State like this will have the girls circling you as if you had your period in shark infested waters.

Alexander~

[Obviously no one knows more about getting kicked out of places and going home alone than Alex}


JS-The King Of Content

Thank God Superconference Is OVER!!!

Hey Guys,

Happy Monday,

I'm still zonked from the SC over the weekend in LA.

It was a great event which gave a bunch of the 12m2m guys a chance to see each other again and to tie together all the most advanced concepts like 3somes, relationship management, Internet Game, and much much more.

We had great guest speeches from Brad P, Cameron Teone and Kurgan. So thanks to those guys for showing up and helping out.

Then last night I had a comedy of errors in getting home, first my power steering went out, then I got stuck in traffic for an hour and a half on the 5 mile drive home, and then my car died altogether as I got to my parking space. Leaving me with a busted foot and a busted car.

Joy!

Luckily attractive women want to have sex with me.

No rest for the wicked though as today I've had 3 phone consults and still have a conference cal for the new 12m2m guys.

I'll have a podcast up soon, and a new FJM this week as well.

Talk soon,

JS-The King Of Content
Community Drama and Bullshit free since 10/7/09

Podcast Season 2 # 2

Hey Guys,

Here's the link for the aforementioned podcast.

In it I slam David Wygant, talk about Tool Academy, and teach you how to brag in the right way.

Check it out:

Podcast

JS-The King Of Content

Top Ramen is Still Delicious to ME !!!!

Hey Guys,

I'm on a break between the first sticking points analysis calls with guys from 12M2M.

It's cool because I've been doing this so long I can literally diagnose sticking points midway through the guy's life story.

It's like I'm a frickin psychic sometimes.

It does get tiresome to always be this good at my job :) But I digress.

We have a Podcast recorded and it should be up on Itunes as well as here later today.

I have 17 minutes until my next call with a student, which is not nearly enough time to wax poetically about Dexter, which is now officially the best hour of my week. And it doesn't depress me at all to say that.

I also still have to get a ticket to LA for this weekend! Eep I should really do that now...

Ok while I go do that, you guys enjoy the rest of your day and hopefully we'll have a podcast soon.

JS-The King Of Content

Interesting Note on Woman's Psychological Development in America

Hola,

I was at a Starbucks the other day, and in front of me in line was a mother and her daughter who couldn't have been more than 3-4 years old.

What was interesting about this scene was that the Mother was asking more and more specific questions to the little girl about what she wanted to drink. Including what kind of straw she wanted to use, and other absurdities.

Besides making me feel bad for any guy who ever dates that girl in 15-20 years, it also made me think about how society in general forces woman towards too separate and distinctive personality types. Either Mothers ( or more likely Fathers) encourage their little girls to be extremely discerning and demanding ( This is generally going to happen with better looking girls as the parents think they can expect more) or they are going to be encouraged to be indecisive and let others make decisions for them.

It's almost as if as a woman you are stuck between nice and indecisive or being bitchy and decisive. There doesn't seem to be a middle ground for most girls, based on how society in general views young woman.

Anywho just a thought I wanted to write down.

JS-The King Of Content

What I've Learned From over a Half Decade in The SUISC

So I've been teasing and tantalizing about this post for quite some time now...

And I even have a soundtrack for it...



"There's ten rules for the Game but I'll share with you two, know niggas gon hate you for whatever you do..."

This was always my flag ship post until the last few years, so it's back only with 2 additional years of learning. So let's get into the stream of consciousness style rants :)

The basic idea is that I list various things I've learned from my time in the SUISC, some of it's game related, some of it's gossip and some unfortunately is just common sense I was lacking :)

Your idols in the community are false. There is literally 0 point in making any of us "gurus". We're all just normal guys who learned or naturally had skills with women. That's all. We're not better than you guys, more alpha, courageous, or any of the other super human attributes that get attributed to guys just because they're supposedly good with women.

There is NO such thing as a perfect pickup. Pick up is all about making mistakes and then trying to fix them.

There is 0 point in whining about the way things are. This could be the way certain girls act like stimulus junkies at clubs, it could be the social status you have in your group, it could be that girls will flirt with you and then makeout with another guy. Accept reality the way it. Self deception only hurts you.

Most guys don't want to be players. Or even have a lifestyle that would allow them to be a player.

Guys have WAY more issues about sex than women. Seriously.

The two biggest sticking points are social and sexual anxiety. Point blank period.

Every guy embellishes their abilities with women, except guys who are amazingly good with them.

How a guy deals with a blowout tells you everything you need to know about his level of skill with girls.

There is an intangible quality to guys that are good with women. I can't explain it, but I can tell when guys have it and when they don't and women can tell even faster than I can. Especially hot ones.

The importance of touching to escalate towards sex is vastly overrated.

Being true to yourself creates more sticking points. It's not like once you figure out who you want to convey yourself to be, all your problems with women go away.

Learning to suppress the need to impress people will help your game more than anything else you can do.

It is far better to overescalate than underescalate. As Warren Beatty once famously said "You get slapped a lot but you get laid a lot too."

99% of the population cares less about this stuff than you do if you're reading this right now. That's called an obsession and it's a bit unhealthy. So you may want to try caring a little less about getting laid. I include myself in this previous paragraph.

There is no such thing as community in the community. Communities support each other, offer help and display a genuine caring for the people in it. The SUISC consists of guys bragging, guys asking for help from the guys bragging, a lot of in fighting and drama, a lot of bullshit information, and a ton of haters.

No one invented any of this stuff, so it's stupid to be dogmatic about following it and even stupider to argue over whose material something is. I know I used to do that a lot :p

Lifestyle will get you laid way more than skillsets or inner game. It's a fact.

Women do not have to like you in order to sleep with you.

Being known for hitting on girls is actually a good thing. Being a professional pua, not so much :)

If you're in the community, it's because something is not normal about you. Sorry to be the one to say it, but it's true. This doesn't mean you're a bad person or a nerd, or a loser. It simply means there is a reason you ended up here, and most guys don't. Embrace it. Again, I include myself and all instructors at every company in this statement.

The community is not, has never been and will never be a "cool" or mainstream thing. People just don't care that much.

The only person you have to compete with, compare yourself to or impress is yourself. In fact the only person who really cares about your success with women is you.

Qualification and movement are the keys to game. These are what allow you to escalate and move the interaction forward.

Don't be afraid to hit on girls, they think you are anyway!

Women are WAY cooler than men, easier to deal with, less stupid ego issues. More emotions mean you can overreact to things without it being a big deal. As I always say to girls, I can tell my female friends I hate them at 2PM and by 7 we're cool again. If I tell a guy that we're no longer friends. It took me awhile to get here, but I think I'm now an rampant feminist :)

Peaks and Valleys are an inevitable part of the game, everyone has them. Some nights you can;t do anything wrong, other nights, nothing works. Embrace this fact.

Here's what I mean when I say someone is good with girls; They can sleep with a new ATTRACTIVE girl every week from cold approaches. I realize this is ridiculous and most guys will NEVER get there. But still...

Allright that's all I got

Oh, and David Wygant is a bitch :)

JS-The King Of Content

Interview With Gambler AKA Rich LA Ruina

Hey guys,

I've been getting a lot of questions through Email and even Twitter about Gambler's upcoming Stealth Attraction system.

Since Gambler and I are buds, I Skyped him yesterday to get an exclusive interview to demystify Stealth Attraction a bit.

In it Gambler and I talk about what Stealth Attraction is how to use it to escalate without the fear of rejection, some great body language tips and much much more.

Check it out here:

Stealth Attraction Interview

Also Gambler put together this really cool video on Stealth Attraction it's over 20 minutes long and has a ton of great content in it.

Video

Allright I'm off to Muy Thai class followed by a delicious Iced Green Tea.

Have A great weekend!

JS

David Wygant is NOT the real hitch but is getting FJM'D

Yo,

Welcome back to another episode of Fire Joe Morgan the Secret Underground Seduction Community Edition.

If this is your first time seeing this feature it's a weekly ( or so) thing where I take articles written by douchebags, Charlatans, Liars, Frauds, and outright kooks and give my personal commentary on them. This helps me channel my frustration with the quality of teaching in the community as well as amuses me to no end.

This week we have a douchetastic post by the originator of douche, the charlatan that's been alledgedly coaching for 20 years, though you wouldn't know it by his content just the condition of his face. It's called Sunscreen David, and it's your friend :)

Without further ado let's listen to the Rigidly anti-routine David Wygant talk about what sounds a lot like practicing your routines.

As always my comments appear in brackets.

Do you know what “the magic of a story” is? The magic of the story is remembering that while you might be telling a story for the hundredth time, the woman you’re talking to is hearing it for the very first time . . . and being able to tell it like you’re telling it for the first time.

[ Yes cause as I'm going about my day and reading various blogs on the internet I often meditate on things like " What is the magic of a story?" " Who Killed JFK" and " What happens if you mix pop rocks and soda." Who talks like that? Oh that's right over the top self righteous wannabe self help guru pricks. His paragraph makes sense now when considering the writer. And Cause I know he'll read this David, you still remind me of TJ Macky from Magnolia. "RESPECT THE COCK!"]

Recently while I was with some clients, I told a woman a story I’ve told probably at least a thousand times (that’s why the story is so good!). The clients who were with me were shocked when they found this out, and said it seemed like I was telling the story for the first time.

[ Oh, so having stories you've already told ready to tell to women you're meeting is a good thing? Sounds suspiciously like a routine to me. The clients were probably shocked because you constantly push your psychobabble hippie bullshit about observing and being in the moment to guys, while you were using routines that you condemn. Or the fact that they paid 10 grand to follow you around a Brentwood Whole Foods for a few hours. Either or.]

I have such enthusiasm for my stories because I like them. I also know how people will react to them because I’ve told them before.

[ You tell stories that you like over and over again because you know people will react to them positively. Can someone explain how this is different from running routines? If you can, please email me because you can probably solve other conundrums like the meaning of life, why Michael Jordan really "retired" for 18 months, and why Mystery and Matador haven't ODed on coke since moving to LA.]

So how do you tell a great story; how do you tell a story like you’re telling it for the first time? Well, you have to start somewhere in order to learn how to do it.

[ You start by moving your mouth while pushing oxygen out of your lungs and using something called your vocal cords to produce sounds. This moment of biology was brought to you by your friends at Sinns Of Attraction]

Pick five or six things that come up over and over again in conversations, and then think of stories that relate to those things. It doesn’t matter what they are about, so long as you enjoy telling them and can do so with passion.

[ So you pre-script and plan your routines then simply lie to people about what you do when talking to girls. God, you're a douchebag. I sincerely hope the fleas of a million Camels infect your pubic region]

Practice your stories, so they are natural and easy for you to tell. I would suggest that you record all your stories, and then listen to yourself tell them.

[ Again there wouldn't be a problem here except for the fact that you got your panties in a bunch last year when after your " you shouldn't use routines speech at the PUA summit I spoke about why routines can be helpful. Then you flipped out and said I couldn't make eye contact with you and I challenged you to a fight that you backed out of. Now you're talking about routines. That's called flip flopping and on the mean streets of Woodland Hills where I come from, that makes you a bitch. Or for more emphasis a BEEEYOTCHH. David Wygant you're a Bitch. And a liar too.]

As you listen, ask yourself whether you are interesting enough as you tell each story. If you are not, then go back and record them again. Keep listening to those stories over and over again, because those are the stories that are going to come out when you meet people.

[ Be aware of how you sound telling your story that you can have good delivery. Good advice, if it didn't fly in the face of the entire way that you market yourself. Proving that you can tell David Wygant is lying when his lips are moving.]


Those amazing stories will be what attract women when you talk to them. They love to hear them.

[ Yeah this would be good advice, except I do a story-telling workshop on bootcamps and most stories are like this:

Student: "One time I had a layover going to Japan and I got to wear a Kimono."

There's a lot more to story-telling than just telling them over and over again. trust me I've been stuck listening to a lot of guys made up stories, and a bad story practiced a million times is still a bad story. If you actually want to learn to get better at story-telling search this blog(or google) for a reprint of an article by Wilder on Story-telling. It's the best thing I've ever read on Story-telling for attraction and it's free.]

A man who can tell a great story is very intriguing to women. It will show you as a man who is passionate about who he is. A woman will think that if you’re that passionate about yourself and your life, then you will be equally as passionate about her if you start hanging out together.

If you’re passionate about everything that you do – even down to little things like sniffing fruit passionately at the farmer’s market — then women are going to realize how passionate you are about all sorts of things. It’s about living with passion, and it all starts with your stories!


[ Ok this is actually good advice, but in classic charlatan fashion he doesn't talk about how to demonstrate your passions in a way where you don't come off like the scary intense guy. Though to be fair it's most likely because he doesn't know, not because he's trying to confuse people. Plus I think he blatently stole this paragraph from some Tony Robbins book or Newsletter. Remember folks Live with PASSION!!!!! Insert 8 foot tall Tony Robbins booming laugh here.]

David Wygant in the words of my favorite show on you're just a tool and you've been FJM'd.

Bitch.

JS-The King Of Content
Bullshit Community Drama Free since 10/7/09

Podcast Season 2

Greetings and Salutations,

I got sick of hey guys...

Podcast is back, I'm sure I say some really offensive things in this one and talk about different kinds of approach anxiety as that's by far the biggest SP guys have...

Podcast

Let me know what you think with comments.

JS-The King Of Content

9 Ball Review AKA Jeffy will now fly out of control and tell me to fuck myself.

Ok, so I've always been a fan of Jeff Allen's(AKA Jlaix, Jeffy) writing. I've been public about it. Before 9ball his writing always made me laugh,and think.

And that's precisely why 9ball was so disappointing.

Not only is the book basically a reprint of his freely available archive from ASF, but the sections that are added on are basically rehashing of things he's said on various products. Basically a big fuck you to people who have followed his writing for the last few years.

Now this would not have been such a big deal if not for the fact that Jeffy repeatedly talked about how he was slaving night and day on this book, as if it were a 1400 pages of new material. You know kinda exactly the same way TD has talked about working 16 hours a day on the Blueprint and his relationship book. Neither of which has been published despite numerous dates of this masterpiece being done.

But back to 9ball, after the first few chapters detailing the insanity of Jeffy's early life. Which was well written but felt a bit long especially as we got into the section about self mutilation and drug abuse. We get it, Jeffy didn't give a fuck.

Then we get into the section where for almost 200 pages we're treated to touched up field reports, as Jeffy vacillates between being dejected and enamoured of his new life as a PUA. The only problem is I've already read these LRs, like 2-3 yrs ago. And there's not really any new content or commentary from Jeffy looking back. To sum up how this felt, it's like the equivilent of being told you're going to get the director's cut of a movie with 15 minutes of extended footage, except it's there in 30 30 second shots of backgrounds. If there was new content in the LRs, I sure as hell didn't notice it.

There is a great couple of pages in a chapter as Jeffy sits and talks with a friend about why he's continuing and all he can come up with is self presevervation. Sadly it's the only part of the book that stands out.

The worst part of this, is that I know Jeffy could have done better, especially if he had ya know actually been working on this book for a decade as RSD would like you to believe. Though if there's one thing the RSD boys are good at it's exaggerating, a stroll through RSD nation sounds like listening to the kid in high school who is always talking about how much he parties with kids from this other high school where he has a girlfriend.

I'm disappointed.

Now I'll wait for an angry email or text for having an opinion Jeffy knows deep down is true.

JS-The King Of Content

Happy Halloween!!

One of the best days for P/U of the entire year.

I'm drinking soon!!!

But first enjoy one of the most eclectic Lil Wayne songs ever.

I'm obsessed with this song right now.



JS-The King Of Content

So Much To Write About, I don't know where to start...

Hey Guys,

First of all I want to thank everyone who applied to 12m2m the relaunch, we got over 60 applications in all and I'm currently stuck going through a massive pile as we speak.

I'm super excited for this year as I found a bunch of new ways to teach last year, to make everything more efficient.

Couple of other things,

1. If you're not following me on Twitter, you're missing out on my awesome 140 character thoughts on life and the universe, as well as discount specials on products and coaching. Follow me HERE

2. I have a ton of things I want to write about in the next little bit including but not limited to a review of Jeffy's book 9ball(all I'll say is you will be surprised by my take), my thoughts on Dexter season 4, why I quit watching Californication this year, Why i would be the worst father ever at my current age/maturity level and much much more...

3. The Sinn and The Cities Podcast is making it's triumphant return on Monday so keep an eye(or ear) open for that one.

4. I'm getting a new comp sometime in the next week or so which will mean more video blogs as well.

5. I just got sample copies of the upcoming "Get Laid More" course and it's SOOO good. I'm super excited for that in a few months.

6. I'll be posting a couple of chapters from my novelette on here in the coming time it's called The Morning After and has enough p/u related stuff that you'll like it. I promise. Still getting details on book tour stuff, so I'll post it when I know. Be sure to come out and support your boy.

Have a great weekend and Halloween, I know I will :)

JS-The King Of Content

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Question and Answer Teleseminar Tonight!

Hey guys,

I’ve received quite a few questions in the past few days about
the 12 Months to Mastery program that I opened enrollment for
last Thursday.
(Details about the program can be found at Coaching

Rather than answer everyone’s emails individually, I figured I’d answer
them all on a special question and answer teleseminar that I’m doing
TONIGHT. Here are the call details:

Time: 9:00 p.m EST (6:00 p.m. PST)

Phone number: 619-684-9024

Access Code: 577602#

Website link (if you want to listen online): Listen Online
Because of the short notice, there’s no need to register this time.

If you have any questions about 12 Months to Mastery, please email them to sinn@sinnsofattraction.com and I’ll be sure to answer them tonight.

Talk to you then!

Sinn