It's officially Halloween today!
I've had an awesome Halloween weekend but I just realized that we've been having a massive Halloween sale for our email list subscribers that I haven't shared with you blog readers... YET
It's a great deal with almost all of our products at a huge discount to help you get out there and meet the girl of your dreams TONIGHT.
Check it out Here:
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JS
Monday, October 31, 2011
Friday, October 28, 2011
Today In Fuck You: People who tell you how in love they are two weeks after they start dating.
This is a particularly relevant topic here, as guys who teach pick up are the # 1 offenders of this particular brand of douchbaggery.
I HATE it when someone (guy, girl, whatever) goes on and on about how they're so in love with this new person they're dating, when they've only been dating a few weeks, and or are not yet in a serious BF/GF relationship.
Seriously you need to stop, before I lose my shit and start mocking you for being the naive and emotionally needy loser you are.
First of all, no one else cares! I don't give a shit. I mean of all the things in the world whether or not you're insanely happy with your new BF/GF whatever really doesn't matter. And I don't think I'm speaking for just me, when I say there are roughly 9,876,142 things I care about more than the status of your 2 week old relationship.
Secondly for whatever reasons ( Probably because I'm friends with community guys and players) the same guys who spend 74 hours yakkking my ear off about how in love they are, cheat on these same girls like a month later.
If you cheat on a girl you spent over an hour telling me you were in in love with, I should be allowed a free hour of wasting your time talking about the subject of my choice which will be "Chardee Mcdennis: The Game Of Games."
Lastly lest someone think this is some sort of rant against being in love or being happy in your relationship, it's not. I think it's fine to be in love and in a relationship. But that doesn't happen in 2 weeks. The same way they advise couples not to tell people they're pregnant for the first few months in case something happens. My problem is specifically with the people who spend an inordinate amount of time talking to others (namely me) about how they're sooo in love and happy in their relationship, when the relationship just started last Tuesday, or they are clearly not in a serious relationship and just want attention or something to talk about.
To those people I say : FUUUUCCCCKKKKKKK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
To everyone else have a great Halloween weekend.
JS
I HATE it when someone (guy, girl, whatever) goes on and on about how they're so in love with this new person they're dating, when they've only been dating a few weeks, and or are not yet in a serious BF/GF relationship.
Seriously you need to stop, before I lose my shit and start mocking you for being the naive and emotionally needy loser you are.
First of all, no one else cares! I don't give a shit. I mean of all the things in the world whether or not you're insanely happy with your new BF/GF whatever really doesn't matter. And I don't think I'm speaking for just me, when I say there are roughly 9,876,142 things I care about more than the status of your 2 week old relationship.
Secondly for whatever reasons ( Probably because I'm friends with community guys and players) the same guys who spend 74 hours yakkking my ear off about how in love they are, cheat on these same girls like a month later.
If you cheat on a girl you spent over an hour telling me you were in in love with, I should be allowed a free hour of wasting your time talking about the subject of my choice which will be "Chardee Mcdennis: The Game Of Games."
Lastly lest someone think this is some sort of rant against being in love or being happy in your relationship, it's not. I think it's fine to be in love and in a relationship. But that doesn't happen in 2 weeks. The same way they advise couples not to tell people they're pregnant for the first few months in case something happens. My problem is specifically with the people who spend an inordinate amount of time talking to others (namely me) about how they're sooo in love and happy in their relationship, when the relationship just started last Tuesday, or they are clearly not in a serious relationship and just want attention or something to talk about.
To those people I say : FUUUUCCCCKKKKKKK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
To everyone else have a great Halloween weekend.
JS
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Monday, October 24, 2011
Friday, October 21, 2011
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
Oh Really Bitch? An Open Letter To Diane Passage
Diane Passage was married to Kenneth Star the super rich "financial advisor" now serving 7 years in jail for his role in a huge ponzi scheme.
It seems that for some reason the New York Post (Noted employer of former of prostitutes) thought it would be a good idea to give this (Unsuccessful) gold digging former stripper a chance to write about what it takes to get what you want from men.
Here's a link to the article:
Why Dumb ass Skanks should be quiet
It's quite a read, if you can stop yourself from throwing up while reading it.
So she got to make her points and now it's my turn to retort.
This dumb whore wrote(My remarks in Bold):
"Women are powerful. That’s what I’ve learned from a lifetime of socializing with just about every type of female — from exotic dancers to socialites to successful businesswomen.
But I wasn’t aware of just how powerful women can be until I worked at several gentlemen’s clubs, including Scores. My guy friends said a gentlemen’s club must be the best place to work ever, because men just give money to the dancers. Far from it! The dancers — including me — worked hard every night. Imagine how difficult it is to sell a dance to a customer or a $500-plus-per-hour private room when he already knows that nothing sexual can happen! How do you get that customer to keep coming back? It was a sales job — one that involved torturous sky-high stilettos and wrestling matches with drunk, horny customers.
Still, the skills I learned at the clubs empowered me to accomplish bigger and better things outside of it. Such as raising money for charities, running my own company, and now — and most importantly — rebuilding a solid life for me and my 13-year-old son, Jordan, after a family crisis."
The Skills she learned at the strip club taught her to raise her son. He should change his name from Jordan to no chance.
Dumb whore again:
"2. I can create my own outcome and accomplish any goal. I like to set goals for anything — serious or ridiculous. I started doing this when I worked at the club; I’d set weekly income goals to help me stay focused and not get onto a downward spiral (which is typical for exotic dancers). Along the way I set fun goals — attending certain concerts, parties, etc. My most ridiculous goal? Hooking up with a certain male porn star. A friend of mine offered to buy the star for me for one night, but I declined. It’ll be far more satisfying to accomplish my goal on my own. Whether your goals are serious, fun or both — never think you can’t have it all!"
Yes as a mother clearly having a goal to hook up with a male pornstar is a great and challenging goal. Also I find it funny she says most dancrs end up in a downward spiral but doesn't mention her marrying a conman.
Dumb ass:
3. Slow and steady wins the race. While goals are important, you shouldn’t set unrealistic time limits to achieve them. People do crazy things under deadlines. An acquaintance of mine stalked a man because she was obsessed with getting married before the age of 35. Last year, she fell head over heels on one of her first dates. On Facebook, she saw he was looking forward to a sushi dinner at his favorite restaurant. My friend knew where to find him, because he’d mentioned the same restaurant on their date! So early in the evening, she planted herself at a table with a good view of the place. He showed up . . . with another date. This woman is seemingly sane otherwise. If she dropped the marriage deadline and just had fun dating, I bet she’d end up meeting her goal — without stalking!
Now this dumb bitch is contradicting herself from her last point always a sign of intelligent writing.
We're now at my 2nd favorite thing she wrote:
"4. Every girl should know the basics of fishing and dog training. Several years ago, my son took an interest in fishing. I had to learn, too, so I could help him with it. Little did I know that my basic fishing knowledge would end up serving me well in the world of romance! When dating, I like to try a fun and sporty approach. As the person who’s fishing, I’m able to lead my “fish,” so I have the advantage of getting what I want. My bait: smile, hair, makeup, clothing, stilettos and either legs or cleavage (never both at the same time). My hook: a flirty, mysterious demeanor. When I “reel” a man in, that means I’m getting to know him. He always has the option to free himself from my “hook.” And I always have the option to throw him back into the dating sea. If I decide to keep my “fish,” then I switch to boundary-setting mode. I’ve trained a dog, raised a son and have been married twice to men who wanted nothing more than to make me happy. I know how not to let a male dominate me. The one consistent thing for all types of men: consistent enforcement of boundaries and giving rewards when they deserve them."
As we all know treating human beings like dogs or fish is a healthy and normal way to start any relationship and does not in any way lead to game playing or other immature power games. Also I find it hilarious that she mentions she's been married twice to men who wanted to make her happy. Before the divorce.
Now time for my absolute favorite:
"5. My wallet does not exist. It might sound like an outdated cliché, but if you’re a woman, you should never reach into your wallet while you’re in the presence of a man. Even if you’ve been married for years. Not only must a man pay for the main components of a date (dinner, etc.), but they must also take care of taxi fare, coat check and bathroom attendant tips. The woman who believes in this mantra is not a gold-digger or obligated to “return the favor.” The few times I’ve gone “dutch” on dates, it usually results in the man feeling emasculated because of it — or it means the guy has some sort of money hang-up. Can an emasculated guy or someone with issues give you what you want? Not for me!"
Really? I mean you know this is gonna be read by people. You're basically saying a guy should give you cash when you go to the bathroom to tip the attendents??? Are you out of your fucking mind? And I believe that the term for a woman who only goes out with a guy because he pays for everything is gold digger.
Oh wait actually, I lied. This is my favorite part.
"8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave. The ones who are up for a challenge stick around and show their charm and wit, and may land a date. Refer to mantra No. 4 (dog training) — along with boundaries, give rewards when due — leading to mantra No. 6 (value). A woman’s time, smile and interest are valuable and can be rewarded to the man who deserves her attention. Being icy or lukewarm at first also maintains an element of mystery. In addition, refer to mantra No. 5 (woman never pays). A man does not deserve a woman’s phone number without buying her and her friend(s) a drink, not to mention paying their entire bar tab."
No it's actually not anyone's right to be bitchy. When she says the weak men leave when she is dismissive, she's missing a key point. It's not weak men who leave, it's men who have options. If a woman is being a bitch upfront, no matter how hot she is, chances are she's going to be a bitch down the line as well. I don't know about you but I don't put up with that shit. Lastly I think she really shows us who she is when he says a man doesn't deserve a woman's phone number unless he buys drinks not only for her and their friends but pays their bar tab as well. That my friends is called prostitution. Fuck this bitch is retarded.
JS
It seems that for some reason the New York Post (Noted employer of former of prostitutes) thought it would be a good idea to give this (Unsuccessful) gold digging former stripper a chance to write about what it takes to get what you want from men.
Here's a link to the article:
Why Dumb ass Skanks should be quiet
It's quite a read, if you can stop yourself from throwing up while reading it.
So she got to make her points and now it's my turn to retort.
This dumb whore wrote(My remarks in Bold):
"Women are powerful. That’s what I’ve learned from a lifetime of socializing with just about every type of female — from exotic dancers to socialites to successful businesswomen.
But I wasn’t aware of just how powerful women can be until I worked at several gentlemen’s clubs, including Scores. My guy friends said a gentlemen’s club must be the best place to work ever, because men just give money to the dancers. Far from it! The dancers — including me — worked hard every night. Imagine how difficult it is to sell a dance to a customer or a $500-plus-per-hour private room when he already knows that nothing sexual can happen! How do you get that customer to keep coming back? It was a sales job — one that involved torturous sky-high stilettos and wrestling matches with drunk, horny customers.
Still, the skills I learned at the clubs empowered me to accomplish bigger and better things outside of it. Such as raising money for charities, running my own company, and now — and most importantly — rebuilding a solid life for me and my 13-year-old son, Jordan, after a family crisis."
The Skills she learned at the strip club taught her to raise her son. He should change his name from Jordan to no chance.
Dumb whore again:
"2. I can create my own outcome and accomplish any goal. I like to set goals for anything — serious or ridiculous. I started doing this when I worked at the club; I’d set weekly income goals to help me stay focused and not get onto a downward spiral (which is typical for exotic dancers). Along the way I set fun goals — attending certain concerts, parties, etc. My most ridiculous goal? Hooking up with a certain male porn star. A friend of mine offered to buy the star for me for one night, but I declined. It’ll be far more satisfying to accomplish my goal on my own. Whether your goals are serious, fun or both — never think you can’t have it all!"
Yes as a mother clearly having a goal to hook up with a male pornstar is a great and challenging goal. Also I find it funny she says most dancrs end up in a downward spiral but doesn't mention her marrying a conman.
Dumb ass:
3. Slow and steady wins the race. While goals are important, you shouldn’t set unrealistic time limits to achieve them. People do crazy things under deadlines. An acquaintance of mine stalked a man because she was obsessed with getting married before the age of 35. Last year, she fell head over heels on one of her first dates. On Facebook, she saw he was looking forward to a sushi dinner at his favorite restaurant. My friend knew where to find him, because he’d mentioned the same restaurant on their date! So early in the evening, she planted herself at a table with a good view of the place. He showed up . . . with another date. This woman is seemingly sane otherwise. If she dropped the marriage deadline and just had fun dating, I bet she’d end up meeting her goal — without stalking!
Now this dumb bitch is contradicting herself from her last point always a sign of intelligent writing.
We're now at my 2nd favorite thing she wrote:
"4. Every girl should know the basics of fishing and dog training. Several years ago, my son took an interest in fishing. I had to learn, too, so I could help him with it. Little did I know that my basic fishing knowledge would end up serving me well in the world of romance! When dating, I like to try a fun and sporty approach. As the person who’s fishing, I’m able to lead my “fish,” so I have the advantage of getting what I want. My bait: smile, hair, makeup, clothing, stilettos and either legs or cleavage (never both at the same time). My hook: a flirty, mysterious demeanor. When I “reel” a man in, that means I’m getting to know him. He always has the option to free himself from my “hook.” And I always have the option to throw him back into the dating sea. If I decide to keep my “fish,” then I switch to boundary-setting mode. I’ve trained a dog, raised a son and have been married twice to men who wanted nothing more than to make me happy. I know how not to let a male dominate me. The one consistent thing for all types of men: consistent enforcement of boundaries and giving rewards when they deserve them."
As we all know treating human beings like dogs or fish is a healthy and normal way to start any relationship and does not in any way lead to game playing or other immature power games. Also I find it hilarious that she mentions she's been married twice to men who wanted to make her happy. Before the divorce.
Now time for my absolute favorite:
"5. My wallet does not exist. It might sound like an outdated cliché, but if you’re a woman, you should never reach into your wallet while you’re in the presence of a man. Even if you’ve been married for years. Not only must a man pay for the main components of a date (dinner, etc.), but they must also take care of taxi fare, coat check and bathroom attendant tips. The woman who believes in this mantra is not a gold-digger or obligated to “return the favor.” The few times I’ve gone “dutch” on dates, it usually results in the man feeling emasculated because of it — or it means the guy has some sort of money hang-up. Can an emasculated guy or someone with issues give you what you want? Not for me!"
Really? I mean you know this is gonna be read by people. You're basically saying a guy should give you cash when you go to the bathroom to tip the attendents??? Are you out of your fucking mind? And I believe that the term for a woman who only goes out with a guy because he pays for everything is gold digger.
Oh wait actually, I lied. This is my favorite part.
"8. As a woman, it’s my right to act bitchy on occasion. When a man first approaches me, I’m icy cold and dismissive. The weak men leave. The ones who are up for a challenge stick around and show their charm and wit, and may land a date. Refer to mantra No. 4 (dog training) — along with boundaries, give rewards when due — leading to mantra No. 6 (value). A woman’s time, smile and interest are valuable and can be rewarded to the man who deserves her attention. Being icy or lukewarm at first also maintains an element of mystery. In addition, refer to mantra No. 5 (woman never pays). A man does not deserve a woman’s phone number without buying her and her friend(s) a drink, not to mention paying their entire bar tab."
No it's actually not anyone's right to be bitchy. When she says the weak men leave when she is dismissive, she's missing a key point. It's not weak men who leave, it's men who have options. If a woman is being a bitch upfront, no matter how hot she is, chances are she's going to be a bitch down the line as well. I don't know about you but I don't put up with that shit. Lastly I think she really shows us who she is when he says a man doesn't deserve a woman's phone number unless he buys drinks not only for her and their friends but pays their bar tab as well. That my friends is called prostitution. Fuck this bitch is retarded.
JS
Monday, October 17, 2011
Eben Pagen (David Deangelo) Wedding Vid WTF ?????????
Holy fucking shit this is weird!!!!!
Check out this video of David D getting married, in the WEIRDEST wedding vows ever!!!
David D gets married
I was going to break it down vow by vow like the Zapruder film, but instead I'm going to just cover some of my highlights.
First off it seems like Eben wrote these vows himself as if they were the marketing materials for some sort of hippy-fag program on relationships.
Secondly, this is the weirdest thing I've ever seen. I also showed it to a few girls I know and they confirm that they would have been creeped out enough to leave the ceremony.
Some highlights:
I vow to protect your solitude... Really isn't that kinda the opposite of a wedding vow??
What is that all white outfit Eben is wearing? Is this some sort of Bollywood movie that's just waiting for a dance ending?
That chick is beat. May we have a moment of silence for the idea that David D got hot chicks.
Why did they bring up their sex lives in their vows? It's almost like they were trying to convince me they actually have boney, nerdy, extremely pale sex with each other.
We will facilitate, momentous, opportunities to actualize... I don't even know what that means,
Their love is a crucible for evolution as well as conscious art. And here I just thought this was some rich asshole getting married.
Why am I not surprised that they mention Burning Man here, thus furthering my theory that Burning Man is for assholes.
Anyway what did you think of David D's wedding?
JS
Check out this video of David D getting married, in the WEIRDEST wedding vows ever!!!
David D gets married
I was going to break it down vow by vow like the Zapruder film, but instead I'm going to just cover some of my highlights.
First off it seems like Eben wrote these vows himself as if they were the marketing materials for some sort of hippy-fag program on relationships.
Secondly, this is the weirdest thing I've ever seen. I also showed it to a few girls I know and they confirm that they would have been creeped out enough to leave the ceremony.
Some highlights:
I vow to protect your solitude... Really isn't that kinda the opposite of a wedding vow??
What is that all white outfit Eben is wearing? Is this some sort of Bollywood movie that's just waiting for a dance ending?
That chick is beat. May we have a moment of silence for the idea that David D got hot chicks.
Why did they bring up their sex lives in their vows? It's almost like they were trying to convince me they actually have boney, nerdy, extremely pale sex with each other.
We will facilitate, momentous, opportunities to actualize... I don't even know what that means,
Their love is a crucible for evolution as well as conscious art. And here I just thought this was some rich asshole getting married.
Why am I not surprised that they mention Burning Man here, thus furthering my theory that Burning Man is for assholes.
Anyway what did you think of David D's wedding?
JS
Friday, October 14, 2011
Don't be Jealous-Be Happy for others.
File this under advice it took me awhile to be able to use.
One of the biggest problems I see with guys mindsets is the idea of jealousy. Most guys when they see someone else who is more successful than they are, get jealous or they look for reasons to justify why someone else has something they don't.
Instead of doing this, it's much easier and healthier to just be happy for that person. By "blessing" that which you want you send a mental signal that says it's ok to have that thing, and also it allows you to let go of any negative emotions you mat be hanging on to that are getting in the way of your own happiness.
So the next time you see some guy you know is no better than you with a girl you're attracted to, instead of torturing yourself trying to come up with the reasons she likes him, be happy for that guy and take it as inspiration that anything is possible.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
One of the biggest problems I see with guys mindsets is the idea of jealousy. Most guys when they see someone else who is more successful than they are, get jealous or they look for reasons to justify why someone else has something they don't.
Instead of doing this, it's much easier and healthier to just be happy for that person. By "blessing" that which you want you send a mental signal that says it's ok to have that thing, and also it allows you to let go of any negative emotions you mat be hanging on to that are getting in the way of your own happiness.
So the next time you see some guy you know is no better than you with a girl you're attracted to, instead of torturing yourself trying to come up with the reasons she likes him, be happy for that guy and take it as inspiration that anything is possible.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Meet Girls- Volunteer
Just a quick thought I wanted to post today.
A great and overlooked place to meet girls is through doing volunteer work usually with animals or children.
Since I hate children, I volunteer at a dog rescue place in a very expensive part of LA by the ocean and have met several attractive and legitimately sweet girl to hook up with from there.
I also get to play with dogs and not have to take them home with me, which is a side benefit as I'm way too irresponsible to have a pet.
So there you go, check out some charities you could volunteer for in your city nad you'll end up meeting a lot more women.
JS-The King Of Content
A great and overlooked place to meet girls is through doing volunteer work usually with animals or children.
Since I hate children, I volunteer at a dog rescue place in a very expensive part of LA by the ocean and have met several attractive and legitimately sweet girl to hook up with from there.
I also get to play with dogs and not have to take them home with me, which is a side benefit as I'm way too irresponsible to have a pet.
So there you go, check out some charities you could volunteer for in your city nad you'll end up meeting a lot more women.
JS-The King Of Content
Wednesday, October 05, 2011
My new favorite website
So as obsessed as I am with The Dirty.com I have found a new website that makes me just as happy as I laugh and feel superior to others :)
It's called Is Anyone Up, and basically is a place where you can submit nudes of people or yourself and people will comment on them.
So basically like Thedirty without the pink hearts.
I find it hysterical but it could very well be because I'm a sick person :)
Check it out at Is Anyone up?
Word
JS
It's called Is Anyone Up, and basically is a place where you can submit nudes of people or yourself and people will comment on them.
So basically like Thedirty without the pink hearts.
I find it hysterical but it could very well be because I'm a sick person :)
Check it out at Is Anyone up?
Word
JS
Monday, October 03, 2011
Final Boarding Call For Destination Girlfriend
Just a quick reminder that today is the LAST DAY
to register for my life-changing Destination:
Girlfriend Coaching Program.
Registration closes at at Midnight Pacific Time
TONIGHT.
So if you want to get in on this you need
to act now. Here's the sign-up link:
Destination GF
In this program, I'm taking you by the hand and
walking you through the entire process from meeting
your dream girl, and doing all the right things
to make her your girlfriend.
You're going to get detailed explanations
of each component of the process as well as TONS of examples
and strategies of how to use these BRAND NEW
techniques to make your dream girl, your next
girlfriend.
To put in simply, after you go through the program
you will know the EXACT steps you need to take to
begin a long term, meaningful relationship with any girl you’re
attracted to.
You’ll also know how to apply these steps in ANY
situation and in ANY environment.
You get all of this for one ridiculously low
investment.
I mean seriously, how much would it be worth to you to
meet the woman of your dreams and start a meaningful
relationship? Think about
that as you sign up right now:
Just Click Here
Remember, registration is closing TONIGHT!
Talk to you soon,
Jon
Here's the Link
P.S. This is your last chance to get this,
here's the link again so you don't
miss out:
Check it out Here
to register for my life-changing Destination:
Girlfriend Coaching Program.
Registration closes at at Midnight Pacific Time
TONIGHT.
So if you want to get in on this you need
to act now. Here's the sign-up link:
Destination GF
In this program, I'm taking you by the hand and
walking you through the entire process from meeting
your dream girl, and doing all the right things
to make her your girlfriend.
You're going to get detailed explanations
of each component of the process as well as TONS of examples
and strategies of how to use these BRAND NEW
techniques to make your dream girl, your next
girlfriend.
To put in simply, after you go through the program
you will know the EXACT steps you need to take to
begin a long term, meaningful relationship with any girl you’re
attracted to.
You’ll also know how to apply these steps in ANY
situation and in ANY environment.
You get all of this for one ridiculously low
investment.
I mean seriously, how much would it be worth to you to
meet the woman of your dreams and start a meaningful
relationship? Think about
that as you sign up right now:
Just Click Here
Remember, registration is closing TONIGHT!
Talk to you soon,
Jon
Here's the Link
P.S. This is your last chance to get this,
here's the link again so you don't
miss out:
Check it out Here
Friday, September 30, 2011
Replay of Last Night's Girlfriend Training Call
If you missed out on the special Destination:
Girlfriend tele-class that I did last night
you REALLY missed out.
On the call, I gave many never-before-revealed
strategies on how to land an awesome girlfriend...
fast!
The GOOD NEWS is that I recorded the call
and you can listen to the replay of the call
here:
Replay
But the replay will only be available until
this Sunday at midnight.
On the call, we discussed in great detail how
to find, meet, attract and KEEP an awesome
girlfriend.
Get the juicy details here:
Replay
Best,
Jon
P.S. You don't want to miss this awesome training
call.
But you better her though. Because the replay is
coming down this Saturday at midnight.
Girlfriend tele-class that I did last night
you REALLY missed out.
On the call, I gave many never-before-revealed
strategies on how to land an awesome girlfriend...
fast!
The GOOD NEWS is that I recorded the call
and you can listen to the replay of the call
here:
Replay
But the replay will only be available until
this Sunday at midnight.
On the call, we discussed in great detail how
to find, meet, attract and KEEP an awesome
girlfriend.
Get the juicy details here:
Replay
Best,
Jon
P.S. You don't want to miss this awesome training
call.
But you better her though. Because the replay is
coming down this Saturday at midnight.
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Monday, September 26, 2011
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Scripted Qualification
I gave a talk to some of the members of the 12m2m at home program on Monday about the 5 most common intermediate/advanced sticking points.
One of the most important of these sticking points is making sure to use scripted qualification.
What I mean by scripted qualification is that you qualify for the same qualities every time you're interacting with a woman you're attracted to. Not only will this help you to qualify enough, it will also help you screen for women you actually like.
It's also not that hard, all you need to do is turn some qualities you like into qualification statements or questions.
Currently the qualities I qualify for are:
Mean sense of humor
Works out consistently
Is not too involved in the club scene
Is Bi-sexual
and a large qualifying question like " What's your best quality."
By sticking to scripted qualification you have a much greater chance of the girl showing up for a date or leaving with you that night.
Word.
JS-The King Of Content
One of the most important of these sticking points is making sure to use scripted qualification.
What I mean by scripted qualification is that you qualify for the same qualities every time you're interacting with a woman you're attracted to. Not only will this help you to qualify enough, it will also help you screen for women you actually like.
It's also not that hard, all you need to do is turn some qualities you like into qualification statements or questions.
Currently the qualities I qualify for are:
Mean sense of humor
Works out consistently
Is not too involved in the club scene
Is Bi-sexual
and a large qualifying question like " What's your best quality."
By sticking to scripted qualification you have a much greater chance of the girl showing up for a date or leaving with you that night.
Word.
JS-The King Of Content
Monday, September 19, 2011
Evaluating Your Game Quarterly
Hey there,
Quick thought today.
A lot of guys who are intermediate or advanced wonder what they should do now that they actually (GASP) get laid on a regular basis from cold approach.
The answer took me awhile to find as well.
You don't want to continue to read forums, and study game all the time, as that will give you all sorts of contradicting advice and keep you stuck in the "Pick-up" guy stage of your development.
You also don't want to stop looking at your game objectively either. Some guys become delusional after being able to get laid consistently. You still have sticking points even if you get laid.
SO the solution is to re-evaluate your sticking points at set intervals. I like to do it quarterly. So every 3 months when it's time to get my car checked up and go to the Dr, I also take a look at what I think my sticking points are and what I can do to fix them. Then I focus on that for a little while until I fix the problem. Repeat 4x a year and you'll always improve without being a weirdo.
Word,
JS-The King Of Content
Quick thought today.
A lot of guys who are intermediate or advanced wonder what they should do now that they actually (GASP) get laid on a regular basis from cold approach.
The answer took me awhile to find as well.
You don't want to continue to read forums, and study game all the time, as that will give you all sorts of contradicting advice and keep you stuck in the "Pick-up" guy stage of your development.
You also don't want to stop looking at your game objectively either. Some guys become delusional after being able to get laid consistently. You still have sticking points even if you get laid.
SO the solution is to re-evaluate your sticking points at set intervals. I like to do it quarterly. So every 3 months when it's time to get my car checked up and go to the Dr, I also take a look at what I think my sticking points are and what I can do to fix them. Then I focus on that for a little while until I fix the problem. Repeat 4x a year and you'll always improve without being a weirdo.
Word,
JS-The King Of Content
Wednesday, September 14, 2011
Friday, September 09, 2011
Have the good sense to dislike people who don't like you back.
Short blog post today.
As I get older, one of the things I've realized is that not everybody is going to like you, no matter what you do.
When applying this to pickup it means that not all girls you approach will like you and not all girls will respond to texts, calls etc...
So what do you do about this?
You respond in kind.
If a girl doesn't seem interested in talking to me, I'm no longer interested in talking to her. Same thing with the phone if I am always taking the initiative than it's no good and I just stop.
Seriously just stop putting effort into women who aren't putting effort into you and you will be much happier and more successful.
Word.
JS-The King Of Content
As I get older, one of the things I've realized is that not everybody is going to like you, no matter what you do.
When applying this to pickup it means that not all girls you approach will like you and not all girls will respond to texts, calls etc...
So what do you do about this?
You respond in kind.
If a girl doesn't seem interested in talking to me, I'm no longer interested in talking to her. Same thing with the phone if I am always taking the initiative than it's no good and I just stop.
Seriously just stop putting effort into women who aren't putting effort into you and you will be much happier and more successful.
Word.
JS-The King Of Content
Wednesday, September 07, 2011
Flaking Video
Hey Guys,
I've been getting some questions on flaking so I decided to make a quick video to explain what's REALLY going on.
Check it out here:
And if you find yourself in need of more information on Eliminating Flaking Forever check out the Flak Elimination toolkit Here
Best,
JS
I've been getting some questions on flaking so I decided to make a quick video to explain what's REALLY going on.
Check it out here:
And if you find yourself in need of more information on Eliminating Flaking Forever check out the Flak Elimination toolkit Here
Best,
JS
Friday, September 02, 2011
7 Day Positivity Challenge Day 4: Falling off a bit
Yesterday was the hardest day of the challenge so far.
I had a very important meeting pushed back til today and then ended up having to get a lot of busy work done to fill up the day.
My roommate also has some of his friends in town and they are grating on my nerves a little bit...
But on the brightside it is now Friday and after kickboxing and my very important meeting I will be free!!!!!
And it's a long weekend so that means drinking, pool parties and general awesomness.
I'll try to keep updating over the next 2 days but no promises.
JS
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