Hey there,
As I'm sure I've talked about here, game changes as the seasons do.
In fact if you research this very blog, you'll find a horror trove of personal stories about Last Minute Resistance and near misses in between Thanksgiving and New Year's or as I like to call it the least wonderful time of the year.
If you don't understand why this happens I'll break it down succinctly.
During the holiday rush, not only are girls more likely to get Boyfriends to avoid being alone during the holidays, but they are less likely to go out and are more likely to be super busy with family and holiday obligations. If you want to dig deeper, you can find a lot of evidence to support the idea that humans have a mating season that begins in early spring. Or as the Guidos call it "Pool Season."
Now this shouldn't demotivate you, as much as it should teach you to focus more on your own family and holiday obligations rather than thinking you're going top go out and rack up a ton of lays around the holidays.
Word.
JS- The King Of Content
Monday, November 29, 2010
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Happy Thanksgiving
Hey,
Hope you're all having a great Turkey day.
Be back next week, probably 10LBS heavier.
Word.
JS
Hope you're all having a great Turkey day.
Be back next week, probably 10LBS heavier.
Word.
JS
Thursday, November 18, 2010
If Only...
A lot of people live in a world of ifs.
If only they got that one special girl, then everything would be perfect in their lives.
If only they were rich, or famous, or tall, or whatever.
Often times people apply ifs in relationships. If only my baby's mom wasn't a porn performer, if this girl I like didn't have a boyfriend, if my new girlfriend wasn't a party girl that goes out 6 nights a week.
Ifs don't usually work out.
When students come to me with questions about ifs, I always reply the exact same way.
"That'd be nice, huh?
Ironically, this is the same thing I say to girls when they ask me to change or commit :)
It would be nice if things were different, and everything worked out the way you wanted it to all the time.
But unfortunately that only exists in Super-Happy-Funland.
Not reality.
In reality, part of being mature and taking personal responsibility for your actions is letting go of these if fantasies and looking at the World in a realistic manner.
Once you stop looking for ifs, then you can start focusing on finding solutions to the problems you're trying to wish away.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
If only they got that one special girl, then everything would be perfect in their lives.
If only they were rich, or famous, or tall, or whatever.
Often times people apply ifs in relationships. If only my baby's mom wasn't a porn performer, if this girl I like didn't have a boyfriend, if my new girlfriend wasn't a party girl that goes out 6 nights a week.
Ifs don't usually work out.
When students come to me with questions about ifs, I always reply the exact same way.
"That'd be nice, huh?
Ironically, this is the same thing I say to girls when they ask me to change or commit :)
It would be nice if things were different, and everything worked out the way you wanted it to all the time.
But unfortunately that only exists in Super-Happy-Funland.
Not reality.
In reality, part of being mature and taking personal responsibility for your actions is letting go of these if fantasies and looking at the World in a realistic manner.
Once you stop looking for ifs, then you can start focusing on finding solutions to the problems you're trying to wish away.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
Friday, November 12, 2010
Some Thoughts on The Social Network
"You are who you was when you got here."- Jay-Z
I finally succumbed and went to see The Social Network.
One of the reasons I wasn't particularly interested in seeing the movie is that I don't get Facebook. I don't have a personal one, I didn't have a Myspace, and I still don't really understand the desire to see what's going on with 200 people I barely know or went to school with.
Having said that...
The Social Network is really good. It raises some interesting questions about what "cool" is, social hierarchies, and the lengths to which guys will go to try to impress girls.
Let's address these issues one at a time:
What is cool?
Obviously as a dating coach/pua/amateur psychologist I spend a lot of time thinking about what makes someone or something "cool." This whole movie and Facebook's early business plan were based on the idea that if something is "cool" it can eventually become profitable.
The movie also addresses the relationship between something being "cool" and being exclusive. Initially access to Facebook was restricted to those with a Harvard.edu email address.
Which brings up a larger point. The vast majority of people cannot be cool. There's some study that says something like 1 out of every 6 people considers themselves to be "cool."
Which means there's something like a BILLION people who think they're cool. Generally if a billion people think they're all something, it's not going to be a good thing.
Mark Zuckerberg is not cool.
And throughout the movie this point is beaten home again and again. Starting with the amazing opening speech from the girl who inspired Facebook, and culminating in the scene where the twins finally decide they are going to sue him and the nicer one screams out " Let's gut the friggin nerd."
No matter how much he accomplishes, no matter how much money he makes, no matter how successful he becomes, the World will always see Mark Zuckerberg as a nerd.
To me this was an underrated factor in the business behind all of this as Zuckerberg was so focused on keeping Facebook "cool" that he made some questionable personal and professional decisions.
Social Hierarchies- Social Hierarchies are for lack of a better word pecking orders. There are people at the top, in the middle, and on the bottom. People on top are more valuable than those in the middle and so on and so forth.
In the movie the Winklevoss twins represent the "Haves" that group of people who have it all. They're tall, good looking, Harvard men, who row crew and come from a very wealthy and powerful family.
Mark Zuckerberg represents the "Have Nots". Zuckerberg is a nobody who desperately wants to get invited into a secret "Final club".
Director David Fincher does an excellent job of juxtaposing scenes from the first party at one of these secret clubs, with the night Zuckerberg gets drunk and puts up the site that would become Facebook. On one hand we see a bunch of young overpriviledged, popular kids partying it up with rapidly disrobing girls. While in the next scene we watch Zuckerberg describe how he hacks his way into various Harvard related sites.
In a way this idea of hierarchies is related to the idea of "cool." Mark is an outsider and in an attempt to both impress these secret clubs and show up a girl, he created Facebook, which made him rich and famous beyond his wildest dreams.
But he's still an outsider.
The most stunning scene to me happens late in the movie when Rashida Jones who plays an assistant lawyer on Mark's legal team tells him they're going to have to settle. She says something like when a jury looks at you and looks at the Winklevoss' there going to believe you stole their idea, so pay them and it becomes a speeding ticket on the way to where you're going.
While on one hand this can be interpreted as a win for Mark, he still had to pay out something like $65 million dollars because he doesn't look or come across the "right" way to a jury. Which if you strip away all the lawyer speak and drama basically means that juries tend to believe the better looking, more socially put together people over the socially awkward nerd who may happen to be right...
And lastly the lengths to which guys will go to impress girls. I kinda touched on this earlier so to re-cap briefly for those who aren't familiar with the story of the movie ( Not reality as I know many things were changed for the film). Mark creates the site that eventually becomes Facebook after his girlfriend at the time Erica dumps him. Fast forward through the movie and we come to the final scene where Mark sits alone at his computer after being told that he is going to have to settle both lawsuits, and sends a friend request to the same Erica girl.
Now whether or not this actually happened in reality, the point is a salient one. No amount of success, material objects, or sex can fill the holes inside of you. After the newness wears off, we are often left the same person we were when we started out.
While the social hierarchies of the US may not be as rigid as the Caste system of India, we are still trapped by the views, opinions and institutions around us, which more often than we'd like to admit, tell us who we are.
JS
I finally succumbed and went to see The Social Network.
One of the reasons I wasn't particularly interested in seeing the movie is that I don't get Facebook. I don't have a personal one, I didn't have a Myspace, and I still don't really understand the desire to see what's going on with 200 people I barely know or went to school with.
Having said that...
The Social Network is really good. It raises some interesting questions about what "cool" is, social hierarchies, and the lengths to which guys will go to try to impress girls.
Let's address these issues one at a time:
What is cool?
Obviously as a dating coach/pua/amateur psychologist I spend a lot of time thinking about what makes someone or something "cool." This whole movie and Facebook's early business plan were based on the idea that if something is "cool" it can eventually become profitable.
The movie also addresses the relationship between something being "cool" and being exclusive. Initially access to Facebook was restricted to those with a Harvard.edu email address.
Which brings up a larger point. The vast majority of people cannot be cool. There's some study that says something like 1 out of every 6 people considers themselves to be "cool."
Which means there's something like a BILLION people who think they're cool. Generally if a billion people think they're all something, it's not going to be a good thing.
Mark Zuckerberg is not cool.
And throughout the movie this point is beaten home again and again. Starting with the amazing opening speech from the girl who inspired Facebook, and culminating in the scene where the twins finally decide they are going to sue him and the nicer one screams out " Let's gut the friggin nerd."
No matter how much he accomplishes, no matter how much money he makes, no matter how successful he becomes, the World will always see Mark Zuckerberg as a nerd.
To me this was an underrated factor in the business behind all of this as Zuckerberg was so focused on keeping Facebook "cool" that he made some questionable personal and professional decisions.
Social Hierarchies- Social Hierarchies are for lack of a better word pecking orders. There are people at the top, in the middle, and on the bottom. People on top are more valuable than those in the middle and so on and so forth.
In the movie the Winklevoss twins represent the "Haves" that group of people who have it all. They're tall, good looking, Harvard men, who row crew and come from a very wealthy and powerful family.
Mark Zuckerberg represents the "Have Nots". Zuckerberg is a nobody who desperately wants to get invited into a secret "Final club".
Director David Fincher does an excellent job of juxtaposing scenes from the first party at one of these secret clubs, with the night Zuckerberg gets drunk and puts up the site that would become Facebook. On one hand we see a bunch of young overpriviledged, popular kids partying it up with rapidly disrobing girls. While in the next scene we watch Zuckerberg describe how he hacks his way into various Harvard related sites.
In a way this idea of hierarchies is related to the idea of "cool." Mark is an outsider and in an attempt to both impress these secret clubs and show up a girl, he created Facebook, which made him rich and famous beyond his wildest dreams.
But he's still an outsider.
The most stunning scene to me happens late in the movie when Rashida Jones who plays an assistant lawyer on Mark's legal team tells him they're going to have to settle. She says something like when a jury looks at you and looks at the Winklevoss' there going to believe you stole their idea, so pay them and it becomes a speeding ticket on the way to where you're going.
While on one hand this can be interpreted as a win for Mark, he still had to pay out something like $65 million dollars because he doesn't look or come across the "right" way to a jury. Which if you strip away all the lawyer speak and drama basically means that juries tend to believe the better looking, more socially put together people over the socially awkward nerd who may happen to be right...
And lastly the lengths to which guys will go to impress girls. I kinda touched on this earlier so to re-cap briefly for those who aren't familiar with the story of the movie ( Not reality as I know many things were changed for the film). Mark creates the site that eventually becomes Facebook after his girlfriend at the time Erica dumps him. Fast forward through the movie and we come to the final scene where Mark sits alone at his computer after being told that he is going to have to settle both lawsuits, and sends a friend request to the same Erica girl.
Now whether or not this actually happened in reality, the point is a salient one. No amount of success, material objects, or sex can fill the holes inside of you. After the newness wears off, we are often left the same person we were when we started out.
While the social hierarchies of the US may not be as rigid as the Caste system of India, we are still trapped by the views, opinions and institutions around us, which more often than we'd like to admit, tell us who we are.
JS
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
Attraction Life Rafts
Hey there,
I got a lot of feedback on the last post on relationship patterns, I might post some more about that if there's interest in the upcoming weeks.
Today I want to talk about the concept of Attraction Life Rafts(ALR).
An Attraction Life Raft is a tactic, technique or routine you can use when things are not going well and you need to get back on the right track.
Here's a few of my favorite Attraction Life Rafts:
1. Tease. This is the best ALR, as it's pure emotional communication. Furthermore, you would be SHOCKED by how many guys don't tease girls at all when they are talking to them. When in doubt find something to make fun of about the girl.
2. Cold Reads. Cold Reads are great because they can create intrigue in a conversation. The next time, you're not doing well try saying " I have an intuition about you.." and following up with a cold or warm read.
3. Social Questions. These won't actually cause attraction, but they will buy you some time to come up with something attractive to say. Social Questions are pure placeholders like " Who are you shopping for today?"
4. Pumping Buying Temperature. Buying Temperature is simply emotional stimulation. The more you can pump the girls emotions, by making them laugh, giving them nicknames, singing, picking them up and spinning them around and other such nonsense the more emotional fluidity you get and that can be turned into attraction.
5. Switch it up. If the girl(s) are not going for your attraction game, try switching it up with comfort, qualification, rapport, vulnerability or ANYTHING else. One of the biggest issues guys have when they're talking to girls is an inability to adapt to what the girl is responding to.
So that gives you some ideas of things you can do when you're talking to a girl and you can tell you need to re-capture(or create) some attraction before moving on.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
I got a lot of feedback on the last post on relationship patterns, I might post some more about that if there's interest in the upcoming weeks.
Today I want to talk about the concept of Attraction Life Rafts(ALR).
An Attraction Life Raft is a tactic, technique or routine you can use when things are not going well and you need to get back on the right track.
Here's a few of my favorite Attraction Life Rafts:
1. Tease. This is the best ALR, as it's pure emotional communication. Furthermore, you would be SHOCKED by how many guys don't tease girls at all when they are talking to them. When in doubt find something to make fun of about the girl.
2. Cold Reads. Cold Reads are great because they can create intrigue in a conversation. The next time, you're not doing well try saying " I have an intuition about you.." and following up with a cold or warm read.
3. Social Questions. These won't actually cause attraction, but they will buy you some time to come up with something attractive to say. Social Questions are pure placeholders like " Who are you shopping for today?"
4. Pumping Buying Temperature. Buying Temperature is simply emotional stimulation. The more you can pump the girls emotions, by making them laugh, giving them nicknames, singing, picking them up and spinning them around and other such nonsense the more emotional fluidity you get and that can be turned into attraction.
5. Switch it up. If the girl(s) are not going for your attraction game, try switching it up with comfort, qualification, rapport, vulnerability or ANYTHING else. One of the biggest issues guys have when they're talking to girls is an inability to adapt to what the girl is responding to.
So that gives you some ideas of things you can do when you're talking to a girl and you can tell you need to re-capture(or create) some attraction before moving on.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
Monday, November 08, 2010
Relationship Patterns
Relationships tend to happen in patterns,and believe it or not we all have a pattern, whether or not we realize it.
Now I don't want to get all Dr Phil on you here and start talking about why we go through these patterns.
There's some evidence to suggest a lot of different reasons:
Some people would say that we go through a pattern until we realize what we're doing and correct the mistake. I call this the Groundhog day school of dating. Keep making the same mistake and hopefully eventually you fix it. Not the best answer.
The more fatalistic among us believe that we go through patterns because everything happens for a reason.
Optimists believe it's to bring you closer to the person you're supposed to end up with in the end. It's a nice sentiment, but it only applies if you actually do fix your pattern and end up with someone happily ever after...
Whatever the reason, you may find yourself going through a pattern you're not happy with. Most people whether they want to believe it or not go through dating patterns they're not happy about. Think about the girl who dates jerks or the rich guy who dates gold diggers.
You may find yourself dating the wrong kid of woman over and over again.
You may find yourself getting too serious too quickly and then resenting your committed relationship.
Hell, you may even find yourself getting into relationships and then cheating.
I'll give you some examples to further explain what I mean.
I used to have a friend who would get into REALLY intense relationships with girls, where the L word was being thrown around very quickly, his life turned into a co-dependent mess very quickly. When these relationships would inevitably end(because you MUST have separate lives to succeed in a relationship) he would be devastated before meeting a new girl and beginning the entire process all over again.
My best friend Raine has a pattern, she dates a girl she can control entirely. Whenever the girl attempts to stand up for herself or tries to change the relationship,Raine threatens to end the relationship, which leads said girl back to Raine in fear of being alone. Wash-Rinse-Repeat for the 10 years I've known Raine.
My other friend Nicole, has not been single for one day since we were Sophmores in High School. She meets a guy, dates him, makes him her boyfriend, and then cheats on him with a guy who becomes her next Boyfriend.
And it wouldn't be fair to put all these people I know on blast, without talking about my own pattern. I fall for extremely inappropriate and oftentimes emotionally unavailable women; Bitchy girls, Party Chicks, women who aren't sure if they're gay or straight. Somehow I win them over, and it's amazing until I remember that I work as a Pick Up Artist and that I don't want a girlfriend. I start intentionally pushing the girl away. Eventually the girl decides that she's not happy "being with you one day out of 6" and moves on. At which point if there really was a connection there, I decide that I really was in love with her, usually based off of very biased memories of the good times. Cue a usually half assed and self absorbed attempt to get back together, and I end up back where I started out.
The point of this post is to get YOU the reader to look at your own relationships, not as things that happen to you. But as things that we have a control over, both positively and negatively.
If anything this post should inspire you to look back on your past relationships, from a different perspective.
By stepping back and taking an objective look at your past with women, you will learn a lot about yourself. Most likely, it will be things you don't want to know. It might seem kind of masochistic, but it's only by understanding where we have gone wrong in the past, that we'll be able to make different and better choices going forward.
Don't be like one of my friends from the examples. One day I confronted this person about their pattern. I gave them a complete run down on what I had watched happen with a variety of people they'd had relationships with over a fairly long period of time. I was rational and non-judgemental with my analysis. I also stuck to the facts, the actual chaos brought into this person's life because of the kind of relationships they had.
Long story short, we're no longer friends and this person is still having the exact same kinds of relationships.
As Edmond Burke famously said, " Those who don't know history, are destined to repeat it."
JS-The King Of Content
Now I don't want to get all Dr Phil on you here and start talking about why we go through these patterns.
There's some evidence to suggest a lot of different reasons:
Some people would say that we go through a pattern until we realize what we're doing and correct the mistake. I call this the Groundhog day school of dating. Keep making the same mistake and hopefully eventually you fix it. Not the best answer.
The more fatalistic among us believe that we go through patterns because everything happens for a reason.
Optimists believe it's to bring you closer to the person you're supposed to end up with in the end. It's a nice sentiment, but it only applies if you actually do fix your pattern and end up with someone happily ever after...
Whatever the reason, you may find yourself going through a pattern you're not happy with. Most people whether they want to believe it or not go through dating patterns they're not happy about. Think about the girl who dates jerks or the rich guy who dates gold diggers.
You may find yourself dating the wrong kid of woman over and over again.
You may find yourself getting too serious too quickly and then resenting your committed relationship.
Hell, you may even find yourself getting into relationships and then cheating.
I'll give you some examples to further explain what I mean.
I used to have a friend who would get into REALLY intense relationships with girls, where the L word was being thrown around very quickly, his life turned into a co-dependent mess very quickly. When these relationships would inevitably end(because you MUST have separate lives to succeed in a relationship) he would be devastated before meeting a new girl and beginning the entire process all over again.
My best friend Raine has a pattern, she dates a girl she can control entirely. Whenever the girl attempts to stand up for herself or tries to change the relationship,Raine threatens to end the relationship, which leads said girl back to Raine in fear of being alone. Wash-Rinse-Repeat for the 10 years I've known Raine.
My other friend Nicole, has not been single for one day since we were Sophmores in High School. She meets a guy, dates him, makes him her boyfriend, and then cheats on him with a guy who becomes her next Boyfriend.
And it wouldn't be fair to put all these people I know on blast, without talking about my own pattern. I fall for extremely inappropriate and oftentimes emotionally unavailable women; Bitchy girls, Party Chicks, women who aren't sure if they're gay or straight. Somehow I win them over, and it's amazing until I remember that I work as a Pick Up Artist and that I don't want a girlfriend. I start intentionally pushing the girl away. Eventually the girl decides that she's not happy "being with you one day out of 6" and moves on. At which point if there really was a connection there, I decide that I really was in love with her, usually based off of very biased memories of the good times. Cue a usually half assed and self absorbed attempt to get back together, and I end up back where I started out.
The point of this post is to get YOU the reader to look at your own relationships, not as things that happen to you. But as things that we have a control over, both positively and negatively.
If anything this post should inspire you to look back on your past relationships, from a different perspective.
By stepping back and taking an objective look at your past with women, you will learn a lot about yourself. Most likely, it will be things you don't want to know. It might seem kind of masochistic, but it's only by understanding where we have gone wrong in the past, that we'll be able to make different and better choices going forward.
Don't be like one of my friends from the examples. One day I confronted this person about their pattern. I gave them a complete run down on what I had watched happen with a variety of people they'd had relationships with over a fairly long period of time. I was rational and non-judgemental with my analysis. I also stuck to the facts, the actual chaos brought into this person's life because of the kind of relationships they had.
Long story short, we're no longer friends and this person is still having the exact same kinds of relationships.
As Edmond Burke famously said, " Those who don't know history, are destined to repeat it."
JS-The King Of Content
Friday, November 05, 2010
Stop Focusing On What You're NOT...
Hey,
As the year is winding to a close and we take on a new group of coaching students, I'm always interested in the way guys think as they're just getting started with improving this part of their lives.
This year the thing that really stood out to me, was how much these guys are focused on what they are not.
They're not tall enough, or they're too technical, or introverted.
Everyone has their weak areas, but if that's all you focus on, all you're going to find is excuses. Part of the process of becoming a more attractive person, involves figuring out what your strong areas are.
I may not be 6'4 like some guys or sexy, or really rich like others, but I am funny, and observant, and I understand women really well.
Furthermore, I never focus on what I'm lacking. I don't worry about it, as for the most part it's out of my control.
You can't control your skin color, or your height, or the particular blend of neuroses you have. But you can control whether or not you allow your so called "limitations" to affect your relationships with women.
JS-The King Of Content
As the year is winding to a close and we take on a new group of coaching students, I'm always interested in the way guys think as they're just getting started with improving this part of their lives.
This year the thing that really stood out to me, was how much these guys are focused on what they are not.
They're not tall enough, or they're too technical, or introverted.
Everyone has their weak areas, but if that's all you focus on, all you're going to find is excuses. Part of the process of becoming a more attractive person, involves figuring out what your strong areas are.
I may not be 6'4 like some guys or sexy, or really rich like others, but I am funny, and observant, and I understand women really well.
Furthermore, I never focus on what I'm lacking. I don't worry about it, as for the most part it's out of my control.
You can't control your skin color, or your height, or the particular blend of neuroses you have. But you can control whether or not you allow your so called "limitations" to affect your relationships with women.
JS-The King Of Content
Wednesday, November 03, 2010
The Return to Blogging
Is coming Fri.
I have some really good new posts for you.
Until then I'll leave you with a quote from Eminem
" Everybody's in a rush to try to touch the throne, I just get on the mic and try to set the tone, I ain't trying to use nobody as a stepping stone, but don't compare me I'm better off just left alone..."
JS- The King Of Content
I have some really good new posts for you.
Until then I'll leave you with a quote from Eminem
" Everybody's in a rush to try to touch the throne, I just get on the mic and try to set the tone, I ain't trying to use nobody as a stepping stone, but don't compare me I'm better off just left alone..."
JS- The King Of Content
Friday, October 29, 2010
It's Live...
Hey guys,
The Guru Black Book by Brad Jackson and Bill
Preston has just gone live. And because I
believe that this is such an incredible
product, I've put together an AMAZING,
exclusive bonus package for you:
Bonus
If you've ever struggled to get the success
with women you want or just felt "stuck"
in your current situation, then the Guru Black
Book is a perfect fit for you because it's
a comprehensive system that shows you EXACTLY
how to blast through the things that are
holding you back the most.
It's a true shortcut to massive success with
women.
For further details and to check out my
HUGE $591.00 bonus package for the first 50
people to get the Guru Black Book through
my link, go here:
Bonus
Best,
JS
The Guru Black Book by Brad Jackson and Bill
Preston has just gone live. And because I
believe that this is such an incredible
product, I've put together an AMAZING,
exclusive bonus package for you:
Bonus
If you've ever struggled to get the success
with women you want or just felt "stuck"
in your current situation, then the Guru Black
Book is a perfect fit for you because it's
a comprehensive system that shows you EXACTLY
how to blast through the things that are
holding you back the most.
It's a true shortcut to massive success with
women.
For further details and to check out my
HUGE $591.00 bonus package for the first 50
people to get the Guru Black Book through
my link, go here:
Bonus
Best,
JS
Monday, October 18, 2010
Approach Anxiety = Cardio
Quick post today as I'm jammed up with work for the Beyond Seduction Event which is now sold out!!
I just got back from a Kickboxing workout and I realized how much easier kickboxing is if you don't smoke cigarettes all weekend. This was after last week where I needed 5 minutes just to get up after sparring.
What I noticed last week was that as the training went on during the week (and I refrained from the cigarettes) the cardio was less tiring.
Which leads me to the following.
Most guys make the mistake of assuming that approach anxiety is like some sort of virus that can be completely eliminated with the right magic elixir of beliefs, experience, etc...
This is flat out wrong.
Instead you want to think about Approach Anxiety as if it's cardiovascular fitness.
The more of it you do (meaning approaching) the easier it is. The less of it you do, the harder it becomes.
Even for me, if I don't talk to anyone for a few days, I can feel the same difficulty in making the push to start again.
So stop looking for a magic pill, and instead take step everyday to improve your ability to deal with Approach Anxiety as opposed to looking to eliminate it entirely.
JS
I just got back from a Kickboxing workout and I realized how much easier kickboxing is if you don't smoke cigarettes all weekend. This was after last week where I needed 5 minutes just to get up after sparring.
What I noticed last week was that as the training went on during the week (and I refrained from the cigarettes) the cardio was less tiring.
Which leads me to the following.
Most guys make the mistake of assuming that approach anxiety is like some sort of virus that can be completely eliminated with the right magic elixir of beliefs, experience, etc...
This is flat out wrong.
Instead you want to think about Approach Anxiety as if it's cardiovascular fitness.
The more of it you do (meaning approaching) the easier it is. The less of it you do, the harder it becomes.
Even for me, if I don't talk to anyone for a few days, I can feel the same difficulty in making the push to start again.
So stop looking for a magic pill, and instead take step everyday to improve your ability to deal with Approach Anxiety as opposed to looking to eliminate it entirely.
JS
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Free Teleseminar: " 5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game"
Hey guys,
Sorry I didn't get this to you yesterday afternoon as pomised
(I was having some difficulties getting in touch with my
webmaster), but here's the announcement I was talking about...
On Thursday, October 14, I'm hosting a no-charge teleseminar
entitled,
"5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Day Or Less... And
Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It... No Matter Where
You Are Right Now!"
On this special teleseminar, you're going to learn ALL NEW
information that I have not revealed to anyone outside of my
private coaching groups. Here's some of what we'll cover:
* A little-known secret that explains why some guys get
good fast while other guys struggle for years. When you apply
this secret, you'll take literally YEARS off you're learning curve.
I promise!
* A special technique for eliminating Approach Anxiety in the
shortest time possible!
* How to start getting CRAZY results with women (threesomes,
10 minute lays, Same Day Lays, etc.) as quickly as possible! It may
seem hard to believe now, but these kinds of results are WELL within
your reach!
* The secret of Inner Game/Out Game Symmetry (Once you master
this, you'll find yourself automatically talking to more women and your
results will skyrocket!)
* My BRAND NEW method for crushing any "sticking point" you
have in record time! (Trust me, when you apply this method your
progress will never be halted ever again!)
* And MUCH more!
Here's the link to register:
Call
See you on the call!
JS
P.S. I only have 250 lines reserved for the call and they're expected
to fill up fast. So be sure to register right away:
Call
Sorry I didn't get this to you yesterday afternoon as pomised
(I was having some difficulties getting in touch with my
webmaster), but here's the announcement I was talking about...
On Thursday, October 14, I'm hosting a no-charge teleseminar
entitled,
"5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Day Or Less... And
Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It... No Matter Where
You Are Right Now!"
On this special teleseminar, you're going to learn ALL NEW
information that I have not revealed to anyone outside of my
private coaching groups. Here's some of what we'll cover:
* A little-known secret that explains why some guys get
good fast while other guys struggle for years. When you apply
this secret, you'll take literally YEARS off you're learning curve.
I promise!
* A special technique for eliminating Approach Anxiety in the
shortest time possible!
* How to start getting CRAZY results with women (threesomes,
10 minute lays, Same Day Lays, etc.) as quickly as possible! It may
seem hard to believe now, but these kinds of results are WELL within
your reach!
* The secret of Inner Game/Out Game Symmetry (Once you master
this, you'll find yourself automatically talking to more women and your
results will skyrocket!)
* My BRAND NEW method for crushing any "sticking point" you
have in record time! (Trust me, when you apply this method your
progress will never be halted ever again!)
* And MUCH more!
Here's the link to register:
Call
See you on the call!
JS
P.S. I only have 250 lines reserved for the call and they're expected
to fill up fast. So be sure to register right away:
Call
Monday, October 04, 2010
Why I Don't Speak At Most Summits
WOW!!!!
This is HYSTERICAL!
If you want to see Professional Speakers and actually learn something
Beyond Seduction
JS- The King Of Content
1000th Post!
Well, we're finally here.
I woke up this morning knowing that I had to write my 1000 post today. I had promised you all a juicy story rife with pick up drama and "dickcrack".
But you know what?
I'm not feeling it.
I just don't really care about stuff that happened like 2 years ago and involved a motley crew of sociopaths and aspiring sociopaths.
So instead, I'm going to reflect on some of the things I've learned from having this blog for almost 4 years!!!
1. I never planned on blogging. Or even really wrote field reports or documented my life with women or pick up until I started the blog October 29th 2006.
2. I HOPE my writing has evolved a bit. I didn't look back before I started writing this, for fear of getting lost in a storm of typos and strange sentences.
3. Never write for comments. In the same post you will have people that say the post was the best thing since sliced bread(which it wasn't) and the worst thing since the plague(Also not true). Writing for an audience forces you to stop listening to what they say in order to be true to yourself.
4. My blog has caused a decent amount of drama in my real life and is invariably how women I'm dating, find out what I do.
5. For the most part I enjoy writing the blog and try to come up with different "takes" on dating. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail. But I'd like to think, I'm always at least interesting.
6. Haters are a sign you're doing something right. The only people who never get hated on, are the ones who never say anything.
7. It amazes me the details some people know about me, simply from reading this blog over the years. As Slug of Atmosphere fame once wrote " I think my fans understand me better than my friends do, because my friends don't pay that much attention. The Fans memorize every single sentence, which should make them far too smart to ever start a friendship."
8. Sometimes it is ALMOST impossible for me to find something interesting to write about pickup that I haven't already said. Multiple times.
9. This whole community and all the intensity and feelings that can happen within it, including this blog, all go away if you turn off your computer :)
10. There are definitely posts I am proud of writing on this blog, and some ones I wish would go away.
11. I have zero credibility when it comes to talking about places I would NEVER live. So far I've trashed LA, Miami, and NY on the blog and afterwards have lived in all 3. Don't trust me when it comes to my opinions on cities. Everything else AWESOMELY credible :)
12. I think throughout this blog, I've stayed pretty much the same person. I may have changed little perspectives or ideas, and my philosophy about pickup has made a 180 degree shift, but I think I've stayed really true to who I am. As Sarcastic and whiny as that person may sometimes be :)
13. I think I'm over "The Community". I don't mean I'm done teaching or writing this blog or anything like that, I'm just over keeping up with what's happening with other teachers and methods etc... I get how the whole thing works now, and don't need outside influences on y thought processes.
14. I've gone through a lot of relationship changes during the time I've written this blog. Friendships started and ended. Relationships, worked, failed and then worked again. Some of it's recorded here, but most of it I moved off the blog. I need some privacy still.
15. It takes a certain kind of ridiculous individual to have 1000 blog posts on a pickup blog.
Ok, first 1000 posts down, next 1000 to go.
Thanks for reading and I'll continue to try to bring you the best content, mixed with my unique brand of ridiculousness.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
I woke up this morning knowing that I had to write my 1000 post today. I had promised you all a juicy story rife with pick up drama and "dickcrack".
But you know what?
I'm not feeling it.
I just don't really care about stuff that happened like 2 years ago and involved a motley crew of sociopaths and aspiring sociopaths.
So instead, I'm going to reflect on some of the things I've learned from having this blog for almost 4 years!!!
1. I never planned on blogging. Or even really wrote field reports or documented my life with women or pick up until I started the blog October 29th 2006.
2. I HOPE my writing has evolved a bit. I didn't look back before I started writing this, for fear of getting lost in a storm of typos and strange sentences.
3. Never write for comments. In the same post you will have people that say the post was the best thing since sliced bread(which it wasn't) and the worst thing since the plague(Also not true). Writing for an audience forces you to stop listening to what they say in order to be true to yourself.
4. My blog has caused a decent amount of drama in my real life and is invariably how women I'm dating, find out what I do.
5. For the most part I enjoy writing the blog and try to come up with different "takes" on dating. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail. But I'd like to think, I'm always at least interesting.
6. Haters are a sign you're doing something right. The only people who never get hated on, are the ones who never say anything.
7. It amazes me the details some people know about me, simply from reading this blog over the years. As Slug of Atmosphere fame once wrote " I think my fans understand me better than my friends do, because my friends don't pay that much attention. The Fans memorize every single sentence, which should make them far too smart to ever start a friendship."
8. Sometimes it is ALMOST impossible for me to find something interesting to write about pickup that I haven't already said. Multiple times.
9. This whole community and all the intensity and feelings that can happen within it, including this blog, all go away if you turn off your computer :)
10. There are definitely posts I am proud of writing on this blog, and some ones I wish would go away.
11. I have zero credibility when it comes to talking about places I would NEVER live. So far I've trashed LA, Miami, and NY on the blog and afterwards have lived in all 3. Don't trust me when it comes to my opinions on cities. Everything else AWESOMELY credible :)
12. I think throughout this blog, I've stayed pretty much the same person. I may have changed little perspectives or ideas, and my philosophy about pickup has made a 180 degree shift, but I think I've stayed really true to who I am. As Sarcastic and whiny as that person may sometimes be :)
13. I think I'm over "The Community". I don't mean I'm done teaching or writing this blog or anything like that, I'm just over keeping up with what's happening with other teachers and methods etc... I get how the whole thing works now, and don't need outside influences on y thought processes.
14. I've gone through a lot of relationship changes during the time I've written this blog. Friendships started and ended. Relationships, worked, failed and then worked again. Some of it's recorded here, but most of it I moved off the blog. I need some privacy still.
15. It takes a certain kind of ridiculous individual to have 1000 blog posts on a pickup blog.
Ok, first 1000 posts down, next 1000 to go.
Thanks for reading and I'll continue to try to bring you the best content, mixed with my unique brand of ridiculousness.
Best,
JS-The King Of Content
Friday, October 01, 2010
This is AMAZING!!!
Some guy, started a website called Mrs Lebron Wade, where he chronicles Lebron and Dwayne's "marriage" with photoshopped pics and hilarious articles.
My guess is he's a Cavs fan.
Check it out at
MrsLebronWade.com
Also it's 6 days til my Bday, so if you know me in real life and want to remain friends, go present shopping or at least wish me a happy Bday next Thursday. Otherwise you will be cut like a barber. Ask anyone who forgot last year, that I stopped talking to :)
Have a great weekend!
JS-The King Of Content
My guess is he's a Cavs fan.
Check it out at
MrsLebronWade.com
Also it's 6 days til my Bday, so if you know me in real life and want to remain friends, go present shopping or at least wish me a happy Bday next Thursday. Otherwise you will be cut like a barber. Ask anyone who forgot last year, that I stopped talking to :)
Have a great weekend!
JS-The King Of Content
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Don't Be Captain Save a Ho Part Deux
I was reading my Real Housewives book (Don't judge) and I came across a perfect quote from Simon that illustrates the allure certain kinds of damaged women, especially those with high sexual confidence can have on men.
" She was a challenge for me. I'm in the car business and I was basically a closer, and I know a lot about psychology. But even with all the ability I have as a closer, she's the only person in the world I cannot use it on. IT'S NOT THAT I DON'T WANT TO. IT'S LIKE SHE HAS KRYPTONITE."
First of all, how funny is it that he calls himself a Closer. Seriously, you know what I think of when I think of the term "closer"? Kyra Sedwick from that TV show they ALWAYS advertise during the NBA playoffs.
Secondly if you ever find yourself trying to get a girl to change who she is or feel like you need to use psychology or "game" to win some sort of power struggle in a relationship, you're a sociopath.
and lastly if you find yourself comparing a girl's resistance to you to that of Kryptonite I.E the only substance that can harm FRICKIN SUperman, you may want to re-evaluate things.
Just sayin,
JS- The King Of Content
" She was a challenge for me. I'm in the car business and I was basically a closer, and I know a lot about psychology. But even with all the ability I have as a closer, she's the only person in the world I cannot use it on. IT'S NOT THAT I DON'T WANT TO. IT'S LIKE SHE HAS KRYPTONITE."
First of all, how funny is it that he calls himself a Closer. Seriously, you know what I think of when I think of the term "closer"? Kyra Sedwick from that TV show they ALWAYS advertise during the NBA playoffs.
Secondly if you ever find yourself trying to get a girl to change who she is or feel like you need to use psychology or "game" to win some sort of power struggle in a relationship, you're a sociopath.
and lastly if you find yourself comparing a girl's resistance to you to that of Kryptonite I.E the only substance that can harm FRICKIN SUperman, you may want to re-evaluate things.
Just sayin,
JS- The King Of Content
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Strategy Based Game
Last week, I wrote about volume based game and some of the pros and cons of that style of meeting women.
Today, I want to talk about the opposite of volume based game, which is strategy based game. Unfortunately, I don't have a really cool Basketball analogy for this type of game :(
Strategy based game applies both to cold approaches, how you set up your life, and getting specific types of girls. Strategy based game is also your best shot at getting a specific girl that's already in your life(friends, co-workers). Strategy based game goes beyond simply using tactics and techniques. Strategy based games generally follow a set of rules and a basic overall strategy.
For example:
Mystery Method proposes a strategy of approaching groups, befriending everyone except the girl you are attracted.
Promoter Game is composed of the strategy of offering women a VIP experience in clubs, then letting the social proof and authority of your positioning create attraction.
Breakthrough Comfort is another strategy based game that focuses on creating love.
One of the pros of a strategy based approach are that it allows you to focus specifically on one girl or type of girl.
Another positive is that it gives you a specific set of actions and strategies to follow and usually a way to track your progress.
The cons of strategy based game is that it takes a lot of focus and energy. Generally strategy based game takes A lot longer as you are trying to go though a full process. Some people can also become dogmatically tied to a specific strategy as I was with Mystery Method for awhile.
In general it's not a good idea to become too attached to any strategy and instead become able to adapt to whatever is necessary in a situation.
JS- The King Of Content
Today, I want to talk about the opposite of volume based game, which is strategy based game. Unfortunately, I don't have a really cool Basketball analogy for this type of game :(
Strategy based game applies both to cold approaches, how you set up your life, and getting specific types of girls. Strategy based game is also your best shot at getting a specific girl that's already in your life(friends, co-workers). Strategy based game goes beyond simply using tactics and techniques. Strategy based games generally follow a set of rules and a basic overall strategy.
For example:
Mystery Method proposes a strategy of approaching groups, befriending everyone except the girl you are attracted.
Promoter Game is composed of the strategy of offering women a VIP experience in clubs, then letting the social proof and authority of your positioning create attraction.
Breakthrough Comfort is another strategy based game that focuses on creating love.
One of the pros of a strategy based approach are that it allows you to focus specifically on one girl or type of girl.
Another positive is that it gives you a specific set of actions and strategies to follow and usually a way to track your progress.
The cons of strategy based game is that it takes a lot of focus and energy. Generally strategy based game takes A lot longer as you are trying to go though a full process. Some people can also become dogmatically tied to a specific strategy as I was with Mystery Method for awhile.
In general it's not a good idea to become too attached to any strategy and instead become able to adapt to whatever is necessary in a situation.
JS- The King Of Content
Monday, September 27, 2010
Don't Be Captain Save a Ho!!!
Yes, I admit I just wanted to somehow work the phrase Captain Save a Ho into a blog post.
Sue me :)
I'm writing this after watching the drama unfold recently with my not in real life but Television friends Simon and Tamra Barney of Real Housewives Of Orange County fame.
Apparently he threw a dog leash at her and now he's been arrested for domestic abuse.
First of all, no one should ever throw things at women. It's childish and shows just how insecure you actually are.
But...
Clearly when these two met, Tamra had a past and was a little bit of a party girl. She had a basically fully grown son she had at 20 and listed her hobbies as day drinking. I'm not saying she's a bad person, but you can't expect to turn that kind of girl into a doting, obey everything I tell you to do, housewife.
As Snoop Dogg and Dr Dre clearly rapped on the seminal Chronic 2001 album, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife."
You may be wondering how this affects you dear reader... I'm glad you asked.
Most of you who read this blog are aware of why it's a bad idea to obsess about one particular girl, especially when she doesn't seem to be interested. In the SUISC this is commonly referred to as one-itis. Generally the horrible advice that is given to you is to go fuck ten other women (GFTOW). While this can work for some guys, it doesn't actually do anything to get rid of the emotions.
Now on the same tangent, let's say you do manage to hook up with that one special girl that you think will make your life totally complete. Except, it turns out that she also has a fully grown son from another marriage, and shows no signs whatsoever of slowing down her partying.
What do you do?
Do you look at the situation realistically and assess the pros and cons of staying with such a woman?
Or
Do you do what most guys (Including Simon Barney) do and simply shrug your shoulders and say " Well she's hot!"
If you're 99% of the population (Basically anyone who isn't me) you go with the emotions of how good it feels to finally get with that girl and you end up in relationships with people who you are not compatible with.
The moral here is that you CANNOT save people from themselves. People don't change until they are ready to do it on their own, and no matter how much you love someone or believe that if they could just fix this or stop doing that things will be perfect changes that fact. It's human nature.
So I implore you to look at all women realistically regardless of how attractive they are,how much you have built them up in your mind to be perfect, or how much work you have put in to pursuing her.
Or you can end up in divorce court.
Your choice.
JS-The King Of Content
Sue me :)
I'm writing this after watching the drama unfold recently with my not in real life but Television friends Simon and Tamra Barney of Real Housewives Of Orange County fame.
Apparently he threw a dog leash at her and now he's been arrested for domestic abuse.
First of all, no one should ever throw things at women. It's childish and shows just how insecure you actually are.
But...
Clearly when these two met, Tamra had a past and was a little bit of a party girl. She had a basically fully grown son she had at 20 and listed her hobbies as day drinking. I'm not saying she's a bad person, but you can't expect to turn that kind of girl into a doting, obey everything I tell you to do, housewife.
As Snoop Dogg and Dr Dre clearly rapped on the seminal Chronic 2001 album, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife."
You may be wondering how this affects you dear reader... I'm glad you asked.
Most of you who read this blog are aware of why it's a bad idea to obsess about one particular girl, especially when she doesn't seem to be interested. In the SUISC this is commonly referred to as one-itis. Generally the horrible advice that is given to you is to go fuck ten other women (GFTOW). While this can work for some guys, it doesn't actually do anything to get rid of the emotions.
Now on the same tangent, let's say you do manage to hook up with that one special girl that you think will make your life totally complete. Except, it turns out that she also has a fully grown son from another marriage, and shows no signs whatsoever of slowing down her partying.
What do you do?
Do you look at the situation realistically and assess the pros and cons of staying with such a woman?
Or
Do you do what most guys (Including Simon Barney) do and simply shrug your shoulders and say " Well she's hot!"
If you're 99% of the population (Basically anyone who isn't me) you go with the emotions of how good it feels to finally get with that girl and you end up in relationships with people who you are not compatible with.
The moral here is that you CANNOT save people from themselves. People don't change until they are ready to do it on their own, and no matter how much you love someone or believe that if they could just fix this or stop doing that things will be perfect changes that fact. It's human nature.
So I implore you to look at all women realistically regardless of how attractive they are,how much you have built them up in your mind to be perfect, or how much work you have put in to pursuing her.
Or you can end up in divorce court.
Your choice.
JS-The King Of Content
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Volume Based Game- The Allen Iverson Approach
I've been trying to clarify some thoughts I'm having on different ways guys meet girls.
So far I've pared everything down to the idea that there are volume based ways of meeting girls and strategy based ways to meet a specific girl/type of girl.
To illustrate what I'm talking about, I get to use a basketball analogy! Hooray!
When it comes to basketball, most uneducated fans look simply at the scoring numbers a player puts up. So if you look strictly at statistics, you would come to the conclusion that over the last 4 years Zach Randolph of the Memphis Grizzlies has been the best power forward in the league. This is because he is the ONLY player in the league to average at least 20 pts and 10 rebounds a game over that time.
What you would be missing is that Zach has been stuck on TERRIBLE teams for the last four years and as a result has ended up taking more shots, getting more rebounds and playing more minutes than he would on a successful team. He is successful only because of the situation which allows him to take a lot of shots and get a lot of rebounds, but doesn't actually lead to team success or championships.
Zach is what's known around the league as a volume scorer. Meaning that when he takes a lot of shots, he scores a lot of points. When his opportunities are reduced, so is his success...
Now how in the world does that apply to meeting women?
Most guys who get good with girls use the volume based approach. This is ESPECIALLY true with other instructors. In fact I would go so far as to say that most other instructors only get laid when they have approached upwards of 20 women in a night. I've personally watched and counted during SEVERAL bootcamps with various instructors from at least 3 different companies over the years.
They are playing a kind of numbers game.
Approach enough women and no matter what you look like or how good your game is, someone will want to sleep with you eventually.
The positives of the volume based approach are that you (should) learn that rejection is not a big deal. This is one of the golden lessons of pick up that guys want to avoid. By doing a large number of approaches you desensitize yourself to the rejection that is a part of the game.
However, a purely volume based approach has some issues.
1. Volume based approaches help you get girls, they don't help you get a specific girl or a specific type of girl. If you're a complete loser with girls (as I was 7 years ago) then you should start with a volume based approach in order to start getting experience. Once you've got that experience you want to really refine what you are looking for and start tailoring your approaches to a specific type of girl you really like.
2. Volume based game takes time. It takes all night to approach 20 different girls or groups of girls unless you're terrible and the approaches all last less than 5 minutes.
3. Volume based game takes energy and a lot of "work". If you're reading this you probably know how lazy I am. While I have approached 20 girls in one night or day, the only way you're getting me to do this now is with a gun to my head (or money). You work really hard when your game is based on how many women you approach as opposed to a more strategy based type of game.
So that brings us to the end of this article and brings up our next topic; Strategy based game.
Tomor I'll have an article for you on that topic.
We're on a 23 and a half hour break,
JS-The King Of Content
So far I've pared everything down to the idea that there are volume based ways of meeting girls and strategy based ways to meet a specific girl/type of girl.
To illustrate what I'm talking about, I get to use a basketball analogy! Hooray!
When it comes to basketball, most uneducated fans look simply at the scoring numbers a player puts up. So if you look strictly at statistics, you would come to the conclusion that over the last 4 years Zach Randolph of the Memphis Grizzlies has been the best power forward in the league. This is because he is the ONLY player in the league to average at least 20 pts and 10 rebounds a game over that time.
What you would be missing is that Zach has been stuck on TERRIBLE teams for the last four years and as a result has ended up taking more shots, getting more rebounds and playing more minutes than he would on a successful team. He is successful only because of the situation which allows him to take a lot of shots and get a lot of rebounds, but doesn't actually lead to team success or championships.
Zach is what's known around the league as a volume scorer. Meaning that when he takes a lot of shots, he scores a lot of points. When his opportunities are reduced, so is his success...
Now how in the world does that apply to meeting women?
Most guys who get good with girls use the volume based approach. This is ESPECIALLY true with other instructors. In fact I would go so far as to say that most other instructors only get laid when they have approached upwards of 20 women in a night. I've personally watched and counted during SEVERAL bootcamps with various instructors from at least 3 different companies over the years.
They are playing a kind of numbers game.
Approach enough women and no matter what you look like or how good your game is, someone will want to sleep with you eventually.
The positives of the volume based approach are that you (should) learn that rejection is not a big deal. This is one of the golden lessons of pick up that guys want to avoid. By doing a large number of approaches you desensitize yourself to the rejection that is a part of the game.
However, a purely volume based approach has some issues.
1. Volume based approaches help you get girls, they don't help you get a specific girl or a specific type of girl. If you're a complete loser with girls (as I was 7 years ago) then you should start with a volume based approach in order to start getting experience. Once you've got that experience you want to really refine what you are looking for and start tailoring your approaches to a specific type of girl you really like.
2. Volume based game takes time. It takes all night to approach 20 different girls or groups of girls unless you're terrible and the approaches all last less than 5 minutes.
3. Volume based game takes energy and a lot of "work". If you're reading this you probably know how lazy I am. While I have approached 20 girls in one night or day, the only way you're getting me to do this now is with a gun to my head (or money). You work really hard when your game is based on how many women you approach as opposed to a more strategy based type of game.
So that brings us to the end of this article and brings up our next topic; Strategy based game.
Tomor I'll have an article for you on that topic.
We're on a 23 and a half hour break,
JS-The King Of Content
Monday, September 20, 2010
# 994- The Beyond Seduction Event is Live!
Hey there,
Good Monday to ya.
I have a bunch of thoughts today, but I also have about 10 mins before I have to leave for Kickboxing, so I will have a lot of posts this week for ya including my thoughts on volume based game versus quality based game.
I may even make a video to explain it.
But in the meantime I wanted to remind ya that the Beyond Seduction Event is live now and you can STILL get a free 30 minute strategy session with me (a $250 value) as well as the Beyond Seduction Starter pack (a $147 value, not available anywhere else) if you sign up by Midnight tonight.
You also get a HUGE price break.
Sooo meander on over to Beyond Seduction and sign up.
Or you'll never get laid ever again!!!!!
Just Kidding.
Or am I?
JS- The King Of Content
Good Monday to ya.
I have a bunch of thoughts today, but I also have about 10 mins before I have to leave for Kickboxing, so I will have a lot of posts this week for ya including my thoughts on volume based game versus quality based game.
I may even make a video to explain it.
But in the meantime I wanted to remind ya that the Beyond Seduction Event is live now and you can STILL get a free 30 minute strategy session with me (a $250 value) as well as the Beyond Seduction Starter pack (a $147 value, not available anywhere else) if you sign up by Midnight tonight.
You also get a HUGE price break.
Sooo meander on over to Beyond Seduction and sign up.
Or you'll never get laid ever again!!!!!
Just Kidding.
Or am I?
JS- The King Of Content
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
What Is Game (Video)
Hey,
I just put a short video that talks about what "game"
really is.
In the video, I talk about the THREE things that
will make you ultra-succesful with women.
Check out the video here:
Video
Talk to you later,
JS
I just put a short video that talks about what "game"
really is.
In the video, I talk about the THREE things that
will make you ultra-succesful with women.
Check out the video here:
Video
Talk to you later,
JS
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