The War On The Game: You CAN"T fix Asshole!

Happy Fuck Neil Strauss Day to all of you!

Today's video might be my personal favorite, so grab some popcorn and a soda and sit back to enjoy why you can't fix asshole, featuring our first contribution to the videos from a member of the Fuck Neil Strauss Army.

Enjoy and leave a comment if you're feeling it or not.

JS-The King Of Content

80-20 rule with approaching

The second part of The Secret Society post is taking a longer than I expected but it will be more than worth it.

So today I want to write a quick post explaining something I think is very important to understand in order to get realistic results with women it's my version of the 80-20 rule or Pareto principle.

It goes like this; When approaching strangers about 10% of all women you approach will not like you no matter what you do. Oftentimes this has to do with factors outside of your control such as blood type, or the fact that you remind her of a guy who date raped her in college. Happens to everyone. On the other side of this 10% of women you approach will like you no matter what you do. This doesn't mean you're necessarily going to get laid, but the girls will be into you right away and it's up to you not to screw up.

Which leaves a whopping 80% of women you approach who will be neutral or slightly less than interested. This is where tactics and techniques come in to play, and why we learn pickup. If you get good enough you should be able to get all of those women attracted to you and then filter through to the situations that are actually worthwhile.

This should help you reframe the entire approaching process in terms of success as you at least have a chance at with 9/10 women you approach.

JS-The King Of Content

Updating The Secret Society Part 1

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The War On The Game: The Book Ain't EVEN good...

Hey there,

If it's Monday, it means we're smashing Neil Strauss' fake ass persona.

This video deals with how even his book sucks.



JS

The Becca Mistake

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The War On The Game: Neil Strauss Sucks With Women!

Happy Monday!

I swear I wake-up early and amped up just because I get to smash on Neil every Monday.

This week we're looking at some of the prized conquests of Mr Neil Strauss, specifically a certain washed up over the hill 40 year old band member no one's ever heard of.

Enjoy,and leave a comment.

JS-The Leader of the war on the Game and Neil Strauss

The Most Unrealistic Student Ever

Now I've surely heard it all dear readers.....

Yesterday I had a phone appointment with a guy who was interested in getting some phone coaching.

He told me his biggest sticking point was approach anxiety unless he got eye contact or was with a group of friends and then I asked him what his goals were for the next 3-6 months and he said and I quote:

" I want to sleep with 3 or 4 NEW girls a week."

To which I replied

" So you want to sleep with 12 new girls a month? That's like a 144 new girls a year? Do you think I sleep with 144 new girls a year? Cause I don't. No one does besides maybe some rock-stars. And a lot of them bang whores."

Followed by me attempting to explain that when you have approach anxiety(Like this guy did) it's impossible to go from that to sleeping with 3 to 4 new women a week in the 3-6 month time frames our coaching programs run for, before telling him he was not a good fit for the program and hanging up on him.

Then I called Rob Judge to vent, since no one outside the community could even comprehend the type of weirdness I deal with every day before noon.

Yeesh.

I always say this, but you HAVE to be realistic if you want any chance at success. You also have to understand that you can't bridge the gap between being a guy who doesn't approach and being a guy who gets laid a lot without doing a lot of work in between.

Hope that helps some people out there or at least makes the weirdo student re-assess his goals. Weirdo!

JS

Prompting BF Objections in Day Game

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The War On The Game and a 2 sentence LR

Yo,

Sorry I'm late with the video!

Shit has been CRAZY today...

Before I get to the vid, for those asking I did sleep with the girl with good game, and then she told me she was still gonna bang other dudes.

Which ironically is totally ok with me, as she's a cool chick and I'm not looking for a girlfriend. She is not however super hot or possessed of a magical pussy as some insinuated. But the quickest way to get Jon interested in something is telling him a stupid reason (Like age) why he can't have it.

Here's the Neil vid:



Oh yeah and FUCK NEIL STRAUSS!

JS-The General of Content

Happy Easter!

Hey Guys,

I may fuck with a few bad apples here and there on the blog, but I do appreciate MOST of you out there who read this blog daily and help make it the most successful Pick Up Blog on the net.

So thanks and have a great holiday!

JS-The King Of Content

Yes!

So none of my real life friends appreciate this and I no longer really talk to most pick up guys, so I have to post this here.

I've been "talking to" this girl for a few weeks now and she has REALLY good girl game.

She keeps baiting me and pulling away and going sexual and pulling away...

Back and forth like a chess game for 3 weeks. Which is obviously why i can't explain this stuff to my normal friends because they would be HORRIFIED at the level of game playing each of us is doing despite texting each other 20-30 times a day.

And I'm not the only pulling game.

Already she's already put me in the friend zone, told me she doesn't date guys under 30 and sent me naked pictures all within like 2-3 days. Not to mention both us mentioning being out with "friends" or being at some girl/guy's house...

And so it's gone every day for 3 weeks until today when I totally checkmated her into coming over later tonight for drinks.

Advantage: Jon.

JS

Empathy and Pickup

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Stop Taking it Personally.

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Neil Strauss is a Liar! War On the Game III

Yo, yo...

Here's another video where I break down a time Neil Strauss lied to my face, for no reason whatsoever other than being a sociopath.

Neil Strauss = Sociopath and pathological liar.

That's math.



Leave me lots of comments psychoanalyzing me, I always get a chuckle out of those :)

JS-The General

Gold Diggers and Distant Fathers.

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Don't get your panties in a twist...

Regular blog updates will still happen every Wed and Fri.

The War On Neil Strauss stuff is happening every Monday.

JS

The War On The Game Part 2: When I knew Neil Strauss was Scum

What up bitches!

Still at war, don't worry you're pretty little hater heads about that.

Check the video.

The War On The Game

This not a FUCKING joke!

Jon's gonnna give it to ya Neil, fuck waiting for you to get comeuppance on your own.

Nah, Jon's gonna deliver it to ya.

Enjoy the video:




Fuck Neil Strauss as a guy, company, staff, and a crew. And if you wanna be down with Neil Strauss, then fuck you too!

JS- The Leader of the War on Neil Strauss and The Game.

The War Starts Monday...

For those of you wondering why I haven't been talking shit about anyone lately...

It's because I've decided to devote it all towards the one person most responsible.

Be sure to be here Monday for the declaration of war.


JS-The King Of Content ( and shit talking)

Recommended Reading: The Shallow Man

The Shallow Man was recommended to me by Rick H, in Australia a few years ago.

He said it was his favorite book of all time and explained why he moved to Eastern Europe...

With that much of a build up, I thought how could you go wrong.

The Shallow Man is very interesting, if ultimately a bit of a juvenille fantasy. The long and the short of it is this; Nick Laws is a modelizer/club promoter/hand model. He spends his days and nights in pursuit of what he calls "Thing" AKA models. In the book, we meet Nick right before his life gets turned upside down, which actually has him considering dating GASP a civilian...

There's a lot of interesting ideas in the book about Beautiful women, and if you've ever partied in NYC, you'll be amazed by how accurately the author (who I'll address in a moment) describes the social scene.

The Shallow Man is a short read, and is for the most part pretty entertaining. It doesn't present anything even resembling real life pick ups, but the character of Nick Laws is an interesting one if for nothing else than his mindset about beautiful women and his way with words.

Now about the author... Last year on the realhousewives of NYC, Countes Luann went on one of the most awkward dates of all time, with a creepy, bulging eyed, guy with no game named Coerte.



During one of the most awkward scenes ever he tried to kiss her multiple times unsuccessfully with his lizard like tongue. To say I was unimpressed with his game would be an understatement. But one of my older "game mentors" in NYC told me that around 10-15 years ago the guy was a famous womanizer in the city and actually did throw one of the best parties around. So who knows...

If you're looking for a fun read that is slightly informative and will make you think about beautiful women from a different perspective, check out the Shallow Man.

What Emotions Do You Live In?

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#s and Pick-Up

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Test 1 thing at a time!

Short post today.

This piece of advice actually comes from my biggest game mentor Captain Jack.

It's the idea that when you are changing things about your game, you need to focus on one thing at a time.

He gave me this advice years ago when I had decided to shave my head, change my dressing style and start going direct all at once which had caused a big drop off in my results.

I was looking at the small details of what I was doing as opposed to looking at the overall effects a dressing and hairstyle change had along with a completely new way of talking to girls.

I went back to my old way of approaching until I got used to the new way girls reacted to my clothes and hair and then started practicing direct again with great success.

So if you're changing a gazillon things about your game when you get started, you need to stop and look at which 1 change you want to work on first and then systematically integrate everything else later.

Word.

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My 2 Lists I always tell people to make

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Fashion Don'ts For Pick-Up

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Taking A Break

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Choose Your Own Beliefs

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Review: The 4 Elements Of Game

I don't read very many pick up products anymore.

Not because I think I have everything figured out, but I think I have it figured out better than 99% of the guys teaching and I tend to just get annoyed when forced to listen to 3 hours of a hick who moved to Hollywood drone on about navy seals and playing checkers as opposed to chess.

I do however really enjoy Rob Judge's writing over at TSBmag and I think he's one of the better "new guys" so to speak who have been getting attention lately, so when I found out he had a book, I was anxious to read it.

When reading it, I felt like I was hearing someone else say the same things I'm always telling guys when it comes to becoming a more attractive person. Even though me and Rob have NEVER met and probably haven't spoken more than 10 times on the phone.

I really like Rob and Zach's idea of seeking the truth from an interaction with a woman. All you're trying to do when you approach is figure out what the truth is about what will happen. This is a great mindset for guys to adopt and it's gels nicely with my idea of approaching being either fun or boring.

Anyone whose read my stuff over a long period of time knows I consider myself shameless when it comes to hitting on girls so the section on Shamelessly overcoming obstacles to your drive or masculinity was right up my alley. I think overall guys like Rob and Zach are able to capture the idea behind being a sexually motivated guy who wants to learn How To Get Laid without coming off creepy like the creepy students who tell girls they're trying to get in their pants after the opener.

My favorite part of the book was related to escalation. In the book the guys write that the girl is the "pacer" of the interaction. Which is something I've been trying to articulate for years. You can escalate as hard and as fast as you want, but the interaction will only go as fast as the girl allows it.

Often times I'll even tell girls this during last minute resistance by saying something like

" Look I'm really super attracted to you, but I don't want to do anything to creep you out, so clearly I want to have sex with you, but I only want to go as far as you're comfortable."

That last paragraph incidentally along with pre-framing is what ended my terrible LMR problems 2 years ago.

The Bad: I did not like the layout of the book. I felt the way the Field reports were inserted around the text led me to lose my place a few times throughout the process. Also some field reports were directly related to the point the book was making around it while others were less directly connected and thus less relevant in my mind.

Who this book is for ? : Any guy who wants to brush up their attraction game would be well advised to pick up a copy of The 4 elements to game. Especially if you have ALREADY seen The Natural Attraction DVD, this book will really help you cement those ideas in place by giving you a whole different set of words to describe the same things thus giving a second and different perspective. Also if you want to brush up on your attraction game or start to move towards a more natural style The 4 Elements of Game is for you.

I really can't recommend the book highly enough based on the price and ease with which you can start to use the stuff in it.

Get it today at: Date Hotter Girls

Word,

JS-The King Of Content

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I'm Retiring????

Hey There,

Although I'm sure there are quite a few people
that wish I'd retire from being a dating and
seduction coach, the rumors you might have
heard about my pending retirement have
been greatly exaggerated.

In fact, Sinns of Attraction is stronger than
ever right now and we have BIG THINGS planned
for 2011 and beyond all related to helping
YOUR reach your dating goals (whatever they
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But I'm sure you know that any time you grow
and move ahead into the future there are
certain parts of your past that you must
let go of and leave behind you.

Because of this, I'm going to be "retiring"
two of my all-time top selling products
this week. The two products that I'm
going to be retiring are:

My REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction DVD
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And...

My Lay Reports Book (Lay Reports Book)

(If you have the urge, DON'T order from the links

above for reasons that I'll explain later in
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Now both of these products are REALLY GOOD
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Because of this, it wouldn't be right for me
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Think of it as my special GIFT to you for
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After we sell out (as I write this I
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I promise that you will be absolutely AMAZED
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Talk to you then,

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Unfreezing Your Self Image

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Why Do You Deserve a 10?

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The Beauty BS

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Winning The Game Part 3: The How?

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Winning The Game Part 2: The Where

On Monday I talked about the concept of winning the game and how it really boils down to answering 3 questions for yourself.

We discussed the first question of " Why are you here?" Monday.

Today I want to move on to the second question you have to answer. Where exactly are you right now?

As I discussed in the first post, most of us do not live in reality. Which is why in NLP they say " The map is not the territory" instead we live in a clouded mess of distortions, deletions, generalization and most of all rationalization.

I've always thought you had to hit rock bottom in order to get the psychological leverage needed to get good. The problem of course with that kind of thinking is that 9/10 students could be at rock bottom and somehow rationalize that they're not really that bad.

You MUST be able to take an honest look at yourself and admit that there are parts of your personality, lifestyle and way you come across socially that are NOT helpful and need to change if you want to actually make progress moving forward.

You cannot improve, until you admit to yourself that you're fucked up.

And oh the ways students run from the truth. My favorite is when they bring up situations that obviously made them uncomfortable and then say they don't care about it. like on my last bootcamp a student mentioned that as he was leaving a group of girls he had talked to pointed at him and laughed. I told him he creeped them out and he should care and he immediately responded " I don't care." Which obviously he did or he wouldn't have brought it up 12 hours after it happened in the seminar room. Or when students tell me their happy with their sex lives. Yeah cause a lot of guys who are happy with their sex lives sign up for 5K programs on getting better with women. If your life has gotten to the place where you felt the need to go online to solicit help from other guys on how to get laid; you are FUCKED UP.

No judgment I was fucked up too, so was every other guru out there, it's just like Alcoholics Anonoymus though admitting you have a problem is the first step to recovery.

JS- The King Of Content

Winning The Game Part 1: The Why?

For a long time now I've been interested in the idea of Long Term Success in pick up. I mean after all I don't want to be 40 years old and still going to the club to do cold approaches like a certain short bald guy who wrote a book.

It probably started for me when I saw that most of the guys I came into pick up with were starting to have kids, settle down, get married etc... And while I'm certainly not here to knock those options(in fact I'll argue soon that for 99% of guys that's the best option) that's not an option for me. It's not where I want my life to go and it wasn't ever going to make me feel like I "won".

So it got me to sit down and re-think about how success is defined in terms of pick up.

In a lot of the stuff you read and hear out there, success is defined by who can sleep wit the most girls, the hottest girls, the hardest situations, but does that actually lead to long term happiness?

I know from personal experience that defining your life by your ability to charm strangers out of their pants leads to all sorts of horrible side effects. So clearly the existing standards are designed for something else( The validation of other guys on the internet and that ephemeral feeling of knowing/being cooler than others if you wanted to know).

So a few years ago I started to reach out to other guys I felt were successful (Brad P and AFC Adam most famously) and I created a PDF for the 12M2M guys called Long Term Success or something like that and it basically said you had to define success on your own terms and most specifically for your life that already exists.

While I think looking back on that 2 years later that's an important part of winning the game, it's not the only part. In fact over the last few years(but especially the last 4 months I lived in phoenix and the last 8 months since I moved) I've made huge strides in understanding how to align everything in your learning process for the most success possible and as a result my game has exploded as well as my inner psychology and lifestyle. But most importantly I finally feel at peace with my goals, game and life, which I never had until the last 6 months or so and I can finally explain how it all happened in this 3 part post.

Winning the game requires answers to a lot of difficult questions, it's definitely not easy but it is fairly simple. In order to win the game, you need to answer 3 definitive questions about yourself.

But obviously you can't just answer these questions, you also need to come up with or learn systems in order to put the information you learn into action.

But when it comes to winning, all you need to know is

WHY are you here? What brought you to a place where you needed to go online and find more information about meeting, attracting and seducing women. Now a lot of guys stop at the surface level. I did for years. "I just want to get laid" I'd say, but I never stopped to wonder why. Why did I want to sleep with at least 4 new girls a month for 2 years in Dallas? Why was I obsessed with new pussy? Etc. We're gonna talk more about the Why in this post.

Where am I now? Where is your life in reality. Most people don't live in reality. They live in their version of reality, which includes all sorts of messed up beliefs, bad habits, lack of goals, an overall plan, living in reaction, chaos, unhealthy lifestyles etc. You have to start where you are. A lot of guys start where they are then once they learn a little bit or get a little success, they warp their view of reality again. You must constantly work to understand where you are in the now.

How do I get there? This is where tactics and techniques come in to play. You need both a map of how you're going to get there(Your goals) as well as systems to implement so you can practice and track improvement.

Today's Lesson: The Why?

The why is possibly the most important of the questions, because inevitably your first why will lead to a second one and a third etc.

I've been saying on bootcamps for years that no one ends up here by accident. Most guys took that to mean just that they had problems with women. But ironically issues with women are usually just symptoms of greater life problems.

You MUST take the shroud of bullshit that we all come up with in our heads down in order to look at yourself honestly, admit something has to change and admit what you want.

A lot of guys really just want a girlfriend but feel pressured by the marketing or other guy's results to attempt to become some sort of player or something. A lot of guys might want to be players but also want to make partner at work or be something like that.

So by asking yourself why you're here, you look at all parts of your life.

Maybe you're here because you spent the last 10 years working on your career and neglecting your social life.

Maybe you're here because you desperately want to lose your viriginity

Maybe it's because you just got out of a relationship

or NEVER get the girl you want

Maybe you just want to get your ex-GF back.

Whatever led you here, ask yourself why you were in that situation.

Chances are that will lead to another situation and another until a pattern starts to emerge which will tell you a lot about why you get the results you do.

Eventually you will find a root cause to most of your problems, as long as you fight the urge to rationalize.

Once you do that, you can begin thinking about solutions, eventually leading to the formulation of goals with the Why in mind.

It is only through goals with the Why in mind that we can begin to make any progress on the where and the how.

JS-The King Of Content

Why Getting Laid Can Sometimes Be The WORST thing for your game...

Ok, now that I have your attention, I want to talk to you about when and how getting laid can actually HURT your overall progress.

If you're familiar with my teaching, you know I harp a lot on the idea of Inner and Outer Game symmetry. Which is a fancy way of saying that you need to improve your inner and outer game evenly, or face consequences.

The most common mistake guys make when it comes to inner/outer game symmetry happens when guys believe they are BETTER than they actually are. Usually this happens because they get some success early on. In fact over the course of 3 years of 12M2M the success rate of guys who got laid on their 1st bootcamp is MARKEDLY lower than that of guys who didn't. With one of those guys being Karl from Chicago who got laid with a cute 20 something in Las Vegas and still to this day swears all cute girls he approaches have boyfriends or only want guys with looks...

The reason is pretty simple, girls want to get laid too. If you go out and approach enough women, you will get laid. It probably won't be with your ideal girl, but you will find a girl who is down if you are willing to go out and approach enough. So sometimes you literally do "Get lucky". Not to say that there is no skill in just not fucking up when you have a girl who is really interested.

The reason this is bad, is that when guys get success too early on with pick up, it goes to their heads. They start to think that it's ALWAYS this easy. Or even worse they start to believe they are REALLY good at pick up before it's true. They instantly forget that they hadn't gotten laid in 2 years before that or that this is like the 3rd time they've ever approached a woman. This leads to a sense of entitlement and a complete bewilderment when they go back to their hometowns and no girls want to sleep with them or even return their calls. This leads to a lot of guys getting mad or saying " This stuff doesn't work" and then eventually giving up because they didn't realize the amount of work necessary to get good at cold approach. They thought it was ALWAYS going to be this easy. Like there is some sort of magic bullet that they just had to learn in a seminar room and then say to a girl.

The thing about pickup is that it is a process. Meaning that there are going to be ups and downs. Sometimes you get those highs early on, and while I think it's important to enjoy those successes and look at the tactical things you did right, you need to keep a balanced perspective about where you actually are. If you just got your first cold approach lay you;re NOT good at cold approach yet. Sorry.

Ironically I think one of the reasons I was able to become as successful as I am was because I went out and did 7 approaches EVERY day for 6 months without any results when I started in 2003. So I got used to the grind of cold approach and therefore wasn't surprised later on when things were tough and results were harder to come by.

So if you have an early success, stay humble, think about what you learned or what you did that worked, but don't get ahead of yourself. Start from the beginning by building a solid base of social skills before you start worrying about more advanced stuff. Even if you got laid on your bootcamp.

JS- The King Of Content

Social Circle Game is A SCAM...

Today I'm kinda pissed off.

Every year there is a new and more pathetic "Magic Bullet"
in the pick up community,that promises to land
supermodels in your bed in 10 seconds
flat with 0 chance of ever being rejected.

One year some jackass in a
top hat says you have to "peacock",
the next year some a**hole tells
you he can teach you how to
NEVER get rejected again..

The latest trend to sweep our
little community is something
called social circle "game",
and it's a complete scam.

First of all how many guys
actually have time to participate
in 4-5 different social circles
or manage a group of 50-60 friends?

Unless you're a 20 something without
a day job or a club promoter, chances
are not many of you...

Secondly, most of us have friends
from years and years ago. These people
already have set images of who you are.
Some of us(like myself) have had some
friends since High school...

You're not going to suddenly transform
yourself and your friends into
a group of pick up navy seals or
some other such ridiculous notion.

And lastly like all the great pick up
scams it promises a quick fix.

Never again will you have to go to a bar
or club,

Never again will you have to approach a
stranger,

Never again will you have to learn to deal with
rejection,

and on and on.

Look let's be real here,

Chances are if you're reading this,
you DON'T have a huge social circle
teeming with attractive women, or the
time to build an elaborate network of
friends like some insecure loser trying
to re-create his glory days from high school.

In fact, chances are you're reading this
because you're not that social of a guy.

And that's ok.

You don't need to have a million
friends or reinvent yourself to be
successful with women. Whether that means
finding that one special girl or dating
around.

What you need to do is stop looking for
"Magic Bullets" like Social Circle game
and focus on becoming a more naturally
attractive person, who understands women
and the process of how sexual relationships
begin.

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

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My Best Technique For Creating Sexual Attraction!

Yo,

I just put up a new video on the blog where
I demonstrate my #1 best technique for creating
sexual attraction with a smoking hot girl!

Here it is:

Sexual Attraction


This seriously might be my BEST VIDEO EVER.

See for yourself: # 1 Secret

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

P.S. In case you haven't watched the first video
in this series yet, it's still up on the blog.

You can watch both of these videos now:

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Seduction Starts At Hello????

Hey,

I just put up a very controversial video and pdf
that shows you how much of what's currently
being taught about dating and seduction is
simply WRONG.

Check it out here:

Seduction Starts At Hello?

JS-The King Of Content

P.S. This one is coming down soon so watch it now
while you still can:

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High Maintenance Girls

High maintenance girls are pretty annoying and hard to deal with.

While not every high maintenance girl is a "10" almost every "10" is high maintenance.

High maintenance girls need a lot of attention. They tend to be the "attention whore" type of girl who need the conversation to be about them and their lives at all times.

High maintenance girls also tend to push for commitment faster. They want to talk more frequently throughout the day, they want to hang out more, they want to know "where this is going?" much faster than your medium or low maintenance girl.

High maintenance girls are generally harder to pick up because of their attention seeking behavior. Even if you're a really cool, high value guy with good game, the girl's insecurities will make it harder to keep her attention initially and succeed with her overall.

If you've ever met a girl who was really into you and then ended up making out with another guy chances are she's high maintenance.

High maintenance girls take forever to get ready, as we covered in my medium maintenance post, and they also tend to be late.

In general high maintenance girls really do believe they are the center of the universe and that they can do whatever they want. Furthermore since a majority of them are attractive A lot of people are willing to put up with their bad behavior.

So how do we recognize high maintenance girls?

1. They are dressed to show sexual confidence. The sexier a girl is dressed, the longer it took and the more time effort and energy she took to attract attention. High Maintenance.

2. They expect things. If a girl tries to make it seem like you're weird for not doing something (whether it's buy her a drink, watch her stuff, go dance) she's high maintenance.

3. If a girl brags about being a snob. If a girl says she only drinks Grey Goose Vodka, or talks about how she doesn't wait in line etc, your high maintenance alarm should start blaring.


Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

Medium Maintenance Girls

Girls who are medium maintenance are really cool. They are in fact the girls you want to date consistently and eventually settle down with( If you're into that kinda thing, I'm emotionally dead so I just like less drama from the girls I fuck.)

These girls generally tend to be really pretty but not the bombshell knockout "10" (whom we'll be discussing Fri). They also tend to have real jobs, families, friends, hobbies, etc to spend their time with.

In my experience medium maintenance girls tend to come from two parent homes or at least have a VERY strong relationship with one(mother or father doesn't matter), if not both parents. This is a key point as a lot of high maintenance girls have daddy/intimacy issues that drive their behavior and need for validation. Which is ultimately what high maintenance behavior is about getting the validation of everyone to make yourself feel better about being you.


Medium maintenance girls have goals even if that goal is simply to bartend and have fun until she meets a guy to settle down with(Hi Liz! miss you and Martini Ranch Scottsdale). Their lives are not filled with an infinite sea of chaos as a lot of high maintenance girls have.

Medium Maintenance girls also tend to have more friends. This is a really big issue because in my personal experience, if a girl can't keep the same "best friend" for more than a few weeks, it's because she's the problem.

Medium maintenance girls tend to take awhile to get ready. They need time to do hair, makeup, try on 3-5 different outfits. But they don't take longer than an hour(on a regular basis! EVERY girl can take an hour depending on what she's going to). That's really the test right there. If a girl consistently takes more than an hr to get ready she is HIGH maintenance.

Medium maintenance girls tend to run what I call "girl" late. Meaning consistently 5-15 minutes but rarely if ever more. Find me a really attractive girl (or person really) who is ALWAYS on time and I'll be glad to meet them. Here's another good test, if a girl consistently keeps you waiting for more than 30 minutes ( even if it's at your house) she's high maintenance.

Medium maintenance girls also seem like they are more sexually open. Meaning that they are willing to discuss sex, their fantasies, turn ons etc. It's much harder to get a high maintenance girl to open up about sex even after you're having sex with her.

So how can you use this stuff in the real world?

1. Ask girls how long it takes them to get ready. This is a great question and was my default opener for years and years.

2. Ignore the con job. Let's face it, when you meet a girl in a club she has her weapons of mass seduction ready. She may have her fake boobs (+2s) out and presented, she's got her horse hair extensions in, she's got her MAC forcefield of makeup on, and you're drinking in a dark club... The more "done up" it seems like a girl is the higher maintenance she tends to be. Note there is an exception if you meet a girl while she's out on a special event like a birthday, bachelorette party, or sorority reunion.

3. Qualify girls for real on what they want to do! The coolest girl I'm seeing now( who I'm already freaking out about, and looking for a way out of the relationship BTW) works in Real Estate and goes to LMU Law School at the same time. We talked about this the night we met. If girl has problems expressing her goals and dreams she's either not into you ( Totally a possibility with the motley crew of readers I have) or she doesn't have these ambitions which makes her a hot girl who likes to go out and get really dressed up so guys give her attention AKA high maintenance.

Ok, Friday I'm going to take my best most feministic stab at talking about high maintenance girls without sounding more than 51% angry and bitter.

Til next time.

JS- The King Of Content.

Girls and Maintenance Pt 1 of 3

The issue of girls and maintenance is a pretty straight forward one.

In fact it is much easier for me to explain my thoughts on this subject than it will be for me to correctly spell maintenance every time in this post.

What is maintenance when it comes to girls?

I'm glad you asked, curly haired kid in the back of the room.

When it is applied to women, maintenance means the amount of time, effort, energy, necessary to keep your relationship with any particular girl from stalling.

Maybe maintenance isn't the most PC term, but that's what I've been calling it for years so it's sticking. Maintenance refers to all the "work" you have to do in order to keep a girl interested and fulfilled on all three levels
( Sexual,Emotional,Intellectual).

In general the amount of maintenance required raises with the level of commitment involved in the relationship.

For example, my biz partner has had a girlfriend for 18 months or so. This past weekend he had to give up his Saturday night to go to her sister's engagement party.

On the other hand, I've been seeing a girl for around 5 weeks(non exclusively) and when she invited me to meet her friends at a bar yesterday I declined without any hassle.

Now in addition to maintenance rising with investment and commitment, some girls also tend to be more maintenance than others.

I have a lot of theories about the different levels of female maintenance and what they say about a woman that I'll be sharing with you this week.

First up:

Low maintenance girls.

Girls who are low maintenance tend to be less attractive in my experience.

Low maintenance girls tend to get ready fairly quickly, avoid dressing up, don't care about where they eat or go out to, and are pretty understanding of any situation.

Basically these girls require less effort to pick up, and maintain relationships with if you have anything going for yourself. If you're a loser, these girls can still be hard to pick up.

Sometimes you'll get an attractive girl who is really low maintenance because she grew up mostly around guys. These girls can be fun for awhile, but tend to be really unstable and age badly as their metabolism catches up with them.

In my next post I'll talk about medium maintenance which is really where the cool girls live.

Talk soon,

JS

Hard Vs Soft Game

I am sick and I hate it!!!!

But luckily for all of you, as I was dazing in and out of consciousness, I decided to write a blog post which is actually a very important distinction for guys wanting to improve with women.

This post will talk about the difference between "Hard" and "Soft" game.

I'm 99% sure that myself or Brad P came up with these terms. I had been teaching it in seminar for awhile but Brad was definitely the first person I saw write about it.

So what is the difference between "Hard and "Soft" game ?

First we have to define these terms.

"Soft" game is what I used to call nice guy game. This involves being interesting, confident, fun, masculine etc... But you are overall being NICE to the girl. You might tease her a little, but you don't disqualify yourself or use Jealousy Plotlines, Take-Aways etc... Soft game should always be your default approach. Most women are nice and if you have your shit together and approach them in a normal way and are interesting, fun, confident, etc you will get attraction. Nice guy game is not the same thing as being boring, leaving awkward silences, being rude, or being overly cocky. It's still game it's just toned down.

" Hard" game is similar to soft game in the focus on being naturally attractive( For those who haven't seen the Natural Attraction DVD() Being Confident, Masculine, Fun and Interesting are the baseline qualities of being naturally attractive. You're not going to do anything to contradict that when you're running "hard" game. But you are going to add some things. "Hard" game is only supposed to be used on girls who are being bitchy or sarcastic. It doesn't really have much to do with the girls looks, rather with how much she's busting your balls or being mean to you. "Hard" game involves using disqualifiers, body language take-aways, regular old take-aways, The Asshole Attitude as I call it, Passing congruence tests, using jealousy plot-lines and of course that mythical relic of days long ago; pawning and merging sets. You definitely don't need to use any of the hard game tactics to get laid. But there are a variety of situations in NIGHTCLUBS and BARS where they come in useful. I don't think I've ever had to use "hard" game during the day time.

So why did I post this when it seems overly elaborate and detail based?

Because in order to truly understand how to have the best possible chance with ANY particular woman ( Not that you(or I) will ever get even close to 100% success) you need to understand what tools work in what situations.

A lot of the time on bootcamps, guys will use techniques that are "Hard" game with girls that are friendly and it blows them out. Then they wonder why that happened when so-so PUA told him that he MUST disqualify every girl within 30 seconds.

The most important factor is the GIRL'S reaction. That's going to tell you how to proceed. First and foremost you need to meet the girl where she is at RIGHT now. If she's being bitchy, you need to show her that you can stand up to her and won't let her be bitchy to you. This is where "Hard" game comes in.

But if she's being nice or sexual or just neutral, it's almost ALWAYS better to use "Soft" game and see what happens.

Hope that helps clarify some things for ya,

J$=The King Of Motha-Fucking Content.

Removing Ego and Sexual Needines from Your Dating Life

Lately I have been cutting girls faster than barbers do.

Any little thing a girl does that goes against what I'm looking for right now:

Multiple low maintenance relationships with girls who are above the Mythical 8.5 line have real jobs that are in no way related to modeling, the club scene, or acting or performance art I.E The unemployed.

Furthermore at the first sign of a push for commitment, I am going to dump the girl and replace her. I am not interested in committed relationships, semi-committed relationships or anything requiring more investment than every other day phone contact and once a week hangouts.

It would also help to like girls as girls who are willing to have 3somes last on average 3.5 months longer than girls who don't ;)

That's it.

So if a girl starts texting too much, she is done.

If a girl starts being flakey or high maintenance. Peace Out.

If a girl starts developing feelings and I can't keep her at a distance. Dumpsvilee population you!

It feels great, right now I'm seeing one girl who works in Real Estate and I've been on one successful date and am in phone contact with another one of these girls who I'm seeing tomor. I also have a date lined up Thursday with a girl from the mall who owns a T-shirt company.

It all started when I met this girl Kristi at the bookstore. It was a really high pressure pickup as she was sitting in a chair in the corner of a seating area with no empty seats nearby. But I pushed through and got a solid number. And I was REALLY proud of that pickup so I REALLY wanted to make it work.

SO I ignored warning signs...

She started texting me so much it became clear she was creating her own Breakthrough Comfort type whirlwind. And I was playing right into it by using the opportunity to text to escalate the interaction. She was also unemployed, sort of had a boyfriend depending on how coy she wanted to play that particular day and described herself as a loner. If she wasn't hot there is 0% chance I wouldn't have cussed her out through text multiple times.

Plus If I can be real...

Audience: Be Real Son!

I wanted to cum on her tits.

She was reallly hot with really great natural tits. But then, after we had sex she FREAKED out. She gave me an ultimatum about 5 minutes after I came because another girl (who is just a friend) texted me.

I gave her my standard speech about how I don't want commitment right now, with my newly added part about Kristen breaking my heart and me not being ready to have feelings for a girl again.

A heartfelt performance if ever one was given.

Yet she stormed out anyway.

I started to go after her, and as I was putting on my clothes I thought:

" What the hell are you doing?"

" You don't want a commitment, this chick is unemployed,sort of has a boyfriend, and is a royal pain in the ass"

So you know what I did?

I stopped.

For the first time since I've been able to get laid, I turned down sex. Well technically I turned down sex without a lot of money being involved in the alternative, but I digress.

Since then I've been rock solidly focused on my goals. If a girl gives me signs that she doesn't fit the VERY specific (as you can tell from that profile above) criteria I have for what is going to make me happy right now, I'm not interested.

So when a girl recently refused to tell me her last name, despite the fact that we had been texting each other for at least a week, I nexted her.

Then a girl told me that "my schedule changes day to day, but if you text me any day you want to hang out I'll see if I can." after ignoring the question about actually getting together, and changing the subject. I texted her that I wasn't interested in that kind of arrangement and she should have a nice life.

I'm not being rude about any of this, in fact looking at it, my partiality for sarcastic digs and humor has probably made this post sound semi-angry when really I've been super nice to these girls the whole way through.

In fact I'm not even disappearing through text or concocting some mythical IRS scare or Relative in the hospital. Instead I'm calmly and sweetly telling them that they are not compatible with what I'm looking for right now.

Then when they ask why, which they all do. I tell them where they fail to live up to my expectations for the women I'm dating.

Honest, straight forward and to the point. No more going on a date just because in my mind there is a 25% chance of getting laid. No more texting girls that make me want to ram my face through a window. No more trying to get club girls attention for more than a night. No more following up with girls I'm not compatible for, because it was "on".

I'm done, out, over with that shit. This is my official break up letter to trying to get laid at all costs.

Feels refreshing, and surprisingly I'm doing better with women than I ever have before.

So I encourage you all to take the ego and the need for the easy lay out of the equation and judge each woman based on how she would impact your life globally. Just because she's hot does not make her a positive addition to your health, wallet or life.

Stay Thirsty my friends,

JS- The King Of Content.

How Many Girls Do You Need To Sleep With? She asked

More.

JS

Having a Creative Outlet

I just finished this book called " The Business of Happiness" by Ted Leonsis who owns the Washington Capitals and Wizards and was a big part of the AOL corporate explosion in the early 2000s.

In the book he outlines 6 different steps to happiness, and one of them is maintaining a creative outlet.

I never really thought about it, but there was some reason that I've been drawn to blogging for almost 5 years now.

Having some sort of creative outlet, not only helps you enjoy your work, have something you can be proud of etc... It also helps you with girls.

Even if the quality of what you produce is TERRIBLE ( like my non pu writing) girls will be interested in seeing what you produce creatively and will be more attracted to you knowing that there is an artistic/creative side to you.

Here's some suggestions for creative outlets

Take photos
Write a blog
Write short stories
Make fun short youtube videos
Paint
Draw
Trace
Build something
learn origami

There's a million things out there you can do to accomplish this, and see positive changes in your life.

JS

Mental Rehearsal

Mental Rehearsal is one of the most powerful tools for working on your game.

This is especially true for guys who can only make it out one or two nights a week.

The way to use mental rehearsal is two fold.

1. Create Drills. Write down the top 10 situations you have problems in with women, and then imagine the various different ways these situations can go. Imagine what you would say to recover when things go badly and what you would say/do to escalate when things go well. This will help you, not only feel more prepared, but will also help you get comfortable with material, new behaviors, etc without the real consequence of rejection. Pussies behind keyboards rejoice, as now you have a perfect excuse for why you never go out. You're visualizing.

2. Visualize yourself achieving your goals. The key here is to think about process, not results. It doesn't help much to imagine having sex with Lisa Ann the porn star, without creating a realistic(at least for your brain) situation in which you met, attracted and seduced her. The way guys screw themselves up with visualization is they simply imagine the result, instead of imagining both the process that led up to the result as well.

Again I want to stress visualization is NOT a substitute for actually approaching women as it is almost impossible to simulate the emotional impact talking to a hot girl can have on any given individual.

That sure sounded scientific at the end.

I'm so fucking smart, and satisfied with myself, I might burst :p

But seriously your success would probably double if you alternately visualized these two scenarios for 10-30 minutes a day every day.

Word.

JS-The King of Content

Year End stuff: Resolutions, Top 10s Etc..

Happy New Year.

Now that all of that holiday crap is over, I wanted to take a few minutes to answer some comments and emails I've been getting about top 10s and resolutions. It's awesome that so many of you want to hear what I have to say about these topics, however as I'll get to in a moment, there are legitimate reasons why i didn't do these lists this year.

So on to the explanations.

1. The Top 10 PUA list. I didn't do one of these because to be completely honest, I stopped paying attention to what other people were doing, around June of last year when an AWFUL program on reading womens minds was released and people went out of their way to promote that absolute garbage. I reviewed a few products that were COMPLETE re-hashing of stuff I already taught, checked out a couple of courses that were just awful and made a personal pledge to STOP hanging out with other guys who teach Pickup. It's nothing personal, as I think some of the guys teaching are good teachers/people. It's just as I move further and further away from the community, I become happier and happier. I still like helping guys who are legitimately dedicated to getting better and willing to change their lives, but I'm done meeting PUAs, hanging out with them, and being concerned about who is "good" and who isn't and being concerned about ANYONE ELSE who works in this industry.

To be more blunt, If 99% of the guys who teach this stuff were on fire, I wouldn't piss to put them out.

In general when deciding on whether someone is worth paying to learn from you can refer to my 3 part analysis from The Game Acceleration Doctrine.

For those who never saw the GAD here they are:

1. Are they willing to demonstrate what they can do. If they're not willing to do approaches in front of you, they're not worth your money.

2. Is there a money back guarantee. Again, anyone who is not scamming you should be willing to give you your money back, if you are unsatisfied.

3. Do they have STUDENTS who are successful. The best guys I've seen with women, are often the worst teachers, so you need someone who has a history of being able to get results for people who are not himself.

Guys I would pay to learn from are: Captain Jack, Brad P, AFC Adam, Future, Rob Judge, Mark Manson.

2. The Top Charlatans. I didn't want to do this one, because again, I'm out of the loop. Plus seduction company charlatans are popping up faster than I can even slam them down with my truth hammer. Basically if anything sounds too good to be true it probably is. If you're realistic and can stop yourself from being blinded by the marketing, hype and desperation to get good at this, you SHOULD be able to figure out what works and what doesn't. If all else fails, you can always do what I did and actually TRY out stuff with real girls to see what works and doesn't for you.

Guys to avoid at all costs: Ross Jeffries, Vin Dicarlo, Thundercat, David Wygant.

3. New Year's Resolutions. One of my New Year's Resolutions was to stop putting personal stuff about my life on this blog. I struggled with this last year, as I LOVE having a creative outlet, but I don't like letting down the 3rd wall between myself and EVERYONE who reads this blog. Over the next year you're pretty much only going to
get dating articles on here as I'm moving all my personal stuff to a new blog which will never be mentioned or linked to ANYTHING involving dating, pickup or seduction.

Hope that clears everything up, sorry for the disappointment.

Actually I'm not sorry, I just don't give a fuck :)

Best

JS- The King Of Content

I'm # 1. Again...

As the DJ Khalid of The Pickup Community, All I do is Win, Win, Win no matter what.

Again I've been voted the # 1 PUA in all the World. Making that back to back selections by TSBmag.com. Making me (I believe) the ONLY back to back winner. Doubt me winning again next year at your own risk...

As always the TSB list is a fun read and I agree with (Almost) everyone on there. It's especially cool to see Rob Judge up there as well as Mark Entropy Manson.

TSB is an awesome resource for guys looking to get better with women, learn more about fashion or just kill some time reading funny articles, links and pics.

Check out the list

Here and be sure to look around the site while you're there.

Thanks to everyone who voted for me, and I look forward to winning this award EVERY year I'm involved in the community.

Word.

JS-The King Of Content

Fuck The Holidays; Fuck Them in Their Fucking Ass- A Rant in the Style of Drew Magary

I hate the Holidays!

Not in a not so funny romantic comedy starring washed up has beens like Vince Vaughn and Reese Witherspoon type of way.

In a now I remember why I left the country two years in a row to get away from this pathetic, capitalist, LAZY, Boring 4 week stretch of slow torturous agony, that runs from Thanksgiving to New Year's Eve.

Oh how I loathe the Holiday season, let me count the ways.

1. Everybody is on vacation... Business hours when things get done have become a thing of the past since around Dec 20th. Leaving people who like to ya know be productive members of society like myself, talking to voicemails and being forced to chill. And I'm not Chris Bosh, I want to work and continue to make things happen, but I'm being forced into inactivity. Grrr.

2. Everything is fucking closed! Fuck, Christmas and Christmas Eve are the Worst. I stocked up at Whole Foods last Thursday like a Somalian refugee. Then was bored to death of eating salads and pre-mades by about 3PM on Christmas day. Not to mention when my roommate and I went to go get some delicious holiday desserts do we wouldn't show up empty handed at various holiday shindigs(Which I'm getting to in a second) we were turned away because it was 3:01 and they closed on 3PM on Christmas Eve. As I stood there kicking the door, and yelling " The children at Clover Elementary will have NOTHING for Christmas". The menial wage employee simply shrugged her shoulders and said and I quote " Mi yob is mi yob." Plus my Kickboxing coach is on vacation and the gym is closed til January 2nd, Yoga classes have been canceled, School is on a break and I am left with few productive options and a lot of time to online shop. A dangerous combination if ever one existed.

3. Family. Families are FUCKED UP. Everyone's is, and if you say any different you're a Goddamned liar. I luckily don't have a family, as much as a network of sociopaths, People who borrow money and don't pay it back, and of course cheating whores. So I avoid this. Unfortunately it is impossible to avoid hearing about about every slapdick and alcoholic in everyone else's family. For the record, I officially DON'T care about your son's first steps, your Grandma whose a racist, or your sister who just bought a new car. Instead please eat shit and die, oh and you look like a dick in that Holiday Sweater.

4. No one goes out. As my boy Pauly D of Jersey Shore fame once said " You can't creep when it gets cold, girls stay in the house." Everyone stays in around the Holidays except for alcoholics, and the girls who were 1 step away from slitting their wrists in the bathtub with a Pink Lady Bic razor. Plus seeing as everything is either closed or empty the TV stations decide to load up on bad movies ( Roadhouse, Cocktail, It's a wonderful life) and forgo new shows. The worst offender being "It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia" which aired last year's Christmas special as this year's season finale. Luckily for them it's the funniest show ever. But still...

5. Gifts. I fucking hate gift giving and receiving. First of all I must smell bad, because it seems like I get about 50 different off brand ass colognes every single year. Secondly it seems like the people I hang out with are either stupid or just don't pay attention as EVERY year I get something I specifically went on a long rant about hating! It's like fucking clockwork. One year it was the movie 8 mile, another gift certificates to a restaurant I hate, this year a girl took me to Cuvee a restaurant I DESPISE as a Christmas gift. I certainly don't hold back my opinions so they're either dumb or not paying attention.

But more than gift receiving, I hate gift giving. First you have to think awkwardly about whether or not the other person will get you a gift, cause let's be honest whether or not you're a nice person, giving someone a gift and not getting one back is a giant kick in the balls or coslopus (if you're one of my 5 female readers). Does anyone get what they really want without asking for it? I doubt it. And let's be real asking for what you want as a gift kinda defeats the whole purpose. I swear now that I'm good financially, I'm gonna just start handing people cash for Christmas; Jack Donaghy style.

6. The Mall is an Atrocity. I consider the mall one of my homes away from home. I hang out, I meet girls, I eat at one of the fine and ever expanding food courts. I try on things I'd never wear and I buy beanies. A good time is had by all. But over the Holidays, my nice little relaxing malls, become the spawn of Satan. You can't park anywhere, the slection of EVERYTHING dwindles down to almost nothing and size 3XXXL Ben Rothlisberger jerseys, and there is a line for ANYTHING you want or have to do. Bathrooms? line. Check out? Line Eat? Line at fucking Sbarro. I like Sbarro but even the brothers that founded that place wouldn't stand in line for it. All in all, I am forced to stay away from my precious malls, which not only hurst me, but them, random women and the US economy.

7. New Year's Eve. Is ANYTHING in the entire world more overrated than New Year's Eve? Any party you go to is going to be expensive, crowded, overhyped and inevitably will fail to deliver. There's a reason one of my suicide attempts was on New Year's Eve, cause it blows Moose Cock. Yes it's a pretty easy night to get laid, but in all honesty, I stayed home the last two NYE's and was SUPER happy. Though last year it was becasue Kristen got hit in the head with a rock at some bar, and was mostly incoherent as I watched hour after hour of The Wire. Seriously if you have the choice between going out to pick up chicks or staying in on NYE I say stay in, cause it's fucking lame.

Fuck the Holidays, Fuck Them in their FUCKING ass!

JS

Happy Holidays...

Is What Communists say :)

Merry Christmas, from your
friends at Sinn's Of Attraction.

And as a token of thanks from
myself, Karen, Ron, Dave, Alex, and Ken,

And Because Although
the holiday season is a great time to
be giving gifts to your friends and family, it's
also a great time to GET cool gifts as well.

So, I've decided to do a special
holiday blow out sale where you can get any of
the products in the Sinns of Attraction catalog
for up to 50% off!

(Make sure you check out the "Mother of All Offers"
where you can get a private, 30-minute coaching
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Check it out at: Limited Time Blowout

This sale ends at MIDNIGHT, ON MONDAY DECEMBER 27TH, so
don't wait!

Best,

JS

P.S. Let's be honest, there's not many gifts that you can
give yourself that are better than "the gift of more
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Holiday Sale

PPS: I'll give a free product to the first
person who emails me with the TV show and
character that my opening quote was from.
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Middle Age Stiffness

Hey guys,

Quick blog post today as I only have 15 minutes til I gotta bounce for a kickboxing 1 on 1 ( Unfortunately for me, the people who teach Kickboxing, have families they want to be around for the holidays so no more training til Jan 2nd. Sad Panda).

But As I was doing my morning stretching/meditation etc... I was reminded of a conversation I had with Kurgan in Vegas a few weeks back.

We were there for the bootcamp and one of our students, who was only in his late 20s was REALLY, REALLY, REALLY stiff. We had a few other guys who were a little older, and they all had the same kinda stiffness in set.

The point is, stiffness is one of the worst attributes you can have for approaching women, it doesn't help you at all, and it's relatively easy to get rid of.

How do you get rid of it?

1. Start stretching. I personally do yoga at least 2x a week, but I'm also addicted to working out and don't have a day job. In the morning when I wake up I go through about 5-10 minutes of stretching to loosen myself up. I'm pretty sure if EVERY guy with stiffness issues just committed 10 minutes a day to stretch before you go to bed and after you wake up, the majority of these issues would disappear.

2. Avoid Catabolic activities. Catabolic activities are ones designed to break the muscle down in order to have it re-grow stronger. Weight lifting, running up hills etc... The older you get (without HGH) the less your body can respond to catabolic activities and the more it's going to respond with stiffness and muscle aches. Which is one of the reasons pro bodybuilders move around so funny, because they have 0 flexibility and a ton of extra weight to drag around.

Anyway if you're an older guy (or a younger guy whose noticed this problem) start stretching for 10 minutes a day and you'll see a much better response from women and people in general.

Off to training for me!

Hope that helps,

JS-The King Of Content

A conversation with God

I was laying on my bed last night when for some reason God decided to speak to me, he kinda sounded like James Earl Jones.

" Jon, Jon, Jonnnnnnnnnn"

What the fuck, I thought, wondering if that weed I bought was a little too good.

" Jonnnn, this is God."

I tried to cover my ears with a pillow but no luck.


" You have a problem? Right? I mean I'm God, I don't just show up at every Tom, Dick and Harry's house to talk about their problems with getting laid too much. So make this quick, I gotta get back before Johnny Carson starts his Tonight Show Heaven version."

He still does the show in Heaven eh? What's gonna happen when Leno dies?

" You think Leno's gonna make Heaven?"


Well, uh, probably not, OK... Yeah I guess I do have a problem. See it's like this God, I'm really good at everything leading up to sex, but everything that happens after is starting to cause me some annoyance.

" Annoyance? Like what you got the HIV?"

No, knock on wood.


" You got the Herp?"

Again, no thank Go... You, I guess.


" Oh let me guess, you knocked up some scummy porn actress chick and she's gonna keep the kid. That's a rough draw.."


No, I didn't knock any Porn chick up! I'm just having a lot of guilt, and I'm thinking maybe this whole me sleeping with all these girls and not committing thing is creating bad karma or something.

" My Karma ran over my Dogma. Lol you gotta admit that's funny!

Puns NEVER get old.

But seriously, that's what you're depressed over? You THINK you might be causing problems for girls who made the choice to sleep with you? They're not even breaking your car windows anymore?


No, but thanks for bringing that up... Are you gonna help me or just judge?


"I mean, don't get me wrong, personally think they're kinda stupid,and they definitely didn't do too well on the decision making part of the SAT, but it's not anything to get all bent out of shape about. I mean it's not like you're forcing them, like all sorts of people in the Bible. So what's the issue? There's at least 6 Billion people I could be talking to with worse lives here..."

So why are you here? I'm sure there's a lot of people that complain about their lives and want you to fix them...

" Well, remember how you used to think I was actually conspiring against you? Like that one November a few years ago where you got Last Minute Resistance from like 8 girls in a row?"

Yeah...

" I might have been messing with you a little, but only with that one girl who flew out to visit you and got her period. And maybe like two others...

So you came here to apologize?

" I'm God, you think I'm gonna apologize to a traveling vagabond pick up teacher?"

So you're here to Gloat????

"I'm here to tell you that you have two choices, you can continue to live the way you do and deal with the negative emotions that are part of all you silly little humans break ups( Even if their just for a night), or you need to change what you're doing. It's pretty simple, but ever since that whole flood misunderstanding, I've found the need to actually spell out what you fuckers need to be doing."

So pretty much stop being a pussy?


" You got it. Good talk."

JS

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Jon

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In Praise Of Kobe Bean Bryant

As we all know the NBA is by far my favorite sport. While I flirt with MMA, and cheat with Football 20 something weeks a year, The NBA will always be where my Heart is.

Soo... With all the Knicks and Lebron talk going on today, it made me realize something.

Long time blog readers brace yourself.

Kobe Bryant may not be that bad...

I know, I thought I was going to be struck by lightning when I typed that last sentence as well.

But honestly, Kobe has been steadily wearing down my hatred since 2008. That was the year that he eschewed surgery on a fractured pinkie, took his game to another level during game 5 of The Spurs series when he single handily and coldy destroyed the Spurs season by himself. And yeah, he played like shit(for a top 10 alltime player) in the Finals against the Celtics but then immediately turned around and became the unselfish(never though those words would be associated with the Mamba) defense stopper and crunch time scorer for The Redeem Team where he again put on his Superman cape and rescued the US with a huge 4 point play in the Gold Medal Game against Spain.

But Kobe wasn't done.

Rather than get healthy during the summer, he worked out with Hakeem Olajuwon adding a ridiculous array of spin moves and up and unders from the post to preserve his body and keep him from having to drive to the basket to score.

Oh yeah, then he won his first championship without Shaq, played another grueling 110 game season. Did he have surgery in the offseason, maybe chill out on a beach? Nope Kobe stayed in the gym, Another 110 games, 7 game winning shots, shoulder and knee injuries, and another championship.

There's no way to compare those numbers to any other guard EVER unless we start to tread on holy ground by comparing him to # 23 from Chicago.

From 2008-2010(and counting) Kobe has been Superman, John Mcclane and Michael Myers all rolled into one. He takes the opponents best shot and keeps moving forward. The bullets bounce off, they throw their guns at him and he still keeps coming. He works harder than everyone else, he NEVER gets hurt, he always shows up, and he remains the most intimidating layer in the league regardless of size. Plus he's still the one player you don't want with the ball in his hand down 1 with 6 seconds to go.

And then there's this whole Lebron debacle.

At the time I wrote something like " Say what you want about Kobe Bryant but he would NEVER do this."

In the era of the instant gratification superstar, where Nike sponsored Superteams pop up in South Florida and guys like Carmelo tell their front office that they'll only sign an extension if they're traded somewhere they can team up with another Superstar, Kobe stands almost alone as a true franchise player who welcomes the pressure of being The Man every night.

On a recent podcast, Bill Simmons said the best part of the decision(purposeful lowercase) was imagining Kobe watching it, shaking his head, calling those guys pussies and heading out for a late workout. I totally agree. Unlike Lebron who fled the first chance he got to play on Dwayne Wade's Miami Heat, Kobe basically forced a top 12 player of all time out of town so he could be the Man.

Kobe's even won me over a little with his personality. He's given up trying to be nice, polite or fake. He's not even holding his kids during press conference anymore.

I started to turn around on Kobe, when Shaq tried to disingenuously pretend that his feud with Kobe was all marketing at the 2008 All Star game. Shaq playing out his days on a bad Phoenix team was desperately trying to get back in Phil Jackson's and Kobe's good graces in hopes of a Lakers reunion. Kobe spit venom in interviews speaking on reunions and blew Shaq's "marketing" story out of the water. Then when he won his 5th title last year, the first thing he said was " I got one more than Shaq now". Recently he had a mini tirade when asked about his knee where he dropped the f bomb about 50 times. I honestly think watching Tiger Woods' fake image come crashing down, showed Kobe that if he wants to be remembered long term for his game, he should just be himself. A hired killer.

And then there was my favorite Kobe quote, a quote that I could NEVER see Lebron making in 10 years when his career is where Kobe's is now. Kobe had heaped praise on Derrick Rose( Not for nothing as the kid's playing at an MVP level and making the Bulls must see TV) the reporters then asked if he was ready to symbollicly pass the torch to which Kobe winced and said " I'm not ready to pass shit."

I can't believe I'm saying this, but for the sake of the NBA, Thank God.

JS

Ugh-Don't Read This if you don't like rambling posts about feelings ...

Ain’t no question if I want it, I need it
I can feel it slowly drifting away from me
I’m on the edge, so why you playing? I’m saying
I will never ever let you live this down, down, down


Sooo I wrote This Post a few weeks back and it must have worked like a reverse jinx, because I've actually been doing better with girls than ever.

Especially this late in the year...

However, all is not well in the Land of Jon...

Ever since a certain girl who subsequently went on to ruin my Birthday, sat me down to give me this horrible talk, I've been WAY too worried about the aftereffects of my actions.

Namely, I'm not a monogamous person, I bring this up early on and girls clearly understand that I'm not always looking for return business as evidenced by this text message I got from a girl I slept with on Sunday.

"Haha look all I'm saying is no pressure to get back ever ;P like I wouldn't mind doing this again, but if it was just a one time thing I get it LOL"

But for some reason I still feel like I hurt this girl's feelings...

I used to not care.

Actually that's not true, before I didn't care, I was REALLY angry at women. Specifically at my Barrie my first girlfriend, and at my Mom for cheating on my Dad.

Somewhere along the line I let that go, and I started to love and appreciate women again. But I was still detached, cold, very much in control of my emotions and actions.

At least when it came to women...

I went a LONG time without EVER getting emotionally involved with a woman. Sure there were a lot of girls I slept with, a decent amount I "dated", a couple I even saw for a long time. But no girl in LA,Dallas, or Miami got in...

until then there was Kristen.

And my pretty little illusion of control got shattered. I let my anti-intimacy forcefield down and got a year long reminder of why I was the way I was. Now that I'm finally out of it and don't want her anymore, I'm still haunted by the words she cried into her pillow that night, the night that should have been the end of our relationship.

"Think of all the girls out there who cry over you, that you never see."

Now I do, and it's changing my behavior.

I turned down a girl who was throwing herself at me over text because she was obviously looking for more commitment than she's going to get from me. Same thing with not hooking up with a friend's roommate recently... I'm thinking about the break ups and how I can make minimize the damage to her feelings as much as possible.

Which is not the most helpful thing to be thinking about...

Last night I called some friends of mine, and after all agreeing I'm crazy (I've admitted that for years) many of them thought this was a good thing.

Maybe but it's making my carefully crafted juggling act of a life much more difficult.

JS- The King of long winded overly dramatic posts about his feelings :)

Frame Control Basics

Yo,

Frame control is a really important and misunderstood topic on bootcamps, so I want to quickly post the basics of controlling the frame during a pick up.

The frame refers to the underlying meaning of the interaction.

When you're talking to a girl one of the two of you is going to set the underlying meaning of the interaction. This is because in order to move things forward, you both have to accept a frame(Underlying meaning of the interaction) that allows things to escalate.

There are many frames that can be set, depending on what you're trying to accomplish, but the overall idea is that we're trying to get the woman we're attracted to, to accept a helpful frame.

In general there are three basic ways to control the frame during the BEGINNING of an interaction.

1. Don't qualify yourself.

This is my favorite piece of advice, because every dating coach you'll meet, will tell you not to qualify yourself, before pulling out their digita cameras and asking you what you think the last girl they had sex with was on a 1-10 scale.

For the purpose of this discussion, we'll define qualification as anything you do that is obviously an attempt to influence the girl's opinion about you in a positive way.

Bragging, name dropping, defending yourself, etc... are all forms of qualifying yourself. You want to avoid this and instead ignore or agree with anything negative that comes your way.

2. Control the conversational subjects.

This doesn't mean you should be rude and cut girls off, but you do need to try to get the coversation on to topics that will make you look good.

For example, the only girls who share my musical taste live in the hood. So when music comes up I want to quickly switch topics onto something I'm good at talking about like relationships, women, traveling, psychology or writing.

3. Pass congruence tests.

Congruence tests happen when a girl is starting to get attracted to you, but she still isn't sure if you're actually cool.

In general getting tested is a good thing. Women don't tend to test men they are not attracted to. In fact with a certain type of girl, you can get all the way to sex by prompting and then passing a series of tests.

Tests generally happen when women ask you kinda bitchy questions while smiling and looking like they're having a good time. If a girl tells you to leave but she's laughing and touching your arm, it's a test. If she looks serious, it probably means you creeped out/offended them and you need to leave.

Examples are

" Are you a player?"
" Are you gay?"
" I'm not sleeping with you"
" Do you do this with every girl"

Any WAY overly emotional reaction to a cocky line or joke.

Luckily for you, there is a tried and tested formula for passing tests.

It is

1. Agree. This goes back to not qualifying yourself. Like in Jiu jitsu we're going to roll with the force of the attack rather than try to block it.

2. Exaggerate. Brad P calls this absurdifying, the point is that you have to now exaggerate your answer so much that it draws attention to how utterly stupid the question/reaction actually was. This is frame control, because you have to show her that you are NOT taking the question seriously in ANY way. If you answer tests seriously, you fail because it's the act of qualifying yourself to the girl on command that makes her lose attraction, not your actual answer.

3. Change the subject. This is where all the aspiring PUAs get it wrong, because sometimes girls will laugh and joke around back. Don't play into that, change the subject immediately so you can move the interaction forward.

Exmple:

Girl: " DO you do this with all the girls?"
Me: Yeah (Agree)
Me: I actually can only talk with you for another minute or two cause I have a threesome lined up for about 15 minutes from now. (Absurdify)
Me: You totally remind me of my friend Kelly ( Change the subject)

Hope that helps clarify what is meant when people say " control the frame!" and pound their fist on a metaphorical PUA table.

JS- The King Of Content

Having Your Cake And Eating it Too...

Mark Entropy wrote an interesting post about what it's like to be a player and how for MOST guys (Yes you reading this) having a great girlfriend is really the most realistic option.

I can't find the link, but it was on TSBmag.com the other day.

Now while I personally don't like having a girlfriend, I do agree with Mark's assertion. Most guy's lifestyles are not suitable for going out 4-7 nights a week, dating 3-4 women at a time, or juggling multiple relationships.

That doesn't even begin to mention the emotional tolls. Even someone as emotionally detached as myself is not immune to falling for a certain girl and then getting crushed in the process(See Kristen, NY and my Bday this year).

This problem essentially boils down to one main point; guys can't decide what they want.

One minute they think they want a girlfriend, the next they really want that hot girl by the bar. Part of this is evolutionary, but a larger part comes from a lack of self awareness.

Unfortunately you can't have your cake and eat it too.

You can't have the benefits of an emotionally fulfilling, loving, relationship that grows and leads to all the fun mushy feelings that regular people (like you reading this) seem to all eventually want, while screwing a ton of other girls.

Unfortunately you have to make a choice, and that choice will determine what rewards your life with women will bring you.

Or you can end up like Tiger Woods, Jesse James, or Tony Parker and deal with all the drama that comes with infidelity and seeing your carefully constructed world of lies come crashing down.

Your choice.

JS-The King Of Content

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Why Do You Do Pickup?

I was working with some of my top Apprenticeship group students this weekend, and one of them asked me what I thought about the whole pickup thing, while noting that I almost have a loathing for the community in general.

I answered the question by asking him why he wanted to get better at pickup.

He said that he wanted to have more experience, change his life, get laid more, etc.. All pretty common stuff. But what he didn't realize was why I asked him the question.

Everyone gets into pickup for the same reason; they want to improve their lives.

But, and this is a big enough but that it should belong to a Kardashian, once they start practicing they realize that results are going to take a little while.

Furthermore, they realize that once they've started going out and approaching girls, it's not that easy. Soon they realize that they won't be able to achieve their goals in the amount of time they originally thought it would take, and voila your mind needs to come up with a new motivational strategy for going out and talking to girls.

Luckily your mind is an amazing meaning maker and is able to find new motivations to go out. It might be to brag about how well you're doing with girls. It might be that you start complaining all the time about how the world isn't fair or looks are all that matter( I'm talking to you Karl in Chicago) But whatever new reason you choose, will start to bleed into all your interactions.

So what's the solution?

You have to do pickup for yourself.

Not to get girls, or to impress guys, or to alleviate boredom. You have to make approaching women something you do, because you want to. Because you enjoy the process and because you know that your life will be better even if you fail at your approach because you are becoming the kind of man who approaches the women he's attracted to.

That's the reason I'm the last man standing from my generation of "PUAS". Because for all those guys, pickup was a means to an end. A way to get something. For me, pickup was about becoming the kind of person I always wanted to be. The kind of guy who talks to beautiful women anywhere he is and doesn't need to set aside time to go out and "game" because I meet women everywhere I go.

You can do this too, but you have to make sure you're doing it for yourself.

Best,

JS- The King Of Content

Don't believe everything you hear...

Did you know Gullible isn't in the dictionary?

It blows my mind, how soooo many people take everything they hear on face value.

The other day at my MMA gym, I heard a story about a friend of a friend "punking" a famous and very large football player.

Sounds cool right?

Until you examine the story. I'm not gonna get into how I can prove it never happened, but suffice it to say anyone with access to wikipedia and more free time than they know what to do with, could have come to the same conclusion.


Consistently people overrate their ability to withstand persuasion and figure out lies. In persuasion we call it the "Myth Of Invulnerability". We all assume that all the cons, lies and deceptions that confuse other people, would never work on us.

My Dad used to tell me that there was special paint on the roads of the Pacific Coast Highway that whined when you crossed the lines to let you know you were crossing. This sounded like a perfectly reasonable explanation of things at 12.

We all are programmed to believe anything we hear, especially if it comes from someone who is supposed to be an authority figure.

I wanted to write this post to remind you (Especially when dealing with pseudo authorities and "gurus") that not everything people tell you is the truth. And you should look at everything with a discerning eye before accepting it as gospel.

Word.

JS