Review from Austin:

This review is from our student Jazzed who just came out and took SNLs, Getting started with game and Routine stack seminar

There will be more of these in Boston June 6-8th, Detroit June 13th-15th and Carolina June 27th-29th. You can sign up for Boston Here

Detroit Here

And Carolina Here


Now onto the review...


Well,

I have seen the future.

Having only been in the community since this past
December(when I had my amazing MM Boot-camp
experience!), I have worked very, very hard to improve
my Game.

I had spent hours practising routines, and researching
techniques with good success. But I never really
understood "how" they all worked? Certain techniques
always seemed like a bad fit for me?, and I struggled
at times with ideas I just didn't understand . . .that
was until this past weekend . . .

In Austin I got it!. . .Game is F-U-N!

Sinn (THE most fun guy to Game with), gave me alien
technology which immediately helped me in-field.

He also never left my side?. .I don't know how he does
it . . .lol. . .He was always there, diagnosing my
EVERY move in set. Without his help - I may never have
understood my true sticking points OR how to correct
them! Thanks bro!

I also worked with El Topo, and what he gave me was
HUGE!

He demonstrated in-field, how wrong my old thinking
was that Game was ALL about dominating sets and being
a spectacle of positive female attention!

He showed me how fast and deep people will connect
with you when you are a "real" person. He also had
some really creative ways to do this. These ideas
helped round out my game in a big way!

For anyone looking to go beyond a boot-camp and
actually internalize - HOW it all works, this seminar
is a for you! These concepts will allow you to better
perfect your own style and "flow".The result - WAY
MORE FUN!

I would also add that if possible, always take a
Boot-camp with other seminars. Since I took all three,
Sinn and El-Topo were able to custom fit the SNL and
Routine Stacking seminars to my exact style and
sticking points!Instead of just text book information
- they related it to REAL examples from the REAL sets
all weekend!

I now know the power of ongoing coaching and what it
can do for your Game! This is the next level!


JaZZed

PS:On this being a biased review. There was a BIG
negative. A 6ft 9 I may not have lost had it been
after my SNL seminar on Sunday!!! Straight torture
son!!!




Here's the links again for those who have to sign up now!

Boston Here

Detroit Here

And Carolina Here

S

LR internet 10

So she got here last night and was very tired. So we came back to my place and I gave her a back massage.

One thing led to another and soon I was playing the tease, which I will write a post on ad nauseum soon. But it ended up with her giving me a little LMR until I whipped it out and then told her to play with herself until she couldn't take it anymore and begged me to fuck her.

She's one of the 5 hottest girls I've ever been with, she used to work w@ hooters and currently is a Bacardi promo girl. She's also really sweet and fun to hang out with. She's here til Thurs so I prolly won't update until after she leaves.

Hope everyone is having as much fun as we are!

S

In progress soon to be lay off the internet.

I've fooled around with internet game a little recently, I started off with some of Cajun's stuff off the attraction forum and then I tailored a bit and started to help out some of my friends with their profiles and messages. I have closed about 10 girls off of it in the last three months and I've met up with 12 girls off it. One of them was gross and I ditched her with the super quickness. I think internet game is retardedly easy and a monkey could get laid if he knows how to write a good profile and has a about 5 responses. I was working on a way to automate internet game with the collection of messages I have from my experiments on various websites. But i have way too much to do right now. I have been writing profiles for students and their results have been really good so far.

Now onto this particular instance

This super hot girl hit me up on Myspace with the following message:

I was looking around on this stupid (Internet Dating site) thing and i found you, but it said you hadn't been on in a while, so i looked up dallas to see if you happened to be around where i'm moving to and i found you on here! i promise i'm not a crazy stalker or anything! just thought you were very interesting!
and i'm moving to texas next month and was wondering if you were still around?

sorry if this is weird lol i just had to message you!

Her name

I responded with a modified version of one of Cajun's online openers:

Well I am fascinating... :)


Seriously though you had me when you're about you blurb was about a lifted truck. I'm so adopting you as my country little sister... Don't worry, we'll spend all our time together climbing trees and drinking kool-aid. Actually you seem like a pretty cool person, I'd love to get together sometime and let you cook for me haha

Her response:

well i mean, don't flatter yourself or anything ;)
two things though, i won't be adopted as anyone's little sister, thank you. and i'm the worst cook in the world. unless you're into cereal and grilled cheese.. then i'm your chef :P
sorry about the truck thing.. it's just fascinating to me lol or maybe i'm a nerd?
talk to you soon ;P

My response:


Oh you're definitely a nerd :) but you're kinda cute. For a nerd.

Gotta run... Going to Vegas.

I expect a saccharine sweet message when I check back here :)

Her response:

Hello darling! I hope your trip went wonderfully!

.... okay that's enough sweetness out of me for today.
I hope to shatter this nerd image sometime in the near future, so you can pick another adjective if you want to. :)
but it better be something nice.
Seriously though, how did it go? I've never been there, sounds too big and busy for what I'm used to. You should just come to (Where she lives), instead!
Well, i'm off to get more done to my tattoo yayyy
Hurry back!!!

My Response:


I'm gonna give you a B+ for the sweet part of the message, but until I actually get to know you off the internet... You're still a dork! A kinda cute dork, but I digress.

Tattoo eh? What did you get done?

Her response:
Oh yay, a B+! Well that was more than I expected so good! At least you think I'm "cute" lol whatever the hell that means ha. i'll add you so you can see the rest of my retarded pictures and laugh.

I pushed my date to move back a week. I'm getting a little nervous about moving all the way down there and knowing like 4 people lol I'm gonna miss my Momma :P But you seem to know your way around, so I'll be sure to ask you first!
Good luck on the rest of your adventure. I'd love to help lol but unfortunately with gas being seventy dollars a gallon and i have a 16 hour drive, I'm not much to ya.

As for my tat, I just got a long sentence going down my left side. From under my arm to the side of my hip. That one definitely didn't feel good. I just had to have a little bit filled in on it the other night, and eventually I'm going to have more shading and stars around it.. to go with the 5 stars i already have.

ps- thanks for not assuming me a total nutcase :P

My Response:

Oh man you're not rich?? Damn! You're messing up my lifelong goal of being a house husband. I could just see it now ( Cue cheesy Jeffersons style intro music) I wake up pump some iron to show the little lady what she's paying for then watch my stories and have a massage... All crushed now :(

Not only do I not think you're nuts, I might be dangerously close to developing an internet crush. Which I don't like so stop being cool!

Her response:


Ha well, I will be one of these days, so you can dance around to your Jeffersons style intro music and have all the massages you want :P And make all the movies you want! Don't give up on me so quickly!
Ooooooh somebody likes me :P (Middle school singsong tune lol)
Coming to visit me when I get down there?? :)

Here I know I've gone far enough to get her on the phone as these things can easily fizzle over Myspace messages. So I give her a reason to call me as opposed to me trying to call her. With internet stuff I always try to make them get my phone number and contact me first that way I set the frame that they are chasing me from the beginning of the interaction all the way through.

Here's my last response before getting her on the phone:


I think like would be an overstatement for now... But you're growing on me :) You could grow even more by writing me a good luck text message before my open mic tonight. My number is xxx-xxx-xxx. There's gonna be like 100 people there tonight! Nervous!!

From there I spent about 3 hours on the phone with her and exchanged a gazillion texts. She's actually a really ute, funny girl with the best accent ever. She's also smokingly hot she sent me nude pics and she's insane hot. So I convinced her to fly out( despite her being terrified of flying and only being on a plane once in her life before) here to visit me. I'm picking her up from the airport in about 2 hours and she's staying here until Thursday. I should fuck... I mean make sweet love to her tonight as I have closed every girl I've met off the internet except one and that was because I made the mistake of having her meet me out when I was already slightly intoxicated.

I'll update the rest tomor but I since I just got this text :

This is kinda exhausting! Sheesh. I can't wait for your arms to be around me! :)

I feel confident in calling the lay a la Babe Ruth.

Tune in tomor to find out:

Same Sinn time, same Sinn blog.

S

Balls the ultimate DHV

As I've been revamping and clarifying my cirriculum over the last few months, I've been thinking long and hard about what really gets attraction. I think a lot of the techniques in the community work for reasons other than why they are explained to work. But it wasn't until I sat in on the first couple of hours of Brad P's workshop a few weeks ago in Vegas that I realized how important just being ballsy was.

The ability to withstand social pressure and remain calm in unusual situations requires balls. It requires having the intestinal fortitude to do things that push you outside of your comfort zone and that might result in negative social feedback. Years and years ago TD said something about Erik and Neil that I've always kept in mind. He said that Erik had a blindspot to negative social feedback. Meaning that he can't see when things are going bad. I noticed this when he picked up a stripper one night after she had told me she hated him. To this day still one of the most impressive things I've seen but he couldn't tell she didn't like him at first. Neil on the other hand has an extreme sensitivity to social pressure which is why all of his stuff is about reaching the " Hook point" as quickly as possible, and avoiding bad reactions. Seeing their conflicting blindspots explains partially why they are able to work so well together. What it doesn't address is most guys. Most guys are not going to be blind to negative social feedback and if they adopt Neil's belief that they should avoid negative feedback at all costs they're gonna stop going out in the first month. A phenomena that happens pretty frequently after "Fantasy Camp" style bootcamps without follow up.

The reason I bring this up is that not enough emphasis is placed on simply having balls. In putting yourself in a situation where you might fail and pushing it as far as you can. A lot of people would say I'm a pretty ballsy guy as I do really ridiculous things in set and escalate faster and harder than almost anyone else. To me it's not a big deal because I've accepted rejection as a part of the game. As my Pimp buddy Big Zee says " Being able to handle rejection makes you a man."

So how do you develop balls? By doing shit that makes you uncomfortable. The same way that girls have comfort thresholds, guys have comfort thresholds. A few years back telling a girl I just met to get that I was gonna do horribly dirty things to her would have freaked me out. So would stopping girls on the street or interrupting girls on their cell phones in a mall. Now I think those are normal approaches( I'm brought back to reality when students refuse to do them, but to me it's easy) But the point is you have to be able to bump your own comfort thresholds back. If you are terrified of talking to a strange woman go up say hi and leave. Do that 50 times and it will be MUCH less scary then push a little bit farther until you're getting kicked out of your favorite bar in Dallas for bringing another girl into the bathroom. A lot of the time just being ballsy and willing to try something out of the ordinary is enough.

Go out and develop your balls, do something everyday that makes you feel scared socially. The more you do it the easier it gets and then you'll develop actual confidence. Confidence is the result of pushing yourself and accomplishing goals. In the book Flow the author talks about how we are not having a peak experience unless we are pushing ourselves to our limit within a task that is accomplishable. That's why I love game because you can challenge yourself with a very achievable goal. But it takes balls to achieve it.

S

Mailbag # 2 On the topic of getting dreezed up...

Omaha PUA writes:

1. Do you drink when you sarge, if so, how do you keep a clear head
when sarging?

You seem pretty in-tune to being healthy, how do you maintain your health while
sarging and drinking?


While I appreciate the comment, I don't think my drinking, smoking, not sleeping and fucking lifestyle is particularly healthy. Awesome yes, healthy, no. But I do work out so that's something right? :) I also try to get enough sleep and eat healthy. Though traveling makes it a lot harder. I try to not drink tot he point of a hang over, but when I am hung-over I try to still get shit done, even if it's easy shit that just has to get taken care of like laundry or errands. I think the real key is in minimizing the time you lose the following day. It sucks but if you can do that drinking and you don't drink high calorie drinks. I drink Vodka and diet Coke which has like 60 calories a drink versus regular soda and juice which can be like 200 calories. I also avoid beer, and late night eating. If I drink I'll set a drink limit somewhere around 3-5 so it's not that many calories or that much alcohol.

On to the actual question, I do drink but I don't "sarge". Sarging is a term Ross Jeffries came up with based on his cat, it is the height of nerdom. Remember the vocabularly you use deines you and I am not a PUA. I'm a guy who goes out and talks to women. I'm a social guy. I don't have to put my special pink boa on to get in state to talk to a girl. I love women and enjoy talking to them. It's something I try to do as much as possible because it usually leads to sex and I like sex. A lot. Maybe too much, who knows but you guys all get to enjoy my labors :) But to think in these terms identifies you as an outsider to the world of hot girls. Being a PUA is for loser! There's only one kind of guy who gets approach anxiety before talking to a girl he's not attracted to. A PUA. People go out to party and have fun. Talking to girls is a part of that experience for me. And I think a much healthier way of looking at things. To steal a line from Rick H it's not something you do, it's something you are.

Geez I really need to answer the question, I do drink. I've detailed it many times here including many posts saying I need to stop drinking so much. I curtailed my drinking really well over the last three months or so. Plus once a month I have an ENTIRELY sober night. Just to make sure that I'm not becoming dependent on alcohol to get me in state. I think when you're learning this stuff drinking is a detriment. I didn't start drinking until I had already been in the game for like 2 years. So I learned totally sober. I think it helps to have a clear mind, plus it's SOOOO boring being sober in a club or bar that you feel WAY more compelled to approach. I actually notice now that my approach anxiety is way lower when I'm sober because I get bored faster talking to my friends and I am come up with better ways and strategies for approaching. I don't think a few drinks will ever hurt you but for the first few months I recommend staying sober or keeping it to a nice buzz. Anything else and you'll find your progress slowed pretty substantially.

Best,

S

LR: Out Alone-Obstacles or Opportunities?

This girl actually just left my apt, about 20 mins ago.

Flashback to last night. Nobody wants to go out. CJ has a date, Printer flakes for no explained reason and doesn't return calls or texts. Fidelio and ET are working and then going home, Shaft is working. S0 here I am in my underwear watching the Hawks and Celts play and wondering if I should go out tonight. Add to it that in my experience Wednesday is the worst day to go out in Dallas and I don't have a car because... well because my car sucks balls. Most guys would see that as enough of a reason to stay home, smoke a bowl and play on the internet. Not me. This to me is a big difference between the guys who get massive results and the guys who just kinda struggle. CJ for awhile had no car, his daughters two weekends a month and lived at his Mom's house. yet he still got good at SNLs because he saw opportunities instead of obstacles. Most guys are too quick to make excuses as to why they can't go out or why they can't approach or why they can't try to pull etc.. There's two sides to every coin and that means that in every situation that seems to suck there's some way to improve and try to get laid. You just have to be looking for it.

Onto the LR. I decide to roll out to the bars by my house. I'm not expecting it to be a great night but I stop by the bar across the street. It's dead. The guy ET and I know who works there isn't even there so I bail and go to the sports bar across from there. The Stars are getting beaten by the Sharks yet there are no attractive hockey groupies, so I finally decide to go to my local dive. This is a place I never really go as it isn't a great placer for pick-up usually but tonight it's packed. I'm standing line for the bathroom when I hear everyone in the bar clapping and then turn to my right and see a seven foot tall drunk Dirk Nowitzki. He's so drunk he goes into the women's bathroom to piss. I text Fidelio about this and he responds " That's y they lost he's got a vagina". I go out and start opening sets.

The first set is a two set of blondes who I open with Brad P's Lesbian DTR opener. It doesn't really hook and I walk away without plowing. The next set I open I actually just want a cigarette and I ask for one but the girls don't have any. I've noticed that lately I am having way more trouble getting people to give me cigarettes. It started when I was in San Jose a couple of weeks ago, and has continued through Vegas and Dallas... Weird. Anyway I try to stack forward, but to no avail. And now I have two blowouts. I open another two set and get nowhere again when two girls who are in matching business wear walk in. They're very cute and more importantly they're the only set I haven't opened yet in the tiny shitty bar.

So I open them. There is a seat next to them at the bar so I sit down and open situationally by saying that I wish I had worn my white button down shirt too so I wasn't wrecking the sequence. They laugh and then we start talking about the drunk girl who is basically falling down and popping out of her shirt at the same time. I say we should start taking bets on what's going to happen. Her falling down is even money and her boobs popping out is 2 to 1. The target girl suggests that I go for her. I tease her and say we're not going to get along. Then I run rings on fingers and slap her hand. The obstacles boyfriend shows up and is all " Hey what's up dude!" He brought a friend or my girl but she doesn't even look up. She moved seats with the obstacle to sit next to me which I tease her for. We're both really mean and people watchers so we make fun of everyone including her best friend's BF for awhile. It turns out that they met in a sorority. Of course I tease her for that. I run Strawberry fields and she wants me to to run it on her friend. I refuse as her friend is already occupied with the BF and there's no point as I say the same thing EVERY time.

I ask her what's special about her and she tells me she's in commercial real estate. I run a role-play about her being my sugar mama and me lifting weights to show her what she's paying for. This leads into my summer of the ripped abs routine where I put her hands on my abs. TD pointed out to me that I should take more advantage of being in shape and make girls feel my muscles. I've been using this for awhile and it works really well for physical arousal.

Her friend and the boyfriend decide to leave. Earlier I had found out she drove herself so I know she can stay and she does. We have a few more drinks and play the question game. I ground my family a little bit and talk to her about what I'm writing right now. I've been doing some really good sexcalation and I eventually say something like " I wanna makeout with you in the bathroom. We get in the bathroom and I put my hands down here pants, but my friend the bartender bangs on the door and tells us we can't be in there together. I take that as an opportunity to bring her back to my place. We drive the two blocks because she doesn't wanna leave her car there. Get back to my place and all ends well.

She had a super hot body under that business wear. Huge boobs and a nice ass. The funniest part of the night was when the BF was leaving he tried a lame cockblocking attempt by telling her to use a condom and I tell her she's not getting laid. She also busted me on being out alone but I frame controlled it away by making it a joke. She even sent CJ a message from my phone calling him sexy... Sorry CJ :)

So that's 4 nights in a row of going out and pulling and 3 lays in those nights.

S

Austin Update!

So El Topo and I will be coming up to Austin on May 2, 3, 4

We will be doing a 2 hour Lair Talk for $50
The $50 Lair talk will come with a 15min phone consult based on topics of Inner Game, Day Game/Under 21, Routine Stacks, and SNLs
I will be giving a talk on Inner Game And El Topo will be giving a talk on Cold Reading and how to use it to elicit Frames and Subpersonalities.

The talk will be held at the Holiday Inn at 8500 NORTH IH-35
AUSTIN, TX 78753
UNITED STATES

Sign up here or pay $55 at the door
Here


Fri Night- Lair Talk
and First night of Getting Started in Game Course (see below for description)

Sat Day- Getting Started in Game Seminar
Sat Night- Last night of Getting started in Game

Sun Day- SNL Course and Routine Stack Course

Getting Started in Game- $1500 - Sinn/El Topo (limited to 6 Students)
(Coaches Dante and The Goat)

First Day (Fri) 1 Hour Seminar breaking down the basics of what we need to see that evening to properly shape your game, and 3 hours in Field.
Second Day (Sat day into Sat night) 5 hour seminar with 3 hours in Field
The seminar on Sat will completely nail down the new models of Attraction, Comfort and Seduction, giving an absolute structure to your game.
You will walk out of there equip for the night with a complete Attraction Arsenal. In field that evening you'll be opening and should have all the basics down for you to open and transition into relaxed rapport with your targets. This is the definitive coarse on everything you will need to know to Get Started in Game!

Sign up Here

Same Night Lays- $950 Sinn (unlimited attendance)
This is the course that blew everyone away. Over a year in the making Sinn's SNL Course will teach you not only the techniques but also the mentality to master how to meet and close a girl in the Same Night! This was once thought to be a myth in the community until myself and Captain Jack turned it into a repeatable technique. Learn to achieve lays that come as quick as 30mins, learn the proper frame escalation...SNLs are a series of Steps and Experience in Field, not some luck of the draw community Myth.
Even if SNLs are not your goal, this idea of efficient game is the BEST way to game, taking all the unnecessary elements and throwing them out.
Dominate your game knowing,
what to do, how to talk to women, how to frame, and how handle the logistics, all in a 5 hour Seminar!

Here

theREDstack Seminar- $750 El Topo (Limited to 10 Students)
We have all heard about theREDstacks and now here is your opportunity learn how it works. See the design the El Topo formulated so that he could literally get results in EVERY TYPE of Student.
What makes the stack work like no other product out there? It takes parts of Your Life and turns it into Gold. You will learn to properly DHV yourself, you will learn how to frame to elicit a Sub Personality, you will learn how to tactically run your comfort game into a defining tool of game. While simply telling a story about your life (while being honest), imagine if you could build irresistible attraction leading your target right where you want her.
Well worth the 5 hours, you will walkout of the room with another Veil of the Matrix Revealed.
Who knew that all those things you never thought to be seductive just had to be re voiced in a way for you to have any girl melt in your hand.

If you guys have any questions, hit one of us up!
eltopopua@gmail.com or sinnstravel@gmail.com

Word!

LR X 2 Anal sex, death threats and underage girls

It's been an amazing time out here in Vegas with El Topo and our super student. This guy was super serious about getting better and has spent 9 days total with myself, and ET. We've even been engineering a new way of lifestyle development with these one on ones as a way of integrating the habit of pick-up into your own life. It's super exciting stuff and we will be posting more about it later.

Onto the LRs. Since I've been in Vegas I've pulled every night. The first night I even got a death threat from the guy I pulled this set away from. It starts out with ET and I at a famous circular bar in Vegas where we ran into Brad P running a workshop. Brad has a new product called the adventures of Brad P which is awesome and only $ 19 bucks. I'll be posting a more in depth review of it soon. But we also run into former student Eight Rope and some creepy Indian dude( from now on CRID). 8 rope is doing well with his girl but the other one is clearly creeped. Somehow I start talking to her and she's all over my shit. The reason being that I actually escalate. 8 rope later said he was amazed watching me and ET work the set because we were getting them touching us and accepting escalation super fast after they had been talking to them for an hour. This is a lesson on why we have to escalate. Blow me or blow me out!

Anyway the CRID comes back into the set and I let it go as I'm not trying to steal the set. Now the girl moves away from where I had her isolated and rejoins the group to get away from him. She of course comes right next to me as I've already run strawberry Fields, rings on fingers and qualified her. SO it's on with a sexual vibe. there's a key distinction between it being on and it being on with a sexual vibe. if you don't try to communicate sexually with women it will be on but you will get LMR. Trust me I know from personal experience before I met CJ. So here comes the CRID again and now the girls are trying to bounce with us. The girls move away as the CRID grabs the hand of the girl I'm talking to. A minute before this I had explained to him that he creeped the girls out and that's why they were leaving I even gave him examples of how he was being overly aggressive. Some people read reports like this one and think all they have to do is grope and pull. There is a dance to escalation and the real power is in the take aways... I finally decide that since he's creeped them and they're leaving I'm gonna grab them. ET and I walk up say " We have to go to the bathroom and pull them away. Now he starts blowing up Eight rope's cell threatening to and I quote " Kill all of you!" He even continues to call the next day and say that he's with his boys and we can settle this now. Psycho Alert. The dude's a nutcase. Proving yet again why it's usually a bad idea to meet up with people off message boards. If you're reading this dude, you need psychological help and I hope you get it.

We bounce to a lounge in the same hotel and it's really on. We're making out she's trying to get me to dance and her and her friend begin talking about how my girl needs to get laid and how logistics are going to go down. Eight Rope politely excuses himself and we bounce the girls back to our hotel to smoke...

Now it gets tricky as I'm escalating on my girl on the bed and ET's chick wants to watch. but we separate and all goes well especially as this particular girl loved it up the butt. Various inappropriate things happen after this point.

The second night (Sat) I pulled a set and was having her flash people in the cab but lost it when her friend who's 30th Bday it was freaked out and they all had to rush to get her. I say save the drama for your mama and peace out!

Last night I got laid again with a 19 year old I met in the lobby of the Excalibur of all places. This is a big reminder to everyone(myself included) to kick game to girls all the time. You never know where those lays are going to come from and it's important to always have that SNL mindset even if you're chilling in a lobby of a gauche themed hotel. We game them and exchange numbers and through text I progessively escalate

Some ex:

Her: What are you doing tonight?
Me: Besides pinning you up against a wall and making out with you? Undecided...
Her: Yummy... How do you know me so well already?
Me: I'm awesome.
Her: That explains it.
Me: Aww you're making me blush and other things...

It continues like this but I'm a gentleman with class and won't sully my reports on the internet telling people about various chicks I bang with such filth :)

Anyway we meet up at the bar and bounce back to the hotel and the girls won't come up to the room. Fucking underage girls... I made a rule awhile ago to not fuck with girls under 25 as they know what's going down and how SNLs work. It's ok we build comfort at the bar. I escalate.ET brillantly bounces his girl to the lobby " To handle some shit and then up to the room"

I get a text from him that says in the room fucking. I tell the girl they're probably in the room and we should go break up their party. She agrees and we go up there. Now I know I'm not breaking up shit so I have to get her super aroused enough to fuck in the bathroom before we get to the room. So about 20 feet before our room. Which is down the longest hallway known to mankind. I slam her against the wall make out with her and start dirty talking. Now luckily she's wearing a skirt so I start to play with her and then I show her the text from 5 minutes ago and pretend we just got it. I go shit they are fucking we can't go in there... Unless you want to go in the bathroom where we have some privacy. She says she's down and I get a cramp from fucking this chick standing up in front of the mirror American Psycho style.

I guess the major lessons here are to be aware of logistics, use arousal to overcome bad logistics, start sexualizing the interaction as soon as you possibly can and have the balls to take the opportunity when it presents itself. I wasn't going to post LRs anymore but I think I'll go back to it as it gives me easy stuff to write about. I usually get between 5 and 10 a month and I will let you guys decide.

Hit me up with comments

Do you think the LRs are helpful?

PUA Sanctuary

Hey Guys,

I found a new fledgling forum called PUA Sanctuary.com. I'm going to be posting there on a regular basis and I'm trying to convince some other guys to as well.

It's only a few days old but it was brought to my attention by Vector and Priest it's a really cool idea. I'll probably put up a Q and A thread sometime in the next few days as well.

Check it out Here

S

Are women more or less sexual than men?

There seems to be a lot of debate in the community, and among men in general about how sexual women are. I consider myself a champion of the female sex drive as I believe that it is much more powerful than it is given credit for. Women are ALL sexual creatures, the same way that men are all sexual creatures. Sex is NORMAL and NATURAL. And I don't want to run the risk of sounding all evolutionary and saying that we are designed to survive and replicate, but the fact of the matter is that if we all stopped having sex the human species would be extinct within the next hundred years...

Now the issue seems to occur when guys are socialized into developing what is commonly referred to as a Madonna/Whore complex. A great example of this is seen in The Sopranos where over the course of 6 seasons the wives of those in the mafia are referred to as " The Mother of my children." While the Goomahs( No idea if I spelled that right) or mistresses were referred to as whores. It's an embodiment of the idea that many men want a lady in the bed and a freak in the sheets to go all Ludacris on you.. But the fact remains that most men are less attracted to women that are promiscuous. We can analyze why that is all we want but it is a behind whatever evolutionary reasons we can find to defend that, it is an immature way of thinking. Every woman has the capacity to be both a madonna and a whore. Once you learn to recognize that every girl COULD cheat on a boyfriend given the right circumstances, every girl COULD go home with a random guy given the right circumstances etc... But we want to believe the Disney myth that women should be virtuous and upstanding at all times. This gets even funnier in the community as guys will swing one of two ways they will either adopt the idea that all women are nymphomaniacs waiting to be unleashed( Which isn't a bad belief to have even if not true) Or they adopt the idea that you have to do everything right for 7 hours in order to get a girl into bed.

My opinion lies somewhere in the middle. I believe women are as sexual as men. Not more, not less. They have the capacity to do extremely slutty, fun things if given the right opportunity. Or be very prude and reserved given another set of circumstances. The real variable in this is how YOU make a woman feel. If she feels like she can fuck you in the bathroom at a club without being judged by you or anyone she knows and she feels attracted and aroused. It can happen. If you treat her like you want to make her your girlfriend she will respond differently. If you make her nervous or embarrassed, or uncomfortable about her sexuality you close all your doors with her.

Hope that clarifies things a bit.

S

Tour schedule:

Hey guys,

Here's a brief list of where I'm going to be over the next month or so.

First I will be in Austin for a talk and a few seminars the weekend of May 2-4th. It starts Friday night with a talk about Inner Game and Advanced body language with myself and El Topo.

You can sign up for that Here

Then after that night we're going to be rolling out our getting started with game seminar. Which is two nights in field and one day of seminar and debrief focusing on the sticking points and issues guys have when getting started with game. You can sign up for that Here but hurry as there were only 6 spots originally and 2 are gone...

And finally I'll be teaching Same Night Lays on Sunday Which you can sign up for

Here

Then I'll be teaching for the rest of May and speaking at the LA PUA summit run by Johnny Wolf and Vince Kelvin May 23-25th. Speakers will include myself, Brad P, AFC Adam, and more.

Then June I head back out onto the road with talks in Boston the 6-8th of June, Detroit the 13th-15h and Carolina the 27th-29th.

So for those wanting to book me, that's what we're looking at and July gets worse as I'll be at the under 21 convention and the Amsterdam Summit.

The joys of teaching...

S

Mailbag Part 2 : How to Escalate physically, build sexual tension and get dates back to your house.

Dates part 2: How to build sexual tension, escalate physically and get her back to your place.

On the last part of this mailbag , I talked about how to set up dates and what the overall vibe should be. This time we’re going to discuss how to escalate things further.
The most important thing about building sexual tension, and getting her back to your place is breaking the physical barriers early on. You need to re-establish touching as soon as you see her. When you see her you need to give her a big hug and then push her away. You want to retain the reset model of touching where you break all physical contact after every escalation. But you don’t want to waste any time in escalating the touching. You should be holding hands when you’re walking or driving to the first venue. You also want to look for random opportunities to kiss her if it didn’t feel right at the beginning.

One of my favorite ways to build sexual tension is through the use of the almost kiss. I learned this from Future and it is still my favorite way to kiss a girl. Somewhere on my date I will look at her while she’s talking I’ll say “ You know it’s really hard for me to pay attention to what you’re saying when I keep thinking about kissing you. But I know we’re not ready for that yet so I tell you what we’re going to do. We’re going to Almost kiss. Then I get them to pinky swear not kiss me and I promise not to kiss them. Then you get really close to their lips for about 2 seconds. This is great for building sexual tension because a few minutes later you can call it back and say you’re ready for another almost kiss.

Another thing you want to do to build sexual tension is alternate sexual indicators of interest with regular qualification statements and comfort frames. Dates are all about comfort so the first and foremost focus of our interaction should be on making the girl as comfortable with us as possible by letting her get to know us. B y demonstrating who we are and where we came from she gets to know us and feels more comfortable around us as she’s starting to get an idea of how you are going to act at any given time. We also need to get her to become comfortable with our touch and our indicators of interest. That means we are going to be cycling qualification and compliments into our comfort material. We need to hit on the girl a lot and demonstrate that we are attracted to her both physically and for her non-physcial attributes. Then we need to introduce sexuality. Qualification is the mchanism we use to move between comfort and seduction. This fractionating between hitting on her sexually, qualifying her and building comfort is what leads to getting laid on dates.
The nest key step in getting girls back to your place is handling logisitics. You need to have a reason to bring her back to your place. I always loan girls books at the end of the date or offer to let them come up to use the bathroom and get a glass of water if I couldn’t get them up any other way. This is where having a cool movie, a great new piece of music even a cool or different type of wine or liquor like Absinthe comes into play. We want to create plausible deniability so that she doesn’t feel guilty for coming up. It’s also important to use a false time constraint when bringing a girl home if only to make her think she can’t spend the night ☺
Lastly you need to let her know that you are interested in having sex with her. And it’s her fault for being so sexy… This is what prepping is all about. Prepping statements cimply let a woman know what you are planning to do later with her. Saying something like “ You have no idea what I’m thinking about doing to you right now.. Stop being cute. Gives both a prep and a release to keep up the tension. But you have made a sexual indicator of interest. The more of these you can do the better. This is the art of coquetting. I leraned this from all the exotic dancers I dated. You sexually pull them in then push them away and take away their sexuality with a a tease and comfort building conversations. Make sure you demonstrate interest in her and sex with her.

Now you guys know how to set up and start dates, the amount of venues to take them through, what to talk about while on a date and how to escalate, build sexual tension and get girls home with you.

S

Video Blog # 4

Sorry for the lack of updates

Hey guys,

I've been doing one on ones for the past I don't even know how many days. I've been in Houston, SF, Vegas and now Northern California again. Often without internet. So I apologize and I will get back to blogging soon. I just don't know how soon as I have one on ones until Tues and then have to get back home and pack to move a few days later.

I'm on it though.

S

Mailbag # 2 Dates- A How To :Part 1

Hey Sinn,

I love your blog.

I have been in the game for a while and can get constant D2s but no D3s. If you could describe the perfect D2 how would it be? Should you make a deep connection or stay superficial, should you make future plans, should you kiss, should you go for same day? I know that a lot of guys have problems with the D2, but somehow this area is not well described.

Looking forward to your response,

Daniel, Sweden


Hey Daniel,

First of all stop calling dates d2s. I never really understood that. It was like somehow if we called them something else it doesn't set the "dating" frame. What's wrong with the dating frame? Women do sleep with guys they go on dates with. Just this Sun I had a girl tell me she never sleeps with guys on the first date. After I had just fucked her on our first date where we went to dinner... There's nothing inherently wrong with the dating frame. There's something wrong with the " I'm trying to impress you" frame. Anyway enough of my ranting about semantics. I just think the terminology is really weird and I was always waiting for one of the community guys I used to hang out with to refer to his girlfriend coming over as a day 46.

The most important thing in my mind about dates is where they start. There's only one correct answer here and that's at your place. Now this assumes you live near where your date is going to happen. If you don't something is wrong and you should plan a date closer to your place. There are always cool neighborhood bars, coffee shops, restaurants etc, near where you live. You just need to get out and actually find them.

So you've set up your date( Which could and should be a separate post in and of itself) and you tell her to meet you at your place " Call me when you get there and I'll come out." Then when they call I come outside but whoops I forgot my wallet. That means we have to go back up. It's vitally important that you get the girl used to her being in your place without you trying to make a move on her. My wing Captain Jack alternatively tries to escalate when they come in and if he can't close them then( Which is rare for him) he takes them on the date. That's another strategy though he does have super powers so mere mortals should use that at their own risk. Back to the previous point showing a woman your home takes away the fear of the unknown for her and it will be far easier to get her back to your place later.

The next thing EVERY date needs is multiple venues. The more place you spend time with a woman in the longer it will feel like she has known you. My particular date goes through up to 7 different locations not counting my place. The best thing is none of them are more than 3 blocks from my place. This is how you can do dinner dates without setting up a traditional dinner date. In the middle of doing something else just casually mention how hungry you are and suggest stopping in somewhere for a bite.

Now while you're on the date you should be filling in the empty canvas of your life. Now is the time to talk about your hopes and dreams, the things you are passionate about, your friends, and family, hobbies etc.. It's time to literally be yourself. One of the things every girl will think when she's on a date with you is " How would my life be different if this guy were my boyfriend"
So you want to make sure you paint a vivid picture of your life. I tend to rant about things because that's how I am. I also run my grounding sequence on my first date as I know I'll have her undivided attention for at least 25 minutes.

You asked if you should keep it superficial or get deeper. My answer is that you should get deep but be fun! A lot of guys will make the mistake of neglecting attraction entirely on the date. You need to remind her periodically of why she was attracted to you in the first place. Fun is the most important factor in all of your dealings with women but especially with dates. If she's having fun whatever you are actually doing doesn't matter. Conversely if she isn't having fun you could be doing her favorite thing in the world and she'll hate it and you. Keep things playful and flirty the entire way but don't be afraid to demonstrate your passion and the things you actually care about.

Kissing- You asked if you should kiss or not. You should be kissing the girl as soon as you think you can. If you made out when you met her then you have to be able to tell when she hugs you hello if you can kiss her right away. Usually I will hold off on kissing in the beginning to build some more sexual tension for later.

Tomor I'll finish up this article by talking about how to build sexual tension on a date, how to escalate physically, how to get her back to your house at the end and much much more.

Same Sinn time, same Sinn station

S

Reviews:

I noticed I have very few reviews for my programs posted here, so with an eye on student progress here's some from over the years!

TripleCrown 09-25-2006 06:50 PM

Mystery Method - OC BootCamp with Sinn

For all you window shoppers out there, let the debate end here. That was some of the best money I have ever spent!
Last month, before I had ever heard of this community, Mystery, The Game or the MMBC's, I spent almost the same amount of money on a tuxedo (the JazzBaker by Hugo Boss for all the other fashion gurus out there) and other bullshit for an old girlfriends wedding where I wanted to woo a lady I had met at a previous engagement. What a dumbass I was...
Let me tell you right now that I wish I had just saved the money and used it for the upcoming DayGame Seminar by Sinn to follow and build on the already awesome MMBC. My MMBC experience was unreal. Sinn, Masters and the other instructors have the program wired and give you the "tough love" approach that you really need to get your ass in gear and out in the field.
Personal attention was awesome. My only suggestion would be to provide a syllabus that more accurately and closely follows the lecture material given by Sinn. There is so much good information that I just could not write fast enough and unlike college, we were not allowed recording devices, so I lacked a reference for my notes for later correction. If the handouts had the basic lecture outline, it would afford students an opportunity to write down the "lecture-only" gems that can sometimes really make a difference.
Again, totally worth it. If you are thinking about signing up or are on the fence, get your head out of your ass, pony up and take your licks like a man at the MMBC. It may just change your life...


Mr Bigshot 09-26-2006 04:27 AM

OC Bootcamp with Sinn

I am sure a majority of people were skeptical before they signed up. It's understandable to question this. I mean, how can it be that easy?
Then came Day 1 in field demonstration. What. The. F.
Sinn ran text book material with Vision within earshots of groups while Masters and Kevin dissected the action. The effect was unquestionably visible within minutes. First, I saw them do a 2 set who invited them to the bathroom. Then Sinn winged a student and got the target's friend hanging all over him. At that point, I was already in awe but I had to challenge them with a tough set. It was a group of 3 girls and 1 guy. Sinn and Vision dismantled that like clockwork. And for the night's coup de grace, Sinn did a solo set literallly within 1 step of the group at closing time. The set was 10 minutes tops. Unbelieveable.
Day 2 in field was an even better experience. Sinn kicked off the night by pulling the waitress but the opportunity to run in field sets and to have the instructors provide immediate feedback was the quintessence of the bootcamp. Instructors were constantly challenging me to improve my game and I shocked myself consistently getting postive reactions by employing crudely learnt routines from the seminar 3 hours prior. The impact was apparent.
The seminars and events were well organized and ran with impeccable professionalism. The only thing I regret about this program is that I did not learn about it earlier.
(Added bonus: you don't have to buy drinks for girls again. Half a year of that costs more

Houston lair talk

Hey guys,

We set the lair talk location for Houston this weekend.

It's going to be at

Comfort Suites Galleria
6221 Richmond Avenue
Houston, TX 77057

You can sign up by going Here

The mini-seminar is going to feature a talk by me on inner game and a talk by El Topo about advanced body language. You also get a free 15 minute phone consultation after the seminar.

It starts at 5PM Sat and goes till around 7 though we usually end up going later.

You can buy tickets for $55 at the door.

I've got some new things to add to this talk so I'm excited to do it!

S

Sinnterview Pt 2

The second part of my Pick-up Podcast went up today.

Check it outHere

S

Latest Video Blog!!!!!

Interview on The Seduction Chronicles

Hey guys,

I did an interview with Donovan over at The Attraction Chronicles.

Check it out Here

I'm going to be writing a weekly column over there EVERY Friday so be sure to bookmark that page and check me out on Fridays.

Best,

S