Tuesday, April 07, 2009

Common Female Thoughts Part 1

Hey guys,

This is going to be a new running feature on the blog called Common Female Thoughts.

As someone who claims to know a lot about female psychology and how women think, I wanted to take some time to explain a couple common thoughts among particularly beautiful women that us as guys may not realize.

Because I like In10se spend the majority of my time around women, I wanted to share a few of the things I’ve learned through hours of long conversations over dinners, pillows, pool time, and late night phone calls.

The first one I want to talk about is the idea that particularly beautiful women know that they both intimidate and arouse most men.

The intimidation factor is key.

Particularly beautiful women are very aware of their power over men. They know that most men can’t stand up to them, they know that most men will give in to their emotional whims, and will bend over backwards for the chance to sleep with her.

I remember a conversation I had on a plane with a girl with two girls who guys would call “10s” they had actually just hosted an event and it turns out one was a playmate and the other a DJ.

One of the things the tall one said to me stands out, we were talking and she kept breaking my frames. Finally in frustration I said something about her being difficult. She responded by saying something like. I think it’s just a hot girl thing, I don’t really feel the need to qualify myself ever. If people don’t like me that ‘s their problem because I know most guys are going to like me. Most guys are scared of me anyway so if I’m even a little nice I can get what I want. Later on she was telling me how her boyfriend blows her off to workout. Probably not a coincidence.

It can be very powerful to talk to girls about how they usually intimidate guys but you see the real them beyond the looks. As well as act like you’re not affected in any way by her looks. Which can be much harder than it sounds with girls who look like they stepped out of a music video or some other type of video ☺

S

5 comments:

  1. Anonymous4:04 PM

    Nice post. I think that beyond intimidation, being someone who is willing to walk away and willing to break rapport is very important

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  2. This reminds me of a cold read for hot girls I made:

    Like with you, I can tell that even while youre done up and look good on the outside, you dont always feel the same way inside.... and it sucks because a lot of guys you meet will expect you to act a certain way and judge you for not acting like that.

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  3. Anonymous9:22 AM

    This may be a silly question, but what do you mean by most guys can't "stand up to them?" Do you mean something along the lines of being able to calmly approach them or do you mean something more active like not agreeing with them on everything

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  4. Anonymous9:22 AM

    This may be a silly question, but what do you mean by most guys can't "stand up to them?" Do you mean something along the lines of being able to calmly approach them or do you mean something more active like not agreeing with them on everything

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  5. Anonymous11:16 AM

    It is not something that needs to be faked.
    I know for sure what type of women I want and I qualify women a lot based on this.
    Ever since I got clear on this I started to be very cool around any type of women, no matter how hot.
    It turns the frame if you are the one qualifying her, especially looking for things besides her looks.
    The the other part to this is knowing you are on the same social level, cause you got so much great stuff going on in your life.

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