Wednesday, April 15, 2009

5 Things every guy wants to do...

This is (I guess) a routine I’ve been using for awhile to set frames and open up sexual dialogues especially about threesomes. It's mostly just a random thought to illustrate that comfort talk doesn't have to be that magical..

I actually believe this and I started talking about it with girls in Comfort or on dates as an escalation thing.

I really like having theories, and ideas about various subjects and sharing them. It’s really the basis of my comfort game.

Here’s a rough breakdown as it comes out a little bit differently every time.

See that’s one of the things that girls just don’t understand about guys… Every guy has like 5 things they want to do.

Here we want to purposely bait her into asking what the 5 things are as opposed to telling her right away. This is a conversational tactic I do unconsciously now.

Ok the 5 things are

Pull a heist
Win a Lot of money at Poker
Knock some guy out
Fly in a Private Jet

And have a Threesome.

So I’ve done one out of 5. I have like 50 years to knock the other 4 off…

From there the girl will ask which one it was and then you can tease her by saying it was pulling a heist, or you can go suggestive and ask which one she thinks it was. That’s what I usually do, then I explain my position on threesomes, leading to asking her what kind of girls she likes….

Hope that helps people.



  1. Anonymous3:39 PM

    The open loop thing is really cool. I always did that naturally.

    Good little "routine" to introduce sexuality too.

  2. "Comfort" is often viewed as this vacuous concept that a lot of guys muse over....but truly it is quite simple. And this is a great example of that. But better than that it shows just how easy it is to introduce sexual elements & frames with simple things like this.

  3. Anonymous10:55 AM

    I think you have to do the threesome before you pull a heist, unless you want your threesome with Antonio and Jesus

  4. Anonymous12:04 PM

    a fan of Dane Cook, huh?