Hangover of DEATH

I am sooo hungover today.

I remember when I didn't get hungover and am incredibly bitter about this.

Last night I ended up bringing a girl home and apparently we got pretty drunk cause I don't remember how we got home, I'm missing large portions of my night and neither of us could get out of bed before 1 PM.

I've also been out drinking the last 4 nights in a row while being able to get a luxerious 4-6 hours of sleep a night. Combine that with summer being HOT as fuck and me not drinking enough water, and you get my day today.

Unfortunately I also have to do a fair bit of work the rest of today.

And a workout, sweat some of the alcohol out.

Hope everyone else is having a better day :)

JS

Michael Jordan Gatorade

Of course I've tried to collect all 6 bottles...

JS

My Twitter is Being Weird.

So You will get my 140 characters witticisms here and like it.

JS

Leaving Miami

I'm OUT bitches ( Term of endearment as CJ said).

JS

Student Success Story- First Lay in 20 years... Thanks To SOA Materials

Hey guys,

Saw a great review on the SOA (Forum) forum this morning and wanted to share it.

It's always great to help guys get their first success with women.

Here it is from Ace:
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I finally lost my virginity after 20 years of being terrible with women. After reading the day game report as well as the video from the 21 convention I got my first lay.

I'm not sure if Sinn invented this material but all I did was a combination of qualification pinging and breaking rapport. Then I did phone game with call back humor and just acted normal. I even admitted that I was a virgin after 2 weeks of knowing her but she thought it was cute.

After 1 date I moved her from 2 different locations and then back to my place.

I cant stress how much this material has helped me, I had never even talked to a girl longer than 30 minutes before getting into this stuff. I had only used 2 routines, one that a friend taught me and the facebook opener.

When I got into this stuff, I didnt know that it would work. Thanks Sinn.

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Podcast # 20

Hey guys,

Here's the link for this week's Podcast.

In it I discuss my 6 degrees of separation from 2 characters on a reality TV show, tell a party about going to a swingers party and give my top 10 tips for dealing with HOT girls.

Listen to it and become strong like Bear.

Podcast 20

JS

Less Than 24 Hours Left to Apply!

Hey guys,

This is a friendly reminder that, as I write this, you have
Less than 24 hour left to download your application to be part of
my ground-breaking Platinum Mastermind Coaching Program.

This program promises to be the best pick-up training on the planet.
Period.

You can apply by going here:

Mastermind Page


Talk to you later,

Sinn

P.S. Remember, if you’re accepted into the program you can access
to FOUR in-field trainings and close to $1000.00 worth of Sinns of
Attraction products. Get them here:

Mastermind Page

VLOG # 897 or so. I'm bad at counting :)

Hey guys,

Here's a Vlog and another sighting of the mysterious Bandana of doom...

JS

Don't Miss Out!!

After The Game Explosion Teleseminar yesterday, where I opened
Enrollment to my Platinum Mastermind group, we received
an avalanche of applications from forward thinking guys,
who want to become outrageously successful with women,
and applications are still pouring in.


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Now, if you did not get a chance to listen to this call
live, you can download a recording of it right now by going to this page:

Seminar

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And then, if you want to apply for the program, make sure
you download your application at:

http://www.sinnsofattraction.com/master

Remember, all applications must be submitted by Tuesday,
August 24 at midnight and we’re giving priority to the
Applications we receive first.

That’s all I got for now. Have a great weekend.

Sinn

Reminder Teleseminar Tonight!

Hi guys,


Just a friendly reminder that your one-time only teleseminar is talking place today.

The topic is:

"5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Or Less –

And Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It!"


Date: Thursday, August 20

Time: 8:00 PM EASTERN TO 9:15 PM EASTERN

Phone #: 619-684-9024 (be sure to call in 5 minutes early!)

Passcode: 577602# (remember to press the #!)


Link to listen online: Listen Online


Cost: Free


Sinn


P.S. We have completely oversold all 500 teleseminar lines.

This means that if you call in late there is a change you might

not get through. I suggest that you call in 5 minutes early. I also

set up a webcast in case you don’t get through:


Listen Here

Lessons Learned From Students Part 5 of 5- Outkast

What’s up guys,

Allright today we are going to wrap up the 5 part series on Lessons I Have Learned From Students.

Today we’re gonna talk about a guy I NEVER thought was going to get better.

I called him Outkast because his big problem his whole life was that EVERYBODY told him he was a loser. He was the president of the chess club in High School (Literally), joined a fraternity in college and still didn’t lose his virginity until he was 25. Add to that the fact that Outkast had read and studied a ton of different pickup material. The word social robot would be an understatement. He had been to bootcamps with Mystery, Juggler, Stylelife, and Vin Dicarlo, and still could not consistently deal with his approach anxiety or get phone numbers.

It’s not even like there was anything that weird or off about Outkast. Once we stripped away the eyeliner, and handcuff belt, and 8 rings, he was actually a normal guy :) The problem was he had NEVER learned to socialize and had always been told he was a loser. As a result he felt like a loser intensely. So intensely that he thought the only way out was to “fake it til you make it” and act like some sort of superstar/player/pimp character from a b list movie.

The first thing I told Outkast was that he had to start from 0. He had to work first on building the most basic of social skills. These are the things that EVERY guy should polish up when he’s thinking about getting better with women. These are skills like starting conversations with strangers, fluff talk, conversational control, story-telling etc..

I started to see changes in Outkast right away. Since there was no pressure on him to “get laid” every time he went out anymore his approach anxiety became controllable almost right away. That was the good news.

The bad news was that he had NO idea what to say after he started a conversation. I witnessed it at our first bootcamp with the small group. He literally stood there in silence for a full 5 seconds after he opened. EVERY time.

That weekend I worked my ass off trying to get him to use any type of transition, routine, hell even a lame question is better than silence. None of this worked.

The problem was that the pressure mounted for Outkast again as soon as he started the conversation. Once he had opened he felt a ton of pressure to “ keep things going” or “ say the right thing.” And he had no clue how to do that.

I had taught him every tactic from observational transitions to preplanned cold reads. Nothing was getting through, when it hit me. The problem wasn’t the running out of things to say it was the lack of a way to handle the stress and sort through the options in a timely manner. Later on it turned out that this was the major problem for most guys when it came to running out of things to say.

So I started to look at stress management techniques and I settled upon the idea of using a combination of deep breathing and a preprepared acronym. In this case CGORP, standing for cold read, grounding story, observation or role play. By filling this in with preplanned routines Outkast was able to move on to keeping a conversation going for another 2 minutes.

This was not the last time Outkast had problems with knowing what to say. In fact that was the biggest thing I learned about game from Outkast. The importance of information personalization, timing, and stacking.

The information about using an acronym of preplanned routines was only useful once we had figured out how to relax Outkast right after the opener. It stopped being relevant when he ran through the sequence and was again stuck. But it was here that he could go back to an earlier skill he had learned. Basic conversation skills. This is what I like to call game symmetry.

Back in 2004 when I took my bootcamp at Project Hollywood, we thought that game was a linear process. First you learn how to open, then you learn how to attract, qualify etc… But the truth is that you have to teach to where the student is currently. Not what he could be with different beliefs or life experiences. This is what I like to call information stacking. You get the best results when you learn things in a specific order from the broadest skills to the most specific. I like to think about this as a triangle of game. The top of the triangle has to be supported by an extremely solid base. There are certain strange patterns of learning that increase results. In addition to Outkast I tested this theory by teaching the members of 12M2M how to do dates before they were getting them consistently. I had them take girls off the internet on a specifically set up date to learn the skillset of going on dates. Not surprisingly when the guys started getting dates they were getting laid on them…

Most guys teaching still adhere to the linear model of teaching instead of focusing on building symmetrical skills in students. The more students work on complimenting skillsets the more they experience results on the way through the learning process. This was the lesson I learned from Outkast.

Ultimately Outkast ended up dating two girls toward the end of the 6 month training. He’s currently still practicing his skillset but can finally control his dating life for the first time. Which is a true success story.

I hope you guys learned as much from reading these accounts as I did from writing them. Be sure to stay tuned for an opportunity to be a part of an upcoming training program.

Best,

JS


PS: Be sure to sign up for my teleseminar tomorrow night on the 5 Secrets Of Exploding Your Game. Sign up at Sinnsofattraction.com/teleseminar

Can You Really Improve Your Game By 200%?

Hey guys,

Since I announced this teleseminar, a few people have asked me how much one simple teleseminar can improve your game. Well, if you’re like one of my students, Jeremy, who attended an earlier seminar of mine, it can improve your game by 200%. Here’s what he had to say:

“At the end of the seminar Sinn answered all our questions, gave us some more insights about phone game, and even asked if there were any particular situations any of us were having difficulties with. For him to take the time at the end like he did, shows how much he really cares about his students. I will end by saying that learning from Sinn elevated my game by about 200%, and is life changing!”

There are still a few lines left for my free teleseminar,

"5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Days Or Less – And Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It!"

It's happening tomorrow, Thursday, August 20, at 8:00 p.m. EST

You can get all the details and register right now by going to:

Register Now

(Remember, there is no charge for this teleseminar!)

Sinn

P.S. Below is the original e-mail, just in case you missed it.

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On Thursday, August 20, 2009, I’m hosting a no-charge teleseminar entitled, “5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Day Or Less – And Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It!”

On this special teleseminar, you’re going to learn ALL NEW information that I have not revealed to anyone outside of my private coaching groups. Here’s some of what we’ll cover:

* A little-known secret that explains why some guys get good fast while other guys struggle for years (When you apply this secret, you’ll take literally YEARS off you’re learning curve. I promise!)

* A special technique for eliminating Approach Anxiety in the shortest time possible!

* How to start getting CRAZY results with women (threesomes, 10 minute lays, Same Day Lays, etc.) as quickly as possible! (It may seem hard to believe now, but these kinds of results are WELL within your reach!)

* The secret of Inner Game/Out Game Symmetry (Once you master this, you’ll find yourself automatically talking to more women and your results will skyrocket!)

* My never-before-revealed method for crushing any “sticking point” you have in record time! (Trust me, when you apply this method your progress will never be halted ever again!)

* A critical mistake almost every guy makes when trying to become more successful with women… and what to do about it!

* And MUCH more!

Here’s the link to register:

Register

See you on the call!

Sinn

P.S. I only have 500 lines reserved for the call and they’re expected to fill up fast. So be sure to register right away:

Register

Lessons Learned From Students Part 4 of 5- El Topo

Welcome back to the blog that has it all intrigue, adventure, gambling, and the occasional nugget of pickup advice ☺

Today we have part 4 of the Lessons I’ve Learned From Students.

So far we’ve heard about the power of reframing from the Admiral

Admiral

We learned all about the power of classifying touching from Tequila

Tequila

And we learned about investment and flake management from training Future

Future

Today we’re gonna be tackling what I learned from teaching the enigmatic El Topo.

I was El Topo’s original bootcamp instructor when he took his program in Phoenix. I thought the guy was a little nuts. He talked about how he’d played in bands and had done a ton of drugs on tour. He also bounced around the clubs that night like he was still on the junk ☺

Later on I found out that he had driven from Fort Worth to Phoenix to take the program. He showered at truck stops and slept in his car. He was definitely dedicated.

The last night of his program I ended up stealing this hot redhead he had opened. I ended up banging her then going back out to meet the guys at Denny’s. There was El Topo hanging out with Captain Jack, Tenmagnet and two Mexican girls.


I honestly didn’t think much about him again after that, until he started to hang out at the same bars Captain Jack was at in Dallas. CJ told me that he thought he had potential and had coached him to a couple of same night pulls.
So I hung out with him and CJ a few nights. I noticed that ET was kind of crazy. He had a tendency to really push the envelope when it came to the boundaries of taste. It was almost as if he was always trying to get a reaction out of people by saying the most twisted things he could think of. I believe I once called him “ The most reactive person I have ever met.”

But despite that he started to get better with women. Furthermore he was able to really break down a lot of what CJ and I were doing. In fact he was the first guy to point out that Captain Jack didn’t really DHV at all.

In fact he called what CJ was doing grounding story-telling. The idea of grounding in the old school Mystery Method sense of the word was to tell stories about your life to illustrate how you attained your identity. El Topo took it to mean something else. He took grounding stories as an opportunity to ground yourself emotionally. This idea was a great innovation for attraction. Now instead of telling women about how you rescued your ex girlfriend whose a supermodel from a tiger or a group of horny stalkers, you could tell stories from your life that give women clues as to how you’re going to behave in the future as well as stimulating them emotionally in order to draw them in for qualification. This was a great new tool for attraction as well as a great explanation of what CJ and I had been doing for awhile.

The cooler part was that grounding could be used in all sorts of situations from day game to dealing with strippers and hired guns. Everyone has stories from their lives that can be used to ground your personality. In fact we have an hour long exercise we teach at all the 12 Months To Mastery Bootcamps for just that purpose. Grounding also added another way to be emotionally stimulating which is a major part of being interesting, one of the four tiers of Natural Attraction.

There’s a lot of great stuff in there, be sure to be back here for the finale to hear what I learned from the most hard case student in my 3 person coaching group, I guy I like to call Outkast.

Free Teleseminar: 5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game!

Hey guys,


On Thursday, August 20, 2009, I’m hosting a no-charge teleseminar entitled, “5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Day Or Less – And Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It!”
On this special teleseminar, you’re going to learn ALL NEW information that I have not revealed to anyone outside of my private coaching groups. Here’s some of what we’ll cover:

* A little-known secret that explains why some guys get good fast while other guys struggle for years (When you apply this secret, you’ll take literally YEARS off you’re learning curve. I promise!)

* A special technique for eliminating Approach Anxiety in the shortest time possible!

* How to start getting CRAZY results with women (threesomes, 10 minute lays, Same Day Lays, etc.) as quickly as possible! (It may seem hard to believe now, but these kinds of results are WELL within your reach!)

* The secret of Inner Game/Out Game Symmetry (Once you master this, you’ll find yourself automatically talking to more women and your results will skyrocket!)

* My never-before-revealed method for crushing any “sticking point” you have in record time! (Trust me, when you apply this method your progress will never be halted ever again!)

* A critical mistake almost every guy makes when trying to become more successful with women… and what to do about it!

* And MUCH more!

Here’s the link to register:

Register

See you on the call!

Sinn

P.S. I only have 500 lines reserved for the call and they’re expected to fill up fast. So be sure to register right away:

Register

Video Blog!

Hey Guys,

Here's a quick Video Blog with a big announcement!

Lessons Learned From Students Part 3 of 5- Future

Allright guys, it’s time for part 3 of Lessons Learned From Students.

This time we’re going to be examining what I learned in training Love Systems Instructor Future.

Future obviously has gone on to great success as a teacher in his own right, but when I met him he had a major problem with his upfront game, but had great comfort game. In fact he almost never got flakes. This was in direct contrast to most guys including Mystery. The secret was something that we backwards engineered and called Breakthrough Comfort.

It took a really long time to figure out, but about 6 months after coming up with the rough Breakthrough Comfort model, I had a month in LA where I slept with 16 different girls.

Then all hell broke out…

The problem with Breakthrough Comfort, was that while it generated a ton of comfort and connection it also set very strong relationship frames. So we always started the seminar with a lecture warning students not to use this technique with every girl. Unless they wanted an up close relationship with the local Pep Boys and Glass installation guys.

But I knew there was a way to reproduce the connection and lack of flaking from this type of comfort without the consequences.

It was a few months later in Dallas when I figured out what the secret to Breakthrough Comfort was, investment. By using Breakthrough Comfort and talking about how it was destiny that the two for you met, the woman invested in an assumed relationship. But there were other less intense forms of investment.

For example you could have a woman buy and bring over a sheet of break and bake cookies and you get her to invest her time and finances. By introducing her to other girls you have gamed that night you make her invest in getting your attention, by getting her to qualify herself in multiple different ways the girl invests.

Suddenly I started getting tons of phone numbers with no flakes. Furthermore when I combined it with my new followup and phone game structure, I didn’t get a single flake for almost 6 months. And I was going on 1 date a week minimum.

The ultimate test of what I learned from training Future was when I taught follow up and phone game to the guys in 12 Months To Mastery. The tracking sheets showed that when guys applied proper follow up ( Long term investment, prepping, roleplay closes, etc..) and phone game ( Message, timing, story-telling, emotional connection stuff,) their flaking went down a whopping 57%. That’s over half!!!! I I get the guys permission I’ll release some of the tracking sheets from back to back months that show the difference.


Allright that’s gonna wrap up what I learned from Future next time we’ll be talking about what I learned from another famous PUA the infamous EL Topo.

Til then,

JS

P.S. I’m going to be conducting a HUGE free teleseminar next Thursday, August 20 at 8:00 p.m. Eastern Time (5:00 p.m. Pacific Time). If you are at all serious about getting amazing results with women, you are NOT going to want to miss this special event.

The complete details about the teleseminar will be released on Monday. In the meantime, mark down an appointment with me for Thursday, August 20 at 8:00 p.m. Eastern Time (5:00 p.m. Pacific Time) in your calendar NOW.

Games People Play write up

Hey guys,

Today I have a quick write up on “ The Games People Play” and transactional analysis as related to this crazy little thing we call game.

The first thing I want to write about is the concept of a game. A game according to Berne is an ongoing series of complimentary ulterior transactions progressing to a well defined predictable outcome. In other words they are actions motivated by an internal psychological payoff which may or may not be healthy.

Games are fascinating because they generally determine the patterns of people’s lives. In the book Berne examines a ton of different types of games from life games like Alcoholic to sexual games like the terrifying Rapo. By being able to identify the games you and people you are interacting with are playing, you can start to better understand yourself and others.

The concept of games really applies to some of the “ugly” truths about dating. So many guys want to rant and rave about how attractive women like to date jerks, but they don’t see that the girl may be playing a game to get some sort of psychological payoff. Same thing with girls who are star fuckers or club social climbers. Try thinking about that the next time you’re interacting with a woman, ask yourself what the psychological payoff she’s getting may be.

Ultimately the point of Games People Play is to communicate honestly through the structure of use of transactional analysis and seek the attainment of autonomy. Autonomy being defined as the capacity to make an informed rational decision. In other words being in control of your life.

The attainment of Autonomy comes from recovering awareness, developing spontaneity and the liberation of intimacy. Awareness refers to the idea of living in the moment and having the mind and body in the same place at the same time. This is where Eckhart Tolle’s teachings come into play being in the moment is key to developing your awareness of your feelings, thoughts, etc. Spontaneity is all about opening up all of your options so that you can choose from any outcome not just the ones you’ve been having or feel like you should have. Intimacy comes from being in the moment, spontaneously feeling the urge to open up candidly to another person and doing so.

Overall Games People Play was a little disappointing as it gave some solid starts for inner game restructuring but it left me with a few more questions than answers which led me to Dr Berne’s second much less publicized book “ What Do You Say After Hello?”

But that’s another blog post altogether….

JS

Lessons Learned From Students Part 2 of 5- Tequila

What’s going on guys,

We’re back with the second part of Lessons I’ve Learned From Students, last time I talked about the ideas of mentally reframing limiting beliefs, using mental rehearsal and the story of The Admiral.

Today I wanted to talk about another member of my 3 person private coaching group.

This guy we call Tequila, because of his fondness for my least favorite alcohol.

When Tequila joined up I knew we were going to have a problem. As un-PC as it is to sound, guys who are MASSIVELY overweight (I’m talking 75-100 lbs) are ALWAYS going to have problems with women until they lose some of the weight.

I’m sure, I’m going to get a ton of emails about that, but the truth is it broadcasts a loud message about your health and self esteem.

Tequila was about 50LBS overweight and I told him that if he wanted to maximize his time in the program we needed to work on his weight loss as part of a new lifestyle.

Tequila also has some major advantages, he’s got a great sense of humor, is fun to be around and has a group of HOT women he made friends with in college. In fact that was the biggest problem Tequila had from day 1 he couldn’t escape the “friend” zone.

The first thing I wanted to do for Tequila, was set him up with a Lifestyle plan that includes exercise. He liked Mixed Martial Arts a lot, so I suggested he took some classes in addition to joining a gym. Over the course of the last 5 months Tequila has lost 40 lbs, and is below 250ILBs for the first time since high school! He also has a social life revolving around exercise from being on a co-ed soccer team to going kayaking on dates with girls almost every weekend.

We also figured out WHY he always got stuck in the friend zone. He NEVER touched girls, after being introduced.

Even when I gave him the reset model for touching and a normal escalation sequence, he couldn’t bring himself to do it. Over the phone he kept telling me that he just couldn’t touch girls unless there was a social excuse to do so. So he could give girls kisses on the cheek when he saw them for the first time at a party, but he couldn’t bring himself to try to hold her hand.

With that I knew what we needed to do, we had to come up with a specific set of touching escalations that had social “excuses” built in. This actually majorly changed how I now teach touching, as there are a ton of socially acceptable reasons to touch girls from high fiving a commonality to demonstrating how a couple were walking by going arm in arm. I also now have further classified touching into categories and sections of the pickup. The reset model remains completely correct, but the sequence and acceptance rate of touching sky rocketed from the previous sequences I have been teaching. In fact I would say it completely revamps the way you communicate physically with women.

Once Tequila started being able to touch girls, he learned that escalating was simply a matter of following the one plus one model. Tequila got his first cold approach lay about a week after we redid his touching ladder. Even more incredibly he was able to escape from the friend zone with a sexy bartender he had known for 3 years. 3 weeks later he converted another friend. At last count Tequila has slept with 5 women he was formerly friends with and is still seeing 3 of them. The women all know it, and joke that he is suddenly the “player” of their group of friends.

These re-vamps in touching are going to be a major part of the next wave of cirriculum we teach at SOA, so be on the lookout for info on how you can learn these techniques shortly

Next time we’ll be talking about a guy whose fairly well known in the community and actually teaches for another company. Stay tuned to read all about what I learned while training Future.

JS

Sinn And The Cities Episode 19

In this week's podcast, I talk about the good things people can get out of the community, review G.I Joe the Movie and read a LR from a student.

You will like :)


HERE


JS

Lessons Learned From Students Part 1 of 5- The Admiral

Hey guys,

Lately I’ve been pouring over a ton of data from the guys in 12M2M and my other private coaching students and a few things have really jumped out at me. In fact I would say some of the BEST realizations about Game and Dating have come from students of mine.

This got me thinking, since I’ve trained some of the best guys out there from Ozzie over at RSD, to Future at Love Systems, I wanted to share what I’ve learned from various guys I taught over the years.

The first guy I want to talk about is actually a member of my private small group coaching program. This was the group of guys I have been training since we put up a small notice for private training in small groups a few months ago.

This guy we’ll call The Admiral. The Admiral is a little bit on the older side, he was 41 when I started training him and the other two guys in this small group. He’d also just come out of a divorce, about a year before joining up with me. This is actually not that uncommon as about 33% of all students are fresh out of long term relationships.

The reason that he wanted to get better with women was not to become some sort of crazy player, instead he wanted to find a girl he could be in a long term relationship with.

There was only one problem, he wanted to date younger women, but was terrified to approach them. This problem was pretty persistent. In fact we had 6 straight 45 minute long phone consultations where the Admiral and I discussed the reasons behind these beliefs and various tactics and techniques he could try.

Ultimately from The Admiral, I learned a couple of things.

The first thing I learned was the importance of multiple types of reframes. In NLP they talk about this strategy in terms of opening up potential maps. In the Admiral the first 5 maps we opened up weren’t effective.

We started out with a simple positive prior intention reframe, where we tried to reframe his uneasiness with younger women as being related to wanting soo badly to be in a relationship again. That didn’t work.

Neither did Counter Examples of which I had him keep a pad and paper for recording anytime he saw an older man with a younger woman.

In fact we went halfway through my NLP reframing manuals…

Ultimately I learned that to really get to the bottom of someone’s internal issues you have to understand the ways they internally motivate themselves. There’s no point in telling a guy like The Admiral to quit being a pussy, or trying to reframe a guy with social anxiety.

Ultimately we found a solution for The Admiral’s issue by examining his idea of his own identity ( A creepy older guy hitting on younger girls because he was lonely) Because his early attempts at trying to talk to younger women were weird he had accepted that it was him and not simply his behaviors. We had a major breakthrough when he told me he was NOT the kind of person that judges people on their behaviors alone. Which didn’t really gell with the way he was judging himself with women.

We also had him start a daily wake-up routine where he would mentally practice approaching a hot younger woman. This sort of psycho-cybernetics practice can be a major boost for guys if they actually do it daily, as I made sure the Admiral was doing.

I made sure he had actually made progress this last bootcamp. During the Day Game portion I made him approach girls that looked to be 18-20 years. After 4-5 approaches he was hooking these girls on moving approaches easily.

He ended up with 3 phone numbers that day from girls between 20-24.

The Admiral kept the momentum up and is actually now in a committed relationship with a 26 year old woman he met at his gym.

Ultimately, I learned that you NEVER know when a lightbulb is going to go off in a student’s head and they’ll be able to make open new maps and change their behaviors. Plus I learned a ton about different types of reframes, affirmations and mental rehearsal.

S

Begginning Of The Week VLOG

Here's a new VLOG to start the week off for ya.

Be sure to check back later today for the first Lessons Learned From Students Article.

Word.

S

End Of Week Vlog

Hey look, it's a VLOG where I'm not in bed and it's not creepy :)

Great Community Quotes # 3

We're back with another quote that I can't use for one reason or another.

This one actually didn't happen with me in the room, but has been relayed to me by 2 people who were there.

Let's set the scene.

One instructor has been talking to another (more junior) instructor about how he doesn't believe the junior instructor gets "10s". A very evolved and important argument to having, if you're in fifth grade :)

The argument quickly gets heated as each side tries to defend their point and keep their "frames". It should also be noted that this was the first time these two guys had met. At the most heated part of the argument the lead instructor uttered this classic phrase.

" If I didn't have my inner game on right now, I would sock you."

I mean if I didn't have my inner game on right now, I'd probably drive a schoolbus of children of a cliff into an ocean. Lucky for them, I've been reading my Tolle lately so instead I'll just write a newsletter :)

S

This week's Cast of Pod.

Here's the link, you can get quick like a bunny by subscribing on Itunes.

http://www.sinnandthecities.com/audio/Sinn%20and%20the%20Cities%20-%2018.mp3

S

Jerry Seinfeld- One of TV's Most Successful Players

So Cam and I were talking the other day about Seinfeld for some reason, and I brought up something that NO ONE else ever seems to notice. Seinfeld had a lot of game in the show.

Basically every week he was dating a new fairly attractive ( for the 90s) woman.

In fact there are various episodes that focus on him picking up a girl. There's the episode when he meets a girl in an elevator, by telling her he was the guy who was responsible for all the crop circles. Or there's the time he meets a woman after she hits a parked car and doesn't leave a note.

Plus the women he dated were often known to be particularly attractive like the Calvin Klein model who thinks he picked his nose, or the Miss America contestant whose Doves he killed. I mean he also dated Elaine, but nobody is perfect :)

Cam brought up the point that the show is from Seinfeld's perspective, which is why he's got his real name and is a comedian in the show as well. But, they never really make it seem like Jerry is all that successful or well known. In fact no girls(or people) ever seem to know who he is from his comedy. The only times I can remember people bringing it up is when the old folks in Florida tell him he's terrible...

I just think it's funny that when most people think about TV characters that were shown to be good with women, it's always guys like the Fonz, or Joey from Friends, or that guy from Nip Tuck and Jerry never gets brought up, even though my guess is he was on screen with WAY more women than those other guys combined.

S

VLOG # 4- I'm not sure if this was a good idea...

I was too lazy to get out of bed to film my VLOG, this could be the beginning of the end :)

Complete Fiction: 93% of Communication is nonverbal

Hey guys,

Here's a new feature on the blog that will be popping up from time to time.

In it I'm going to attempt to bring a real scientific and field tested perspective to some of the stupider ideas that are taught in the SUISC.

Today we're going to start with the ideal that 93% of communication is nonverbal.

If you've been studying dating for more than a minute, I'm sure you've heard the phrase "it's not what you say, it's how you say it." This is usually followed by a long diatribe about "Super Alpha Body Language", " Sexual State Projection", and ultimately the citing of a study by a man named Albert Mehrabian.

In the experiment, people listened to a couple of different words in a few voice tones and were then shown a few pictures before giving an opinion on liking.

The study concluded that

Total Liking = 7% Verbal Liking + 38% Vocal Liking + 55% Facial Liking

It was then generalized and distilled to the PUAs in the following formula.

• 7% happens in spoken words.
• 38% happens through voice tone.
• 55% happens via general body language

However it's VERY well understood in the academic world that these statistics are not correct.

Check Out this site for more info: http://changingminds.org/explanations/behaviors/body_language/mehrabian.htm

I figured this out for myself by texting girls. I learned that I could meet a girl for 5 minutes in Chicago and through text and phone game convince her to fly herself across the country to spend the weekend in LA with me.

How could that happen if I was missing 55% of the communication? It couldn't.

Be careful of statistics quoted by PUAS and "Gurus" of all natures. With enough distortion, you can use studies to prove almost anything.

S

Shark Week is Here!!!

That's right the most magical time of the year kicks off today at 9 PM.

Shark Week!!!

and remember to live every week like it's Shark week :)

S

Podcast is Downloading Much Faster Now!

Definitely don't miss this, because there are pictures on the way from the Douchefest.

http://www.sinnandthecities.com/audio/Sinn%20and%20the%20Cities%20-%2017.mp3

Word.

S

Great Tupac Performance

For those who hate my musical preferences blame Bill Simmons' Twitter.

More Eminem, Mariah Carey stuff...

Ok, so apparently the song from yesterday ( which unfortunately would have been the 3rd best song on Relapse) was a response to the video for Mariah's new single Obsessed. Here's a link to the video as it wasn't letting me embed it here.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QbXSlm-SCK0

Obviously the guy with the goatee in the video is supposed to be Eminem and one of the producers says that the song is aimed at someone famous but wouldn't elaborate...

Now it's PROBABLY a publicity stunt for her upcoming album, but how dumb is it to beef with Eminem, it really is the only thing he currently does better than any other rapper. What did you expect?

And now Nick Cannon is quoting bible verses and talking about how this is chess not checkers. I think they should both just shut up.

S

Great Community Quotes # 2

This next quote came during a discussion of how many girls I had slept with in a previous year (56) and how it was stupid to keep track of how many girls you slept with ( Which I now agree with)...

Anywho myself and this well known instructor were talking and he said

" I have slept with a lot of girls. Well over 200 and at least 30 of them were at least 7s."

Later he claimed to have been drunk at the time of said statement, but as many people know people are more truthful when they're drunk :)

Whether or not it was true, it is hysterical.

S