Friday, May 01, 2009

Dating Younger Women

Hey guys,

One of the biggest problems I’ve heard guys complain about at over a hundred and fifty workshops I’ve personally taught is how hard it is to date sexy women in their early twenties.

This is usually a much bigger problem for guys in their late 30s and early 40s.

In my experience, it is actually much easier for older guys to date younger girls than it is for younger guys to date older women. I’ve consistently told older students that and referenced the success of my own instructor, the 44 year old Kurgen whose girlfriend is almost 20 years younger than him.

But there hasn’t really been a great resource for older men dating younger women.

Until now.

Dean Cortez of M.A.C.K Tactics fame, put together an excellent team of contributers including Savoy, Vin Dicarlo, Zan, and more.

The Manual focuses on both mindsets and tactics and techniques for older men looking to date younger.

I really like the interview with Zan as he really expresses the exact attitude older men should adopt with younger women.

Dean Cortez demonstrates a very solid understanding of attraction and conversational techniques, including teasing, qualifying, push/pulls etc…

I especially like how this book gives specific examples of questions to ask, conversational subjects that older guys should avoid, even specific skills that are crucial to dating younger women.

Overall if you are an older guy who’s looking to date hot younger women, you should check out Dating Younger Women for a great overview of what you’re getting into.

Check it out at

Have a Great Weekend,



  1. Ryan C3:25 PM

    The order page goes to a "page not found" error. Dude, you are losing money if they are tracking the conversion rate from your affiliate link, which from what I can tell isn't happening. I used Google to find the mistake in his URL, but I don't want to post it and screw you out of your affiliate cash.

    Hope UM is treating you well. Have a great weekend.

  2. Anonymous10:10 PM

    Dude, thanks for the resource. I'm 26 but I look about 30-32. I'm really into younger chicks. Nothing turns me on more than a hot young 18-20 something who has yet to be corrupted. There also awesome to date because ALL they want to do is Fuck...don't have to deal with their biological clock

  3. Anonymous9:04 AM

    The program essentially is pretty good for dating younger women in theory. A number of good points and you would think most would make common sense. However in practice they are another story. As a guy in my 40's its like pulling teeth to try and date attractive women in their 20's. I have not had any success from the program but I keep on trying.

  4. Hey guys,

    No one is messing with the link.

    It's not an affiliate link, so it should be all good now.


  5. Anonymous5:34 PM

    You have to look good AND you have to have game.

    If you are missing one of the two---forget it. Go back to the pigs on

    Case closed.

  6. Anonymous12:07 PM

    How much do you charge for fashion consulting????

  7. I've found for myself that the older I get, (I'm 31 right now) the easier it is to attract younger women. This works out for me because, I like the younger women... It's funny how the kind of women I typically get now are the same kind of women I wanted when I was just entering college.

    Back then I didn't stand a chance with these girls. But these same types of girls I never had a chance with back then, are now the same kind of girl that go crazy for me now. This product is awesome (and it contains a little bonus from yours truly!)

  8. Anonymous8:03 PM

    I have no idea about the product itself but I'll share my insight with Younger hotties... I'm 33 years old and I notice a HUGE difference in girls from 18-23 in that the girls in that range need a lot more guidance in the interaction.

    I find it necessary to encourage them by telling them they seem more mature or older than they are... I find I need to show more interest in their feedback in the "worldly" conversational threads that I initially open or they feel outclassed.

    They are a lot more eager to prove themselves in bed which can be both good and bad.

    Good if you are willing to train them for sex down the road.. bad if you just want dirty, hot sex right now.

    Benefits and drawbacks...

    But, I will say that their bodies are usually unreal. That in itself is a super-benefit versus the 28-35 year old.

    Their really is nothing like a 20 year old body.

    Captain Jack

    P.S. Damn, I sound like a dirty old man.

  9. Anonymous9:17 PM

    Dude thanx for coming on the BKRS. It's awesome to hear to talk about stuff outside the scene.

  10. Anonymous6:29 AM