Friday, April 22, 2011

Empathy and Pickup


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4 comments:

  1. Anonymous12:27 PM

    >>Until you are consistently getting movement and phone numbers, you DON'T want to spend too much time trying to figure out what a woman is thinking or feeling. In general this will only mess a beginner up as there are soooo many things you need to be focused on that are infinitely more important than what the girl is currently thinking/feeling. In the beginning (I.E.90% of you guys reading this), YOU'RE JUST NOT GOOD ENOUGH WITH WOMEN TO WORRY ABOUT EMPATHIZING.


    yeah,you are right.DJ Fuji talked about this many places.He said you totally changed him.You are not just great game player but also great game coach.You can coach from layman to pro.I heard DJ Fuji body language MP3,I think it was bonus from Sinn's product.It is great stuff for beginners.

    Seduction road map is great products but those 90% beginners need to learn more approach and identity part from you.I know other companies focus on approach and you felt those product lack of sexuality,then you made seduction road map.

    Like you always say go out and do it.Since you don't have live workshop not many times.Approach and Identity video comes with some infield example is great though.

    I mean you products focused on after approach.some people need Identity to move.

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  2. Anonymous8:51 PM

    "One of the most amusing things about pick up to me, is this; we as the guy approaching spend so much time, effort, and energy thinking about the approach, practicing tactics and techniques and analyzing these interactions that to a woman are LITERALLY just some time a guy walked up to her and started talking."

    Solid point. This is the equivalent ov women spending countless hours in front ov make counters and bathroom mirrors on ludicrous myriad details that 99% ov men are oblivious to and could give a fuck about.
    I'm convinced, partly from my own behavior, that for many men in 'the community', studying pick-up is really just a way to avoid mustering up the courage to fail until they succeed at sexual interactions with women. I wonder if there's a correlation between the amount ov time a women spends on her external appearance and her sex life.

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  3. Anonymous1:54 PM

    Empathy is one of the best ways to approach and to lead.

    A leader is measured by how much he can motivate people to achieve a goal together. And that is only done if he can understand what they are feeling and wanting at the moment.

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  4. Anonymous2:35 AM

    I would like to ask for an elaboration on "process".

    I am making the mistake of focusing too much on iois as Sinn was saying. He suggested that for beginners, focusing on the process would be better.

    But what exactly does that entail? I do not understand.

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