Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Like The Girl, Loathe the City

In a flashback to 2006, I have become stranded in Los Angeles due to a variety of business stuff…

But that’s not what I’m writing about here… I met a girl I REALLY like. In fact I even texted Erika that I was going on a date with her last night where I know I have ZERO chances of sleeping with her last night. She’s a Pilates instructor and had to teach a 5 AM class.

And yes she is a 5’1 redhead with D cups and freckles. She’s also from New York….

Now for the fucked up part, I’m going to have sex with her this week, and then I’m going to leave this city hopefully forever…

So I’m stuck in a weird place right now, as I actually want way more than that with her.

Except there’s a laundry list of reasons it’s never gonna happen. It’d be really nice to fantasize about the two of us having some sort of future, but in reality, I’m in flux and just happened to meet someone I click with. It’s the right girl at the wrong time. In the past I would have taken this as a sign that these kinds of girls actually exist. But in the last year or so the quality of women I’ve dated has been so high that it actually just annoys me right now.

In fact, I haven’t even really gamed her, I don’t want to undermine our natural chemistry which is making it as on as anything I could consciously do.

The idea of clicking with someone is what my game is based on now… I have neither the time nor inclination to plow or waste my time with girls I don’t actually enjoy talking to. That’s something I really believe in and try to teach to guys in my programs, you don’t have to struggle to connect with hot girls you don’t actually get along with. There are enough beautiful women out there, that the real goal is chemistry and compatability. That’s what makes you “click” with someone.

So the only thing to do now is enjoy my time with her here, keep in touch with her when I come back in and out of LA for various conferences etc, and then hopefully keep her as an awesome friend down the line.

That and try to avoid how annoyingly awesome she is.

S

7 comments:

  1. Sinn, I gotta say, I love the big-boobed redheads too. They're so damned rare though.

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  2. Awwwww.....

    On so many levels!

    :-)

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  3. wow that is really harsh..like you said enjoy your time with her and don't cut contact..ive met some 'right girl wront time' girls and lost contact and kicked my self after..GL

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  4. Anonymous4:57 AM

    dude! wtf is wrong with you?!

    you're a guru, a cult leader. make her part of the harem/cult and then she follows along on your journeys. simple ;-)

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  5. Anonymous7:35 AM

    Nobody cares

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  6. Anonymous1:04 PM

    "In the past I would have taken this as a sign that these kinds of girls actually exist. But in the last year or so the quality of women I’ve dated has been so high that it actually just annoys me right now."

    Lets hope i didn't comment too late as I'd like to know what you mean in the above.....

    I've date an incredible number of girls in the last couple years and i'm amazed at the lack of quality. your comment just shook me into wondering if i'm stuck in the first half of your quote above..

    Amrin xx

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  7. Cool, you should check out downtown LA, it changes nearly every day. Don't go back to the valley the only thing its good for is..... wait nothing really.

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