Wednesday, December 30, 2009

The Charlatan Podcast

Hey guys,

This will probably be my last post for the year!

I'll be back Friday with my New Year's Resolution post that I write every year.

In the meantime enjoy the Charlatan Cast, have a fantastic and safe New Year's Eve and thank you to everyone who supported Sinns Of Attraction this year. You guys make it possible for me to bring you guys stuff like this podcast and blog. So Thanks for helping me do something I love.

Also Cam wanted me to post the following to clarify the three different types of charlatans and why some people are on this list as opposed to others. On the cast we refer to them as category 1-3. Some people fit one or two and a few people sweep all three categories.

Here's Cam's 3 Categories:

"Hey, I thought it'd be cool to include these in the blog post, so people can compare. I think it'd encourage debates...."


Be sure to check Cam out at

The 3 categories:

Category 1: Crappy dating advice. It won't help you with chicks and may even have you worse off than before you started.

Category 2: Socially creepy person. A guy/girl who comes across as a creep in society but wants to give you social advice.

Category 3: Can't do it himself, a book reporter. Person who blatantly rips off other people's works, writes a book report to repackage and still can't start a conversation with a woman.

Here's the podcast affectionately titled " Many people think it, we just have the balls to say it."

Charlatan Podcast


JS- The King Of Content

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Top 7 Charlatans, Freaks and Weirdos of 2009

Hey Guys,

So Cam is staying with me for a few days for fun, and when I told him about the top 5 Charlatans list, not only did he want to contribute, but he suggested we do a whole podcast on it.

We are going to be recording that right after I post this, but I wanted to tease you guys a little bit first by giving you a rundown of the top 7 Charlatans we will be discussing as well as a few honorable mentions…

Honorable Mentions: Hawaii of Venusian Arts, Herbal T, All Female PUA instructors(not dating coaches PU coaches), Badboy of Croatia, Vin Dicarlo and Jordan Harbinger. All douchey but not enough to make the final 7. Fuck you very much to those guys, I hope you all die fiery deaths. Happy fucking new year!

Now I’m only going to reveal 4 of the top 7 here, you’ll have to actually listen to the podcast later to hear the hilarious top-3 and tales of their ridiculousness… Plus I shout out each of these fools as I know they're gonna read it :)

# 7- David Wygant- The Whole Foods Loiterer heads up the final spot. You know it’s a douchey list when Wygant is the 7th worst offender of charlatanism. PS- You still aren’t the real Hitch. Douche.

# 6 – Sean Stephensen- You don’t get laid like a rockstar, Sean. Just keep it 100 with us and you wouldn’t be on the list. Sean’s physical handicaps had no part in this ranking, just his bullshit and bragging. We’re not making fun of him for being handicapped, we’re making fun of him for bragging in ways that would shame TD.

# 5 – Erika Awakening- I hate to admit it, but she definitely amuses me more than these others. She still gives bat shit crazy advice tho. Good job on your bitter Entropy post E.

# 4 – Dr Paul Dobransky – Don’t even get me started on this guy. Nerds pick on Dr Paul. Plus his doctorate has NOTHING to do with helping guys meet girls. That’s like a PHD in physics telling us to listen to his theories on attraction because he has a PHD… Retarded. Seriously dude have you been laid in the 2000s without paying?

And that’s all for now though the final 3 are WAY bigger wastes of sperm than these 4.

Stay Tuned, people will be shocked and awed.

As for the charlatans themselves, As Sheree of The Real Housewives Of Atlanta once famously said

" Who gonna check me boo?"

JS- The King Of Content/PerezHilton of the PUA world ☺

Monday, December 28, 2009

Top 10 PUAs of 2009!

Hey guys,

Welcome to the annual list that makes my close friends tell me I'm an asshole :)

As always this list will represent the "Pick Up Artists" I feel had the best impact on 2009, as well as the guys that I really think have game. There's a lot of charlatans out there ( as you'll see on my list tomor) but today is all about giving props to the guys who deserve them. As always I will exclude myself from this list as that would be a little too douchey :)

Let's get into it.

10. Richard"Gambler"La Ruina- I've known Rich for a long time, but never really got a sense of how he actually gamed until recently. Richard's stealth attraction ideas are really cutting edge as well as being extremely helpful for guys who are scared of rejection. Furthermore Richard shows a great understanding of how to blend other people's tactics and techniques into a new system.

9. Speer. He's out of the game now to focus strictly on teaching, but NOBODY, and I mean NOBODY has bigger balls than Speer. The unquestioned master of talking his way into places as well as the king of persistence, Speer gets a spot this year based on the fact that he actually got hot girls when he was still active and his unrivaled abilities to network in a really hard city to network in (Miami). Furthermore Speer's attitude should be adopted by every guy who is serious about getting better.

8. Fader - Fader gets on to the list for his great hired gun game, his incredible ability to infiltrate NYC social circles and for being the first guy to teach a live workshop in strip clubs. His reviews are second to none and I personally have never seen a teacher who cares more for his students.

7. Doc Holliday - Doc took a little break for a bit to get his life together, but remains the best guy I've seen at day game other than myself. Furthermore Doc's understanding of the learning process of pickup as well as the issues guys will encounter along the way makes him a great teacher. His ability to codify day game even helped me in the production of the Day Game from A to Z Mastery course.

6. Cameron Teone - One of the most down to Earth guys out there also has great real world game. While he's mostly focused on approaching woman during the day, Cameron has demonstrated numerous times that he not only has no approach anxiety, but that he has the skills to charm all people regardless of gender, age, or ethnicity. Cameron excels at getting really bitchy girls to open up and be normal.

5. Mystery - Though it seems like he's lost his fastball a little bit, Erik makes this list on reputation as well as history. No one can take his influence on the game away as well as his very well documented abilities with certain girls. Obviously Mystery Method is NOT for everyone and is a validation based pick up method as opposed to a sex based one, but that doesn't hurt Erik here. It's not his fault he's become dogmatic and the game has passed him by.

4. Savoy - Still the most underrated PUA in the game, despite having a "girlfriend" in the technical sense. Still very active, still gets laid more than almost every other guy out there by new hot girls.

3. AFC Adam Lyons - Despite being married Adam continues to innovate and push the envelope. Adam is an example of how you can get what you want out of the community. Adam also was instrumental in helping me develop my own method as he pointed out many things to me, including the idea that comfort comes before attraction. As well known as he is Adam is still not given the credit he deserves for his breakthroughs.

2. Brad P - Last year's # 1 falls a bit this year and it has nothing to do with his game. Brad P built on a strong 2008 by masterminding the idea of the pick up mansion, continuing his 30/30 club and more. Brad is awesome because not only does he himself have maxed out game, but he focuses on simple actions that anyone can do to help themselves get laid more. No muss no bullshit that's Brad P.

1. Captain Jack - The only reason he had to share this title last year with Mr P was that he wasn't going out. This year that changed. Not much, but it changed in the sense that EVERY night he went out he got laid. Almost literally, I can think of a handful of situations where the pirate king tore himself away from his meditation actually went out to talk to girls and ended up getting laid back to back to back. Multiple times. It makes me jealous and I still don't know exactly what he does but he's the best point blank period and probably will be until he decides to give it up. Long Live the Pirate King 2009's best Pick Up Artist.

JS- The King Of Content

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Half an Hour left...

Hey there,

I'm watching the Steelers kill the Ravens and since the game is annoying me to distraction, I figured I give one last shout out for the Day Game A to Z mastery Course.

In about 30 mins at 12PM PST the amazing 44% discount is going the way of the Dodo bird. So if you want a chance to start this new year off right by meeting women as you go about your day to day life, head to Get Day Game now and get your very own Day Game From A to Z Mastery course for the lowest price we will EVER offer.

Have a great rest of your weekend and I'll be back with my Top 10 PUA and Charlatans list this week!

JS- The King Of Content

Thursday, December 24, 2009

At Last... Day Game From A To Z is available!

Hey there,

My best-selling Day Game from A to Z Mastery Program is now back
on the market! Here’s the special link where you can get the complete
program and three ALL NEW bonuses at a whopping 44% discount:

Get Day Game Now

Get it now as it’s going back up to regular price in 72 hours. The
new bonuses will be pulled at that time as well:

Click Here


JS- The King Of Content

New Bonuses and some last minute details...

Hey guys,

First off, as I mentioned in an earlier blog post, as part

of the re-release of my Day Game program, for a limited time

I’m offering some ALL NEW bonuses that were NOT part of

the original course. Here they are:

ALL NEW Bonus #1: Phone Game 2.0 Audio Download

and Transcript. Once you master phone game you will be

so success with women that you won’t believe it. This audio

has everything you need to become a master of phone game.

ALL NEW bonus #2: A special module on Physical

Escalation in the day time. Trust me when I say

that the way you escalate physically in the day time

is MUCH different than how you do it at night. In this

special online video, I’ll show you exactly how to become

a master of day time escalation so you’ll be able to rack up

lay after lay!

ALL NEW bonus #3: Guide to Dates audio download and

transcript. Being able to get solid phone numbers and dates

means nothing if you can’t make sure that those dates end

up in your bedroom. With this audio download, I’ll show you

the exact formula I use to get girls in my bed at a 90% clip

whenever they go out on a date with me.

Second, the Day Game program will be available at substantial

discount at exactly 12:00 p.m. PST later today. Be sure to check

your email at exactly that time for the special link. The special

discount is only going to be available for 72 hours so you’re going

to want to act fast.

Stay tuned,

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Day Game Q and A Video

Hey guys,

Here's the Q and A video I promised you guys in the email.

Be sure to check this blog and your inbox over the next couple of days to find out how you can get your very own Day Game A to Z Mastery Program at a SUBSTANTIAL discount that will not last very long...

check out the video and leave comments with what you think!

Monday, December 21, 2009

A Special Holiday Gift For You...

Hey there,

With 2009 coming to an end and 2010 fast approaching
I’m getting a lot of questions from guys asking for advice
on how they can make 2010 be their best year ever when
it comes to meeting women.

There are quite a few ways to answer this question, but if
I could think of ONE THING that will help the largest number
of guys it would be this:

If you want to have a kick-ass dating life in 2010 you’ll be FAR
better off spending your time doing day game instead of hanging
out in bars and clubs for hours on end.

There are quite a few advantages that day game has over
night game for most guys, among them:

*It’s much easier to get good at day game than it is to get
good at night game.

*You’ll meet much higher-quality women during than day
than you will at night (let’s face it, most girls that have anything
going on in their lives aren’t club-hopping on a Tuesday night).

*It’s much easier to practice day game and maintain a normal
work schedule, than it is to go out at night all the time if you have a job.

In a nutshell, day game is easier and less-stressful than night game,
AND you’ll meet better girls. Sounds like a good deal to me :)

So to help make 2010 your best year ever, I’ve set up a few
holiday gifts for you that will help you become an expert at
day game in the shortest time possible.

First of all, I’m going to be putting my best-selling Day Game
from A to Z Mastery Program back on the market this Thursday,
December 24, 2009.

This program has been off the market since last May and retails
at $697.00, but to keep with the Christmas spirit there will be a
short window where you can get it for a STEEP

Also, as part of this holiday day game event, I’m re-releasing some
awesome free materials that will really help your day game.
Here are some of my favorites…

My 24-page Day Game Report:

Day Game Report

A LIVE undercover day game pick-up:

Live Pickup Video

An audio Lay-report from Alex, who laid NINE girls in one month
using my Day Game materials:

Audio LR

That’s all I got for now.


JS – The King of Content

The Demons That Dance in Our Heads...

There are parts of my personality that are lazy, that are ignorant, that are outright evil, parts that are jealous, petty, weak, cowardly. And I’m not alone. Everyone has these parts of themselves, it’s just a matter of whether or not we ever open up and express it. Or if we bury our heads in the sand and pretend it doesn’t exits. There are parts of me, that would like nothing more than for me to remain in complete fear and paranoia of every day life. Parts that want to entrap me, break my will and make sure that I live a life of misery.

The difference between me, and most people is that I’m aware of this dichotomy and I make EVERY effort I can to fight these parts of myself. Every day and every night. I will fight them on the beaches, I will fith them on the streets.

I make every effort I can to tell myself to shut up when I think some task is too daunting, some girl too pretty, or some situation too good for someone else.

Like Michael Irvin in his reality tv show I tell my body to shut up when it locks up with approach anxiey or feelings of non deservingness or jealousy for someone else getting something (or more realistically someone) I want.

I refuse to give in to my worst instincts, even if my knees tremble, my voice shakes and my body wishes it were anywhere but here. Because I know I can accept failure. But I can’t accept not trying.

And slowly, painfully, frustratingly at times, I grow. And that fear that used to make my voice crack and my legs tremble in front of georgeous women, gets a little better. And that feeling I have when I see a guy with a girl I want gets a little less painful. Until ultimately you stop noticing. You’re able to shift your focus and look out for what the best use of your time is in any given situation. In the end, you learn to control your emotions. Because while most things in this world are out of control, you can actually learn to control your emotions and respond to things the way you want to rather than the way that feels best at the time.

You can learn to channel all that, into things that help you instead of holding on to toxic emotions that cloud your judgement, and cause you nothing but suffering.

It’s hard work, and you will lose sometimes, it’s normal. But the only way to improve your life quality is to fight. Fight the comfort zone and the easy way out, fight the emotions that don’t enrich your life, fight the thoughts that aren’t reality, and accept only that which you want into your life.

I never want to stop fighting my demons, because I know the day I do, I’ll stop growing as a person.

JS- The King Of Content

Sunday, December 20, 2009


And I made myself so easy to love ;)

Friday, December 18, 2009

" If You Spread Them, They Will Pay"- Cam and I trash the fat man Podcast

Hey guys,

Here's the latest podcast, it's over 2 hours of douching on Johnny Soporno.

Who if you don't know what he looks like you can see here:

Notice the classy devil horns and awesome Kmart sneakers.

Listen to the AWESOMENESS here:

Sinn and Cam Get Medieval on that ass

JS- The KING of Content

PS- We are still accepting discounted orders for The Flake Elimination Toolkit! To get yours today go to End Flaking

Thursday, December 17, 2009

New Product Announcement


If you want to make sure that the next phone number you
get turns into a date and NOT a dreaded phone flake then I
have some very good news for you…

I’ve decided to finally release my breakthrough Flake Elimination
Toolkit to the general public for the very first time.

The Flake Elimination Toolkit has previously only been available
to people who purchased my $697 Day Game from A to Z mastery
program, but now you can get your hands on the Flake Elimination
Toolkit for a ridiculously low new release discount.

I’ve recorded a short video that has ALL details of what you get
when you order your own copy of the Flake Elimination Toolkit.
Check it out now:




P.S. Right now, you can get a special new release discount on
the Flake Elimination Toolkit, but I plan on raising the price in the
very near future. So don’t wait! Get your copy now:


Wednesday, December 16, 2009

What is Game?

This is something I think about a lot...

When you take away all of the marketing, the complex structures, the self help advice, the cognitive biases of instructors, and the natural advantages and disadvantages of every individual, what's left?

What are we actually doing and working with to compel strangers to have sex with us in the shortest time frame possible.

I've been thinking about this for years and years and I figured I'd post my latest ideas and then write some articles on each piece. Kinda like the Basics feature on my Newsletter where I break down specific ideas, except these will be larger topics.

SO without further ado, here's one man's ideas on what makes up Game:

1. An understanding of how the process of attraction works(most notably the relationship between dominance and attraction) and female psychology especially fears, emotions, communication styles and sexuality.
2. Fundamentals: Body language, eye contact, grooming, expressiveness, fashion and style, tonality, physique.
3. The ability to make others comfortable with you otherwise known as Social Comfort.
4. The ability and knowledge of when and how to manipulate rapport.
5. The mechanisms, skills and types of attraction
6. Attitude
7. Knowing how to build and use compliance
8. Knowing all types of qualification and how to use this to move forward
9. How to use movement
10. The 3 types of escalation: Verbal, Physical, Logistical
11. Frame control
12. Sexuality

Obviously that's a decent amount of stuff and one of the reasons that it's difficult to learn all this stuff if you try to take it all in at one time. So over the next few weeks I'll be writing an article about each of these topics with a take that you probably haven't heard before. I have to get started on a new packet for the 12M2M guys bootcamp so I'll workshop a lot of articles on here before finishing them for those guys.

Love to hear comments on this,

JS-The King Of Content

PS: If you want a more in depth look at the mechanisms, skills and types of attraction, you need The Natural Attraction DVD, get it today at NaturalAttractionDVD

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

New Opinion Opener from last night's Podcast

Here's a fun new opener for bars and clubs that Cameron came up with yesterday on the Podcast.

In rough form.

Hey guys,

My friends and I are debating over there, OMG it's embarrassing to even bring this up, but you guys can handle rough humor right? Ok here it is do you guys know what the difference between a cougar and a MILF is? We've been debating for like an hour and even though I'm right he won't admit it.

Get their answers

Ok here's what I think a Cougar is an older woman over 35 minimum who keeps herself in really good shape, likes to party and preys on young innocent boytoys such as myself. Meanwhile a MILF is just a hot mom. Milfs could be 21. You could be a Cougar without being a MILF and a MILF without being a cougar...

I can tell you guys are gonna be horrible once you get older...

and Transition.

This is awesome, and it's buried deep inside the 2 hour long podcast/douchefest I'll be posting soon.


JS- The King Of Content

Monday, December 14, 2009

Coming Soon... The Soporno Email Cast...

My buddy Cam, had a little spat with overweight condescending Johnny SO-COCK the results of which can be seen


But Since Cam and I talked about this whole situation(again not the Jersey Shore guy) for close to an hour today, he wanted to get on a podcast to really give the piece of work( both So-cock and the email) the proper amount of time and "douching".

JS- The King Of Content

Oh yeah I forgot, my life is weird...

Hey hey...

I was out this weekend with a girl I'm seeing and a few of her friends including some very out of the closet Lesbians.

One of these girls, we'll call her "Jamie" reminded me of my BFF Raine in that she's a girl player. She teases, and dominates conversations and moves girls around and physically escalates a lot. She was grabbing my girls boobs a lot :)

But her GF was there and while Jamie was talking to other girls she was telling about her playerish ways, and that she's slept with a lot of girls "like almost 50."

I laughed out loud a little when she said almost 50 and I had to stifle it and explain that it was funny she was such a player.

But really, I was laughing cause I've slept with that many girls in a year quite a few times...

And it was then that I remembered that I'm in the top 1% of promiscuity, and that most people would be shocked and probably a little horrified if they knew the reality of the situation( Not the Jersey Shore character who is awesome). So just a weird moment where I remembered that I have a weird sex life. Wouldn't want it any other way tho :)


Friday, December 11, 2009

Follow Friday!

Hey Guys,

Just a reminder to follow me on Twitter @TheRealSinn.

I'm at 762 followers and if I get to 1000 I'll do a free teleseminar if we can get to 1000 over the next 7 days.

So there's a little bribe for you to follow my thoughts on life @TheRealSinn on Twitter.

JS- The King Of Content

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Ross Jeffires and FJM... A match made in Heaven

Welcome back,

After a two week hiatus where I was thank full and spent time with a variety of people I care about, it's time to get back into the shit talking.

Lately a lot of you guys have been sending in stupid articles for FJMing and I truly appreciate this. If you want to send something in yourself send it with the title FJM article to Sinn at

So our subject this week will be responding in the comments section I'm sure, as he doesn't appear to have much of a life besides sitting behind the computer waiting for someone to write about him.

So to make Ross Jeffries' life that much brighter and make him less of the Chevy Chase of Pickup teachers ( relevant 20 years ago but hasn't done much since) I present you with FJM: RJ.

Thanks to RR for sending in this article for consideration, it's a gem.

As always my comments appear in brackets:


Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

[ I left in the R trademark for legal reasons, god forbid the day when anyone ever uttered the words speed and seduction together without RJ getting credit. For the record Speed Seduction was created by RJ, as well as the internet, the English language and Pez. This message was brought to you by Ross Jeffries who I'm not sure if you knew this or not created Speed Seduction (R))]

Today, I’ve been in a pretty playful, “don’t give a fuck” state, so naturally I’ve been sarging.

[ RJ created the word sarging for his cat who died. So the process of going to search for pussy made him think of his cat and voila a creepy lexicon is born. It should also be noted that one of the main methods of cult control involves creating a separate language and dialogue. I read a book called "Cult Control" right around the time I found the SUISC and the parallels between cults and the way RJ and RSD run their businesses are unbelievable. TD is definitely the evolutionary less angry RJ]

(I’ve found that the “I don’t give a fuck what happens” attitude is often a key component of my best discoveries, breakthroughs and lays!)

So I was in the local lunch spot, joking around with Jennifer, the counter-girl/waitress.

Her nerdy girl glasses were falling far down on her nose. So I said, “Can you please push those back up? The Mr. Monk/obsessive compulsive in me is going crazy wanting to push them back up”.

[ That's not creepy or weird to talk about the obsessive compulsive side of yourself right away to a waitress. That won't just invoke sympathy or her wanting to get a tip. That's a free ride to attraction city baby! In fact I'm gonna start conversations with girls by talking by my insane need for new pussy. I'll be like " Hey, I really like that skirt but the horny part of me wants to bend you over and pound it out Jersey shore style. Right RJ? Just say anything you want....]

Anyway, after some joking around, it occurred to ask a screening question about her.

I did this because:

A. Screening girls shows you have standards

B. Screening girls in LA is important. This is land overflowing with nutcases, burn-outs and “get a refund for all that therapy that didn’t work” chicks.

[ I'd like to nominate the previous statement for the bitter, and misogynistic award 2009. Maybe if RJ got laid more than 3 times a year he'd be less cranky. Maybe I'll send him a DVD.]

I especially want to screen for women with great communication skills, and for me, that means, in part, a woman who can be open to feedback and admit when she’s been wrong.

[ Yes, because you can learn a ton about a girl's overall personal tendencies in a few short minutes by asking her about them. She won't be swayed to answer with something generic or blow off the question at all because after all you're RJ and you created Speed Seduction God damnit!]

So I said to Jennifer, “I want to ask you a more serious, personal question. When you’ve done something wrong, and you get called on it, do you cover it up? Or excuse it? Or do you come clean with what you did, and really listen to the other person?”

[ That's completely situationally relevant and doesn't at all sound like something a therapist would ask a patient.]

She said, “I do my best to hear people and admit it if I fuck up”.

I said, “I consider it an intellectual strength to be open to feedback. Especially if you have a strong mind, you can easily get trapped in your own viewpoint. So I like people who can tell me their truth and hear mine.”

[ " Tell me their truth and hear mine" ? Really? That's one of the corniest things I've ever heard in my entire life. If I said some sound of music-britney spears shit like that I would hope she laughed in my face.]

Then I said something that wound up making us both blush as I realized the sexual innuendo.

I said, “I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back”.

There was a brief pause…we both turned red..and burst out laughing

[ I'm glad you didn't purposely try to use sexual innuendo or anything like that, it's cool to read that the best thing you did in this interaction was an ACCIDENT. RJ meet suck and life. Oh you already know each other... How awkward and embarrassing]

Now, this was a good exchange.

But Jennifer flunked my test, and do you want to know why?

Because one of my standards for women is that they show curiosity and ask questions about me.

[ So she flunked your test by failing to qualify herself after you didn't do anything to build attraction besides talking about your obsessive compulsive side and comparing yourself to noted sex symbol Tony Shalhoub. No I'm sorry you flunked her test of being attractive enough to be interested in. This is classic RJ backwards rationalization in full effect. RJ has ALWAYS ( I'm talking his 1992 book) talked about how if a woman isn;t interested when you try to use SS on her it's because something is wrong with her, when in reality it's because SS is creepy as fuck and only works on certain types of overly self helpy/spiritual chicks. NLP and patterning has a place in the seduction phase, but none of this kind of stuff works up front ESPECIALLY on hot girls. Lame, lame, lame. That's what girls think it is, that's what this waitress(and I) think RJ is.]

Jennifer, for all of her playfulness and openness to sexual innuendo(and there was more between us, including talking about hypnotic bondage and slavery!) didn’t show any curiousity about me and did nothing to initiate any of the conversation.

[ Because she wasn't interested in you in "that" way. She's a waitress it's her job to talk to you, and girls enjoy talking about sexual subjects. On the bright side she probably wants to be friends in the sense that she works at a restaurant you come in to and she wants you to tip her]

So Jennifer, big boobies, sexy glasses( I told her they looked great but I was imagining her do something to me that might make them fall right off her head) and innuendo receptivity aside, gets nothing further from me.

Screening. It’s whats for lunch at Jennifer’s restaurant.

Peace and piece,

[ So classy it's beyond words. Calling pussy "piece" and going out "sarging" show why RJ is really the true class act in the SUISC]


[ Not getting laid and rationalizing it's the girl's fault, it's what's been going on in RJ's head for 48 years.]

JS- The King Of Content

Wednesday, December 09, 2009


Hey guys,

I vent about my own dating patterns, rave about the Jersey Shore and discuss 40 minute sets to nowhere.


We're working on the download speed issue.

JS- The King Of Content

Tuesday, December 08, 2009

How To Minimize the chances you get cheated on...

So yesterday, I wrote about infidelity and the general bleakness of that.

Today I want to go in a completely different direction and talk to you about how to minimize the chances you get cheated on.

And all it will cost you is $199.99...


Anyway, in my experience dealing with women and according to all of my female friends/sisters, there are a few factors that lead to cheating of the non bragging rights variety.

A quick sidenote, bragging rights cheating refers mainly to celebrities, or once in a lifetime chances that a girl could get free drinks from her friends for life talking about. The girl's own sense of right and wrong is the only thing that can stop that kind of cheating.

So to keep your girlfriend/wife from cheating on you, you must remember 3 important factors for female fulfillment( try saying that 3 times fast). I do want to point out that what causes most cheating is bad relationships and what causes bad relationships is complacency. Relationships are work and you can't let laziness or external factors get you into a rut.

1. Emotional fulfillment. This means that a woman's full range of emotional needs from empathy to jealousy and helplessness are met by you. Emotional fulfillment is the hardest of these three types of fulfillment because women are emotional creatures. Furthermore they don't feel like they can tell most men about what they really want emotionally at any given time. Oftentimes they may not even know or want to know themselves. Being unpredictable is a major key to being emotionally fulfilling, as is having a well balanced personality. Being emotionally honest and establishing a dialogue on that level helps tremendously as well. As well as showing the girl that you understand her as a person. Understanding and acceptance is key to all of this...

2. Intellectual fulfillment. I'm not saying you have to be a Mensa member or anything but you do need to fulfill whatever the woman's intellectual needs are. This could range from talking about the philosophy of Ayn Rand to discussing the latest happenings on the Real Housewives Of Orange County. Every woman has a need to be intellectually fulfilled. Even the not as smart ones... And that's a problem guys reading this can run into is they tend to be smarter and thus talk down or patronize women too much.

3. Sexual fulfillment. This one is the most self explanatory. You have to make sure she's having regular orgasms, and you have to keep your sex life interesting. The same way that you can't just hang out with a girl at your house and watch TV and expect her to remain fulfilled and happy. You also can;t just have missionary, cowgirl, doggy style sex for 8 minutes and expect the girl to stick around. Having a long term relationship means that you can easily open up dialogues about your fantasies and turn ons without worrying about freaking the girl out. That is unless you want to pee in girls mouths or cut them or any other such fetish, which you might have to build up to.

If I had to rank them, I'd say Emotional fulfillment trumps, Sexual fulfillment, which trumps intellectual...

Hope that helps you guys out there in committed relationships.

JS-The King Of Content

Monday, December 07, 2009

A Realistic look at Infidelity.

So with all this Tiger Woods drama all over the place, it got me thinking about infidelity in the real world. Not the MTV show, which in and of itself fosters an environment made for cheating on your BF or GF back home. I think it might even be in the contract :)

Evolutionary biologists, would love to tell you that we(both men and women) are designed to cheat in order to fulfill our primary goal in life of passing on our selfish genes with a partner most likely to produce healthy offspring.

Romantics will say that true love conquers all, and that when you find that special person, harps will play, Doves will sing and you will never again want to bang that hot chick at your office.

The truth as with most things in life, lies somewhere in the middle.

According to Sperm Wars by Robin Baker, people are as faithful as their options and their social and physical consequences.

First let's examine the idea of options. In the community there is a very misogynistic idea that all women cheat, and that all that matters is the level of your game versus the level of another guy's game. I'd say a lot of those misconceptions come from the fact that community guys deal with a lot of club girls who are social climbers. But I digress. It's my opinion that EVERYONE is looking to trade up sexually. This is where I firmly believe in evolutionary biology, as well as the added social and sexual benefits of having a more attractive partner. It's not just women or club girls or men or high status high powered men. It's everyone. Somewhere there is a redneck whose wife is 250lbs, who is cheating on her with a 200ILB woman and feels great about the upgrade.

So what does that mean about infidelity? It means that EVERYONE has considered it at some point and that most people have been unfaithful.

The most commonly quoted statistics on infidelity show that between 55-70% Of all people have cheated on a significant other. I've seen stats that skew towards men being more unfaithful and I've seen stats that skew towards women being more unfaithful. Either way, it all seems to fall into this range.

Another widely quoted statistic says that 20% of people in the United States were fathered by someone other than who they think they're Dad is. I believe the correct term is cuckolding.

So if we all have these drives and urges and stuff, what keeps us from cheating?

As Dr Dre once said on Eminem's song Guilty Conscience " You got to think about the consequences"

Now obviously in Tiger's case, like most people he NEVER thought he was going to get caught. Because if he had thought about the social as well as financial consequences this could lead to, well he probably would have done it anyway. But that speaks more to the arrogance of professional athletes than anything about consequences. Tiger may have wanted to talk to his buddy MJ about how his infidelity divorce went. You know the one where he lost $250 million...

In most people's lives the consequences are going to fall into one of two categories; social and physical.

The most obvious consequences, are the physical ones, the most common being pregnancy, STDs, and physical harm from your significant other or their significant other. Physical consequences don't really change. The risks are always going to be there when you cheat on someone or have sex.

The social consequences on the other hand are a little more tricky. First there is the obvious loss of relationship, not to mention the effect if children are in the mix (as is the case with Tiger). There is the effect cheating will have on your reputation socially. While it's cool to be a ladies man and a bachelor, it's not good to be the guy who cheated on his wife/girlfriend. This can even split your entire social circle right down the middle. You also have the possibility of revenge by the person you cheated on, which could take any form from girls setting your clothes on fire, to posting naked photos of you on the internet. So the social consequences are aplenty.

Lastly I want to talk about something most people probably don't think about when it comes to cheating and that's the self esteem consequences. I don't cheat. Obviously anyone who knows me will tell you that I am very anti-cheating and even try to avoid girls with boyfriends. My Mom cheated on my Dad, and they ended up getting a divorce if you want to know the root cause of my feelings on this subject. The self esteem consequences to me come with having to deal with yourself as a cheater. Having to lie to your significant other, the guilt, and ultimately the dread of getting caught lead you to think that this is part of dating.

It shouldn't be.

You don't need to cheat in order to sleep with lots of girls. Just don't get into a monogamous relationship until you're sure you don't want to sleep with anyone else. And if you started getting tempted to cheat, break up instead. The social consequences for breaking up with someone are WAY less than cheating and you don't have to be dishonest.

So that's my brain dump on infidelity inspired by Tiger Woods banging tons of chicks. Which was obviously going to happen as soon as he started hanging out with Jordan and Barkely in Vegas.

By the way does any celebrity or athlete not cheat on their wives?

The fact that they are on the road so much negates a big amount of the threat of getting caught and they have groupies throwing themselves at them all the time. I honestly have no idea why they even try to get married. Unless there's some kind of secret in advertising that you get more endorsements as a family man, or something of that ilk. Which could totally be true. But still, so not worth it.

Stay single celebrities, it will be easier and cheaper in the end.

JS- The King Of Content

Thursday, December 03, 2009

Hilarious new Podcast!

Hey Guys,

Here's an brand new podcast with Cameron of

We talk about Female Dating Coaches, Straggler Game, and "Leaving her better than you found her."

You can listen here:


Or check it out on Itunes.

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, December 02, 2009

Girls Just Wanna Have Fun!

Hey guys,

My buddy Brad P came and spoke at our superconference last month and he mentioned to the guys the song girls just want to have fun as a good reference for what women actually want.

So I decided to actually go through the lyrics of the hit 80s song and see if there is any actual insight to be gained here.

I'll also provide a youtube link so you guys can listen along as you read...

Ok now onto the lyrics:

I come home in the mornin' light
My mother says, "When you gonna live your life right"
"Oh Mommy dear, we're not the fortunate ones
And girls, they wanna have fun
Woah girls, just wanna have fun"

Coming home in the morning light obviously means coming home at the butt crack of dawn which could mean a walk of shame situation or simply an all night girl's night out. Either way staying out all night = Fun.

The phone rings in the middle of the night
My father yells, "Whatcha gonna do with your life?"
"Oh Daddy dear, you know your still number one
But girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls, just wanna have"

Her phone rings late at night as her party girl friends or fellow members of her girl group are getting ready for the clubs. Remember this was pre-cell phones so they had to call the house to get her attention.

Thats all they really want
Some fun
When the workin' day is done
Oh girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun

(Girls they wanna)
(Wanna have fun now)
(Wanna have)

All girls want is fun, translation all girls want is positive emotions!

Some boys take a beautiful girl
And hide her away from the rest of the world
I wanna be the one to walk in the sun
Oh girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have

Cyndi Lauper ( and most party girls) don't want to have a boyfriend who hides them from the sun ( their social life and the best parties)

Thats all they really want
Some fun
When the workin' day is done
Oh girls they wanna have fun
Oh girls just wanna have fun

(Girls they wanna)
(Wanna have fun now)
(Wanna have)

They just wanna, they just wanna
(Girls, girls just wanna have fun)
They just wanna, they just wanna have fun
Girls just wanna have fun

(They just wanna, they just wanna)
They just wanna, they just wanna
They just wanna, they just wanna have fun
(Girls, girls just wanna have fun)
Girls just wanna have fun

When the workin'
When the workin' day is done
Oh when the workin' day is done
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun

They just wanna, they just wanna
They just wanna, they just wanna
Oh girls, girls just wanna have fun

(They just wanna, they just wanna)
When the workin'
(They just wanna, they just wanna)
When the workin' day is done
(Girls, girls just wanna have fun)
When the working day is done
Oh girl, girls just wanna have fun

(They just wanna, they just wanna)

When the working day is done speaks to the contradiction between girls having jobs that they don't really enjoy and waiting for quitting time so that they can knock off and do what they reall want. Party with their girlfriends.

Girl power :)

Anyway not much illumination in here, but you have to admit this song really does show you what a generation of party girls wants.

JS-The King Of Content

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

Great Community Quotes # 4- I wasn't Talking To You And Your 4!

Hey guys,

Today's another great community quote.

This one, actually requires a little setup story. The year is 2005. I'm 20 years old and doing my first large group speaking event at the Montreal PUA Summit known as Cliff's List 05.

To set the scene, there are a few of us in a hotel room smoking weed at the end of the night on Friday. I was there(obviously), Neil Strauss was there, Craig from DYD was there, Big Black Will was there, Mystery was there with a PUA groupie whom he had stolen from Savoy, and Lance Mason showed up at some point...

Enter my good friend Fabio, AKA Sundowner, AKA Short Sell.

He was a little drunk(as is per usual for him) and he walked in the room looked around disgustedly and said the following, which I would say is 99% verbatim what he said.

He started out by saying " You know, I came here from Miami to cold ass Montreal to hang out with the BEST Pick Up Artists in the world. And here we are in a room with NO girls. And I think to myself these guys have got NO FUCKING game!!"

Everyone laughed, except for Mystery who started to retort

" I've got game, I've got game, I'm the only with a girl in this room"

Fabio looked at him, chuckled and said something that I still laugh about to this day.

" Jackass!! I am not talking about you and your 4!"

And then he stormed out of the room.

Craig and I nearly died laughing and nobody else found it remotely funny...

4 years later I'm laughing as I type this up.

There's more great Fabio quotes and I'm sure I'll get to all of them eventually but if being quotable were a sport, Fabio would easily be the MVP.

JS-The King of Content