Friday, May 13, 2011

80-20 rule with approaching

The second part of The Secret Society post is taking a longer than I expected but it will be more than worth it.

So today I want to write a quick post explaining something I think is very important to understand in order to get realistic results with women it's my version of the 80-20 rule or Pareto principle.

It goes like this; When approaching strangers about 10% of all women you approach will not like you no matter what you do. Oftentimes this has to do with factors outside of your control such as blood type, or the fact that you remind her of a guy who date raped her in college. Happens to everyone. On the other side of this 10% of women you approach will like you no matter what you do. This doesn't mean you're necessarily going to get laid, but the girls will be into you right away and it's up to you not to screw up.

Which leaves a whopping 80% of women you approach who will be neutral or slightly less than interested. This is where tactics and techniques come in to play, and why we learn pickup. If you get good enough you should be able to get all of those women attracted to you and then filter through to the situations that are actually worthwhile.

This should help you reframe the entire approaching process in terms of success as you at least have a chance at with 9/10 women you approach.

JS-The King Of Content

9 comments:

  1. The Pareto principle states that 80 of your results (lays) come from 20% of your work (approaches). So what does this mean?

    80% of the numbers you get can come from only 20% of your approaches.
    from 80% of your numbers 20% should be real.
    80% of your successes will come from 20% of your game (good luck figuring out what that is)
    80% of your lays can come from 20 of your day2s/dates or SNL game

    ...it's a numbers game.

    the more you go out, the more you approach, the better are your chances. 80 of your solid game could result from 20% of the routines you use...

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  2. Anonymous2:16 PM

    what happened to the article on not to trust girls who dont have many guy friends?

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  3. Anonymous10:23 PM

    In Reality the numbers are closer what Mark Entropy says:
    25% have a logistical issue such as having a bf or are in a rush for an appointment,
    25% are just not interested and have already decided from the start that they're not,
    25% are very interested right from the start,
    and 25% are maybe's who you can game.

    Thus, game is only effective on about 25% of girls u approach. Anyone whos approached a lot of girls knows this is the reality

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  4. I agree with the 'four quarters' rule posted above - it's all about that 25%. This by far most accurately reflects reality.

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  5. Anonymous10:17 AM

    "In Reality the numbers are closer what Mark Entropy says:
    25% have a logistical issue such as having a bf or are in a rush for an appointment,
    25% are just not interested and have already decided from the start that they're not,
    25% are very interested right from the start,
    and 25% are maybe's who you can game."

    Ok, but what if the 25% that are into you - you are not into and the other 25% that are not into you - you are into? See the dilemma? That's the whole problem here from what I can see.

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  6. Anonymous said...

    "In Reality the numbers are closer what Mark Entropy says:
    25% have a logistical issue such as having a bf or are in a rush for an appointment,
    25% are just not interested and have already decided from the start that they're not,
    25% are very interested right from the start,
    and 25% are maybe's who you can game."

    Ok, but what if the 25% that are into you - you are not into and the other 25% that are not into you - you are into? See the dilemma? That's the whole problem here from what I can see.

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    I'm not sure about you... but I only approach girls I'm actually interested in.

    I'll agree with the 25% thing... sounds most accurate to me and my experience.

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  7. Anonymous6:09 PM

    You always good coach.I think you are well balanced person now.

    There are some people,I really feel this person is thinking about students and guys who want to learn skills.Your free stuff The game acceleration doctrine and youtube videos are really good.Of course,your products are high quality.I bought some companies products but some are little bit disappointment for the quality.I used to go to forum but so many crap information there.Now I just read some quality blog like yours,Captain Jack,Brad P and Rob Judge.There must be some good instructors from love system write blogs but I don't know their name but for me,it's enough.I have already known quality coaches.

    Yes,there are other big name guys but they don't update blog like you.Your blog is one of the most active blog among well known coach.

    Oh,I forgot to tell.day.game.com and pick up podcast by art of charm is also good quality one.Their interview series is good because it tells personality of coaches.I thought oh,give me a break this guy coaches people? sometimes.I know other professional service like personal trainers, yoga instructors and language instructors.Some coaches in this industry sometimes gave me a doubt.

    One time I had a contact from one of the big name company for bootcamp.It was horrible sales call ever.Yes,this company is maybe most famous because of TV.I am glad did not take their boot camp.I am sure I did quit this once boot camp is over.It almost become fantasy three days.

    There are chemistry between coaches and students.If someone asked about products,I would name,Jon Sinn,Art of Charm,Date hotter girl(Rob Judge),Brad P,Speer Method,DJ Fuji,ABC(if you are Asian and want date girls from other race)Captain Jack and love system.About love system,I am not sure about individual coaches.They should sell individual name too.I heard their DVDs quality is good.

    For the coaching program presentation,Art of charm's website really look nice and cool.Their campaign price is crazy.

    I really appreciate your work and professional manner.Some people misunderstand Monday bash thing.Neil Strauss and Mystery made this industry bigger.There are pros and cons to those two.

    When I first see Mystery on TV,I thought Full house dad became magician? Bob Saget teaches Pick up?And I thought his side kick Matador was Uncle Jesse get tan.And female one looked like a Kimmy Gibbler grown up.I forgot her name.

    Keep good work.I can tell you can coach not just pick up other stuff too.

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  8. Anonymous12:36 PM

    You didn't apply the pareteo principle correctly.

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  9. Anonymous10:23 AM

    Maybe a stupid question but what does good Game look like? I am good a getting the 10% but, I just escalte, but Girls that are only slightly interested not so.
    the rake

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