Friday, May 11, 2012

Do You Make These Text Mistakes?

Before I get into today's lesson, please check out Bobby 
Rio's amazing video on texting women into bed if 
you haven't already.
One of the most frustrating things is when you get
a woman's number (and she seems to be totally into you)
... But then after a few texts she seems to lose interest,
fizzle out, or go cold.
The natural reaction is to blame the woman. "She's a
But if you do that, you could missing a giant crink
in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.
In fact, if you're like most guys than you're probably
just making one of these common texting
mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.
MISTAKE:  Confusing Responses for Attraction  
Before you've had your first date with a girl, she won't 
feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it 
may be, you're probably not the only guy texting her. 
See, a common mistake most guys make when they're 
texting a girl is that they mistake responses for 
attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from 
a girl, he believes that he's getting closer to getting 
her on a date or to seducing her.
The exact opposite is true!
The more texts you send before meeting up with girl 
means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting 
up with her! 
That's right: even if a girl is RESPONDING 
to your texts, you're not getting yourself ANY closer 
to actually getting her out on a date.
Instead, say more with less. Whenever you're considering 
what to text a girl, see if you can say it simpler, with less 
Most guys send pointless texts to women like, "How's 
your day?" or "Enjoying the warm weather?" These texts DO 
NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a 
response (which doesn't mean anything).
To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, 
ask yourself this golden question:
How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?
If your answer is simply "to get her to know her better," 
erase the text. It's not going to help you.
MISTAKE:  Not Conveying "Fun"
Here is the simple truth.  When a woman gives you her number
she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you...
And until it seems FUN for her... she's probably not going
to bother meeting up with you.
So when you send boring texts that don't display any 
personality or don't elicit any emotions in her... in her
mind you're not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Here are some signs you're NOT being fun.
- Am I being stiff and formal "Hi. It was nice meeting you
friday".... (too stiff. too formal)
- Am I putting pressure on her to keep the convo going?
- Am I badering her with question?
Remember, every text you send should make you seem like
the FUN OPTION.  The escape from her boring day.
So if you've been making these texting mistakes now is 
the time to STOP making them. 
If fact, Bobby's special video shows you exactly how you 
can accomplish everything you need to accomplish with
just three texts. 


  1. Anonymous12:26 PM

    Hey Sinn,

    As a college aged person, I am fascinated with the college greek system. I was not in a frat myself but I have noticed that a lot of my friends that were in frats got a lot of girls. They got a lot of girls but were also drunk when this happend at parties. What is your take on the greek system in college? Do you believe that guys in frats have better game than the usual guy?


  2. Anonymous1:28 PM

    Thanks, I really needed this reminder right now.

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  4. Couldn't agree more with Sinn on this one... I swore off reading but I went anyways and bought Bobby Rio's magnetic messaging. Went through it in two hours plus it has cool bonuses and Sinns is also promising bonuses...

    My opinion:

    An excellent book, reframes your mind even me who I consider myself as a king in text was nodding all the way through it... Makes sense but guys still do these mistakes unfortunately for them and fortunately for the cool texters :)

    Lots of examples and templates, but have to be fine tuned to your situation/girl/ degree of progression in the pu you're doing. DONT copy and paste, read, filter and also try and grasp the big picture so you don't need to rely on exact or similar texts, read between the lines....

    Really texting is an art the right tool nowadays not black nail varnish and peacock hats LOL, how retarded it was and they wonder why they werent even getting phone numbers much for a lay....

    One interestign e-book is 99 most used texts, its cool, but still it's all subjective and personal, IMO you need to be good @ game first then your natural abilities will get relayed through text, they get mirrored without you even knowing...

    Text is good for everything not just pre-date, it's a continuous cycle whether for new or existing conquests...

    Get the book, refresh you nerves, rewire your brains to its principles. They all hold true, correct, wise, smart and eternal no matter whether is it iphone, bbm or any other texting method. That's all you need, the book, not the girls never become needy to a girl but only to knowledge. Girls come and go, always next always move on despite ur fear. Any failed experience is just experience for the next girl or the next lay.

    That's my take on on Bobby's book. GO OUT AND GET IT. it might save ur life if you r afc, help you if you are having some success but still struggling and refresh your brains if you already knew when you are reading it. All levels will benefit from this. Many hidden gems and aha moments from begining to end.