Wednesday, July 11, 2012

It Gets Better (Approaching That Is)

 Yesterday I had a weird day of game.

  I was out and about doing some approaches and it was not going well...

 I was getting a ton of girls who just wouldn't engage or contribute beyond one word answers and one girl who even answered her phone while I was talking to her.

I even tried to slum a lil bit by hitting on a goth girl at whole foods which should have been an easy # close and I couldn't even make this work.

In all it was probably 4 horrible approaches in my first 4 attempts.

To top it all off I was really tired and didn't really want to be out and about talking to chicks.

But I kept going and my next approach went great with a really hot girl and then I got another # after that followed by two more.

One of the things this reminded me was that the first few approaches often suck both as an experience and in terms of results. I talk about warm up sets a lot but in my own personal life, I still expect to hit home runs in my first approach of the day. It'd be really cool if I was the kind of guy who could be always "on" (and sometimes I am) but for the most part my approaches(and most of you reading this) are going to get markedly better around the 4th, 5th and 6th approach. Because by that time you're warmed up, you've exposed yourself to some social feedback and hopefully you've made some adjustments to your body language, eye contact etc...

So when going out don't get discouraged if your first few approaches don't go anywhere, it happens. But it also doesn't mean that you won't be able to get better in approaches 4,5 and 6.

JS- The King Of Content


  1. Anonymous11:08 AM

    I absolutely agree. Warming up also works when you are texting or calling girls. I always call friends or other girls, or text people to get into that social mode and get momentum then I'll contact a girl guns blazing. I think you can call it "motion creates emotion"

    1. Anonymous10:39 AM

      Have a little respect for Jon, a man who lost two of his three testicles while fighting the Taliban.


  2. Anonymous12:14 PM

    I just came back from the park

    and saw sinn fucking a squirrel

    1. Anonymous10:31 AM

      I'm calling BS. Unless by "squirrel" you mean "tranny." That I might believe.

    2. Anonymous11:41 AM

      Let's declare a truce on all comments related to Jon's sexual organs, sexual preferences, etc. Otherwise he'll think we're a bunch of weird losers.

      Robin Hood comments ok.

    3. Anonymous2:45 PM

      Robin Hood comments are NOT okay either.

      Only one person in the world thinks Robin Hood is cool and its the one guy on here who keeps commenting on him.

      Robin Hood is NOT cool.

      Seriously dude. Go have a conversation with a gir you just met all about Robin Hood and watch how fast You DON'T get laid.

      Pish posh

    4. Anonymous10:18 AM

      I dunno...I like most of the Robin Hood comments.

    5. Anonymous3:04 PM

      why does everyone love talking about robin hood?

      what is so good about him?

    6. Anonymous2:59 AM

      sinn you squirrel fucker!

  3. Anonymous12:14 PM

    what position? was it 69?

    1. Anonymous10:27 AM

      No, it was 70 or 71.

  4. Anonymous5:19 PM

    I don't understand why you'd approach so many girls. I hate wasting time on girls that I'll never seen in a few (like 6) months.

  5. AlphaPr1nce12:12 AM

    What about doing some things to get into state before going out? I mean that could save you a lot of time and accomplish some what of the same of perhaps doing 2-3 approaches.

    I mean I always get into state before going out.

    1. Anonymous11:46 AM

      Whenever u enter a new environment....Your state is gonna change....So if u amp yourself up on the way to the bar....Once you get inside you'll actually start to crash

    2. Anonymous1:04 PM

      Yes, but judging by the name you use to post comments, you also cry yourself to sleep when you get back in.

  6. Anonymous2:31 AM

    Sinn, I have question. Is approaching girls that are giving IOI-s right from the get go the most efficient way to get to know someone? For me it is kinda waste of time to chat to every girl hoping that 1 on 5/10 will be intrested. Why don't weed out them fast just by giving them eye or smiling and waiting for reaction? Whats the problem with that?

    1. Anonymous10:16 AM

      Just approach any girl you're interested in. If you get IOI's first, then of course it's better for you. Remember the most reliable of IOI's is fact that she's still talking to you.

    2. Anonymous10:04 AM

      Yeah, ok, but how often girl that is not looking at you in the club or bus (or any other location when she has time to check you out) is open to your advances and not only laughing while you are talking to her but wanna met up and hook up?

      Form my expirience girl must be initialy intrested or it is very hard to make something out of it.

      You are famous for talking like it is so how it is in those kind of situations?

  7. Anonymous12:35 PM

    Why don't you delete all the comments which are spam or troll? You're gonna lose some good potential customers of your products if you keep this up..

    1. Anonymous11:30 AM

      Why would he lose money because he posts my hilarious anonymous trollage?

      People know who Sinn is. If they don't, several years blog posts and the GAD will get them up to speed. Anyone who doesn't buy a product because of blog comments wasn't going to buy the product in the first place.

      On another note, word on the street is Sinn isn't actually a real person. Apparently hes a cat operating a mansuit.

      Chairman Meow...

  8. Anonymous11:02 PM

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  9. Anonymous3:06 PM

    I agree sinn why are you letting them say bad stuff about your dick?

    remember sinn you even said it yourself

    "respect the cock"

  10. Anonymous3:00 AM

    sinn gives head to squirrels

    he sucks and swallows like a motherfucker

    that's why he never posts his lay reports

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  12. Anonymous4:16 PM

    I think there is something semi-sociopathic about 'always being on'. I don't know, I'm not the instructor here, but I don't think it's healthy to have that kind of approach toward any aspect of life. Maybe that's the difference between playing and performing.