Monday, April 02, 2012

Girls as Options Traders

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  1. Anonymous2:14 PM


    Wednesday, March 07, 2012
    K.I.S.S # closing system

    First you simply ask going for a drink to get her number, then on phone you're really selling it?

    Why don't you sell it from start?

  2. Logistics are SO important for getting girls to come out on dates. Thanks for mentioning the weekend rule - Fri and Sat nights are usually bad days to pick for first dates. I prefer Sunday - Wednesday :)

    Keep em comin' Sinn

  3. Anonymous2:25 AM

    tenmagnet instructor said something similar to sinn (on the LS interview series) he said in the beginning make your plans sound vague!! and as you get closer to the date then start becoming more specific and specific

    also, has reduced flakes by making the girl invest heavily!!...asking her qualifiying questions using open ended questions "what" "how" "why".....this get's the girl talking & talking and doing most of the work which solidifies attraction

    I have tested it out in the field and it works wonders!!!!

  4. Anonymous2:31 AM

    thanks for this sinn!!!

    please post more about flakes

    about your new discoveries!!!!

    I already read your flakes book but I know you have more info on this topic that may seem obvious to you!....but not to us!

    many thanks sinn!! your' blog will always be my favourite!!

  5. Anonymous6:49 AM

    Overselling date is like undermining your confidence.

  6. Anonymous4:12 PM

    Hey Sinn, that´s it!!!
    but here my problem: option trader - loosing attraction or
    "kiss frogs, but don`t think about" ??

    Met a girl after a live-concert and talked about 1 hour,
    Took her out there, and went a good way along of her way home.

    Push- Pull, touching, laying the arm around her, taking it away...

    She looked like "want to be kissed" ... push: near her face, (1 hour later)

    ME "I can´t tell you what I´ m thinking about" moving back, doing nothing and

    She wanted to get my telephone number, because she would like to meet for a beer.

    I gave her (push - oh I don´t have anything to wirte.. how should we do that? ) - pull and let her ring me up (:

    She said that she has to pack her suitcase and go by train the next morning, it´s cold
    and she has to drive the longer part of the way by bicycle.

    She Looked in my eyes, smiling..... like "lets kiss"

    Kissed softly after a while she sayed: I really should go now, otherwise...

    Me: You have to leave now ! go away ! she went on her bike giggeling and I gave her a small clap on her back -

    She went away, me too (:

    Next morning (8hours later) I send a sms :

    ME: It was really fun to get to know you :) wish you good travelling and a nice day - me

    HER: Hey, was really glad to talk with you, too

    But I fear that I made the wrong signs... sorry! Happy Easter - her

    ME: Hey PirateGirl, I talk about good friendship and you are again planning all future (;
    I`ll adopt you as my new little sister :)

    HER: Then everything is fine (: was afraid that you could interprete the leaving-kiss wrong...

    ME: Really? Oh.. than I´m really pregnant now... From my sister (-;

  7. Anonymous9:56 AM

    The elusive Jamie Doyen?