Monday, July 05, 2010

There is No Finish Line...

Good Morning,

Hope everyone had a great 4th of July weekend!

One of the things I hear a lot when I'm talking to students for the first time or we're discussing goals is the idea that these guys want to "master the game". Or more frequently they think that once they reach a certain goal or level of success with women that all of a sudden they'll be finished, or able to relax or something.

Time for me to drop a truth bomb on you...

You will NEVER be done dealing with women. Well, unless you decide to jump teams. Which is understandable, because you could share clothes and would never have to worry about getting laid ever again :)

There is no finish line to "game" or dealing with women. If you get married, you still need to find new ways to keep your marriage exciting emotionally, sexually, and intellectually. If you get a great girlfriend, same thing.

Hell, even if you just want to get laid more you'll still need to deal with girls to make that happen. And continue to happen.

So the point of this post is not to discourage you and make you feel like you're going to be struggling in some sort of weird sociopathic game all your life. Instead the post is to remind you that while it's a good idea to have goals, so that you can track your progress. It's also important to understand that there is no finish line. And that interacting positively and proactively with women is a lifelong process/skill.

Or as I'm so apt to say to girls about my emotions; There is no there, there.


JS-The King Of Content

1 comment:

  1. Anonymous1:10 PM

    Any good tips on how to keep a Long Term Relationship new and exciting? :)

    besides some random exciting stuff to do - out of limits stuff.

    Thank you in advance.