The Shallow Man was recommended to me by Rick H, in Australia a few years ago.
He said it was his favorite book of all time and explained why he moved to Eastern Europe...
With that much of a build up, I thought how could you go wrong.
The Shallow Man is very interesting, if ultimately a bit of a juvenille fantasy. The long and the short of it is this; Nick Laws is a modelizer/club promoter/hand model. He spends his days and nights in pursuit of what he calls "Thing" AKA models. In the book, we meet Nick right before his life gets turned upside down, which actually has him considering dating GASP a civilian...
There's a lot of interesting ideas in the book about Beautiful women, and if you've ever partied in NYC, you'll be amazed by how accurately the author (who I'll address in a moment) describes the social scene.
The Shallow Man is a short read, and is for the most part pretty entertaining. It doesn't present anything even resembling real life pick ups, but the character of Nick Laws is an interesting one if for nothing else than his mindset about beautiful women and his way with words.
Now about the author... Last year on the realhousewives of NYC, Countes Luann went on one of the most awkward dates of all time, with a creepy, bulging eyed, guy with no game named Coerte.
During one of the most awkward scenes ever he tried to kiss her multiple times unsuccessfully with his lizard like tongue. To say I was unimpressed with his game would be an understatement. But one of my older "game mentors" in NYC told me that around 10-15 years ago the guy was a famous womanizer in the city and actually did throw one of the best parties around. So who knows...
If you're looking for a fun read that is slightly informative and will make you think about beautiful women from a different perspective, check out the Shallow Man.
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Monday, March 28, 2011
Friday, March 25, 2011
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
Test 1 thing at a time!
Short post today.
This piece of advice actually comes from my biggest game mentor Captain Jack.
It's the idea that when you are changing things about your game, you need to focus on one thing at a time.
He gave me this advice years ago when I had decided to shave my head, change my dressing style and start going direct all at once which had caused a big drop off in my results.
I was looking at the small details of what I was doing as opposed to looking at the overall effects a dressing and hairstyle change had along with a completely new way of talking to girls.
I went back to my old way of approaching until I got used to the new way girls reacted to my clothes and hair and then started practicing direct again with great success.
So if you're changing a gazillon things about your game when you get started, you need to stop and look at which 1 change you want to work on first and then systematically integrate everything else later.
Word.
JS-The King Of Content
This piece of advice actually comes from my biggest game mentor Captain Jack.
It's the idea that when you are changing things about your game, you need to focus on one thing at a time.
He gave me this advice years ago when I had decided to shave my head, change my dressing style and start going direct all at once which had caused a big drop off in my results.
I was looking at the small details of what I was doing as opposed to looking at the overall effects a dressing and hairstyle change had along with a completely new way of talking to girls.
I went back to my old way of approaching until I got used to the new way girls reacted to my clothes and hair and then started practicing direct again with great success.
So if you're changing a gazillon things about your game when you get started, you need to stop and look at which 1 change you want to work on first and then systematically integrate everything else later.
Word.
JS-The King Of Content
Monday, March 21, 2011
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Friday, March 11, 2011
Wednesday, March 09, 2011
Monday, March 07, 2011
Review: The 4 Elements Of Game
I don't read very many pick up products anymore.
Not because I think I have everything figured out, but I think I have it figured out better than 99% of the guys teaching and I tend to just get annoyed when forced to listen to 3 hours of a hick who moved to Hollywood drone on about navy seals and playing checkers as opposed to chess.
I do however really enjoy Rob Judge's writing over at TSBmag and I think he's one of the better "new guys" so to speak who have been getting attention lately, so when I found out he had a book, I was anxious to read it.
When reading it, I felt like I was hearing someone else say the same things I'm always telling guys when it comes to becoming a more attractive person. Even though me and Rob have NEVER met and probably haven't spoken more than 10 times on the phone.
I really like Rob and Zach's idea of seeking the truth from an interaction with a woman. All you're trying to do when you approach is figure out what the truth is about what will happen. This is a great mindset for guys to adopt and it's gels nicely with my idea of approaching being either fun or boring.
Anyone whose read my stuff over a long period of time knows I consider myself shameless when it comes to hitting on girls so the section on Shamelessly overcoming obstacles to your drive or masculinity was right up my alley. I think overall guys like Rob and Zach are able to capture the idea behind being a sexually motivated guy who wants to learn How To Get Laid without coming off creepy like the creepy students who tell girls they're trying to get in their pants after the opener.
My favorite part of the book was related to escalation. In the book the guys write that the girl is the "pacer" of the interaction. Which is something I've been trying to articulate for years. You can escalate as hard and as fast as you want, but the interaction will only go as fast as the girl allows it.
Often times I'll even tell girls this during last minute resistance by saying something like
" Look I'm really super attracted to you, but I don't want to do anything to creep you out, so clearly I want to have sex with you, but I only want to go as far as you're comfortable."
That last paragraph incidentally along with pre-framing is what ended my terrible LMR problems 2 years ago.
The Bad: I did not like the layout of the book. I felt the way the Field reports were inserted around the text led me to lose my place a few times throughout the process. Also some field reports were directly related to the point the book was making around it while others were less directly connected and thus less relevant in my mind.
Who this book is for ? : Any guy who wants to brush up their attraction game would be well advised to pick up a copy of The 4 elements to game. Especially if you have ALREADY seen The Natural Attraction DVD, this book will really help you cement those ideas in place by giving you a whole different set of words to describe the same things thus giving a second and different perspective. Also if you want to brush up on your attraction game or start to move towards a more natural style The 4 Elements of Game is for you.
I really can't recommend the book highly enough based on the price and ease with which you can start to use the stuff in it.
Get it today at: Date Hotter Girls
Word,
JS-The King Of Content
Not because I think I have everything figured out, but I think I have it figured out better than 99% of the guys teaching and I tend to just get annoyed when forced to listen to 3 hours of a hick who moved to Hollywood drone on about navy seals and playing checkers as opposed to chess.
I do however really enjoy Rob Judge's writing over at TSBmag and I think he's one of the better "new guys" so to speak who have been getting attention lately, so when I found out he had a book, I was anxious to read it.
When reading it, I felt like I was hearing someone else say the same things I'm always telling guys when it comes to becoming a more attractive person. Even though me and Rob have NEVER met and probably haven't spoken more than 10 times on the phone.
I really like Rob and Zach's idea of seeking the truth from an interaction with a woman. All you're trying to do when you approach is figure out what the truth is about what will happen. This is a great mindset for guys to adopt and it's gels nicely with my idea of approaching being either fun or boring.
Anyone whose read my stuff over a long period of time knows I consider myself shameless when it comes to hitting on girls so the section on Shamelessly overcoming obstacles to your drive or masculinity was right up my alley. I think overall guys like Rob and Zach are able to capture the idea behind being a sexually motivated guy who wants to learn How To Get Laid without coming off creepy like the creepy students who tell girls they're trying to get in their pants after the opener.
My favorite part of the book was related to escalation. In the book the guys write that the girl is the "pacer" of the interaction. Which is something I've been trying to articulate for years. You can escalate as hard and as fast as you want, but the interaction will only go as fast as the girl allows it.
Often times I'll even tell girls this during last minute resistance by saying something like
" Look I'm really super attracted to you, but I don't want to do anything to creep you out, so clearly I want to have sex with you, but I only want to go as far as you're comfortable."
That last paragraph incidentally along with pre-framing is what ended my terrible LMR problems 2 years ago.
The Bad: I did not like the layout of the book. I felt the way the Field reports were inserted around the text led me to lose my place a few times throughout the process. Also some field reports were directly related to the point the book was making around it while others were less directly connected and thus less relevant in my mind.
Who this book is for ? : Any guy who wants to brush up their attraction game would be well advised to pick up a copy of The 4 elements to game. Especially if you have ALREADY seen The Natural Attraction DVD, this book will really help you cement those ideas in place by giving you a whole different set of words to describe the same things thus giving a second and different perspective. Also if you want to brush up on your attraction game or start to move towards a more natural style The 4 Elements of Game is for you.
I really can't recommend the book highly enough based on the price and ease with which you can start to use the stuff in it.
Get it today at: Date Hotter Girls
Word,
JS-The King Of Content
Friday, March 04, 2011
Sold Out!!!
Real quick...
I have some bad news and good new for for you.
The bad news is that that the first 100
"retirement" packages where you can get
my REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction
DVD Program + my Lay Reports Book and
lots of other bonus goodies for a
jaw-droppingly low price flew off
the shelves within 24 hours.
As a result the special "ask me anything"
teleseminar that I have scheduled for
next Thursday at 9:00 p.m. EST is
completely sold out.
If you were one of the first 100 guys
to get your package, congrats! I look
forward to speaking with you Thursday.
The GOOD news is that we still have
about 100 packages left so you can
still get yours here:
Sinn's Free Gift
Get your now while we still have them
in stock:
Gift
Best,
Jon
I have some bad news and good new for for you.
The bad news is that that the first 100
"retirement" packages where you can get
my REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction
DVD Program + my Lay Reports Book and
lots of other bonus goodies for a
jaw-droppingly low price flew off
the shelves within 24 hours.
As a result the special "ask me anything"
teleseminar that I have scheduled for
next Thursday at 9:00 p.m. EST is
completely sold out.
If you were one of the first 100 guys
to get your package, congrats! I look
forward to speaking with you Thursday.
The GOOD news is that we still have
about 100 packages left so you can
still get yours here:
Sinn's Free Gift
Get your now while we still have them
in stock:
Gift
Best,
Jon
Wednesday, March 02, 2011
Your Free Gift Is Here!!!
Hey Guys,
For all the details on how you can get my 90-minute
Natural Attraction DVD, my Lay Reports Book and LOTS
of other cool stuff for (almost) FREE, check out this
link:
Your Free Gift
Please note that this package will only be available
for the first 349 people that take advantage of it
(That's how many Natural Attraction DVDs I have left).
So you need to act now.
Just added! As a special fast-action bonus If you’re
one of the first 100 people to sign up, you’ll get
access to a one-time only "ask me anything" teleseminar
that I'm hosting.
You’ll be able to submit your questions to me ahead
of time and I’ll answer them. I’ve scheduled this
teleseminar for next Thursday at 9:00 p.m. EST. You need
to move quickly to get in on this.
One more time, the link is:
Gift
JS-The King Of Content
For all the details on how you can get my 90-minute
Natural Attraction DVD, my Lay Reports Book and LOTS
of other cool stuff for (almost) FREE, check out this
link:
Your Free Gift
Please note that this package will only be available
for the first 349 people that take advantage of it
(That's how many Natural Attraction DVDs I have left).
So you need to act now.
Just added! As a special fast-action bonus If you’re
one of the first 100 people to sign up, you’ll get
access to a one-time only "ask me anything" teleseminar
that I'm hosting.
You’ll be able to submit your questions to me ahead
of time and I’ll answer them. I’ve scheduled this
teleseminar for next Thursday at 9:00 p.m. EST. You need
to move quickly to get in on this.
One more time, the link is:
Gift
JS-The King Of Content
Tuesday, March 01, 2011
I'm Retiring????
Hey There,
Although I'm sure there are quite a few people
that wish I'd retire from being a dating and
seduction coach, the rumors you might have
heard about my pending retirement have
been greatly exaggerated.
In fact, Sinns of Attraction is stronger than
ever right now and we have BIG THINGS planned
for 2011 and beyond all related to helping
YOUR reach your dating goals (whatever they
are).
But I'm sure you know that any time you grow
and move ahead into the future there are
certain parts of your past that you must
let go of and leave behind you.
Because of this, I'm going to be "retiring"
two of my all-time top selling products
this week. The two products that I'm
going to be retiring are:
My REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction DVD
Program (NaturalAttractionDVD)
And...
My Lay Reports Book (Lay Reports Book)
(If you have the urge, DON'T order from the links
above for reasons that I'll explain later in
this letter)
Now both of these products are REALLY GOOD
and they're among the best reviewed products
I have.
Because of this, it wouldn't be right for me
to just quietly "retire" these products.
No, both these products deserve to go out with
a "bang" (pun intended).
This is why tomorrow, you're going to get
the chance to get BOTH of these amazing
products and a price that is really going
to astound you.
Think of it as my special GIFT to you for
being my loyal subscriber.
After we sell out (as I write this I
have exactly 349 Natural Attraction
DVD sets sitting in my fulfillment
warehouse), they'll be gone forever like
Keyser Soze.
I promise that you will be absolutely AMAZED
when you see what I have in store for you
tomorrow.
Talk to you then,
JS- The King Of Content
Although I'm sure there are quite a few people
that wish I'd retire from being a dating and
seduction coach, the rumors you might have
heard about my pending retirement have
been greatly exaggerated.
In fact, Sinns of Attraction is stronger than
ever right now and we have BIG THINGS planned
for 2011 and beyond all related to helping
YOUR reach your dating goals (whatever they
are).
But I'm sure you know that any time you grow
and move ahead into the future there are
certain parts of your past that you must
let go of and leave behind you.
Because of this, I'm going to be "retiring"
two of my all-time top selling products
this week. The two products that I'm
going to be retiring are:
My REAL Secrets of Natural Attraction DVD
Program (NaturalAttractionDVD)
And...
My Lay Reports Book (Lay Reports Book)
(If you have the urge, DON'T order from the links
above for reasons that I'll explain later in
this letter)
Now both of these products are REALLY GOOD
and they're among the best reviewed products
I have.
Because of this, it wouldn't be right for me
to just quietly "retire" these products.
No, both these products deserve to go out with
a "bang" (pun intended).
This is why tomorrow, you're going to get
the chance to get BOTH of these amazing
products and a price that is really going
to astound you.
Think of it as my special GIFT to you for
being my loyal subscriber.
After we sell out (as I write this I
have exactly 349 Natural Attraction
DVD sets sitting in my fulfillment
warehouse), they'll be gone forever like
Keyser Soze.
I promise that you will be absolutely AMAZED
when you see what I have in store for you
tomorrow.
Talk to you then,
JS- The King Of Content
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