Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Attraction Life Rafts

Hey there,

I got a lot of feedback on the last post on relationship patterns, I might post some more about that if there's interest in the upcoming weeks.

Today I want to talk about the concept of Attraction Life Rafts(ALR).

An Attraction Life Raft is a tactic, technique or routine you can use when things are not going well and you need to get back on the right track.

Here's a few of my favorite Attraction Life Rafts:

1. Tease. This is the best ALR, as it's pure emotional communication. Furthermore, you would be SHOCKED by how many guys don't tease girls at all when they are talking to them. When in doubt find something to make fun of about the girl.

2. Cold Reads. Cold Reads are great because they can create intrigue in a conversation. The next time, you're not doing well try saying " I have an intuition about you.." and following up with a cold or warm read.

3. Social Questions. These won't actually cause attraction, but they will buy you some time to come up with something attractive to say. Social Questions are pure placeholders like " Who are you shopping for today?"

4. Pumping Buying Temperature. Buying Temperature is simply emotional stimulation. The more you can pump the girls emotions, by making them laugh, giving them nicknames, singing, picking them up and spinning them around and other such nonsense the more emotional fluidity you get and that can be turned into attraction.

5. Switch it up. If the girl(s) are not going for your attraction game, try switching it up with comfort, qualification, rapport, vulnerability or ANYTHING else. One of the biggest issues guys have when they're talking to girls is an inability to adapt to what the girl is responding to.

So that gives you some ideas of things you can do when you're talking to a girl and you can tell you need to re-capture(or create) some attraction before moving on.


JS-The King Of Content


  1. Anonymous9:45 PM

    In #4, how do you turn the emotional fluidity into attraction? through qualification?

  2. Anonymous10:33 PM

    Mystery Method would argue to turn emotional fluidity into attraction thru the attraction switches of preselection, leader, protector. However, not sure what Sinn's or the natural attraction's method is to turn emotional fluidity into attraction. What do you guys think?