Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Using Pauses.

Normally pauses in the conversation are awkward, come early in the interaction and kill the conversation. These pauses are not planned, or helpful when it comes to meeting women.

These are not the pauses we'll be discussing today.

Deliberate pauses on the other hand, are very useful in a variety of different situations.

The most obvious is during attraction. If you think a girl is attracted to you, or she has given you some obvious signs, you can insert a small pause to see if the girl re-initiates the conversation. If she does she's attracted to you and you can start to qualify her.

Pauses are also helpful in comfort when a girl does something you don't like or declines an invitation or escalation. Again, once the girl re-initiates you go back to being normal and nice. Pouting isn't attractive.

Hope that helps,

JS- The King Of Content


  1. Anonymous9:06 AM

    why do you block certain posts,jon?

  2. Quick and concise advice, very nice.

    One more way you can use pauses is to build sexual tension.

  3. Anonymous12:42 AM

    I just read your Game Acceleration Doctrine 2.0. This should be required reading for any newbie or struggling PUA. Job well done.