Monday, November 19, 2012

Semi-Advanced Post: Attraction is highest the first time



 Here's one of my big new ideas, about escalation and emotions.

 Once you're good enough at this stuff that you get laid on a regular basis (say 10 new lays a year) then it becomes all about the idea of striking while the iron is hot. The reason being when you have good attraction game, you get the girl as attracted as she can be to someone in the first 10-15 minutes, you can only go two different routes:

1. You can lose attraction as no one(besides George Clooney) can sustain super high levels of emotional attraction (1 of 5 major types of attraction) that long. It's just the nature of emotions that they ebb and flow, which is THE major reason why there will always be a minimal amount of flaking even when setting everything up the right way. Attraction is an emotion of wanting more of a person, place or thing. Like any emotion it dims over time through the very ethereal nature of emotions as a whole.

2. The girl starts trying to play a longer term game as they see you as someone who she's so attracted to that she needs to hold off and try to make you her boyfriend. This is why guys with better attraction game tend to get more Last Minute Resistance and Player Vibe(especially for better looking guys) because they got the girl so attracted she either went past what she was comfortable with (if she was a more prude girl) or she went so fast that she needs to now balance the scales and get the guy to invest a little or she runs the risk of being pumped and dumped.

So how does this affect your game?

Well if you're looking for fast sex, it means you need to do a few things when you see a girl get SUPER attracted to you (Wide huge smile, lots of touching, laughing at things that are not funny in any way, admitting attraction when you use cocky humor etc..)

1. You need to escalate PHYSICALLY. All the verbal escalation stuff is great but what let's you know if you're going to get laid or if you're going to have a girl who's REALLY REALLY excited you're texting her is the touching. You have to learn to trust the touching over EVERYTHING else. I've had girls tell me I wasn't their type, I was too short, and I was too metrosexual for them while letting me grab their ass, makeout with them and remove their clothes on my bed...

2. You need to shit or get off the pot logistically. A lot of guys have girls into them, are making out with them and then NEVER try to get them out of the venue where that can actually turn into sex. This applies DOUBLY for Day Game. When I realized I could invite girls from the mall to my house, I started getting 30X the same day lays I got before. If a girl won't leave with you then she's not sleeping with you that night and you don't need to spend more time with her than it takes to get a phone # she'll respond to.

3. Memorize the phrases "What are you up to Later?" and " What do you have going on Tomorrow?" Sometimes things are really on but there are bad logistics. I met this girl at the mall on a bench and she had to go in 10 minutes but texted me that she was sorry and invited me to a party downtown the next day where we hooked up. The attraction is the highest when you meet, so whether you meet a girl at 10PM on a Friday or Tuesday at 1 on your lunch break you should start by trying to get her to hang out later before moving on to tomor and then later if it doesn't work out. Don't worry about trying to preserve your value by seeming busy strike while the emotions are high.

4. Make it sexual. I've talked about this sooo much in the last few years but once you have attraction you need sexual attraction and they are NOT always one and the same.

So there you have it, a breakdown of what to do when you have a girl soooo into you so it doesn't fade or flake because you waited too long.

JS- The King Of Content

18 comments:

  1. Anonymous3:56 PM

    One of five major types of attraction?

    Can someone enlighten me to the other four?

    What Type of attraction is it when I yell at them to stop crying and take their fucking pants off?

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  2. Anonymous11:38 PM

    speaking on flaking, can you release a new product for text game... your stuff on miss newsie hat was pretty cool also the flake elimination took kit was good. But would be great to see all different examples of pick ups, sort of like the layreports book except for text.

    Also great posts recently :)

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  3. Anonymous1:50 AM

    awesome post

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  4. Anonymous1:07 PM

    great post sinn!!

    finally your back on track!

    big time thanks

    if you could make your next monthly interview on advance day game

    that would great!!!

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  5. Anonymous12:51 AM

    sinn, release that new book of yours as a book, ie a proper book, fuck kindle it's geeky !

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  6. Anonymous8:24 AM

    John you are a genius!

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  7. Anonymous6:22 PM

    Genius! Get the logistics and set up plans for something later when you are at the peak of your attraction game? Did I understand that right? Whatever, I'm trying it.

    Physical game baby, that's where it's at for me in regards to same night lays, I've been touting, fuck teasing, fuck self-amusing, fuck her emotions, fuck your emotions, fuck everything, just escalate! In a half kidding way but if you're pretty advanced then we might be saying the same shit here in your post.

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  8. cap'n jack8:47 AM

    JS The King of Mental Masturbation

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  9. And that's why I always say that logistics is the #1 reason why the lay doesn't materialize; especially in day game where logistics are worst than club game for instance.

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  10. Anonymous1:11 AM

    yeah good post, new one please sinn, yea!

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  11. Anonymous10:31 AM

    update ur blog biatch

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  12. Anonymous12:21 AM

    Come onion new post please, also do another podcast with Cameron, douching on dickheads in the community, how bout Mr m? Bin do Carlo, or Vince kelvin homos that they are,

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  13. Anonymous6:32 AM

    post more phaggot

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  14. Anonymous12:59 AM

    sinn, we miss you

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  15. Anonymous1:51 PM

    If Sinn is dead, I respectfully announce that I am the new Sinn.

    I shall need good men, trusty with the longbow. Meet me in the forest for commencement of training.

    Bring lube.

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  16. Anonymous7:49 AM

    I guess is over that PUA shit. Just in time.

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  17. Anonymous9:55 AM

    where are you sinn?

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