Friday, June 08, 2012

Efficiency VS Effectiveness

 Hey there,

Here's a thought I had yesterday while doing some day game...

When it comes to pickup, you should focus on efficiency as opposed to trying to do the 100% perfect approach.

Here's why, there are a lot of things that can go wrong in a pickup that you won't find out about until you do the approach.

For example, you can approach as the girl is just about to walk away, you can approach a girl who has a wedding ring on, you can approach a girl who barely speaks English, etc...

So because there are all of these things that can go wrong that you can't realistically predict you want to focus on being as efficient as possible so that if these things come up in the midst of the pickup you haven't wasted time, effort or energy analyzing or waiting for the right time to approach.

Instead it's better to just jump into the approach and be willing to leave it if there's some inherent problem you find after the fact.



  1. Anonymous11:42 AM

    It's amazing how much game advice can be distilled down to the phrase "just do it, faggot"

  2. Anonymous3:03 PM more comments about Jon's peepee. Robin Hood comments are fine though.

  3. Anonymous3:07 PM

    How is a wedding ring a problem? You're more interesting than her husband, and what married woman doesn't pine for a secret adventure!

    1. Anonymous11:41 PM

      This PUA crap is clearly fucking with your brain. Any women that would cheat on a man she's engaged with, a person she's known for months if not years, with a random stranger isn't someone you'd want in your life.

    2. Anonymous10:08 AM

      So true Anonymous dude above me. I've always been unattracted to girls that will suck you off five minutes after meeting you.

      If she'll do that with you, she'll do that with any other guy, and is clearly no GF material.

  4. Anonymous2:40 AM

    I had my own epiphany while reading this article also. If dude is searching for responsive girl that is naturaly attracted to him he should not think about doing everything perfect. In fact most efficient way of doing things for him would be embracing his fuck ups and enjoying his screw ups because they get rid of non attracted girls.

  5. Anonymous7:42 AM

    How about the morality factor in attempting to sleep with someone's wife? That whole pick up excuse that pervades throughout the community: "if she doesn't do it with me, than she'll just find someone else to have sex with" is really lame.

    If that's not enough to deter you than consider the headaches that accompany getting involved with someone who is married?

    Not to mention on a purely psychological level. When you do something you know is wrong, dishonest, etc... your self-esteem actually takes a massive hit- regardless of how you attempt to rationalize it to yourself. In even more direct terms- your "inner game" will consequently suffer. Ultimately, it's just not worth it no matter how you look at it.

    1. Anonymous10:19 AM

      There is no morality factor in pickup. Most wannabe players are borderline sociopaths who don't care what happens to others so long as they get another lay.

  6. Neeko5:15 AM

    Hey Sinn, I am a huge fan of your work, especially concerning day game. I've read somewhere the concept of sexual mapping and they were saying it's one of your ideas. I think it's pretty much the same stuff that you talked about in this article. Could you develop this concept or give me a link? (I could not find your original article; the one I read was from Rob Judge published on tsbmag I think)


  7. Anonymous3:25 AM

    i heard sinn loves a ferocious wank! is that true?

    1. Anonymous12:49 PM

      No, I looked it up Snopes and it's just a hoax.

    2. Anonymous1:33 PM

      really? it's because i was under sinn's bed when i heard him wank, i heard his dick crack a few times.

    3. Anonymous6:13 PM

      Sinn lost his genitalia in a freak fishing accident. Now he has a wooden prothetic and is unable to wank.

      Me, Neil Strauss, and Jon's other gay lovers often make pirate jokes about it, but it's really no laughing matter.

    4. Anonymous10:50 AM

      so sinn's got a wooden dick!

      won't women scream in agony because after all.... sinn will penetrate and give girls sharp spinters.

    5. Anonymous3:26 PM

      George Washington has wooden teeth, and look where that took him. No telling how far Jon's gonna go in life.

      Jon's junk unit was crafted his nephew in the Cub Scouts to get his Woodcraft merit badge. So obviously, the quality and finish is first rate.

  8. Anonymous7:44 AM

    When will sinn hit us up with the awesome report?