Know yourself, be as happy as you can be, and approach as many hot girls as you can.

This is where my thought process has been lately, I think it's the healthiest way to attack this entire area of your life.

I'll explain briefly as I have a flood of thoughts on this subject that would make that thing Noah built the Arc for look like a swell.

Know yourself. This refers to defining your own reality and existence. What do you stand for? What do you want to do with your life? Who do you want to know? Who do you want to love?Who do you want to love you? What are your values, boundaries and standards? What do you think is fun? The more you have an idea of "who" you are, the more rooted you will be in your reality. the less you will be affected by the standards and rationalizations of the media, marketers, and the cool kids in the club. The more you appreciate yourself for your strengths and identify your weaknesses, the more people will want to be around you. Because everyone is uncertain. In fact there is a school of thought that would go so far as to say that the only certainty is uncertainty, but I digress. By being certain of what you think is right, and what behavior you expect of yourself and others, you separate yourself from 99% of other guys.

Be as Happy as you can. This is simple, the point of the community isn't to get laid, or meet girls or have options. It's to make yourself happy with your dating life. Now the interesting thing is how all these factors connect. The more you know who you are and what you think is fun, valuable, etc... The more you can pursue that which makes you happy. The more you do things that make you happy, the more attractive you are to women.

Approach as many hot girls as you can. Let's face facts fellas, we will never be able to eliminate the numbers game element of pick up. It's impossible. The more girls you approach the more girls will have sex with you, point, blank. So you should approach as much as you possibly can. That doesn't mean going out 7 nights a week, it means not letting opportunities pass you by during the day. It means not making excuses for why you can't approach or why she won't like you. It means stepping up and living the life you want to lead. You want hot women in your life? Approach them every chance you get. Because you never know... There are beautiful women EVERYWHERE. Now you just have to step up and take them.

Best,

S