How To Minimize the chances you get cheated on...

So yesterday, I wrote about infidelity and the general bleakness of that.

Today I want to go in a completely different direction and talk to you about how to minimize the chances you get cheated on.

And all it will cost you is $199.99...

Kidding.

Anyway, in my experience dealing with women and according to all of my female friends/sisters, there are a few factors that lead to cheating of the non bragging rights variety.

A quick sidenote, bragging rights cheating refers mainly to celebrities, or once in a lifetime chances that a girl could get free drinks from her friends for life talking about. The girl's own sense of right and wrong is the only thing that can stop that kind of cheating.

So to keep your girlfriend/wife from cheating on you, you must remember 3 important factors for female fulfillment( try saying that 3 times fast). I do want to point out that what causes most cheating is bad relationships and what causes bad relationships is complacency. Relationships are work and you can't let laziness or external factors get you into a rut.

1. Emotional fulfillment. This means that a woman's full range of emotional needs from empathy to jealousy and helplessness are met by you. Emotional fulfillment is the hardest of these three types of fulfillment because women are emotional creatures. Furthermore they don't feel like they can tell most men about what they really want emotionally at any given time. Oftentimes they may not even know or want to know themselves. Being unpredictable is a major key to being emotionally fulfilling, as is having a well balanced personality. Being emotionally honest and establishing a dialogue on that level helps tremendously as well. As well as showing the girl that you understand her as a person. Understanding and acceptance is key to all of this...

2. Intellectual fulfillment. I'm not saying you have to be a Mensa member or anything but you do need to fulfill whatever the woman's intellectual needs are. This could range from talking about the philosophy of Ayn Rand to discussing the latest happenings on the Real Housewives Of Orange County. Every woman has a need to be intellectually fulfilled. Even the not as smart ones... And that's a problem guys reading this can run into is they tend to be smarter and thus talk down or patronize women too much.

3. Sexual fulfillment. This one is the most self explanatory. You have to make sure she's having regular orgasms, and you have to keep your sex life interesting. The same way that you can't just hang out with a girl at your house and watch TV and expect her to remain fulfilled and happy. You also can;t just have missionary, cowgirl, doggy style sex for 8 minutes and expect the girl to stick around. Having a long term relationship means that you can easily open up dialogues about your fantasies and turn ons without worrying about freaking the girl out. That is unless you want to pee in girls mouths or cut them or any other such fetish, which you might have to build up to.


If I had to rank them, I'd say Emotional fulfillment trumps, Sexual fulfillment, which trumps intellectual...

Hope that helps you guys out there in committed relationships.

JS-The King Of Content