Do you know what you want?

I think one of the major hurdles that guys encounter on this magical journey of self improvement, is they have no idea WHAT they want.

This comes down to the fact that most guys would rather think on a small scale, such as where they are going to sarge that night or why that girl isn't calling them back... Instead of focusing on building something and taking the small steps every day, hour, minute and second to bring them closer to being the type of man they want to be while living a life that fufills them.

This means not putting a bandage on a bullet wound by ignoriong your particular patterns, insecurities, safety zones, and ideas of who you are. In the movie Hitch Will Smith's self titled character says that "you is a fluid concept." And that's the truth. Just because your life sucks now doesn't mean it has to continue to suck forever. There is a step that you can take now to make things better, you just have to realize what you ultimately want out of life first. The world is there for the taking, you just need to know what you want to take.

So I challenge EVERYONE out there to sit down and design the life you want for yourself. Think big! If you want 7 girlfriends who all love you and have threesomes with you, what steps can you take RIGHT NOW to get that ball rolling. If you want to be rich, what can you do to facilitate that TODAY.

There's always tomorrow, bu the thing about tomor is that when it comes and you don't act youa re jyst prolonging the process and not starting. As cheesy as it is to say, a journey of a thousand miles starts with a single step.

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