Friday, October 29, 2010

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JS

Monday, October 18, 2010

Approach Anxiety = Cardio

Quick post today as I'm jammed up with work for the Beyond Seduction Event which is now sold out!!

I just got back from a Kickboxing workout and I realized how much easier kickboxing is if you don't smoke cigarettes all weekend. This was after last week where I needed 5 minutes just to get up after sparring.

What I noticed last week was that as the training went on during the week (and I refrained from the cigarettes) the cardio was less tiring.

Which leads me to the following.

Most guys make the mistake of assuming that approach anxiety is like some sort of virus that can be completely eliminated with the right magic elixir of beliefs, experience, etc...

This is flat out wrong.

Instead you want to think about Approach Anxiety as if it's cardiovascular fitness.

The more of it you do (meaning approaching) the easier it is. The less of it you do, the harder it becomes.

Even for me, if I don't talk to anyone for a few days, I can feel the same difficulty in making the push to start again.

So stop looking for a magic pill, and instead take step everyday to improve your ability to deal with Approach Anxiety as opposed to looking to eliminate it entirely.

JS

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Free Teleseminar: " 5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game"

Hey guys,

Sorry I didn't get this to you yesterday afternoon as pomised
(I was having some difficulties getting in touch with my
webmaster), but here's the announcement I was talking about...

On Thursday, October 14, I'm hosting a no-charge teleseminar
entitled,

"5 Secrets To Exploding Your Game In 90 Day Or Less... And
Having A Lot More Fun While You Do It... No Matter Where
You Are Right Now!"

On this special teleseminar, you're going to learn ALL NEW
information that I have not revealed to anyone outside of my
private coaching groups. Here's some of what we'll cover:

* A little-known secret that explains why some guys get
good fast while other guys struggle for years. When you apply
this secret, you'll take literally YEARS off you're learning curve.
I promise!

* A special technique for eliminating Approach Anxiety in the
shortest time possible!

* How to start getting CRAZY results with women (threesomes,
10 minute lays, Same Day Lays, etc.) as quickly as possible! It may
seem hard to believe now, but these kinds of results are WELL within
your reach!

* The secret of Inner Game/Out Game Symmetry (Once you master
this, you'll find yourself automatically talking to more women and your
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* My BRAND NEW method for crushing any "sticking point" you
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progress will never be halted ever again!)

* And MUCH more!

Here's the link to register:

Call

See you on the call!



JS

P.S. I only have 250 lines reserved for the call and they're expected
to fill up fast. So be sure to register right away:

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Monday, October 04, 2010

Why I Don't Speak At Most Summits



WOW!!!!

This is HYSTERICAL!

If you want to see Professional Speakers and actually learn something

Beyond Seduction

JS- The King Of Content

1000th Post!

Well, we're finally here.

I woke up this morning knowing that I had to write my 1000 post today. I had promised you all a juicy story rife with pick up drama and "dickcrack".

But you know what?

I'm not feeling it.

I just don't really care about stuff that happened like 2 years ago and involved a motley crew of sociopaths and aspiring sociopaths.

So instead, I'm going to reflect on some of the things I've learned from having this blog for almost 4 years!!!

1. I never planned on blogging. Or even really wrote field reports or documented my life with women or pick up until I started the blog October 29th 2006.
2. I HOPE my writing has evolved a bit. I didn't look back before I started writing this, for fear of getting lost in a storm of typos and strange sentences.
3. Never write for comments. In the same post you will have people that say the post was the best thing since sliced bread(which it wasn't) and the worst thing since the plague(Also not true). Writing for an audience forces you to stop listening to what they say in order to be true to yourself.
4. My blog has caused a decent amount of drama in my real life and is invariably how women I'm dating, find out what I do.
5. For the most part I enjoy writing the blog and try to come up with different "takes" on dating. Sometimes I succeed, sometimes I fail. But I'd like to think, I'm always at least interesting.
6. Haters are a sign you're doing something right. The only people who never get hated on, are the ones who never say anything.
7. It amazes me the details some people know about me, simply from reading this blog over the years. As Slug of Atmosphere fame once wrote " I think my fans understand me better than my friends do, because my friends don't pay that much attention. The Fans memorize every single sentence, which should make them far too smart to ever start a friendship."
8. Sometimes it is ALMOST impossible for me to find something interesting to write about pickup that I haven't already said. Multiple times.
9. This whole community and all the intensity and feelings that can happen within it, including this blog, all go away if you turn off your computer :)
10. There are definitely posts I am proud of writing on this blog, and some ones I wish would go away.
11. I have zero credibility when it comes to talking about places I would NEVER live. So far I've trashed LA, Miami, and NY on the blog and afterwards have lived in all 3. Don't trust me when it comes to my opinions on cities. Everything else AWESOMELY credible :)
12. I think throughout this blog, I've stayed pretty much the same person. I may have changed little perspectives or ideas, and my philosophy about pickup has made a 180 degree shift, but I think I've stayed really true to who I am. As Sarcastic and whiny as that person may sometimes be :)
13. I think I'm over "The Community". I don't mean I'm done teaching or writing this blog or anything like that, I'm just over keeping up with what's happening with other teachers and methods etc... I get how the whole thing works now, and don't need outside influences on y thought processes.
14. I've gone through a lot of relationship changes during the time I've written this blog. Friendships started and ended. Relationships, worked, failed and then worked again. Some of it's recorded here, but most of it I moved off the blog. I need some privacy still.
15. It takes a certain kind of ridiculous individual to have 1000 blog posts on a pickup blog.

Ok, first 1000 posts down, next 1000 to go.

Thanks for reading and I'll continue to try to bring you the best content, mixed with my unique brand of ridiculousness.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

Friday, October 01, 2010

This is AMAZING!!!

Some guy, started a website called Mrs Lebron Wade, where he chronicles Lebron and Dwayne's "marriage" with photoshopped pics and hilarious articles.

My guess is he's a Cavs fan.

Check it out at

MrsLebronWade.com

Also it's 6 days til my Bday, so if you know me in real life and want to remain friends, go present shopping or at least wish me a happy Bday next Thursday. Otherwise you will be cut like a barber. Ask anyone who forgot last year, that I stopped talking to :)

Have a great weekend!

JS-The King Of Content

Thursday, September 30, 2010

Don't Be Captain Save a Ho Part Deux

I was reading my Real Housewives book (Don't judge) and I came across a perfect quote from Simon that illustrates the allure certain kinds of damaged women, especially those with high sexual confidence can have on men.

" She was a challenge for me. I'm in the car business and I was basically a closer, and I know a lot about psychology. But even with all the ability I have as a closer, she's the only person in the world I cannot use it on. IT'S NOT THAT I DON'T WANT TO. IT'S LIKE SHE HAS KRYPTONITE."

First of all, how funny is it that he calls himself a Closer. Seriously, you know what I think of when I think of the term "closer"? Kyra Sedwick from that TV show they ALWAYS advertise during the NBA playoffs.

Secondly if you ever find yourself trying to get a girl to change who she is or feel like you need to use psychology or "game" to win some sort of power struggle in a relationship, you're a sociopath.

and lastly if you find yourself comparing a girl's resistance to you to that of Kryptonite I.E the only substance that can harm FRICKIN SUperman, you may want to re-evaluate things.

Just sayin,

JS- The King Of Content

Wednesday, September 29, 2010

Strategy Based Game

Last week, I wrote about volume based game and some of the pros and cons of that style of meeting women.

Today, I want to talk about the opposite of volume based game, which is strategy based game. Unfortunately, I don't have a really cool Basketball analogy for this type of game :(

Strategy based game applies both to cold approaches, how you set up your life, and getting specific types of girls. Strategy based game is also your best shot at getting a specific girl that's already in your life(friends, co-workers). Strategy based game goes beyond simply using tactics and techniques. Strategy based games generally follow a set of rules and a basic overall strategy.

For example:

Mystery Method proposes a strategy of approaching groups, befriending everyone except the girl you are attracted.

Promoter Game is composed of the strategy of offering women a VIP experience in clubs, then letting the social proof and authority of your positioning create attraction.

Breakthrough Comfort is another strategy based game that focuses on creating love.

One of the pros of a strategy based approach are that it allows you to focus specifically on one girl or type of girl.

Another positive is that it gives you a specific set of actions and strategies to follow and usually a way to track your progress.

The cons of strategy based game is that it takes a lot of focus and energy. Generally strategy based game takes A lot longer as you are trying to go though a full process. Some people can also become dogmatically tied to a specific strategy as I was with Mystery Method for awhile.

In general it's not a good idea to become too attached to any strategy and instead become able to adapt to whatever is necessary in a situation.

JS- The King Of Content

Monday, September 27, 2010

Don't Be Captain Save a Ho!!!

Yes, I admit I just wanted to somehow work the phrase Captain Save a Ho into a blog post.

Sue me :)

I'm writing this after watching the drama unfold recently with my not in real life but Television friends Simon and Tamra Barney of Real Housewives Of Orange County fame.

Apparently he threw a dog leash at her and now he's been arrested for domestic abuse.

First of all, no one should ever throw things at women. It's childish and shows just how insecure you actually are.

But...

Clearly when these two met, Tamra had a past and was a little bit of a party girl. She had a basically fully grown son she had at 20 and listed her hobbies as day drinking. I'm not saying she's a bad person, but you can't expect to turn that kind of girl into a doting, obey everything I tell you to do, housewife.

As Snoop Dogg and Dr Dre clearly rapped on the seminal Chronic 2001 album, "You can't turn a hoe into a housewife."

You may be wondering how this affects you dear reader... I'm glad you asked.

Most of you who read this blog are aware of why it's a bad idea to obsess about one particular girl, especially when she doesn't seem to be interested. In the SUISC this is commonly referred to as one-itis. Generally the horrible advice that is given to you is to go fuck ten other women (GFTOW). While this can work for some guys, it doesn't actually do anything to get rid of the emotions.

Now on the same tangent, let's say you do manage to hook up with that one special girl that you think will make your life totally complete. Except, it turns out that she also has a fully grown son from another marriage, and shows no signs whatsoever of slowing down her partying.

What do you do?

Do you look at the situation realistically and assess the pros and cons of staying with such a woman?

Or

Do you do what most guys (Including Simon Barney) do and simply shrug your shoulders and say " Well she's hot!"

If you're 99% of the population (Basically anyone who isn't me) you go with the emotions of how good it feels to finally get with that girl and you end up in relationships with people who you are not compatible with.

The moral here is that you CANNOT save people from themselves. People don't change until they are ready to do it on their own, and no matter how much you love someone or believe that if they could just fix this or stop doing that things will be perfect changes that fact. It's human nature.

So I implore you to look at all women realistically regardless of how attractive they are,how much you have built them up in your mind to be perfect, or how much work you have put in to pursuing her.

Or you can end up in divorce court.

Your choice.

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Volume Based Game- The Allen Iverson Approach

I've been trying to clarify some thoughts I'm having on different ways guys meet girls.

So far I've pared everything down to the idea that there are volume based ways of meeting girls and strategy based ways to meet a specific girl/type of girl.

To illustrate what I'm talking about, I get to use a basketball analogy! Hooray!

When it comes to basketball, most uneducated fans look simply at the scoring numbers a player puts up. So if you look strictly at statistics, you would come to the conclusion that over the last 4 years Zach Randolph of the Memphis Grizzlies has been the best power forward in the league. This is because he is the ONLY player in the league to average at least 20 pts and 10 rebounds a game over that time.

What you would be missing is that Zach has been stuck on TERRIBLE teams for the last four years and as a result has ended up taking more shots, getting more rebounds and playing more minutes than he would on a successful team. He is successful only because of the situation which allows him to take a lot of shots and get a lot of rebounds, but doesn't actually lead to team success or championships.

Zach is what's known around the league as a volume scorer. Meaning that when he takes a lot of shots, he scores a lot of points. When his opportunities are reduced, so is his success...

Now how in the world does that apply to meeting women?

Most guys who get good with girls use the volume based approach. This is ESPECIALLY true with other instructors. In fact I would go so far as to say that most other instructors only get laid when they have approached upwards of 20 women in a night. I've personally watched and counted during SEVERAL bootcamps with various instructors from at least 3 different companies over the years.

They are playing a kind of numbers game.

Approach enough women and no matter what you look like or how good your game is, someone will want to sleep with you eventually.

The positives of the volume based approach are that you (should) learn that rejection is not a big deal. This is one of the golden lessons of pick up that guys want to avoid. By doing a large number of approaches you desensitize yourself to the rejection that is a part of the game.

However, a purely volume based approach has some issues.

1. Volume based approaches help you get girls, they don't help you get a specific girl or a specific type of girl. If you're a complete loser with girls (as I was 7 years ago) then you should start with a volume based approach in order to start getting experience. Once you've got that experience you want to really refine what you are looking for and start tailoring your approaches to a specific type of girl you really like.

2. Volume based game takes time. It takes all night to approach 20 different girls or groups of girls unless you're terrible and the approaches all last less than 5 minutes.

3. Volume based game takes energy and a lot of "work". If you're reading this you probably know how lazy I am. While I have approached 20 girls in one night or day, the only way you're getting me to do this now is with a gun to my head (or money). You work really hard when your game is based on how many women you approach as opposed to a more strategy based type of game.

So that brings us to the end of this article and brings up our next topic; Strategy based game.

Tomor I'll have an article for you on that topic.

We're on a 23 and a half hour break,

JS-The King Of Content

Monday, September 20, 2010

# 994- The Beyond Seduction Event is Live!

Hey there,

Good Monday to ya.

I have a bunch of thoughts today, but I also have about 10 mins before I have to leave for Kickboxing, so I will have a lot of posts this week for ya including my thoughts on volume based game versus quality based game.

I may even make a video to explain it.

But in the meantime I wanted to remind ya that the Beyond Seduction Event is live now and you can STILL get a free 30 minute strategy session with me (a $250 value) as well as the Beyond Seduction Starter pack (a $147 value, not available anywhere else) if you sign up by Midnight tonight.

You also get a HUGE price break.

Sooo meander on over to Beyond Seduction and sign up.

Or you'll never get laid ever again!!!!!

Just Kidding.

Or am I?

JS- The King Of Content

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

What Is Game (Video)

Hey,

I just put a short video that talks about what "game"
really is.

In the video, I talk about the THREE things that
will make you ultra-succesful with women.

Check out the video here:

Video

Talk to you later,

JS

Wednesday, September 08, 2010

Transitioning In Day Game- Introduce Yourself

Yo,

I get a lot of questions about transitioning especially during the day time.

There is an easy way to transition in any situation to make it obvious that you want to continue the conversation and shift topics.

It's called introducing yourself.

I know, I know this goes against years of community dogma and flies directly in the face of rules guys who get laid 3 times a year have said.

But unlike 99% of the gurus in this industry, I STILL pickup new girls almost every day and I can tell you that introducing yourself (ESPECIALLY during the daytime) will move your conversation forward, because it bridges the gap between " Why is this guy talking to me?" and " Oh I'm in a conversation" in a woman's mind.

SO hopefully that answers what you should do to transition during the day.

JS

Wednesday, September 01, 2010

Girl Game

Yo,

Middle of the week greetings, and salutations to you all.

I've been having some crazy success lately which has led me to having to wash my sheets every day and the following little nugget of information I want to share with you today.

Girls have lines and "routines" they run too.

I started to notice this before I left AZ, but since I've moved it's become even more noticeable. In fact I can now tell I'm going to end up hooking up with a girl as soon as they start some of they're "girl game" as I like to call it.

I met a Yoga teacher in Barnes and Noble Sunday who while we were walking around told me she had to be in love to have sex with someone(Something I'd heard before) 6 hours later she was filming herself masturbating and various other things unfit for print.

My favorite example of this is when girls try to push the whole " I date like a guy" thing. Recently this very cute little cocktail waitress named Sam tried to tell me she doesn't date and plays guys. Literally a week later she was calling me every day trying to hangout and getting super clingy. Since I've moved I've heard variations of this from an Abercrombie and Fitch manager and a makeup artist. If a girl tells you she dates like a guy or is a player, run because she's clingy.

I've done the research for you.

The point is, much as we are trying to control our image in the girl's mind to make ourselves seem fun, confident, masculine and interesting. She is trying to do the same thing, and chances are both of us are misrepresenting ourselves.

Because as Chris Rock once said when you meet somebody of the opposite sex for the first time, you're not actually meeting them, you're meeting their representative.

How do you deal with this?

With the best advice I ever received about women (from my sister ironically enough, love you Gemma!) Never take anything a woman is saying seriously. Especially if you just met her.

Best,

JS

Monday, August 30, 2010

990- Emotional Fludity

Yo,

A lot of guys even some of
the top gurus out there,
think that the goal of an
interaction with a woman
is to get attraction from
her.

This is somewhat true but
misses the point.

See, attraction is an emotion.

So in reality what we want is to
get the woman to first emotionally
react to us and then to allow us a
degree of what I like to call
Emotional Fluidity.

Emotional Fluidity, besides being
a term I just made up, refers to
what happens when a woman allows you
control of her emotions. It's not
a conscious process and it's also
where a majority of techniques come
into play. Especially those based on
intrigue.

I'm sure you've had what I'm about to describe
happen to you at least once.

You start talking to a girl,
you're attracted to. You're throwing
your best game at her, you're doing
everything right, and she just doesn't
react.

Not an annoyed word, not a blowoff,
just apathy.

In reality apathy is worse than
hate and anger, because a person
has to at least care about you to
hate you.

When a person is apathetic you have
no emotional fluidity. They don't
regard you as important enough to
sway their emotions in the slightest
way.

Sometimes this has to do with value,
sometimes it has to do with looks, but
most often it has to do with communication
style.

You must communicate with women in a
way that early on sparks an EMOTIONAL
reaction. That reaction does not have
to be attraction, it can be curiosity,
annoyance, confusion, or a ton of other
things, but the goal when you start talking
to a woman is not to get attraction, but to
get EMOTION. Almost any emotion can become
attraction, but without emotional fluidity,
you CANNOT get attraction


Best,

JS- The King of Content

Thursday, August 26, 2010

The Importance Of Relaxation In Pickup

One of the biggest things I've realized as
I've gotten better with women, is that one
of the core skills related to socializing
in general is the ability to relax befor
and during a conversation.

The ability to be relaxed, especially
during the beginning of a cold approach,
conveys a lot of things about you. It shows that
you are confident, used to being around
beautiful women, comfortable.

Plus it allows the woman to relax.

I remember when I started approaching
"hotter" girls, I realized something
startling. There were certain types
of girls I could approach and actually
feel "cooler" than. Some of them were
even extremely attractive. When I approached
these girls, I'd ALWAYS do well, because
I was relaxed "Knowing" I'd do well with
them.

But for whatever reason, they weren't
the kinds of girls I really wanted.

And those girls(The ones I really wanted),
would make me a nervous,mess.

I would stammer, speak softly and weakly,
avoid eye contact.

All because I REALLY wanted them and because
of that I made the interaction WAY too important.

This buildup made it nearly impossible for me to
relax when I approached them.

Even when I ALREADY knew what to do and could do it
successfully with other girls.

So what did I do?

Two things.

First I progressively desensitized myself by FORCING
myself to talk to every hot girl I saw even if it was
just to squeak out a "hi"and run away.

Secondly I learned some relaxation techniques like
15 second breaths, Achievement statements, and muscular
relaxation techniques. But more importantly I focused all
my attention(after I started a conversation) on relaxing.
Sometimes I'd even look for a little flaw on the girl to
help myself not be intimidated by her looks.

And now I can talk to any girl, anywhere, regardless of their
looks or the situation while staying totally relaxed at all times.

Especially with the girls I REALLY like.

I'd also recommend daily stretching and meditation to help
with creating a more laid back presence both physically and
mentally.

JS- The King Of Content

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Positioning In Dating

Positioning is a term from marketing that refers to creating an image or identity in the mind of a perspective consumer for a product or service that is being marketed.

Positioning is extremely important when it comes to dating.

The way you position yourself upon first meeting a woman, can determine the entire course of your relationship with her.

When it comes to positioning the magic question, is what can I do for her?

You have to position yourself as someone who has something she wants.

Now what that something is can differ from person to person, but to have the greatest amount of success you must position yourself as someone who has something she wants.

Let's look at a couple of examples of good positioning.

1. Potential Boss/source of income: We did a video shoot a few months back and I saw the power of this positioning first hand. If you want to get all evolutionary psychologist here, you could say it relates to survival and security.

2. Club Promoter: This one only works with girls who go out in the area you promote in, but club promoters always start with higher positioning because they control (easy)entrance to the club. Anytime you have a "hookup" you can use that for positioning.

3. Expert in an area she's interested in learning more about. Being able to teach a girl something simple and basic or letting her see you be way above average at something creates higher positioning. I took a girl with me to a kickboxing class the other day and helped her learn to throw punches the right way. The key here is that it has to be something they're interested in. I don't talk to girls about pickup even though I'm an expert in it and can explain things in great detail.

A classic example of positioning is the way nightclubs in cities like Miami, LA, and Vegas work. Unless you have connections, you line up outside of an empty nightclub. This wait time positions the club as exclusive and popular. As opposed to letting everyone in at once, which would position them as half full.

Also look at the difference in positioning created by nightclubs in how you offer to buy a woman a drink. If you open with it you're positioning yourself as willing to pay for her time. Needy, and loserish. However if you buy overpriced bottles(again without a hookup then they're $60 in tip, I know) and open by inviting the girls to the table for a drink, you're positioned as cool and trendy. Even though in both situations you're offering the girls free alcohol to hang out with you...

So let's re-cap this post: Positioning is all about how you differentiate yourself from everyone else in relation to the woman you're dealing with. We want to create positioning based on what we can do for her. This is one of the things that can cause women to chase you.

Word.

JS- The King Of Content

Monday, August 23, 2010

Post # 987- Fun New Technique

Oh the countdown to DRAMA is ON!

13 more blog posts and I will probably get sued for revealing some scandalous shiz...

Actually may have to release the post as a work of fiction with names changed, kinda like The Game

Anyhoo, here's a quick technique I've been using at night when it's time to pull.

Originally it started out honest and then became a technique.

What I'll do is around 30 mins before last call or the end of the party, I will look at my cellphone and then ask the girl how I should blow off a booty call politely because I want to hang out more with her.

This is a great little last bit of pre-selection before you go for the pull.

As former Fast Seduction.com troll Feminator would write:

$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

JS- The King Of Content

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Learn Directly From My Biggest Influence; Captain Jack

Hey,

Most of you have probably already heard about Captain Jack. We were wings for a couple years and we probably had a higher output than any other Wing tandem in history. A couple of years ago I named him the world's best pick-up artist. (I've been OUT in the field with more professional 'name' PUAs than anyone else so I am the most qualified to make that kind of judgement.)

Anyways, here are 5 posts by CJ I think you should read. I believe they will change your game forever. Even if you've already read them before you should read them again. CJ's posts are often layered with little bits of golden information that you 'get' only with more and more experience.

Here they are:

Post 1:Romance = Sexual Tension

In this post, CJ discusses a lot of the dynamics behind Sexual Framing. It launched his very effect 'Framing Mastery' program where the number of SNLs quickly exceeded the number of PUAs on the call. Many were getting multiple SNLs in the same week.

Post 2: Game Dynamics

This post doubled CJ's blog traffic. It describes the framework and rules behind all human interactions and makes PU so simple and fun and returns the thrill of pick-up back to the PUA. It expands on these ideas:

All Games are Based on Agreement.

Game Dynamic 1: You and her must agree you are both Players in a Game You Both Want to Play.

Game Dynamic 2: You and her must agree you are both playing the same Game TOGETHER.

Game Dynamic 3: You must show her that you VALUE her Game Goal.

Game Dynamic 4: You must demonstrate that you can carry her through the Obstacles… first by handling them in her mind, then in the immediate environment then over time.

By passing each dynamic you get closer to sex. Her statements and questions are evaluated in the light of which Dynamic she is trying to Clarify. This is a must read post.

Post 3: Keeping It Sexual In Comfort . This is for those PUAs who find themselves getting stuck in boring, non-sexual conversations or Day2s that go nowhere.

Post 4: Gun To The Head Gaming Part 1. This is what CJ would do if goons broke into his house and told him he had to bet laid THAT NIGHT or they'd come back and shoot him in the face!

Post 5: Gun To The Head Gaming Part 2 . This is a checklist that every PUA should measure themselves against every night they go out. It is a way to truly measure your performance and shore up your weaknesses. PURE GOLD!

Why am I asking you to go read them? Very simple.

1. I know that reading them will boost your Game to the next level. No doubt. Each post in itself could do that, but all 5 together is a virtual guarantee.

2. CJ has just put every product he's created up for sale at a deep discount. I think everyone should invest in his material. I don't want you to miss out. Go here to read more about his "Insane Completion Offer" .

Friday, August 13, 2010

Club People VS Non Club People

Ok here's a quick post that can actually make you a lot happier and more successful with women.

In my experience(and for the sake of this article) there are two types of people in the World; Club people and non club people.

Club people LIVE for the club. It is the highlight of their week and they go regardless of whether they actually get laid, meet people they like, or even have a single social interaction with another person. Some of them go to dance,all of them like to drink, and most use drugs recreationally if they don't have a full blown drug problem.

On the other hand we have non club people or as I like to refer to them "my readers." I would say 99% of guys who get into this are not club people. Meaning that if you took away the alluring possibility of getting laid, these guys would NEVER go to bars and clubs. I should know, because I am one of these people.

Now for years and years I believed that in order to be good at this, you have to be going to bars and clubs, because that's where the hotties were. I tried for years to like bars and clubs. In fact when I was living in Dallas and Miami I was out by myself in bars and clubs 3-4 nights a week, and 6-7 nights a week total.

Yet even when I was having outrageous success, I NEVER looked forward to going to these places.

Eventually it hit me, the truth is you're either a club person or you're not. And I was not.

So about 6-7 months ago, I stopped going to bars and clubs outside of bootcamps and dates.

I was expecting my level of success with women to take a small hit, because I wasn't going to be around the drunk and slutty contingent which is so integral to bar and club success.

Instead the opposite happened, I started to go eat lunch at various malls in the Scottsdale area and was amazed to find hotter and much cooler girls there than I was meeting at clubs. Instead of sleeping with less girls a month, I was sleeping with more.

It was then during a conversation with Jay Formhandle that I got the second piece to the puzzle. He remarked that you NEVER meet club girls during the day. I thought about it for a second and outside of flights to and from Las Vegas, he was completely right. Club girls don't come out during the day and day time girls (Like grad students, nurses, lawyers, and most real models as opposed to "Models") are rarely found at night.

So take this post as a guiding light, if you HATE bars and clubs; STOP GOING TO THEM. You don't need to interact with scumbags in order to meet attractive women. They are literally all around you as you go through life.

And in the meantime you can make fun of ridiculous club people on websites like this one:

The Dirty

That is all.

JS- The King Of Content