My official take on rating girls

Ok, so I got a comment from a reader named a concerned woman or something like that about how rating women was judging them.

I'm pretty sure I've written about this publicly before, I just think it was on a forum somewhere.So I wanted to clarify my take on this retarded process.

First I don't rate girls in my personal or professional life. There are many reasons for this, the biggest being that supposedly rating girls allows you to quantify how they are going to respond to you, yet you NEVER know how a girl is going to react to being approached. I've met incredibly beautiful women who were sweet and open to being approached, and I've met hideous women who were not. There's just no way to tell, so there's no point in rating. The second problem I have with rating women is that it's horribly demeaning to the women who are being rated as they are being reduced strictly to a number. And this comes from a guy who details his sexual exploits in detail on the internet. The last problem with rating girls comes from the fact that EVERYONE has different taste. Do you think a 6ft tall thin, flat chested runway model is hot? I wouldn't even approach that girl. I'd be far more interested in the 5'3 stripper looking girl with tats and piercings. Now some girls are universally attractive, but they are much more the exception than the rule. So people like Mystery, and Hawaii waste their time arguing about whether a girl was a 9 or a 9.25. 4 years later I still have no fucking idea how you award a quarter of a point of hotness..

I really do hate the process of rating girls as anyone on my bootcamp can attest when I stare blankly at students when they ask me to rate a girl beyond a " she's hot" or "she's ok." I'd go so far as to say it's even borderline misogyny. So I highly recommend that everyone gets rid of this arcane and insulting process to help us foster healthy win/win relationships with women, whether it's just for a night or a lifetime.

S

My take on the whole girlfriend thing

I really don't understand why soo many instructors get girlfriends and then cheat on them...

Granted I do have issues with cheating as my mom cheated on my dad and they ended up getting divorced about three and a half years ago. But at the same time I just don't see the point of having a "girlfriend" for show when you know you're going to cheat or when you cheat given the opportunity. And I love the rationalizations that they all make. " Oh it's only a one time thing, she knows I have a girlfriend." " I was drunk" or " She asked me for a ride home".Call me naive, but being in a committed relationship is a test of your integrity. It's the reason that I NEVER get into committed relationships, because I know that i enjoy sleeping with a wide variety of women and that isn't likely to change just because i met one girl who happens to be really cool.

Furthermore, it's a stupid strategy to get into these non-open relationships, because you don't have to do it. I have consistently since being in the community kept girls around for months on end until I usually get sick of being around them with absolutely no measure of exclusivity whatsoever. I know CJ has done the same thing. Yet every few weeks I see another instructor engaged in what amounts to lying. If we want to champion ourselves as improving men's lives and helping them become better people, then it's probably not a good idea to lie to women about how committed we are to them. It's much healthier in both my opinion and experience to keep things casual and not commit until it will be a real commitment. Plus you don't have to deal with the drama when you inevitably get caught.

S