As far as I understood, the danger of fool's mate (as it were) is that if you are fortunate enough to come across a girl who initially does like you for you, that because you have not been in the game long enough to internalise masculine and alpha behaviours, your inner beta and general inexperience will eventually cause you to lose her, placing you back at square one - except having just wasted 6 months.
^ no, the original thinkin was that if you slept with her too quickly she'd feel a sense of remorse or shame because of all her societal programming (feel like a slut) and therefore feel uncomfortable about it and not want to see you again. Probably because you didnt spend the time to qualify and build enough comfort. I see fools mate similar to a one night stand vs a same night lay, the latter you see her again.
i think that is a great post, the idea of solid game is ridiculous, i know good looking guys who make a ton of so called mistakes and fuck a new girl every weekend, i myself am not ugly and despite technically weak game have prob slept with more woman then most, sure you can improve your game with some tactics, clothing, stereotyping etc, but anyway bravo sinn, great post !
Jon, great post. The whole "fools mate" thing was invented by guys as an excuse to substaniate their game theories. Its an ego excuse. Its pretty evident. If a guy like Mystery who games not stop were to not do well in the field a say a club and then see's another guy who just says walks up and talks to a chick and they get along vs the non-succesful Mystery, "fools mate" is a projection of why this guy was able to pick up a chick vs Mystery not doing well. He says "well if game does not work, then it has to be pure luck or happenstance - thus fools mate" - Its self denial and an excuse.
As far as I understood, the danger of fool's mate (as it were) is that if you are fortunate enough to come across a girl who initially does like you for you, that because you have not been in the game long enough to internalise masculine and alpha behaviours, your inner beta and general inexperience will eventually cause you to lose her, placing you back at square one - except having just wasted 6 months.
ReplyDelete^ this is right on the money
Delete^ no, the original thinkin was that if you slept with her too quickly she'd feel a sense of remorse or shame because of all her societal programming (feel like a slut) and therefore feel uncomfortable about it and not want to see you again. Probably because you didnt spend the time to qualify and build enough comfort. I see fools mate similar to a one night stand vs a same night lay, the latter you see her again.
ReplyDeletei think that is a great post, the idea of solid game is ridiculous, i know good looking guys who make a ton of so called mistakes and fuck a new girl every weekend, i myself am not ugly and despite technically weak game have prob slept with more woman then most, sure you can improve your game with some tactics, clothing, stereotyping etc, but anyway bravo sinn, great post !
ReplyDeleteJon, great post. The whole "fools mate" thing was invented by guys as an excuse to substaniate their game theories. Its an ego excuse. Its pretty evident. If a guy like Mystery who games not stop were to not do well in the field a say a club and then see's another guy who just says walks up and talks to a chick and they get along vs the non-succesful Mystery, "fools mate" is a projection of why this guy was able to pick up a chick vs Mystery not doing well. He says "well if game does not work, then it has to be pure luck or happenstance - thus fools mate" - Its self denial and an excuse.
ReplyDeletesinn fucked my grandma last night
ReplyDeletesinnh you grandma fucker