I have a question regarding when she says she has a boyfriend. I do pretty much only day game, and have been for about 4 years off and on with some good results. I found that the majority of the time I do a street approach these days I tend to get the boyfriend objection. Sometimes right away, sometimes when I'm going for the number about 5-10 minutes into the conversation. I used to only do seated sets, but because those can be difficult to find, I've started with the street approach. Would your guess be that it's something in my game that's causing the street approach boyfriend objection? the nature of street approach in general? I find it hard to believe that 8 or 9/10 street approaches all actually have boyfriends.
I probably should have added that when they're sitting down I get the number about 75-80% of the time, and about 50% of those end up in dates. So, it's probably not that I look like shit (also considering most girls think I'm good looking), probably not creepy (considering I've never heard that in 4 years even once, and most sets go 10-15 minutes long either way), and sackless during the day after a direct approach? Probably not.
Try again, asshole.
My guess would be a couple things: a) I feel more comfortable doing seated approaches in general, and b) Seated has less of a player vibe... Particularly when you do a fair number of approaches and get a little tired of it occasionally. Any thoughts by someone who actually talks to women?
I can get a number roughly 1/3-1/4 of the time during a street approach, which sounds good to forum readers, but I've met/hung with a lot of the Direct Street guys, and this seems fairly universal. My old wing used to do slightly better than this, but he was sick.
I'd happily expand further for you, but you appear to have sand in your vagina.
This boyfriend line has been really annoying me. I've been taking girls on instadates and after a few hours they subtly mention their boyfriends. I've also been on two instadates where girls bring up their boyfriends, one saying "their is no passion in their relationship", the other saying "we're not exclusive".
I don't know what to do. Just escalate and take it to the end? I've only been doing pick up for a year now and don't have much end game experience.
a girl told me "I AM MARRIED WITH THAT GUY"....I mean...wtf I even didnt wanted to fuck her and she thought I was hitting on her....what way in that situation man?
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ReplyDeleteJon should be beaten for this. Keep the material fresh or we'll all defect to Neil Strauss.
DeleteThis is a repost of your repost
DeleteYeah: http://sinnsofattraction.blogspot.com/2008/12/5-typical-things-women-say-to-men-and.html
ReplyDeleteTo be fair, if you're still reading his blog 4 years on, you probably didn't listen the first time round...
DeleteEveryone interested can read the old postings even when he starts reading this blog today...
DeleteI have a question regarding when she says she has a boyfriend. I do pretty much only day game, and have been for about 4 years off and on with some good results. I found that the majority of the time I do a street approach these days I tend to get the boyfriend objection. Sometimes right away, sometimes when I'm going for the number about 5-10 minutes into the conversation. I used to only do seated sets, but because those can be difficult to find, I've started with the street approach. Would your guess be that it's something in my game that's causing the street approach boyfriend objection? the nature of street approach in general? I find it hard to believe that 8 or 9/10 street approaches all actually have boyfriends.
ReplyDeleteThank you
Either you look like shit, you act creepy or come off sackless.
Delete3 options. Pick one.
I probably should have added that when they're sitting down I get the number about 75-80% of the time, and about 50% of those end up in dates. So, it's probably not that I look like shit (also considering most girls think I'm good looking), probably not creepy (considering I've never heard that in 4 years even once, and most sets go 10-15 minutes long either way), and sackless during the day after a direct approach? Probably not.
DeleteTry again, asshole.
My guess would be a couple things: a) I feel more comfortable doing seated approaches in general, and b) Seated has less of a player vibe... Particularly when you do a fair number of approaches and get a little tired of it occasionally. Any thoughts by someone who actually talks to women?
My bad bro... you rock! Go you!
DeleteI can get a number roughly 1/3-1/4 of the time during a street approach, which sounds good to forum readers, but I've met/hung with a lot of the Direct Street guys, and this seems fairly universal. My old wing used to do slightly better than this, but he was sick.
I'd happily expand further for you, but you appear to have sand in your vagina.
dude..really..lose the blue color u use for links,etc...can't see a damn thing
ReplyDeletefriends huh. if i cant fuck them what's the point?
ReplyDeleteThis boyfriend line has been really annoying me. I've been taking girls on instadates and after a few hours they subtly mention their boyfriends. I've also been on two instadates where girls bring up their boyfriends, one saying "their is no passion in their relationship", the other saying "we're not exclusive".
ReplyDeleteI don't know what to do. Just escalate and take it to the end? I've only been doing pick up for a year now and don't have much end game experience.
Really good read, will have to learn how to react positively to the different responses woman put out.
ReplyDeletea girl told me "I AM MARRIED WITH THAT GUY"....I mean...wtf I even didnt wanted to fuck her and she thought I was hitting on her....what way in that situation man?
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