yeah - the do you speak text one has got me lots of not that good responses or straight ignores. e.g. speak text - what???? Especially girls who arent completely fluent in english dont understand it and it weirds them out. I never personally liked the text although I think I understand why its used - I'm guessing because its a screen / qualifier possibly with a sexual undertone.
I waay prefer your new text, and will become my new standard. Plus maybe being commanding at that stage might be more important than qualifying, which they might not be ready to do at the time.
using call back humor is actually better imo because it reminds the girl how you met her, creates an inside joke and it also recreates the emotion she had. Saying text me back has no momentum and is merely a ping text.
call back humor can easily be seen as try hard... and could also put you into a supplicative position. better for phone calls or face-to-face than text.
Just goes to show that the highest form of game is to create the appearance that you aren't using any game at all. In reality this simple text sets a very strong frame, which requires a great deal of game to stay congruent with during future interactions. Well done Sinn!
Just texted my gf with "Hey it's Jon, Text Me Back!"
ReplyDeleteNow she wants to know why I'm calling myself Jon. What do I say?
Hey Jon,
ReplyDeleteSorry but I wasn't totally clear:
Were these three different new texts? Ones that you haven't used before but are working well?
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Do you speak text :) your name
Hey (Girls name) it was great meeting u blah blah blah inside joke.
Hey it's Jon, Text Me Back!>>>>
yeah - the do you speak text one has got me lots of not that good responses or straight ignores. e.g. speak text - what???? Especially girls who arent completely fluent in english dont understand it and it weirds them out. I never personally liked the text although I think I understand why its used - I'm guessing because its a screen / qualifier possibly with a sexual undertone.
ReplyDeleteI waay prefer your new text, and will become my new standard. Plus maybe being commanding at that stage might be more important than qualifying, which they might not be ready to do at the time.
It is strange how not gaming brings better results than gaming?
ReplyDelete"game" is mostly being try-hard and fake. Not really a surprise being honest or genuine works better.
Deletethe pinnicale of game is where your doing least! amount of effort but getting amazing results.
ReplyDeleteless is more!
using call back humor is actually better imo because it reminds the girl how you met her, creates an inside joke and it also recreates the emotion she had. Saying text me back has no momentum and is merely a ping text.
ReplyDeletecall back humor can easily be seen as try hard... and could also put you into a supplicative position. better for phone calls or face-to-face than text.
DeleteJust goes to show that the highest form of game is to create the appearance that you aren't using any game at all. In reality this simple text sets a very strong frame, which requires a great deal of game to stay congruent with during future interactions. Well done Sinn!
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