Wednesday, December 14, 2011

"You Already Know What I'm About"- On Managing Expectations


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13 comments:

  1. Fucken awesome shit! As Gangster as it gets!

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  2. Anonymous12:59 PM

    Jon youre going to hell bigtime... Ill see you when I get there.

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  3. "It doesn't make you a good guy but maybe you'll get preferential seating in hell near Stalin :)" im going to use this as an exuse for now on

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  4. Anonymous12:45 AM

    I may look like an idiot for asking this but I just starting reading this blog...what happened with the girl named Kristen?

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  5. Anonymous1:57 AM

    who the hell is Kristen?

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  6. Anonymous9:09 AM

    Treat girls like that and you deserve everything you get. I hope you die alone, laughed at by all of the women you've led on.

    Get over your teen angst. The community isn't about getting your revenge on the women who wouldn't date you in high school. There are guys out there who have figured out how to get the girl without all the lying and manipulation.

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  7. Ablaze9:19 PM

    Great advice... In my younger days I used to lie a little here and there to get some.

    The turning point for me was when I made a girl cry who thought we had more going on and it was my fault. I did fill her head with some false expectations. I felt horrible. I decided I was going to be upfront from the get go.

    I tell every girl how I feel about them, as long as I'm not being mean. I'll tell them I have a hard time feeling connections with girls that are emotional. I tell them I'm still sexually attracted to them, but that I'm not looking for a commitment.

    I still break a few hearts this way, but when I'm telling the truth, it's more like them breaking their own hearts. If that makes sense.

    Good post.

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  8. Anonymous10:34 AM

    @up

    Girls ten to lead things toward commitment so not doing what they want is bad? What about us? No girls is thinking "o my god, im such a cunt because I want to be with him while he probably don't! I'm such a horrible person!"

    Come on...

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  9. Anonymous6:52 AM

    I hope you unleash a product for this, especially the part when you get to phone and text game,
    because i usually text everyday.

    p.s you are a horrible person man, you need some extreme spanking!! pow poow! bang! bang!!

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  10. Anonymous1:57 PM

    This is brilliant if you're a gentleman & a man about it. Jon wants sex and a good time; he's not lying about it. It's ok to be yourself if you're honest with others about your intentions. I've been dating a girl for a year and if I'd read this a year ago, I would still be single - I can't say if this would bring me more happiness. I love this woman but I still ache for my freedom at times, more so in the warmer seasons. In winter, human beings shack up :)

    Thanks for the great writing Jon. Hope that girl didn't hurt you too much. Be you.

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  11. Anonymous3:09 PM

    Hi Jon, I love your blog it has lots of good advices about how to make fat 6's like you, if you don't mind prancing and dacing around like a gayboy for her.

    Since you know a lot about The Community, I am hoping you can recommend to me a PUA who gets hot girls and doesn't act gay?? I am not trying to offend you, I am just bored of following your stuff and acting like a gayboy to try to get a 6. It's time to get hotter women.

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  12. Anonymous9:32 AM

    This stuff is gold for us guys that are interested in casual dating and not looking for a relationship, without leading anyone on. Great post Jon.

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  13. Anonymous9:17 AM

    What kind of a pussy breaks up with a girl he's fucking via text? dude, man up and tell them in person.

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