Friday, October 14, 2011

Don't be Jealous-Be Happy for others.

File this under advice it took me awhile to be able to use.

One of the biggest problems I see with guys mindsets is the idea of jealousy. Most guys when they see someone else who is more successful than they are, get jealous or they look for reasons to justify why someone else has something they don't.

Instead of doing this, it's much easier and healthier to just be happy for that person. By "blessing" that which you want you send a mental signal that says it's ok to have that thing, and also it allows you to let go of any negative emotions you mat be hanging on to that are getting in the way of your own happiness.

So the next time you see some guy you know is no better than you with a girl you're attracted to, instead of torturing yourself trying to come up with the reasons she likes him, be happy for that guy and take it as inspiration that anything is possible.

Best,

JS-The King Of Content

7 comments:

  1. Anonymous10:48 AM

    Another solid post by the King of Content.
    Jealousy can be a killer especially amongst
    wings

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  2. Anonymous2:51 PM

    great straight forward post, took me awhile to get to this point recently :)

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  3. Anonymous1:19 PM

    That's you Jon

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  4. Great piece of advice. Thanks Jon!

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  5. Anonymous3:21 PM

    What's up, I'm from Mexico. I've read your book, Game Acceleration Doctrine, and I've translated into Spanish so that other members of the Latino community can read and know about your teaching. You can download it here:
    http://www.megaupload.com/?d=JOFVTOPP

    I hope there are no problems. Your rights as an author remain intact in the book, do not worry about it.And I want to know if you'r ok if a translated your other book: DayGame Report.

    By the way, a guy from Argentina translated the same book and he is selling it on his website: http://www.manipular.net/2011/10/la-doctrina-el-juego-acelerado-sinn.html

    And this ona too:
    http://www.manipular.net/2011/10/secretos-del-juego-de-dia-sinn.html


    I mention this only because I don't think is right what he does, this guy is making money with your books
    I hope you take action on the matter. Take care man. Bendiciones.

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  6. THE REAL KING DAVID10:07 AM

    real talk. I don't even know why they call you "sinn" cuz you really are one of the very few people who is actually a "blessing" to the world of the PUA community and dating science.

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  7. Anonymous8:10 PM

    LOL that's kinda funny coming from a guy who spends half of his time trash-talking other PUAs rather than giving actual advice

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