Hey Sinn - just wanted to say I really appreciate your last couple of posts recently. You views on pick-up seem a lot more realistic and down-to-earth.
John, that statement "In the past I have been X(whatever your issue is) but now I am working on Being Y(what your goals are).", is so simple and it really combines where I'm at honestly and where I want to be. I'll be telling myself that when things aren't going well... thank you.
Really love this post. It made me realize something true: Whenever I say that i am bad with girls I strengthen the idea in my head. But the truth is that I am NOT bad with girls - not always. I have had girlfriends in the past, LTRs and so on... So I can't say that "I am bad with girls - and that's just the way it is". The truth is that at this moment I am not doing so well with girls (and it is my own fault) - but that is changing as i type this ;)
Hey Sinn - just wanted to say I really appreciate your last couple of posts recently. You views on pick-up seem a lot more realistic and down-to-earth.
ReplyDeleteJohn, that statement "In the past I have been X(whatever your issue is) but now I am working on Being Y(what your goals are).", is so simple and it really combines where I'm at honestly and where I want to be. I'll be telling myself that when things aren't going well... thank you.
ReplyDeleteHey John
ReplyDeleteReally love this post. It made me realize something true: Whenever I say that i am bad with girls I strengthen the idea in my head. But the truth is that I am NOT bad with girls - not always. I have had girlfriends in the past, LTRs and so on... So I can't say that "I am bad with girls - and that's just the way it is". The truth is that at this moment I am not doing so well with girls (and it is my own fault) - but that is changing as i type this ;)