Man it's Wednesday already...
The weeks of summer are flying by. It seems like whether I'm a kid at camp or not, summer always seems to be the shortest 12 weeks of the year.
Today, I want to talk about something that came up over at the 12m2m bootcamp this past weekend. We were talking about how it will take different girls, different amounts of time to get comfortable getting sexual with you.
With that said, there are a lot of very attractive women out there that will get sexual with you very quickly. Like I said to the guys over the weekend.
" Not every girl is a slut, but there are definitely a decent amount of sluts out there. Especially in bars and clubs."
Some girls are also bitchy, again they are a distinct minority, but they exist. If a girl is really rude to you, you have no obligation to keep talking to her.
As I demonstrated this weekend, you(or your instructor) are fully within their rights to deliver a calm and rational lecture to said bitchy girl about how her behavior is unacceptable. This will not necessarily get you laid, but the world will thank you :)
But most girls are really cool, and normal. The vast majority of girls you are going to meet doing pick up (Especially if you met them during the day time) will be really cool normal chicks.
So don't let any instructor, article or product tell you that all women are anything. Unless that anything is different :)
JS- The King Of Content
Nice post, alot of times guys get too caught up in community bullshit dogma.
ReplyDeleteSomething i'd like to add is guys need to go for the girls that they find attractive. Something that's so basic but that alot of people (including me) overlook.
You may be very drawn physically to a girl, and most girls are cool and normal, but you won't know if both of you click until you actually start talking to her.
Keep em coming!
Just finished going through the SNL guide. Sooo good, can't wait to start using this info!
ReplyDeleteVery true but not all women are so "sugar and spice." In contrary, many women are down right mean to men in clubs, bars and it has nothing to do with the guys but the girls attitudes. Are most girls cool and normal in everyday? That really depends. Shit tests are a real problem for alot of us. Please teach us some good ways to get around then.
ReplyDeleteMost girls are not bitchy to you for no reason. Most are cool. If a girl is bitchy, feel free to call them out on it like sinn said. I feel that some of the hottest girls put up a "bitch shield" to turn weak guys away, and will flip like a pancake if you are 'unreactive'.
ReplyDeletePersonally I like to have to work for a girl a little, if she is OVERLY nice right off the bat, i sometimes wonder how many other guys she has been overly nice to that have banged her in the bathroom later. (NOT THAT THIS IS BAD, just MY preference) I like her to play it cool and make me work for it a little.
That being said, if a girl is bitchy within the first 2 minutes, stay in there and see if she doesn't turn around. If a girl is bitchy after 20 minutes of good conversation, chances are she is a bitch, and feel free to call her out on it.
Best way to deal with a shit test is to be unreactive. Although i don't buy into the RSD brainwash, they do explain this portion of Game fairly competently.