Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Using Pauses.

Normally pauses in the conversation are awkward, come early in the interaction and kill the conversation. These pauses are not planned, or helpful when it comes to meeting women.

These are not the pauses we'll be discussing today.

Deliberate pauses on the other hand, are very useful in a variety of different situations.

The most obvious is during attraction. If you think a girl is attracted to you, or she has given you some obvious signs, you can insert a small pause to see if the girl re-initiates the conversation. If she does she's attracted to you and you can start to qualify her.

Pauses are also helpful in comfort when a girl does something you don't like or declines an invitation or escalation. Again, once the girl re-initiates you go back to being normal and nice. Pouting isn't attractive.

Hope that helps,

JS- The King Of Content

Monday, June 28, 2010

So You Want More Podcasts? Here's What You Have To Do.

Hey there,

I've been getting a bunch of emails, and tweets and comments about bringing back the Podcast.

Here's the deal. I don't want to do a weekly podcast that is focused on pickup by myself. It's a pain to come up with topics, and fill all the talking time for a show.

If I can avoid the subject of pickup and just talk about random pop culture and things that interest me.

Maybe.

But if you want the old style Podcast "Sinn and The Cities" then I need you to help me to convince Cameron to co-host it. The shows Cam and I have done together consistently get the best reactions and I think the two of us play off each other well.

Right now Cam is on the fence about doing the Podcast so if you guys can convince him to come back ( Bang the monkey as they use to say about The Jim Rome show) then I will be in for weekly pods.

I'm sure you can find an email address to contact him at on his website:

Attract Women Anywhere

Much like if you want to stay out of jail and keep the money you have you better call. If you want Podcasts about pick up with Cam and Jon. Email Cam. And convince him. Sorry for the bad comparison but I wanted to throw a Breaking Bad reference in there.

Hope you can convince him.

JS-The King Of Content

Friday, June 25, 2010

You have to choose your choices...

The title of this post is not only an amalgamation of a Charlotte quote from Sex and The City (The series not the movies) but is also an important life skill.

I often find myself making pretty big decisions, and I can say that no matter what you're making a decision about, you have to commit to your decision. You have to choose your choice so to speak.

Here's the bad news, ALL people make decisions emotionally and then come up with logical reasons to support them.

We all do it.

Which makes it even more important that when you do make a decision, you throw yourself behind it one hundred percent. The more you half commit or hedge your bets, the less happy you're going to be with your choice, whether or not it's the right one.

Have a great weekend.

JS-The King Of Content

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Every Woman is different

Man it's Wednesday already...

The weeks of summer are flying by. It seems like whether I'm a kid at camp or not, summer always seems to be the shortest 12 weeks of the year.

Today, I want to talk about something that came up over at the 12m2m bootcamp this past weekend. We were talking about how it will take different girls, different amounts of time to get comfortable getting sexual with you.

With that said, there are a lot of very attractive women out there that will get sexual with you very quickly. Like I said to the guys over the weekend.

" Not every girl is a slut, but there are definitely a decent amount of sluts out there. Especially in bars and clubs."

Some girls are also bitchy, again they are a distinct minority, but they exist. If a girl is really rude to you, you have no obligation to keep talking to her.

As I demonstrated this weekend, you(or your instructor) are fully within their rights to deliver a calm and rational lecture to said bitchy girl about how her behavior is unacceptable. This will not necessarily get you laid, but the world will thank you :)

But most girls are really cool, and normal. The vast majority of girls you are going to meet doing pick up (Especially if you met them during the day time) will be really cool normal chicks.

So don't let any instructor, article or product tell you that all women are anything. Unless that anything is different :)

JS- The King Of Content

Monday, June 21, 2010

Coming Off Try Hard...

Hey Buddy,

I'm glad to have some time off from bootcamps after the last month :) Unfortunately the days where I could party all night for 3 consecutive days and then turn around and keep going out during the week are waning. Alcohol and I are in a fight and even after yoga and 10 hrs of sleep, I am beat....

One of the things Alex and myself noticed the past two weekends in Chicago was that intermediate students( Those that can open and get attraction/not creep out girls) tend to go through a phase where they try too hard pretty consistently for a few months. This can be especially damaging to guys that are better looking/well dressed and are going after girls that when they're hot friends are asked to describe what they look like, they respond they're really "Nice."

Part of this is that these guys believe the myth, that there is something you can do to attract EVERY single woman out there, regardless of the woman's physical preference, relationship status, mood, and even blood type.

Another reason is that as guys fix their style, fashion, body language, tonality, conversational material etc... They start to get more attraction faster, simply from approaching.

Thus when you're using too many tactics, techniques, active interest/disinterest it appears as though you are a cool guy who simply doesn't understand/get girls.

Learning to recognize and test to see when a girl is or is not attracted to you, is one of the most important skills guys can acquire.

Learning how to test to see if a woman is interested is fairly easy.

Learning to walk away when a woman gives you three consecutive signs she isn't interested in you( especially when you want her badly) is tough and requires you to take your ego out of the process and recognize the inherent truth; not every girl will like you. Even when you have "Mastered" pick up.

Not only do you come off try hard when you keep trying to attract a woman who is obviously not into you, you waste valuable time that could be spent meeting a woman who might like you for you :)

Hope that helps,

JS- The King Of Content

Wednesday, June 16, 2010

Why Human Beings think Sex, Money or Having Children will make them happy...

I just finished a fairly mundane book called Stumblin On Happiness written by a professor from Harvard by the name of Daniel Gilbert. I say mundane simply because the book is a beginner's pamphlet on psychology designed for people who are not nearly as self obsessed and analytical as myself...

However the chapter on Super Replicators and belief transmission was very interesting. The basic idea is that Beliefs transmit much like viruses or genes. Any belief that promotes it's own means of transmission will be represented in larger and larger quantities of the population moving forward. Or in Laymen's terms beliefs (even those that are false) that helps itself transmit (usually by having a side benefit) will tend to spread faster than those without the benefit. Belief transmission can even work without the transmitters being aware that they are transmitting any belief at all.

So let's look at how this affects people's beliefs about what will make them happy

Money: Economists explain that money has a "declining marginal value" which is to say that money helps you the most the less of it you have. However if everyone just decided to give up working and focus on doing the things that made only themselves happy, well the entire global economy would collapse. that's because the entire economy is built on the idea of producing and consuming goods and services. Economies do the best when individuals are putting in lots of time and energy and effort. However because human beings will only put in effort, energy, and time in search of their own individual happiness, it is imperative that human beings mistakenly believe that producing and consuming are essential to being happy.

Children: A measure of actual satisfaction of people who have children, shows a striking contrast to the usual discussion of oohs, aahs, and baby talk. In fact FOUR separate studies show that marital satisfaction decreases dramatically after the birth of the first child and increases only when the last child leaves home. The belief " children bring happiness" is a super-replicator because it is found in every cutlure across the World. Without this belief people(like myself) might choose to never have kids, thus wiping out the entire World's population within about 50 years.

Sex: Sex is another one of those things with declining marginal utility, meaning the more you have it the less pleasure it brings you. if you're reading this and you haven't had sex in three years, you're going to see sex as much more valuable than someone who had it 10 minutes ago. The other interesting thing about sex is that most guys believe they need to experience a variety of women or experiences in order to be happy, but most studies show that variety only increases happiness when consumption is rapid. Or in other words, you're only going to enjoy sleeping with a lot of girls if it happens in a FAST time period. this explains why soooo many guys out there (Instructors at various companies I'm talking to you) have slept with a lot of women, yet aren't getting happier. In fact when consumption is slow(like the process of learning cold approach) variety actually DECREASES pleasure. So if it's going to take you 3 years to get good at pickup(on average without extensive coaching like 12m2m or MULTIPLE bootcamps),than it actually makes more sense to be more selective about the women you sleep with knowing that variety over the long term decreases pleasure as people tend to think about experiences as simultaneous rather than sequential.

The belief transmission game is rigged. We must believe that money, sex, and children bring happiness whether or not it's true. Oftentimes we don't even have a choice in the matter. The fact that we don't have a choice doesn't mean that we're the victim of some global conspiracy, but simply that as the belief transmission game teaches us the spreading of false beliefs doesn't need anyone trying to spread the belief. There are no secret societies making these decisions in secret in some form of mass control. Super replicating beliefs happen because the very act of holding the belief causes us to take the actions that perpetuate it. Similarly to how people who want the pleasure from having sex often end up pregnant as an unintended but beneficial to society side effect.


I'll leave you with a direct quote from the chapter:

" We are nodes in a social network that arises and falls by a logic all it's own, which is why we continue to toil, continue to mate and continue to be surprised when we do not experience all the joy we so gullibly anticipated."

JS- The King Of Content

Monday, June 14, 2010

" It's cool, Ole boy." and 9 Other musings from 12m2m's second bootcamp

Hey there,

Sorry for the break in posts of a little more than a week, I've been on bootcamps for the 12m2m guys and the Seduction roadmap guys so time has been hard to find.

This past weekend we had a super successful bootcamp and I'm staying here until Fri when the second group of guys arrives and we do it all over again.

Here's some observations on game, and students as well as some funny ass stuff that happened...

1. "Ole Boy" is the new slang. My buddy Alex says it all the time and it's a perfect multipurpose slang to refer to anyone at anytime. For example

Jon: " Where's ole boy at?"
Alex: " Ole boy is over there jumping on the grenade so Calvin can talk to Ole Girl."
Jon: " Calvin isolated Ole girl. Nice work."

Hysterical and fun to use. Girls an get pissed if you call them ole girl to their face though.

2. "It's cool" is another underrated phrase in pickup especially when dealing with cockblocks, and objections. Other variations include "It's all good", "Chill" and " relax."

3. One of the students tried to pull at 11:35, this was much funnier in person as Bars here don't close until 4... For those wondering, generally you're not going to pull before an hour before the bar closes. For the best results, you want to wait until the lights start to come on and they start herding people towards the door...

4. Students get cockblocked a TON because they ignore the group. If you're getting active vicious cockblocks, it's because you're ignoring the friends and pissing them off. I forgot how little I actually get cockblocked, as opposed to just having bad logistics. Cockblocking happens when the group (guys or girls) actively are trying to get the girl away from you or mess with your game. This should not happen often. If it does your group game sucks.

5. You don't need a group to like you or even be attracted to you in order to keep them from cockblocking. You just need to get the "Nice Guy" vote, which basically means that the group sees you as harmless. You can do this by being really nice to the group, and building rapport with them as you break it with your target.

6. Big cities are awesome. Having lived in pseudo cities for the last few years being in a city where everyone uses public transportation and metro cards is awesome. Though I do wonder how people get shit done with this many hot girls wandering around...

7. Some Nightclubs are still loud enough to vibrate your internal organs. I know if my liver is shaking, I'm on a bootcamp.

8. Typing women is only important if you know what kind of women you do well with. I had a super fast in venue dealie (Or alley) and it happened because I recognized that the girl was a hot nerd which fits right into my wheelhouse. It's not really that useful to be able to tell what type of girl she is unless you happen to be good with that type of girl.

9. Releasing the touching when you are escalating with women is THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF ESCALATION!!!! Girls will touch you too much sometimes and creep themselves out if you don't release. I watched at least 3 students WRECK interactions because they didn't push the girl away.

10. You must have a base of conversational material, to root your techniques and tactics in. You can't just throw out lines or force qualification if you don't have a proper base of small talk, grounding and social comfort.

So there :p


JS- The King Of Content

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Fuck The Lakers...

I hate the Lakers so much that with 12 hours until Game 5 I'm already sending hateful emails to my Lakers Fan friends.

God I despise them...

Fuck Kobe.

That is all.

JS

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In October of this year, I'm going to
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get laid like a rock star, but you're also going to
be a much more happy, successful, and productive person
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* Bonus #2: A Special Module on how to overcome Approach Anxiety.
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Inner Game/Lifestyle Bootcamp that is happening in
Los Angeles.
In October of this year, I'm going to
host a kick-ass live event all about how to master
your Skill-set, Inner Game, and Lifestyle.

When you master these three areas, not only will you
get laid like a rock star, but you're also going to
be a much more happy, successful, and productive person
in ALL areas of your life.

* Bonus #2: A Special Module on how to overcome Approach Anxiety.
I recorded a special online video training session that
shows you how to conquer approach anxiety once and for all.

* Bonus #3: The Inner Game Report: How to Think Like A Ladies Man.
This special report goes into details on the exact
thought processes that separate people that are successful
with women from those that aren't.

* Bonus #4: Trouble Shooting Day Game audio CD.
I sent out the survey and asked everyone what your
biggest questions were regarding Day Game. I went
through your answers and recorded a special
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Would you like to meet a girl and get here in bed that SAME day?
You'll find out how in this interview. It's packed with very
specific step-by-step strategies.

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On this CD I speak a true master of Day Game as he
reveals his secrets on direct-style Day Game in
this exclusive interview.

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the instant date.

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